vesper
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Taurus male came back again for the 3rd time? what!?
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Hes coming back for more sex
Hes trying to wear you down
Hes a fixed sign, he will be back..
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Hes trying to wear you down
Hes a fixed sign, he will be back..
Again
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Posted by DMVyou've been there?
Hes coming back for more sex
Hes trying to wear you down
Hes a fixed sign, he will be back..
Again
And
Again
5 years and counting.
Bulls are a lot more intuitive than people give us credit for?
What is it that you really want to ask us?
1. How do I get this Taurus man to leave me alone?
2. How do I get this Taurus man on board to the path of a committed relationship?
There are 'block features' in every communications media.
Block feature =Permanent Rejection.
He's contacting you because he knows you're still interested.
As for his intentions?
Who knows, he's a Bull, only time will tell....
After all...
We operate on a grandfather's clock....
tick..tock...tick...tock
Tick = Hedonism
Tock= Stability
What is it that you really want to ask us?
1. How do I get this Taurus man to leave me alone?
2. How do I get this Taurus man on board to the path of a committed relationship?
There are 'block features' in every communications media.
Block feature =Permanent Rejection.
He's contacting you because he knows you're still interested.
As for his intentions?
Who knows, he's a Bull, only time will tell....
After all...
We operate on a grandfather's clock....
tick..tock...tick...tock
Tick = Hedonism
Tock= Stability
Posted by TaurusBull1977Ah! good that i have option to give me some insights; why not explain it to me both?
Bulls are a lot more intuitive than people give us credit for?
What is it that you really want to ask us?
1. How do I get this Taurus man to leave me alone?
2. How do I get this Taurus man on board to the path of a committed relationship?
There are 'block features' in every communications media.
Block feature =Permanent Rejection.
He's contacting you because he knows you're still interested.
As for his intentions?
Who knows, he's a Bull, only time will tell....
After all...
We operate on a grandfather's clock....
tick..tock...tick...tock
Tick = Hedonism
Tock= Stability
as I mentioned from the above 'I rejected him twice' i made it crystal clear to him. Now i'm thinking of a way to literally end all these nonsense coming from him. It's not that so difficult to make him understand right?
Taurus women is doing this with me now. For a yearrrr. And I never touched her lol. She keeps ruining the few relationships she tried to get in because of this shit
you said you blew him off a few times but he keeps coming back ? he must like you and it sounds like you must like him - otherwise it would not be a problem to just blow him off one more time - I mean what is the big thing ... so he likes you and keeps coming back - if you don't like him he will eventually get the picture but he's not threatening to you in any way - what a bother to try to talk to someone you like ?
Posted by vesper
Huh?
Since that time I met a Taurus male back in 2014 (which was basically casual) especially for him. Which probably you can imagine we went out together, conversation, have couple of drinks and sex sex sex (which lasted only in short period of time) because he doesn't want anything serious since i'm basically the opposite so I decided not to continue and he did the same. After that he came back again 'Twice' just to check 'how i'm doing with my life' he wanted me around; which i kind of rejected him twice because I just literally didn't want to have any communication with him and now his back again. I mean i did let him know that there's nothing for me and him to continue. Now his back again for the bloody 3rd time; Now he wants me to travel (since his travelling around for 1month now) wants me to go with him to my country which is very strange for me after all that rejection I gave like its nothing to him?
what does he really want 'SEX' i got nothing to give to people who are less deserving with my life! can just someone please give me some insights of why this Taurus Male keeps coming back to me? what did i do wrong huh? i just want him to apologise and just be gone.
P.S. I'm a Scorpio and His Taurus Male
Are you sure you're not giving him an idea that you're still into him?
If you've said nothing but "fuck off", I get it, but have you been less than absolute in your rejection? How explicit were you and have you really shut him down completely?
Posted by tctaHe does like me but I liked him too but that was two years ago; I know it's not a bother to talk to someone (right now I have to be nice and act civilized) sooner or later I will have to tell him again, be honest about how I feel and just moved on right?
you said you blew him off a few times but he keeps coming back ? he must like you and it sounds like you must like him - otherwise it would not be a problem to just blow him off one more time - I mean what is the big thing ... so he likes you and keeps coming back - if you don't like him he will eventually get the picture but he's not threatening to you in any way - what a bother to try to talk to someone you like ?
I mean he still see me as an object like any other women he slept with; His not really treating me like woman. Because of a sudden intimacy. NO. it needs to stop. It doesn't really work that way with me.
Posted by solo87i don't know the situation but it must have been difficult for you and her too!
Taurus women is doing this with me now. For a yearrrr. And I never touched her lol. She keeps ruining the few relationships she tried to get in because of this shit
Posted by Bricks195Posted by vesper
Huh?
Since that time I met a Taurus male back in 2014 (which was basically casual) especially for him. Which probably you can imagine we went out together, conversation, have couple of drinks and sex sex sex (which lasted only in short period of time) because he doesn't want anything serious since i'm basically the opposite so I decided not to continue and he did the same. After that he came back again 'Twice' just to check 'how i'm doing with my life' he wanted me around; which i kind of rejected him twice because I just literally didn't want to have any communication with him and now his back again. I mean i did let him know that there's nothing for me and him to continue. Now his back again for the bloody 3rd time; Now he wants me to travel (since his travelling around for 1month now) wants me to go with him to my country which is very strange for me after all that rejection I gave like its nothing to him?
what does he really want 'SEX' i got nothing to give to people who are less deserving with my life! can just someone please give me some insights of why this Taurus Male keeps coming back to me? what did i do wrong huh? i just want him to apologise and just be gone.
