MyStarsShine
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Posted by AliensusedourbogrollLazy?
He has to have some kind of disorder to be that hopeless surely?
Posted by blackphase🙂
I've done it.. not to the extreme where he relies on me to tell him to get rid of his own headache, lol. But Cancer Mars & Venus here, need I say more.. Lol 😛
There is nothing attractive about a giant man child.
I don't want to have sex with my child.
Overly controlling men are just as awful. I don't want to have sex with my father either.
I don't want to have sex with my child.
Overly controlling men are just as awful. I don't want to have sex with my father either.
So he's just being lazy then?? No!! Wouldn't be with a man like that.
I may baby someone for whatever reasons..but I wouldn't be in a relationship with such person no! I don't think I can respect slothfulness.
I may baby someone for whatever reasons..but I wouldn't be in a relationship with such person no! I don't think I can respect slothfulness.
Posted by Deedee86Agree
There is nothing attractive about a giant man child.
I don't want to have sex with my child.
Overly controlling men are just as awful. I don't want to have sex with my father either.
Posted by TeenaYes Teena, i think so
So he's just being lazy then?? No!! Wouldn't be with a man like that.
I may baby someone for whatever reasons..but I wouldn't be in a relationship with such person no! I don't think I can respect slothfulness.
I was on a trip away with my parents once and i saw my mother pour cereal into a bowl, then the milk for my father...i mean really?
In defense of the men, if women do this for them, more fool them.
You mean like howard and bernadette from big bang theory?
Posted by ParkourlerI don't watch that, so i can't answer
You mean like howard and bernadette from big bang theory?
🙂
Posted by MyStarsShineI would do that if he's busy doing something else /is in a hurry/ is ill/ just not in a mood for once. But not if he just decided to be lazy forever.Posted by TeenaYes Teena, i think so
So he's just being lazy then?? No!! Wouldn't be with a man like that.
I may baby someone for whatever reasons..but I wouldn't be in a relationship with such person no! I don't think I can respect slothfulness.
I was on a trip away with my parents once and i saw my mother pour cereal into a bowl, then the milk for my father...i mean really?
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Posted by TeenaShe did it in the breakfast restaurant in view of everyone.....Posted by MyStarsShineI would do that if he's busy doing something else /is in a hurry/ is ill/ just not in a mood for once. But not if he just decided to be lazy forever.Posted by TeenaYes Teena, i think so
So he's just being lazy then?? No!! Wouldn't be with a man like that.
I may baby someone for whatever reasons..but I wouldn't be in a relationship with such person no! I don't think I can respect slothfulness.
I was on a trip away with my parents once and i saw my mother pour cereal into a bowl, then the milk for my father...i mean really?
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Posted by ParisianCappyThat is nice......
i like to sleep on the boob of my gf, it's one of the most quiet place i ever been
Posted by MyStarsShineWow!! Lol!! Do you think she thought it's romantic or something?Posted by TeenaShe did it in the breakfast restaurant in view of everyone.....Posted by MyStarsShineI would do that if he's busy doing something else /is in a hurry/ is ill/ just not in a mood for once. But not if he just decided to be lazy forever.Posted by TeenaYes Teena, i think so
So he's just being lazy then?? No!! Wouldn't be with a man like that.
I may baby someone for whatever reasons..but I wouldn't be in a relationship with such person no! I don't think I can respect slothfulness.
I was on a trip away with my parents once and i saw my mother pour cereal into a bowl, then the milk for my father...i mean really?
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Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll*Headache tablet guy* ?
Does he have a job, the headache tablet guy?
Posted by TeenaNo, she was buying into his need for mummy 😐Posted by MyStarsShineWow!! Lol!! Do you think she thought it's romantic or something?Posted by TeenaShe did it in the breakfast restaurant in view of everyone.....Posted by MyStarsShineI would do that if he's busy doing something else /is in a hurry/ is ill/ just not in a mood for once. But not if he just decided to be lazy forever.Posted by TeenaYes Teena, i think so
So he's just being lazy then?? No!! Wouldn't be with a man like that.
I may baby someone for whatever reasons..but I wouldn't be in a relationship with such person no! I don't think I can respect slothfulness.
I was on a trip away with my parents once and i saw my mother pour cereal into a bowl, then the milk for my father...i mean really?
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Posted by TeenaLol at Headache tablet guyPosted by Aliensusedourbogroll*Headache tablet guy* ?
