Scorpio PIA

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I didn’t think I’ll post about HIS Majesty…AGAIN! However…

We are seldomly talking because he is apparently feeling a need to see if I am still alive…idk

So he is calling and I didn’t pick up.

I called back and he is having me ON BLOCK as when he was married…I am fucking MAD!

He is calling back because apparently he saw my call or just attempted again and I started to be nasty saying he needs to grow TF UP and he said he is in Miami and first call was from airport and I said ok WHAT??

He said just trying to put my shit together…

His voice was of a dead person…

I said good! Not interested.

He said I’ll call you later and I said NO!

I am blocking you.

If I wasn’t blocked - I would listen to his whining about how he is dealing with loss of everything and everybody because of the piece of young Latina ass…

But he is still blocking me— What a moron!

Like…I don’t call. Don’t text. Nothing…

What is his ass thinking? That he can get me when he wants and I can’t if say we are friends and I need him…for whatever…

I DO know how to find him if emergency but blocking pissed me off majorly!

Asshole!
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Posted by Findingbalance
Lol he scorpiod you. He STILL got under your skin, even if was to get mad. He got a reaction so obviously in his mind you still care. Cuz if you don't care, you don't get mad. You only get mad if it matters.


I am not sure if it is true. I really don’t care.

If I did I would talk to him wouldn’t I?

What is making me mad is that IF there is NO danger to talk to me - why TF are you - an adult - currently single grown up man keeping on blocking me? I don’t call!!! unless you call me…
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Posted by Findingbalance
Lol he scorpiod you. He STILL got under your skin, even if was to get mad. He got a reaction so obviously in his mind you still care. Cuz if you don't care, you don't get mad. You only get mad if it matters.


And he knows it
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Is it really nessesary to care if you get mad and vice versa? Why can’t I just get mad because he is acting like immature idiot?
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Posted by Findingbalance

Basically there's only the fine line between emotions, truly neutral, that's where don't care lives.


I do care about him. Of course I do. I am not ‘DONT care’ like if he is alive and well and emotionally fucked up - I don’t give a shit now.

If he needed help or serious talk - I would talk and listen and be there but I also expect him to not to treat me by denying me same privileges like calling or texting IF I need him…

That’s what is messed up.
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Posted by DragonSag

If he keeps you blocked, he can imagine you trying to contact him so it's perhaps easier to live with that imagination instead of facing the truth - that you're not contacting him. 2 friends dealt with persistent scorps for years - they blocked them (friends blocked those 2 scorps, not the other way around) but they would create new profiles or use new numbers to try contacting them again. It lasted for several years for both of them🤷🏼‍♀️


He called me and that’s why I called back. I didn’t know I am blocked…that’s why I am mad and he is done in my book…
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He is enjoying the fact he can still get a reaction out of you and that you are still participating in his games.

I find his reaching out kind of strange for a Scorpio behavior. I don't ever reach out or respond to my gem exes, it's a waste of everyone's time and emotions.

I am sure you don’t even have exes whom you dealt with for 15 years…😂

Nope...only 6 yrs tops for relationship. Can't do the back and forth grey area stuff.

Though, I remained friends with the aqua ex and it's been 11 yrs since he has been in my life.
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Soooo you do have old flames as friends. Good.

I think this time for Scorp it’s over and I only sorry/pissed over the fact that we had A LOT of past and he is still acting immature and it makes me thinking less of him and now I am cured. Had been for a while…however IF he needed shoulder to cry on I wouldn’t mind to listen and provide emotional support. His loss.

I was the only one (his words) who actually cared. Not anymore.

