How come Taurus like to friend zone people? I got told I’m a coo chick maybe the future has something in hold for us but we’ll see? Told me I’ll make a great wife to someone one day and a good mother. I can’t be what you want me to be and I just want to be happy one day. We messed around for a year but then he called me fwb ? Wth but saying it’s not bout sex. What’s up with that ?
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Sounds like it's pretty straight forward but idk Tauruses like that...so idk

IME bulls will commit if they want you in their life.
My ex bull wanted me to commit right away like 2 weeks into dating. He asked me what we were and I was like "uhm we're seeing each other right?" he said "No, we're bf and gf and we're updating relationship status on FB" and the rest was history. LOL
Your bull just doesn't see himself being with you long term and just like @LostinmyMind11 said, he was pretty straight forward. Best you move on from this guy and find someone who wants to be in a relationship with you.
My ex bull wanted me to commit right away like 2 weeks into dating. He asked me what we were and I was like "uhm we're seeing each other right?" he said "No, we're bf and gf and we're updating relationship status on FB" and the rest was history. LOL
Your bull just doesn't see himself being with you long term and just like @LostinmyMind11 said, he was pretty straight forward. Best you move on from this guy and find someone who wants to be in a relationship with you.
Thank you. He says it’s not me he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with anyone but got mad I didn’t want to be friends with him. He was possessive and aggressive but he’s long term in my life because I’m going to be having his baby.
I got deleted off every social media except Facebook. I’m due in a few months and he kept saying the baby isn’t his. But why tell your family you got a baby on the way if you don’t want nothing to do with my child. We stopped hooking up after I find out I was pregnant. He got mad I didn’t want nothing to do with him because he wanted an abortion. So I told him I didn’t want a relationship with him he’s mad because he said he thought we was cool. I couldn’t pretend that I was happy because I wasn’t.
Posted by MadHatterLeo. With a Taurus moon.
OP, what's your sign?
Why care if I was seeing someone else. He told me he liked me but I don’t know it’s all because he got rejected ? It’s confusing. One minute he wanted an abortion but he’ll ask how me and the baby is. I haven’t talked to him in a few months due to a huge argument. I told him to leave me alone. So he said if that’s what you want.

Yikes...this just got all kinds of complicated.
Good luck OP
Good luck OP

Posted by PurtyWingzFly2Whoa you're preggers? And he's walking away? This douche doesn't want responsibility. WTF. Deserves a kick up in the jacksies.
I got deleted off every social media except Facebook. I’m due in a few months and he kept saying the baby isn’t his. But why tell your family you got a baby on the way if you don’t want nothing to do with my child. We stopped hooking up after I find out I was pregnant. He got mad I didn’t want nothing to do with him because he wanted an abortion. So I told him I didn’t want a relationship with him he’s mad because he said he thought we was cool. I couldn’t pretend that I was happy because I wasn’t.
That’s why he said all this. But when I told him I was pregnant he said we can’t have a kid we need to handle it. So I told him I don’t want a relationship with him he asked how we gonna co parent. You be there for our daughter is what I’m worried bout. He called me selfish for keeping her and got mad my guy friend was around. He was going to go to a few appointments with me. He used to call me all the time blow up my phone asking what I’m doing where I’m at who I’m with but he said if he was out here looking for some it’s his business but I’m like ok why are you calling me and telling me that? He said we aren’t together anyways. So is he mad I rejected him or what ? He kept telling me things I don’t know to get an reaction out of me but saying it has nothing to do with sex. But why he used to call me and try to talk sexual to me saying no other guy gonna f you like I do. Wth is wrong with him —

You've been obsessing over the social media stuff for months already, and saying the same thing for at least 2 months.
I told him I was walking out of his life he begged me not to and got mad I didn’t want to be his friend. I think it hurts cause I knew him for three years and I just can’t believe somethings he says or does. I’m lost if he thought he was in a relationship or what ? He used to tell me I wasn’t going anywhere. But I know Taurus can see you as a possession. He told me I was his and he’s daddy. He tried to take me out to eat I declined the offer. So he said I shitted on him after he told me how he felt.
Posted by nikkistarObsessed? Girl bye. He’s my baby daddy and I can talk bout what I want. So ?? Why comment ??
You've been obsessing over the social media stuff for months already, and saying the same thing for at least 2 months.

