Mars in Scorpio

How do you like sex? What kind of moves turn you on?

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The sex was amazing! I’m sorry for sounding like I’m bragging here or gushing. I was pleased it wasn’t as bad as I have thought. He was eager to please, or rather, I’d say, to bring me to a level I’ve never experienced. It was also very sweet that he noted on what we have discussed before about the pain by checking with me every once in a while if I was in pain. I was only feeling a little short of his expectation because I wasn’t able to push myself as far as the level he was trying to reach. Although I can tell that he likes it rough and raw, he was also very accommodating to what I was comfortable with. However, will this be a deal breaker for us in the long run?

Love sex and every move is a turn on......

Sex freak 😁 never a moment when you don’t like sex?

Posted by HearttofTopaz
Sex is sex, it can all be good. But foreplay is a must if we’re gonna get freaky

but the foreplay is sex lol it's just a never ending freak-a-thon

Posted by HearttofTopaz

Posted by tctao

Posted by HearttofTopaz
Sex is sex, it can all be good. But foreplay is a must if we’re gonna get freaky

but the foreplay is sex lol it's just a never ending freak-a-thon

I guess that’s true, well I like when a man exudes passion and confidence during sex. It makes every move enjoyable but if he’s lacking in confidence it’s a buzz kill for me.

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yesssssss

Posted by tctao

Posted by HearttofTopaz
Sex is sex, it can all be good. But foreplay is a must if we’re gonna get freaky

but the foreplay is sex lol it's just a never ending freak-a-thon

click to expand

LOL! YES! When we get to the point when it's time for the actual penetration, I'm like, noooo waitttt I want to do more playing.... even after 45 minutes...

The biggest turn on is lack of inhibitions or shyness. When I feel like I can do anything I feel (within reason!) and they feel the same... I love boldness, I guess you could say. Then we both start to feel like we can be who we are. I love feeling like I can be who I really am, and it usually comes out in bed. It's self-expression time for me...

The Scorpio Mars guy I’m with is very big on me willingly do anything and everything he wants. He likes putting out demands and having me submitting to them. I guess this is the power play and control that they talk about with this placement. I just have a slight problem with him which I never had with sexual partners in the past, he doesn’t really seem very into getting me aroused sufficiently before getting inside of me. We talked about it and he does listen but it seems there’s a sentiment that he expects me to endure the pain which seems to excite him. Is there anyway I can make him see the pain doesn’t make me enjoy sex as much and we could have had so much more fun if he would sufficiently spend time on foreplay to arouse me? I’m a Gemini Mars and it seems so natural to understand sex has to be fun for both of us but this word “fun” doesn’t seem to register the same meaning for him in sex 😅

Posted by taupixie
The Scorpio Mars guy I’m with is very big on me willingly do anything and everything he wants. He likes putting out demands and having me submitting to them. I guess this is the power play and control that they talk about with this placement. I just have a slight problem with him which I never had with sexual partners in the past, he doesn’t really seem very into getting me aroused sufficiently before getting inside of me. We talked about it and he does listen but it seems there’s a sentiment that he expects me to endure the pain which seems to excite him. Is there anyway I can make him see the pain doesn’t make me enjoy sex as much and we could have had so much more fun if he would sufficiently spend time on foreplay to arouse me? I’m a Gemini Mars and it seems so natural to understand sex has to be fun for both of us but this word “fun” doesn’t seem to register the same meaning for him in sex 😅

Turn yourself on in front of him, tell him he can't touch you. Take charge. We like confident lovers.

Posted by taupixie
The Scorpio Mars guy I’m with is very big on me willingly do anything and everything he wants. He likes putting out demands and having me submitting to them. I guess this is the power play and control that they talk about with this placement. I just have a slight problem with him which I never had with sexual partners in the past, he doesn’t really seem very into getting me aroused sufficiently before getting inside of me. We talked about it and he does listen but it seems there’s a sentiment that he expects me to endure the pain which seems to excite him. Is there anyway I can make him see the pain doesn’t make me enjoy sex as much and we could have had so much more fun if he would sufficiently spend time on foreplay to arouse me? I’m a Gemini Mars and it seems so natural to understand sex has to be fun for both of us but this word “fun” doesn’t seem to register the same meaning for him in sex 😅

Fun? Mars in Scorpio wants intensity and passion. Not fun. My Venus is in Scorpio and I can't stand playfulness in the bedroom. I want major intensity and passion.

