How to love a TAURUS

Hey guys, how do you love your taurus? What do they like/love?

Any deal breakers/or pet peeves for a taurus?

What i want to get out of this post is, how i can show more love to my taurus man, improve our relationship by knowing his wants/needs etc.

Posted by CarpeNoctem
Learn how to cook

I fully agree! One of the ways to a Taurus man's heart is definitely through his stomach.

Is his Venus in Taurus?

Yes he does have a venus in taurus 🙂

Posted by Yamanashi
Hey guys, how do you love your taurus? What do they like/love?

Any deal breakers/or pet peeves for a taurus?

What i want to get out of this post is, how i can show more love to my taurus man, improve our relationship by knowing his wants/needs etc.

Be kind. Be understanding. Be his best friend.

Posted by jeane

Posted by Yamanashi
Hey guys, how do you love your taurus? What do they like/love?

Any deal breakers/or pet peeves for a taurus?

What i want to get out of this post is, how i can show more love to my taurus man, improve our relationship by knowing his wants/needs etc.

Be kind. Be understanding. Be his best friend.

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That is sometimes easier said than done! Taurus can be difficult believe it or not! I super patient and understanding with mine and he sometimes takes it for granted. He almost bullies me with the thought of losing him. He'll even stop eating my food... Then he'll flip back to love mode. Taurus is not all the sweetness and light that is made out. They can have a dark undertone!

Treat him as an individual and learn to understand him, yes, be kind and eventually he'll let you be his best friend. in between, cook great meals!!!

Thanks guys! Appreciate all the feedback 🙂 i do often cook and clean for him, buy him gifts, give massages, cuddles and all the lot lol. Its just hard because he doesnt open up about himself. I dont know what hes thinking sometimes..

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Posted by Yamanashi
Hey guys, how do you love your taurus? What do they like/love?

Any deal breakers/or pet peeves for a taurus?

What i want to get out of this post is, how i can show more love to my taurus man, improve our relationship by knowing his wants/needs etc.

Be kind. Be understanding. Be his best friend.

That is sometimes easier said than done! Taurus can be difficult believe it or not! I super patient and understanding with mine and he sometimes takes it for granted. He almost bullies me with the thought of losing him. He'll even stop eating my food... Then he'll flip back to love mode. Taurus is not all the sweetness and light that is made out. They can have a dark undertone!

Treat him as an individual and learn to understand him, yes, be kind and eventually he'll let you be his best friend. in between, cook great meals!!!

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i guess mine is extra special then. none of those things when it comes to him.

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
He is an individual not a carbon copy. Find out what pleases him and so just that!

This.

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Posted by Yamanashi
Hey guys, how do you love your taurus? What do they like/love?

Any deal breakers/or pet peeves for a taurus?

What i want to get out of this post is, how i can show more love to my taurus man, improve our relationship by knowing his wants/needs etc.

Be kind. Be understanding. Be his best friend.

That is sometimes easier said than done! Taurus can be difficult believe it or not! I super patient and understanding with mine and he sometimes takes it for granted. He almost bullies me with the thought of losing him. He'll even stop eating my food... Then he'll flip back to love mode. Taurus is not all the sweetness and light that is made out. They can have a dark undertone!

Treat him as an individual and learn to understand him, yes, be kind and eventually he'll let you be his best friend. in between, cook great meals!!!

i guess mine is extra special then. none of those things when it comes to him.

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My cousin is the type of Taurus you always describe...but I know many who are not as well. They are not all built the same and it has nothing to do with the women most of the time. Because when things have ended with those women, the same stuff happens with the next.

It's still weird to me when people come on here and blanket statement by sun sign. I understand you are in love, will defend till the end because you are in love with your Taurus.. but not all are like that. ?

You have a special one for sure. Good luck with him.

Posted by Yamanashi
Thanks guys! Appreciate all the feedback 🙂 i do often cook and clean for him, buy him gifts, give massages, cuddles and all the lot lol. Its just hard because he doesnt open up about himself. I dont know what hes thinking sometimes..