Does he have a job, the headache tablet guy?click to expand
Yes, he is a very talented artist....not exactly taxing physical work though, is it?
Posted by MyStarsShine?Posted by TeenaNo, she was buying into his need for mummy 😐Posted by MyStarsShineWow!! Lol!! Do you think she thought it's romantic or something?Posted by TeenaShe did it in the breakfast restaurant in view of everyone.....Posted by MyStarsShineI would do that if he's busy doing something else /is in a hurry/ is ill/ just not in a mood for once. But not if he just decided to be lazy forever.Posted by TeenaYes Teena, i think so
So he's just being lazy then?? No!! Wouldn't be with a man like that.
I may baby someone for whatever reasons..but I wouldn't be in a relationship with such person no! I don't think I can respect slothfulness.
I was on a trip away with my parents once and i saw my mother pour cereal into a bowl, then the milk for my father...i mean really?
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Posted by halalbabe
He treats her home like a hotel and she's the servant, a maid, a possible broodmare. It reminds me of all the married women who provide structure and live like a single parent where their husband is an infantile dependent.
She is to blame for tolerating that......I wouldn't, in a heartbeat
Posted by halalbabeYes indeedPosted by MyStarsShineDefinitely not, it's like expecting a positive return from nurturing a trashcan ¯\_(ツ)_/¯Posted by halalbabe
He treats her home like a hotel and she's the servant, a maid, a possible broodmare. It reminds me of all the married women who provide structure and live like a single parent where their husband is an infantile dependent.
She is to blame for tolerating that......I wouldn't, in a heartbeat
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Are you a Scorp too?
Mothers are often to blame though.....raising their sons to be dependent on them and then as my mother used to say *making a rod for some other women's back*
Posted by MyStarsShineMentally and emotionally exhausting.Posted by TeenaLol at Headache tablet guyPosted by Aliensusedourbogroll*Headache tablet guy* ?
Does he have a job, the headache tablet guy?
Yes, he is a very talented artist....not exactly taxing physical work though, is it?click to expand
Hey if it works for them then god bless. I prefer to be with someone a little more independent myself.
I can do this and then I'll get mad at you... what do I look like your mom, next day, pookie, don't get up, let me get that for you... — what can I say, I'm complicated.
Posted by MyStarsShineLol! I was thinking the same. These must be Mama's boys.
Mothers are often to blame though.....raising their sons to be dependent on them and then as my mother used to say *making a rod for some other women's back*
Posted by leowwwPosted by MyStarsShineLol so?
I was on a trip away with my parents once and i saw my mother pour cereal into a bowl, then the milk for my father...i mean really?
I think that's quite nice and vice versa.
Unless she's bathing him or wiping him... Gross.
I prefer relationships where it's okay to take care of each other.
I'm super protective and nurturing, I'll take care of my parents, my siblings, my nephews and my boyfriend - instinctively.
It's a form of love.click to expand
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But it wasn't vice versa, it was a one way street.....
Posted by TeenaI can see them at our lad's school.....not shown how to do anythingPosted by MyStarsShineLol! I was thinking the same. These must be Mama's boys.
Mothers are often to blame though.....raising their sons to be dependent on them and then as my mother used to say *making a rod for some other women's back*
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It is kind of cruel in a way.....not preparing a kid for the outside world and it's also a form of control to keep them babied
Ugh
Posted by MagicMona
doing nice things for one another and being just plain creepy are two different things.
Absolutely
Or taking advantage of a partner.....that is just taking the piss
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioYes! My mother was a Cappy and dad an Aries
Must be a Capricorn only sign I know that would do stiuff like that.
Lol
Guys, I am talking about a rship where the woman babies a man.....where he waits for her to do everything for him.....totallŷ different to helping each other
Posted by MyStarsShineLol!People took *the pouring milk in the cereal* thing seriously n totally missed the point in the OP
Guys, I am talking about a rship where the woman babies a man.....where he waits for her to do everything for him.....totallŷ different to helping each other
Posted by TeenaGlad i wasn't the only one that noticed that Teena lolPosted by MyStarsShineLol!People took *the pouring milk in the cereal* thing seriously n totally missed the point in the OP
Guys, I am talking about a rship where the woman babies a man.....where he waits for her to do everything for him.....totallŷ different to helping each otherclick to expand
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioThat is very interesting 🙂Posted by MyStarsShineThe cap female I went out with tried to do that to me quite too often I told her stop acting like a mom she got offended.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioYes! My mother was a Cappy and dad an Aries
Must be a Capricorn only sign I know that would do stiuff like that.
