TxOgal
@TxOgal
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Are all Taurus men SO controlling??
Does he have Scorpio mars?
I forgot to mention that he also brought up that he knew i was hesitant when he proposed to me and that he felt me being hesitant when he told me that he comes from a simple family. And how i'd want a guy who runs a couple of companies n from huge family and all that.
I never mentioned this. I love him deeply and I was intimate with him. I accepted his proposal to me, he just caught me off guard when he said it.
I never mentioned this. I love him deeply and I was intimate with him. I accepted his proposal to me, he just caught me off guard when he said it.
Anger about stuff like that is ridiculous and insane. No not ok.
Posted by TxOgalHow long into the relationship did he propose?
I forgot to mention that he also brought up that he knew i was hesitant when he proposed to me and that he felt me being hesitant when he told me that he comes from a simple family. And how i'd want a guy who runs a couple of companies n from huge family and all that.
I never mentioned this. I love him deeply and I was intimate with him. I accepted his proposal to me, he just caught me off guard when he said it.
I mean...he's being upfront with you and telling you how it's gonna be if you choose to make your life with him.
Can you live with being isolated from the male population, deal with his jealousy, all while accepting that the rules don't apply to him? If so, he's your guy.
Can you live with being isolated from the male population, deal with his jealousy, all while accepting that the rules don't apply to him? If so, he's your guy.
He's telling you he's not gonna change himself for you. What you see is what you get.
From my experience with taurus men, this is not normal.
Posted by The_AndsSee? That's the reason I asked her that question. Of course I was talking about you?
Sounds perfectly normal to me
Posted by The_AndsYou are a ❄️Posted by TeenaI am a special breed of Taurus malePosted by The_AndsSee? That's the reason I asked her that question. Of course I was talking about you?
Sounds perfectly normal to meclick to expand
But yeah... It's not too uncommon.
Youve only just started dating.....you BARELY know this guy and its a LDR. he is already trying to control you. He gets angry at the drop of a hat. It will not get better it will get MUCH worse. I dated a guy like this. He had borderline personality disorder. It was terrifying he was extremely abusive and irrationally jealous and angry. DO NOT get involved with this man. PLEASE. this is not a joke.. He will only hurt you.
Posted by The_AndsPosted by TeenaI am a special breed of Taurus malePosted by The_AndsSee? That's the reason I asked her that question. Of course I was talking about you?
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This is not normal.this is the makings of an abusive relationship.
Posted by Scorpio123"Think abuse like."
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Mmmm girl, you gotta run! Run for the hills. What a misogynet! This isn't cute or adorable or coming from a loving place, he's so insecure and lame and that is control, ugly.
If it's not cute now, it'll be 20 times LESS cute once you're married. Think, abuse like.
So true...
Posted by The_AndsDude.... EwPosted by boxcarmirnta?Posted by The_AndsPosted by TeenaI am a special breed of Taurus malePosted by The_AndsSee? That's the reason I asked her that question. Of course I was talking about you?
Sounds perfectly normal to me
This is not normal.this is the makings of an abusive relationship.
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Yuck. Sounds like my virgo ex who I was in a LDR with ?? run!!!
And no this is not normal for a Taurus. My bf is a Taurus and is not controlling
And no this is not normal for a Taurus. My bf is a Taurus and is not controlling
Posted by TxOgalWhere is his moon?
He has pisces marsPosted by Teena
Does he have Scorpio mars?click to expand
Posted by TheScorpionicGypseeHis moon is in Cancer ..Posted by TxOgalWhere is his moon?
He has pisces marsPosted by Teena
Does he have Scorpio mars?click to expand
Posted by The_AndsOh my... This movie is scarey to mePosted by boxcarmirnta?Posted by The_AndsPosted by TeenaI am a special breed of Taurus malePosted by The_AndsSee? That's the reason I asked her that question. Of course I was talking about you?
Sounds perfectly normal to me
This is not normal.this is the makings of an abusive relationship.
