lotuslily
@lotuslily
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Long distance help please
Do taurus men like phone sex?
Do taurus men like getting naughty pics and do they enjoy sexting?
Taurus guys please answer. I'm looking for answers from more open minded people. I don't wanna hear if you think I'm a hoebag. I'm quite comfortable with my sexuality and so is this taurus man.
As an aries, this is a sure fire way to keep my attention when I'm not in front of you... keep the sexual heat going. But taurus guy is an earth sign... how do you keep an earth sign's attention over the long haul when they're not in front of you?
Do taurus men like getting naughty pics and do they enjoy sexting?
Taurus guys please answer. I'm looking for answers from more open minded people. I don't wanna hear if you think I'm a hoebag. I'm quite comfortable with my sexuality and so is this taurus man.
As an aries, this is a sure fire way to keep my attention when I'm not in front of you... keep the sexual heat going. But taurus guy is an earth sign... how do you keep an earth sign's attention over the long haul when they're not in front of you?
i have a feeling you are not going to like the answer...
@Lotuslily,
What are you looking for from this Taurus man?
A relationship?
A fling?
You weren't clear.
What are you looking for from this Taurus man?
A relationship?
A fling?
You weren't clear.
Posted by jeaneNope!
i have a feeling you are not going to like the answer...
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
How long do you expect him to go without sex for.....and yourself or will you have an open arrangement ?
That's a good question Taurus Bull.
I want him in my life. I know that. I don't do traditional relationships. I know that. I want him as a lover when/if he comes back. I know that. I want to enjoy him again. I want to feel alive and young again... that's how I felt when I was around him. He was an exciting adventure. My life is quite boring otherwise. I want to experience that with him again. I'm quite ok with him not living here or speaking to him all the time, I have my own stuff to deal with... He was the most fun and excitement I've had in years and I want to experience it again.
I want him in my life. I know that. I don't do traditional relationships. I know that. I want him as a lover when/if he comes back. I know that. I want to enjoy him again. I want to feel alive and young again... that's how I felt when I was around him. He was an exciting adventure. My life is quite boring otherwise. I want to experience that with him again. I'm quite ok with him not living here or speaking to him all the time, I have my own stuff to deal with... He was the most fun and excitement I've had in years and I want to experience it again.
Posted by MyStarsShineThe arrangement is already open with full transparency. He knows I have been with others since he left and I know he has 'friends' at home who he sees when he feels like a 'date'. Neither one of us is into monogamy at all.
How long do you expect him to go without sex for.....and yourself or will you have an open arrangement ?
Posted by lotuslily....so what do you want to know?Posted by MyStarsShineThe arrangement is already open with full transparency. He knows I have been with others since he left and I know he has 'friends' at home who he sees when he feels like a 'date'. Neither one of us is into monogamy at all.
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Posted by MyStarsShineHow do I maintain a connection long distance when he is not in front of me? As an aries, my attention is kept by keeping a sexual fire burning. But I am a fire sign. How to best accomplish attention keeping and connection from a far for the next 9 months or so?Posted by lotuslily....so what do you want to know?Posted by MyStarsShineThe arrangement is already open with full transparency. He knows I have been with others since he left and I know he has 'friends' at home who he sees when he feels like a 'date'. Neither one of us is into monogamy at all.
How long do you expect him to go without sex for.....and yourself or will you have an open arrangement ?
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You can have him as a lover...
I'm sure you can still keep the fires alive.
Taurus men are horny by nature.
But if your feelings change in the long run, then I'd suggest you stay in your lane, and don't demand anything more.
This arrangement will come around to bite you in the ass. This is a 'fixed' earth sign....with set conventional standards.
Good Luck.
The Taurus men will come to give you advice on how to keep the flames alive.
I'm sure you can still keep the fires alive.
Taurus men are horny by nature.
But if your feelings change in the long run, then I'd suggest you stay in your lane, and don't demand anything more.
This arrangement will come around to bite you in the ass. This is a 'fixed' earth sign....with set conventional standards.
Good Luck.
The Taurus men will come to give you advice on how to keep the flames alive.
Posted by nanobyteHe has said I should take up his sport so that when he comes back we can go do it together in the day and then spend evenings together... He used much saucier words though 😉
What makes you think that he is wanting to pursue this further?
Do you think that you should just accept that it was a one week good time and move on?
Posted by lotuslilyPosted by MyStarsShineHow do I maintain a connection long distance when he is not in front of me? As an aries, my attention is kept by keeping a sexual fire burning. But I am a fire sign. How to best accomplish attention keeping and connection from a far for the next 9 months or so?Posted by lotuslily....so what do you want to know?Posted by MyStarsShineThe arrangement is already open with full transparency. He knows I have been with others since he left and I know he has 'friends' at home who he sees when he feels like a 'date'. Neither one of us is into monogamy at all.
