scorpio men - have you loved a taurus woman?

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My current boyfriend broke off his 4 year relationship with his Taurus ex so i don't think it's the best match

Posted by Peny2016
Would you describe it as toxic love this pairing... please elaborate on your experiences - can this work for both people?

My girlfriend is a taurus

also interested in responses. I was engaged to a Scorpio and have a feeling that my match will be one also. I admit a lot of faults in myself that facilitated the end of it all. not like he was perfect, but looking back I could have done much better. I was not my best self then and neither was he. I do feel like this relationship taught me the most about myself and what I really needed to be happy and to go for that no matter what. I do wish we knew each other as more healthy people but that's just that, a wish... nothing real. I move on knowing that it is for the best. that's not to say I don't feel all kinds of ways about it even now. the reality is what it is tho and I find peace and acceptance that way. I still remain hopeful for the future especially now that I am in the best place in my life I've ever been. I did it for myself and I love myself today and feel pride in my life. I know now I have much more to bring to the table than I tried to then.

Posted by AbbyNormal
also interested in responses. I was engaged to a Scorpio and have a feeling that my match will be one also. I admit a lot of faults in myself that facilitated the end of it all. not like he was perfect, but looking back I could have done much better. I was not my best self then and neither was he. I do feel like this relationship taught me the most about myself and what I really needed to be happy and to go for that no matter what. I do wish we knew each other as more healthy people but that's just that, a wish... nothing real. I move on knowing that it is for the best. that's not to say I don't feel all kinds of ways about it even now. the reality is what it is tho and I find peace and acceptance that way. I still remain hopeful for the future especially now that I am in the best place in my life I've ever been. I did it for myself and I love myself today and feel pride in my life. I know now I have much more to bring to the table than I tried to then.

I agree, this match certainly taught me the most about myself and really made me want more for myself. It's a strong powerful match even if it doesn't last forever.

Ive had two "real" girlfriends in my life...they were both Tauruses

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Posted by Taniwha
It's unrequited and for a while it was pretty toxic for us both. We went our separate ways for a while and I did some soul searching I kinda got over the obsessive neediness that I had towards her, and I got past that fact that we would never be together how I wanted it to be, to the point where she is no longer attractive to me in that sense because I don't cling to some idea of what we could be.

Do you mind elaborating on the bold part please?

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I can totally relate. I was married to a taurus man. scorpios and taurus have two totally different concepts of love. And scorpios want to be loved…the way THEY love. Scorpios want to be swept up in a whirlwind, passionate, all-in, fantasy type version of love, we want to perpetually be in the honeymoon phase where everything is blissful and all encompassing. When we fall in love we fall hard and completely, while demanding only as much as we give... which is everything. Taurus…not so much. Or at least when the honeymoon phase is over…they are happy to go back to reality, focusing on the stable, traditional, practical form of love.

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Posted by Taniwha
It's unrequited and for a while it was pretty toxic for us both. We went our separate ways for a while and I did some soul searching I kinda got over the obsessive neediness that I had towards her, and I got past that fact that we would never be together how I wanted it to be, to the point where she is no longer attractive to me in that sense because I don't cling to some idea of what we could be.

Do you mind elaborating on the bold part please?

I can totally relate. I was married to a taurus man. scorpios and taurus have two totally different concepts of love. And scorpios want to be loved…the way THEY love. Scorpios want to be swept up in a whirlwind, passionate, all-in, fantasy type version of love, we want to perpetually be in the honeymoon phase where everything is blissful and all encompassing. When we fall in love we fall hard and completely, while demanding only as much as we give... which is everything. Taurus…not so much. Or at least when the honeymoon phase is over…they are happy to go back to reality, focusing on the stable, traditional, practical form of love.

How long were you married? How long did the honeymoon phase last?

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dated for for three years, then married for two. honeymoon phase lasted the length of our "courting" and one year into marriage.

but toxic…i don't think so. as long as you are both mature and understand each other's way of viewing life. i mistook his rational way of viewing our relationship as a lack of passion for me. but he still loved me tremendously, i just didn't understand it.

