Ok so I have been talking to a venus in scorpio for a while finally Went on a date with him and he was all over me half way through and I felt the connection too. So strong, or do they have something about them that they feel it with every woman they date? Anyway he wanted to have sex and I said no but I did agree to foreplay. Yesterday we were supposed to meet and he texted me he was feeling low, so now he said Monday. I'm starting not to believe anything he says and that he just wanted sex. Mind you I'm not the one texting him after th4 date, he is. So I guess my question is do venus in scorpio Libra sun people want to sleep with the woman first before getting to k ow her better?
Venus in scorpio

Yes.

Yes, sex is also a way to get to know you better

I'm a libra with venus in scorpio. Tbh were assassins for love. OP if the site was tender then ofcourse sex was intended the other sites I believe is more for dating. With these placements we think every date should have the pleasure to be with us, as if were the only ones to give you the oxytocin.
Back in the day I would have agreed to foreplay knowing you will ask for the full meal.
Back in the day I would have agreed to foreplay knowing you will ask for the full meal.
"That he just wanted sex." Why wouldn't he? "He was all over me".... "I did allow foreplay".


Posted by sweetpea2977
"That he just wanted sex." Why wouldn't he? "He was all over me".... "I did allow foreplay".
Yeah...like wanting sex doesn’t mean being all over the subject! Lol

You’ve been talking to the guy for a while? How long is a while? And was there sexual talking/texting? If he thought he was gonna have sex, I can see the wondering. If he usually always gets his way with sex, I can see why you’re wondering.
Just depends on if he likes you enough to continue. That’s most men’s agenda.
Just depends on if he likes you enough to continue. That’s most men’s agenda.

Posted by GemitatiPosted by Biboroon
Yes, sex is also a way to get to know you better
...on a deeper level...click to expand
The deepest there is
Well I'm a Libra with Venus in Scorpio but I'm a woman. We want to own your ass and drown you in our deep waters of passion, bring you back up for breath and take you down again. Oh yeah, you won't forget it.
Posted by GC10
That’s a very horny Sun/Venus combination.
Don’t give in to their seduction too easily(they are used to this)...let them grovel and pout a bit.
So I did a good thing to deny intercourse?
Posted by saggurl88
You’ve been talking to the guy for a while? How long is a while? And was there sexual talking/texting? If he thought he was gonna have sex, I can see the wondering. If he usually always gets his way with sex, I can see why you’re wondering.
Just depends on if he likes you enough to continue. That’s most men’s agenda.
We've been talking for a year and yes there was sexual texting but not right away...like not until 7months in. He doesnt live in my state and wanted to meet me so he finally booked a trip and we went out.
Posted by LibraSupreme
I'm a libra with venus in scorpio. Tbh were assassins for love. OP if the site was tender then ofcourse sex was intended the other sites I believe is more for dating. With these placements we think every date should have the pleasure to be with us, as if were the only ones to give you the oxytocin.
Back in the day I would have agreed to foreplay knowing you will ask for the full meal.
So it's a good thing I denied intercourse ?
Posted by Hollyhock_Posted by Gemini25Posted by GC10
That’s a very horny Sun/Venus combination.
Don’t give in to their seduction too easily(they are used to this)...let them grovel and pout a bit.
So I did a good thing to deny intercourse?
If you don’t want to have sex, don’t have sex. If the person likes you, they will wait or be happy to be friends.click to expand
I understand that I told him I'm not ready and he said we will have sex when you're ready, but I meant this combination is probably used to full on sex and I denied this and so maybe he was pouting as you say. He is still texting me and he let me know he had a great time with me and amazing to meet me.

Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88
You’ve been talking to the guy for a while? How long is a while? And was there sexual talking/texting? If he thought he was gonna have sex, I can see the wondering. If he usually always gets his way with sex, I can see why you’re wondering.
Just depends on if he likes you enough to continue. That’s most men’s agenda.
We've been talking for a year and yes there was sexual texting but not right away...like not until 7months in. He doesnt live in my state and wanted to meet me so he finally booked a trip and we went out.click to expand
Well I can understand why he would think that sex was gonna happen. He’s known you for a year. I’m assuming you guys video chatted and stuff.
Usually Gemini’s aren’t this prudish. Did you not like him?

Posted by Gemini25Posted by GC10
That’s a very horny Sun/Venus combination.
Don’t give in to their seduction too easily(they are used to this)...let them grovel and pout a bit.
So I did a good thing to deny intercourse?click to expand
He’s not gonna go anywhere if he likes you. He will wait it out. We like a little bit of suffering. It makes the prize worth it.
You seem more worried about the hit it and quit it aspect, tbh. Are you worried about that?
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by GC10
That’s a very horny Sun/Venus combination.
Don’t give in to their seduction too easily(they are used to this)...let them grovel and pout a bit.
So I did a good thing to deny intercourse?
He’s not gonna go anywhere if he likes you. He will wait it out. We like a little bit of suffering. It makes the prize worth it.
You seem more worried about the hit it and quit it aspect, tbh. Are you worried about that?click to expand
Yes!! Exactly that's what I was worried about. The hit and quit plus I'm a virgin and he knows. I told him before he even came.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88
You’ve been talking to the guy for a while? How long is a while? And was there sexual talking/texting? If he thought he was gonna have sex, I can see the wondering. If he usually always gets his way with sex, I can see why you’re wondering.
Just depends on if he likes you enough to continue. That’s most men’s agenda.
We've been talking for a year and yes there was sexual texting but not right away...like not until 7months in. He doesnt live in my state and wanted to meet me so he finally booked a trip and we went out.
Well I can understand why he would think that sex was gonna happen. He’s known you for a year. I’m assuming you guys video chatted and stuff.
Usually Gemini’s aren’t this prudish. Did you not like him?click to expand
I did like it. We had insane chemistry. The moment I saw him I was like Damn. I never felt like this before. I wasnt into him that much before I actually met him...thing is In a virgin and I was scared he was gonna hit it and quit it so I settled for oral sex.
Posted by Hollyhock_Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by GC10
That’s a very horny Sun/Venus combination.
Don’t give in to their seduction too easily(they are used to this)...let them grovel and pout a bit.
So I did a good thing to deny intercourse?
He’s not gonna go anywhere if he likes you. He will wait it out. We like a little bit of suffering. It makes the prize worth it.
You seem more worried about the hit it and quit it aspect, tbh. Are you worried about that?
Two possible scenarios:
1. There is no intention of having sex on gem’s part but doesn’t want to say it;
2. Gem is worried the other person is too experienced or something of that sortclick to expand
Again I'm a virgin so yes I wasnt ready for full blow sex especially when I dont know..if his intention was to hit and quit. I like him and had great chemistry with him that's why I settled for oral sex.

Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by GC10
That’s a very horny Sun/Venus combination.
Don’t give in to their seduction too easily(they are used to this)...let them grovel and pout a bit.
So I did a good thing to deny intercourse?
He’s not gonna go anywhere if he likes you. He will wait it out. We like a little bit of suffering. It makes the prize worth it.
You seem more worried about the hit it and quit it aspect, tbh. Are you worried about that?
Yes!! Exactly that's what I was worried about. The hit and quit plus I'm a virgin and he knows. I told him before he even came.click to expand
Oh you’re a Virgin.
Are you seriously ready to lose it to someone who won’t be there for you consistently?
Who’s not gonna be available to you, once you feel connected to him?
It’s your choice not to wait. I don’t know how old you are. I know the age old tale is to wait till marriage- which I won’t say-
BUT you should wait until you love the person and they are at least in the same city as you. Someone who is available for a relationship, this guy isn’t, even if he is super charming and says all the right things.
What’s the rush with this guy? He’s so far and won’t be able to visit a lot.
I mean you’ve seen him once in a whole year.
This could be a pretty big heart break for you.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by GC10
That’s a very horny Sun/Venus combination.
Don’t give in to their seduction too easily(they are used to this)...let them grovel and pout a bit.
So I did a good thing to deny intercourse?
He’s not gonna go anywhere if he likes you. He will wait it out. We like a little bit of suffering. It makes the prize worth it.
You seem more worried about the hit it and quit it aspect, tbh. Are you worried about that?
Yes!! Exactly that's what I was worried about. The hit and quit plus I'm a virgin and he knows. I told him before he even came.
Oh you’re a Virgin.
Are you seriously ready to lose it to someone who won’t be there for you consistently?
Who’s not gonna be available to you, once you feel connected to him?
It’s your choice not to wait. I don’t know how old you are. I know the age old tale is to wait till marriage- which I won’t say-
BUT you should wait until you love the person and they are at least in the same city as you. Someone who is available for a relationship, this guy isn’t, even if he is super charming and says all the right things.
What’s the rush with this guy? He’s so far and won’t be able to visit a lot.
I mean you’ve seen him once in a whole year.
This could be a pretty big heart break for you.click to expand
That's what I mean I wasnt in a rush or else I would of had full blow sex with him. And that's another reason I didnt but we did do oral sex.

Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by GC10
That’s a very horny Sun/Venus combination.
Don’t give in to their seduction too easily(they are used to this)...let them grovel and pout a bit.
So I did a good thing to deny intercourse?
He’s not gonna go anywhere if he likes you. He will wait it out. We like a little bit of suffering. It makes the prize worth it.
You seem more worried about the hit it and quit it aspect, tbh. Are you worried about that?
Yes!! Exactly that's what I was worried about. The hit and quit plus I'm a virgin and he knows. I told him before he even came.
Oh you’re a Virgin.
Are you seriously ready to lose it to someone who won’t be there for you consistently?
Who’s not gonna be available to you, once you feel connected to him?
It’s your choice not to wait. I don’t know how old you are. I know the age old tale is to wait till marriage- which I won’t say-
BUT you should wait until you love the person and they are at least in the same city as you. Someone who is available for a relationship, this guy isn’t, even if he is super charming and says all the right things.
What’s the rush with this guy? He’s so far and won’t be able to visit a lot.
I mean you’ve seen him once in a whole year.
This could be a pretty big heart break for you.
That's what I mean I wasnt in a rush or else I would of had full blow sex with him. And that's another reason I didnt but we did do oral sex.click to expand
How old are you?
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by GC10
That’s a very horny Sun/Venus combination.
Don’t give in to their seduction too easily(they are used to this)...let them grovel and pout a bit.
So I did a good thing to deny intercourse?
He’s not gonna go anywhere if he likes you. He will wait it out. We like a little bit of suffering. It makes the prize worth it.
You seem more worried about the hit it and quit it aspect, tbh. Are you worried about that?
Yes!! Exactly that's what I was worried about. The hit and quit plus I'm a virgin and he knows. I told him before he even came.
Oh you’re a Virgin.
Are you seriously ready to lose it to someone who won’t be there for you consistently?
Who’s not gonna be available to you, once you feel connected to him?
It’s your choice not to wait. I don’t know how old you are. I know the age old tale is to wait till marriage- which I won’t say-
BUT you should wait until you love the person and they are at least in the same city as you. Someone who is available for a relationship, this guy isn’t, even if he is super charming and says all the right things.
What’s the rush with this guy? He’s so far and won’t be able to visit a lot.
I mean you’ve seen him once in a whole year.
This could be a pretty big heart break for you.
That's what I mean I wasnt in a rush or else I would of had full blow sex with him. And that's another reason I didnt but we did do oral sex.
How old are you?click to expand
25

Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by GC10
That’s a very horny Sun/Venus combination.
Don’t give in to their seduction too easily(they are used to this)...let them grovel and pout a bit.
So I did a good thing to deny intercourse?
He’s not gonna go anywhere if he likes you. He will wait it out. We like a little bit of suffering. It makes the prize worth it.
You seem more worried about the hit it and quit it aspect, tbh. Are you worried about that?
Yes!! Exactly that's what I was worried about. The hit and quit plus I'm a virgin and he knows. I told him before he even came.
Oh you’re a Virgin.
Are you seriously ready to lose it to someone who won’t be there for you consistently?
Who’s not gonna be available to you, once you feel connected to him?
It’s your choice not to wait. I don’t know how old you are. I know the age old tale is to wait till marriage- which I won’t say-
BUT you should wait until you love the person and they are at least in the same city as you. Someone who is available for a relationship, this guy isn’t, even if he is super charming and says all the right things.
What’s the rush with this guy? He’s so far and won’t be able to visit a lot.
I mean you’ve seen him once in a whole year.
This could be a pretty big heart break for you.
That's what I mean I wasnt in a rush or else I would of had full blow sex with him. And that's another reason I didnt but we did do oral sex.
How old are you?
25click to expand
Oh ok. If your age is true then you’ve waited a while and are adult enough to make decisions about it.
I lost my virginity as a teenager cause I was tired of waiting, people were telling me how good the sex was. (It was nothing like I thought it would be) I was bored by it the first time lol
But I still went back every weekend 4 weeks straight because I kept wanting to experience it.
Either way. The guy knows you’re a virgin, he’s not going anywhere, but also don’t expect him to have lots of special treatment of you after you let him have sex with you. The reality is he’s too far and it would be unrealistic for you to think because you gave up something he will need to sacrifice and bend over backwards for you- he may stay, he might just want to be friends after, he may come back as often as HE can - this is where heartache could happen for you.
but remember it’s your choice who you want to lose it to. It just depends on how much “weight” you put on losing it.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by GC10
That’s a very horny Sun/Venus combination.
Don’t give in to their seduction too easily(they are used to this)...let them grovel and pout a bit.
So I did a good thing to deny intercourse?
He’s not gonna go anywhere if he likes you. He will wait it out. We like a little bit of suffering. It makes the prize worth it.
You seem more worried about the hit it and quit it aspect, tbh. Are you worried about that?
Yes!! Exactly that's what I was worried about. The hit and quit plus I'm a virgin and he knows. I told him before he even came.
Oh you’re a Virgin.
Are you seriously ready to lose it to someone who won’t be there for you consistently?
Who’s not gonna be available to you, once you feel connected to him?
It’s your choice not to wait. I don’t know how old you are. I know the age old tale is to wait till marriage- which I won’t say-
BUT you should wait until you love the person and they are at least in the same city as you. Someone who is available for a relationship, this guy isn’t, even if he is super charming and says all the right things.
What’s the rush with this guy? He’s so far and won’t be able to visit a lot.
I mean you’ve seen him once in a whole year.
This could be a pretty big heart break for you.
That's what I mean I wasnt in a rush or else I would of had full blow sex with him. And that's another reason I didnt but we did do oral sex.
How old are you?
25
Oh ok. If your age is true then you’ve waited a while and are adult enough to make decisions about it.
I lost my virginity as a teenager cause I was tired of waiting, people were telling me how good the sex was. (It was nothing like I thought it would be) I was bored by it the first time lol
But I still went back every weekend 4 weeks straight because I kept wanting to experience it.
Either way. The guy knows you’re a virgin, he’s not going anywhere, but also don’t expect him to have lots of special treatment of you after you let him have sex with you. The reality is he’s too far and it would be unrealistic for you to think because you gave up something he will need to sacrifice and bend over backwards for you- he may stay, he might just want to be friends after, he may come back as often as HE can - this is where heartache could happen for you.
but remember it’s your choice who you want to lose it to. It just depends on how much “weight” you put on losing it.click to expand
I'm just confused in those 4 days he visited we only saw each other once and then the other days he was just initiating texts. So I'm confused AF. He did say good bye to me before he left. Why wouldnt he want to meet again before he left? Is he giving me a pouty treatment ? Venus in scorpio or libra talking here?

Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by GC10
That’s a very horny Sun/Venus combination.
Don’t give in to their seduction too easily(they are used to this)...let them grovel and pout a bit.
So I did a good thing to deny intercourse?
He’s not gonna go anywhere if he likes you. He will wait it out. We like a little bit of suffering. It makes the prize worth it.
You seem more worried about the hit it and quit it aspect, tbh. Are you worried about that?
Yes!! Exactly that's what I was worried about. The hit and quit plus I'm a virgin and he knows. I told him before he even came.
Oh you’re a Virgin.
Are you seriously ready to lose it to someone who won’t be there for you consistently?
Who’s not gonna be available to you, once you feel connected to him?
It’s your choice not to wait. I don’t know how old you are. I know the age old tale is to wait till marriage- which I won’t say-
BUT you should wait until you love the person and they are at least in the same city as you. Someone who is available for a relationship, this guy isn’t, even if he is super charming and says all the right things.
What’s the rush with this guy? He’s so far and won’t be able to visit a lot.
I mean you’ve seen him once in a whole year.
This could be a pretty big heart break for you.
That's what I mean I wasnt in a rush or else I would of had full blow sex with him. And that's another reason I didnt but we did do oral sex.
How old are you?
25
Oh ok. If your age is true then you’ve waited a while and are adult enough to make decisions about it.
I lost my virginity as a teenager cause I was tired of waiting, people were telling me how good the sex was. (It was nothing like I thought it would be) I was bored by it the first time lol
But I still went back every weekend 4 weeks straight because I kept wanting to experience it.
Either way. The guy knows you’re a virgin, he’s not going anywhere, but also don’t expect him to have lots of special treatment of you after you let him have sex with you. The reality is he’s too far and it would be unrealistic for you to think because you gave up something he will need to sacrifice and bend over backwards for you- he may stay, he might just want to be friends after, he may come back as often as HE can - this is where heartache could happen for you.
but remember it’s your choice who you want to lose it to. It just depends on how much “weight” you put on losing it.
I'm just confused in those 4 days he visited we only saw each other once and then the other days he was just initiating texts. So I'm confused AF. He did say good bye to me before he left. Why wouldnt he want to meet again before he left? Is he giving me a pouty treatment ? Venus in scorpio or libra talking here?click to expand
Well you weren’t ready and he’s a grown man with needs. It’s a cock tease. Even with oral. Scorpio Venus want everything- the whole experience. Oral is like foreplay. You can only do it so many times before you want to be fully satiated.
I don’t know about Libra suns but my Scorpio Venus wants it all. I need the connection that comes with actual sex. The connecting of 2 bodies.
I’d rather not see you until it can happen. Everything else feels like rejection for me. So he might hang in there and be there for you, but he will want the connection. So he will probably just wait until you’re sure and ready. So he can have all of you.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by GC10
That’s a very horny Sun/Venus combination.
Don’t give in to their seduction too easily(they are used to this)...let them grovel and pout a bit.
So I did a good thing to deny intercourse?
He’s not gonna go anywhere if he likes you. He will wait it out. We like a little bit of suffering. It makes the prize worth it.
You seem more worried about the hit it and quit it aspect, tbh. Are you worried about that?
Yes!! Exactly that's what I was worried about. The hit and quit plus I'm a virgin and he knows. I told him before he even came.
Oh you’re a Virgin.
Are you seriously ready to lose it to someone who won’t be there for you consistently?
Who’s not gonna be available to you, once you feel connected to him?
It’s your choice not to wait. I don’t know how old you are. I know the age old tale is to wait till marriage- which I won’t say-
BUT you should wait until you love the person and they are at least in the same city as you. Someone who is available for a relationship, this guy isn’t, even if he is super charming and says all the right things.
What’s the rush with this guy? He’s so far and won’t be able to visit a lot.
I mean you’ve seen him once in a whole year.
This could be a pretty big heart break for you.
That's what I mean I wasnt in a rush or else I would of had full blow sex with him. And that's another reason I didnt but we did do oral sex.
How old are you?
25
Oh ok. If your age is true then you’ve waited a while and are adult enough to make decisions about it.
I lost my virginity as a teenager cause I was tired of waiting, people were telling me how good the sex was. (It was nothing like I thought it would be) I was bored by it the first time lol
But I still went back every weekend 4 weeks straight because I kept wanting to experience it.
Either way. The guy knows you’re a virgin, he’s not going anywhere, but also don’t expect him to have lots of special treatment of you after you let him have sex with you. The reality is he’s too far and it would be unrealistic for you to think because you gave up something he will need to sacrifice and bend over backwards for you- he may stay, he might just want to be friends after, he may come back as often as HE can - this is where heartache could happen for you.
but remember it’s your choice who you want to lose it to. It just depends on how much “weight” you put on losing it.
I'm just confused in those 4 days he visited we only saw each other once and then the other days he was just initiating texts. So I'm confused AF. He did say good bye to me before he left. Why wouldnt he want to meet again before he left? Is he giving me a pouty treatment ? Venus in scorpio or libra talking here?
Well you weren’t ready and he’s a grown man with needs. It’s a cock tease. Even with oral. Scorpio Venus want everything- the whole experience. Oral is like foreplay. You can only do it so many times before you want to be fully satiated.
I don’t know about Libra suns but my Scorpio Venus wants it all. I need the connection that comes with actual sex. The connecting of 2 bodies.
I’d rather not see you until it can happen. Everything else feels like rejection for me. So he might hang in there and be there for you, but he will want the connection. So he will probably just wait until you’re sure and ready. So he can have all of you.click to expand
Ok but how wouldn't he know that maybe th4 second time I would have sex? I even told him I would love to see him before he leaves. He just said yes baby and when he texted the next day , no mention on when to meet? He totally ignored this. So he's feeling rejected by me? Is this a way maybe he is letting me go? I mean he already left .

Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by GC10
That’s a very horny Sun/Venus combination.
Don’t give in to their seduction too easily(they are used to this)...let them grovel and pout a bit.
So I did a good thing to deny intercourse?
He’s not gonna go anywhere if he likes you. He will wait it out. We like a little bit of suffering. It makes the prize worth it.
You seem more worried about the hit it and quit it aspect, tbh. Are you worried about that?
Yes!! Exactly that's what I was worried about. The hit and quit plus I'm a virgin and he knows. I told him before he even came.
Oh you’re a Virgin.
Are you seriously ready to lose it to someone who won’t be there for you consistently?
Who’s not gonna be available to you, once you feel connected to him?
It’s your choice not to wait. I don’t know how old you are. I know the age old tale is to wait till marriage- which I won’t say-
BUT you should wait until you love the person and they are at least in the same city as you. Someone who is available for a relationship, this guy isn’t, even if he is super charming and says all the right things.
What’s the rush with this guy? He’s so far and won’t be able to visit a lot.
I mean you’ve seen him once in a whole year.
This could be a pretty big heart break for you.
That's what I mean I wasnt in a rush or else I would of had full blow sex with him. And that's another reason I didnt but we did do oral sex.
How old are you?
25
Oh ok. If your age is true then you’ve waited a while and are adult enough to make decisions about it.
I lost my virginity as a teenager cause I was tired of waiting, people were telling me how good the sex was. (It was nothing like I thought it would be) I was bored by it the first time lol
But I still went back every weekend 4 weeks straight because I kept wanting to experience it.
Either way. The guy knows you’re a virgin, he’s not going anywhere, but also don’t expect him to have lots of special treatment of you after you let him have sex with you. The reality is he’s too far and it would be unrealistic for you to think because you gave up something he will need to sacrifice and bend over backwards for you- he may stay, he might just want to be friends after, he may come back as often as HE can - this is where heartache could happen for you.
but remember it’s your choice who you want to lose it to. It just depends on how much “weight” you put on losing it.
I'm just confused in those 4 days he visited we only saw each other once and then the other days he was just initiating texts. So I'm confused AF. He did say good bye to me before he left. Why wouldnt he want to meet again before he left? Is he giving me a pouty treatment ? Venus in scorpio or libra talking here?
Well you weren’t ready and he’s a grown man with needs. It’s a cock tease. Even with oral. Scorpio Venus want everything- the whole experience. Oral is like foreplay. You can only do it so many times before you want to be fully satiated.
I don’t know about Libra suns but my Scorpio Venus wants it all. I need the connection that comes with actual sex. The connecting of 2 bodies.
I’d rather not see you until it can happen. Everything else feels like rejection for me. So he might hang in there and be there for you, but he will want the connection. So he will probably just wait until you’re sure and ready. So he can have all of you.
Ok but how wouldn't he know that maybe th4 second time I would have sex? I even told him I would love to see him before he leaves. He just said yes baby and when he texted the next day , no mention on when to meet? He totally ignored this. So he's feeling rejected by me? Is this a way maybe he is letting me go? I mean he already left .click to expand
He didn’t know that. The next time he sees you, he will be ready. He was just trying to respect you.
How would he have come off asking if he was going to be getting sex or not? He controlled himself and showed you some respect.
If you’re ready the next time you see him. He may not be so nice lol. Oral will be a small part of what he will want to do with you.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by GC10
That’s a very horny Sun/Venus combination.
Don’t give in to their seduction too easily(they are used to this)...let them grovel and pout a bit.
So I did a good thing to deny intercourse?
He’s not gonna go anywhere if he likes you. He will wait it out. We like a little bit of suffering. It makes the prize worth it.
You seem more worried about the hit it and quit it aspect, tbh. Are you worried about that?
Yes!! Exactly that's what I was worried about. The hit and quit plus I'm a virgin and he knows. I told him before he even came.
Oh you’re a Virgin.
Are you seriously ready to lose it to someone who won’t be there for you consistently?
Who’s not gonna be available to you, once you feel connected to him?
It’s your choice not to wait. I don’t know how old you are. I know the age old tale is to wait till marriage- which I won’t say-
BUT you should wait until you love the person and they are at least in the same city as you. Someone who is available for a relationship, this guy isn’t, even if he is super charming and says all the right things.
What’s the rush with this guy? He’s so far and won’t be able to visit a lot.
I mean you’ve seen him once in a whole year.
This could be a pretty big heart break for you.
That's what I mean I wasnt in a rush or else I would of had full blow sex with him. And that's another reason I didnt but we did do oral sex.
How old are you?
25
Oh ok. If your age is true then you’ve waited a while and are adult enough to make decisions about it.
I lost my virginity as a teenager cause I was tired of waiting, people were telling me how good the sex was. (It was nothing like I thought it would be) I was bored by it the first time lol
But I still went back every weekend 4 weeks straight because I kept wanting to experience it.
Either way. The guy knows you’re a virgin, he’s not going anywhere, but also don’t expect him to have lots of special treatment of you after you let him have sex with you. The reality is he’s too far and it would be unrealistic for you to think because you gave up something he will need to sacrifice and bend over backwards for you- he may stay, he might just want to be friends after, he may come back as often as HE can - this is where heartache could happen for you.
but remember it’s your choice who you want to lose it to. It just depends on how much “weight” you put on losing it.
I'm just confused in those 4 days he visited we only saw each other once and then the other days he was just initiating texts. So I'm confused AF. He did say good bye to me before he left. Why wouldnt he want to meet again before he left? Is he giving me a pouty treatment ? Venus in scorpio or libra talking here?
Well you weren’t ready and he’s a grown man with needs. It’s a cock tease. Even with oral. Scorpio Venus want everything- the whole experience. Oral is like foreplay. You can only do it so many times before you want to be fully satiated.
I don’t know about Libra suns but my Scorpio Venus wants it all. I need the connection that comes with actual sex. The connecting of 2 bodies.
I’d rather not see you until it can happen. Everything else feels like rejection for me. So he might hang in there and be there for you, but he will want the connection. So he will probably just wait until you’re sure and ready. So he can have all of you.
Ok but how wouldn't he know that maybe th4 second time I would have sex? I even told him I would love to see him before he leaves. He just said yes baby and when he texted the next day , no mention on when to meet? He totally ignored this. So he's feeling rejected by me? Is this a way maybe he is letting me go? I mean he already left .
He didn’t know that. The next time he sees you, he will be ready. He was just trying to respect you.
How would he have come off asking if he was going to be getting sex or not? He controlled himself and showed you some respect.
If you’re ready the next time you see him. He may not be so nice lol. Oral will be a small part of what he will want to do with you.click to expand
Ok I understand but I guess it hurts me he didnt want to see me before he left. God I wanted to kiss him again. I mean the chemistry was insane. From all the men I met this was a little different. I think I'm going crazy lol

Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by GC10
That’s a very horny Sun/Venus combination.
Don’t give in to their seduction too easily(they are used to this)...let them grovel and pout a bit.
So I did a good thing to deny intercourse?
He’s not gonna go anywhere if he likes you. He will wait it out. We like a little bit of suffering. It makes the prize worth it.
You seem more worried about the hit it and quit it aspect, tbh. Are you worried about that?
Yes!! Exactly that's what I was worried about. The hit and quit plus I'm a virgin and he knows. I told him before he even came.
Oh you’re a Virgin.
Are you seriously ready to lose it to someone who won’t be there for you consistently?
Who’s not gonna be available to you, once you feel connected to him?
It’s your choice not to wait. I don’t know how old you are. I know the age old tale is to wait till marriage- which I won’t say-
BUT you should wait until you love the person and they are at least in the same city as you. Someone who is available for a relationship, this guy isn’t, even if he is super charming and says all the right things.
What’s the rush with this guy? He’s so far and won’t be able to visit a lot.
I mean you’ve seen him once in a whole year.
This could be a pretty big heart break for you.
That's what I mean I wasnt in a rush or else I would of had full blow sex with him. And that's another reason I didnt but we did do oral sex.
How old are you?
25
Oh ok. If your age is true then you’ve waited a while and are adult enough to make decisions about it.
I lost my virginity as a teenager cause I was tired of waiting, people were telling me how good the sex was. (It was nothing like I thought it would be) I was bored by it the first time lol
But I still went back every weekend 4 weeks straight because I kept wanting to experience it.
Either way. The guy knows you’re a virgin, he’s not going anywhere, but also don’t expect him to have lots of special treatment of you after you let him have sex with you. The reality is he’s too far and it would be unrealistic for you to think because you gave up something he will need to sacrifice and bend over backwards for you- he may stay, he might just want to be friends after, he may come back as often as HE can - this is where heartache could happen for you.
but remember it’s your choice who you want to lose it to. It just depends on how much “weight” you put on losing it.
I'm just confused in those 4 days he visited we only saw each other once and then the other days he was just initiating texts. So I'm confused AF. He did say good bye to me before he left. Why wouldnt he want to meet again before he left? Is he giving me a pouty treatment ? Venus in scorpio or libra talking here?
Well you weren’t ready and he’s a grown man with needs. It’s a cock tease. Even with oral. Scorpio Venus want everything- the whole experience. Oral is like foreplay. You can only do it so many times before you want to be fully satiated.
I don’t know about Libra suns but my Scorpio Venus wants it all. I need the connection that comes with actual sex. The connecting of 2 bodies.
I’d rather not see you until it can happen. Everything else feels like rejection for me. So he might hang in there and be there for you, but he will want the connection. So he will probably just wait until you’re sure and ready. So he can have all of you.
Ok but how wouldn't he know that maybe th4 second time I would have sex? I even told him I would love to see him before he leaves. He just said yes baby and when he texted the next day , no mention on when to meet? He totally ignored this. So he's feeling rejected by me? Is this a way maybe he is letting me go? I mean he already left .
He didn’t know that. The next time he sees you, he will be ready. He was just trying to respect you.
How would he have come off asking if he was going to be getting sex or not? He controlled himself and showed you some respect.
If you’re ready the next time you see him. He may not be so nice lol. Oral will be a small part of what he will want to do with you.
Ok I understand but I guess it hurts me he didnt want to see me before he left. God I wanted to kiss him again. I mean the chemistry was insane. From all the men I met this was a little different. I think I'm going crazy lolclick to expand
Yeah. It’s magnetic with Scorpio Venus. People can feel the intensity of it.
What’s your Mars and Venus?
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by GC10
That’s a very horny Sun/Venus combination.
Don’t give in to their seduction too easily(they are used to this)...let them grovel and pout a bit.
So I did a good thing to deny intercourse?
He’s not gonna go anywhere if he likes you. He will wait it out. We like a little bit of suffering. It makes the prize worth it.
You seem more worried about the hit it and quit it aspect, tbh. Are you worried about that?
Yes!! Exactly that's what I was worried about. The hit and quit plus I'm a virgin and he knows. I told him before he even came.
Oh you’re a Virgin.
Are you seriously ready to lose it to someone who won’t be there for you consistently?
Who’s not gonna be available to you, once you feel connected to him?
It’s your choice not to wait. I don’t know how old you are. I know the age old tale is to wait till marriage- which I won’t say-
BUT you should wait until you love the person and they are at least in the same city as you. Someone who is available for a relationship, this guy isn’t, even if he is super charming and says all the right things.
What’s the rush with this guy? He’s so far and won’t be able to visit a lot.
I mean you’ve seen him once in a whole year.
This could be a pretty big heart break for you.
That's what I mean I wasnt in a rush or else I would of had full blow sex with him. And that's another reason I didnt but we did do oral sex.
How old are you?
25
Oh ok. If your age is true then you’ve waited a while and are adult enough to make decisions about it.
I lost my virginity as a teenager cause I was tired of waiting, people were telling me how good the sex was. (It was nothing like I thought it would be) I was bored by it the first time lol
But I still went back every weekend 4 weeks straight because I kept wanting to experience it.
Either way. The guy knows you’re a virgin, he’s not going anywhere, but also don’t expect him to have lots of special treatment of you after you let him have sex with you. The reality is he’s too far and it would be unrealistic for you to think because you gave up something he will need to sacrifice and bend over backwards for you- he may stay, he might just want to be friends after, he may come back as often as HE can - this is where heartache could happen for you.
but remember it’s your choice who you want to lose it to. It just depends on how much “weight” you put on losing it.
I'm just confused in those 4 days he visited we only saw each other once and then the other days he was just initiating texts. So I'm confused AF. He did say good bye to me before he left. Why wouldnt he want to meet again before he left? Is he giving me a pouty treatment ? Venus in scorpio or libra talking here?
Well you weren’t ready and he’s a grown man with needs. It’s a cock tease. Even with oral. Scorpio Venus want everything- the whole experience. Oral is like foreplay. You can only do it so many times before you want to be fully satiated.
I don’t know about Libra suns but my Scorpio Venus wants it all. I need the connection that comes with actual sex. The connecting of 2 bodies.
I’d rather not see you until it can happen. Everything else feels like rejection for me. So he might hang in there and be there for you, but he will want the connection. So he will probably just wait until you’re sure and ready. So he can have all of you.
Ok but how wouldn't he know that maybe th4 second time I would have sex? I even told him I would love to see him before he leaves. He just said yes baby and when he texted the next day , no mention on when to meet? He totally ignored this. So he's feeling rejected by me? Is this a way maybe he is letting me go? I mean he already left .
He didn’t know that. The next time he sees you, he will be ready. He was just trying to respect you.
How would he have come off asking if he was going to be getting sex or not? He controlled himself and showed you some respect.
If you’re ready the next time you see him. He may not be so nice lol. Oral will be a small part of what he will want to do with you.
Ok I understand but I guess it hurts me he didnt want to see me before he left. God I wanted to kiss him again. I mean the chemistry was insane. From all the men I met this was a little different. I think I'm going crazy lol
Yeah. It’s magnetic with Scorpio Venus. People can feel the intensity of it.
What’s your Mars and Venus?click to expand
Yes but I know he felt it too.
My mars in Gemini and venus in aries

Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by GC10
That’s a very horny Sun/Venus combination.
Don’t give in to their seduction too easily(they are used to this)...let them grovel and pout a bit.
So I did a good thing to deny intercourse?
He’s not gonna go anywhere if he likes you. He will wait it out. We like a little bit of suffering. It makes the prize worth it.
You seem more worried about the hit it and quit it aspect, tbh. Are you worried about that?
Yes!! Exactly that's what I was worried about. The hit and quit plus I'm a virgin and he knows. I told him before he even came.
Oh you’re a Virgin.
Are you seriously ready to lose it to someone who won’t be there for you consistently?
Who’s not gonna be available to you, once you feel connected to him?
It’s your choice not to wait. I don’t know how old you are. I know the age old tale is to wait till marriage- which I won’t say-
BUT you should wait until you love the person and they are at least in the same city as you. Someone who is available for a relationship, this guy isn’t, even if he is super charming and says all the right things.
What’s the rush with this guy? He’s so far and won’t be able to visit a lot.
I mean you’ve seen him once in a whole year.
This could be a pretty big heart break for you.
That's what I mean I wasnt in a rush or else I would of had full blow sex with him. And that's another reason I didnt but we did do oral sex.
How old are you?
25
Oh ok. If your age is true then you’ve waited a while and are adult enough to make decisions about it.
I lost my virginity as a teenager cause I was tired of waiting, people were telling me how good the sex was. (It was nothing like I thought it would be) I was bored by it the first time lol
But I still went back every weekend 4 weeks straight because I kept wanting to experience it.
Either way. The guy knows you’re a virgin, he’s not going anywhere, but also don’t expect him to have lots of special treatment of you after you let him have sex with you. The reality is he’s too far and it would be unrealistic for you to think because you gave up something he will need to sacrifice and bend over backwards for you- he may stay, he might just want to be friends after, he may come back as often as HE can - this is where heartache could happen for you.
but remember it’s your choice who you want to lose it to. It just depends on how much “weight” you put on losing it.
I'm just confused in those 4 days he visited we only saw each other once and then the other days he was just initiating texts. So I'm confused AF. He did say good bye to me before he left. Why wouldnt he want to meet again before he left? Is he giving me a pouty treatment ? Venus in scorpio or libra talking here?
Well you weren’t ready and he’s a grown man with needs. It’s a cock tease. Even with oral. Scorpio Venus want everything- the whole experience. Oral is like foreplay. You can only do it so many times before you want to be fully satiated.
I don’t know about Libra suns but my Scorpio Venus wants it all. I need the connection that comes with actual sex. The connecting of 2 bodies.
I’d rather not see you until it can happen. Everything else feels like rejection for me. So he might hang in there and be there for you, but he will want the connection. So he will probably just wait until you’re sure and ready. So he can have all of you.
Ok but how wouldn't he know that maybe th4 second time I would have sex? I even told him I would love to see him before he leaves. He just said yes baby and when he texted the next day , no mention on when to meet? He totally ignored this. So he's feeling rejected by me? Is this a way maybe he is letting me go? I mean he already left .
He didn’t know that. The next time he sees you, he will be ready. He was just trying to respect you.
How would he have come off asking if he was going to be getting sex or not? He controlled himself and showed you some respect.
If you’re ready the next time you see him. He may not be so nice lol. Oral will be a small part of what he will want to do with you.
Ok I understand but I guess it hurts me he didnt want to see me before he left. God I wanted to kiss him again. I mean the chemistry was insane. From all the men I met this was a little different. I think I'm going crazy lol
Yeah. It’s magnetic with Scorpio Venus. People can feel the intensity of it.
What’s your Mars and Venus?
Yes but I know he felt it too.
My mars in Gemini and venus in ariesclick to expand
Well good luck until the next time you see him! Hopefully some Libras can help you out further. 🙃🙂

Posted by Gemini25Posted by LibraSupreme
I'm a libra with venus in scorpio. Tbh were assassins for love. OP if the site was tender then ofcourse sex was intended the other sites I believe is more for dating. With these placements we think every date should have the pleasure to be with us, as if were the only ones to give you the oxytocin.
Back in the day I would have agreed to foreplay knowing you will ask for the full meal.
So it's a good thing I denied intercourse ?click to expand
Yes for now.

