Rebound girl or something more?

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One of my co-workers has found herself in a bit of a situation. She’s come to me for advice which I was pretty upfront and honest about.

Anyway, she’s fallen head over heels with one of our fellow co-workers.

She’s a cap, he’s scorp.

The scorpio has been single for the past 3 weeks and has cowardly mentioned his intention of wanting “rebound sex” with the cap lady, hence why he’s been trying to court her.

We all work together so everybody get’s a pretty good viewing of how they are towards each other.

The scorp man is constantly watching her, gazes at her. The scorp gaze is kinda creepy (when you’re just a watcher lol)

Anyway, they’ve been hanging out at the beach for consecutive nights now.

I’ve told the cap lady, well you’re obviously a rebound. I’m sorry, I’m just blunt like that. (Also, the scorp’s ex is waaaaaay hotter than this cap lady. I was a bit surprised the scorp man even went after this cap lady but she does make herself pretty easy and available to him.)

Anyway... question is... she’s obviously a rebound right? Tell me I’m right lol.

I’m a bit surprised he’s asked to spend time with her. Do scorp men usually go through this type of effort just to get laid?
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Posted by Mango11

As a Leo i would have told her the exact same thing. She's a rebound and if she wants some pointless sex there's no shame but if she wants something serious it's obvious he won't go there. In my mind you did the right thing, if you told her it was possible she'd just get herself hurt

Exactly what I told her. I said there’s nothing wrong with casual sex or being friends with benefits if both parties are cool with it. She said that if he’s just interested in sex then she would never entertain him but I feel as though she thinks that he could fall in love with her. I mean that would be the best case scenario but to be honest just comparing her and the scorp’s ex... I’ve rarely and barely have had to use this word in my lifetime but she’s a total downgrade from his ex
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So.. I’m confused. Is the issue that you fancy him? Cos that’s what it sounds like to me.

You watch him watching her, and then you go stalk him at the beach?

If it is obvious to you, obvious to him and obvious to her. Then maybe he’s told her she’s the rebound, women love an honest guy that says how it is and doesn’t bullshit. And sometimes women just want sex.

Telling her he’s too good for her, will probably make her want to be with him even more btw.
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She’s trying to get fucked and so is he.

The one scenario that always leaves DXP baffled like a deer in the headlights.
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It always baffles me that other people are in their business. Why would someone care unless they want the attention from the guy.

He may be willing to give it if she's patient enough 😆 Cap has first dibs though! Ha!
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She’s trying to get fucked and so is he.

The one scenario that always leaves DXP baffled like a deer in the headlights.

It always baffles me that other people are in their business. Why would someone care unless they want the attention from the guy.

He may be willing to give it if she's patient enough 😆 Cap has first dibs though! Ha!
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The cap asked for ops opinion and advice, effectively inviting her into her Buisness and asking her to comment.

Cap also said she wouldn’t entertain scorp if he was only looking for a fuck. So appears as if she’s not interested in trying to get fucked, if we take her words at face value.
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You seem a little jealous. What is the problem here? Even if she knows she’s gonna be a rebound, she’s clearly enjoying the attention and sexual nature of the flirting.

She’s trying to get fucked and so is he. Let them go at it.

She said in the first sentence that she asked her for advice, though.

Edit: My bad, second sentence, first paragraph.
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I read that, but she seems to just want to be right about the girl being a rebound. Dude is 3 weeks out of a relationship. It may or may not be. Only he will know what he's ready for.

So since the Cap likes him, she might as well take her chances. The Scorpio seems to have zoned in on her pretty quickly. So she might as well see where it leads. I've never really heard of Scorpios humping and dumping like a typical Cancer guy would. Scorpios will stick around if the sex is good. So if she wants it, she should go get it, without her co worker in her ear telling her she's gonna be heart broken.

Why women ask other women for advice on love and sex matters is beyond me. Usually it always has to do with self interest, especially if they are just co workers.

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She’s trying to get fucked and so is he.

The one scenario that always leaves DXP baffled like a deer in the headlights.

It always baffles me that other people are in their business. Why would someone care unless they want the attention from the guy.

He may be willing to give it if she's patient enough 😆 Cap has first dibs though! Ha!

The cap asked for ops opinion and advice, effectively inviting her into her Buisness and asking her to comment.

Cap also said she wouldn’t entertain scorp if he was only looking for a fuck. So appears as if she’s not interested in trying to get fucked, if we take her words at face value.
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Hmm then what the point of the post, it would be pretty cut and dry if that were the case of the creepy eyed bandit.

I do see your point. I read into the post maybe too much.
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She’s trying to get fucked and so is he.

The one scenario that always leaves DXP baffled like a deer in the headlights.