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Posted by LadyNeptune3rd month .. Everything was happening so fast we both realize that and we both knew from the beginning that we are looking for a serious relationship .. It sucks I already love him immensely .. It is sad that things are taking this turn now.Posted by TxOgalHow long into the relationship did he propose?
I forgot to mention that he also brought up that he knew i was hesitant when he proposed to me and that he felt me being hesitant when he told me that he comes from a simple family. And how i'd want a guy who runs a couple of companies n from huge family and all that.
I never mentioned this. I love him deeply and I was intimate with him. I accepted his proposal to me, he just caught me off guard when he said it.click to expand
If you love that thing of a male then you really need to check your standards and once you've done that you need to check yourself into a mental home.
Stop excusing his behaviour by saying you don't need male friends anyway, and that he makes you happy some of the time just because you have a few things in common.
You fucked each other a few times, now you're forming some kind of emotional attachment to someone who, when you breakdown his qualities, isn't particularly nice at all.
Yet you want to marry it?
Your funeral. Literally, because this is how these things start out. Next you'll be covering up your bruises and telling people how clumsy you are because you walked into the door.
Stop being so fucked up. You're a Taurus. Where's your self esteem gone?
Stop excusing his behaviour by saying you don't need male friends anyway, and that he makes you happy some of the time just because you have a few things in common.
You fucked each other a few times, now you're forming some kind of emotional attachment to someone who, when you breakdown his qualities, isn't particularly nice at all.
Yet you want to marry it?
Your funeral. Literally, because this is how these things start out. Next you'll be covering up your bruises and telling people how clumsy you are because you walked into the door.
Stop being so fucked up. You're a Taurus. Where's your self esteem gone?
Posted by TxOgalPosted by LadyNeptune3rd month .. Everything was happening so fast we both realize that and we both knew from the beginning that we are looking for a serious relationship .. It sucks I already love him immensely .. It is sad that things are taking this turn now.Posted by TxOgalHow long into the relationship did he propose?
I forgot to mention that he also brought up that he knew i was hesitant when he proposed to me and that he felt me being hesitant when he told me that he comes from a simple family. And how i'd want a guy who runs a couple of companies n from huge family and all that.
I never mentioned this. I love him deeply and I was intimate with him. I accepted his proposal to me, he just caught me off guard when he said it.click to expand
Moving so fast is always a huge red flag for me.
See point 2
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/pamela-jacobs/early-warning-signs-of-an_b_6009076.html
Posted by jeaneHow sad .... Emotional abuse! I know hes controlling ...but hmm now i see some more signs and it sucks how this is truePosted by TxOgalPosted by LadyNeptune3rd month .. Everything was happening so fast we both realize that and we both knew from the beginning that we are looking for a serious relationship .. It sucks I already love him immensely .. It is sad that things are taking this turn now.Posted by TxOgalHow long into the relationship did he propose?
I forgot to mention that he also brought up that he knew i was hesitant when he proposed to me and that he felt me being hesitant when he told me that he comes from a simple family. And how i'd want a guy who runs a couple of companies n from huge family and all that.
I never mentioned this. I love him deeply and I was intimate with him. I accepted his proposal to me, he just caught me off guard when he said it.
Moving so fast is always a huge red flag for me.
See point 2
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/pamela-jacobs/early-warning-signs-of-an_b_6009076.html
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Posted by SimsimiI think big part of it is culture.... Because I talked to a couple of married friends about it, and they tell me how they argued with their husband about that too .. that their wife shouldnt ask them where they going n how they want their wife all to themselves. It is a common thing, but i thought hes different ... 😢 but his controlling behavior is already scaring me now, i dont want to spend the rest of my life being controlled while he does as he pleases ...thats not fair at all..
Yes, some taurus men get like that. When it gets bad, everything is not always rosy. You call them out on it or move on from them. Don't key into that angelic BS.
Some taurus men go over board and become this annoying.
Its all cute initially and shit but don't get it twisted.
Sometimes, they don't want you to have male friends and most times it's ridiculous then again culture could play into it too, upbringing, past experiences.