Posted by LibraSupremePosted by Gemini25Posted by LibraSupreme
I'm a libra with venus in scorpio. Tbh were assassins for love. OP if the site was tender then ofcourse sex was intended the other sites I believe is more for dating. With these placements we think every date should have the pleasure to be with us, as if were the only ones to give you the oxytocin.
Back in the day I would have agreed to foreplay knowing you will ask for the full meal.
So it's a good thing I denied intercourse ?
Yes for now.click to expand
Did you read what I wrote? What you think of it from a guy perspective? I don’t know how libras are.
Anything to add to help out the OP?
Posted by ClairDeLune
That's my sister's placements and she is very possessive if there's chemistry
In what way? Stalkerish in a way? Like he was?

Posted by saggurl88Posted by LibraSupremePosted by Gemini25Posted by LibraSupreme
I'm a libra with venus in scorpio. Tbh were assassins for love. OP if the site was tender then ofcourse sex was intended the other sites I believe is more for dating. With these placements we think every date should have the pleasure to be with us, as if were the only ones to give you the oxytocin.
Back in the day I would have agreed to foreplay knowing you will ask for the full meal.
So it's a good thing I denied intercourse ?
Yes for now.
Did you read what I wrote? What you think of it from a guy perspective? I don’t know how libras are.
Anything to add to help out the OP?click to expand
Good question we want conversation with the possibility of sex. Sapiosexual style would to entertain us with words. Chemistry wise if we click and grown then I don't see a problem tbh.

Posted by LibraSupremePosted by saggurl88Posted by LibraSupremePosted by Gemini25Posted by LibraSupreme
I'm a libra with venus in scorpio. Tbh were assassins for love. OP if the site was tender then ofcourse sex was intended the other sites I believe is more for dating. With these placements we think every date should have the pleasure to be with us, as if were the only ones to give you the oxytocin.
Back in the day I would have agreed to foreplay knowing you will ask for the full meal.
So it's a good thing I denied intercourse ?
Yes for now.
Did you read what I wrote? What you think of it from a guy perspective? I don’t know how libras are.
Anything to add to help out the OP?
Good question we want conversation with the possibility of sex. Sapiosexual style would to entertain us with words. Chemistry wise if we click and grown then I don't see a problem tbh.click to expand
Awww the air sign perspective. So much talking 😝
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by saggurl88Posted by Gemini25Posted by GC10
That’s a very horny Sun/Venus combination.
Don’t give in to their seduction too easily(they are used to this)...let them grovel and pout a bit.
So I did a good thing to deny intercourse?
He’s not gonna go anywhere if he likes you. He will wait it out. We like a little bit of suffering. It makes the prize worth it.
You seem more worried about the hit it and quit it aspect, tbh. Are you worried about that?
Yes!! Exactly that's what I was worried about. The hit and quit plus I'm a virgin and he knows. I told him before he even came.
Oh you’re a Virgin.
Are you seriously ready to lose it to someone who won’t be there for you consistently?
Who’s not gonna be available to you, once you feel connected to him?
It’s your choice not to wait. I don’t know how old you are. I know the age old tale is to wait till marriage- which I won’t say-
BUT you should wait until you love the person and they are at least in the same city as you. Someone who is available for a relationship, this guy isn’t, even if he is super charming and says all the right things.
What’s the rush with this guy? He’s so far and won’t be able to visit a lot.
I mean you’ve seen him once in a whole year.
This could be a pretty big heart break for you.
That's what I mean I wasnt in a rush or else I would of had full blow sex with him. And that's another reason I didnt but we did do oral sex.
How old are you?
25
Oh ok. If your age is true then you’ve waited a while and are adult enough to make decisions about it.
I lost my virginity as a teenager cause I was tired of waiting, people were telling me how good the sex was. (It was nothing like I thought it would be) I was bored by it the first time lol
But I still went back every weekend 4 weeks straight because I kept wanting to experience it.
Either way. The guy knows you’re a virgin, he’s not going anywhere, but also don’t expect him to have lots of special treatment of you after you let him have sex with you. The reality is he’s too far and it would be unrealistic for you to think because you gave up something he will need to sacrifice and bend over backwards for you- he may stay, he might just want to be friends after, he may come back as often as HE can - this is where heartache could happen for you.
but remember it’s your choice who you want to lose it to. It just depends on how much “weight” you put on losing it.
I'm just confused in those 4 days he visited we only saw each other once and then the other days he was just initiating texts. So I'm confused AF. He did say good bye to me before he left. Why wouldnt he want to meet again before he left? Is he giving me a pouty treatment ? Venus in scorpio or libra talking here?
Well you weren’t ready and he’s a grown man with needs. It’s a cock tease. Even with oral. Scorpio Venus want everything- the whole experience. Oral is like foreplay. You can only do it so many times before you want to be fully satiated.
I don’t know about Libra suns but my Scorpio Venus wants it all. I need the connection that comes with actual sex. The connecting of 2 bodies.
I’d rather not see you until it can happen. Everything else feels like rejection for me. So he might hang in there and be there for you, but he will want the connection. So he will probably just wait until you’re sure and ready. So he can have all of you.click to expand
So he texted me today to wish me Happy Thanksgiving and then he said miss your lips. I really dont understand him and why it's easier for him to write me
Posted by GC10
That’s a very horny Sun/Venus combination.
Don’t give in to their seduction too easily(they are used to this)...let them grovel and pout a bit.
He texted me today Happy Thanksgiving and miss your lips. I replied that I miss his touch and he asked me to elaborate on the experience we had. I don't get him...what could this mean? He still is hoping I will give in?
Posted by Jade_Alexander
I need a lot of words to engage me sexually
I dont have casual sex
When I do engage in sexual acts I consume you
The last man I gave oral to beyond impressed
I have to own you mentally/emotionally
So how does this pertain to my story?
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