How long do you expect him to go without sex for.....and yourself or will you have an open arrangement ?
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By meeting up regularly....
Posted by lotuslilyWordsPosted by nanobyteHe has said I should take up his sport so that when he comes back we can go do it together in the day and then spend evenings together... He used much saucier words though 😉
What makes you think that he is wanting to pursue this further?
Do you think that you should just accept that it was a one week good time and move on?click to expand
How far apart are you?
I was in one.....different...countries. We met every 4 - 6 weeks and he often caught two planes and a long train journey to see me and then we would met halfway too. We were faithful to each other....neither of us wanted to share ourselves with others
What do you want from the guy?
Posted by MyStarsShineHe's in USA, I'm in the southern hemisphere on a completely different continent.Posted by lotuslilyWordsPosted by nanobyteHe has said I should take up his sport so that when he comes back we can go do it together in the day and then spend evenings together... He used much saucier words though 😉
What makes you think that he is wanting to pursue this further?
Do you think that you should just accept that it was a one week good time and move on?
How far apart are you?
I was in one.....different...countries. We met every 4 - 6 weeks and he often caught two planes and a long train journey to see me and then we would met halfway too. We were faithful to each other....neither of us wanted to share ourselves with others
What do you want from the guy?click to expand
Lol.... I want him to come back and take me dancing, make me laugh and bang my brains out as good and often as he did when he was here most recently 😉
Posted by lotuslilyPosted by MyStarsShineHe's in USA, I'm in the southern hemisphere on a completely different continent.Posted by lotuslilyWordsPosted by nanobyteHe has said I should take up his sport so that when he comes back we can go do it together in the day and then spend evenings together... He used much saucier words though 😉
What makes you think that he is wanting to pursue this further?
Do you think that you should just accept that it was a one week good time and move on?
How far apart are you?
I was in one.....different...countries. We met every 4 - 6 weeks and he often caught two planes and a long train journey to see me and then we would met halfway too. We were faithful to each other....neither of us wanted to share ourselves with others
What do you want from the guy?
Lol.... I want him to come back and take me dancing, make me laugh and bang my brains out as good and often as he did when he was here most recently 😉
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Okay
Good luck with it
Posted by lotuslilyPosted by MyStarsShineHe's in USA, I'm in the southern hemisphere on a completely different continent.Posted by lotuslilyWordsPosted by nanobyteHe has said I should take up his sport so that when he comes back we can go do it together in the day and then spend evenings together... He used much saucier words though 😉
What makes you think that he is wanting to pursue this further?
Do you think that you should just accept that it was a one week good time and move on?
How far apart are you?
I was in one.....different...countries. We met every 4 - 6 weeks and he often caught two planes and a long train journey to see me and then we would met halfway too. We were faithful to each other....neither of us wanted to share ourselves with others
What do you want from the guy?
Lol.... I want him to come back and take me dancing, make me laugh and bang my brains out as good and often as he did when he was here most recently 😉
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if you want that just tell him to contact you for a fuck when he is next in town. until then just do your own thing. there's no need to be texting and sending dirty pics.
Yeah. I don't expect him to or want him to mission like that just to see me. If he's going to be in the area again, I want to have fun with him again.
I feel I can stick to my lane and not make any other demands from him. But I want to make sure he remembers me for if/when he does come back... so to maintain the connection.
I feel I can stick to my lane and not make any other demands from him. But I want to make sure he remembers me for if/when he does come back... so to maintain the connection.
@jeane: but sexting is so much fun... and do is sending naughty pics. For me anyway, with the right person. But I'm an aries.
Posted by lotuslilyyeah i can appreciate that. if you like it, do it. but i wouldn't expect much back. probably in the beginning, but things will take over and it will become old and the thrill of seeing you will last less and less.
@jeane: but sexting is so much fun... and do is sending naughty pics. For me anyway, with the right person. But I'm an aries.
honestly, i think you should continue sleeping around until you find someone who is closer to you and can give you what you want.
you sound like you've hit on a rare guy that can satisfy you and it's made you thirsty. i'm sure he is not the only person in the world that can make you feel this way, just find one closer to you and you can have it all the time.
i know you are not waiting around for him and indeed are being with others. so, keep going. get someone who is as good, if not better and this one won't seem as important.
