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Women proposing to men
even as a little kid, i remember this being my face/reaction when i heard about britney proposing to k-fed lol 😂:
all jokes aside though, i feel bad when i see women being forced to propose to men...either due to him dragging his feet about it or some other reason....something about a woman proposing doesn't sit well with me....lol i don't want any woman out there to be subjected to that kind of humiliation....(?)
all jokes aside though, i feel bad when i see women being forced to propose to men...either due to him dragging his feet about it or some other reason....something about a woman proposing doesn't sit well with me....lol i don't want any woman out there to be subjected to that kind of humiliation....(?)
My sister proposed to her last husband.
It was weird yes, but she was that type of person. They were married for a while had 2 kids together before divorcing.
It was weird yes, but she was that type of person. They were married for a while had 2 kids together before divorcing.
I see this is a man cave and a question is directed at men, however, I can’t resist! 😄
I don’t think I would be able to propose to a man. It just doesn’t feel right. However, maybe I’d gently try and nudge him towards it with my special powers 😉
I don’t think I would be able to propose to a man. It just doesn’t feel right. However, maybe I’d gently try and nudge him towards it with my special powers 😉
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by borednbeautiful
I see this is a man cave and a question is directed at men, however, I can’t resist! 😄
I don’t think I would be able to propose to a man. It just doesn’t feel right. However, maybe I’d gently try and nudge him towards it with my special powers 😉
It doesn't feel right because it robs you of 'the princess experience'.click to expand
Well, not only that but how can you be sure he wants you if he doesn’t propose? Be a man and do it.
I dont know if its sexist, it would also feel unnatural to me, i would say no, even if i wanted to marry her.
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by borednbeautiful
I see this is a man cave and a question is directed at men, however, I can’t resist! 😄
I don’t think I would be able to propose to a man. It just doesn’t feel right. However, maybe I’d gently try and nudge him towards it with my special powers 😉
It doesn't feel right because it robs you of 'the princess experience'.
Well, not only that but how can you be sure he wants you if he doesn’t propose? Be a man and do it.
Stop being sexist.click to expand
Okay I’ll propose to someone and let you know how it goes. If it doesn’t work out, I only got yourself to blame!
Real men wear pink and get proposed too lol
Posted by Parkourler
I dont know if its sexist, it would also feel unnatural to me, i would say no, even if i wanted to marry her.
Scariest answer yet.
Sexism is when women aren't allowed to have a bank account or access to their own money. Sexism is not when societal norms say men propose to women.
Don't cry about and blame women for a male created social and economic system. Especially when you also acknowledge that a woman proposing to you makes you feel less masculine just lol.
Don't cry about and blame women for a male created social and economic system. Especially when you also acknowledge that a woman proposing to you makes you feel less masculine just lol.
Posted by geminiflybyPosted by Parkourler
I dont know if its sexist, it would also feel unnatural to me, i would say no, even if i wanted to marry her.
Scariest answer yet.click to expand
If you ask a question you get an answer. I have a female boss, i dont think woman are bad drivers, women ufc is great,
miesha tate was my crush, i have done armwrestling with woman, and wrestling but still, that would bother me somehow.
and being a stayathome dad. Those two are off the table.
I wouldn't like it. It would take away the joy of her getting proposed to.. cuz she's a woman and women like that kinda shit, right? lol
I feel nothing about being proposed to as I feel nothing about marriage, but if she does, I wouldn't want to take it away from her by being progressive.
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by borednbeautiful
I see this is a man cave and a question is directed at men, however, I can’t resist! 😄
I don’t think I would be able to propose to a man. It just doesn’t feel right. However, maybe I’d gently try and nudge him towards it with my special powers 😉
It doesn't feel right because it robs you of 'the princess experience'.
Well, not only that but how can you be sure he wants you if he doesn’t propose? Be a man and do it.
Stop being sexist.
Okay I’ll propose to someone and let you know how it goes. If it doesn’t work out, I only got yourself to blame!
But don't you realise that the proposer can never be sure of the partner's 'yes', regardless of gender.
