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Posted by saggurl88
Why don't Virgos like people who are nice to them? Sometimes, I really feel bad for the drama you guys like and put up with. You deserve better.
Most of them are secretly nervous depressives. People that are nice to them won't confirm their doubt or feed into the drama that they need to feel interesting.
Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by saggurl88
Why don't Virgos like people who are nice to them? Sometimes, I really feel bad for the drama you guys like and put up with. You deserve better.
When you are so numb sometimes you just want to feel. Anything tbh. Good or bad. And there is much more good than bad out there.
Also we attract and are attracted to headass ppl since our whole memo is “saving” 😁click to expand
It's hard work but I guess someone has to do it. Saving people is a waste of time. They create their own messes and you will always have to look after them. Glad there is more good for you then bad.
Posted by Nightcap-Posted by saggurl88
Why don't Virgos like people who are nice to them? Sometimes, I really feel bad for the drama you guys like and put up with. You deserve better.
Most of them are secretly nervous depressives. People that are nice to them won't confirm their doubt or feed into the drama that they need to feel interesting.click to expand
Damn! That makes a ton of sense. All I do is compliment, love and accept people how they are. lol It's not good enough for a Virgo. I need to put my foot in their ass in order for them to think I care 😆
Posted by TsunamyPosted by Nightcap-Posted by TsunamyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Tsunamy
These people don't get earth signs. Keep seeing him. Cap men aren't pussies. Slapping one sounds hot.
he did accept it though coz he admittedly knew what he did was wrong but he played victim with his cousins but guess that's just the fake social side of capricorn. he wants to look clean in front of his family.
I feel like attachment is strong on earth signs much like the lure of sex and money srsly.
we both kept talking about how the length of time we've been together was such as waste and how dating other people was such a waste of money as were saying our farewells lol. also, sex was one of the final topics we've had before the breakup. but we're back together now and you know he said:
"How can you badmouth me to everyone who listens to you when at any point in time we might get back together?"
"Imagine if we're married. You might murder me."
I call mind game but I'm not leaving (unless ordered) nor is he. but even then, I'd always find a way to lure him back. he must like the pain as much as I do.
I know exactly what you mean. Capricorns care way too much about reputation and for what? That's a serious downside for me. Makes them look like they're playing games. It's not solid. Not big enough risk takers. That's why I prefer the other two earth signs. Virgos will not give af what anybody thinks lol they'll go after what they want at all costs.
I'd say it's the opposite. I'm the first one to speak out regardless of reputation. Virgo doesn't like to rock the boat and will usually go along trying hard to appear normal. Virgos don't go after what they want, they're more likely to take the easy way out and go out with someone lesser than themselves so they have some form of control to fall back on.
Alright... well I don't know where you got the idea that they go out with someone lesser than themselves. Virgos are fucking losers lol. Caps make you feel like you're their dirty little secret.click to expand
Dirty little secret doesnt sound bad for a role play 😄. I don't know, I just think Virgos will settle for less than they deserve because it's easy and allows them to continue to be in their routine. In the long run it doesn't benefit them imo. Maybe I overrate their intellect but on some level there has to be a conscious realization and then what?
Posted by _elle_Posted by malloryorPosted by _elle_Posted by malloryorPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by malloryorPosted by MyStarsShine
....i remember reading there was domestic violence in the rship. Why would you go back to that?
Her last sentence gave it away she’s trolling.
At least for me the alien emoji made it pretty clear. I wouldn’t even be alarmed, if she is in an abusive relationship, she thrives off the toxicity and she thrives off of getting attention from strangers online.
I think she may be telling the truth and I’m thinking the Alien emoji represented the Other Worldly sex 😀
Yeah. But she mocks herself in the beginning by saying “yeah they’re super toxic,” then admits it’s “her” and then dismisses all of the explosive claims she made by saying they had otherworldly sex.
Troll moves, get people invested, just to then dismiss all the crazy like it’s nothing.
Sierra (her past username) isn't a troll. She is just excruciatingly honest even when it doesn't paint her in a positive light. I like the ugly honesty. It's refreshing. Too many people purposely omit ugly details which doesn't give us a full picture.
She knows this is toxic and doesn't really know how to stop the cycle. Some of us have been there. To some it may seem like easy answers to solve but real life isn't that easy.
-signed 12th house Venus
Yeah, I think we’ve all been there. But at what point does it become a broken record? What’s the point in asking for advice if you don’t actually implement said advice? If this is something she knows is toxic, and she’s struggling to break away from it, but continues to seek help without applying action, when does it just become a cry for attention with no intention of actually changing and doing better?
It just feels incredibly enabling at this point to continue to entertain such toxic behavior without accountability.
Doesn't everyone process differently?
