Ssasy
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Letting Go?
Posted by The_Mad_HaterSo my previous post explains that part.....So I did find her at someone elses house...she says she wasnt cheating.
Do you have CONCRETE reasons to believe she cheated? Or is it insecurity on your part? You're questioning someone's morals when you accuse someone of such things.
Posted by SunsetvirgoThe virgo who shes been leaning on emotionally yes....
You said she accepted a virgos friend request?
Posted by SsasyOhhh sis I don’t mean to be the bearer of bad news here but uh Taurus/Virgo is kind of a magnetic connection from what I’ve heard from dxp and my little experience I’ve had w/ tauruses in life.Posted by Sunsetvirgo
You said she accepted a virgos friend request?
The virgo who shes been leaning on emotionally yes....
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But um.. maybe ur Taurus and this Virgo are just friends. Maybe astrology is wrong
Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by SsasyPosted by SunsetvirgoThe virgo who shes been leaning on emotionally yes....
You said she accepted a virgos friend request?
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Ohhh sis I don’t mean to be the bearer of bad news here but uh Taurus/Virgo is kind of a magnetic connection from what I’ve heard from dxp and my little experience I’ve had w/ tauruses in life.
But um.. maybe ur Taurus and this Virgo are just friends. Maybe astrology is wrong click to expandclick to expand
She's told me in the past its always a hit or miss but never stays a hit for her.....
They could just be friends. Just had a whole blow out and she says there is nothing......Whatever....I cant call it.
Posted by SsasyWell there you go. It’s probably nothing (:Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by SsasyOhhh sis I don’t mean to be the bearer of bad news here but uh Taurus/Virgo is kind of a magnetic connection from what I’ve heard from dxp and my little experience I’ve had w/ tauruses in life.Posted by Sunsetvirgo
You said she accepted a virgos friend request?
The virgo who shes been leaning on emotionally yes....
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But um.. maybe ur Taurus and this Virgo are just friends. Maybe astrology is wrong click to expand
She's told me in the past its always a hit or miss but never stays a hit for her.....
They could just be friends. Just had a whole blow out and she says there is nothing......Whatever....I cant call it. click to expandclick to expand
my sister was a crazy cheater. she had side relationships during all of her relationships. but with that said my sister was damaged, or lost or just did not love her self the the expectations she placed on herself. so I think her reasons are for seasons of one that has had experiences that changed her not because that's just who she is and what Taurus girls do.
with that said, I mean if you wanna harp on it and you wanna dig for anything that's going to upset you then you are going to guild this relationship in exactly that direction. the best thing you can do it express what you need in order to feel secure and trust you partner hears you and move on. believe the things they say and embrace the love they offer you. if you keep picking at every little thing you see then your going to drive the Taurus to out or in the arms of someone else.
you have no control over what other people are going to do. you just need to do what makes you happy and embrace what makes you happy even in times of chaos. things are going to be what they are ment to without you over compensating or digging.
with that said, I mean if you wanna harp on it and you wanna dig for anything that's going to upset you then you are going to guild this relationship in exactly that direction. the best thing you can do it express what you need in order to feel secure and trust you partner hears you and move on. believe the things they say and embrace the love they offer you. if you keep picking at every little thing you see then your going to drive the Taurus to out or in the arms of someone else.
you have no control over what other people are going to do. you just need to do what makes you happy and embrace what makes you happy even in times of chaos. things are going to be what they are ment to without you over compensating or digging.
also I will add that Taurus are not dismissive on purpose but are not good with words or expressions.
they are very absorbent and they are very though consumed people.
if you tell them how you feel, bet that they will allow that to absorb, but will not be immediate and your not going to get immediate satisfaction from it. be observant want watch as they work toward understanding your request and what they think it means to honor it.
I learned that a long time ago. I have been with my bull for 1.5 years and getting him to open up or grow up has been so challenging. because I will call him out, I will Segway into the conversation, I will pour my heart out but I was never feel verbal resolution.... check my posts, its all there.....
but bet after every time I have expressed my self and made my needs clear and day, clouds slowly started to move away and the sun would shine on us. give them the benefit of the doubt, they want to make you happy. Taurus is a people pleasing sign.
good luck
they are very absorbent and they are very though consumed people.
if you tell them how you feel, bet that they will allow that to absorb, but will not be immediate and your not going to get immediate satisfaction from it. be observant want watch as they work toward understanding your request and what they think it means to honor it.
I learned that a long time ago. I have been with my bull for 1.5 years and getting him to open up or grow up has been so challenging. because I will call him out, I will Segway into the conversation, I will pour my heart out but I was never feel verbal resolution.... check my posts, its all there.....
but bet after every time I have expressed my self and made my needs clear and day, clouds slowly started to move away and the sun would shine on us. give them the benefit of the doubt, they want to make you happy. Taurus is a people pleasing sign.
good luck
also I will add that Taurus are not dismissive on purpose but are not good with words or expressions.
they are very absorbent and they are very though consumed people.
if you tell them how you feel, bet that they will allow that to absorb, but will not be immediate and your not going to get immediate satisfaction from it. be observant want watch as they work toward understanding your request and what they think it means to honor it.
