@virgoOPPP
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Who is he? Is this a Leo celebrity guy?
I see no red flags like at all 😅
He sounds crazy
Posted by borednbeautifulWho is he? Is this a Leo celebrity guy?
I see no red flags like at all 😅
nah this guy is a pisces sun/scorpio moon
the leo never called me back 🤭🤭
Too creepy for me!
Giving him your passcode to your phone and letting him go through it!
Him, actually going through it!
Rearranging your furniture?
Different strokes for different folks, sounds like speed dating to me and nesting after 1 weekend??
Don’t you want excitement and the thrill of getting to know someone in depth.. that takes time.
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by borednbeautifulWho is he? Is this a Leo celebrity guy?
I see no red flags like at all 😅
nah this guy is a pisces sun/scorpio moon
the leo never called me back 🤭🤭
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Eh, who cares, it’s his loss. Leos are overrated anyway. They are meant to be alone with their mirror. So over them!
I actually like your new guy. But his Scorpio parts are showing 😬
I like that he has land. Land is always hot!
Its giving very much lesbian lover vibes where you pick up a chick at the club to spend the night... one night, and next thing you know its 3 years later and she never left. But its ok cause her DIY projects and handy skills almost make up for her obsessive monitoring of your sm and the tracking device she put on your car without you knowing.
Posted by sweetheartsToo creepy for me!
Giving him your passcode to your phone and letting him go through it!
Him, actually going through it!
Rearranging your furniture?
Different strokes for different folks, sounds like speed dating to me and nesting after 1 weekend??
Don’t you want excitement and the thrill of getting to know someone in depth.. that takes time.
That’s why I decided to take it slow after seeing ♋️ guy 3x last week.
It’s best to take it nice and easy…
Posted by sweetheartsToo creepy for me!
Giving him your passcode to your phone and letting him go through it!
Him, actually going through it!
Rearranging your furniture?
Different strokes for different folks, sounds like speed dating to me and nesting after 1 weekend??
Don’t you want excitement and the thrill of getting to know someone in depth.. that takes time.
excitement?
all i know is that dating me must feel like sitting on a park bench at night while eating strawberry-flavored cashew nonfat yogurt.
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by sweetheartsToo creepy for me!
Giving him your passcode to your phone and letting him go through it!
Him, actually going through it!
Rearranging your furniture?
Different strokes for different folks, sounds like speed dating to me and nesting after 1 weekend??
Don’t you want excitement and the thrill of getting to know someone in depth.. that takes time.
excitement?
all i know is that dating me must feel like sitting on park bench at night while eating strawberry-flavored cashew nonfat yogurt.
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That’s how you see it though. I’m sure men see it way differently. More like opening a box of exotic, luxurious and delicious chocolate 😋
@alexscaries
I see now what you mean with self-depreciation and Virgo women humor!
Posted by LadyNeptuneIts giving very much lesbian lover vibes where you pick up a chick at the club to spend the night... one night, and next thing you know its 3 years later and she never left. But its ok cause her DIY projects and handy skills almost make up for her obsessive monitoring of your sm and the tracking device she put on your car without you knowing.
but i likeeeeee him 😢
plus i'm one of those people who don't really care much for surveillance. i'd put cameras in my mom's place if she'd let me just for her own protection.
in fact, i secretly suspected that he'd take a pic of me on that date so i made sure to pause before eating and make sure my hair was perfect. but then again, i did the same on that date i had with the leo. took a pic of him eating curry. also took a pic of my keyboard crush in that one concert. and whatever he finds, he'll know about eventually right?
maybe i should've erased some things but meh whatever. thought he'd be turned off but he left a set of clothes and his toothbrush in my bathroom.
he's so cute 🐰🐰
So what is your question then??
Clearly you’re happy with everything, what are you overthinking?