It always baffles me that other people are in their business. Why would someone care unless they want the attention from the guy.

He may be willing to give it if she's patient enough 😆 Cap has first dibs though! Ha!

The cap asked for ops opinion and advice, effectively inviting her into her Buisness and asking her to comment.

Cap also said she wouldn’t entertain scorp if he was only looking for a fuck. So appears as if she’s not interested in trying to get fucked, if we take her words at face value.

Hmm then what the point of the post, it would be pretty cut and dry if that were the case of the creepy eyed bandit.

I do see your point. I read into the post maybe too much.
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Well you might be onto something.

I think she already knows what it is. But she’s lost in fantasy land thinking her pussy will get a relationship from him.

She was coming to the op to validate her hopes.

Sometimes even when you know and people around you are giving you the harsh truth...still gotta travel that path so you learn your lesson.
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You seem a little jealous. What is the problem here? Even if she knows she’s gonna be a rebound, she’s clearly enjoying the attention and sexual nature of the flirting.

She’s trying to get fucked and so is he. Let them go at it.

She said in the first sentence that she asked her for advice, though.

Edit: My bad, second sentence, first paragraph.

I read that, but she seems to just want to be right about the girl being a rebound. Dude is 3 weeks out of a relationship. It may or may not be. Only he will know what he's ready for.

So since the Cap likes him, she might as well take her chances. The Scorpio seems to have zoned in on her pretty quickly. So she might as well see where it leads. I've never really heard of Scorpios humping and dumping like a typical Cancer guy would. Scorpios will stick around if the sex is good. So if she wants it, she should go get it, without her co worker in her ear telling her she's gonna be heart broken.

Why women ask other women for advice on love and sex matters is beyond me. Usually it always has to do with self interest, especially if they are just co workers.

It appears that it will lead to a pump and dump. He even said so. I'm assuming she knows her coworker would be dissatisfied with that.
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I guess. I still don't know what added advice is needed since both people involved know exactly whats going on. You either get fucked or get off the pot. There doesn't seem to be any miscommunication or game playing here at all.
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She’s trying to get fucked and so is he.

The one scenario that always leaves DXP baffled like a deer in the headlights.

It always baffles me that other people are in their business. Why would someone care unless they want the attention from the guy.

He may be willing to give it if she's patient enough 😆 Cap has first dibs though! Ha!

The cap asked for ops opinion and advice, effectively inviting her into her Buisness and asking her to comment.

Cap also said she wouldn’t entertain scorp if he was only looking for a fuck. So appears as if she’s not interested in trying to get fucked, if we take her words at face value.

Hmm then what the point of the post, it would be pretty cut and dry if that were the case of the creepy eyed bandit.

I do see your point. I read into the post maybe too much.

Well you might be onto something.

I think she already knows what it is. But she’s lost in fantasy land thinking her pussy will get a relationship from him.

She was coming to the op to validate her hopes.

Sometimes even when you know and people around you are giving you the harsh truth...still gotta travel that path so you learn your lesson.
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Yup!
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You seem a little jealous. What is the problem here? Even if she knows she’s gonna be a rebound, she’s clearly enjoying the attention and sexual nature of the flirting.

She’s trying to get fucked and so is he. Let them go at it.

She said in the first sentence that she asked her for advice, though.

Edit: My bad, second sentence, first paragraph.

I read that, but she seems to just want to be right about the girl being a rebound. Dude is 3 weeks out of a relationship. It may or may not be. Only he will know what he's ready for.

So since the Cap likes him, she might as well take her chances. The Scorpio seems to have zoned in on her pretty quickly. So she might as well see where it leads. I've never really heard of Scorpios humping and dumping like a typical Cancer guy would. Scorpios will stick around if the sex is good. So if she wants it, she should go get it, without her co worker in her ear telling her she's gonna be heart broken.

Why women ask other women for advice on love and sex matters is beyond me. Usually it always has to do with self interest, especially if they are just co workers.

It appears that it will lead to a pump and dump. He even said so. I'm assuming she knows her coworker would be dissatisfied with that.

I guess. I still don't know what added advice is needed since both people involved know exactly whats going on. You either get fucked or get off the pot. There doesn't seem to be any miscommunication or game playing here at all.

Have you never had a friend who fell fast and hard, thinking she could handle the casual, only to be hurt and nearly inconsolable after the fact? I have. More than one, and one cousin who did it over and over after her long-term relationship failed.
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No I haven't. The guy is being super upfront with her. If she's delusional, that would be a little more worrisome and of course she would be hurt.

Who falls for a guy "head over heels" that stares at you and let's you know he's fresh out of a break up and looking for some new pussy.
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You seem a little jealous. What is the problem here? Even if she knows she’s gonna be a rebound, she’s clearly enjoying the attention and sexual nature of the flirting.