Posted by jeaneOh you know what it's like when we find someone who 'does us' right and makes us laugh then.... It is definitely a rare find.Posted by lotuslilyyeah i can appreciate that. if you like it, do it. but i wouldn't expect much back. probably in the beginning, but things will take over and it will become old and the thrill of seeing you will last less and less.
@jeane: but sexting is so much fun... and do is sending naughty pics. For me anyway, with the right person. But I'm an aries.
honestly, i think you should continue sleeping around until you find someone who is closer to you and can give you what you want.
you sound like you've hit on a rare guy that can satisfy you and it's made you thirsty. i'm sure he is not the only person in the world that can make you feel this way, just find one closer to you and you can have it all the time.
i know you are not waiting around for him and indeed are being with others. so, keep going. get someone who is as good, if not better and this one won't seem as important.click to expand
I will take head of your advice about the thrill bring lost and it getting old. Maybe I should just carry on with my life and turn up the heat just before he comes back, if he does come back.
I would still like to hear from the taurus males tho... what's the best bet for keeping his affections alive from afar?
Let it go. Trust me on that.
LDRs are very stressful. They carry all the stress of a normal relationship while adding the LDR ones. Even a two hour difference with a girl I was in a LDR with was rough since she was always getting tired when I was still up and at'em, and this is where the problems began. It snowballed from there.
The only way LDRs work is when both partners are putting in a lot, and equal effort to remain in contact. Communication is even more important in this situation, and if desiring physical affection, you can't just pack a night bag and head over. Even then, there is a time-limit (actually more like a time bomb) to close the gap on the relationship. It's different for every LDR, but once this time expires, the relationship is over.
If either of you are in a position where you are considering starting things anew, this gives an LDR the best survival rate. But if both of you have your feet set where you are at, you can forget about any prosperity with this relationship.
The reason why I say let it go is for the simple fact that you started this thread. It means he is already behaving in a way that is concerning to you, and LDRs can't be having any of that. He could be doing ANYTHING while you're waiting for him to contact you.
I know connections are hard to find, but seek one out that is proximal.
LDRs are very stressful. They carry all the stress of a normal relationship while adding the LDR ones. Even a two hour difference with a girl I was in a LDR with was rough since she was always getting tired when I was still up and at'em, and this is where the problems began. It snowballed from there.
The only way LDRs work is when both partners are putting in a lot, and equal effort to remain in contact. Communication is even more important in this situation, and if desiring physical affection, you can't just pack a night bag and head over. Even then, there is a time-limit (actually more like a time bomb) to close the gap on the relationship. It's different for every LDR, but once this time expires, the relationship is over.
If either of you are in a position where you are considering starting things anew, this gives an LDR the best survival rate. But if both of you have your feet set where you are at, you can forget about any prosperity with this relationship.
The reason why I say let it go is for the simple fact that you started this thread. It means he is already behaving in a way that is concerning to you, and LDRs can't be having any of that. He could be doing ANYTHING while you're waiting for him to contact you.
I know connections are hard to find, but seek one out that is proximal.
Vacation sex does not = relationship. Date someone in your country.
Posted by LadyNeptuneI didn't ask whether it did. And don't tell me what to do. My life, my choice. Not that I want to date anyone in any country... I'm happily single. Your comment is really patronising. I'm a grown ass woman and you've assumed I've made the same life choices for myself that you did for yourself.
Vacation sex does not = relationship. Date someone in your country.
If nobody actually has the answer to my actual question (HOW can I maintain the connection and hold his attention long distance over the next 9 months so that I get to enjoy him again if he comes back?), then rather don't comment or say you don't know, instead of telling me that it won't work. I didn't ask if it would or wouldn't. I'm asking HOW and what is the best route to achieving what I want.
Everyone has just been telling me to move on or let it go. Not answering my question.
Posted by lotuslilyPosted by LadyNeptuneI didn't ask whether it did. And don't tell me what to do. My life, my choice. Not that I want to date anyone in any country... I'm happily single. Your comment is really patronising. I'm a grown ass woman and you've assumed I've made the same life choices for myself that you did for yourself.
Vacation sex does not = relationship. Date someone in your country.
If nobody actually has the answer to my actual question (HOW can I maintain the connection and hold his attention long distance over the next 9 months so that I get to enjoy him again if he comes back?), then rather don't comment or say you don't know, instead of telling me that it won't work. I didn't ask if it would or wouldn't. I'm asking HOW and what is the best route to achieving what I want.
Everyone has just been telling me to move on or let it go. Not answering my question.click to expand
Your living in lala land. That's why.
Posted by lotuslilyPosted by LadyNeptuneI didn't ask whether it did. And don't tell me what to do. My life, my choice. Not that I want to date anyone in any country... I'm happily single. Your comment is really patronising. I'm a grown ass woman and you've assumed I've made the same life choices for myself that you did for yourself.