I'm not saying you should stay in this, im saying a huge percentage of people do this and lie about it in public. Don't believe the hype
Posted by TxOgalPosted by jeaneHow sad .... Emotional abuse! I know hes controlling ...but hmm now i see some more signs and it sucks how this is truePosted by TxOgalPosted by LadyNeptune3rd month .. Everything was happening so fast we both realize that and we both knew from the beginning that we are looking for a serious relationship .. It sucks I already love him immensely .. It is sad that things are taking this turn now.Posted by TxOgalHow long into the relationship did he propose?
I forgot to mention that he also brought up that he knew i was hesitant when he proposed to me and that he felt me being hesitant when he told me that he comes from a simple family. And how i'd want a guy who runs a couple of companies n from huge family and all that.
I never mentioned this. I love him deeply and I was intimate with him. I accepted his proposal to me, he just caught me off guard when he said it.
Moving so fast is always a huge red flag for me.
See point 2
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/pamela-jacobs/early-warning-signs-of-an_b_6009076.html
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just be careful. these things start off small and so innocent looking you can easily excuse them away.
its only been 4 months. not 40 years. at the very least you should slow things right down and be sure to stand your ground.
if it's cultural for him, it's going to be incredibly difficult to challenge and really do you want to spend all your time doing that? it's going to be either a case of constantly arguing or giving in. either option is exhausting. my advice would be to cut your losses. there are guys who are loving and supportive and emotionally healthy. that's who you deserve in your life.
I think I ended up dating someone who has my dad's bad qualities .... N i thought I wanted someone totally different :/
Problem is bf had so many things that liked about him .... It is shocking to me now that they dont carry any weight against being emotiinally abusive and controlling ....
Uh i am trying to get myself out of the picture and look at this objectively
Problem is bf had so many things that liked about him .... It is shocking to me now that they dont carry any weight against being emotiinally abusive and controlling ....
Uh i am trying to get myself out of the picture and look at this objectively
Posted by TxOgal
I think I ended up dating someone who has my dad's bad qualities .... N i thought I wanted someone totally different :/
Problem is bf had so many things that liked about him .... It is shocking to me now that they dont carry any weight against being emotiinally abusive and controlling ....
Uh i am trying to get myself out of the picture and look at this objectively
What culture are you and him from?
Posted by AgentP911Mid East. It is common that men dont want their woman to talk to other men. But it is not normal to be emotionally abusive.Posted by TxOgal
I think I ended up dating someone who has my dad's bad qualities .... N i thought I wanted someone totally different :/
Problem is bf had so many things that liked about him .... It is shocking to me now that they dont carry any weight against being emotiinally abusive and controlling ....
Uh i am trying to get myself out of the picture and look at this objectively
What culture are you and him from?
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I don't know what. To say so I will let this gif say it for me.....
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Posted by TxOgalPosted by TheScorpionicGypseeHis moon is in Cancer ..Posted by TxOgalWhere is his moon?
He has pisces marsPosted by Teena
Does he have Scorpio mars?
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Lol so was my controlling Virgo ex...
Control is overrated
Posted by TxOgalit's interesting. there is a theory that we will choose partners that are similar to both our parents good and bad traits. the theory goes that we will be drawn to what we are already familiar with.
I think I ended up dating someone who has my dad's bad qualities .... N i thought I wanted someone totally different :/
Problem is bf had so many things that liked about him .... It is shocking to me now that they dont carry any weight against being emotiinally abusive and controlling ....
Uh i am trying to get myself out of the picture and look at this objectively
don't know how much i believe it.