Lol
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My mother tried to smother all of us....dad, sister and me....she had no chance with her daughters, but with her husband she succeeded. He couldn't even cook a meal, or look after himself after she passed....very sad and very selfish of her actually
Posted by MyStarsShineLol!! I did... I didn't know if I was the right person to point that out ?Posted by TeenaGlad i wasn't the only one that noticed that Teena lolPosted by MyStarsShineLol!People took *the pouring milk in the cereal* thing seriously n totally missed the point in the OP
Guys, I am talking about a rship where the woman babies a man.....where he waits for her to do everything for him.....totallŷ different to helping each other
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Posted by EvoxxxscorpioNot necessarily a bum....some people are just happy to be babied and rely on the other too much
If you choose to go out with a bum then you deserve to do everything for him/her.
Posted by TeenaYou are a Scorp....of course you are lol 😉Posted by MyStarsShineLol!! I did... I didn't know if I was the right person to point that out ?Posted by TeenaGlad i wasn't the only one that noticed that Teena lolPosted by MyStarsShineLol!People took *the pouring milk in the cereal* thing seriously n totally missed the point in the OP
Guys, I am talking about a rship where the woman babies a man.....where he waits for her to do everything for him.....totallŷ different to helping each other
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Posted by sagsagsagThat is two people supporting each other 🙂 not one acting as a mother and the other the child
I've seen my mom doing it for my dad and my dad also does this to my mom... it's basically them babysitting each other.. lol
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioOh right, yes i see...that is not goodPosted by MyStarsShineI'm referring to people who take advantage of other people.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioNot necessarily a bum....some people are just happy to be babied and rely on the other too much
If you choose to go out with a bum then you deserve to do everything for him/her.click to expand
Posted by leowwwIt's okay love....the cereal was just the tip of the ice-berg lol, believe me, this was a grown man being babied with a capital BPosted by TeenaI didn't miss the point... 😕Posted by MyStarsShineLol!People took *the pouring milk in the cereal* thing seriously n totally missed the point in the OP
Guys, I am talking about a rship where the woman babies a man.....where he waits for her to do everything for him.....totallŷ different to helping each other
I just didn't think that was a relevant babying behavior... ( the cereal )
That stood out to me and I expressed my opinion about it. That's all. 🙂
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Posted by LibramissWell he was an Aries man that never allowed himself to grow up.......he chose the path of the everlasting child and my mother supported him on thatPosted by MyStarsShineIn that case I would loose all attraction for him. He needs to be able to stand on him own. I want to be in a team where we would help each other but if it's one sided then you're not a team anymore.
Guys, I am talking about a rship where the woman babies a man.....where he waits for her to do everything for him.....totallŷ different to helping each otherclick to expand
She always used to say to us *it's up to the woman to show men the way*
lol
The good thing is, i didn't take the same path......
Posted by leowwwPosted by TeenaI didn't miss the point... 😕Posted by MyStarsShineLol!People took *the pouring milk in the cereal* thing seriously n totally missed the point in the OP
Guys, I am talking about a rship where the woman babies a man.....where he waits for her to do everything for him.....totallŷ different to helping each other
I just didn't think that was a relevant babying behavior... ( the cereal )
That stood out to me and I expressed my opinion about it. That's all. 🙂
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I get it 🙂
I didn't think that was much either but I thought I'll base my opinion on the original post. This might have just been one scenario she could think of .Obviously she might have seen more of what happened there or her dad's behavior in general.
Posted by MyStarsShine*Tip of the iceberg*Posted by leowwwIt's okay love....the cereal was just the tip of the ice-berg lol, believe me, this was a grown man being babied with a capital BPosted by TeenaI didn't miss the point... 😕Posted by MyStarsShineLol!People took *the pouring milk in the cereal* thing seriously n totally missed the point in the OP
Guys, I am talking about a rship where the woman babies a man.....where he waits for her to do everything for him.....totallŷ different to helping each other
I just didn't think that was a relevant babying behavior... ( the cereal )
That stood out to me and I expressed my opinion about it. That's all. 🙂
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Yeah this is what I thought @leowww 🙂
Posted by LibramissYes, i agree and even more so when there are childrenPosted by MyStarsShineIn that case I would loose all attraction for him. He needs to be able to stand on him own. I want to be in a team where we would help each other but if it's one sided then you're not a team anymore.