It feels like shit to realize that man I was dying for happened to be not worth all the heartache. But lesson learned.
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Even though we don’t have a positive interaction, I have a lot of sympathy for you regarding this part of your life, because I was with a Scorpio for about 10 years who simply cut me out of his life. He started dating a younger girl and married her soon after. This summer I saw him with his child, and I had no reaction. It’s like my emotional fuse burned out a long time ago. Or I simply didn’t allow myself to go there. Everything I wanted with him seemed impossible, and there he is having it all with another female. In that moment I just envisioned a portal which I went through to a world where I don’t feel anything about the subject, because if I started thinking and analysing I’d crumble into pieces from the pain. Because everything I went through and how it affected me and my life I would never pick up the phone or even say hi. I am done and done. I do still love him, I will forever but it took me a long time to recuperate and out of respect for my pain I would never have any connections to him.
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Posted by GemiMay
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His majesty 😂😂 Just call him an idiot & laugh instead of getting so mad. 🤷‍♀️


I am mad at myself more than at him!
Idolized him for SO long to find out he is just a simple loser…doesn’t look good for me! Doesn’t fit me. Urghhhh 🧟‍♀️
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Forgive yourself. It’s in the past, nothing you can do to change it. You know the quote.. you do the best you can. When you know better, you do better! Or something like that. It’s just live & learn is all. Lessons learned.
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Even though we don’t have a positive interaction, I have a lot of sympathy for you regarding this part of your life, because I was with a Scorpio for about 10 years who simply cut me out of his life. He started dating a younger girl and married her soon after. This summer I saw him with his child, and I had no reaction. It’s like my emotional fuse burned out a long time ago. Or I simply didn’t allow myself to go there. Everything I wanted with him seemed impossible, and there he is having it all with another female. In that moment I just envisioned a portal which I went through to a world where I don’t feel anything about the subject, because if I started thinking and analysing I’d crumble into pieces from the pain. Because everything I went through and how it affected me and my life I would never pick up the phone or even say hi. I am done and done. I do still love him, I will forever but it took me a long time to recuperate and out of respect for my pain I would never have any connections to him.


See…I prayed for him to slip and do something bad so I can cross him off and move on…

I am easily getting did of people who causes me grief. He didn’t. He never slipped.

I remembered him fondly until not too long ago when he actually lost himself.

We’ve talked and I was happy with Aries. So he was in past. But I respected him still and loved him as my ‘savior’.

Until he started to be consumed by his misfortunes. I wanted to be his friend because trying to reconcile didn’t work for me.

And now this stupid detail…not suits my image of a man I used to love. I am mourning part when I respected him and our memories.
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Posted by GemiMay
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Even though we don’t have a positive interaction, I have a lot of sympathy for you regarding this part of your life, because I was with a Scorpio for about 10 years who simply cut me out of his life. He started dating a younger girl and married her soon after. This summer I saw him with his child, and I had no reaction. It’s like my emotional fuse burned out a long time ago. Or I simply didn’t allow myself to go there. Everything I wanted with him seemed impossible, and there he is having it all with another female. In that moment I just envisioned a portal which I went through to a world where I don’t feel anything about the subject, because if I started thinking and analysing I’d crumble into pieces from the pain. Because everything I went through and how it affected me and my life I would never pick up the phone or even say hi. I am done and done. I do still love him, I will forever but it took me a long time to recuperate and out of respect for my pain I would never have any connections to him.


See…I prayed for him to slip and do something bad so I can cross him off and move on…
I am easily getting did of people who causes me grief. He didn’t. He never slipped.
I remembered him fondly until not too long ago when he actually lost himself.
We’ve talked and I was happy with Aries. So he was in past. But I respected him still and loved him as my ‘savior’.
Until he started to be consumed by his misfortunes. I wanted to be his friend because trying to reconcile didn’t work for me.
And now this stupid detail…not suits my image of a man I used to love. I am mourning part when I respected him and our memories.
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Idk wishing him to slip

He doesn’t but when he does one slip n he’s out? What else has he done aside from blocking you

Man if someone closes door after one slip after always being there for them I’d block too
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there's like 16,117 threads abut scorpios
followed by virgos then aquas

i feel like people might be obssessed with THEM instead

or maybe lack of understanding? or have issues with? 🤔🤔


I'm obsessed with them 😂

Not really but I do like them. They're usually so blunt and honest, and can be really great loyal friends. Tbh the intensity is fascinating too. I have several scorpio friends and they're usually spiritually open, crazy and fun.

