A few months ago my neighbor brought his brother over to meet me..we instantly clicked. I felt like the moment I opened the door I was staring at someone I had knew for a long time. We talked and they left. Later that night he came back, helped me wash the dishes and layed on the couch watching tv. Every Monday and Tuesday after that he came back (his off days). He's 55 I'm 26 lmao. He comes over and watches my every move. Stares at me. Asks me questions. Wonders why I'm single. Tells me that we will take trips to his hometown. Hugs me the whole time kisses my neck then eventually leaves. The last time he came he asked me if I loved him, I told him LOVE IS A WEAKNESS. The feelings I have for him scared me so I told him "this relationship is temporary." He responded with "okay well that's why this isn't a relationship." We kissed later that night extremely passionate soulfully deep. Then he left, when he didn't come back the next week I panicked and ran a background check on him found out he was married.. So I went to his brothers house and cussed him out. His brother swore to me that he's not married and I'm acting crazy. I researched the lady on FB and she has a million pictures with some other man and children. My guy never came back. He went missing for months. His brother didn't even see or hear from him. Now for the last 2 months he's been coming over every Monday and Tuesday (to his brothers house.) He sits on the porch and watches my house. He watches my every move. Every week there he is sitting outside watching me. He doesn't speak to me and I don't speak to him. I wont speak to him because I feel like he should speak to me first. Just Tuesday he finally yelled my name, and I ran over. He said "do you know what you did?" I said "No" He said "you tried to interfere with my life" I responded " I don't know anything about the life you live" He asked me why wont I hold eye contact with him.. I told him "I don't think its appropriate to stare into a mans eyes" Then he looked at me and said "well, I just wanted to see your FACE..that's all." So I turned around and walked back to my house. Before he left he stopped in front of my house and just stared at me. I smiled. Then he shook his head and drove away. I was so hurt.. I don't understand. Today he was at his brother house looking at my house which is weird because he only comes on Monday and Tuesday. Today is Saturday. I ran outside like an idiot when he was leaving and smiled right at him. He looked at me into my eyes then kept driving. I don't know what to do. I'm so hurt. I cant believe he can just treat me like I'm not important anymore. How can he act like we didn't have something so special. How can I get him back.