Vacation sex does not = relationship. Date someone in your country.
If nobody actually has the answer to my actual question (HOW can I maintain the connection and hold his attention long distance over the next 9 months so that I get to enjoy him again if he comes back?), then rather don't comment or say you don't know, instead of telling me that it won't work. I didn't ask if it would or wouldn't. I'm asking HOW and what is the best route to achieving what I want.
Everyone has just been telling me to move on or let it go. Not answering my question.click to expand
Since you feel no one had told you yet how you can keep hold of him, you can't.
Taurus are physical. They don't do long distance. They need to see you, feel you, smell you, hold you. Pictures don't measure up, especially after only knowing each other 10 days before he left.
These guys aren't great texters at the best of time. Trying to maintain some sort of passionate connection over the phone or Internet is going to be impossible.
What is on your side is that these guys work to a different schedule. As an Aries you are racing a mile a minute, they don't. 9 months is hardly any time at all. In 9 months time he will come round and he will probably sleep with you again. Don't worry.
Posted by Mandy27Thanks Mandy27. I think you're right. I think slowly but surely will get me there. Anything too close together, too often, too anything will send the wrong message. I should just chill out and relax about it and send him a 'Heya!" Once a month or once every second month to remind him about me 😄
It's tough to stay in touch with people close by let alone someone who is long distance, busy schedules always get in the way and little by little everyone goes their own way, you can always send him sweet messages to remind him of you and sometimes patience pays off... it also depends on both of you making the effort. Best of luck.
Posted by jeaneGreat feedback! I kinda figured because he's a Taurus, if I was out of his range of 'senses', I would be out of mind too. Which is why I wanted to work at maintaining a connection for any future visits. To remind him about me.Posted by lotuslilySince you feel no one had told you yet how you can keep hold of him, you can't.Posted by LadyNeptuneI didn't ask whether it did. And don't tell me what to do. My life, my choice. Not that I want to date anyone in any country... I'm happily single. Your comment is really patronising. I'm a grown ass woman and you've assumed I've made the same life choices for myself that you did for yourself.
Vacation sex does not = relationship. Date someone in your country.
If nobody actually has the answer to my actual question (HOW can I maintain the connection and hold his attention long distance over the next 9 months so that I get to enjoy him again if he comes back?), then rather don't comment or say you don't know, instead of telling me that it won't work. I didn't ask if it would or wouldn't. I'm asking HOW and what is the best route to achieving what I want.
Everyone has just been telling me to move on or let it go. Not answering my question.
Taurus are physical. They don't do long distance. They need to see you, feel you, smell you, hold you. Pictures don't measure up, especially after only knowing each other 10 days before he left.
These guys aren't great texters at the best of time. Trying to maintain some sort of passionate connection over the phone or Internet is going to be impossible.
What is on your side is that these guys work to a different schedule. As an Aries you are racing a mile a minute, they don't. 9 months is hardly any time at all. In 9 months time he will come round and he will probably sleep with you again. Don't worry.
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I gathered he doesn't have a relationship with his phone because when he was here, I never saw him on it. I wouldn't want him to change that just to appease me and when we have had voice calls since he left, they've been decent... like half hour calls. But we're both pretty detached and not much flirting like there was in person.... more friendly conversation.
Posted by lotuslily
Do taurus men like phone sex?
Do taurus men like getting naughty pics and do they enjoy sexting?
Taurus guys please answer. I'm looking for answers from more open minded people. I don't wanna hear if you think I'm a hoebag. I'm quite comfortable with my sexuality and so is this taurus man.
As an aries, this is a sure fire way to keep my attention when I'm not in front of you... keep the sexual heat going. But taurus guy is an earth sign... how do you keep an earth sign's attention over the long haul when they're not in front of you?
It's difficult to stay in touch with anyone long distance whether family, friend, or lover.
You haven't spent enough time with him to know his interests or desires. Generally, I think Taurus men do enjoy phone sex and naughty pics. You will know from the response you receive either way.
Just as in a relationships, desire and effort has to be reciprocated to some degree.
There are few men who can hold down desire and effort for two. They manage the whole relationship. That's what I have to have. For me, those men have often had Mars in Taurus.
I always get excited to see you fellow Aries. You're beautifully "savage." I'm sure you will hold his interest.
I loved your recount of the time you had with the Gemini.
You should journal these experiences. Your general approach to relationships is detached. A journal will help with that.
Posted by VenusAquariusLol... what gemini? I only remember one and he was all the wrong kinds of trouble!Posted by lotuslily
Do taurus men like phone sex?
