london_libra
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Is my Taurus guy friend trying to make me jealous? Does he even like me?
3 months is too early to even call him a friend.
i like him as more than i friend. i'd say i have a crush on him. but i went out with that other guy because i figured Taurus would've asked me out already if he liked me. but his reaction to me telling him i'd gone on the date made me think he did like me after all. but then he says he's met this new girl and hasn't talked to me for a week! whaaaat?
you're not being strung along, you're just reading too much into things.
the jealousy bit? they are possessive. it doesn't necessarily mean that they are interested.
the friend line? i found that is really common. they find comfort in basing their relationships on a solid friendship. my own relationship came from a being friends for a while first.
it doesn't mean that your relationship can't develop now that you are friends.
but in the meantime, don't wait around for him. he probably does have someone else, likely someone he has been grooming for a while now. just be friends and see where it goes from there.
the jealousy bit? they are possessive. it doesn't necessarily mean that they are interested.
the friend line? i found that is really common. they find comfort in basing their relationships on a solid friendship. my own relationship came from a being friends for a while first.
it doesn't mean that your relationship can't develop now that you are friends.
but in the meantime, don't wait around for him. he probably does have someone else, likely someone he has been grooming for a while now. just be friends and see where it goes from there.
Posted by jeane
the jealousy bit? they are possessive. it doesn't necessarily mean that they are interested.
Yes, they can be married and still be jealous and possessive if you are getting attention from someone else.
yeah true. but i'm confused as to whether he even likes me or not. he's so uncommunicative and passive but then got the hump with me when i dated someone else. ugggh, get off the fence, dude! either ask me out or let me move on!
but ask me out..because i like you!
Posted by london_libraUnfortunately they always go at their own pace. He might not be asking you out because he isn't sure about you yet or has other things ie the other woman.
but ask me out..because i like you!
how can i make him more sure about me?
Posted by london_libraBe consistent, be his friend, be kind, show you are trustworthy.
how can i make him more sure about me?
oooooh. can you tell a very naive libra how to create sexual tension? we did go into a sex shop together once...but we ended up laughing mostly!
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100We've seen libras go down that path before. It hasn't ended well yet.Posted by london_libraI don't think we can help a person to "create" sexual tension... At least I can't. You either have it or you don't Imo.
oooooh. can you tell a very naive libra how to create sexual tension? we did go into a sex shop together once...but we ended up laughing mostly!
Chemistry plays an important part in attraction.click to expand
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by jeaneLolololololololPosted by JohnTheBaptist100We've seen libras go down that path before. It hasn't ended well yet.Posted by london_libraI don't think we can help a person to "create" sexual tension... At least I can't. You either have it or you don't Imo.
oooooh. can you tell a very naive libra how to create sexual tension? we did go into a sex shop together once...but we ended up laughing mostly!
Chemistry plays an important part in attraction.
Yes! I personally think it strange that a person would ask that question!
I feel if a person has to ask the question in the first instance, then they are with the wrong person and that the other person does not feel the same way....
Which is probably why the OP is here wondering about the taurus and the Taurus is after someone else!
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There's the belief that you can seduce a bull into submission. I don't know. Maybe you can. I've not seen it work yet.
so he's been AWOL for the last couple of weeks due to family dramas (suicide threats/cops being called, etc) so that explains his silence. i asked him out for a drink to catch up and listen to what he's been going through and we had a really good time. hung out drinking and making jokes for three hours. he told him about the libra and he said i should expect pressure from men because i'm so attractive - hmm! he's offered to teach me to surf so i'm going to take him up on it.
honestly, i don't know if he feels romantically towards me or not but either way i want us to be friends and still be in each other's lives so i'm going to try and be there for him during this difficult time and just see what happens. i can be patient. i like him enough.
honestly, i don't know if he feels romantically towards me or not but either way i want us to be friends and still be in each other's lives so i'm going to try and be there for him during this difficult time and just see what happens. i can be patient. i like him enough.
Posted by london_libraThis alleged beautiful girl doesn't exist.
When I asked him the following day why he didn't come he said "i was hanging out with someone". And when I asked who he said "She's really lovely and beautiful". I asked her name and he said "I'm not at liberty to say, it's all being kept under wraps."
I can promise you.
🙂
Posted by london_libraHumor him.
So now I'm confused! I'm not even convinced this girl exists, it seems a bit convenient that he'd meet some beautiful girl a week after I start dating someone. And if he liked me surely he'd ask me out already, no? Should I just give up and move on? I really do like him but I don't want to be strung along.click to expand
Flirt with him and call BS on his fictitious 'girl' story.
Try something along the lines like this...
"I would love to go out with you, but it looks as if I am competing with your imaginary girlfriend."
Yesterday he came round to mine for a party (with a load of our friends) and we spent some time in the hot tub together 😉 Not just us, some other friends too.
Later on that evening he was laying on the couch and I could feel him staring at me. I let him get a good eyeful and then I turned and caught him in the act, expecting him to look away. He didn't, just held my gaze and smiled so I returned the smile. He kissed my cheek when he left and I asked when we could go surfing. He said Tuesday, but the ball's in his court. I'm not prepared to chase him but I'm glad we still get along well.
Later on that evening he was laying on the couch and I could feel him staring at me. I let him get a good eyeful and then I turned and caught him in the act, expecting him to look away. He didn't, just held my gaze and smiled so I returned the smile. He kissed my cheek when he left and I asked when we could go surfing. He said Tuesday, but the ball's in his court. I'm not prepared to chase him but I'm glad we still get along well.
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