Posted by PurtyWingzFly2Cause you obsess about the same detail over and over.Posted by nikkistar
You've been obsessing over the social media stuff for months already, and saying the same thing for at least 2 months.
Obsessed? Girl bye. He’s my baby daddy and I can talk bout what I want. So ?? Why comment ?? click to expandclick to expand
I'm gonna bet you're just a troll account. Cause if you aren't, then you're just another chick that thought getting pregnant would keep a dude with you.

if the dude is the father of your child, its in your best interest, and the baby's, to maintain some sort of at least minimally cordial friendship IMO....I would totally put aside any notion of a romantic relationship though....dude is highly selfish/immature if he's angry and was trying to manipulate you around your decision to have the child....pretty gross....try to put the drama betw. you two on the shelf though, and look at him through the eyes of your future child....inspire him however you can to be there for the kid....
I’m trying to get my mental right because I do got to deal with him for the sake of my child. And tbh no I haven’t obsess over the situation but I don’t want him popping up in n out of my life with his negativity. I don’t know if he thinks he got control but he don’t.
Posted by HoovesofTopazPosted by DeleterNerdPosted by PurtyWingzFly2Posted by MadHatter
OP, what's your sign?
Leo. With a Taurus moon. click to expand
Are you Ands girlfriend? click to expand
Lmaooooo
Oh god that’s good click to expandclick to expand
No?

Posted by DeleterNerdbah!
Taurtles are terrible fathers gurrrrl you can do this by yourself.

Posted by DeleterNerdI'll tell you some stories about my Virgo mom one day lol...Posted by Metatron😬 hiPosted by DeleterNerd
Taurtles are terrible fathers gurrrrl you can do this by yourself.
bah! click to expand
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Posted by DeleterNerdTaurtles? Lol 😂
Taurtles are terrible fathers gurrrrl you can do this by yourself.

Posted by DeleterNerdtaurtles! aaahahahahah....that is great...
Weirgos and taurtles the new pokemon.

Posted by DeleterNerddude...judging from reading some of your comments lately, particularly around possession, I think you either had a legit soul-merger with that bull in the past, or you are cloaking cuz you're on the hunt lol....either way, you seem to know the sign very well....Posted by MetatronI like taurtles 😊 click to expandPosted by DeleterNerd
Weirgos and taurtles the new pokemon.
taurtles! aaahahahahah....that is great... click to expandclick to expand

Posted by nikkistari thought she was diamondnurse in the beginning. do you remember her? she was with her bull for 3 years in an fwb relationship. he used to drive by her house all the time. broke up. got together. ad nauseum. she started sleeping with other guys. he got mad. she went back to sleeping with him. got knocked up. he wanted an abortion. she refused and said she was going to raise the child alone.Posted by PurtyWingzFly2Posted by nikkistar
You've been obsessing over the social media stuff for months already, and saying the same thing for at least 2 months.
Obsessed? Girl bye. He’s my baby daddy and I can talk bout what I want. So ?? Why comment ?? click to expand
Cause you obsess about the same detail over and over.
I'm gonna bet you're just a troll account. Cause if you aren't, then you're just another chick that thought getting pregnant would keep a dude with you. click to expandclick to expand
we had the same one track thread over and over for at least two years.

Posted by DeleterNerdLOL...I believe it. One of my best friends is actually Virgal with Cancer Moon (Libra Venus though). I clicked with her from the first second. She is hawwwt too. She trusts me and asks me to babysit her kid, bakes and cooks shit for me and will just randomly drop it off. She's amazing. I agree with a lot of what you say about the Virgo/Taurus connection. We were both in relationships when we met, that are now over, but we definitely both wanted to be a part of each other's lives from the first second; it was obvious. Thing is, her ex is another Virgo, who lives 3 houses down from me...lol, and I am good friends with him as well, so nothing could ever happen. But the whole time when we would all hang out, the chemistry was pretty insane, but still....so much respect there so lines were never crossed.Posted by MetatronWhy do taurtles always susp me? This is really me! "I am your living, breathing jane eyre novel"!!Posted by DeleterNerdPosted by MetatronPosted by DeleterNerd
Weirgos and taurtles the new pokemon.
taurtles! aaahahahahah....that is great... click to expand
I like taurtles 😊 click to expand
dude...judging from reading some of your comments lately, particularly around possession, I think you either had a legit soul-merger with that bull in the past, or you are cloaking cuz you're on the hunt lol....either way, you seem to know the sign very well.... click to expand
Like I'm super manipulative with everyone else, but I can be me with taurs because they dont let me crash and burn with embarrassment lol. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by DeleterNerdlol....on some level I hate that shit though....its hard being a dude feeling things like that....you just feel like a punk, freeze up and get shy....I do anyway...
I remember the last few times I saw that bull, my heart never beat so fast and loud just standing still. Probably would have had a heart attack if I stuck around. No one should love someone that much so I hired Mexico to build a wall around me with a sign that says no taurtles allowed and made them pay for it