Do taurus men like getting naughty pics and do they enjoy sexting?
Taurus guys please answer. I'm looking for answers from more open minded people. I don't wanna hear if you think I'm a hoebag. I'm quite comfortable with my sexuality and so is this taurus man.
As an aries, this is a sure fire way to keep my attention when I'm not in front of you... keep the sexual heat going. But taurus guy is an earth sign... how do you keep an earth sign's attention over the long haul when they're not in front of you?
It's difficult to stay in touch with anyone long distance whether family, friend, or lover.
You haven't spent enough time with him to know his interests or desires. Generally, I think Taurus men do enjoy phone sex and naughty pics. You will know from the response you receive either way.
Just as in a relationships, desire and effort has to be reciprocated to some degree.
There are few men who can hold down desire and effort for two. They manage the whole relationship. That's what I have to have. For me, those men have often had Mars in Taurus.
I always get excited to see you fellow Aries. You're beautifully "savage." I'm sure you will hold his interest.
I loved your recount of the time you had with the Gemini.
You should journal these experiences. Your general approach to relationships is detached. A journal will help with that.
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And "beautifully savage".... I love that ??
His sun is taurus, my sun is aries
His moon is pisces, my moon is Leo
His venus is gemini, my venus is pisces
His Mars is pisces, my Mars is pisces
How do those aspects relate?
Posted by LadyCloeOh! Well thanks for taking your time and giving of your energy. I do appreciate it 🙂
I've been in a very similar situation with a Taurus man and it ultimately ended up with us losing interest and then contact. I'd say take into account his moon & Venus sign. Mine has an Aquarius moon (which I'm sure didn't help lol) and venus in Aries.
I actually made an account just to comment back lol
I've just mentioned this... but:
His sun is taurus, my sun is aries
His moon is pisces, my moon is Leo
His venus is gemini, my venus is pisces
His Mars is pisces, my Mars is pisces
The only "steadfast" aspect there seems to be his sun. Between all the aries, gemini and pisces, we're both pretty hard to pin down to one thing and need variety and change and get bored easily, yes? I think there seems to be a strange compatability there somehow. Like we understand that part of each other. And I guess I feel like he's like me and a kindred spirit that I can relate with openly about the stuff that everyone thinks is so alien about me in that regard.... I definitely want him as a friend and lover.
Posted by lotuslilyI went back to your Gemini thread. Missed the conclusion. You would think not expecting or wanting a relationship makes for easy relating but, not always. We are human afterall. Even with not desiring a relationship, your expectations still seem lofty. Try no expectations. It's a better match for - no relationship...keeping in mind that you don't know them.Posted by VenusAquariusLol... what gemini? I only remember one and he was all the wrong kinds of trouble!Posted by lotuslily
Do taurus men like phone sex?
Do taurus men like getting naughty pics and do they enjoy sexting?
Taurus guys please answer. I'm looking for answers from more open minded people. I don't wanna hear if you think I'm a hoebag. I'm quite comfortable with my sexuality and so is this taurus man.
As an aries, this is a sure fire way to keep my attention when I'm not in front of you... keep the sexual heat going. But taurus guy is an earth sign... how do you keep an earth sign's attention over the long haul when they're not in front of you?
It's difficult to stay in touch with anyone long distance whether family, friend, or lover.
You haven't spent enough time with him to know his interests or desires. Generally, I think Taurus men do enjoy phone sex and naughty pics. You will know from the response you receive either way.
Just as in a relationships, desire and effort has to be reciprocated to some degree.
There are few men who can hold down desire and effort for two. They manage the whole relationship. That's what I have to have. For me, those men have often had Mars in Taurus.
I always get excited to see you fellow Aries. You're beautifully "savage." I'm sure you will hold his interest.
I loved your recount of the time you had with the Gemini.
You should journal these experiences. Your general approach to relationships is detached. A journal will help with that.
And "beautifully savage".... I love that ??
His sun is taurus, my sun is aries
His moon is pisces, my moon is Leo
His venus is gemini, my venus is pisces
His Mars is pisces, my Mars is pisces
How do those aspects relate?
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The placements listing is not much to go on. The synastry looks good but, his natal chart on it's own doesn't bode well for committed romantic relationships. He's very mutable. Moon square Venus men are hard to please (usually a Madonna/whore complex. It's a fine line to walk). Not to mention Moon square Mars... Excitable, elusive, and maybe not very self-aware. Moon squares often speak to a lack of self-awareness or a stubborn refusal to accept how they are perceived.