I only have ever enjoyed sex/was able to orgasm from a committed relationships and the best sex was with a partner that was 100% into me and I 100% into him. Intimacy is very painful for me but achieving it during sex is a big turn on because it violates my boundaries in a big way. Dirty talk is a must, mind games, power play, control, but not anything too overly cheesy/forced/scripted/inorganic. Breaking taboos is a big thing---I use drugs to make my mind more pliable and my body more willing so I can reach greater and greater heights and transcend sex into something more that links two souls together but plunges us into hell at the same time. Passion and spontaneity, authenticity and genuine interest/response as well as creativity really gets me going. Pushing things further and and deepening the relationship by exposing our souls and bodies, hee hee. So it's definitely more than a position or a move, though I like doggy because it's all primal and rapey and gets me zoned out on sick thoughts in my head. Psychological suggestion and nuance and subtle power moves get me hot. Really digging deep into a person and making them submit/having control over them by knowing them inside and out.

I have no problem being confident. It doesn’t seem like he likes me taking control much though. When I said fun, I really mean enjoyable, which in my current specific case means no pain. I can be playful too, but I definitely do love intensity & passion too. I’m starting to feel that I don’t really understand intensity at his level though. How to be intense like Scorpio Mars likes it? That said, I don’t feel like I get to decide what positions we can get into as he takes total control in bed (at our current stage).

@pluto-uranus, your input is very vivid & eye opening. It sounds like what I suspect my Scorpio Mars guy desires. I’m bummed that intimacy would have to be painful & he would expect me to just suck it up. I mean I would do it if I could but I have low tolerance to pain & my body reflexes to push away pain, which really seems to offend him. Do I really have to just learn to “enjoy” pain?

The sex was amazing! I’m sorry for sounding like I’m bragging here or gushing. I was pleased it wasn’t as bad as I have thought. He was eager to please, or rather, I’d say, to bring me to a level I’ve never experienced. It was also very sweet that he noted on what we have discussed before about the pain by checking with me every once in a while if I was in pain. I was only feeling a little short of his expectation because I wasn’t able to push myself as far as the level he was trying to reach. Although I can tell that he likes it rough and raw, he was also very accommodating to what I was comfortable with. However, will this be a deal breaker for us in the long run?

Been sexing a mars in Scorpio for years.

He runs the show.

He has definitely pushed my comfort limits since day one.

I've never dressed up for sex for a guy before.

"I desire" is definitely the motto

Foreplay is always happening

Accomdating

Consistent

Be super feminine and damsel in distress like

Ask permission to give head... they love it

I was in great disbelief because our previous sex encounter had been dismal. He was distant, it was direct intercourse without intimacy (no kissing, caressing or touching) so I ended up with pain from the sex. We discussed it and to my amazement, he really took all the notes and he was perfect this time. I have to say I’m very impressed at the level of commitment he puts in this matter.

They are dominant, definitely leading with all the moves and I have no problem following in his lead, giving in to him. It’s really a turn on and enjoyable. His level of competitiveness is worrying me a little though, that I may not match his depth and extremity and I’m not sure if that puts him off.

Posted by taupixie
The Scorpio Mars guy I’m with is very big on me willingly do anything and everything he wants. He likes putting out demands and having me submitting to them. I guess this is the power play and control that they talk about with this placement. I just have a slight problem with him which I never had with sexual partners in the past, he doesn’t really seem very into getting me aroused sufficiently before getting inside of me. We talked about it and he does listen but it seems there’s a sentiment that he expects me to endure the pain which seems to excite him. Is there anyway I can make him see the pain doesn’t make me enjoy sex as much and we could have had so much more fun if he would sufficiently spend time on foreplay to arouse me? I’m a Gemini Mars and it seems so natural to understand sex has to be fun for both of us but this word “fun” doesn’t seem to register the same meaning for him in sex 😅

Honestly I've never been into foreplay as well. I like the anticipation of sex and then going in for the kill lol. There are other placements that I feel may affect his sex life as well. For example, because I am a virgo (mutable) if my partner says or shows that he enjoys more foreplay I will then do as he please. So if he has more stubborn traits idk what to tell ya.