Posted by sweetpea2977
"A man"? Depends on WHO the man is AND his PLACE in my life. Aka, WHAT is our relationship?
It wouldn't make me uncomfortable.
Would it remove the power dynamic? No way. If having the funds to pay your own way, makes you feel "powerful", then I'd imagine being able to keep it in your pocket, puts you at an advantage. Understand? Someone is gifting you with something although they know you're capable on your own. No harm in that UNLESS, this is the kind of dude who "treats" in order to "bed".
My boyfriend is a Cancer. I'm quite independent, but, he gifts me ALL the time and I'm honored. Our RELATIONSHIP is full of love and kindness. That's one of several ways in which he SHOWS his love. I *know* WHAT his love language is, and that helped me to take a step back. All of my power, is STILL intact 😉
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by sweetpea2977
"A man"? Depends on WHO the man is AND his PLACE in my life. Aka, WHAT is our relationship?
It wouldn't make me uncomfortable.
Would it remove the power dynamic? No way. If having the funds to pay your own way, makes you feel "powerful", then I'd imagine being able to keep it in your pocket, puts you at an advantage. Understand? Someone is gifting you with something although they know you're capable on your own. No harm in that UNLESS, this is the kind of dude who "treats" in order to "bed".
My boyfriend is a Cancer. I'm quite independent, but, he gifts me ALL the time and I'm honored. Our RELATIONSHIP is full of love and kindness. That's one of several ways in which he SHOWS his love. I *know* WHAT his love language is, and that helped me to take a step back. All of my power, is STILL intact 😉
what's your sign?click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPP
a man who insists on paying for everything even when you'd rather go halfsies? not even once are they okay with it. does it make you uncomfortable? do you feel like it takes away some 'power' you have within the dynamic? are cancer suns known for being naturally giving?
Posted by nanobot
I actually find it quite repulsive of those feminist women to lash out and become filled with anger over such gestures. I saw some woman once pissed off that a guy held the door for her ...she goes "What? You think I can't do it myself? Asshole"
Like what a raging cunt. Shut the fuck up and just say thank you and move on🙄🙄 People hold doors for everyone all day, everyday around the world. It isn't an attack on your girl power
Posted by nanobotPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by nanobot
I actually find it quite repulsive of those feminist women to lash out and become filled with anger over such gestures. I saw some woman once pissed off that a guy held the door for her ...she goes "What? You think I can't do it myself? Asshole"
Like what a raging cunt. Shut the fuck up and just say thank you and move on🙄🙄 People hold doors for everyone all day, everyday around the world. It isn't an attack on your girl power
that happens?
Yea dude, I live in this crazy fucking liberal town somehow in Arkansas and they are extreme as hell. I have Facebook groups with these people where I'm shooketh by the extreme far left posts every single day. Like how can I be in AR?click to expand
Posted by nanobotPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by nanobotPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by nanobot
I actually find it quite repulsive of those feminist women to lash out and become filled with anger over such gestures. I saw some woman once pissed off that a guy held the door for her ...she goes "What? You think I can't do it myself? Asshole"
Like what a raging cunt. Shut the fuck up and just say thank you and move on🙄🙄 People hold doors for everyone all day, everyday around the world. It isn't an attack on your girl power
that happens?
Yea dude, I live in this crazy fucking liberal town somehow in Arkansas and they are extreme as hell. I have Facebook groups with these people where I'm shooketh by the extreme far left posts every single day. Like how can I be in AR?
Lol its prolly russian bots 😂
They have like rallies and shit. I've never been to one though, I've just been around here long enough to see it. It's so weird, I grew up in one town where I have groups that's like "Obummer ruined Murica and he tried to steal our dang guns. God bless the USA" and then down the road 40 mins, this uber liberal feminist population where half the people don't know what gender they are and you can't hold the door open for them because it takes away their girl power. Its a very confusing and polarizing time to live in ARclick to expand
Posted by nanobotPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by nanobotPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by nanobotPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by nanobot
I actually find it quite repulsive of those feminist women to lash out and become filled with anger over such gestures. I saw some woman once pissed off that a guy held the door for her ...she goes "What? You think I can't do it myself? Asshole"
Like what a raging cunt. Shut the fuck up and just say thank you and move on🙄🙄 People hold doors for everyone all day, everyday around the world. It isn't an attack on your girl power
that happens?
Yea dude, I live in this crazy fucking liberal town somehow in Arkansas and they are extreme as hell. I have Facebook groups with these people where I'm shooketh by the extreme far left posts every single day. Like how can I be in AR?
Lol its prolly russian bots 😂
They have like rallies and shit. I've never been to one though, I've just been around here long enough to see it. It's so weird, I grew up in one town where I have groups that's like "Obummer ruined Murica and he tried to steal our dang guns. God bless the USA" and then down the road 40 mins, this uber liberal feminist population where half the people don't know what gender they are and you can't hold the door open for them because it takes away their girl power. Its a very confusing and polarizing time to live in AR
Have you done any reading lately on cambridge analytica?
Apparently all these rallies are being organized by firms hired by politicians to divide and conquer undecided or persuadable voters... such a trip.
This next election season is gonna be lit. Seriously, its gonna be crazy I thinkclick to expand
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