Posted by DeleterNerdlol, call me gay but I'm more like that other bull who would watch her take a shower and not make a move....Posted by MetatronIve thought it through and I really think you need to dominate that virgal. We're horrible initiators... click to expandPosted by DeleterNerd
I remember the last few times I saw that bull, my heart never beat so fast and loud just standing still. Probably would have had a heart attack if I stuck around. No one should love someone that much so I hired Mexico to build a wall around me with a sign that says no taurtles allowed and made them pay for it
lol....on some level I hate that butter though....its hard being a dude feeling things like that....you just feel like a punk, freeze up and get shy....I do anyway... click to expandclick to expand
the thing with her for real is, I've already observed her in her relationship for so long, I know it wouldn't work out....She cheated on her ex twice when he wasn't meeting her emotional needs, and we're both actually very domineering in our relationships. I never want to get into combative situations with a Virgo...you folks can be sooooo cold if you need to be, and I can never back down....I'd rather have strong friendship over a short-lived relationship that ends with hard feelings....
I don't know why people can't relate to this. I've felt like this a lot - I respect/value the friendship too much to destroy it by attempting a romance....The "friendzone" for me, is just trying to preserve what's good and works....

I'm calling bullshit on this whole taurus/virgo deal...

Posted by DeleterNerdwhen we would drink together, I could feel the danger...especially with music involved....lol....potential for dick grab felt really high on a camping trip we took once....only chick whoever did that to me was actually Virgo Moon lol....definitely hard to forget it....
Except the dick grabbing ones I guess...but I'm more of a "follow me so I can lead you down a maze into your doom" type. But building that up with a taurus is the most magical experience ever. They'll jump you eventually 😂

Posted by MetatronPosted by DeleterNerdPosted by MetatronPosted by DeleterNerd
I remember the last few times I saw that bull, my heart never beat so fast and loud just standing still. Probably would have had a heart attack if I stuck around. No one should love someone that much so I hired Mexico to build a wall around me with a sign that says no taurtles allowed and made them pay for it
lol....on some level I hate that butter though....its hard being a dude feeling things like that....you just feel like a punk, freeze up and get shy....I do anyway... click to expand
Ive thought it through and I really think you need to dominate that virgal. We're horrible initiators... click to expand
lol, call me gay but I'm more like that other bull who would watch her take a shower and not make a move....
the thing with her for real is, I've already observed her in her relationship for so long, I know it wouldn't work out....She cheated on her ex twice when he wasn't meeting her emotional needs, and we're both actually very domineering in our relationships. I never want to get into combative situations with a Virgo...you folks can be sooooo cold if you need to be, and I can never back down....I'd rather have strong friendship over a short-lived relationship that ends with hard feelings....
I don't know why people can't relate to this. I've felt like this a lot - I respect/value the friendship too much to destroy it by attempting a romance....The "friendzone" for me, is just trying to preserve what's good and works.... click to expandclick to expand
that guy was totally different! they met on a dating app, they slept in the same bed, they made out once, she considered him her best friend, and then he watched her bathe!
it's just like julia roberts and rupert everett.
kinda. sort of. not really.
i get the desire to preserve the friendship. that was a significant concern with my bull as well but what if it works and that means you get to grope your best friend on a regular basis?
what if "good" could be "amazing"?

Posted by jeaneyeah, I admit the kissing part threw me off....but I have slept in the same bed with a chick I was highly attracted to, but respected too much to make a move on...different circumstance I suppose though...still, haven't you ever had an attractive friend, you were tempted to hook up with, but then backed off of to preserve the friendship? I would think its pretty common....I'm different though. I don't sleep with someone unless I'm 100% sure I can commit long term....I don't feel like I can be seduced honestly....the sex creates too much of a bond for me, I'm very cautious around giving in just because I'm feeling aroused...
that guy was totally different! they met on a dating app, they slept in the same bed, they made out once, she considered him her best friend, and then he watched her bathe!