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptuneIts giving very much lesbian lover vibes where you pick up a chick at the club to spend the night... one night, and next thing you know its 3 years later and she never left. But its ok cause her DIY projects and handy skills almost make up for her obsessive monitoring of your sm and the tracking device she put on your car without you knowing.
but i likeeeeee him 😢
plus i'm one of those people who don't really care much for surveillance. i'd put cameras in my mom's place if she'd let me just for her own protection.
in fact, i secretly suspected that he'd take a pic of me on that date so i made sure to pause before eating and make sure my hair was perfect. but then again, i did the same on that date i had with the leo. took a pic of him eating curry. also took a pic of my keyboard crush in that one concert. and whatever he finds, he'll know about eventually right?
maybe i should've erased some things but meh whatever. thought he'd be turned off but he left a set of clothes and his toothbrush in my bathroom.
he's so cute 🐰🐰
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This man is not your mom tho. He's a stranger pushing your boundaries only to discover there is none. I sincerely hope it works out in the way you want.
You are always seemingly so chill and deep in the feels at the beginning. Then fast forward a few months and you find out dude was taking money from you, or seeing other women and impregnating them, or bonus points for both.
If he's gonna start storing his shit at your place does that mean he's gonna start paying some rent? Important things to consider lol
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptuneIts giving very much lesbian lover vibes where you pick up a chick at the club to spend the night... one night, and next thing you know its 3 years later and she never left. But its ok cause her DIY projects and handy skills almost make up for her obsessive monitoring of your sm and the tracking device she put on your car without you knowing.
but i likeeeeee him 😢
plus i'm one of those people who don't really care much for surveillance. i'd put cameras in my mom's place if she'd let me just for her own protection.
in fact, i secretly suspected that he'd take a pic of me on that date so i made sure to pause before eating and make sure my hair was perfect. but then again, i did the same on that date i had with the leo. took a pic of him eating curry. also took a pic of my keyboard crush in that one concert. and whatever he finds, he'll know about eventually right?
maybe i should've erased some things but meh whatever. thought he'd be turned off but he left a set of clothes and his toothbrush in my bathroom.
he's so cute 🐰🐰
This man is not your mom tho. He's a stranger pushing your boundaries only to discover there is none. I sincerely hope it works out in the way you want.
You are always seemingly so chill and deep in the feels at the beginning. Then fast forward a few months and you find out dude was taking money from you, or seeing other women and impregnating them, or bonus points for both.
If he's gonna start storing his shit at your place does that mean he's gonna start paying some rent? Important things to consider lol
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you're right tho
my eyesight is real bad but i'll just ghost when it gets weird
You said he has a plot of land and you starting thinking about homesteading or whatever. Meanwhile my mind instantly went, serial murder burial plot.
Too much true crime consumption has broken my brain.
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptuneIts giving very much lesbian lover vibes where you pick up a chick at the club to spend the night... one night, and next thing you know its 3 years later and she never left. But its ok cause her DIY projects and handy skills almost make up for her obsessive monitoring of your sm and the tracking device she put on your car without you knowing.
but i likeeeeee him 😢
plus i'm one of those people who don't really care much for surveillance. i'd put cameras in my mom's place if she'd let me just for her own protection.
in fact, i secretly suspected that he'd take a pic of me on that date so i made sure to pause before eating and make sure my hair was perfect. but then again, i did the same on that date i had with the leo. took a pic of him eating curry. also took a pic of my keyboard crush in that one concert. and whatever he finds, he'll know about eventually right?
maybe i should've erased some things but meh whatever. thought he'd be turned off but he left a set of clothes and his toothbrush in my bathroom.
he's so cute 🐰🐰
This man is not your mom tho. He's a stranger pushing your boundaries only to discover there is none. I sincerely hope it works out in the way you want.
You are always seemingly so chill and deep in the feels at the beginning. Then fast forward a few months and you find out dude was taking money from you, or seeing other women and impregnating them, or bonus points for both.
If he's gonna start storing his shit at your place does that mean he's gonna start paying some rent? Important things to consider lol
you're right tho
my eyesight is real bad but i'll just ghost when it gets weird
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Harder to ghost when you've given out your passwords, keypad info, ss #, date of birth, etc. Lol I'm being dramatic but still. There's gotta be a term for this, its not quite love bombing but definitely the opposite of ghosting. Like information overload.
When you ghost dude can either find you real easy or steal your identity lol.
Posted by LadyNeptuneYou said he has a plot of land and you starting thinking about homesteading or whatever. Meanwhile my mind instantly went, serial murder burial plot.