P.S. I'm a Scorpio and His Taurus Male
Are you sure you're not giving him an idea that you're still into him?
If you've said nothing but "fuck off", I get it, but have you been less than absolute in your rejection? How explicit were you and have you really shut him down completely?
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I am definitely sure! 100% rejected him twice. I can't pretend and lie to myself that i still like him. I don't. Look his nice and all that but he doesn't really wanna get too involved with me so why should I put myself in the situation when I know the fact he made it so clear that there's nothing serious between me and him- well at least that what i know of from 2 years ago. I'm not gonna have someone that moved back from London to Italy.NO.
The only questions I'm asking is what ticks them and why they still come back?
He does like me but I liked him too but that was two years ago; I know it's not a bother to talk to someone (right now I have to be nice and act civilized) sooner or later I will have to tell him again, be honest about how I feel and just moved on right?
I mean he still see me as an object like any other women he slept with; His not really treating me like woman. Because of a sudden intimacy. NO. it needs to stop. It doesn't really work that way with me.
no that doesn't work - and it's hard to go backwards for me so I get you ... it would be the same all over again because he hasn't grown at all - men and women need to treat each other with respect
Vesper,
When he initiates contact....
1. What is he telling you?
2. How is he contacting you? (via social media, phone call, text, etc)
You're not blocking him, but yet something tells me you're not engaging him in conversation either....
Let me ask you a question,
How did you bring up the monogamy question?
The two of you hooked up prematurely, not judging you, but sometimes I have to absorb how unorthodox the rest of the world may view "hooking up" as immediately being equated to "in a relationship."
With Bulls, there are no gray areas, we do not merge the two.
Only time can tell if these two entities can be intertwined as one.
Something tells me he was dismissed quickly before he was given the option.
Someone once created a thread asking about the most difficult part of dating a Bull.
I answered.
"The Waiting Game"
When he initiates contact....
1. What is he telling you?
2. How is he contacting you? (via social media, phone call, text, etc)
You're not blocking him, but yet something tells me you're not engaging him in conversation either....
Let me ask you a question,
How did you bring up the monogamy question?
The two of you hooked up prematurely, not judging you, but sometimes I have to absorb how unorthodox the rest of the world may view "hooking up" as immediately being equated to "in a relationship."
With Bulls, there are no gray areas, we do not merge the two.
Only time can tell if these two entities can be intertwined as one.
Something tells me he was dismissed quickly before he was given the option.
Someone once created a thread asking about the most difficult part of dating a Bull.
I answered.
"The Waiting Game"
Posted by TaurusBull1977he tells me that his attracted to me, he likes me as a person, an artist etc.
Vesper,
When he initiates contact....
1. What is he telling you?
2. How is he contacting you? (via social media, phone call, text, etc)
You're not blocking him, but yet something tells me you're not engaging him in conversation either....
Let me ask you a question,
How did you bring up the monogamy question?
The two of you hooked up prematurely, not judging you, but sometimes I have to absorb how unorthodox the rest of the world may view "hooking up" as immediately being equated to "in a relationship."
With Bulls, there are no gray areas, we do not merge the two.
Only time can tell if these two entities can be intertwined as one.
Something tells me he was dismissed quickly before he was given the option.
Someone once created a thread asking about the most difficult part of dating a Bull.
I answered.
"The Waiting Game"
he contacts me via social media.
I don't block people not unless someone pisses me off, I'm not blocking him because its not necessarily and yes I'm not engaging any conversations with him. His the one who initiate.
Yes, I understand ''Hooking up'' being equated to ''in relationship'' is not a very good thinking. I used to think that way too but that was in the past; I'm learning and careful about it.
Option? there were no option; he made it clear and I have to understand or accept the truth. I have to dismiss him as soon as possible (even though it was very hard for me) I have too. I have no choice.
He knows I forbid him for doing that.
Posted by TaurusBull1977For the Bulls, Yes it is ''The Waiting Game'' they do need someone that have patient to them since they take things slow. But that's all i know. If you have anything in mind please do share it. It will be great for me or to anyone around 🙂
Vesper,
When he initiates contact....
1. What is he telling you?
2. How is he contacting you? (via social media, phone call, text, etc)
You're not blocking him, but yet something tells me you're not engaging him in conversation either....
Let me ask you a question,
How did you bring up the monogamy question?
The two of you hooked up prematurely, not judging you, but sometimes I have to absorb how unorthodox the rest of the world may view "hooking up" as immediately being equated to "in a relationship."
With Bulls, there are no gray areas, we do not merge the two.
Only time can tell if these two entities can be intertwined as one.
Something tells me he was dismissed quickly before he was given the option.
Someone once created a thread asking about the most difficult part of dating a Bull.
I answered.
"The Waiting Game"
Posted by tctaHe does like me but I liked him too but that was two years ago; I know it's not a bother to talk to someone (right now I have to be nice and act civilized) sooner or later I will have to tell him again, be honest about how I feel and just moved on right?