Posted by DeleterNerdlol....slide on in anytime....there are a lot of reasons why I'm like that, some are definitely very personal and hard to put out there...Posted by MetatronOmg we need to DM so I can tell you about this bull. He was a little more like this too which made no sense because he was like way cooler than me and I was clearly into him, but you cant be my man unless you show me you're the man aight. So it was difficult. I think I maxed my intrigue levels with him. click to expandPosted by DeleterNerdPosted by MetatronPosted by DeleterNerd
I remember the last few times I saw that bull, my heart never beat so fast and loud just standing still. Probably would have had a heart attack if I stuck around. No one should love someone that much so I hired Mexico to build a wall around me with a sign that says no taurtles allowed and made them pay for it
lol....on some level I hate that butter though....its hard being a dude feeling things like that....you just feel like a punk, freeze up and get shy....I do anyway... click to expand
Ive thought it through and I really think you need to dominate that virgal. We're horrible initiators... click to expand
lol, call me gay but I'm more like that other bull who would watch her take a shower and not make a move....
the thing with her for real is, I've already observed her in her relationship for so long, I know it wouldn't work out....She cheated on her ex twice when he wasn't meeting her emotional needs, and we're both actually very domineering in our relationships. I never want to get into combative situations with a Virgo...you folks can be sooooo cold if you need to be, and I can never back down....I'd rather have strong friendship over a short-lived relationship that ends with hard feelings....
I don't know why people can't relate to this. I've felt like this a lot - I respect/value the friendship too much to destroy it by attempting a romance....The "friendzone" for me, is just trying to preserve what's good and works.... click to expandclick to expand

Posted by MadHatterFor me, the whole stubbornness thing really boils down to this. I'm in my head a lot, I study/observe, sometimes test, and always reason things through. I do tend towards wanting to minimize risk. I know my own values/limitations better than anyone else, so I just tend to make my own decisions and stuff...lol. The end result of the process is me having a very high level of confidence in them. If you want to sway me from a course, you'd really have to reason with me, and I can be persuaded, but chances of you knowing all the factors involved as well as I do are pretty slim. Our communication would have to be really good.
Bulls get a bad wrap for being stubborn, but we're not stubborn in the petty sense most of the time. The stubbornness comes in when we have things that pop up that set our plotted course for life into another direction; also where the dislike of change comes in (except for Windows updates that's shut gets old.. like really, it was fine... leave it alone.. i digress). We will fight anything that could change our set path. click to expand
Sounds hard to believe, and the latest dxp wisdom is that this is a very selfish sign, but if a bull actually cares for you, I think they're often looking out for your best interests as well. Just as an example, I know I'm both possessive and jealous, the latter which no one wants to admit to, and there's just only so much of that I can adjust. I could be crazy about a person and still choose to keep it at friendship, simply because I know I wouldn't be able to handle their nature, and would wind up trying to control them and change who they are due to my own limits. I've been accused of "friendzoning" for that, but really felt I was putting their own needs before my own immediate urges. Another example - sometimes chemistry is super strong but a dynamic is too competitive/argumentative/aggressive, etc. and I know it'll have me in that angry/evil mode, bringing out the worst sides of me all too often. That again, is looking out for the other person as well IMO.

Posted by MetatronPosted by jeane
that guy was totally different! they met on a dating app, they slept in the same bed, they made out once, she considered him her best friend, and then he watched her bathe!
yeah, I admit the kissing part threw me off....but I have slept in the same bed with a chick I was highly attracted to, but respected too much to make a move on...different circumstance I suppose though...still, haven't you ever had an attractive friend, you were tempted to hook up with, but then backed off of to preserve the friendship? I would think its pretty common....I'm different though. I don't sleep with someone unless I'm 100% sure I can commit long term....I don't feel like I can be seduced honestly....the sex creates too much of a bond for me, I'm very cautious around giving in just because I'm feeling aroused... click to expandclick to expand
slept in the same bed every night for years?
no, never tempted enough but yeah, i see your point. for me, the friendship while good is not worth passing up the chance of love. i can always get another friend. [#libraproblems].
you sound a lot like my bull. he is exactly the same so i get it.
but i will say this. i had to push him at the major pivotal points along the way (bloody hell, i am still pushing him now) if you wait until you are 100% certain, all the ducks line up, i's are dotted, t's are crossed, you might miss out on something great. sometimes it is an educated leap of faith. still a leap though. nothing is ever 100% .
and i know why you all seek that out but part of life is dealing with the shitty, painful, disappointing side of it. you can spend your life staying only in the comfort zone where you know the outcome of every decision or you can take a chance of having a life well lived and bet on yourself that whatever happens you're going to be ok.