Posted by VenusAquariusHaha! I just found the gem thread and left you a very juicy wrap up of how that panned out.Posted by lotuslilyI went back to your Gemini thread. Missed the conclusion. You would think not expecting or wanting a relationship makes for easy relating but, not always. We are human afterall. Even with not desiring a relationship, your expectations still seem lofty. Try no expectations. It's a better match for - no relationship...keeping in mind that you don't know them.Posted by VenusAquariusLol... what gemini? I only remember one and he was all the wrong kinds of trouble!Posted by lotuslily
Do taurus men like phone sex?
Do taurus men like getting naughty pics and do they enjoy sexting?
Taurus guys please answer. I'm looking for answers from more open minded people. I don't wanna hear if you think I'm a hoebag. I'm quite comfortable with my sexuality and so is this taurus man.
As an aries, this is a sure fire way to keep my attention when I'm not in front of you... keep the sexual heat going. But taurus guy is an earth sign... how do you keep an earth sign's attention over the long haul when they're not in front of you?
It's difficult to stay in touch with anyone long distance whether family, friend, or lover.
You haven't spent enough time with him to know his interests or desires. Generally, I think Taurus men do enjoy phone sex and naughty pics. You will know from the response you receive either way.
Just as in a relationships, desire and effort has to be reciprocated to some degree.
There are few men who can hold down desire and effort for two. They manage the whole relationship. That's what I have to have. For me, those men have often had Mars in Taurus.
I always get excited to see you fellow Aries. You're beautifully "savage." I'm sure you will hold his interest.
I loved your recount of the time you had with the Gemini.
You should journal these experiences. Your general approach to relationships is detached. A journal will help with that.
And "beautifully savage".... I love that ??
His sun is taurus, my sun is aries
His moon is pisces, my moon is Leo
His venus is gemini, my venus is pisces
His Mars is pisces, my Mars is pisces
How do those aspects relate?
The placements listing is not much to go on. The synastry looks good but, his natal chart on it's own doesn't bode well for committed romantic relationships. He's very mutable. Moon square Venus men are hard to please (usually a Madonna/whore complex. It's a fine line to walk). Not to mention Moon square Mars... Excitable, elusive, and maybe not very self-aware. Moon squares often speak to a lack of self-awareness or a stubborn refusal to accept how they are perceived.click to expand
As for his chart on its own with his moon square venus and mars.... isn't mine doing the same thing? Leo and pisces are not a good jam for commitment! Aries and pisces are not a good jam for anything! Aries gets bored easy (except by those who are "hard to get", go figure), Leo wants attention from everyone, and pisces loves everyone ??
I feel like I see amazing potential for all kinds of play time with him because we are both so comfortable with our sexuality, open and transparent with each other, and want variety. The idea really excites me. The possibilities are endless.
Posted by lotuslilyPosted by LadyCloeOh! Well thanks for taking your time and giving of your energy. I do appreciate it 🙂
I've been in a very similar situation with a Taurus man and it ultimately ended up with us losing interest and then contact. I'd say take into account his moon & Venus sign. Mine has an Aquarius moon (which I'm sure didn't help lol) and venus in Aries.
I actually made an account just to comment back lol
I've just mentioned this... but:
His sun is taurus, my sun is aries
His moon is pisces, my moon is Leo
His venus is gemini, my venus is pisces
His Mars is pisces, my Mars is pisces
The only "steadfast" aspect there seems to be his sun. Between all the aries, gemini and pisces, we're both pretty hard to pin down to one thing and need variety and change and get bored easily, yes? I think there seems to be a strange compatability there somehow. Like we understand that part of each other. And I guess I feel like he's like me and a kindred spirit that I can relate with openly about the stuff that everyone thinks is so alien about me in that regard.... I definitely want him as a friend and lover.
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I get a sense a lot of this is your pisces talking.
Posted by VenusAquariusHaha! I didn't know "just like me" was the profanity filter for w.h.O.r.e so Im not sure what I thought you meant when you said madonna/just like me complex so I responded to you by writing this: (and then it changed my w.h.o.r.e. complex to "just like me" and I got it ?Posted by lotuslilyI went back to your Gemini thread. Missed the conclusion. You would think not expecting or wanting a relationship makes for easy relating but, not always. We are human afterall. Even with not desiring a relationship, your expectations still seem lofty. Try no expectations. It's a better match for - no relationship...keeping in mind that you don't know them.Posted by VenusAquariusLol... what gemini? I only remember one and he was all the wrong kinds of trouble!Posted by lotuslily
Do taurus men like phone sex?
Do taurus men like getting naughty pics and do they enjoy sexting?