She’s trying to get fucked and so is he. Let them go at it.

She said in the first sentence that she asked her for advice, though.

Edit: My bad, second sentence, first paragraph.

I read that, but she seems to just want to be right about the girl being a rebound. Dude is 3 weeks out of a relationship. It may or may not be. Only he will know what he's ready for.

So since the Cap likes him, she might as well take her chances. The Scorpio seems to have zoned in on her pretty quickly. So she might as well see where it leads. I've never really heard of Scorpios humping and dumping like a typical Cancer guy would. Scorpios will stick around if the sex is good. So if she wants it, she should go get it, without her co worker in her ear telling her she's gonna be heart broken.

Why women ask other women for advice on love and sex matters is beyond me. Usually it always has to do with self interest, especially if they are just co workers.

It appears that it will lead to a pump and dump. He even said so. I'm assuming she knows her coworker would be dissatisfied with that.

I guess. I still don't know what added advice is needed since both people involved know exactly whats going on. You either get fucked or get off the pot. There doesn't seem to be any miscommunication or game playing here at all.

Have you never had a friend who fell fast and hard, thinking she could handle the casual, only to be hurt and nearly inconsolable after the fact? I have. More than one, and one cousin who did it over and over after her long-term relationship failed.

No I haven't. The guy is being super upfront with her. If she's delusional, that would be a little more worrisome and of course she would be hurt.

Who falls for a guy "head over heels" that stares at you and let's you know he's fresh out of a break up and looking for some new pussy.

I'm assuming the person posting gives a shit about her delusional friend.
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Yeah, you assumed that and I assumed she is wanting the Scorpio for herself. Who knows what's the case. Wonder which one the Scorpio is gonna get 👀
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As a Leo i would have told her the exact same thing. She's a rebound and if she wants some pointless sex there's no shame but if she wants something serious it's obvious he won't go there. In my mind you did the right thing, if you told her it was possible she'd just get herself hurt

Exactly what I told her. I said there’s nothing wrong with casual sex or being friends with benefits if both parties are cool with it. She said that if he’s just interested in sex then she would never entertain him but I feel as though she thinks that he could fall in love with her. I mean that would be the best case scenario but to be honest just comparing her and the scorp’s ex... I’ve rarely and barely have had to use this word in my lifetime but she’s a total downgrade from his ex
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Be straight with her, it's not happening, she's playing herself here. The best case scenario is possible but unlikely since he literally mentioned he was interested in rebound sex. I think you're doing the right thing here she's love drunk in my opinion
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Posted by AriesJo

So.. I’m confused. Is the issue that you fancy him? Cos that’s what it sounds like to me.

You watch him watching her, and then you go stalk him at the beach?

If it is obvious to you, obvious to him and obvious to her. Then maybe he’s told her she’s the rebound, women love an honest guy that says how it is and doesn’t bullshit. And sometimes women just want sex.

Telling her he’s too good for her, will probably make her want to be with him even more btw.

Oh God no. This guy doesn’t appeal to me at all. Plus I’m attracted to girls lol.

She asked me for advice. Gave it to her but keeps insisting me that no he’s serious and wants something more.

It’s an ego thing of I’m right and she’s wrong.😂
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lol he literally said “rebound sex”

which doesnt at all sound cowardly. he’s being upfront & direct.

It’s not coward at all and I’ve mentioned in a preview post that I don’t think there’s anything wrong with two people who just want to fuck each others brains out.

Sorry, I worded it wrong. I meant the tone he said it in was cowardly. At the time he even went as far as saying “just put a drug in her drink so she could have sex with me.”
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You seem a little jealous. What is the problem here? Even if she knows she’s gonna be a rebound, she’s clearly enjoying the attention and sexual nature of the flirting.

She’s trying to get fucked and so is he. Let them go at it.

She said in the first sentence that she asked her for advice, though.

Edit: My bad, second sentence, first paragraph.

I read that, but she seems to just want to be right about the girl being a rebound. Dude is 3 weeks out of a relationship. It may or may not be. Only he will know what he's ready for.

So since the Cap likes him, she might as well take her chances. The Scorpio seems to have zoned in on her pretty quickly. So she might as well see where it leads. I've never really heard of Scorpios humping and dumping like a typical Cancer guy would. Scorpios will stick around if the sex is good. So if she wants it, she should go get it, without her co worker in her ear telling her she's gonna be heart broken.

Why women ask other women for advice on love and sex matters is beyond me. Usually it always has to do with self interest, especially if they are just co workers.

It appears that it will lead to a pump and dump. He even said so. I'm assuming she knows her coworker would be dissatisfied with that.