Posted by jeaneagree on "years"...and pretty much everything else you said....I am sure I've missed out on a lot of great things due to my ways....I think one of the problems is that my comfort zone is really comfortable lol....I always say, pain is usually my greatest, if not only, motivator towards change....and I can definitely relate to your bull in many ways as I know your story pretty well...I used to post here a long time ago, but felt the need to explore the other side of the axis for a bit...too long of a story, but clues everywhere....hahahaPosted by Metatronslept in the same bed every night for years?Posted by jeane
that guy was totally different! they met on a dating app, they slept in the same bed, they made out once, she considered him her best friend, and then he watched her bathe!
yeah, I admit the kissing part threw me off....but I have slept in the same bed with a chick I was highly attracted to, but respected too much to make a move on...different circumstance I suppose though...still, haven't you ever had an attractive friend, you were tempted to hook up with, but then backed off of to preserve the friendship? I would think its pretty common....I'm different though. I don't sleep with someone unless I'm 100% sure I can commit long term....I don't feel like I can be seduced honestly....the sex creates too much of a bond for me, I'm very cautious around giving in just because I'm feeling aroused... click to expand
no, never tempted enough but yeah, i see your point. for me, the friendship while good is not worth passing up the chance of love. i can always get another friend. [#libraproblems].
you sound a lot like my bull. he is exactly the same so i get it.
but i will say this. i had to push him at the major pivotal points along the way (bloody hell, i am still pushing him now) if you wait until you are 100% certain, all the ducks line up, i's are dotted, t's are crossed, you might miss out on something great. sometimes it is an educated leap of faith. still a leap though. nothing is ever 100% .
and i know why you all seek that out but part of life is dealing with the shitty, painful, disappointing side of it. you can spend your life staying only in the comfort zone where you know the outcome of every decision or you can take a chance of having a life well lived and bet on yourself that whatever happens you're going to be ok. click to expandclick to expand

Posted by MadHatteragree on all that....this Virgo too lol....she keeps leaving lasagna and cookie-shaped puzzle pieces on my doorstep, tryin' to fuck up my whole puzzle....Posted by MetatronHaha!Posted by MadHatter
Bulls get a bad wrap for being stubborn, but we're not stubborn in the petty sense most of the time. The stubbornness comes in when we have things that pop up that set our plotted course for life into another direction; also where the dislike of change comes in (except for Windows updates that's shut gets old.. like really, it was fine... leave it alone.. i digress). We will fight anything that could change our set path. click to expand
For me, the whole stubbornness thing really boils down to this. I'm in my head a lot, I study/observe, sometimes test, and always reason things through. I do tend towards wanting to minimize risk. I know my own values/limitations better than anyone else, so I just tend to make my own decisions and stuff...lol. The end result of the process is me having a very high level of confidence in them. If you want to sway me from a course, you'd really have to reason with me, and I can be persuaded, but chances of you knowing all the factors involved as well as I do are pretty slim. Our communication would have to be really good.
Sounds hard to believe, and the latest dxp wisdom is that this is a very selfish sign, but if a bull actually cares for you, I think they're often looking out for your best interests as well. Just as an example, I know I'm both possessive and jealous, the latter which no one wants to admit to, and there's just only so much of that I can adjust. I could be crazy about a person and still choose to keep it at friendship, simply because I know I wouldn't be able to handle their nature, and would wind up trying to control them and change who they are due to my own limits. I've been accused of "friendzoning" for that, but really felt I was putting their own needs before my own immediate urges. Another example - sometimes chemistry is super strong but a dynamic is too competitive/argumentative/aggressive, etc. and I know it'll have me in that angry/evil mode, bringing out the worst sides of me all too often. That again, is looking out for the other person as well IMO. click to expand
Everything you said matches up with what I just posted.. and I'm the same to an extent, I was jealous when I was younger.. but I knda grew out of that.. still possessive though.
But, the knowing the bigger picture in your head and matching up the pieces to get the overall picture in your head is what I was referring to.
Your Virgo: you observed, got the details you need to see where she fits into your life in the bigger picture. She just happens to fall in your 'friendzone' of the picture.
Honestly, I think this is why I've always been in LTR with Virgos. They are very detail oriented (not in the sense of the can see a lint ball from across the room - more in the they see each puzzle piece as a little picture within itself) and if they know what the bigger picture is they love to be a part of it and find things that fit into it that we'd often over look or dismiss.
Once we make up our mind that that's where that piece needs to fit... it's hard to change it.. not impossible.. we are reasonable. click to expandclick to expand
alright...time for lunch....

