i told scorp my p was late and he said....... (Page 3)

"thats still not the issue."

Simply speaking, if you want people to show sensitivity towards your situation, you should probably also show some sensitivty, and if there's an issue that needs to be handled sensitively, it's abortion.

Hell, hell, hell

I'd be scared too if I were thought for the slightiest millisecond I was preggy. No, I couldn't deal with it, being preggy right now! No way, that wouldn't go well with me at all

YES I WAS SCARED



SO CAPPY DO U AGRRE WITH.

WHAT DOES THIS HAVE TO DO WITH FINDING A DECENT MAN

I SAID DECENT MEN DONT APPROACH MEN i NEVER SAID i COULDNT FIND ONE.

Every post in here to karma revolves around "the issue".

Again, just like his true feelings, according to how he reacted .... there was an expectation of how a person is suppose to respond, according to karma for it to have any value ...

I DONT CARE IF U ARE NOT SENSITIVE .. BUT AGAIN ITS A LINE BETWEEN BEING HONEST AND BEING JUDGEMENTAL.ITS NOT THE SAME.

AND P_ANGEL U STILL HAVE NOT ANSWERD THE QUESTION.


WHAT DOES ME HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX HAVE TO DO WITH ME NOT FINDING A DECENT MAN?

HIS FEELING ARE WHAT THEY ARE. AND THATS FINE. IT JUST SHOCKED ME.

Okay,

I guess my feelings would be the same, just from a woman's point of view. If I don't want children, then its time to think about what I can do. Because I really wouldn't know what to do.


I get it, you thought he would be more understanding about the situation and he wasn't. Yeah, that wouldn't shocked me too. But again, I'm different when it comes to men, sex, relationships, all that stuff. So my kind of shock would be "WHOA!!!!!!" instead of "Whoa"

YOU CAN RESPOND ANYWAY U WOULD LIKE BE TRUE TO YOUR FEELINGS BUT STAY WITHIN THE ISSUE. ME NOT HAVING A DECENT MAN HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS THREAD. WELFARE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS THREAD. AND STD'S HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS THREAD. ALTHOUGH IT COULD BE A POSSIBLE RESULT ITS STILL NOT THE ISSUE

IF MY POST WAS ABOUT WELFARE OR STD. THEN OKAY. BUT THATS NOT HAT THE POST IS ABOUT.

AND ITS NO PROBLEM . i WAS JUST SHOCKED. AND IF U READ THE ORIGINAL POST THEN YOU WOULD SEE THAT MY POST SAID THIS IS MORE OF A RANT THEN ANYTHING.

What's the point? It would escape you ..

THATS WHY PEOPLE POST THREADS P_ANGEL.. THE ARE LOOKING FOR A RESPONSE TO THE ISSUE THEY POSTED ABOUT NOT TO SOMETHING ELSE.

OKAY TRY ME? i JUST WANNA SEE HOW YOU GRAB THIS CONCEPT OUT OF THIS THREAD..



i CANT GET A DECENT MAN BASED ON WHAT?

SURE ELENA90 SMOOCHES!

Yep, I rant alot too. Most people just tell me to shut up though HA! But I still rant none the less. Its good to do, that. Opinions will come, you just have to choose which ones match. Or if you want things to remain as a sound board, thats fine too.

Like said earlier, I didn't know how to answer the original question but it was a rant so I really didn't need to, which is a good thing, which is cool none the less lol

I already did .. on page 10 .. it flew right over your head.

so, what's the point in reiterating something you cannot comprehend?

OKAY WELL THANKS!

oh dear ... I feel it coming ... alright, time to go 😄

*exists stage left*

YES CAPPY I WILL TAKE WHAT i NEED AND DISH OUT THE REST.

yep elena90 thanks again 4 tha friendly reminder. smooches

btw. I feel there is nothing wrong with abortion! I DONT feel it should be used as a method of birth control. but I feel a rape victim should have the option . I feel a child who was molested should have an opt. but thats just me form ur own op has u plz..

hahaha

ScorpseeksPisces

couldnt help yourself you took the time to go out your way and surf for a pic to help me along the way how thoughtful.

Cappy, you don't have to leave .. it not only is coming ..

.... it has arrived.

Now the mind-set is based around what is decent and respectable.

We even have a comment about considering what should be considered proper birth control (or shouldn't) .. point being .. birth control is being thought about, rather than ignoring irresponsible deeds, while finding blame on why the other participant didn't fit within a preconcieved expectated reaction.

yep its nice to know u just have pics like that sitting in ur pic folder.

unreal u cant read. I said if me getting H.I.V. Is a result of my bad choice then I would have to deal with it. I cant change a bad choice just learn from them. and idiot is sum1 who continues to make bad choices..

it was just shocking.

everything is not black and white. so stand for something yes but at the same time people are only human. they make mistakes. it may take a few times b4 they get it .. but as long as they work towards making things better then let them be

yep so I was a fool to have 3 kids with my husband.thats my buisness if i choose to have 13. as long as I can take care of them then what is it to you.

If drama isn't present .. it will be created to feed on.

I read that statistically .... 1 out of every 3 people have an std.

And I think to myself ... wtf? How in the world can we as people, have this situation when .... we KNOW. It's not like we are victims of circumstances and cannot help ourselves .. we fucking KNOW .. not some brainless beings like cows.

And then this happens ... and it all becomes clear.


We KNOW ... we just don't CARE.

"This thread has reached the point of ridiculousness."


Ashley .. this thread started out ridiculous .. the event which led to this thread's creation has ridiculous written all over it.

