strong personality?

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http://www.puckermob.com/moblog/10-things-to-know-when-dating-a-girl-with-a-strong-personality



You meet a girl and she's feisty and spunky — she's a real firecracker. The girl has a strong personality and I guarantee she isn't gonna change that for anyone.

If you've never been with a girl like this, know that...

1. She won't back down from your shit.

You fuck up? She's gonna call you on it. You hurt her feelings? She's gonna tell you about it. She isn't scared that you'll get pissed and walk away, because if you did that's your loss, not hers.

2. She's gonna challenge you. Get the fuck over it.

She's gonna push your buttons, she's gonna force you to face things you might not want to but need to. She's pushing you do better for yourself because she cares. Stop fighting it.

3. She's not gonna fake being happy if she's not actually happy.

She can't pretend everything is fine and dandy if things are actually shitty. She's gonna wanna talk about it to fix it, work it out, whatever. Why? Because COMMUNICATION is key. That's what grown-ups do, so don't get mad that she wants to fix it.

4. She does her own thing, don't be surprised when she already has made plans.



She's independent. She likes her space and her own time. Not even for the normal hangout with friends, shop, etc. But for her to think, process life, or maybe she just wants to shave her damn legs in peace.

5. She gets along with everyone, and isn't scared to bro out with your friends.

She's the life of the party because she's friendly, so she'll talk to strangers at the bar. She's also got a mind like a male in a female's body, so she can joke around with you and your guys and feel comfortable doing it.
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alot of those things on the list i can understand...lol

i can't fake happy. if i'm unhappy i just exude the unhappiness and blah, and my husband will ask me, what's wrong.

and yes, i've also been really up front on how i feel. i'm like that with my man. i also wont back down either.

there are some things im not like i'm NOT the life of the party though... i'm friendly with peeps but certainly NOT the life of the party.

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Posted by Leo188881
I think there's different types of strong. There's strong and independent that don't need anyone, sometimes people are strong bordering on aggressive, or strong because they genuinely don't give a shit, then there is strength in resilience and the ability to overcome trauma or tragedy. And sometimes those you think are strong are actually sensitive and crying themselves to sleep. I also think that vulnerability is strong, i admire those who aren't afraid to get hurt, take risks and wear their hearts on their sleeve.




i like vulnerability too!!

i love it when people take risks in love.

i do the same thing anyway so i would want to see that in a man. risk takers!!! all or nothing.