Posted by Scorpio123It is different, in some regions families are more strict than in other regions. I wouldn't tag it as "low class" it makes me cringe cause I believe we are all the same. However, he does come from a more strict region and this is something I thought I can deal with, since he was always trying to be understanding and we always discussed any matters between us. I thought he is different, and being understanding was one of the qualities i cherished about him. Now Im thinking maybe the honeymoon phase is over and our true colours are showing..Posted by TxOgalI grew up in the Middle East too so I know what it's like, this isn't a normal common Middle East trait, sorry. Yes men get jealous easier but they understand not every man out there is looking to fuck their women!Posted by AgentP911Mid East. It is common that men dont want their woman to talk to other men. But it is not normal to be emotionally abusive.Posted by TxOgal
I think I ended up dating someone who has my dad's bad qualities .... N i thought I wanted someone totally different :/
Problem is bf had so many things that liked about him .... It is shocking to me now that they dont carry any weight against being emotiinally abusive and controlling ....
Uh i am trying to get myself out of the picture and look at this objectively
What culture are you and him from?
You also need to know what class he's from, no offense to him but only low class Middle easterns think that way cause they've zero self confidence so they need to belittle everyone.click to expand
Posted by SimsimiIt is common cause even in the most modernized regions, many people still have this trait "the man has the last say" and I believe this will not be avoidable in my culture. No matter how much I oppose it. But well I loved so many things about him that I even knew he's jealous, bad tempered at times and controlling, and still loved him. Maybe cause I thought I won't find any man as loyal, honest and trustful as he is, which are the most important qualities to me. I have been cheated on before and lied to. And I dont like secretive men. Bf was different .... Sigh it seems they are all the same. Men just like to be secretive eh..
I think growing up there and being from there are two very different things.
Loads of my middle eastern friends say the men are like this , so its the culture. Perhaps there sre some with traits not this bad ?
Posted by TxOgalPosted by AgentP911Mid East. It is common that men dont want their woman to talk to other men. But it is not normal to be emotionally abusive.Posted by TxOgal
I think I ended up dating someone who has my dad's bad qualities .... N i thought I wanted someone totally different :/
Problem is bf had so many things that liked about him .... It is shocking to me now that they dont carry any weight against being emotiinally abusive and controlling ....
Uh i am trying to get myself out of the picture and look at this objectively
What culture are you and him from?
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Yeah, I thought as much. I've been in a relationship with an Arab, it lasted six months. The selfish, childish, controlling, domineering etc behaviour didn't suit me at all.
Posted by AgentP911I am sorry that you had such bad experience too... I think it is common but some of them are not like that.. My ex wasnt controlling but was still selfish and a liar..Posted by TxOgalPosted by AgentP911Mid East. It is common that men dont want their woman to talk to other men. But it is not normal to be emotionally abusive.Posted by TxOgal
I think I ended up dating someone who has my dad's bad qualities .... N i thought I wanted someone totally different :/
Problem is bf had so many things that liked about him .... It is shocking to me now that they dont carry any weight against being emotiinally abusive and controlling ....
Uh i am trying to get myself out of the picture and look at this objectively
What culture are you and him from?
Yeah, I thought as much. I've been in a relationship with an Arab, it lasted six months. The selfish, childish, controlling, domineering etc behaviour didn't suit me at all.click to expand
Posted by TxOgalPosted by AgentP911I am sorry that you had such bad experience too... I think it is common but some of them are not like that.. My ex wasnt controlling but was still selfish and a liar..Posted by TxOgalPosted by AgentP911Mid East. It is common that men dont want their woman to talk to other men. But it is not normal to be emotionally abusive.Posted by TxOgal
I think I ended up dating someone who has my dad's bad qualities .... N i thought I wanted someone totally different :/
Problem is bf had so many things that liked about him .... It is shocking to me now that they dont carry any weight against being emotiinally abusive and controlling ....
Uh i am trying to get myself out of the picture and look at this objectively
What culture are you and him from?
Yeah, I thought as much. I've been in a relationship with an Arab, it lasted six months. The selfish, childish, controlling, domineering etc behaviour didn't suit me at all.
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Meh, there were good bits but overall I couldn't continue as it would have got worse. I think, underneath, a lot of them are like this. Conditioned to think they are better, more important, rule over you just because they have a penis!