I mean, look at that smileysmiles character (and I say character because I'm convinced that was a troll) where people spent 200+ posts talking at her and she lands on "So, should I get someone to contact him for me?".
That ^^^^ was nuts and completely pointless.
I dunno, I feel a little soft about the situation maybe because pisces moon. Yes, she needs to hear the tough answers and advice but when that is entwined with TROLL!!! Then it is kind of taken less seriously.
If we can't take her seriously than how can she take herself seriously?click to expand
That’s the problem, she isn’t taking herself seriously...while you all are.
Like I said, you can be present for someone and offer them support, because like you said, everyone processes their wounds differently. But that cycle should stop when it becomes apparent they aren’t processing anything, let alone making a progression to heal and do better. If this is the 4th or so post she’s made talking about the same ol antics, she’s not processing anything, she’s feeding off of the attention and sympathy. Thus, this has just become a platform for enabling her behavior.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Nightcap-Posted by saggurl88
Why don't Virgos like people who are nice to them? Sometimes, I really feel bad for the drama you guys like and put up with. You deserve better.
Most of them are secretly nervous depressives. People that are nice to them won't confirm their doubt or feed into the drama that they need to feel interesting.
Damn! That makes a ton of sense. All I do is compliment, love and accept people how they are. lol It's not good enough for a Virgo. I need to put my foot in their ass in order for them to think I care 😆click to expand
I like Virgos. I think it fits well with Cap but it's like you have to convince them of their worth to get them out of the doldrums of their routine. They'll cling to the cold comfort. They say Caps take Virgos for granted but it's really Caps questioning Virgo view of themselves. It's easy when they don't overthink it.
Posted by malloryorPosted by _elle_Posted by malloryorPosted by _elle_Posted by malloryorPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by malloryorPosted by MyStarsShine
....i remember reading there was domestic violence in the rship. Why would you go back to that?
Her last sentence gave it away she’s trolling.
At least for me the alien emoji made it pretty clear. I wouldn’t even be alarmed, if she is in an abusive relationship, she thrives off the toxicity and she thrives off of getting attention from strangers online.
I think she may be telling the truth and I’m thinking the Alien emoji represented the Other Worldly sex 😀
Yeah. But she mocks herself in the beginning by saying “yeah they’re super toxic,” then admits it’s “her” and then dismisses all of the explosive claims she made by saying they had otherworldly sex.
Troll moves, get people invested, just to then dismiss all the crazy like it’s nothing.
Sierra (her past username) isn't a troll. She is just excruciatingly honest even when it doesn't paint her in a positive light. I like the ugly honesty. It's refreshing. Too many people purposely omit ugly details which doesn't give us a full picture.
She knows this is toxic and doesn't really know how to stop the cycle. Some of us have been there. To some it may seem like easy answers to solve but real life isn't that easy.
-signed 12th house Venus
Yeah, I think we’ve all been there. But at what point does it become a broken record? What’s the point in asking for advice if you don’t actually implement said advice? If this is something she knows is toxic, and she’s struggling to break away from it, but continues to seek help without applying action, when does it just become a cry for attention with no intention of actually changing and doing better?
It just feels incredibly enabling at this point to continue to entertain such toxic behavior without accountability.
Doesn't everyone process differently?
I mean, look at that smileysmiles character (and I say character because I'm convinced that was a troll) where people spent 200+ posts talking at her and she lands on "So, should I get someone to contact him for me?".
That ^^^^ was nuts and completely pointless.
I dunno, I feel a little soft about the situation maybe because pisces moon. Yes, she needs to hear the tough answers and advice but when that is entwined with TROLL!!! Then it is kind of taken less seriously.
If we can't take her seriously than how can she take herself seriously?
That’s the problem, she isn’t taking herself seriously...while you all are.
Like I said, you can be present for someone and offer them support, because like you said, everyone processes their wounds differently. But that cycle should stop when it becomes apparent they aren’t processing anything, let alone making a progression to heal and do better. If this is the 4th or so post she’s made talking about the same ol antics, she’s not processing anything, she’s feeding off of the attention and sympathy. Thus, this has just become a platform for enabling her behavior.click to expand
this is like the first i've talked about this
the first story was about my friend as you know
weird too how you've posted so much on this thread.. so much for not enabling
so argumentative but I'm telling you now, I don't respond to arguments with people I don't have transactions with
Posted by Nightcap-Posted by saggurl88Posted by Nightcap-Posted by saggurl88
Why don't Virgos like people who are nice to them? Sometimes, I really feel bad for the drama you guys like and put up with. You deserve better.
Most of them are secretly nervous depressives. People that are nice to them won't confirm their doubt or feed into the drama that they need to feel interesting.