Some men, Taurus or not, are the types to talk to you, tell you how they feel. Others are just not. I know many women who don't like sharing their feelings for whatever reason as well. (All different signs.)

You really have to get to know your Taurus, talk to him, show him he can trust you, and be the example. Tell him your wants and needs, without demanding it... make it more about sharing a part of yourself. All those things you do are nice, but if you want to be on a deeper level with him, you'll have to find a way to understand him, rather than fitting him into a box where you think all those things will work.

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Posted by Yamanashi
Hey guys, how do you love your taurus? What do they like/love?

Any deal breakers/or pet peeves for a taurus?

What i want to get out of this post is, how i can show more love to my taurus man, improve our relationship by knowing his wants/needs etc.

Be kind. Be understanding. Be his best friend.

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^^^^ this right here can take you a long way with one of us

I have a post on here about a confusing Taurus. I keep reading that a Taurus often wants you to make the first move, that they don't always want to put themselves out there if they are unsure. Is that true? I feel like a guy should text first, and usually he does, but after we had an issue, his communication has slacked off. Should I be silent or initiate contact?

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Posted by Yamanashi
Hey guys, how do you love your taurus? What do they like/love?

Any deal breakers/or pet peeves for a taurus?

What i want to get out of this post is, how i can show more love to my taurus man, improve our relationship by knowing his wants/needs etc.

Be kind. Be understanding. Be his best friend.

That is sometimes easier said than done! Taurus can be difficult believe it or not! I super patient and understanding with mine and he sometimes takes it for granted. He almost bullies me with the thought of losing him. He'll even stop eating my food... Then he'll flip back to love mode. Taurus is not all the sweetness and light that is made out. They can have a dark undertone!

Treat him as an individual and learn to understand him, yes, be kind and eventually he'll let you be his best friend. in between, cook great meals!!!

i guess mine is extra special then. none of those things when it comes to him.

My cousin is the type of Taurus you always describe...but I know many who are not as well. They are not all built the same and it has nothing to do with the women most of the time. Because when things have ended with those women, the same stuff happens with the next.

It's still weird to me when people come on here and blanket statement by sun sign. I understand you are in love, will defend till the end because you are in love with your Taurus.. but not all are like that. ?

You have a special one for sure. Good luck with him.

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I don't pretend to know about every Taurus. All I know is mine. I give my opinions based on that. I know there will be a difference of opinion given different experiences. I always figure that the op can gather all of them and make the decision best for them.

I've honestly been on here for a few years, 'gathering' all the information as jeane mentioned and applying them to my taurus. Mostly do work surprisingly 😄 i however, am constantly trying to improve myself and i realised that i truly havent gotten to know him as an individual. Knowing him for 5 yrs but only starting dating for a year. He's still the same 5 yrs ago when were just friends.

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Posted by Yamanashi
I've honestly been on here for a few years, 'gathering' all the information as jeane mentioned and applying them to my taurus. Mostly do work surprisingly 😄 i however, am constantly trying to improve myself and i realised that i truly havent gotten to know him as an individual. Knowing him for 5 yrs but only starting dating for a year. He's still the same 5 yrs ago when were just friends.

In what way is he still the same?

Is that good or bad?

You have known each other a long time... Are you saying there is no progression in your relationship?

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Well good and bad. Good as in we've progressed to more than friends, but he's still not letting me in. I would love to develop a deeper connection with him, although i can feel that his passion runs deep, theres alot of guessing to do with him. I've tried scoping through him asking questions but he would say 'i dont know'. I would say 'i know you know, but you just dont want to tell me. And its fine i'll wait until you can open up to me'.