I guess. I still don't know what added advice is needed since both people involved know exactly whats going on. You either get fucked or get off the pot. There doesn't seem to be any miscommunication or game playing here at all.

Have you never had a friend who fell fast and hard, thinking she could handle the casual, only to be hurt and nearly inconsolable after the fact? I have. More than one, and one cousin who did it over and over after her long-term relationship failed.

No I haven't. The guy is being super upfront with her. If she's delusional, that would be a little more worrisome and of course she would be hurt.

Who falls for a guy "head over heels" that stares at you and let's you know he's fresh out of a break up and looking for some new pussy.
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The scorp man is not being upfront with the cap lady unless he’s told her that he just wants a bit of action during one of their beach trips.

The only knowledge the cap lady has of him wanting rebound sex is through the opinion I gave her... I told her, you may be just a rebound. Although the scorp man has mentioned to me and one of his buddies at work that all his after is sex.

Even when I hinted this to the cap lady, she’s just too head over heels for him.
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You seem a little jealous. What is the problem here? Even if she knows she’s gonna be a rebound, she’s clearly enjoying the attention and sexual nature of the flirting.

She’s trying to get fucked and so is he. Let them go at it.

She said in the first sentence that she asked her for advice, though.

Edit: My bad, second sentence, first paragraph.

I read that, but she seems to just want to be right about the girl being a rebound. Dude is 3 weeks out of a relationship. It may or may not be. Only he will know what he's ready for.

So since the Cap likes him, she might as well take her chances. The Scorpio seems to have zoned in on her pretty quickly. So she might as well see where it leads. I've never really heard of Scorpios humping and dumping like a typical Cancer guy would. Scorpios will stick around if the sex is good. So if she wants it, she should go get it, without her co worker in her ear telling her she's gonna be heart broken.

Why women ask other women for advice on love and sex matters is beyond me. Usually it always has to do with self interest, especially if they are just co workers.

It appears that it will lead to a pump and dump. He even said so. I'm assuming she knows her coworker would be dissatisfied with that.

I guess. I still don't know what added advice is needed since both people involved know exactly whats going on. You either get fucked or get off the pot. There doesn't seem to be any miscommunication or game playing here at all.

Have you never had a friend who fell fast and hard, thinking she could handle the casual, only to be hurt and nearly inconsolable after the fact? I have. More than one, and one cousin who did it over and over after her long-term relationship failed.

No I haven't. The guy is being super upfront with her. If she's delusional, that would be a little more worrisome and of course she would be hurt.

Who falls for a guy "head over heels" that stares at you and let's you know he's fresh out of a break up and looking for some new pussy.

I'm assuming the person posting gives a shit about her delusional friend.
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Yes, I do give a shit about her. Or I did before. But this has created tension between us at work so I’ve had to avoid her.
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Posted by LostinmyMind11

At least work will be entertaining when shit hits the fan. 🤷🏼‍♀️


Shit the fan today when they were both sent home at the same time.

Scorp man is close to the boss and he got sent home early, he asked if he could send the cap girl home early too. Sure enough he got his wish.

And there was everyone pissed off for the next 4 hours like where is our special treatment? Lol
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At least work will be entertaining when shit hits the fan. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Shit the fan today when they were both sent home at the same time.

Scorp man is close to the boss and he got sent home early, he asked if he could send the cap girl home early too. Sure enough he got his wish.

And there was everyone pissed off for the next 4 hours like where is our special treatment? Lol
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Ask the Scorp if he can get your boss to talk to my boss to send me home early too today 😆.
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You seem a little jealous. What is the problem here? Even if she knows she’s gonna be a rebound, she’s clearly enjoying the attention and sexual nature of the flirting.

She’s trying to get fucked and so is he. Let them go at it.

She said in the first sentence that she asked her for advice, though.

Edit: My bad, second sentence, first paragraph.

I read that, but she seems to just want to be right about the girl being a rebound. Dude is 3 weeks out of a relationship. It may or may not be. Only he will know what he's ready for.

So since the Cap likes him, she might as well take her chances. The Scorpio seems to have zoned in on her pretty quickly. So she might as well see where it leads. I've never really heard of Scorpios humping and dumping like a typical Cancer guy would. Scorpios will stick around if the sex is good. So if she wants it, she should go get it, without her co worker in her ear telling her she's gonna be heart broken.

Why women ask other women for advice on love and sex matters is beyond me. Usually it always has to do with self interest, especially if they are just co workers.

It appears that it will lead to a pump and dump. He even said so. I'm assuming she knows her coworker would be dissatisfied with that.