I learned that a long time ago. I have been with my bull for 1.5 years and getting him to open up or grow up has been so challenging. because I will call him out, I will Segway into the conversation, I will pour my heart out but I was never feel verbal resolution.... check my posts, its all there.....
but bet after every time I have expressed my self and made my needs clear and day, clouds slowly started to move away and the sun would shine on us. give them the benefit of the doubt, they want to make you happy. Taurus is a people pleasing sign.
good luck
they are very absorbent and they are very though consumed people.
if you tell them how you feel, bet that they will allow that to absorb, but will not be immediate and your not going to get immediate satisfaction from it. be observant want watch as they work toward understanding your request and what they think it means to honor it.
I learned that a long time ago. I have been with my bull for 1.5 years and getting him to open up or grow up has been so challenging. because I will call him out, I will Segway into the conversation, I will pour my heart out but I was never feel verbal resolution.... check my posts, its all there.....
but bet after every time I have expressed my self and made my needs clear and day, clouds slowly started to move away and the sun would shine on us. give them the benefit of the doubt, they want to make you happy. Taurus is a people pleasing sign.
good luck
Posted by The_Mad_HaterPosted by sagittariusxo
also I will add that Taurus are not dismissive on purpose but are not good with words or expressions.
they are very absorbent and they are very though consumed people.
if you tell them how you feel, bet that they will allow that to absorb, but will not be immediate and your not going to get immediate satisfaction from it. be observant want watch as they work toward understanding your request and what they think it means to honor it.
I learned that a long time ago. I have been with my bull for 1.5 years and getting him to open up or grow up has been so challenging. because I will call him out, I will Segway into the conversation, I will pour my heart out but I was never feel verbal resolution.... check my posts, its all there.....
but bet after every time I have expressed my self and made my needs clear and day, clouds slowly started to move away and the sun would shine on us. give them the benefit of the doubt, they want to make you happy. Taurus is a people pleasing sign.
good luck
Like the damn Taurus whisperer over here!
You're exactly right!
Even when we're being stubborn we still soak up what's being said and mull it over. click to expandclick to expand
Just had a blow out with her via text. She said there is no damn connection with her and the virgo and im missing the point and shes here and trying....and I dont get it she can do without the girl but im missin the point....i need to get out of my head...
Posted by The_Mad_HaterI am trying ....But why is unfriending someone such a big deal.....That part i dont understand....Posted by SsasyPosted by The_Mad_HaterPosted by sagittariusxo
also I will add that Taurus are not dismissive on purpose but are not good with words or expressions.
they are very absorbent and they are very though consumed people.
if you tell them how you feel, bet that they will allow that to absorb, but will not be immediate and your not going to get immediate satisfaction from it. be observant want watch as they work toward understanding your request and what they think it means to honor it.
I learned that a long time ago. I have been with my bull for 1.5 years and getting him to open up or grow up has been so challenging. because I will call him out, I will Segway into the conversation, I will pour my heart out but I was never feel verbal resolution.... check my posts, its all there.....
but bet after every time I have expressed my self and made my needs clear and day, clouds slowly started to move away and the sun would shine on us. give them the benefit of the doubt, they want to make you happy. Taurus is a people pleasing sign.
good luck
Like the damn Taurus whisperer over here!
You're exactly right!
Even when we're being stubborn we still soak up what's being said and mull it over. click to expand
Just had a blow out with her via text. She said there is no damn connection with her and the virgo and im missing the point and shes here and trying....and I dont get it she can do without the girl but im missin the point....i need to get out of my head...
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Give her the benefit of the doubt then. Just pay attention to her actions and not her words. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by The_Mad_HaterI am trying ....But why is unfriending someone such a big deal.....That part i dont understand....Posted by SsasyPosted by The_Mad_HaterPosted by sagittariusxo
also I will add that Taurus are not dismissive on purpose but are not good with words or expressions.
they are very absorbent and they are very though consumed people.
if you tell them how you feel, bet that they will allow that to absorb, but will not be immediate and your not going to get immediate satisfaction from it. be observant want watch as they work toward understanding your request and what they think it means to honor it.
I learned that a long time ago. I have been with my bull for 1.5 years and getting him to open up or grow up has been so challenging. because I will call him out, I will Segway into the conversation, I will pour my heart out but I was never feel verbal resolution.... check my posts, its all there.....
but bet after every time I have expressed my self and made my needs clear and day, clouds slowly started to move away and the sun would shine on us. give them the benefit of the doubt, they want to make you happy. Taurus is a people pleasing sign.
good luck
Like the damn Taurus whisperer over here!