Posted by jeaneI do remember diamondnurse. But I also think its just one or two users that are bored af, and logging onto a different troll account daily to post ridiculous stories, trying to stir up drama.Posted by nikkistarPosted by PurtyWingzFly2Posted by nikkistar
You've been obsessing over the social media stuff for months already, and saying the same thing for at least 2 months.
Obsessed? Girl bye. He’s my baby daddy and I can talk bout what I want. So ?? Why comment ?? click to expand
Cause you obsess about the same detail over and over.
I'm gonna bet you're just a troll account. Cause if you aren't, then you're just another chick that thought getting pregnant would keep a dude with you. click to expand
i thought she was diamondnurse in the beginning. do you remember her? she was with her bull for 3 years in an fwb relationship. he used to drive by her house all the time. broke up. got together. ad nauseum. she started sleeping with other guys. he got mad. she went back to sleeping with him. got knocked up. he wanted an abortion. she refused and said she was going to raise the child alone.
we had the same one track thread over and over for at least two years. click to expandclick to expand

You have an interesting definition of friend zone op. I would have called it dodging the baby momma zone.

Posted by MetatronPosted by jeanePosted by MetatronPosted by jeane
that guy was totally different! they met on a dating app, they slept in the same bed, they made out once, she considered him her best friend, and then he watched her bathe!
yeah, I admit the kissing part threw me off....but I have slept in the same bed with a chick I was highly attracted to, but respected too much to make a move on...different circumstance I suppose though...still, haven't you ever had an attractive friend, you were tempted to hook up with, but then backed off of to preserve the friendship? I would think its pretty common....I'm different though. I don't sleep with someone unless I'm 100% sure I can commit long term....I don't feel like I can be seduced honestly....the sex creates too much of a bond for me, I'm very cautious around giving in just because I'm feeling aroused... click to expand
slept in the same bed every night for years?
no, never tempted enough but yeah, i see your point. for me, the friendship while good is not worth passing up the chance of love. i can always get another friend. [#libraproblems].
you sound a lot like my bull. he is exactly the same so i get it.
but i will say this. i had to push him at the major pivotal points along the way (bloody hell, i am still pushing him now) if you wait until you are 100% certain, all the ducks line up, i's are dotted, t's are crossed, you might miss out on something great. sometimes it is an educated leap of faith. still a leap though. nothing is ever 100% .
and i know why you all seek that out but part of life is dealing with the shitty, painful, disappointing side of it. you can spend your life staying only in the comfort zone where you know the outcome of every decision or you can take a chance of having a life well lived and bet on yourself that whatever happens you're going to be ok. click to expand
agree on "years"...and pretty much everything else you said....I am sure I've missed out on a lot of great things due to my ways....I think one of the problems is that my comfort zone is really comfortable lol....I always say, pain is usually my greatest, if not only, motivator towards change....and I can definitely relate to your bull in many ways as I know your story pretty well...I used to post here a long time ago, but felt the need to explore the other side of the axis for a bit...too long of a story, but clues everywhere....hahaha click to expandclick to expand
if you are who i think you are, and i think you are, welcome back. it's nice to see you. your presence was missed.