Maybe it's the perfect time for modern women to take the risk and... woman up. 😝click to expand
I am not opposed to it 100 %
You are barking at the wrong tree here. Get lost, before I propose to you 🙃
Issa no for me dawg
Posted by MareInfamePosted by ImperfectStorm
Absolutely not. Lol
Me neither. I’ve noticed that when the women lead to that level, she usually has to do EVERYTHING in the relationship.
While the man is flat-lining and just going along BUT there is no motivation. They usually leave the girl for a women that makes them jump off their chair in excitement.
Woman asking a man IS THE WORST idea ever. But best idea for failure.click to expand
As if she wears the pants
But let’s say the feeling is mutual and they both want the same thing except she got there first
Woman will prompt and plant a seed, talking about marriage could be their way of letting you know they’re serious
Though she pulled the trigger before he did 😅
I think that’s okay.
Now if it’s one-sided then well..
It’s so sad but I personally have seen a lot of relationships where the woman has more enthusiasm and put more effort (even paying a good amount for their own wedding over the guy) go sour real fast. It’s like the guys just sit back and take being put on a pedestal for granted. You’d think they’d not be dumb enough to at least do some maintenance but nope. They go off doing things like cheating. Putting in equal effort is obviously ideal but realistically there’s always someone doing more than the other in a relationship. Given that’s the reality, who’d not want to be the one that’s not doing the most effort if they can get away with it whilst being grateful at least.
Posted by Imyourbae
Why would that be an issue to men? I know this is in the man cave forum but being the busybody Gem In I, I still wanna chip in and I don't care. 😆
I don't know but I was the first one to approach my husband and pop that question, just not in the romantic way, well because I'm not.
Told him, marriage or don't even start. Yes?
He said, Yasss...let's do that. 6 months later, we became man and wife. It's not that hard nor it counts who proposed who. 😁
i think what the op means is
woman getting on one knee and saying to a man “ will you marry me?”
Like an actual proposal (holding out a ring for him and everything 😂 )
like this:
😅
there’s nothing wrong with a woman wanting to know where a relationship is going ( being clear with him at the beginning of a relationship by saying something like “I’m only looking for something serious that could lead to marriage” or something like that )
but a woman getting on one knee and asking for a man’s hand in marriage is....far from ideal....
Probably extremely good, knowing that he saved a fortune on the ring....
Usually one side starts the marriage talk and does the where is this going after a while.
I think everyone would agree the number #1 situation where a woman should propose is,
If dude proposes and she says no, then changes her mind, she should propose to show her sincerity. Would do wonders to make up for being turned down the first time.
I respect woman who break the norms and state thier intentions and go for what they want.
I'm all for this tradition and understand why it's important to a woman that man does this. I personally would want to propose after "the talk" and do it officially by spring it on her ass very publicly.
Already have it planned out how I would propose to someone in my head🤫
I think everyone would agree the number #1 situation where a woman should propose is,
If dude proposes and she says no, then changes her mind, she should propose to show her sincerity. Would do wonders to make up for being turned down the first time.
I respect woman who break the norms and state thier intentions and go for what they want.
I'm all for this tradition and understand why it's important to a woman that man does this. I personally would want to propose after "the talk" and do it officially by spring it on her ass very publicly.
Already have it planned out how I would propose to someone in my head🤫
Posted by MareInfamePosted by rotiPosted by MareInfamePosted by ImperfectStorm
Absolutely not. Lol
Me neither. I’ve noticed that when the women lead to that level, she usually has to do EVERYTHING in the relationship.
While the man is flat-lining and just going along BUT there is no motivation. They usually leave the girl for a women that makes them jump off their chair in excitement.
Woman asking a man IS THE WORST idea ever. But best idea for failure.
As if she wears the pants
But let’s say the feeling is mutual and they both want the same thing except she got there first
Woman will prompt and plant a seed, talking about marriage could be their way of letting you know they’re serious
Though she pulled the trigger before he did 😅
I think that’s okay.
Now if it’s one-sided then well..
Yes, this topic definitely needs to be discussed more in detail and perhaps not so general or “one answer for all”.