Guys, I am talking about a rship where the woman babies a man.....where he waits for her to do everything for him.....totallŷ different to helping each otherclick to expand
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioShe did all that ^^^ and more....the cereal story was one example....it made him look like he was a child in a public place
Smh pouring milk on someone isn't babying doing his/her laundry or cleaning after his/her mess everyday is.
Posted by MyStarsShineLol someone finally said it 😄 🤗Posted by TeenaYou are a Scorp....of course you are lol 😉Posted by MyStarsShineLol!! I did... I didn't know if I was the right person to point that out ?Posted by TeenaGlad i wasn't the only one that noticed that Teena lolPosted by MyStarsShineLol!People took *the pouring milk in the cereal* thing seriously n totally missed the point in the OP
Guys, I am talking about a rship where the woman babies a man.....where he waits for her to do everything for him.....totallŷ different to helping each other
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Posted by EvoxxxscorpioAs i said before, Evo, it was in a hotel......manchild for surePosted by MyStarsShineIn a public setting that's a big NO yea he's a manchild.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioShe did all that ^^^ and more....the cereal story was one example....it made him look like he was a child in a public place
Smh pouring milk on someone isn't babying doing his/her laundry or cleaning after his/her mess everyday is.
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Very silly...
Posted by LibramissYes indeed.....control is the key word ...and yes in a perverse kind of way pleasurablePosted by MyStarsShineI'm guessing she must have liked it somehow and he must have too because why else would you put up with it. I have a cap colleague at work. She is the alpha in the relationship but then she complains about her husband that he is so hopeless but I think she secretly likes to do it. Or maybe it's just a control things. 😛Posted by EvoxxxscorpioShe did all that ^^^ and more....the cereal story was one example....it made him look like he was a child in a public place
Smh pouring milk on someone isn't babying doing his/her laundry or cleaning after his/her mess everyday is.
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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio...and that is what i was trying to sayPosted by MyStarsShineThat's embarrassingPosted by EvoxxxscorpioAs i said before, Evo, it was in a hotel......manchild for surePosted by MyStarsShineIn a public setting that's a big NO yea he's a manchild.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioShe did all that ^^^ and more....the cereal story was one example....it made him look like he was a child in a public place
Smh pouring milk on someone isn't babying doing his/her laundry or cleaning after his/her mess everyday is.
Very silly...
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I also think it is a poor way to raise daughters seeing their mother treating a man this way.....
Half the women here should be responding with a resounding "yes" to this shit. After all, they're drawn to being mommies and "fixers" for douchebags.
Posted by ImTheRamEvil? LolPosted by MyStarsShineAnd maybe he knew that your mother wold Love to do that for him and he just let her do it..?Posted by EvoxxxscorpioShe did all that ^^^ and more....the cereal story was one example....it made him look like he was a child in a public place
Smh pouring milk on someone isn't babying doing his/her laundry or cleaning after his/her mess everyday is.
Maybe in some way..he understood her and let her do things in a way that wold please her...instinctively...
Do you even know how much cap women (generaly) Love to have total control?
I wonder if you ever understood your parents and their own chemistry...
Kinda sad to realise that maybe you didnt...and in the end you could only see what in your eyes was the *dark side*...
This is where we both differ Scorpio...we are both from Mars...buth you also got that Pluto right?..
Were you saw *Evil*...i saw Love...click to expand
I think anyone who tries to take away anyone's independence is somewhat foolish and cruel in a way. He was rendered completely helpless and unable to look after himself properly when she passed away...she spoiled him......literally
Is that love?
Total control is never good.....not loving or for the good of the other person
My mothers attempted control over my sis and I caused us both to rebel ....
Control freaks are not what love is about
Helping others to become the best of themselves is what love is about
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Babying? I thought you were talking about some fetish or something 😄!
Do you use the term as serving? Didn't that use to be the normal behaviour of a wife? Of our mothers?
I do "baby" my man sometimes with pet names, cute gestures and even feeding him fruit, because I like it. I even serve him cooked food on the table! But...I would never live with a man who does not take his turn in doing these things for me.
Do you use the term as serving? Didn't that use to be the normal behaviour of a wife? Of our mothers?
I do "baby" my man sometimes with pet names, cute gestures and even feeding him fruit, because I like it. I even serve him cooked food on the table! But...I would never live with a man who does not take his turn in doing these things for me.
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