I guess. I still don't know what added advice is needed since both people involved know exactly whats going on. You either get fucked or get off the pot. There doesn't seem to be any miscommunication or game playing here at all.

Have you never had a friend who fell fast and hard, thinking she could handle the casual, only to be hurt and nearly inconsolable after the fact? I have. More than one, and one cousin who did it over and over after her long-term relationship failed.

No I haven't. The guy is being super upfront with her. If she's delusional, that would be a little more worrisome and of course she would be hurt.

Who falls for a guy "head over heels" that stares at you and let's you know he's fresh out of a break up and looking for some new pussy.

The scorp man is not being upfront with the cap lady unless he’s told her that he just wants a bit of action during one of their beach trips.

The only knowledge the cap lady has of him wanting rebound sex is through the opinion I gave her... I told her, you may be just a rebound. Although the scorp man has mentioned to me and one of his buddies at work that all his after is sex.

Even when I hinted this to the cap lady, she’s just too head over heels for him.
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They’re dating. So sex is most likely going to happen. There’s not much else that needs to be warned about. You saying she asked you for advice and now saying you “hinted” the intentions, giving your opinion.😏

If the Scorpio was so bold to mention to you and someone else that he just wants sex, she most likely knows.

But he’s taking her on dates. So the whole situation you speak of doesn’t make sense to me.

It would be easy to just grab a girl and have sex with her, there are tons of women in the world willing to give it up the first night.

He’s dating her, so it looks like potential in my eyes.

But she will find out soon enough.

And her not talking to you is exactly why I said that I don’t know why women ask other women for this type of advice. She’s gonna do what she wants to do. She shouldn’t be upset that she heard something she didn’t want to hear, if she actually asked you for the advice but didn’t like the answer.

From the way you write you seem to be a little too involved in it and third wheeling. You’ll find out sooner or later if you were right. But she’s a big girl, she’ll be alright.
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You seem a little jealous. What is the problem here? Even if she knows she’s gonna be a rebound, she’s clearly enjoying the attention and sexual nature of the flirting.

She’s trying to get fucked and so is he. Let them go at it.

She said in the first sentence that she asked her for advice, though.

Edit: My bad, second sentence, first paragraph.

I read that, but she seems to just want to be right about the girl being a rebound. Dude is 3 weeks out of a relationship. It may or may not be. Only he will know what he's ready for.

So since the Cap likes him, she might as well take her chances. The Scorpio seems to have zoned in on her pretty quickly. So she might as well see where it leads. I've never really heard of Scorpios humping and dumping like a typical Cancer guy would. Scorpios will stick around if the sex is good. So if she wants it, she should go get it, without her co worker in her ear telling her she's gonna be heart broken.

Why women ask other women for advice on love and sex matters is beyond me. Usually it always has to do with self interest, especially if they are just co workers.

It appears that it will lead to a pump and dump. He even said so. I'm assuming she knows her coworker would be dissatisfied with that.

I guess. I still don't know what added advice is needed since both people involved know exactly whats going on. You either get fucked or get off the pot. There doesn't seem to be any miscommunication or game playing here at all.

Unless...

Op is the Cap?
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What do you think of this as a Scorpio man? I don’t see Scorpio men as players at all. Usually they are very invested from the beginning, which it seems like he is from the dates.

Ever do the rebound thing?

I’m trying to figure out what sign the OP is, cause I don’t know.
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At least work will be entertaining when shit hits the fan. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Shit the fan today when they were both sent home at the same time.

Scorp man is close to the boss and he got sent home early, he asked if he could send the cap girl home early too. Sure enough he got his wish.

And there was everyone pissed off for the next 4 hours like where is our special treatment? Lol
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Again. This doesn’t seem like a rebound.

Since you like women, do you have a crush on the Cap or what? There’s something else going on here.

Just saw that you're a Pisces. You don’t have an “ego” to want to be right. 🧐
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How long was the Scorp in the previous relationship for? If a long time...yes she a rebound. They don't just get over someone with a snap of a finger...it lingers even if they hate that person. If not long, then he might be actually serious and dating her. He might have liked her for a long time and just the timing was off.

Maybe the reason he stated he just wants rebound sex is an ego thing in front of the co-workers...like some shit guys pull in front of their friends. Maybe he felt like people would give him shit about her especially if she is less attractive than his last. Is that a dick thing to do and say...yeah but what are ya going do?! 🤷🏼‍♀️. Some guys say dick things and some guys do dick things...imo, the latter is worse.

Anyway...she is going to do what she wants and learn soon enough of his actual intentions...might be too late but maybe this is a lesson for her and she'll pay attention next time to this kinda shit.

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You seem a little jealous. What is the problem here? Even if she knows she’s gonna be a rebound, she’s clearly enjoying the attention and sexual nature of the flirting.