The second one was a really half-assed photoshopping effort.

"Yum Nelson was suddenly interrupted while whining about the authenticity of the uniforms."

I wasn't whining about the authenticity, I was whining about the quality of the photoshopping.

thanks!


I m not worried about these people. Ill dmit it di bother me at 1st.

But I m okay now. I cn be whatever in your head.

I understand what sum of these people are saying.


I am not defending my behviour. i was reckless


I keep it real!!!

Always will. I am not afriad to show my face.

I am a host of imperfections. however I strive 2wrds better me. comments like this only makes me better.

sum people just feed off of other peopls flaws becuse it just makes them seem better.. I guess.

m!ss karma 8/31/2008 3:08:03 PM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx



normally when I would get bored or needed attention I would just start some conflict with my ex.

^^^^^^^^^^ you mean, like that?

yep! just like that.. and thats why if youpost the rest of it u will see that. i was working on making a change. normlly thats what I would do. however I dont do that anymore,

ill admit and have lwys dmitted I have issues. we all do. I am just upfront about mine. i look for ways to better my self.. i like how u post half fo the op.. but thats cool 2 if that makes u feel better. keep doing what u do

You don't do it anymore ... because change for the good is a bad thing?


So, since you were bored and needed attention ... you started conflict with this Scrop (

We've all read your threads, karma .. whether I copy over here one sentence or all of them, doesn't change anything .. for we've already read your saga. Are you proposing that people cannot remember anything before this hour?

Why do you think a person in here made the comment ... there is always an issue with you?

Arianlatay ... if a person stands in front of a crowd of strangers to discuss issues that are so personal that it could literally effect their well-being .. then don't you think that if it were THAT shattering, then this person would seek privacy?

The crowd is not responsible for protecting her feelings if she is to reveal information that is life-shattering ... she is responsible for protecting her own by NOT sharing information that could damage her emotionally.

"remember that this is her personal life."

We are all fully aware of that ^^^^ ... her, on the other hand, doesn't have it in proper perspective, if she would reveal this publicly. Just like celebrities, as you mentioned ... why do you think they remain close-lipped in public?

Because they KNOW to protect themselves, Arianlatay.

"Still, there is a way to communicate and not be harsh. i wasn't targetting my statement at u,"


I don't have a problem if you did intend for this to be targeted towards me ... as you well know 🙂


Something else here, that you also know ... it's normal for people to project onto another the same kind of energy they are emitting, themselves. When a person speaks, they set the tone .. and this tone was set by her to make the suggestion that .. she doesn't care.

If she sets the tone that she doesn't care .. then this is how her responses will be returned to her. See?

In any event .. she knows now that if she presents herself in this fashion in which projects a disregard for mankind by having unprotected sex .. then she will get reamed-out by those who do care.

Lesson learned, hopefully.

okay tis has nothing to do with me giving up the kitty. we had sex okay. i understand the risk i put myself in.. you guys dont have to care.


p_angel u started of negative. u read my other threads as a weapon against me. why would u take the time to go to the other threads? thats very manpulating. my other threds hve nothing to do with this post. I guess u need boaster. if i cn mke your dy better my imperfections then go right ahead.


again this post was not to start conflict with anyone. I was called ghetto. stupid ,, I was told I was prolly on welfare. just all sorts of things.


still say what u want just check your skelentons b4 u check mine.

sum1 got the impression that i was a pretty decent person based on my post.. they got excited when they saw that I was not all together..... who would really go back to my very first post on dp? why would sumone do that only to throw it in my face.. I believe I just made her day.. she actually took the time to go and digg up some 411 on me. I see why Mr.Virgo doesnt like to be in your company thats very mean and slimy

still a little sadding that people are so judgemental... even me. i have to go back and apologize to any1 that i may have offended do to me being judgemental.... its not cool

Okay, fine. I may have been just a tad over the top on a few posts so I hereby retract all statements made in this thread and offer you my apologies for using this as my own personal entertainment and for the ill will it generated.

Peace.

"If the only fears you seem to have with unprotected sex is pregnancy, then you are an idiot. what are you going to say next? Im sure he doesnt have anything because he doesnt look sick right??!!"

This my dear is the missing point! Just as important as pregnancy. Atleast you can have an abortion. Some STD's you can't get rid of and some will kill you.

"Okay, fine. I may have been just a tad over the top on a few posts so I hereby retract all statements made in this thread and offer you my apologies for using this as my own personal entertainment and for the ill will it generated.

Peace".


Its okay. sometimes u have to agree to disagree. that was very strong of you most people would never admit that.


qs_"This my dear is the missing point! Just as important as pregnancy. Atleast you can have an abortion. Some STD's you can't get rid of and some will kill you".

I know I have said over 6 times in this thread that I do realize my choice was reckless. I am women enough to admit that. so no hun I didnt miss the point. however that was not the point of the thread.


I have learned so much from this thread. many people forget where they come from. its sad to me.. i am glad there are people who "stand for something" but how many times did u keep making the same bad choices b4 you decided to make that stand.

A bad choise is a bad choice no matter how big or small the bad choice was. in many ways this post has made me a little stronger. i have to know that at the end of the day its not about what anybody else thinks of me and my choices. if my life was left up to dxp. I would have been hung and thrown to the wolfs for having unprotected sex.


how many of you can admit ur imperfections and flaws?


many of you guys used this as a chance to dump on me because of some messed up decisions you have made i guess maybe because sum1 dumped on you when u made the same messed up decisions..


all this to say never 4get where u come from. we all have made and still make bad choices till this day. Dont preach to me about my faults when u are filled with faults..