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Posted by Taniwha
It's unrequited and for a while it was pretty toxic for us both. We went our separate ways for a while and I did some soul searching I kinda got over the obsessive neediness that I had towards her, and I got past that fact that we would never be together how I wanted it to be, to the point where she is no longer attractive to me in that sense because I don't cling to some idea of what we could be.

Do you mind elaborating on the bold part please?

I can totally relate. I was married to a taurus man. scorpios and taurus have two totally different concepts of love. And scorpios want to be loved…the way THEY love. Scorpios want to be swept up in a whirlwind, passionate, all-in, fantasy type version of love, we want to perpetually be in the honeymoon phase where everything is blissful and all encompassing. When we fall in love we fall hard and completely, while demanding only as much as we give... which is everything. Taurus…not so much. Or at least when the honeymoon phase is over…they are happy to go back to reality, focusing on the stable, traditional, practical form of love.

How long were you married? How long did the honeymoon phase last?

dated for for three years, then married for two. honeymoon phase lasted the length of our "courting" and one year into marriage.

Oh... So, you had only one boring year out of the five years that you were together?

Why divorce so quickly?

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They're were complicated situations that lead to our divorce…separate from our compatibility…not just a boring marriage.

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Posted by Taniwha
It's unrequited and for a while it was pretty toxic for us both. We went our separate ways for a while and I did some soul searching I kinda got over the obsessive neediness that I had towards her, and I got past that fact that we would never be together how I wanted it to be, to the point where she is no longer attractive to me in that sense because I don't cling to some idea of what we could be.

Do you mind elaborating on the bold part please?

I can totally relate. I was married to a taurus man. scorpios and taurus have two totally different concepts of love. And scorpios want to be loved…the way THEY love. Scorpios want to be swept up in a whirlwind, passionate, all-in, fantasy type version of love, we want to perpetually be in the honeymoon phase where everything is blissful and all encompassing. When we fall in love we fall hard and completely, while demanding only as much as we give... which is everything. Taurus…not so much. Or at least when the honeymoon phase is over…they are happy to go back to reality, focusing on the stable, traditional, practical form of love.

How long were you married? How long did the honeymoon phase last?

dated for for three years, then married for two. honeymoon phase lasted the length of our "courting" and one year into marriage.

Oh... So, you had only one boring year out of the five years that you were together?

Why divorce so quickly?

They're were complicated situations that lead to our divorce…separate from our compatibility…not just a boring marriage.

I see. Thanks for sharing.

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*tips hat*

one taurus for me is enough

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Posted by Taniwha
It's unrequited and for a while it was pretty toxic for us both. We went our separate ways for a while and I did some soul searching I kinda got over the obsessive neediness that I had towards her, and I got past that fact that we would never be together how I wanted it to be, to the point where she is no longer attractive to me in that sense because I don't cling to some idea of what we could be.

Do you mind elaborating on the bold part please?

I can totally relate. I was married to a taurus man. scorpios and taurus have two totally different concepts of love. And scorpios want to be loved…the way THEY love. Scorpios want to be swept up in a whirlwind, passionate, all-in, fantasy type version of love, we want to perpetually be in the honeymoon phase where everything is blissful and all encompassing. When we fall in love we fall hard and completely, while demanding only as much as we give... which is everything. Taurus…not so much. Or at least when the honeymoon phase is over…they are happy to go back to reality, focusing on the stable, traditional, practical form of love.

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what do you mean?

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Posted by 13th
Ive had two "real" girlfriends in my life...they were both Tauruses

Tell us more. How was it? How long were you with each one? What attracted you to them?

Thanks ?

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Me and the first bull were childhood friends, I was in love with her since I was a child lol she wanted nothing to do with me...things changed when we got to hight school...we together for 4yrs...I was introduced to the 2nd bull thru a mutual friend...that lasted 2 plus yrs......I have no idea what attracted me to them, I just was. the first one was kinda boring after awhile and the 2nd one was a bit materialistic...I cried over both, only time ive cried over any female(s), and I got tired of both lol

*high school