She’s trying to get fucked and so is he. Let them go at it.

She said in the first sentence that she asked her for advice, though.

Edit: My bad, second sentence, first paragraph.

I read that, but she seems to just want to be right about the girl being a rebound. Dude is 3 weeks out of a relationship. It may or may not be. Only he will know what he's ready for.

So since the Cap likes him, she might as well take her chances. The Scorpio seems to have zoned in on her pretty quickly. So she might as well see where it leads. I've never really heard of Scorpios humping and dumping like a typical Cancer guy would. Scorpios will stick around if the sex is good. So if she wants it, she should go get it, without her co worker in her ear telling her she's gonna be heart broken.

Why women ask other women for advice on love and sex matters is beyond me. Usually it always has to do with self interest, especially if they are just co workers.

It appears that it will lead to a pump and dump. He even said so. I'm assuming she knows her coworker would be dissatisfied with that.

I guess. I still don't know what added advice is needed since both people involved know exactly whats going on. You either get fucked or get off the pot. There doesn't seem to be any miscommunication or game playing here at all.

Unless...

Op is the Cap?

What do you think of this as a Scorpio man? I don’t see Scorpio men as players at all. Usually they are very invested from the beginning, which it seems like he is from the dates.

Ever do the rebound thing?

I’m trying to figure out what sign the OP is, cause I don’t know.

I don't care in the slightest.
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Me either but still

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You seem a little jealous. What is the problem here? Even if she knows she’s gonna be a rebound, she’s clearly enjoying the attention and sexual nature of the flirting.

She’s trying to get fucked and so is he. Let them go at it.

She said in the first sentence that she asked her for advice, though.

Edit: My bad, second sentence, first paragraph.

I read that, but she seems to just want to be right about the girl being a rebound. Dude is 3 weeks out of a relationship. It may or may not be. Only he will know what he's ready for.

So since the Cap likes him, she might as well take her chances. The Scorpio seems to have zoned in on her pretty quickly. So she might as well see where it leads. I've never really heard of Scorpios humping and dumping like a typical Cancer guy would. Scorpios will stick around if the sex is good. So if she wants it, she should go get it, without her co worker in her ear telling her she's gonna be heart broken.

Why women ask other women for advice on love and sex matters is beyond me. Usually it always has to do with self interest, especially if they are just co workers.

It appears that it will lead to a pump and dump. He even said so. I'm assuming she knows her coworker would be dissatisfied with that.

I guess. I still don't know what added advice is needed since both people involved know exactly whats going on. You either get fucked or get off the pot. There doesn't seem to be any miscommunication or game playing here at all.

Unless...

Op is the Cap?

What do you think of this as a Scorpio man? I don’t see Scorpio men as players at all. Usually they are very invested from the beginning, which it seems like he is from the dates.

Ever do the rebound thing?

I’m trying to figure out what sign the OP is, cause I don’t know.

I don't care in the slightest.

Me either but still

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They should focus on their work and bettering themselves instead of pursuing pleasures of the flesh.
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At least work will be entertaining when shit hits the fan. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Shit the fan today when they were both sent home at the same time.

Scorp man is close to the boss and he got sent home early, he asked if he could send the cap girl home early too. Sure enough he got his wish.

And there was everyone pissed off for the next 4 hours like where is our special treatment? Lol

Again. This doesn’t seem like a rebound.

Since you like women, do you have a crush on the Cap or what? There’s something else going on here.

Just saw that you're a Pisces. You don’t have an “ego” to want to be right. 🧐
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No, i’m actually dating the cap lady’s best friend. Lol
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You seem a little jealous. What is the problem here? Even if she knows she’s gonna be a rebound, she’s clearly enjoying the attention and sexual nature of the flirting.

She’s trying to get fucked and so is he. Let them go at it.

She said in the first sentence that she asked her for advice, though.

Edit: My bad, second sentence, first paragraph.

I read that, but she seems to just want to be right about the girl being a rebound. Dude is 3 weeks out of a relationship. It may or may not be. Only he will know what he's ready for.

So since the Cap likes him, she might as well take her chances. The Scorpio seems to have zoned in on her pretty quickly. So she might as well see where it leads. I've never really heard of Scorpios humping and dumping like a typical Cancer guy would. Scorpios will stick around if the sex is good. So if she wants it, she should go get it, without her co worker in her ear telling her she's gonna be heart broken.

Why women ask other women for advice on love and sex matters is beyond me. Usually it always has to do with self interest, especially if they are just co workers.

It appears that it will lead to a pump and dump. He even said so. I'm assuming she knows her coworker would be dissatisfied with that.