Too much true crime consumption has broken my brain.
he's so shy and awkward on our first date so i doubt this
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptuneYou said he has a plot of land and you starting thinking about homesteading or whatever. Meanwhile my mind instantly went, serial murder burial plot.
Too much true crime consumption has broken my brain.
he's so shy and awkward on our first date so i doubt this
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It’s the quiet ones you want to watch out for.
All the neighbors be telling the news stations, wow he seemed so nice and decent we never would’ve suspected 💀
Posted by SnarkyPuppyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptuneIts giving very much lesbian lover vibes where you pick up a chick at the club to spend the night... one night, and next thing you know its 3 years later and she never left. But its ok cause her DIY projects and handy skills almost make up for her obsessive monitoring of your sm and the tracking device she put on your car without you knowing.
but i likeeeeee him 😢
plus i'm one of those people who don't really care much for surveillance. i'd put cameras in my mom's place if she'd let me just for her own protection.
in fact, i secretly suspected that he'd take a pic of me on that date so i made sure to pause before eating and make sure my hair was perfect. but then again, i did the same on that date i had with the leo. took a pic of him eating curry. also took a pic of my keyboard crush in that one concert. and whatever he finds, he'll know about eventually right?
maybe i should've erased some things but meh whatever. thought he'd be turned off but he left a set of clothes and his toothbrush in my bathroom.
he's so cute 🐰🐰
This man is not your mom tho. He's a stranger pushing your boundaries only to discover there is none. I sincerely hope it works out in the way you want.
You are always seemingly so chill and deep in the feels at the beginning. Then fast forward a few months and you find out dude was taking money from you, or seeing other women and impregnating them, or bonus points for both.
If he's gonna start storing his shit at your place does that mean he's gonna start paying some rent? Important things to consider lol
you're right tho
my eyesight is real bad but i'll just ghost when it gets weird
What's weird to you though? Those are the boundaries that keep getting pushed. One of these days you're going to date one of those guys who wear diapers and want to be breast fed, and ask if that weird. Yes, all this shit is weird. From the queer eye straight guy home decorator act, to calling each other mommy and daddy and sharing baby pics. It's weird.
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so judgy. i really like the new arrangement. plus some couples do actually call each other mommy and daddy. i think it's cringe but it's not the worst thing ever. plus i like exchanging our baby pics.
Posted by -CapriquariusHow long you know this guy?
3rd week now
Posted by SnarkyPuppyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by SnarkyPuppyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptuneIts giving very much lesbian lover vibes where you pick up a chick at the club to spend the night... one night, and next thing you know its 3 years later and she never left. But its ok cause her DIY projects and handy skills almost make up for her obsessive monitoring of your sm and the tracking device she put on your car without you knowing.
but i likeeeeee him 😢
plus i'm one of those people who don't really care much for surveillance. i'd put cameras in my mom's place if she'd let me just for her own protection.
in fact, i secretly suspected that he'd take a pic of me on that date so i made sure to pause before eating and make sure my hair was perfect. but then again, i did the same on that date i had with the leo. took a pic of him eating curry. also took a pic of my keyboard crush in that one concert. and whatever he finds, he'll know about eventually right?
maybe i should've erased some things but meh whatever. thought he'd be turned off but he left a set of clothes and his toothbrush in my bathroom.
he's so cute 🐰🐰
This man is not your mom tho. He's a stranger pushing your boundaries only to discover there is none. I sincerely hope it works out in the way you want.
You are always seemingly so chill and deep in the feels at the beginning. Then fast forward a few months and you find out dude was taking money from you, or seeing other women and impregnating them, or bonus points for both.
If he's gonna start storing his shit at your place does that mean he's gonna start paying some rent? Important things to consider lol
you're right tho
my eyesight is real bad but i'll just ghost when it gets weird
What's weird to you though? Those are the boundaries that keep getting pushed. One of these days you're going to date one of those guys who wear diapers and want to be breast fed, and ask if that weird. Yes, all this shit is weird. From the queer eye straight guy home decorator act, to calling each other mommy and daddy and sharing baby pics. It's weird.
so judgy. i really like the new arrangement. plus some couples do actually call each other mommy and daddy. i think it's cringe but it's not the worst thing ever. plus i like exchanging our baby pics.