Taurus guys please answer. I'm looking for answers from more open minded people. I don't wanna hear if you think I'm a hoebag. I'm quite comfortable with my sexuality and so is this taurus man.
As an aries, this is a sure fire way to keep my attention when I'm not in front of you... keep the sexual heat going. But taurus guy is an earth sign... how do you keep an earth sign's attention over the long haul when they're not in front of you?
It's difficult to stay in touch with anyone long distance whether family, friend, or lover.
You haven't spent enough time with him to know his interests or desires. Generally, I think Taurus men do enjoy phone sex and naughty pics. You will know from the response you receive either way.
Just as in a relationships, desire and effort has to be reciprocated to some degree.
There are few men who can hold down desire and effort for two. They manage the whole relationship. That's what I have to have. For me, those men have often had Mars in Taurus.
I always get excited to see you fellow Aries. You're beautifully "savage." I'm sure you will hold his interest.
I loved your recount of the time you had with the Gemini.
You should journal these experiences. Your general approach to relationships is detached. A journal will help with that.
And "beautifully savage".... I love that ??
His sun is taurus, my sun is aries
His moon is pisces, my moon is Leo
His venus is gemini, my venus is pisces
His Mars is pisces, my Mars is pisces
How do those aspects relate?
The placements listing is not much to go on. The synastry looks good but, his natal chart on it's own doesn't bode well for committed romantic relationships. He's very mutable. Moon square Venus men are hard to please (usually a Madonna/whore complex. It's a fine line to walk). Not to mention Moon square Mars... Excitable, elusive, and maybe not very self-aware. Moon squares often speak to a lack of self-awareness or a stubborn refusal to accept how they are perceived.click to expand
That's so interesting that you said Madonna complex. I hadn't heard of it before so I looked it up. I very much consider myself to be a 'priestess/sacred w.h.o.r.e'!!!
I feel I've removed the rift between those two aspects of myself through the tantric work and practices and I very much value and love both those aspects of myself now.... your "beautifully savage" comes to mind again.
Oh. Yes we are similar.
So, for me to put it in more perspective for you:
I have a little collection of lovers who I have met over the years... everyone has their own life going on in whatever part of the world they feel they need to be in. There's Aries, Leo, libra, cancer and another libra. Whenever we are in the same area and circumstances allow, I meet up with them and enjoy playtime with them for however long circumstances permit. The longest one in there has been going on since 2009. None of them less than 3 years. When they are away/out of play, I still have others to connect with. It allows me variety without sleeping around too much with guys I don't have a good connection with. They all know the setup ans they are all open to have other connections with other women. For the most part, it's all very honest and transparent.
I want the taurus added to my collection. He has a flavour unlike the others. His sensual side allows my sensual side to come out.... and in a world where most single guys like to fuck... someone sensual is a breath of fresh air. And I like how down to earth he is.
So, for me to put it in more perspective for you:
I have a little collection of lovers who I have met over the years... everyone has their own life going on in whatever part of the world they feel they need to be in. There's Aries, Leo, libra, cancer and another libra. Whenever we are in the same area and circumstances allow, I meet up with them and enjoy playtime with them for however long circumstances permit. The longest one in there has been going on since 2009. None of them less than 3 years. When they are away/out of play, I still have others to connect with. It allows me variety without sleeping around too much with guys I don't have a good connection with. They all know the setup ans they are all open to have other connections with other women. For the most part, it's all very honest and transparent.
I want the taurus added to my collection. He has a flavour unlike the others. His sensual side allows my sensual side to come out.... and in a world where most single guys like to fuck... someone sensual is a breath of fresh air. And I like how down to earth he is.
Sounds all good until u get an STD
Posted by pinkbird03There are responsible ways to have casual sex you know.
Sounds all good until u get an STD
Posted by lotuslilySure, but how can you be 100% certain everyone involved is being responsible? Especially when it's 20+ people involved and you don't know some of the people that sleep with your partners. Way too risky. You'll regret it one day when you catch one of those really bad diseases. Hope you at least got the guardasil shots!!Posted by pinkbird03There are responsible ways to have casual sex you know.
Sounds all good until u get an STDclick to expand
Haha! Virgo men bore the living daylights put of me! Nooooo thank you.
I hear what you are saying re taurus and their self worth. But I don't accept it. I am sleeping with the same men and using protection because I know that they may not use protection with who they get with. And he is waaaaaayyyyy more sexually active and I'm not sure if he uses protection with other women. He's also very sex positive about women's sexuality. He is open minded, and a progressive thinker and believes both genders should basically sleep with as many people as possible. His attitude toward sexuality is not oppressive at all.
