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happyface1
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Posted by Greentea
How can I make him more.comfortable, he knows I'm faithful af and.sprung on him lol. He just thinks these girls will get me out of that for some reason. I have a mind of my own.
He should treat you as you do him...with trust. You didn't give him any problems with him going out of town. He should give you the same respect.

Otherwise you both need to have a serious talk. Sounds like reverse psychology. He can go out and have fun out of town with no worries from you...but he hits you with his insecurities. No bueno
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crabRiot
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Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by crabRiot
What's your beef with Crab women Rein—

C'mon tell us the truth.

What don't you like exactly?
I get along with the introverted ones. I have no problem with Crabettes at all.

Just don't test me regardless of your sign, because you'll see fireworks.

And let's be really honest here. You're kind of a bitch. You know it's true.
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I couldn't quote you up top but yea he man enough believe me. He just knows the real me,whose sweet,caring,affectionate,loyal and devoted. My dark side is the " bitchiness".
Nice to know that you're cool with other crabs and its just me you dislike. I can live with that.
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happyface1
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Posted by Greentea
Posted by WhiteChocolate
Do any of his concerns about these other women have any merit?
Some can be on the wild side. I just.don't think he has much respect for how they choose to be. I just make sure they don't get in trouble or killed but I'm not their mom, and they're good friends/people. He just doesn't like how they live the single life.

He needs to understand though that I realize I'm in a relationship and wouldn't do anything to jeopardize what we have. His insecurities are getting to him. He doesn't need to.
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Not sure if he saw their (your friends) behavior on his own or if you freely gave up that info.

If you gave him this information on their behavior then I'm not surprised at his response.

You may feel more comfortable with him going because he may not divulge his friends naughty behavior as you do. (This is an assumption)

Either way he's still wrong to want you to not go out of town with friends while he does.

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crabRiot
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Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by crabRiot
Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by crabRiot
What's your beef with Crab women Rein—

C'mon tell us the truth.

What don't you like exactly?
I get along with the introverted ones. I have no problem with Crabettes at all.

Just don't test me regardless of your sign, because you'll see fireworks.

And let's be really honest here. You're kind of a bitch. You know it's true.
I couldn't quote you up top but yea he man enough believe me. He just knows the real me,whose sweet,caring,affectionate,loyal and devoted. My dark side is the " bitchiness".
Nice to know that you're cool with other crabs and its just me you dislike. I can live with that.
I'm glad you possess enough introspection to acknowledge your inner bitch.
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Please go choke on a dick.
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crabRiot
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Posted by SensitiveBlues
Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by crabRiot
Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by crabRiot
What's your beef with Crab women Rein—

C'mon tell us the truth.

What don't you like exactly?
I get along with the introverted ones. I have no problem with Crabettes at all.

Just don't test me regardless of your sign, because you'll see fireworks.

And let's be really honest here. You're kind of a bitch. You know it's true.
I couldn't quote you up top but yea he man enough believe me. He just knows the real me,whose sweet,caring,affectionate,loyal and devoted. My dark side is the " bitchiness".
Nice to know that you're cool with other crabs and its just me you dislike. I can live with that.
I'm glad you possess enough introspection to acknowledge your inner bitch.
do you acknowledge your inner bitch?
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I saw that...this pantyliner tried to come at sideways.
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crabRiot
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Comments: 100 · Posts: 2017 · Topics: 43
Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by crabRiot
Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by crabRiot
Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by crabRiot
What's your beef with Crab women Rein—

C'mon tell us the truth.

What don't you like exactly?
I get along with the introverted ones. I have no problem with Crabettes at all.

Just don't test me regardless of your sign, because you'll see fireworks.

And let's be really honest here. You're kind of a bitch. You know it's true.
I couldn't quote you up top but yea he man enough believe me. He just knows the real me,whose sweet,caring,affectionate,loyal and devoted. My dark side is the " bitchiness".
Nice to know that you're cool with other crabs and its just me you dislike. I can live with that.
I'm glad you possess enough introspection to acknowledge your inner bitch.
Please go choke on a dick.
You'll be a classy bride.
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I sure will 🙂
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Posted by Greentea
Posted by Finbuff
Just go, he will have to get used to it. Is there any other reason for him NOT to trust you? Have there been other events like this in the past with the same women, where things have happened? If not, then he has no reason to worry. I'd tell him to just accept it, and just assure him that he can trust you.
I've never done anything to make him not trust me. I just think he doesn't like the crowd I'm going with, without him.

He's been out with us before, so he knows how wild they can get.
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Sounds like you're making your friends sounds more wild then they really are. I doubt if they were so wild you would be friends with them, unless of course your just as wild?
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Posted by bkbella86
Posted by Greentea
Posted by Finbuff
Just go, he will have to get used to it. Is there any other reason for him NOT to trust you? Have there been other events like this in the past with the same women, where things have happened? If not, then he has no reason to worry. I'd tell him to just accept it, and just assure him that he can trust you.
I've never done anything to make him not trust me. I just think he doesn't like the crowd I'm going with, without him.

He's been out with us before, so he knows how wild they can get.
Sounds like you're making your friends sounds more wild then they really are. I doubt if they were so wild you would be friends with them, unless of course your just as wild?
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They're not crazy girls gone wild wild, but.they can definitely get crazier than I ever can on my own. They're just fun and can get crazy. It doesn't make them bad.people.
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Posted by Greentea
Posted by WhiteChocolate
Do any of his concerns about these other women have any merit?
Some can be on the wild side. I just.don't think he has much respect for how they choose to be. I just make sure they don't get in trouble or killed but I'm not their mom, and they're good friends/people. He just doesn't like how they live the single life.

He needs to understand though that I realize I'm in a relationship and wouldn't do anything to jeopardize what we have. His insecurities are getting to him. He doesn't need to.
Not sure if he saw their (your friends) behavior on his own or if you freely gave up that info.

If you gave him this information on their behavior then I'm not surprised at his response.

You may feel more comfortable with him going because he may not divulge his friends naughty behavior as you do. (This is an assumption)

Either way he's still wrong to want you to not go out of town with friends while he does.

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He's been out.with us, he's seen for himself, and that's what he thinks and doesn't like about them. I don't even think they're all that bad. They're single, they can do what they want. He's just tripping out because he's not gonna be.there to protect me if anything goes wrong. I've seen his friends too, but I'm not gonna tell him he can't hang with them, he's not like them anyway. He likes them because theyve know eachother for a long time, same with me. I'm going with my girls, it's been worked out. He never said I can't go, he jus didn't want me to and had concerns.