Posted by MadHatterPosted by jeanePosted by MetatronPosted by jeane
that guy was totally different! they met on a dating app, they slept in the same bed, they made out once, she considered him her best friend, and then he watched her bathe!
yeah, I admit the kissing part threw me off....but I have slept in the same bed with a chick I was highly attracted to, but respected too much to make a move on...different circumstance I suppose though...still, haven't you ever had an attractive friend, you were tempted to hook up with, but then backed off of to preserve the friendship? I would think its pretty common....I'm different though. I don't sleep with someone unless I'm 100% sure I can commit long term....I don't feel like I can be seduced honestly....the sex creates too much of a bond for me, I'm very cautious around giving in just because I'm feeling aroused... click to expand
slept in the same bed every night for years?
no, never tempted enough but yeah, i see your point. for me, the friendship while good is not worth passing up the chance of love. i can always get another friend. [#libraproblems].
you sound a lot like my bull. he is exactly the same so i get it.
but i will say this. i had to push him at the major pivotal points along the way (bloody hell, i am still pushing him now) if you wait until you are 100% certain, all the ducks line up, i's are dotted, t's are crossed, you might miss out on something great. sometimes it is an educated leap of faith. still a leap though. nothing is ever 100% .
and i know why you all seek that out but part of life is dealing with the butterty, painful, disappointing side of it. you can spend your life staying only in the comfort zone where you know the outcome of every decision or you can take a chance of having a life well lived and bet on yourself that whatever happens you're going to be ok. click to expand
You're exactly right! Chaos is hard for all earth signs I think. And that's what not having control over things kinda implies - leaving things up to chance and possible chaos. It's hard to just fall back and have confidence in oneself enough to trust they can make it through anything with what's between their ears. Sometimes chaos is just a chance to grow. click to expandclick to expand
yes, and i know how terrifying that can be. it is! even for air it is frightening but shit man, what's the alternative?
my favourite all time quote


Posted by NevamoreNo he has Taurus Venus, Cancer Mars and Sag MoonPosted by Dolluxxe
IME bulls will commit if they want you in their life.
My ex bull wanted me to commit right away like 2 weeks into dating. He asked me what we were and I was like "uhm we're seeing each other right?" he said "No, we're bf and gf and we're updating relationship status on FB" and the rest was history. LOL
Your bull just doesn't see himself being with you long term and just like @LostinmyMind11 said, he was pretty straight forward. Best you move on from this guy and find someone who wants to be in a relationship with you.
Does your bull have venus in aries? click to expandclick to expand

Posted by DeleterNerdlol...suuuuch a punk...I'll go back and hide my responses but.... how are we on an astrology website, which most of us believe in to a degree but is pretty much the definition of pseudoscience, yet people are shy to talk about "psi" phenomenon which are on way stronger grounds. CIA had a whole program dedicated to remote viewing during the cold war ran by respected physicists, the directors of which have now declassified the results, which are very impressive...telepathy experiments with emotionally bonded people are on much better grounds than that, some replicated thousands of times now....I'm sending you homework in the DMs....
I'm definitely hiding all of that nonsense btw. But lets talk about the telepathy thing some more sometime lol.
Posted by MadHatterPosted by PurtyWingzFly2
I got deleted off every social media except Facebook. I’m due in a few months and he kept saying the baby isn’t his. But why tell your family you got a baby on the way if you don’t want nothing to do with my child. We stopped hooking up after I find out I was pregnant. He got mad I didn’t want nothing to do with him because he wanted an abortion. So I told him I didn’t want a relationship with him he’s mad because he said he thought we was cool. I couldn’t pretend that I was happy because I wasn’t.
Okay, how well do you know him?
Bulls get a bad wrap for being stubborn, but we're not stubborn in the petty sense most of the time. The stubbornness comes in when we have things that pop up that set our plotted course for life into another direction; also where the dislike of change comes in (except for Windows updates that's shut gets old.. like really, it was fine... leave it alone.. i digress). We will fight anything that could change our set path. That's what a kid does to a single man (assuming you aren't married); changes everything he may have planned for his own future - rather that includes you or not. Bulls in general are slow to commit to things that will directly affect their lives, I think. I know I do. We aren't the day dreamers living in la-la land, most know where they want to be and slowly push towards that goal while we enjoy life in the process. Sometimes the enjoyment gets us in trouble and forces us to alter our own path for the long - which is frustrating.
The best analogy I have for bulls I know and myself included:
We look at life like a puzzle. To see the overall goal, you have to look at the box to see it. But it's figuring out where each little piece fits, if it can be made to work in the scope of things, and building off of each piece (we are the builders of the zodiac). Now, some people complete the puzzle faster than others (that's all personal drive and amition), but the method is essentially the same for everyone.
So, to sum up this long winded response:
Pay no mind to his words. It's his actions that matter. From what you posted it sounds like he's processing everything and beginning to come to terms with it. That doesn't mean he wants to be with you in the long run, though.
As a Leo, you don't need him to raise a child.. so don't pressure him too much (let him know the child is his responsibility though) he'll likely come around. click to expandclick to expand
He says he wanted to be friends I try to be friends with him. I told him he was being inconsistent. Hes words and actions don’t matched up. He said he wanted an abortion. But he used to rub my belly. Kiss my forehead try to hold my hand and used to try to come to my house unannounced. Asking me bout other guys where I’m at who I’m with he was riding by my house a lot but saying he didn’t want a relationship? Is it all because I rejected him. I did tell him his responsibility.