I mean he still see me as an object like any other women he slept with; His not really treating me like woman. Because of a sudden intimacy. NO. it needs to stop. It doesn't really work that way with me.
no that doesn't work - and it's hard to go backwards for me so I get you ... it would be the same all over again because he hasn't grown at all - men and women need to treat each other with respect
Indeed, it doesn't really work that way to anyone, to you or for myself. I won't obligate the person to force themselves with me. It's not nice and it's a problem. If he really is a changed man that because he did for himself and for his own good not for others. That is a real ''CHANGE''
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by vesperThen BLOCK him!Posted by Bricks195Posted by vesper
Huh?
Since that time I met a Taurus male back in 2014 (which was basically casual) especially for him. Which probably you can imagine we went out together, conversation, have couple of drinks and sex sex sex (which lasted only in short period of time) because he doesn't want anything serious since i'm basically the opposite so I decided not to continue and he did the same. After that he came back again 'Twice' just to check 'how i'm doing with my life' he wanted me around; which i kind of rejected him twice because I just literally didn't want to have any communication with him and now his back again. I mean i did let him know that there's nothing for me and him to continue. Now his back again for the bloody 3rd time; Now he wants me to travel (since his travelling around for 1month now) wants me to go with him to my country which is very strange for me after all that rejection I gave like its nothing to him?
what does he really want 'SEX' i got nothing to give to people who are less deserving with my life! can just someone please give me some insights of why this Taurus Male keeps coming back to me? what did i do wrong huh? i just want him to apologise and just be gone.
P.S. I'm a Scorpio and His Taurus Male
Are you sure you're not giving him an idea that you're still into him?
If you've said nothing but "fuck off", I get it, but have you been less than absolute in your rejection? How explicit were you and have you really shut him down completely?
I am definitely sure! 100% rejected him twice. I can't pretend and lie to myself that i still like him. I don't. Look his nice and all that but he doesn't really wanna get too involved with me so why should I put myself in the situation when I know the fact he made it so clear that there's nothing serious between me and him- well at least that what i know of from 2 years ago. I'm not gonna have someone that moved back from London to Italy.NO.
The only questions I'm asking is what ticks them and why they still come back?
Why are you really here? For attention from us!
How can he contact you if you've blockaded every viable means of him contacting you?? But you haven't have you. You when kept all lines of communication open and you have been "subtlety" entertaining him... U are a "cock tease" and you know but most of all HE knows it....click to expand
Only weak bitches do the BLOCKING thing. I'm nice I don't block people because of attention etc.
You just think that way. so Zip it.
Posted by vesperPosted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by vesperThen BLOCK him!Posted by Bricks195Posted by vesper
Huh?
Since that time I met a Taurus male back in 2014 (which was basically casual) especially for him. Which probably you can imagine we went out together, conversation, have couple of drinks and sex sex sex (which lasted only in short period of time) because he doesn't want anything serious since i'm basically the opposite so I decided not to continue and he did the same. After that he came back again 'Twice' just to check 'how i'm doing with my life' he wanted me around; which i kind of rejected him twice because I just literally didn't want to have any communication with him and now his back again. I mean i did let him know that there's nothing for me and him to continue. Now his back again for the bloody 3rd time; Now he wants me to travel (since his travelling around for 1month now) wants me to go with him to my country which is very strange for me after all that rejection I gave like its nothing to him?
what does he really want 'SEX' i got nothing to give to people who are less deserving with my life! can just someone please give me some insights of why this Taurus Male keeps coming back to me? what did i do wrong huh? i just want him to apologise and just be gone.
P.S. I'm a Scorpio and His Taurus Male
Are you sure you're not giving him an idea that you're still into him?
If you've said nothing but "fuck off", I get it, but have you been less than absolute in your rejection? How explicit were you and have you really shut him down completely?
I am definitely sure! 100% rejected him twice. I can't pretend and lie to myself that i still like him. I don't. Look his nice and all that but he doesn't really wanna get too involved with me so why should I put myself in the situation when I know the fact he made it so clear that there's nothing serious between me and him- well at least that what i know of from 2 years ago. I'm not gonna have someone that moved back from London to Italy.NO.
The only questions I'm asking is what ticks them and why they still come back?
Why are you really here? For attention from us!
How can he contact you if you've blockaded every viable means of him contacting you?? But you haven't have you. You when kept all lines of communication open and you have been "subtlety" entertaining him... U are a "cock tease" and you know but most of all HE knows it....
Only weak b1!tChes do the BLOCKING thing. I'm nice I don't block people because of attention etc.
You just think that way. so Zip it. Know the differences.click to expand
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100You're a TOSH (contained a lot of tosh).Posted by vesperAbsolute tosh!Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by vesperThen BLOCK him!Posted by Bricks195Posted by vesper
Huh?
Since that time I met a Taurus male back in 2014 (which was basically casual) especially for him. Which probably you can imagine we went out together, conversation, have couple of drinks and sex sex sex (which lasted only in short period of time) because he doesn't want anything serious since i'm basically the opposite so I decided not to continue and he did the same. After that he came back again 'Twice' just to check 'how i'm doing with my life' he wanted me around; which i kind of rejected him twice because I just literally didn't want to have any communication with him and now his back again. I mean i did let him know that there's nothing for me and him to continue. Now his back again for the bloody 3rd time; Now he wants me to travel (since his travelling around for 1month now) wants me to go with him to my country which is very strange for me after all that rejection I gave like its nothing to him?
what does he really want 'SEX' i got nothing to give to people who are less deserving with my life! can just someone please give me some insights of why this Taurus Male keeps coming back to me? what did i do wrong huh? i just want him to apologise and just be gone.