Damn! That makes a ton of sense. All I do is compliment, love and accept people how they are. lol It's not good enough for a Virgo. I need to put my foot in their ass in order for them to think I care 😆
I like Virgos. I think it fits well with Cap but it's like you have to convince them of their worth to get them out of the doldrums of their routine. They'll cling to the cold comfort. They say Caps take Virgos for granted but it's really Caps questioning Virgo view of themselves. It's easy when they don't overthink it.click to expand
I like them too, but I can't treat them as bad as they want me too. I'm not the type to show them a good time by being an asshole. But they have some amazing qualities and can be the sweetest, when you get to know them. They are just a glutton for punishment and I don't punish people, I leave them instead 😬
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by malloryorPosted by _elle_Posted by malloryorPosted by _elle_Posted by malloryorPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by malloryorPosted by MyStarsShine
....i remember reading there was domestic violence in the rship. Why would you go back to that?
Her last sentence gave it away she’s trolling.
At least for me the alien emoji made it pretty clear. I wouldn’t even be alarmed, if she is in an abusive relationship, she thrives off the toxicity and she thrives off of getting attention from strangers online.
I think she may be telling the truth and I’m thinking the Alien emoji represented the Other Worldly sex 😀
Yeah. But she mocks herself in the beginning by saying “yeah they’re super toxic,” then admits it’s “her” and then dismisses all of the explosive claims she made by saying they had otherworldly sex.
Troll moves, get people invested, just to then dismiss all the crazy like it’s nothing.
Sierra (her past username) isn't a troll. She is just excruciatingly honest even when it doesn't paint her in a positive light. I like the ugly honesty. It's refreshing. Too many people purposely omit ugly details which doesn't give us a full picture.
She knows this is toxic and doesn't really know how to stop the cycle. Some of us have been there. To some it may seem like easy answers to solve but real life isn't that easy.
-signed 12th house Venus
Yeah, I think we’ve all been there. But at what point does it become a broken record? What’s the point in asking for advice if you don’t actually implement said advice? If this is something she knows is toxic, and she’s struggling to break away from it, but continues to seek help without applying action, when does it just become a cry for attention with no intention of actually changing and doing better?
It just feels incredibly enabling at this point to continue to entertain such toxic behavior without accountability.
Doesn't everyone process differently?
I mean, look at that smileysmiles character (and I say character because I'm convinced that was a troll) where people spent 200+ posts talking at her and she lands on "So, should I get someone to contact him for me?".
That ^^^^ was nuts and completely pointless.
I dunno, I feel a little soft about the situation maybe because pisces moon. Yes, she needs to hear the tough answers and advice but when that is entwined with TROLL!!! Then it is kind of taken less seriously.
If we can't take her seriously than how can she take herself seriously?
That’s the problem, she isn’t taking herself seriously...while you all are.
Like I said, you can be present for someone and offer them support, because like you said, everyone processes their wounds differently. But that cycle should stop when it becomes apparent they aren’t processing anything, let alone making a progression to heal and do better. If this is the 4th or so post she’s made talking about the same ol antics, she’s not processing anything, she’s feeding off of the attention and sympathy. Thus, this has just become a platform for enabling her behavior.
this is like the first i've talked about this
the first story was about my friend as you know
weird too how you've posted so much on this thread.. so much for not enabling
so argumentative but I'm telling you now, I don't respond to arguments with people I don't have transactions withclick to expand
Hmm right...explain to me how I’m argumentative, when I’ve ignored your quoted replies to me. I’ve chosen to not engage with you, yet you continue to quote me.
Please. Spare me this manipulative tactic. You may get away with it on others, but you’re toxic af and you get a hard on getting attention from it.
You say this is your first story, yet you have people claiming this is what you do. You post stories about your toxic behavior, ask for help and advice, just to come back with a new story about said toxic behavior.
So are you calling your defenders liars now?
You don’t want an argument, but you didnt need to quote me, because I stopped acknowledging you on the first page...every reply I’ve made since has been a direct reply to someone who quoted me. So your point about my activity on this thread is pretty moot.
Posted by Hamsthetics
Sorry to say, but in my opinion, Pisces sun Aries moon are the least insensitive and have the worst intuition and judgement out all of Piscean combos.
Like what LadyNeptune did, accusing me as a woman, fake, trolls and other all negative things for years. What is my respond to her? Nothing at all, i simply ignore and let her comes to her senses.
Your doing a wonderful job of ignoring me, 10/10
Posted by Hamsthetics
Sorry to say, but in my opinion, Pisces sun Aries moon are the least sensitive and have the worst intuition and judgement out all of Piscean combos.
Like what LadyNeptune did, accusing me as a woman, fake, trolls and other all negative things for years. What is my respond to her? Nothing at all, i simply ignore and let her comes to her senses.
first signs of the zodiac are Intrusive, focused on the self therefore easily assumes self-interest in as all-encompassing motivation. but hey I'm a first house lol.
the men are super hot. don't know much about the women. personally Idc if you're man, woman, lizard or cat. but aries energy doesn't really pause and think by default especially moon and Mars.