Posted by Yamanashi
Thanks guys! Appreciate all the feedback 🙂 i do often cook and clean for him, buy him gifts, give massages, cuddles and all the lot lol. Its just hard because he doesnt open up about himself. I dont know what hes thinking sometimes..

very curious to know what you mean by "i dont know what hes thinking sometimes"?

can you give me a setting and what's going on?

i get asked "what are you thinking about?" a lot

Posted by Yamanashi
Thanks guys! Appreciate all the feedback 🙂 i do often cook and clean for him, buy him gifts, give massages, cuddles and all the lot lol. Its just hard because he doesnt open up about himself. I dont know what hes thinking sometimes..

I think you have to be patient with some of them. Mine still has recesses of his mind that he doesn't let me see but I remember at the beginning being very frustrated because I felt that he was holding back. It came in time.

Secondly, be his friend, not his maid! You need to show some of your own strength and resilience too. Unless you are married and that is the arrangement you've come to, stop cleaning! Yes, cook occasionally as a treat but it is not the norm, you're not his mother/servant/masseuse-with-a-happy ending.

Be his equal. He'll respect you for it.

Posted by Yamanashi

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Posted by Yamanashi
I've honestly been on here for a few years, 'gathering' all the information as jeane mentioned and applying them to my taurus. Mostly do work surprisingly 😄 i however, am constantly trying to improve myself and i realised that i truly havent gotten to know him as an individual. Knowing him for 5 yrs but only starting dating for a year. He's still the same 5 yrs ago when were just friends.

In what way is he still the same?

Is that good or bad?

You have known each other a long time... Are you saying there is no progression in your relationship?

Well good and bad. Good as in we've progressed to more than friends, but he's still not letting me in. I would love to develop a deeper connection with him, although i can feel that his passion runs deep, theres alot of guessing to do with him. I've tried scoping through him asking questions but he would say 'i dont know'. I would say 'i know you know, but you just dont want to tell me. And its fine i'll wait until you can open up to me'.

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Just dont make a big deal out of things. The more you push ("I know you know") the more he is going to want to keep things hidden.

When I stopped worrying about this issue, he changed. I don't know if he felt the change in me but things just righted themselves.

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Posted by Yamanashi
I've honestly been on here for a few years, 'gathering' all the information as jeane mentioned and applying them to my taurus. Mostly do work surprisingly 😄 i however, am constantly trying to improve myself and i realised that i truly havent gotten to know him as an individual. Knowing him for 5 yrs but only starting dating for a year. He's still the same 5 yrs ago when were just friends.

In what way is he still the same?

Is that good or bad?

You have known each other a long time... Are you saying there is no progression in your relationship?

Well good and bad. Good as in we've progressed to more than friends, but he's still not letting me in. I would love to develop a deeper connection with him, although i can feel that his passion runs deep, theres alot of guessing to do with him. I've tried scoping through him asking questions but he would say 'i dont know'. I would say 'i know you know, but you just dont want to tell me. And its fine i'll wait until you can open up to me'.

Just dont make a big deal out of things. The more you push ("I know you know") the more he is going to want to keep things hidden.

When I stopped worrying about this issue, he changed. I don't know if he felt the change in me but things just righted themselves.

I think the thing with bulls is that our "silence" talks for us. We don't feel like we need to "talk" that the other person can "feel" it.

It's like my bull and I will look at each other ("bull stare" - the way bulls do) and we do not say a word but we are speaking to each other.. like "telepathy"... This occurs sometimes... But he has a sag moon (honest) and a VIG (it never stops talking!!! Lol lol).

Use your "intuition" to "feel" his affections.

Tauruses are internal "thinkers"...

If a person wants constant affirmation they need an air sign lol lol

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i'm not thinking necessarily of affections just plain old stuff like what is going on in your life beyond the superficial, what did you think when x happened, what do you think about y?

we were friends a while before we got together, it seemed like he spoke more meaningfully to me when we were friends then when we were a couple. he just seemed to clam up. quite secretive and private about many things.

How to love a taurus...