Then if all this is completely normal to you why do you question it? You know it's not normal. And it doesn't have to be normal. But that's the way boundaries get pushed. Its usually small and over time they keep pushing and pushing those boundaries. You should be more judgy, it sounds like
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yeah i do feel a bit of hesitation
but moreso coz i feel like i can't offer much into any connection/relationship rn
Posted by ESFPdarlingBesides the mommy daddy thing which is weird, the rest is kind of cute. I'd probably let it happen too, but how is this going to work when you need three weeks of space?
right?
virgo motto: "we just let things happen here until we've had enough coz you're an abusive hoe."
Op you’ve been burned in the past but still give trust freely, that’s a talent.
Privileges and access should be earned tho and given back equally in exchange. He knows where you live, password to your phone, toothbrush in your bathroom.
Do you stay at his place? Know his password? Keeping tampons in his medicine cabinet?
It’s only been 3 weeks. If you are pouring more of yourself into this then he is that doesn’t bode well for longevity.
Maybe I should start slowly moving my shit into the Virgos place 🤔 does this work with all Virgos? Shit, why didn't anyone ever tell me this before?
Posted by LadyNeptuneOp you’ve been burned in the past but still give trust freely, that’s a talent.
“The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them.”
-Ernest Hemingway
Posted by cerseiPosted by SeaLionMaybe I should start slowly moving my shit into the Virgos place 🤔 does this work with all Virgos? Shit, why didn't anyone ever tell me this before?
Does he have a Cancer venus? Then it should work lol
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he is taurus venus/pisces mars
oh wait who do you mean? lol
Posted by cerseiPosted by SeaLionMaybe I should start slowly moving my shit into the Virgos place 🤔 does this work with all Virgos? Shit, why didn't anyone ever tell me this before?
Does he have a Cancer venus? Then it should work lol
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No. But he has a Scorpio moon and a cancer mars.
he wants to know what you're doing for his birthday because he's actually a capricorn
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptuneOp you’ve been burned in the past but still give trust freely, that’s a talent.
“The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them.”
-Ernest Hemingway
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Yes trust until someone gives you a reason to distrust.
But also Hemingway was bipolar, depressed, and suicidal so maybe not the best role model ijs. I know he killed himself but he would’ve literally had an aneurysm and died anyways seeing a cellphone for the first time so there’s no knowing how’d he react to you giving out your password so freely.
Fav Hemingway lore, dude took home the urinal from his local bar claiming he owned it cause he had pissed away all his money in it.
Can’t argue with that logic
Posted by hydorahhe wants to know what you're doing for his birthday because he's actually a capricorn
eww
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by hydorahhe wants to know what you're doing for his birthday because he's actually a capricorn
eww
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Pisces could do many thing and be very creepy, but they woudn't rearrange your furniture
This is earth sign shit
Posted by SnarkyPuppyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by SnarkyPuppyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by SnarkyPuppyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptuneIts giving very much lesbian lover vibes where you pick up a chick at the club to spend the night... one night, and next thing you know its 3 years later and she never left. But its ok cause her DIY projects and handy skills almost make up for her obsessive monitoring of your sm and the tracking device she put on your car without you knowing.
but i likeeeeee him 😢
plus i'm one of those people who don't really care much for surveillance. i'd put cameras in my mom's place if she'd let me just for her own protection.
in fact, i secretly suspected that he'd take a pic of me on that date so i made sure to pause before eating and make sure my hair was perfect. but then again, i did the same on that date i had with the leo. took a pic of him eating curry. also took a pic of my keyboard crush in that one concert. and whatever he finds, he'll know about eventually right?
maybe i should've erased some things but meh whatever. thought he'd be turned off but he left a set of clothes and his toothbrush in my bathroom.
he's so cute 🐰🐰
This man is not your mom tho. He's a stranger pushing your boundaries only to discover there is none. I sincerely hope it works out in the way you want.
You are always seemingly so chill and deep in the feels at the beginning. Then fast forward a few months and you find out dude was taking money from you, or seeing other women and impregnating them, or bonus points for both.