But they are a very different personality on whole than most. Everyone of us has quirks, but they seem to have an excess. Plus that intensity can really get ya hooked, and I think that throws a lot of people off. Even those that usually let go of people without a problem can't do it easily if they've gotten hooked on one. So I think that's that's the big reasons there's so many threads about them.
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i like them as friends, but only friends.

they're very protective but their taste in company and sometimes really backwards/traditional ways of thinking are too much for me. and intensity's not really high on my list. i wanna have quick, passing issues.

doing well with a scorpio moon tho so 🤷🤷
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Posted by Findingbalance
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there's like 16,117 threads abut scorpios
followed by virgos then aquas

i feel like people might be obssessed with THEM instead

or maybe lack of understanding? or have issues with? 🤔🤔





I'm obsessed with them 😂

Not really but I do like them. They're usually so blunt and honest, and can be really great loyal friends. Tbh the intensity is fascinating too. I have several scorpio friends and they're usually spiritually open, crazy and fun.

But they are a very different personality on whole than most. Everyone of us has quirks, but they seem to have an excess. Plus that intensity can really get ya hooked, and I think that throws a lot of people off. Even those that usually let go of people without a problem can't do it easily if they've gotten hooked on one. So I think that's that's the big reasons there's so many threads about them.
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i like them as friends, but only friends.

they're very protective but their taste in company and sometimes really backwards/traditional ways of thinking are too much for me. and intensity's not really high on my list. i wanna have quick, passing issues.

doing well with a scorpio moon tho so 🤷🤷
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Yeah I've never dated one. I'm not sure I could handle the up n down roller-coaster but I do think it would be a passionate and fun experience minus the crazy (the not so good crazy vs the good crazy they also possess). I don't mind possessive so that part I could handle too. The always looking at the negative though, that drives me crazy. Caution is good, but it's a different level of thinking with most scorps. But fuuuccckkkk that gd stare would have me 💀 nothing beats a blue eyed scorpio 👀. meet that eye contact and 🥵🥵

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meh i've always liked brown eyes, even on dogs.

one time i dated a scorpio for like a heartbeat and he was a gem moon. wasn't possessive but more chemistry-dependent. i fell in love with someone else and felt nothing when i saw him again (was already dating a pisces the 2nd time i've seen him somewhere).
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Even though we don’t have a positive interaction, I have a lot of sympathy for you regarding this part of your life, because I was with a Scorpio for about 10 years who simply cut me out of his life. He started dating a younger girl and married her soon after. This summer I saw him with his child, and I had no reaction. It’s like my emotional fuse burned out a long time ago. Or I simply didn’t allow myself to go there. Everything I wanted with him seemed impossible, and there he is having it all with another female. In that moment I just envisioned a portal which I went through to a world where I don’t feel anything about the subject, because if I started thinking and analysing I’d crumble into pieces from the pain. Because everything I went through and how it affected me and my life I would never pick up the phone or even say hi. I am done and done. I do still love him, I will forever but it took me a long time to recuperate and out of respect for my pain I would never have any connections to him.

See…I prayed for him to slip and do something bad so I can cross him off and move on…

I am easily getting did of people who causes me grief. He didn’t. He never slipped.

I remembered him fondly until not too long ago when he actually lost himself.

We’ve talked and I was happy with Aries. So he was in past. But I respected him still and loved him as my ‘savior’.

Until he started to be consumed by his misfortunes. I wanted to be his friend because trying to reconcile didn’t work for me.

And now this stupid detail…not suits my image of a man I used to love. I am mourning part when I respected him and our memories.

Idk wishing him to slip

He doesn’t but when he does one slip n he’s out? What else has he done aside from blocking you

Man if someone closes door after one slip after always being there for them I’d block too
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It is hard to understand. I DO NOT let men slipping. Not once. It gives precedent and I don’t forget. Nor I forgive.

Maybe this is why I don’t post ‘is he going to come back to me’ shit.

It’s hard to understand. I know.