P.S. I'm a Scorpio and His Taurus Male
Are you sure you're not giving him an idea that you're still into him?
If you've said nothing but "fuck off", I get it, but have you been less than absolute in your rejection? How explicit were you and have you really shut him down completely?
I am definitely sure! 100% rejected him twice. I can't pretend and lie to myself that i still like him. I don't. Look his nice and all that but he doesn't really wanna get too involved with me so why should I put myself in the situation when I know the fact he made it so clear that there's nothing serious between me and him- well at least that what i know of from 2 years ago. I'm not gonna have someone that moved back from London to Italy.NO.
The only questions I'm asking is what ticks them and why they still come back?
Why are you really here? For attention from us!
How can he contact you if you've blockaded every viable means of him contacting you?? But you haven't have you. You when kept all lines of communication open and you have been "subtlety" entertaining him... U are a "cock tease" and you know but most of all HE knows it....
Only weak bitches do the BLOCKING thing. I'm nice I don't block people because of attention etc.
You just think that way. so Zip it.
click to expand
Posted by vesperPosted by JohnTheBaptist100You're a TOSH (contained a lot of tosh).Posted by vesperAbsolute tosh!Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by vesperThen BLOCK him!Posted by Bricks195Posted by vesper
Huh?
Since that time I met a Taurus male back in 2014 (which was basically casual) especially for him. Which probably you can imagine we went out together, conversation, have couple of drinks and sex sex sex (which lasted only in short period of time) because he doesn't want anything serious since i'm basically the opposite so I decided not to continue and he did the same. After that he came back again 'Twice' just to check 'how i'm doing with my life' he wanted me around; which i kind of rejected him twice because I just literally didn't want to have any communication with him and now his back again. I mean i did let him know that there's nothing for me and him to continue. Now his back again for the bloody 3rd time; Now he wants me to travel (since his travelling around for 1month now) wants me to go with him to my country which is very strange for me after all that rejection I gave like its nothing to him?
what does he really want 'SEX' i got nothing to give to people who are less deserving with my life! can just someone please give me some insights of why this Taurus Male keeps coming back to me? what did i do wrong huh? i just want him to apologise and just be gone.
P.S. I'm a Scorpio and His Taurus Male
Are you sure you're not giving him an idea that you're still into him?
If you've said nothing but "fuck off", I get it, but have you been less than absolute in your rejection? How explicit were you and have you really shut him down completely?
I am definitely sure! 100% rejected him twice. I can't pretend and lie to myself that i still like him. I don't. Look his nice and all that but he doesn't really wanna get too involved with me so why should I put myself in the situation when I know the fact he made it so clear that there's nothing serious between me and him- well at least that what i know of from 2 years ago. I'm not gonna have someone that moved back from London to Italy.NO.
The only questions I'm asking is what ticks them and why they still come back?
Why are you really here? For attention from us!
How can he contact you if you've blockaded every viable means of him contacting you?? But you haven't have you. You when kept all lines of communication open and you have been "subtlety" entertaining him... U are a "cock tease" and you know but most of all HE knows it....
Only weak bitches do the BLOCKING thing. I'm nice I don't block people because of attention etc.
You just think that way. so Zip it. know the differences. TSK!
click to expand
Posted by vesperPosted by vesperPosted by JohnTheBaptist100You're a TOSH (contained a lot of tosh).Posted by vesperAbsolute tosh!Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by vesperThen BLOCK him!Posted by Bricks195Posted by vesper
Huh?
Since that time I met a Taurus male back in 2014 (which was basically casual) especially for him. Which probably you can imagine we went out together, conversation, have couple of drinks and sex sex sex (which lasted only in short period of time) because he doesn't want anything serious since i'm basically the opposite so I decided not to continue and he did the same. After that he came back again 'Twice' just to check 'how i'm doing with my life' he wanted me around; which i kind of rejected him twice because I just literally didn't want to have any communication with him and now his back again. I mean i did let him know that there's nothing for me and him to continue. Now his back again for the bloody 3rd time; Now he wants me to travel (since his travelling around for 1month now) wants me to go with him to my country which is very strange for me after all that rejection I gave like its nothing to him?
what does he really want 'SEX' i got nothing to give to people who are less deserving with my life! can just someone please give me some insights of why this Taurus Male keeps coming back to me? what did i do wrong huh? i just want him to apologise and just be gone.
P.S. I'm a Scorpio and His Taurus Male
Are you sure you're not giving him an idea that you're still into him?
If you've said nothing but "fuck off", I get it, but have you been less than absolute in your rejection? How explicit were you and have you really shut him down completely?
I am definitely sure! 100% rejected him twice. I can't pretend and lie to myself that i still like him. I don't. Look his nice and all that but he doesn't really wanna get too involved with me so why should I put myself in the situation when I know the fact he made it so clear that there's nothing serious between me and him- well at least that what i know of from 2 years ago. I'm not gonna have someone that moved back from London to Italy.NO.
The only questions I'm asking is what ticks them and why they still come back?
Why are you really here? For attention from us!
How can he contact you if you've blockaded every viable means of him contacting you?? But you haven't have you. You when kept all lines of communication open and you have been "subtlety" entertaining him... U are a "cock tease" and you know but most of all HE knows it....
Only weak b!1tches do the BLOCKING thing. I'm nice I don't block people because of attention etc.
You just think that way. so Zip it. know the differences. TSK!
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How long were the two of you hooking up?
How long did the two of you know each other prior to hooking up?