Posted by DeleterNerdPosted by MetatronMost people here dont even talk about astrology. Not really anyway. A lot of sex threads though. click to expandPosted by DeleterNerd
I'm definitely hiding all of that nonsense btw. But lets talk about the telepathy thing some more sometime lol.
lol...suuuuch a punk...I'll go back and hide my responses but.... how are we on an astrology website, which most of us believe in to a degree but is pretty much the definition of pseudoscience, yet people are shy to talk about "psi" phenomenon which are on way stronger grounds. CIA had a whole program dedicated to remote viewing during the cold war ran by respected physicists, the directors of which have now declassified the results, which are very impressive...telepathy experiments with emotionally bonded people are on much better grounds than that, some replicated thousands of times now....I'm sending you homework in the DMs.... click to expandclick to expand
those that can, do. those that can't, write about it on internet forums.

Posted by DeleterNerdvery true...fairly one-note lately....I prefer the weird shit....oh well, off to visit the dick sucking.Dom thread....Posted by MetatronMost people here dont even talk about astrology. Not really anyway. A lot of sex threads though. click to expandPosted by DeleterNerd
I'm definitely hiding all of that nonsense btw. But lets talk about the telepathy thing some more sometime lol.
lol...suuuuch a punk...I'll go back and hide my responses but.... how are we on an astrology website, which most of us believe in to a degree but is pretty much the definition of pseudoscience, yet people are shy to talk about "psi" phenomenon which are on way stronger grounds. CIA had a whole program dedicated to remote viewing during the cold war ran by respected physicists, the directors of which have now declassified the results, which are very impressive...telepathy experiments with emotionally bonded people are on much better grounds than that, some replicated thousands of times now....I'm sending you homework in the DMs.... click to expandclick to expand

Posted by nikkistarhahahaha youuuuuuuuuuuuuuu...are awesomePosted by PurtyWingzFly2Posted by nikkistar
You've been obsessing over the social media stuff for months already, and saying the same thing for at least 2 months.
Obsessed? Girl bye. He’s my baby daddy and I can talk bout what I want. So ?? Why comment ?? click to expand
Cause you obsess about the same detail over and over.
I'm gonna bet you're just a troll account. Cause if you aren't, then you're just another chick that thought getting pregnant would keep a dude with you. click to expandclick to expand
cant stop laughinggg..........so on point

Posted by LostinmyMind11my gemini in venus and libra in mars are telling me to back away too
Yikes...this just got all kinds of complicated.
Good luck OP
my cancer sun and pisces moon are curious.............lol

Posted by looneymoonmaidenMy sun wanted to help but my moon and rising were like ...nope, walk away now lolPosted by LostinmyMind11
Yikes...this just got all kinds of complicated.
Good luck OP
my gemini in venus and libra in mars are telling me to back away too
my cancer sun and pisces moon are curious.............lol click to expandclick to expand
Posted by HankJWimbletonPosted by PurtyWingzFly2
How come Taurus like to friend zone people? I got told I’m a coo chick maybe the future has something in hold for us but we’ll see? Told me I’ll make a great wife to someone one day and a good mother. I can’t be what you want me to be and I just want to be happy one day. We messed around for a year but then he called me fwb ? Wth but saying it’s not bout sex. What’s up with that ?
We have the right to be afraid of anyone, who are exposed to the inevitable mental corruption of this laboratory recognized as internet, made to encourage sexual offense and minimizes trust. click to expandclick to expand
So this is normal behavior? I get called fwb he called me annoying after I told him I didn’t want him. Then saying it’s not me he doesn’t want a relationship with anyone. Very wishy washy behavior. His actions were chivalry but words were the opposite.

lol rather the other way around i have always friend zoned them how can you get friend zoned by a taurus ? they are so sensitive soft and tender easily fall for softness and when you can win their trust they fall easily for you but don't sweat it they are boring anyways

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