Posted by The_AndsThanksPosted by AgentP911Wow good catchPosted by TxOgalPosted by AgentP911Mid East. It is common that men dont want their woman to talk to other men. But it is not normal to be emotionally abusive.Posted by TxOgal
I think I ended up dating someone who has my dad's bad qualities .... N i thought I wanted someone totally different :/
Problem is bf had so many things that liked about him .... It is shocking to me now that they dont carry any weight against being emotiinally abusive and controlling ....
Uh i am trying to get myself out of the picture and look at this objectively
What culture are you and him from?
Yeah, I thought as much.click to expand
Posted by tiziani
I like being written off for my culture though. "Exotic other" romance.
You're welcome. Don't worry though, there's arseholes in every culture, gender, age group etc. Some cultures/people just don't fit well together.
Posted by tizianiWhat culture is that? Where are you from?
I like being written off for my culture though. "Exotic other" romance.
It's not jealousy...its possessiveness... Taurus don't like people touching their "stuff"
That is all. Carry on.
That is all. Carry on.
Run. Run Away! I dated a guy like this and I was miserable after a while
Posted by TxOgal
He has pisces mars
Taurus Sun...Pisces Mars here.
We're the least aggressive of the Taurus natives.
Before I decide to take action, There are two decisions to make, stay & fight or simply swim away.
If the Bull is assertive, you're worth keeping. If the Fish swims away, you're forgotten about forever.
I would never coerce an individual into making a decision which is why he's leaving that decision to you.
We're passive like that....but also unapolgetic in this aspect.
As inflexible as this pairing may appear (Taurus Sun, Pisces Mars), it's still the most empathetic/passive pairing of all the Taurus combos. You will most likely take the reigns of this relationship, so misogyny is clearly not the dilemma. This means that he will tune you out before he argues with you. This placemement is known for indirect aggression. If you are confronted, this may not end well.
The problem here isn't misogyny. He's insecure....and may have dealt with some infidelity in the past regarding women and 'so-called' male friends. Being a typical Pisces Mars, he may have brushed it off and went with the flow, and once he confronted the situation, it probably didn't end too well.
This is probably why he's telling you up front. Deal with it now or keep it pushing.
Nothing to analyze really.
I don't see potential abuse here.
I disagree with most of the posters.
Abusers don't give you an opportunity to walk away.
They take away your options through ' perfect guy masks' and manipulation, wait until you're emotionally soldified with them....and then BOOM! the masks comes down!
His is clearly giving her the opportunity to walk away.
No masks.
No pretenses.
I disagree with most of the posters.
Abusers don't give you an opportunity to walk away.
They take away your options through ' perfect guy masks' and manipulation, wait until you're emotionally soldified with them....and then BOOM! the masks comes down!
His is clearly giving her the opportunity to walk away.
No masks.
No pretenses.
Posted by TxOgalDoes this sound like someone attempting to control you...
Said he wont change and its up to me to accept him with his flaws n that I should make up my mind before talking to him.
Or someone giving you the opportunity to reconsider your decision and to walk away?
I really don't understand how this thread became sidetracked to the topic of abuse.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Im not saying hes controlling for leaving me to side.... I meant for controlling whom i talk to and there are other signs that made me think hes trying to control me even if indirectlyPosted by TxOgalDoes this sound like someone attempting to control you...
Said he wont change and its up to me to accept him with his flaws n that I should make up my mind before talking to him.
Or someone giving you the opportunity to reconsider your decision and to walk away?
I really don't understand how this thread became sidetracked to the topic of abuse.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977That makes three of us then 🙂Posted by TxOgal
He has pisces mars
Taurus Sun...Pisces Mars here.
We're the least aggressive of the Taurus natives.
Before I decide to take action, There are two decisions to make, stay & fight or simply swim away.
If the Bull is assertive, you're worth keeping. If the Fish swims away, you're forgotten about forever.
I would never coerce an individual into making a decision which is why he's leaving that decision to you.
We're passive like that....but also unapolgetic in this aspect.