This very much depends on the bond. There are bonds that are so close you feel it immediately that the energy, attention, flow of communication love and excitement is mutual. And in such a case I think conversations of marriage, future plans happen quite organically and fast. Both are open to discuss and fear is at a minimum. You might not even remember who asked first… because it’s just not a big deal. You both know you are on the same page.
But that is the exception.
I have seen SOOOOOOOO many relationships where the woman just wants what she wants (a wedding, a boyfriend, a husband, kids, home… plan, plan, plan- next, next, next) that the checklist becomes more important that the value of the bond she has with the partner. And from what I have witnessed and in my limited experience, it is quite clear that these types pick types that go with the flow before they know what they want or are too undecided and need to be lead.
What happens is that at first, the female gets what she wants. While the guy takes his molasses slow time to figure out what he got himself into… and then he passively starts hoping either some other female rescues him OR he realizes how different he feels when he is around another female that gets him excited, that gets him to jump off his chair and want to do things FOR HER.
Also at home, she does EVERYTHING. That is just not my style …lol - I could never sign up for that.
I don’t mess around with this stuff. If a guy doesn’t know what he wants - the LAST THING I will ever do is push my agenda or ignore the passivity and get my way because from what I have seen, the bite in the ass you get later on is just not worth it.😱🫣click to expand
The notification didn't come through so I didn't see this until last night, sorry about that.
You paint a compelling picture and I agree with everything you've said.
The latter women are super calculating about what they want in life and the men they end up with are just happy to be there. Sort of like a dependent mother and son relationship. Like attracts like. But that dynamic will lead to resentment eventually as you described.
I'm guessing the men cheated eventually. What a tangled web we weave
Uh don't act like some of you men never been proposed on by women.
I have and I tell you what. It's traumatizing with too much pressure on a dude. That's all I got to say on that.
I have and I tell you what. It's traumatizing with too much pressure on a dude. That's all I got to say on that.
Is she also planning to peg him too? Some things should remain what they are. Some things are fine the way they are.
Posted by black773
Is she also planning to peg him too? Some things should remain what they are. Some things are fine they way they are.
Lol what's wrong with pegging? If two consenting adults want to play that way who are we to judge.
Some things are fine the way they are... like the 50+% divorce rate.
@MareInFame “I don’t mess around with this stuff. If a guy doesn’t know what he wants - the LAST THING I will ever do is push my agenda or ignore the passivity and get my way because from what I have seen, the bite in the ass you get later on is just not worth it.”
As an Aries Venus I have to internalize this.
As an Aries Venus I have to internalize this.
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by black773
Is she also planning to peg him too? Some things should remain what they are. Some things are fine they way they are.
Lol what's wrong with pegging? If two consenting adults want to play that way who are we to judge.
Some things are fine the way they are... like the 50+% divorce rate.
Lol what's wrong with pegging? If two consenting adults want to play because men's asset is puny pin?
Thats what you meant?click to expand
See you can't help but be thirsty for my attention, following me from board to board. Quick! Tell me how my opinion doesn't mean shit to you 😉
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by MonaLisa26Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by black773
Is she also planning to peg him too? Some things should remain what they are. Some things are fine they way they are.
Lol what's wrong with pegging? If two consenting adults want to play that way who are we to judge.
Some things are fine the way they are... like the 50+% divorce rate.
Lol what's wrong with pegging? If two consenting adults want to play because men's asset is puny pin?
Thats what you meant?
See you can't help but be thirsty for my attention, following me from board to board. Quick! Tell me how my opinion doesn't mean shit to you 😉
Be happy! Nobody else cares about you as I do...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I actually went to mute you and seen that inane shit you posted.
I said to myself - she is priceless...in her own ways. So I replied and left you unmuted.
And BTW you KNOW I am logical when I said - you do not make threads so IF I am talking
to you - it is because YOU replied first...but you ignoring this message. And proceeding
bullshitting that I am following you. Whatever. I bet you secretly getting wet from my attention🤣🤣🤣🤣click to expand
Keep wondering about my pussy, I love that for you.
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