I guess. I still don't know what added advice is needed since both people involved know exactly whats going on. You either get fucked or get off the pot. There doesn't seem to be any miscommunication or game playing here at all.

Have you never had a friend who fell fast and hard, thinking she could handle the casual, only to be hurt and nearly inconsolable after the fact? I have. More than one, and one cousin who did it over and over after her long-term relationship failed.

No I haven't. The guy is being super upfront with her. If she's delusional, that would be a little more worrisome and of course she would be hurt.

Who falls for a guy "head over heels" that stares at you and let's you know he's fresh out of a break up and looking for some new pussy.

I'm assuming the person posting gives a shit about her delusional friend.

She doesn’t refer to her as a friend at all in the post, she refers to her as coworker or cap lady. She also pointedly remarks not once but twice how much of a “downgrade” her coworker is. If she’s a friend she’s not a very loyal one if she doesn’t consider her friend a catch 🤣 what exactly is she trying to save her from?

I agree with sag, I didn’t get protective friend vibes from this post at all.

As a scorp, my sons dad (who is also a cap) was initially a rebound and that turned into over a 10 year relationship. You just never know with scorps. That Capricorn/Scorpio attraction is something else 😅 even if cap lady isn’t a catch in OPs eyes, there is clearly something about her that the Scorpio sees. Maybe even something that the ex didn’t have. We don’t obsess and stare at people that we don’t feel a strong attraction for. And knowing a scorpios sense of humor, the off comment about wanting some “rebound sex” could have been a joke taken out of context. I’ve said stuff like this without being serious.
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I never referred to her as a friend because i don’t consider her as one.

She asked for my advice, i gave it to her but when she kept insisting oh it’s something serious, i gave my honest opinion(s)
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You seem a little jealous. What is the problem here? Even if she knows she’s gonna be a rebound, she’s clearly enjoying the attention and sexual nature of the flirting.

She’s trying to get fucked and so is he. Let them go at it.

She said in the first sentence that she asked her for advice, though.

Edit: My bad, second sentence, first paragraph.

I read that, but she seems to just want to be right about the girl being a rebound. Dude is 3 weeks out of a relationship. It may or may not be. Only he will know what he's ready for.

So since the Cap likes him, she might as well take her chances. The Scorpio seems to have zoned in on her pretty quickly. So she might as well see where it leads. I've never really heard of Scorpios humping and dumping like a typical Cancer guy would. Scorpios will stick around if the sex is good. So if she wants it, she should go get it, without her co worker in her ear telling her she's gonna be heart broken.

Why women ask other women for advice on love and sex matters is beyond me. Usually it always has to do with self interest, especially if they are just co workers.

It appears that it will lead to a pump and dump. He even said so. I'm assuming she knows her coworker would be dissatisfied with that.

I guess. I still don't know what added advice is needed since both people involved know exactly whats going on. You either get fucked or get off the pot. There doesn't seem to be any miscommunication or game playing here at all.

Have you never had a friend who fell fast and hard, thinking she could handle the casual, only to be hurt and nearly inconsolable after the fact? I have. More than one, and one cousin who did it over and over after her long-term relationship failed.

No I haven't. The guy is being super upfront with her. If she's delusional, that would be a little more worrisome and of course she would be hurt.

Who falls for a guy "head over heels" that stares at you and let's you know he's fresh out of a break up and looking for some new pussy.

I'm assuming the person posting gives a shit about her delusional friend.

Yes, I do give a shit about her. Or I did before. But this has created tension between us at work so I’ve had to avoid her.

Why does this cause tension? It shouldn’t unless you want the Scorpio. You misled everyone here to think that she knows he called her a rebound. You’re just a shit “friend”.
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How did i misled everyone to think that she knows he called her a rebound? Maybe it’s just the way i write things🤷🏽‍♀️

There’s tension between her and everybody at work. Her performance at work has gone downhill since they’ve started “dating” because of her wanting of giving the scorp man so much attention throughout the day, she’s less focused on the job in front of her
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You seem a little jealous. What is the problem here? Even if she knows she’s gonna be a rebound, she’s clearly enjoying the attention and sexual nature of the flirting.

She’s trying to get fucked and so is he. Let them go at it.

She said in the first sentence that she asked her for advice, though.

Edit: My bad, second sentence, first paragraph.

I read that, but she seems to just want to be right about the girl being a rebound. Dude is 3 weeks out of a relationship. It may or may not be. Only he will know what he's ready for.

So since the Cap likes him, she might as well take her chances. The Scorpio seems to have zoned in on her pretty quickly. So she might as well see where it leads. I've never really heard of Scorpios humping and dumping like a typical Cancer guy would. Scorpios will stick around if the sex is good. So if she wants it, she should go get it, without her co worker in her ear telling her she's gonna be heart broken.