I think it's cringe to argue with people unpaid, especially when you're not getting anything out of it.
Posted by malloryorPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by malloryorPosted by _elle_Posted by malloryorPosted by _elle_Posted by malloryorPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by malloryorPosted by MyStarsShine
....i remember reading there was domestic violence in the rship. Why would you go back to that?
Her last sentence gave it away she’s trolling.
At least for me the alien emoji made it pretty clear. I wouldn’t even be alarmed, if she is in an abusive relationship, she thrives off the toxicity and she thrives off of getting attention from strangers online.
I think she may be telling the truth and I’m thinking the Alien emoji represented the Other Worldly sex 😀
Yeah. But she mocks herself in the beginning by saying “yeah they’re super toxic,” then admits it’s “her” and then dismisses all of the explosive claims she made by saying they had otherworldly sex.
Troll moves, get people invested, just to then dismiss all the crazy like it’s nothing.
Sierra (her past username) isn't a troll. She is just excruciatingly honest even when it doesn't paint her in a positive light. I like the ugly honesty. It's refreshing. Too many people purposely omit ugly details which doesn't give us a full picture.
She knows this is toxic and doesn't really know how to stop the cycle. Some of us have been there. To some it may seem like easy answers to solve but real life isn't that easy.
-signed 12th house Venus
Yeah, I think we’ve all been there. But at what point does it become a broken record? What’s the point in asking for advice if you don’t actually implement said advice? If this is something she knows is toxic, and she’s struggling to break away from it, but continues to seek help without applying action, when does it just become a cry for attention with no intention of actually changing and doing better?
It just feels incredibly enabling at this point to continue to entertain such toxic behavior without accountability.
Doesn't everyone process differently?
I mean, look at that smileysmiles character (and I say character because I'm convinced that was a troll) where people spent 200+ posts talking at her and she lands on "So, should I get someone to contact him for me?".
That ^^^^ was nuts and completely pointless.
I dunno, I feel a little soft about the situation maybe because pisces moon. Yes, she needs to hear the tough answers and advice but when that is entwined with TROLL!!! Then it is kind of taken less seriously.
If we can't take her seriously than how can she take herself seriously?
That’s the problem, she isn’t taking herself seriously...while you all are.
Like I said, you can be present for someone and offer them support, because like you said, everyone processes their wounds differently. But that cycle should stop when it becomes apparent they aren’t processing anything, let alone making a progression to heal and do better. If this is the 4th or so post she’s made talking about the same ol antics, she’s not processing anything, she’s feeding off of the attention and sympathy. Thus, this has just become a platform for enabling her behavior.
this is like the first i've talked about this
the first story was about my friend as you know
weird too how you've posted so much on this thread.. so much for not enabling
so argumentative but I'm telling you now, I don't respond to arguments with people I don't have transactions with
Hmm right...explain to me how I’m argumentative, when I’ve ignored your quoted replies to me. I’ve chosen to not engage with you, yet you continue to quote me.
Please. Spare me this manipulative tactic. You may get away with it on others, but you’re toxic af and you get a hard on getting attention from it.
You say this is your first story, yet you have people claiming this is what you do. You post stories about your toxic behavior, ask for help and advice, just to come back with a new story about said toxic behavior.
So are you calling your defenders liars now?
You don’t want an argument, but you didnt need to quote me, because I stopped acknowledging you on the first page...every reply I’ve made since has been a direct reply to someone who quoted me. So your point about my activity on this thread is pretty moot.click to expand
so I'm manipulative and toxic in my life. What's that got to do with you? weird. ohh and btw also morally malleable. again, what's my character traits to do with you?
there's a mute button here that kinda works at if you're blocking someone
you can always block me angry lady I've only to talked to just now
Posted by SagoxaPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by SagoxaPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by SagoxaPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Sagoxa
Been in one like this. I'm thankful I got out lol 😆
Like
Why would you stay? 🥴
Trauma bonding.
It is difficult to recognize and form a healthy relationship if all youve known throughout your life is chaos. Human likes familiarity. She's familiar with this type of rollercoaster relationship hence she chose this one instead of the secured one.
I'm glad for my saturn return really. It brings self awareness.
Now everytime I'm about to enter a relationship I always ask myself, am I in love or am I in trauma?
Yes learned behaviour and all that but evenso there has to be a limit/cut off point ...
It will be difficult without self awareness though.. even if she gets out she'll only fall in love with men who trauma bonds her again. It's a never ending cycle 🤪
And a desire to want to of course but yes it can be difficult to break patterns...
Been there, done that🥴
Hahahaha.. yes the desire to want to .
I feel attacked 🤣🤣🤣
But you're right 😆click to expand
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