If he's gonna start storing his shit at your place does that mean he's gonna start paying some rent? Important things to consider lol
you're right tho
my eyesight is real bad but i'll just ghost when it gets weird
What's weird to you though? Those are the boundaries that keep getting pushed. One of these days you're going to date one of those guys who wear diapers and want to be breast fed, and ask if that weird. Yes, all this shit is weird. From the queer eye straight guy home decorator act, to calling each other mommy and daddy and sharing baby pics. It's weird.
so judgy. i really like the new arrangement. plus some couples do actually call each other mommy and daddy. i think it's cringe but it's not the worst thing ever. plus i like exchanging our baby pics.
Then if all this is completely normal to you why do you question it? You know it's not normal. And it doesn't have to be normal. But that's the way boundaries get pushed. Its usually small and over time they keep pushing and pushing those boundaries. You should be more judgy, it sounds like
yeah i do feel a bit of hesitation
but moreso coz i feel like i can't offer much into any connection/relationship rn
Then why lead him on? If the relationship evolves into sending those middle school pictures with the neon lit backgrounds that im sure every kid in the world had to suffer through.. thats marriage status for a guy like this. Sure, it may seem innocent to you, but for this guy it's the Glamour-Shot of the whole relationship.click to expand
what does that mean? is this an american joke?
Posted by hydorahPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by hydorahhe wants to know what you're doing for his birthday because he's actually a capricorn
eww
Pisces could do many thing and be very creepy, but they woudn't rearrange your furniture
This is earth sign shit
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he is taurus venus
whatever i really like him bye
shouldn't have doubted at all
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by hydorahPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by hydorahhe wants to know what you're doing for his birthday because he's actually a capricorn
eww
Pisces could do many thing and be very creepy, but they woudn't rearrange your furniture
This is earth sign shit
he is taurus venus
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What are his other placements? So far its 2 for 2, you are dating my astro twin.
Posted by ESFPdarlingPosted by hydorahPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by hydorahhe wants to know what you're doing for his birthday because he's actually a capricorn
eww
Pisces could do many thing and be very creepy, but they woudn't rearrange your furniture
This is earth sign shit
This is you in relationships admit it.
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I'm gonna give you a secret sancho. Whatever new account you make, I don't get notifications when you quote me.
Weird huh?
Pisces just move gracefully around obstacles. It's their favorite exercise. They don't like to change topography, they just morph into the scenery like they always lived there. You're very unlikely to see a pisces dude decide to move your furniture around
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by hydorahPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by hydorahhe wants to know what you're doing for his birthday because he's actually a capricorn
eww
Pisces could do many thing and be very creepy, but they woudn't rearrange your furniture
This is earth sign shit
he is taurus venus
What are his other placements? So far its 2 for 2, you are dating my astro twin.
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he's 26 and i'm 28
march 10 pisces
Posted by SnarkyPuppy@virgoOPPP, I don't know how you do it, but you come off diabetically sweet, and kinda annoying at the same time. And I mean that in as an endearing way possible. Like super sweet... but want to smack your hand and say "No!" you.
it's okay, sometimes i wanna smack myself too
Posted by hydorahYou're very unlikely to see a pisces dude decide to move your furniture around
unless he's trying to hide recording devices
🤔
Posted by hydorahPisces just move gracefully around obstacles. It's their favorite exercise. They don't like to change topography, they just morph into the scenery like they always lived there. You're very unlikely to see a pisces dude decide to move your furniture around
he is a march 10 pisces tho plus i will never again with cheating capricorn hoes.
i placed the wooden bench i bought too far away from the entrance so it was really inconvenient whenever i need to put down my stuff (actual genius observation from him tbh).
most attentive guy ever 😍😍
Posted by SnarkyPuppyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by SnarkyPuppy@virgoOPPP, I don't know how you do it, but you come off diabetically sweet, and kinda annoying at the same time. And I mean that in as an endearing way possible. Like super sweet... but want to smack your hand and say "No!" you.
it's okay, sometimes i wanna smack myself too
I hope you and your pisces rearrange all the furniture in your house. Just use those felt pads so you don't scratch the floors. Swap all your baby pics. Adopt some small fluffy dog together and dress it in baby clothes. Call each other mommy and daddy. Build the biggest house on his parents land and build an anime themed theme park around it. If that's what you want to do, I hope you do whatever makes you happy. It's still gonna be weird though. But more like a sticky sweet weird.