I hear what you are saying re taurus and their self worth. But I don't accept it. I am sleeping with the same men and using protection because I know that they may not use protection with who they get with. And he is waaaaaayyyyy more sexually active and I'm not sure if he uses protection with other women. He's also very sex positive about women's sexuality. He is open minded, and a progressive thinker and believes both genders should basically sleep with as many people as possible. His attitude toward sexuality is not oppressive at all.
Posted by pinkbird03You can't be 100% sure everyone is being responsible. You can only make sure you're being responsible. My exact words to my lovers are: if you don't bring condoms, you're not getting laid. They bring them and don't try to undermine me. They get it.Posted by lotuslilySure, but how can you be 100% certain everyone involved is being responsible? Especially when it's 20+ people involved and you don't know some of the people that sleep with your partners. Way too risky. You'll regret it one day when you catch one of those really bad diseases. Hope you at least got the guardasil shots!!Posted by pinkbird03There are responsible ways to have casual sex you know.
Sounds all good until u get an STDclick to expand
Posted by lotuslilyCasually responsible 😄Posted by pinkbird03There are responsible ways to have casual sex you know.
Sounds all good until u get an STDclick to expand
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Lol. I admit to being dickmatized. He did me so right.
One last thing OP, you are definitely DICKMATIZED "... U may need professional help for that..
Good luck
I guess only time will tell. I'll be sure to post an update if I ever see him again.
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Don't worry about the long haul, your the impatient one, he is the long term one, unless he's made up his mind about you, and your not long term material, e.g you go to a club , you start flirting with the guys , he won't say anything , but basically your nailing that coffin shut.
So I'm saving you all the sex toys and phone calls, don't push this, "I'm comfortable in my body crap" because the only body you will be lying with is your own.
Posted by lotuslilyThe problem with Aries is, you think the world revolves around you, Taurean are thoughtful you are thoughtless, you don't mind being out of your comfort zone, but some of us do. You push that agenda because you're bored and place your bull in a position, he will see red.
Do taurus men like phone sex?
Do taurus men like getting naughty pics and do they enjoy sexting? Complete turn-off
Taurus guys please answer. I'm looking for answers from more open minded people. I don't wanna hear if you think I'm a hoebag. I'm quite comfortable with my sexuality and so is this Taurus man.
I am very open minded, but that doesn't mean I want you to urinate over my face, what wrong with having some integrity, I'm not bored of you, I like you has you are, I don't need to top this up by you showing me your tits in snap chat.
As an aries, this is a sure fire way to keep my attention when I'm not in front of you... keep the sexual heat going. But Taurus guy is an earth sign... how do you keep an earth sign's attention over the long haul when they're not in front of you?
Don't worry about the long haul, your the impatient one, he is the long term one, unless he's made up his mind about you, and your not long term material, e.g you go to a club , you start flirting with the guys , he won't say anything , but basically your nailing that coffin shut.
So I'm saving you all the sex toys and phone calls, don't push this, "I'm comfortable in my body crap" because the only body you will be lying with is your own.
Posted by tizianiWhat a champion! Thanks Tiziani. I guess I'll chill out and get a life about it soon... its been quite a process having this whirlwind adventure appear out of nowhere and me coming back to life as a result... and then he was gone and it was like I was infatuated with a ghost and that it was all a dream. So my mind has developed a bit of lock jaw on the memories because that's all I had. I had such a great time with him and it was such a breath of fresh air in my stale life that I think the space I'm in now just wants to make sure I can have that again and so I'm wanting to make sure he remembers me for if he comes back. I reckon if I just relax and find some chill about it.... time will go faster and he'll probably let me know when he's booked his next flight back. We're chatting and it's chilled.... but I feel like I could probably loosen my grip on trying to control the outcome.
Look, to be real, you look like you're getting distracted by other people being offended by your life style and giving you advice based on their own values.
No one here has any idea what they're talking about because they're not him, nor am I. That's just the bottom line of it.
The only real thing we have to go on is that you've noticed - between you both - that things happen to go better in person. So your best move is to lock down a future date for when you're both sure you can meet in person. Nothing more or less than that. Anything else is a distraction and you wouldn't be using the strengths of your relationship together which is the only thing you have in your advantage over all the physical distance in the meantime.
Let's save you all some time.
There is no helping this chick. She does the same thing every few years. She wants to bang with no ramifications.
There is no helping this chick. She does the same thing every few years. She wants to bang with no ramifications.
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Let's save you all some time.
There is no helping this chick. She does the same thing every few years. She wants to bang with no ramifications.
.....isn't that something men have been doing, and accepted for, for years?
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