How long did the two of you know each other prior to hooking up?
Posted by vesperYou're not engaging in conversations? So you don't respond? I think if you want him to leave you alone, just keep ignoring him like you are now.Posted by TaurusBull1977he tells me that his attracted to me, he likes me as a person, an artist etc.
Vesper,
When he initiates contact....
1. What is he telling you?
2. How is he contacting you? (via social media, phone call, text, etc)
You're not blocking him, but yet something tells me you're not engaging him in conversation either....
Let me ask you a question,
How did you bring up the monogamy question?
The two of you hooked up prematurely, not judging you, but sometimes I have to absorb how unorthodox the rest of the world may view "hooking up" as immediately being equated to "in a relationship."
With Bulls, there are no gray areas, we do not merge the two.
Only time can tell if these two entities can be intertwined as one.
Something tells me he was dismissed quickly before he was given the option.
Someone once created a thread asking about the most difficult part of dating a Bull.
I answered.
"The Waiting Game"
he contacts me via social media.
I don't block people not unless someone pisses me off, I'm not blocking him because its not necessarily and yes I'm not engaging any conversations with him. His the one who initiate.
Yes, I understand ''Hooking up'' being equated to ''in relationship'' is not a very good thinking. I used to think that way too but that was in the past; I'm learning and careful about it.
Option? there were no option; he made it clear and I have to understand or accept the truth. I have to dismiss him as soon as possible (even though it was very hard for me) I have too. I have no choice.
He knows I forbid him for doing that.click to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977it didn't last long (3 days) that was it.ha. Then we stop communicating.
How long were the two of you hooking up?
How long did the two of you know each other prior to hooking up?
Only known him for 1-2 weeks; look it's been 1-2 years ago.
There's no way this guy will keep coming back; there's billions of women on this earth. why me? just WHY?
Posted by jeanewell yes; whenever he initiate i do give him the attitude/say ''not to bother me''. He knows that. He get the vibe but it's not working.Posted by vesperYou're not engaging in conversations? So you don't respond? I think if you want him to leave you alone, just keep ignoring him like you are now.Posted by TaurusBull1977he tells me that his attracted to me, he likes me as a person, an artist etc.
Vesper,
When he initiates contact....
1. What is he telling you?
2. How is he contacting you? (via social media, phone call, text, etc)
You're not blocking him, but yet something tells me you're not engaging him in conversation either....
Let me ask you a question,
How did you bring up the monogamy question?
The two of you hooked up prematurely, not judging you, but sometimes I have to absorb how unorthodox the rest of the world may view "hooking up" as immediately being equated to "in a relationship."
With Bulls, there are no gray areas, we do not merge the two.
Only time can tell if these two entities can be intertwined as one.
Something tells me he was dismissed quickly before he was given the option.
Someone once created a thread asking about the most difficult part of dating a Bull.
I answered.
"The Waiting Game"
he contacts me via social media.
I don't block people not unless someone pisses me off, I'm not blocking him because its not necessarily and yes I'm not engaging any conversations with him. His the one who initiate.
Yes, I understand ''Hooking up'' being equated to ''in relationship'' is not a very good thinking. I used to think that way too but that was in the past; I'm learning and careful about it.
Option? there were no option; he made it clear and I have to understand or accept the truth. I have to dismiss him as soon as possible (even though it was very hard for me) I have too. I have no choice.
He knows I forbid him for doing that.click to expand
Posted by vesperPosted by jeanewell yes; whenever he initiate i do give him the attitude/say ''not to bother me''. He knows that. He get the vibe but it's not working.Posted by vesperYou're not engaging in conversations? So you don't respond? I think if you want him to leave you alone, just keep ignoring him like you are now.Posted by TaurusBull1977he tells me that his attracted to me, he likes me as a person, an artist etc.
Vesper,
When he initiates contact....
1. What is he telling you?
2. How is he contacting you? (via social media, phone call, text, etc)
You're not blocking him, but yet something tells me you're not engaging him in conversation either....
Let me ask you a question,
How did you bring up the monogamy question?
The two of you hooked up prematurely, not judging you, but sometimes I have to absorb how unorthodox the rest of the world may view "hooking up" as immediately being equated to "in a relationship."
With Bulls, there are no gray areas, we do not merge the two.
Only time can tell if these two entities can be intertwined as one.
Something tells me he was dismissed quickly before he was given the option.
Someone once created a thread asking about the most difficult part of dating a Bull.
I answered.
"The Waiting Game"
he contacts me via social media.
I don't block people not unless someone pisses me off, I'm not blocking him because its not necessarily and yes I'm not engaging any conversations with him. His the one who initiate.
Yes, I understand ''Hooking up'' being equated to ''in relationship'' is not a very good thinking. I used to think that way too but that was in the past; I'm learning and careful about it.
Option? there were no option; he made it clear and I have to understand or accept the truth. I have to dismiss him as soon as possible (even though it was very hard for me) I have too. I have no choice.
He knows I forbid him for doing that.
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So you do engage him then. You've made yourself a challenge. He'll continue to pursue while you playing along with his game.
Youll just have to keep on ignoring. It will become like second nature.
No words.
If he calls from a different number, say no words. Just hang up.
No words.
If he calls from a different number, say no words. Just hang up.
Posted by TaurusBull1977You expected him to commit to you after hooking up....knowing you for only two weeks?
How long were the two of you hooking up?
How long did the two of you know each other prior to hooking up?