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i always read that scorpio moon was supposed to be suspicious, mysterious and closed-off (plus i'm 8th house moon) but we sent each other our baby pics in like a nano second lmfao 😅😅 so much for mysteries. i really liked him immediately after this exchange tbh. most people are too guarded. i tend to go back and forth but i can't help that i'm super receptive 🙃🙃
he's just as trusting as i am. coming over to my place takes trust too coz i could be a serial killer. don't know about getting dogs rn but he's got hamsters and i've got a rabbit he calls 'our baby.'
plus he wants a minimalist house. i don't really care like i just really need my hair blower and my wallet 😁😁
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by borednbeautifulWho is he? Is this a Leo celebrity guy?
I see no red flags like at all 😅
nah this guy is a pisces sun/scorpio moon
the leo never called me back 🤭🤭
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Pisces can explain taking a shit in an eloquent way.
Don’t believe it until you see it!
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptuneIts giving very much lesbian lover vibes where you pick up a chick at the club to spend the night... one night, and next thing you know its 3 years later and she never left. But its ok cause her DIY projects and handy skills almost make up for her obsessive monitoring of your sm and the tracking device she put on your car without you knowing.
but i likeeeeee him 😢
plus i'm one of those people who don't really care much for surveillance. i'd put cameras in my mom's place if she'd let me just for her own protection.
in fact, i secretly suspected that he'd take a pic of me on that date so i made sure to pause before eating and make sure my hair was perfect. but then again, i did the same on that date i had with the leo. took a pic of him eating curry. also took a pic of my keyboard crush in that one concert. and whatever he finds, he'll know about eventually right?
maybe i should've erased some things but meh whatever. thought he'd be turned off but he left a set of clothes and his toothbrush in my bathroom.
he's so cute 🐰🐰
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if you like him, you should relax and see where it goes....he probably asked about december 'cause he's hoping to spend christmas together or something lol 😂
he doesn't seem like a bad guy to me...although some of his behavior seems a little intrusive like others here have mentioned lol but then i saw the "scorpio moon" and i was like "oh ok lol" 😂
scorpio moon usually wants to find out all of your secrets but hold on tightly to theirs...lol
when i took my dude (scorpio moon) to the family cookout one time at my dad's house, we were all chilling, barbecuing out in the yard and suddenly he asked to see my room (my room in the house growing up) he's only ever seen my apartment so i guess he was curious or something i dunno.
when we got to the room, he started raiding my stuff. (looking through my high school graduation album, opening the closet, sliding his hand under the bed mattress to see if i was hiding anything there 😂) and he was nonchalant about it all too...didn't even give a f**k lol (this was when we were like 23. he had only ever been to my apartment and this was his first time at my family house)
you seem like you're okay with him doing all the stuff you mentioned but just understand that when you do end up getting into a relationship with him, it will probably escalate unless you draw the line somewhere.
Posted by cerseiPosted by serenidadPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptuneIts giving very much lesbian lover vibes where you pick up a chick at the club to spend the night... one night, and next thing you know its 3 years later and she never left. But its ok cause her DIY projects and handy skills almost make up for her obsessive monitoring of your sm and the tracking device she put on your car without you knowing.
but i likeeeeee him 😢
plus i'm one of those people who don't really care much for surveillance. i'd put cameras in my mom's place if she'd let me just for her own protection.
in fact, i secretly suspected that he'd take a pic of me on that date so i made sure to pause before eating and make sure my hair was perfect. but then again, i did the same on that date i had with the leo. took a pic of him eating curry. also took a pic of my keyboard crush in that one concert. and whatever he finds, he'll know about eventually right?
maybe i should've erased some things but meh whatever. thought he'd be turned off but he left a set of clothes and his toothbrush in my bathroom.
