Scorpios I have a question!!!!! 🙋

Hi

I'm confused about something. They have told me that when a Scorpio is interested in me I WILL KNOW and there will be no doubts in my mind. And that a Scorpio WILL let me know he likes me. But my question is how do you let people know about your interest? 🤷‍♀️

Do you tell the person " I like you" and be direct or you show it more with actions?

I've known Scorpios that gave me lots of attention and flirted with me but never told me they like me with words. Does that mean they weren't interested?

Posted by angie2080
Hi
I'm confused about something. They have told me that when a Scorpio is interested in me I WILL KNOW and there will be no doubts in my mind. And that a Scorpio WILL let me know he likes me. But my question is how do you let people know about your interest? 🤷‍♀️
Do you tell the person " I like you" and be direct or you show it more with actions?
I've known Scorpios that gave me lots of attention and flirted with me but never told me they like me with words. Does that mean they weren't interested?

Most of them slap you on your ass. Bend you over so you grabbing your ankles and start poking in all sorts of places.

If he does that. He likes you

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Posted by angie2080
Hi
I'm confused about something. They have told me that when a Scorpio is interested in me I WILL KNOW and there will be no doubts in my mind. And that a Scorpio WILL let me know he likes me. But my question is how do you let people know about your interest? 🤷‍♀️
Do you tell the person " I like you" and be direct or you show it more with actions?
I've known Scorpios that gave me lots of attention and flirted with me but never told me they like me with words. Does that mean they weren't interested?

Most of them slap you on your ass. Bend you over so you grabbing your ankles and start poking in all sorts of places.

If he does that. He likes you click to expand

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Yeah no. It just means he wants to fuck you. Maybe that's just me.

For me, being interested in someone and liking them are two different things. Interest comes first, I want to get to know you better. If I take an interest in your likes, dislikes, ask you questions, conversate, I'm interested. If I want to spend time with you, do things with you, I like you. Again, that is just me though.

noooooo. nope. Thats the fucking bitch - you never know until they fucking spell it out.

It's what I both love about Scorpios - (cant read them to save my life - such a wonderful break from the exhausting empathic onslaught I deal with every other sign) and what drives me crazy "wait? you LIKE me?"

I can not tell you how many Scorpio males have confessed their feelings/desires to me and I have been literally blindsided by it because up until that point I had gone through months of "does he even like me?" to the point I had just given up and moved on.

Or my current partner who I had no idea had any feelings for me at all while I was his side chick and now all he does is tell me the entire time he was madly in love with me and never stopped thinking about me and was so terrified of how strongly he felt he threw him self into a different relationship only to regret it all because he could never get me off his mind.

I. had. zero. effing. clue.

I would scour sites like this and astrology explanations for all of his planets and houses and aspects looking for some sort of clue to help me know if he even was attracted to me. He revealed nothing.



now? Now that I'm his? I have never in my life been more secure in a relationship. He wont let me got ten min without reassurance that I am everything he has ever dreamed of. But that didnt start until he made me his gf. Before then I was wandering in the dark. Now im shored up.

You will never know how they feel until they want you to know.

So how long will it be for them to be more direct and confess? Why do they take so long?

The last Scorpio I met literally drove me crazy with his behavior. One day I was sure he liked me and suddenly I thought he hated me!

I had enough and decided to move on so it's almost like he lost me. I haven't seen him in months and I found out through a mutual friend that he asked about me. Is this a sign he cares? Because honestly all this time he has made me feel like I wasn't that important to him.

Actions. Like the comment above, scorpios are too proud to admit things out loud. BUT I will also say, once they’re committed to dating you, a lot of that second guessing yourself on if he’s into you or not dissipates. I’m a Scorpio F and I’ve been dating a Scorpio M for about a year now, this is my first go around with Scorpio male. They’re extremely intense, intelligent, and like a good fight. But they also love dotting on you. If you’re the one or close to his perfect fit he will let you know constantly through actions and words. Very affectionate creatures and you’re his queen if you’re with him. My advice, don’t be too available. Hold your ground, keep your hobbies, give him breadcrumbs that you like him but don’t pressure him if he’s not coming around. Scorpios do not like to be pushed in corners and will find a way out to the nearest exit sign and not look back. If he’s stalling he’s testing you and discesting the way you respond to him. Scorpios are bully’s by nature and like to make people uncomfortable to see what you’re really like. Good luck.

Thanks. I'm a Cancer and too sensitive to wait for him to decide. 😢

That's why I'm trying to stay away and I guess if he truly likes me he'll come around. They say Scorpios go after what they want. Some men learn the hard way and I need to stop being available and needy for him. I need to make him guess a little and be mysterious

They never make it obvious, very secretive, especially the younger ones..they never directly tell you, but what your cancer intuition tells you?

Cancer Scorpio understand each other without words..