LMMMMMMAAAAO!
Girl, bye!
I hate to say this, but the Taurus man did have a valid point on this one...
And no, you did NOT give him the option to get to know you better while keeping his options open, which of course is practical.
Instead you cornered him with an ultimatum.
He doesn't really know you.
Scorpios!
The 'intense' demands...
Gotta love you guys though. 😉
Posted by TaurusBull1977Look woman! can you read the article from the above? Can you understand ABC or not?Posted by TaurusBull1977You expected him to commit to you after hooking up....knowing you for only two weeks?
How long were the two of you hooking up?
How long did the two of you know each other prior to hooking up?
LMMMMMMAAAAO!
Girl, bye!
I hate to say this, but the Taurus man did have a valid point on this one...
And no, you did NOT give him the option to get to know you better while keeping his options open, which of course is practical.
Instead you cornered him with an ultimatum.
He doesn't really know you.
Scorpios!
The 'intense' demands...
Gotta love you guys though. 😉
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Why would I expect someone from 1-2 years ago to commit with me when in fact it was just a fling and why did I stop in the 1st place not to continue without any communication from him back then... I don't need that nonsense in my life. Now this Taurus man just plainly chasing me for no reasons when I already made it clear for him TWICE to forbid him going after me
Posted by vesperPosted by TaurusBull1977Look woman! can you read the article from the above? Can you understand ABC or not?Posted by TaurusBull1977You expected him to commit to you after hooking up....knowing you for only two weeks?
How long were the two of you hooking up?
How long did the two of you know each other prior to hooking up?
LMMMMMMAAAAO!
Girl, bye!
I hate to say this, but the Taurus man did have a valid point on this one...
And no, you did NOT give him the option to get to know you better while keeping his options open, which of course is practical.
Instead you cornered him with an ultimatum.
He doesn't really know you.
Scorpios!
The 'intense' demands...
Gotta love you guys though. 😉
Why would I expect someone from 1-2 years ago to commit with me when in fact it was just a fling and why did I stop in the 1st place not to continue without any communication from him back then... I don't need that nonsense in my life. Now this Taurus man just plainly chasing me for no reasons when I already made it clear for him TWICE to forbid him going after me.
Guru BYE! tsk!click to expand
Posted by jeaneLol what game, that game is over though. There's nothing I can do with/without his presence. in fact no one even can understand what my questions was all about? because all the JUDGEMENTAL here are literally starting without empathy/understanding.Posted by vesperPosted by jeanewell yes; whenever he initiate i do give him the attitude/say ''not to bother me''. He knows that. He get the vibe but it's not working.Posted by vesperYou're not engaging in conversations? So you don't respond? I think if you want him to leave you alone, just keep ignoring him like you are now.Posted by TaurusBull1977he tells me that his attracted to me, he likes me as a person, an artist etc.
Vesper,
When he initiates contact....
1. What is he telling you?
2. How is he contacting you? (via social media, phone call, text, etc)
You're not blocking him, but yet something tells me you're not engaging him in conversation either....
Let me ask you a question,
How did you bring up the monogamy question?
The two of you hooked up prematurely, not judging you, but sometimes I have to absorb how unorthodox the rest of the world may view "hooking up" as immediately being equated to "in a relationship."
With Bulls, there are no gray areas, we do not merge the two.
Only time can tell if these two entities can be intertwined as one.
Something tells me he was dismissed quickly before he was given the option.
Someone once created a thread asking about the most difficult part of dating a Bull.
I answered.
"The Waiting Game"
he contacts me via social media.
I don't block people not unless someone pisses me off, I'm not blocking him because its not necessarily and yes I'm not engaging any conversations with him. His the one who initiate.
Yes, I understand ''Hooking up'' being equated to ''in relationship'' is not a very good thinking. I used to think that way too but that was in the past; I'm learning and careful about it.
Option? there were no option; he made it clear and I have to understand or accept the truth. I have to dismiss him as soon as possible (even though it was very hard for me) I have too. I have no choice.
He knows I forbid him for doing that.
So you do engage him then. You've made yourself a challenge. He'll continue to pursue while you playing along with his game.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977so if you believe that I want commitment. why did he came back now after 1-2 years ago without me having a communication with him ?Posted by TaurusBull1977You expected him to commit to you after hooking up....knowing you for only two weeks?
How long were the two of you hooking up?
How long did the two of you know each other prior to hooking up?
LMMMMMMAAAAO!
Girl, bye!
I hate to say this, but the Taurus man did have a valid point on this one...
And no, you did NOT give him the option to get to know you better while keeping his options open, which of course is practical.
Instead you cornered him with an ultimatum.
He doesn't really know you.
Scorpios!
The 'intense' demands...
Gotta love you guys though. 😉
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Posted by VageenkaGirl if you do understand that there's nothing wrong of not 'BLOCKING' people then i don't have a problem accomplishing it. BLOCKING people are just for narrow minded. I'm nice but there's limit of being nice too and blocking people out.
*Claims she wants him out of her life*
*Doesn't block him on social media and allows him to contact her*
Girl... I may not be a Scorpio but I have a very heavy Scorpio influence in my chart. If I want to cut people out of my life and disappear... I have no problems accomplishing it.
only kids do the blocking.
Posted by VageenkaNo offence. Do you know what I block in SOCIAL MEDIA ? people like you. who had a very strong judgemental (potentially) or plainly just lack of understanding and knowledge.