My husband is a taurus and I'll have to say that it is very easy to love them but also very difficult.

It is easy when things are going well because they are just too darn loveable. They are patient, affectionate, pay attention to every little details, they spoiled and pamper you like a little princess...

But what makes it so difficult to love them sometime is how they have such a hard time expressing themselve...especially when something is bothering them. They hate telling other people what to do, so in return they hope you understand and act on your own without them having to voice it out. I was separate from my Bull for over a decade because of that. Over the years without him by my side...I finally understood what he felt and what I had put him through... because what I did to him happened to me and I felt like crap

I can't speak for all taurus man...I can only speak base on my relation with my husband...

He doesn`t like to share his problems because he doesn't want to worry me. On the other hand he will want to know everything and will do everything if something is bothering me. Unfair? yea a little bit, but when you think about it, the way they love is beautiful... We did promess each other for better and for worst...and he just want to make sure I get the "Better" all the time 🙂

We are now married and have a wonderful daughter together...and over the years I've gotten pretty good at reading him. I know when something is bothering him, his eye and voice can't hide it from me anymore. Whenever that happened I just try to be there for him...nothing too complicate...give him a big hug, drag him to the living room and lay down on his lap, kiss him...it is THAT easy, that is all he need. This is his home and where he need to feel the safest and loved...and I know what I'm doing is the right because whenever I do those simple things... every now and then I get a "you're a Genius" from him 🙂

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Posted by Yamanashi
Thanks guys! Appreciate all the feedback 🙂 i do often cook and clean for him, buy him gifts, give massages, cuddles and all the lot lol. Its just hard because he doesnt open up about himself. I dont know what hes thinking sometimes..

very curious to know what you mean by "i dont know what hes thinking sometimes"?

can you give me a setting and what's going on?

i get asked "what are you thinking about?" a lot

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He has this face like he's thinking about something, kinda like theyre talking but their mouths arent open. For eg he looked straight up to the roof when were just lying down and i asked him, 'whatcha thinking bout?' he said im hungry...just thinking about food. LOL sigh

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I totally agree Libraurus. Maybe their tauruses are "under aged" lolol

Mine is not like that whatsoever either.

In fact half the Taurus complaints on here I do not understand.... Are they all "unevolved" or are the women dealing with them not really "listening" to them or studying them...

I agree. I guess that is why their ladies have to come to forums to ask for validation. I've read that some Taurus are playboys.

I really love everyones' responses, it has given me alot of insight. Thankyou all so much! My taurus resonates with jeane's taurus alot, esp the part where they clam up, being private etc.

I also totally get what you mean Johnthebaptist100, where i can just feel intuitively his affections for me. My venus in scorpio can sense it. 😉. The cleaning and cooking is me showing him that i care, its only a monthly basis thing though.

Posted by Yamanashi
I really love everyones' responses, it has given me alot of insight. Thankyou all so much! My taurus resonates with jeane's taurus alot, esp the part where they clam up, being private etc.

I also totally get what you mean Johnthebaptist100, where i can just feel intuitively his affections for me. My venus in scorpio can sense it. 😉. The cleaning and cooking is me showing him that i care, its only a monthly basis thing though.

I get what you mean as women. We tend to show affection by being domestic but we must remember not to do it too much, or we become the maid. Women rocks. Happy Pi Day!

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Thanks guys! Appreciate all the feedback 🙂 i do often cook and clean for him, buy him gifts, give massages, cuddles and all the lot lol. Its just hard because he doesnt open up about himself. I dont know what hes thinking sometimes..

very curious to know what you mean by "i dont know what hes thinking sometimes"?

can you give me a setting and what's going on?

i get asked "what are you thinking about?" a lot

He has this face like he's thinking about something, kinda like theyre talking but their mouths arent open. For eg he looked straight up to the roof when were just lying down and i asked him, 'whatcha thinking bout?' he said im hungry...just thinking about food. LOL sigh

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yea i do that lol