he's so cute 🐰🐰
if you like him, you should relax and see where it goes....he probably asked about december 'cause he's hoping to spend christmas together or something lol 😂
he doesn't seem like a bad guy to me...although some of his behavior seems a little intrusive like others here have mentioned lol but then i saw the "scorpio moon" and i was like "oh ok lol" 😂
scorpio moon usually wants to find out all of your secrets but hold on tightly to theirs...lol
when i took my dude (scorpio moon) to the family cookout one time at my dad's house, we were all chilling, barbecuing out in the yard and suddenly he asked to see my room (my room in the house growing up) he's only ever seen my apartment so i guess he was curious or something i dunno.
when we got to the room, he started raiding my stuff. (looking through my high school graduation album, opening the closet, sliding his hand under the bed mattress to see if i was hiding anything there 😂) and he was nonchalant about it all too...didn't even give a f**k lol (this was when we were like 23. he had only ever been to my apartment and this was his first time at my family house)
you seem like you're okay with him doing all the stuff you mentioned but just understand that when you do end up getting into a relationship with him, it will probably escalate unless you draw the line somewhere.
How old are you guys now? Have you been together a long time?
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it's been like 8 years...lol we're both 31 now 🙂
Posted by Dreamy88Firstly,
Powder room, I'm sorry, but I really want to chime in. Also, yay; an actually interesting front page post not belonging to one single gemini Babushka
Secondly, fill me in with a timeline.
And lastly,
I'll be honest, I'm getting funny vibes. Take a step back and really look at this from the outside. Imagine you are a friend to a friend with this situation. Tell me what you would say to your friend.
I'm assuming this is someone new, but correct me please if I'm wrong. Serious question.
Lol @ single Gemini babushka.
I hope you don’t mean meeee!! 😥
Posted by alexscariesPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by SnarkyPuppyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by SnarkyPuppy@virgoOPPP, I don't know how you do it, but you come off diabetically sweet, and kinda annoying at the same time. And I mean that in as an endearing way possible. Like super sweet... but want to smack your hand and say "No!" you.
it's okay, sometimes i wanna smack myself too
I hope you and your pisces rearrange all the furniture in your house. Just use those felt pads so you don't scratch the floors. Swap all your baby pics. Adopt some small fluffy dog together and dress it in baby clothes. Call each other mommy and daddy. Build the biggest house on his parents land and build an anime themed theme park around it. If that's what you want to do, I hope you do whatever makes you happy. It's still gonna be weird though. But more like a sticky sweet weird.
i always read that scorpio moon was supposed to be suspicious, mysterious and closed-off (plus i'm 8th house moon) but we sent each other our baby pics in like a nano second lmfao 😅😅 so much for mysteries. i really liked him immediately after this exchange tbh. most people are too guarded. i tend to go back and forth but i can't help that i'm super receptive 🙃🙃
he's just as trusting as i am. coming over to my place takes trust too coz i could be a serial killer. don't know about getting dogs rn but he's got hamsters and i've got a rabbit he calls 'our baby.'
plus he wants a minimalist house. i don't really care like i just really need my hair blower and my wallet 😁😁
You invited him back to your house and didn't have sex with him? That's the crazy part.
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we made out a lot like a LOT. and he's def really assertive coz at first he seemed so shy. first time he touched my hand he was so awkward about it.
plus i really HAD to invite him over to my place. we lost track of time and there's some construction going on in the area that made it a PAIN for him to head home. and i obvi like him and trust him so there.
Posted by cerseiPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by cerseiPosted by SeaLionMaybe I should start slowly moving my shit into the Virgos place 🤔 does this work with all Virgos? Shit, why didn't anyone ever tell me this before?
Does he have a Cancer venus? Then it should work lol
he is taurus venus/pisces mars
oh wait who do you mean? lol
Oh because she asked about moving into her Virgos place because she didn’t know they liked that. Because you’re a Virgo and didn’t mind the guy moving his stuff into your place. But I believe that’s a Cancer venus thing. You have Cancer venus right? They love all that homey and domestic stuff. So if her virgo also has Cancer venus her moving her stuff in might work. But probably any other sign it wouldn’t 😂
I am seeing a Cancer venus and he is not afraid of talking about marriage and stuff like that already. In fact when he was painting my room he even joked that I can stay at his place while it gets remodeled 😂
Some people don’t like that but I don’t mind it it’s sweet I think. But he definitely fits the Cancer traits to the T. I feel like he would definitely like me moving my stuff into his place.