As inflexible as this pairing may appear (Taurus Sun, Pisces Mars), it's still the most empathetic/passive pairing of all the Taurus combos. You will most likely take the reigns of this relationship, so misogyny is clearly not the dilemma. This means that he will tune you out before he argues with you. This placemement is known for indirect aggression. If you are confronted, this may not end well.
The problem here isn't misogyny. He's insecure....and may have dealt with some infidelity in the past regarding women and 'so-called' male friends. Being a typical Pisces Mars, he may have brushed it off and went with the flow, and once he confronted the situation, it probably didn't end too well.
This is probably why he's telling you up front. Deal with it now or keep it pushing.
Nothing to analyze really.click to expand
Posted by tizianiAwwww ok. Lemme know when I can come visit Trinidad and Tobago. ??Posted by saggurl88Haha the short version is I'm half English half Trinidadian.Posted by tizianiWhat culture is that? Where are you from?
I like being written off for my culture though. "Exotic other" romance.
The Trini side makes it a longer story 😛click to expand
I love the Caribbean??
Posted by tizianiNo I haven't been there yet. Just other parts of the Caribbean.Posted by saggurl88Haha you've been? what part did you go to?Posted by tizianiAwwww ok. Lemme know when I can come visit Trinidad and Tobago. ??Posted by saggurl88Haha the short version is I'm half English half Trinidadian.Posted by tizianiWhat culture is that? Where are you from?
I like being written off for my culture though. "Exotic other" romance.
The Trini side makes it a longer story 😛
I love the Caribbean??
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But like a typical Sag, I love immersing myself in the culture. I want to live at a host house and visit. Eat local food, go to the dancehall clubs where they only hold up lighters for the dancers, whine, and drink!
Take me with you if you go! ?
Posted by tizianiPosted by saggurl88Which parts did you go to? To me there's no better place than St. Lucia. Trinidad is fun too still, but a little sketchy nowadays. People got rich there, the money didn't go around to everyone so naturally the crime went up.Posted by tizianiNo I haven't been there yet. Just other parts of the Caribbean.Posted by saggurl88Haha you've been? what part did you go to?Posted by tizianiAwwww ok. Lemme know when I can come visit Trinidad and Tobago. ??Posted by saggurl88Haha the short version is I'm half English half Trinidadian.Posted by tizianiWhat culture is that? Where are you from?
I like being written off for my culture though. "Exotic other" romance.
The Trini side makes it a longer story 😛
I love the Caribbean??
But like a typical Sag, I love immersing myself in the culture. I want to live at a host house and visit. Eat local food, go to the dancehall clubs where they only hold up lighters for the dancers, whine, and drink!
Take me with you if you go! ?
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Lol Tiz bagged himself a date!
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Obviously everything was going amazingly well, although we had some arguments before that we managed to discuss and resolve them every time, and I always thought this is part of any relationship and that most days I was feeling happy, loved and cared for in ways that I admire. We also have so many things in common, so that too always brings us closer again.
Now comes the ugly part.. He is extremely jealous and ofcourse it started subtly, like not wanting me to hang out with guy friends, and not chatting with them. Once he even got angry at me cause a guy friend called me n I didnt pick up (which he apologized about after me standing my ground and telling him nothing is my fault here and ge told me to promise him not to let himself ruin our relationship). But to that extent he gets jealous!!
First I thought I can put up with it and that I dont have guy friends anyway, they are mostl ppl i just know/met throughout my life. Now, a new thing! He tells me he doesnt want me to talk to any guy even if hes a work colleague, even if we talk about work. But, he can do that, he's a man after all. Evenmore he tells me he doesnt need to tell me where hes at or who he meets, but I HAVE TO.l, cause i'm a woman. Well..... This is nonsense to me and even when I tried to calmly convince him by my point of view, he was so stubborn and couldnt comprehend what im saying. Said he wont change and its up to me to accept him with his flaws n that I should make up my mind before talking to him.
P.S. He was already mad which i figured later, he had a problem with his family that day, but still I think that is his opinion anyway even if he was in a good mood.
Is this normal? TAURUS MEN a little help here?