You're exactly right!
Even when we're being stubborn we still soak up what's being said and mull it over. click to expand
Just had a blow out with her via text. She said there is no damn connection with her and the virgo and im missing the point and shes here and trying....and I dont get it she can do without the girl but im missin the point....i need to get out of my head...
click to expand
Give her the benefit of the doubt then. Just pay attention to her actions and not her words. click to expandclick to expand
I think you do need to get out of your head.
Taurus will not be there if they don't want to be
"I asked her if she's still in contact with the Virgo she said, that I asked her not do so something and thats what it is" It is what is it is, meaning you asked her and she will not o it, no more conversation about it. Sounds like you need reassurance. I would simply say thank you for hearing me out and respecting my concerns,
I just needed that reassurance.
Dont kill your relationship with jealousy, I (scorpio) am a jealous person, I hate it because I can not tell if its intuition or paranoia so I am telling you, do not accuse until you catch them RED HANDED.
"You are so amazing and full of life thats what attracted me to you, and i used to live off your energy your smile and your youthful ways...I fear I may have taken some of that from you but none the less you have my heart. It hurts me to know I have been the cause of you acting anyway but the woman you are...I have been there at all times just not in all places...those spots no needed..so I am here flawed and all...its me its you its us."
This is pretty straightforward, you're acting different but she still sees u and her only. Let go of your head. She feels the difference in energy too, so Im thinking its your paranoia
Stop asking other people for their perspective on this, stop trying to figure it out, have you been deeply hurt by her before? ARe you taking your past out of on her? (im not sure the background story)
If I were you, I'd plan a date and do something fun... go out somewhere relaxing, in nature. The beach, a hike, a picnic, bring some music and food and reconnect. Don't lose someone you care for by "figuring out" whats not there and not having cold, hard proof to think this way.
P.S. People in relationships are allowed to have friends, and Taurus is a sign that needs friends in their lives. A scorpio (possibly all water signs) would make their life about you, but Taurus isn't like that, so adapt and ease up, let go of your negative thought process.
good luck!
Taurus will not be there if they don't want to be
"I asked her if she's still in contact with the Virgo she said, that I asked her not do so something and thats what it is" It is what is it is, meaning you asked her and she will not o it, no more conversation about it. Sounds like you need reassurance. I would simply say thank you for hearing me out and respecting my concerns,
I just needed that reassurance.
Dont kill your relationship with jealousy, I (scorpio) am a jealous person, I hate it because I can not tell if its intuition or paranoia so I am telling you, do not accuse until you catch them RED HANDED.
"You are so amazing and full of life thats what attracted me to you, and i used to live off your energy your smile and your youthful ways...I fear I may have taken some of that from you but none the less you have my heart. It hurts me to know I have been the cause of you acting anyway but the woman you are...I have been there at all times just not in all places...those spots no needed..so I am here flawed and all...its me its you its us."
This is pretty straightforward, you're acting different but she still sees u and her only. Let go of your head. She feels the difference in energy too, so Im thinking its your paranoia
Stop asking other people for their perspective on this, stop trying to figure it out, have you been deeply hurt by her before? ARe you taking your past out of on her? (im not sure the background story)
If I were you, I'd plan a date and do something fun... go out somewhere relaxing, in nature. The beach, a hike, a picnic, bring some music and food and reconnect. Don't lose someone you care for by "figuring out" whats not there and not having cold, hard proof to think this way.
P.S. People in relationships are allowed to have friends, and Taurus is a sign that needs friends in their lives. A scorpio (possibly all water signs) would make their life about you, but Taurus isn't like that, so adapt and ease up, let go of your negative thought process.
good luck!
Posted by SuninLibra
Are you usually a paranoid person? Do u have trust issues? Has this ever happened before with another mate I mean the doubt?
Cuz usually when u r a confident person and feels like there's sth wrong then probably there is.
Im a biot of both if that's possible...I am confident until my feelings kick in, and then some things will make me paranoid...especially if im all in.
Posted by greengemini_
Hire a private investigator. You can get one for $ 40 an hour. If you have a little extra get the $ 100 an hour one's.
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hahaha umm no. I am a a pretty good investigator....but It isn't that serious...
Having friends isn't the issue. BUT you don't lie about staying at a "friends" house and expect me to be ok with you continuing that friendship...
Everything you said is pretty on point.
after our heated convo her vibes changed. She's like happy and energetic and being very engaging and flirty.... the original Taurus I met....Not sure what got into her but I hope it stays...I feed off of that energy....
Everything you said is pretty on point.
after our heated convo her vibes changed. She's like happy and energetic and being very engaging and flirty.... the original Taurus I met....Not sure what got into her but I hope it stays...I feed off of that energy....
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