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he wants to show me his gaming stuff so we can set things up and play games together
i really like this guy omg
Posted by serenidadPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by LadyNeptuneIts giving very much lesbian lover vibes where you pick up a chick at the club to spend the night... one night, and next thing you know its 3 years later and she never left. But its ok cause her DIY projects and handy skills almost make up for her obsessive monitoring of your sm and the tracking device she put on your car without you knowing.
but i likeeeeee him 😢
plus i'm one of those people who don't really care much for surveillance. i'd put cameras in my mom's place if she'd let me just for her own protection.
in fact, i secretly suspected that he'd take a pic of me on that date so i made sure to pause before eating and make sure my hair was perfect. but then again, i did the same on that date i had with the leo. took a pic of him eating curry. also took a pic of my keyboard crush in that one concert. and whatever he finds, he'll know about eventually right?
maybe i should've erased some things but meh whatever. thought he'd be turned off but he left a set of clothes and his toothbrush in my bathroom.
he's so cute 🐰🐰
if you like him, you should relax and see where it goes....he probably asked about december 'cause he's hoping to spend christmas together or something lol 😂
he doesn't seem like a bad guy to me...although some of his behavior seems a little intrusive like others here have mentioned lol but then i saw the "scorpio moon" and i was like "oh ok lol" 😂
scorpio moon usually wants to find out all of your secrets but hold on tightly to theirs...lol
when i took my dude (scorpio moon) to the family cookout one time at my dad's house, we were all chilling, barbecuing out in the yard and suddenly he asked to see my room (my room in the house growing up) he's only ever seen my apartment so i guess he was curious or something i dunno.
when we got to the room, he started raiding my stuff. (looking through my high school graduation album, opening the closet, sliding his hand under the bed mattress to see if i was hiding anything there 😂) and he was nonchalant about it all too...didn't even give a f**k lol (this was when we were like 23. he had only ever been to my apartment and this was his first time at my family house)
you seem like you're okay with him doing all the stuff you mentioned but just understand that when you do end up getting into a relationship with him, it will probably escalate unless you draw the line somewhere.
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omg we're planning to visit my grandma about 2 weeks from now. and he'd prob go through albums there. i just quietly pretend i don't notice. but i think nothing of it.
the thing that makes me really trust him is tho he does things like say he took pics of me still asleep early morning, he shows me so casually. and tho it feels creepy for like 2 secs, i realize he does it coz he likes to coz he likes me and he doesn't mean any harm about it. i just feel it's so INNOCENT. we all do things a little weird every now and then, right? i do a lot of weird things sometimes like usually to gather info, more like an experiment. but he does things coz he likes to and genuinely doesn't really seem to know how it makes him look. and that's part of why i trust him so much. i don't sense malice here.
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what vibe are you getting from this?
changed my mind about flaking on a dude so we sent each other our baby pics instead lol. spent the whole weekend together. dude took a pic of me sneakily while out on a date together and posted it on fb with 'i miss you' after being apart for only one day. watched the paramedic and mentioned that if he were mario casas' character, he won't bother me with people i'm chatting with but then casually asked for my phone passcode and looks into history, fb notifs, apps and messages. looked into my entire gallery. placed my name on his fb bio. i never call him out. i just observe quietly. way i see it, this saves up on questions about my interests, history, traits and entanglements. so don't really mind too much, i just consider this as part of someone's personality. can't be helped that you are what you are, right?
i leave him for like half an hour to buy some stuff to cook with and i come home to him rearranging the furniture and cleaning up after my pet rabbit (evil poop dispenser). i like this new arrangement tho. now he's trying to improve the interiors for some reason, constantly mentioning his family owns a lot of land so i can have anything i wanted built there. always asking what i'm doing for december which is like months away? what does that even mean? keeps saying 'just because' when asked why. noticed i'm always into these dudes with huge plots of land. like even beyond looks, status, money or education i'd rather know if you got some plot of soil. must be my hundred acre wood fantasy 🧸🧸
and i'm
actually pretty chill about this 😎😎
but then, i can't tell salads from orange trees 🤷🤷