*Claims she wants him out of her life*
*Doesn't block him on social media and allows him to contact her*
Girl... I may not be a Scorpio but I have a very heavy Scorpio influence in my chart. If I want to cut people out of my life and disappear... I have no problems accomplishing it.
Posted by VageenkaLol even if we hang out; do you even think that I can give that so easily to someone who turn to be not so good? ha?Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaGirl if you do understand that there's nothing wrong of not 'BLOCKING' people then i don't have a problem accomplishing it. BLOCKING people are just for narrow minded. I'm nice but there's limit of being nice too and blocking people out.
*Claims she wants him out of her life*
*Doesn't block him on social media and allows him to contact her*
Girl... I may not be a Scorpio but I have a very heavy Scorpio influence in my chart. If I want to cut people out of my life and disappear... I have no problems accomplishing it.
only kids do the blocking.
Kids put up with stuff that adults wouldn't. If you want him out of your life, make it impossible for him to contact you. Period.
I feel like you're looking for some sort of confirmation that he wants more then just sex. But who knows? He was a hook up and you barely got to know him. So he could be back for the sex or maybe he wants to get to know you? Find out by hanging out with him and NOT having sex... Or if you truly hate him, what are you waiting for? Remove him from your life.
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Is this what you took from my comment?
Put your lady draws on, and understand that sex with out a prior commitment can lead to emotionally screwed.
You're playing the victim card.
He continued to contact you didn't he?
Which is more than most women get from one-two or three night stands.
What were you expecting from him really?
For him to fall at the knees, rule out all practicality, and tell you that he WAS looking for a serious relationship right now....with YOU?
After two weeks of only knowing you?
Get over yourself.
As for judgement...
Girl, gone!
You slept with him prematurely...own it!
However, you did still have an opportunity to redeem yourself.
Instead, you chopped his head off for not giving you what you wanted right away.
And chose to feed your own insecurities about how things transpired between the both of you.
Is this ABC enough for you? LOL.
Lets try this...
Stop 'fake pretending' you're not interested in this Taurus guy...
And then maybe...
Just maybe...
The Bulls will start giving you REAL advice on this forum.
Word to the wise,
There is nothing either fake or pretentious about a Bull.
Put your lady draws on, and understand that sex with out a prior commitment can lead to emotionally screwed.
You're playing the victim card.
He continued to contact you didn't he?
Which is more than most women get from one-two or three night stands.
What were you expecting from him really?
For him to fall at the knees, rule out all practicality, and tell you that he WAS looking for a serious relationship right now....with YOU?
After two weeks of only knowing you?
Get over yourself.
As for judgement...
Girl, gone!
You slept with him prematurely...own it!
However, you did still have an opportunity to redeem yourself.
Instead, you chopped his head off for not giving you what you wanted right away.
And chose to feed your own insecurities about how things transpired between the both of you.
Is this ABC enough for you? LOL.
Lets try this...
Stop 'fake pretending' you're not interested in this Taurus guy...
And then maybe...
Just maybe...
The Bulls will start giving you REAL advice on this forum.
Word to the wise,
There is nothing either fake or pretentious about a Bull.
Posted by VageenkaHow did I make it so complicated hah? is it because you just don't get it do you? You're assuming that its childish and retarded?Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaNo offence. Do you know what I block in SOCIAL MEDIA ? people like you. who had a very strong judgemental (potentially) or plainly just lack of understanding and knowledge.
*Claims she wants him out of her life*
*Doesn't block him on social media and allows him to contact her*
Girl... I may not be a Scorpio but I have a very heavy Scorpio influence in my chart. If I want to cut people out of my life and disappear... I have no problems accomplishing it.
Why are you making a simple situation so complicated? I'm not judgemental I just find this situation retarded and childish. If I'm sick of someone reaching out to me I give them no way of getting into contact with me. Problem solved.
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wow do you actually use the word retarded without respect too. IMPRESSIVE. the way how you use words its actually reflecting it from you.
Posted by VageenkaHow is it so complicated? when all I do is create an article get people give there best opinion without judging. just HOW?Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaLol even if we hang out; do you even think that I can give that so easily to someone who turn to be not so good? ha?Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaGirl if you do understand that there's nothing wrong of not 'BLOCKING' people then i don't have a problem accomplishing it. BLOCKING people are just for narrow minded. I'm nice but there's limit of being nice too and blocking people out.
*Claims she wants him out of her life*
*Doesn't block him on social media and allows him to contact her*
Girl... I may not be a Scorpio but I have a very heavy Scorpio influence in my chart. If I want to cut people out of my life and disappear... I have no problems accomplishing it.
only kids do the blocking.
Kids put up with stuff that adults wouldn't. If you want him out of your life, make it impossible for him to contact you. Period.
I feel like you're looking for some sort of confirmation that he wants more then just sex. But who knows? He was a hook up and you barely got to know him. So he could be back for the sex or maybe he wants to get to know you? Find out by hanging out with him and NOT having sex... Or if you truly hate him, what are you waiting for? Remove him from your life.
I don't know. I just feel like you're complicated your life
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all I do is read
Playing the victim again?
Posted by VageenkaThere's nothing wrong of being complicated; i know whats best for me at the end of the day. tsk!Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaHow did I make it so complicated hah? is it because you just don't get it do you? You're assuming that its childish and retarded?Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaNo offence. Do you know what I block in SOCIAL MEDIA ? people like you. who had a very strong judgemental (potentially) or plainly just lack of understanding and knowledge.