I'm a go getter type so I would let the guy know that I like him--- if he's worth my time and energy. But before I tell him how I feel, I would stalk his social media and think about my decision for a few months. I prefer sex on the first date and if he's good at it then the game is on. If he's bad or has low libido, I would ghost him.

Posted by piscesgotherscorpio
noooooo. nope. Thats the fucking bitch - you never know until they fucking spell it out.

It's what I both love about Scorpios - (cant read them to save my life - such a wonderful break from the exhausting empathic onslaught I deal with every other sign) and what drives me crazy "wait? you LIKE me?"

I can not tell you how many Scorpio males have confessed their feelings/desires to me and I have been literally blindsided by it because up until that point I had gone through months of "does he even like me?" to the point I had just given up and moved on.

Or my current partner who I had no idea had any feelings for me at all while I was his side chick and now all he does is tell me the entire time he was madly in love with me and never stopped thinking about me and was so terrified of how strongly he felt he threw him self into a different relationship only to regret it all because he could never get me off his mind.

I. had. zero. effing. clue.

I would scour sites like this and astrology explanations for all of his planets and houses and aspects looking for some sort of clue to help me know if he even was attracted to me. He revealed nothing.


now? Now that I'm his? I have never in my life been more secure in a relationship. He wont let me got ten min without reassurance that I am everything he has ever dreamed of. But that didnt start until he made me his gf. Before then I was wandering in the dark. Now im shored up.

You will never know how they feel until they want you to know.

he liked you so much he threw himself into another relationship—

O OK

lol i hope you didn't fall for that one lmao

actions and interest, if I care about you enough to want to take care of you. nurture you. I am over protective then most likely I have a soft spot for you. Once I have a soft spot, you're in. I hate everybody lol

I wouldn't say its pride why we don't say it but emotional security, KNOWING how you feel first and feeling safe to feel the same way in return. Sometimes people are vague themselves and don't realize it, how are you showing interest in him? Im not saying to bend over backwards but there should be a level of noticeable interest he gets from you too. Don't give him too much emotionally though, I feel that with men you need to be patient in the matters of the heart and women, we want to know right away before we dive in. So don't dive in, take it as far as its going.

Just enjoy getting to know him and see where this goes, why rush into knowing his decision?? What about YOUR decision?? Take a look at HIM, and see if YOU like HIM too. If he likes you too, can you see yourself with a man like that for ever? What if you don't truly like him and you're wasting all this time trying to read his thoughts?? get to know the guy FIRST is all im saying.

Im a scorpio and it depends actually i got times where i can show the person i like them by texting them a lot or asking what they r doing with who and getting jealous but i might also like u from a distance. i have had interest in people that wont ever know it because i can hide it so well

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Posted by piscesgotherscorpio

noooooo. nope. Thats the fucking bitch - you never know until they fucking spell it out.

It's what I both love about Scorpios - (cant read them to save my life - such a wonderful break from the exhausting empathic onslaught I deal with every other sign) and what drives me crazy "wait? you LIKE me?"

I can not tell you how many Scorpio males have confessed their feelings/desires to me and I have been literally blindsided by it because up until that point I had gone through months of "does he even like me?" to the point I had just given up and moved on.

Or my current partner who I had no idea had any feelings for me at all while I was his side chick and now all he does is tell me the entire time he was madly in love with me and never stopped thinking about me and was so terrified of how strongly he felt he threw him self into a different relationship only to regret it all because he could never get me off his mind.

I. had. zero. effing. clue.

I would scour sites like this and astrology explanations for all of his planets and houses and aspects looking for some sort of clue to help me know if he even was attracted to me. He revealed nothing.



now? Now that I'm his? I have never in my life been more secure in a relationship. He wont let me got ten min without reassurance that I am everything he has ever dreamed of. But that didnt start until he made me his gf. Before then I was wandering in the dark. Now im shored up.

You will never know how they feel until they want you to know.

he liked you so much he threw himself into another relationship—

O OK

lol i hope you didn't fall for that one lmao

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im not sure what youre laughing at or asking. Anyway - I think moon signs play into it. Like two Scorpio Suns with Capricorn moons have just reappeared in my life after meeting three years ago. They are both impossible to read. One more than the other which I didnt even think was possible. And theyve both been stalking me from a distance and maintaining a fixation on me but omg three effing years saying nothing? then they just walk on into my life all how you doin. Anyway - it doesnt phase me so much because the whole scorpio pisces thing is like that I guess. You can not talk for years then pick up exactly where you left off.

If he makes a point to talk to you? He likes you in some fashion. I tend not to notice most people and to blatantly ignore those I don’t like. How much? Doubtful he knows yet. He will have to get you alone to find out. The more private the place the setting the more curious he is. That’s a good thing. Keep your eyes open Scorpios like privacy when they speak to people they care about.