Why women ask other women for advice on love and sex matters is beyond me. Usually it always has to do with self interest, especially if they are just co workers.

It appears that it will lead to a pump and dump. He even said so. I'm assuming she knows her coworker would be dissatisfied with that.

I guess. I still don't know what added advice is needed since both people involved know exactly whats going on. You either get fucked or get off the pot. There doesn't seem to be any miscommunication or game playing here at all.

Unless...

Op is the Cap?

What do you think of this as a Scorpio man? I don’t see Scorpio men as players at all. Usually they are very invested from the beginning, which it seems like he is from the dates.

Ever do the rebound thing?

I’m trying to figure out what sign the OP is, cause I don’t know.
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I’ve known several scorpio men who were fuckboys so🤷🏽‍♀️

I’m a Pisces
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How long was the Scorp in the previous relationship for? If a long time...yes she a rebound. They don't just get over someone with a snap of a finger...it lingers even if they hate that person. If not long, then he might be actually serious and dating her. He might have liked her for a long time and just the timing was off.

Maybe the reason he stated he just wants rebound sex is an ego thing in front of the co-workers...like some shit guys pull in front of their friends. Maybe he felt like people would give him shit about her especially if she is less attractive than his last. Is that a dick thing to do and say...yeah but what are ya going do?! 🤷🏼‍♀️. Some guys say dick things and some guys do dick things...imo, the latter is worse.

Anyway...she is going to do what she wants and learn soon enough of his actual intentions...might be too late but maybe this is a lesson for her and she'll pay attention next time to this kinda shit.


I don’t know, i heard they were together for a couple of years. I know that the ex left the scorp man 3 weeks ago. But still 3 weeks is quite a short amount of time frame to be dating someone but i don’t know, i guess time will tell

And yeah i’m starting to think that perhaps it was an ego thing and he was just being a dick about the rebound thing. so i could be wrong and he may be serious and want something more with the cap lady.
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You seem a little jealous. What is the problem here? Even if she knows she’s gonna be a rebound, she’s clearly enjoying the attention and sexual nature of the flirting.

She’s trying to get fucked and so is he. Let them go at it.

She said in the first sentence that she asked her for advice, though.

Edit: My bad, second sentence, first paragraph.

I read that, but she seems to just want to be right about the girl being a rebound. Dude is 3 weeks out of a relationship. It may or may not be. Only he will know what he's ready for.

So since the Cap likes him, she might as well take her chances. The Scorpio seems to have zoned in on her pretty quickly. So she might as well see where it leads. I've never really heard of Scorpios humping and dumping like a typical Cancer guy would. Scorpios will stick around if the sex is good. So if she wants it, she should go get it, without her co worker in her ear telling her she's gonna be heart broken.

Why women ask other women for advice on love and sex matters is beyond me. Usually it always has to do with self interest, especially if they are just co workers.

It appears that it will lead to a pump and dump. He even said so. I'm assuming she knows her coworker would be dissatisfied with that.

I guess. I still don't know what added advice is needed since both people involved know exactly whats going on. You either get fucked or get off the pot. There doesn't seem to be any miscommunication or game playing here at all.

Have you never had a friend who fell fast and hard, thinking she could handle the casual, only to be hurt and nearly inconsolable after the fact? I have. More than one, and one cousin who did it over and over after her long-term relationship failed.

No I haven't. The guy is being super upfront with her. If she's delusional, that would be a little more worrisome and of course she would be hurt.

Who falls for a guy "head over heels" that stares at you and let's you know he's fresh out of a break up and looking for some new pussy.

I'm assuming the person posting gives a shit about her delusional friend.

Yes, I do give a shit about her. Or I did before. But this has created tension between us at work so I’ve had to avoid her.

Why does this cause tension? It shouldn’t unless you want the Scorpio. You misled everyone here to think that she knows he called her a rebound. You’re just a shit “friend”.

How did i misled everyone to think that she knows he called her a rebound? Maybe it’s just the way i write things🤷🏽‍♀️

There’s tension between her and everybody at work. Her performance at work has gone downhill since they’ve started “dating” because of her wanting of giving the scorp man so much attention throughout the day, she’s less focused on the job in front of her

Jesus. Stop being such a hater.
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How am I being a hater? 😂

You assume the worst of me through my posts lol
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Just an update... cap lady is still waiting for scorpio man to ask her to be her boyfriend.

Scorpio man used covid restrictions as an excuse as to why he couldn’t take her out on a date. The restrictions have been lifted for the past month and no dates.

She asked him if he wants to be in a relationship and he said “he’s not ready yet.”

Can’t believe how long this is dragging on lol