*Claims she wants him out of her life*
*Doesn't block him on social media and allows him to contact her*
Girl... I may not be a Scorpio but I have a very heavy Scorpio influence in my chart. If I want to cut people out of my life and disappear... I have no problems accomplishing it.
Why are you making a simple situation so complicated? I'm not judgemental I just find this situation retarded and childish. If I'm sick of someone reaching out to me I give them no way of getting into contact with me. Problem solved.
wow do you actually use the word retarded without respect too. IMPRESSIVE. the way how you use words its actually reflecting it from you.
What's impressive is that you're here wining about a guy you supposedly have 0 interest in and want him out of your life but refuse to do anything about it.
God you are one complicated woman.
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keep assuming 🙂)
its entertaining. ya'll entertain me ha.
Posted by TaurusBull1977VICTIM? I've been there. so don't try sweetie.
Playing the victim again?
Posted by vesperit didn't last long (3 days) that was it.ha. Then we stop communicating.
Only known him for 1-2 weeks; look it's been 1-2 years ago.
Posted by VageenkaWOMEN! I'm not creating conflict here okay; if I'm gonna have it 'so be it' but seriously don't go creating something out of the questions ''I'm only asking'' do you understandPosted by vesperPosted by VageenkaHow did I make it so complicated hah? is it because you just don't get it do you? You're assuming that its childish and retarded?Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaNo offence. Do you know what I block in SOCIAL MEDIA ? people like you. who had a very strong judgemental (potentially) or plainly just lack of understanding and knowledge.
*Claims she wants him out of her life*
*Doesn't block him on social media and allows him to contact her*
Girl... I may not be a Scorpio but I have a very heavy Scorpio influence in my chart. If I want to cut people out of my life and disappear... I have no problems accomplishing it.
Why are you making a simple situation so complicated? I'm not judgemental I just find this situation retarded and childish. If I'm sick of someone reaching out to me I give them no way of getting into contact with me. Problem solved.
wow do you actually use the word retarded without respect too. IMPRESSIVE. the way how you use words its actually reflecting it from you.
What's impressive is that you're here wining about a guy you supposedly have 0 interest in and want him out of your life but refuse to do anything about it.
God you are one complicated woman.
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Posted by vesper
Huh?
Since that time I met a Taurus male back in 2014 (which was basically casual) especially for him. Which probably you can imagine we went out together, conversation, have couple of drinks and sex sex sex (which lasted only in short period of time) because he doesn't want anything serious since i'm basically the opposite so I decided not to continue and he did the same.
P.S. I'm a Scorpio and His Taurus Male
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by vesperit didn't last long (3 days) that was it.ha. Then we stop communicating.
Only known him for 1-2 weeks; look it's been 1-2 years ago.
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EXACTLY! so If you believe i want to commitment; why did I stop from the beginning and rejected him 'TWICE' if he can't give it to me. It because there's none right?
so i do get the picture 🙂 am i still playing the VICTIM now?
because seriously if I don't get a decent answer from any of you just to 'HELP' me out then that's OK too.
Vesper,
You were wrong.
Stop vilifying a man you had consensual sex with who didn't want to commit to you after hooking up with you briefly.
....And amputated his efforts when he did try to reach out you.
Not blocking him, but still admiring his persistence so that you can feed your own ego.
You shot yourself in the foot with that one.
Here is the answer to your question....
He KNOWS you're interested.
He wants to see there if there may be a potential for longevity.
If so, then a Bull will move forward...
If not, then he will feed his hedonistic tendencies, and settle for just sex.
This will be left up to you.
You were wrong.
Stop vilifying a man you had consensual sex with who didn't want to commit to you after hooking up with you briefly.
....And amputated his efforts when he did try to reach out you.
Not blocking him, but still admiring his persistence so that you can feed your own ego.
You shot yourself in the foot with that one.
Here is the answer to your question....
He KNOWS you're interested.
He wants to see there if there may be a potential for longevity.
If so, then a Bull will move forward...
If not, then he will feed his hedonistic tendencies, and settle for just sex.
This will be left up to you.
Posted by VageenkaThanks I like LADY GAGAPosted by vesperPosted by VageenkaWOMEN! I'm not creating conflict here okay; if I'm gonna have it 'so be it' but seriously don't go creating something out of the questions ''I'm only asking'' do you understandPosted by vesperPosted by VageenkaHow did I make it so complicated hah? is it because you just don't get it do you? You're assuming that its childish and retarded?Posted by vesperPosted by VageenkaNo offence. Do you know what I block in SOCIAL MEDIA ? people like you. who had a very strong judgemental (potentially) or plainly just lack of understanding and knowledge.
*Claims she wants him out of her life*
*Doesn't block him on social media and allows him to contact her*
Girl... I may not be a Scorpio but I have a very heavy Scorpio influence in my chart. If I want to cut people out of my life and disappear... I have no problems accomplishing it.
Why are you making a simple situation so complicated? I'm not judgemental I just find this situation retarded and childish. If I'm sick of someone reaching out to me I give them no way of getting into contact with me. Problem solved.
wow do you actually use the word retarded without respect too. IMPRESSIVE. the way how you use words its actually reflecting it from you.
What's impressive is that you're here wining about a guy you supposedly have 0 interest in and want him out of your life but refuse to do anything about it.
God you are one complicated woman.
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You were seeking answers to an indirect question.
You're not fooling anyone!
You're not fooling anyone!
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