Confusing virgo male

English is not my mother language so i'll do my best so you guys can understand.

So i saw this guy for the first time at a party, we've texting 4 months now. We see each other from time to time at a bar, we've never dated or something like that just bumped into each other a few times. When we text im always the one starting the conversation and he hardly replies. We had Some dumb discussions because he asked me once when was the last time i hooked up with somebody and i told him it was like a week ago and he got so mad. But he told me from the betonning that he didn't want to have a relationship with me because he would break my heart and this would get complicated. Long story short when we see each other at the bar i ignore him becaus he hardly respond to my messages, it's like the roles switch and he Will be following me all night and telling me How much he likes me and would like to be with me etc but that i had another thing coming because I'm used to guys fall for me inmediatly bla bla bla that he won't make it that easy for me etc. I think he likes me, because his behaviour when he is with me says it all and he knows i like him because i already told him (i know bad idea). We have never kissed but the tension is so strong that he can't deny it. Any virgo male who can explain me his behaviour? I feel sometimes likes he doesn't want me, but he Also doesn't want another guy around me.

I'm fairly sure he likes you, but he's not completely sure what he wants.and he's keeping you tethered "just in case". That means he keeps you holding onto him until he makes up his mind.

You should give him his marching orders.

Posted by Tom_Sawyer
I know exactly what he's doing.

But I won't tell.

Have fun, sweetheart.

That's not so sweet ??should i move on? Or just wait?

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
I'm fairly sure he likes you, but he's not completely sure what he wants.and he's keeping you tethered "just in case". That means he keeps you holding onto him until he makes up his mind.

You should give him his marching orders.

I didn't get your last sentence ☺️You mean i should let him go & stop wasting my time?

Thanks alot! ?

Posted by Miamia13
I think that he just wants to fuck you. Not a Virgo male. But I've experienced this behavior with one before.

It's so difficult, sometimes i feel like he's scared because he knows i could get whoever i want (not being cocky),then again i feel like he's keeping me as a sidepiece

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I think that he just wants to fuck you. Not a Virgo male. But I've experienced this behavior with one before.

It's so difficult, sometimes i feel like he's scared because he knows i could get whoever i want (not being cocky),then again i feel like he's keeping me as a sidepiece

It sounds like he just wants you at his disposal. What do you want from him?

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I would like to get to know him better and see if he has "potential". I would like to spend time with him alone. When i asked him to come over once he's answer was: why should i let you win ?Hahha sooo confusing.

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I'm fairly sure he likes you, but he's not completely sure what he wants.and he's keeping you tethered "just in case". That means he keeps you holding onto him until he makes up his mind.

You should give him his marching orders.

I didn't get your last sentence ☺️You mean i should let him go & stop wasting my time?

Thanks alot! ?

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Normally I'd advise against rushing a Virgo because the more you push them to make a decision, the further away you end up pushing them instead. It took me 4 years, and it wasn't even a possibility until he completely blindsided me out of nowhere.

But this one is also mentally cockblocking you (getting mad if he learns you hooked up with someone else). So you should set him straight about it. Make it clear to him that your world does not revolve around him and he has no right to keep you dangling like this.

Depends how you really feel about him. Me, I love him more than I've ever loved anyone in this world, so I had to be patient and just be there for him whenever he needed me. But if you just "like" him, then it wouldn't be a heavy loss if he became petulant, threw a hissy fit and left.

Oh by the way, if someone called P-Angel responds to you, just completely ignore her. She's a sociopath in every sense of the word, and she has a stick up her ass about Virgos. Completely abuses pretty much everyone. So just pretend like she doesn't exist.

https://www.dxpnet.com/users/p-angel/

Go to the link above and click the "BLOCK" button. You'll thank me sooner than later.

Posted by DickButt
He asked you when was the last time you hooked up with someone. Red flag. He wants poon only. Move on.

That's another issue, in the beginning we were talking about Hooking up and he asked me if i could hook up with someone without feelings involved and i said yes Cuz it's the truth. We then agreed to think about hooking up etc but then he started to make things more complicated & i think that's when i started to like him.i did not expected to keep in touch with him for so long. In my head we would just have a one night stand and then keep it moving

Sounds like you are enjoying playing head games back and forth with him.

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I'm fairly sure he likes you, but he's not completely sure what he wants.and he's keeping you tethered "just in case". That means he keeps you holding onto him until he makes up his mind.



You should give him his marching orders.

I didn't get your last sentence ☺️You mean i should let him go & stop wasting my time?

Thanks alot! ?

Normally I'd advise against rushing a Virgo because the more you push them to make a decision, the further away you end up pushing them instead. It took me 4 years, and it wasn't even a possibility until he completely blindsided me out of nowhere.

But this one is also mentally cockblocking you (getting mad if he learns you hooked up with someone else). So you should set him straight about it. Make it clear to him that your world does not revolve around him and he has no right to keep you dangling like this.

Depends how you really feel about him. Me, I love him more than I've ever loved anyone in this world, so I had to be patient and just be there for him whenever he needed me. But if you just "like" him, then it wouldn't be a heavy loss if he became petulant, threw a hissy fit and left.

Oh by the way, if someone called P-Angel responds to you, just completely ignore her. She's a sociopath in every sense of the word, and she has a stick up her ass about Virgos. Completely abuses pretty much everyone. So just pretend like she doesn't exist.

https://www.dxpnet.com/users/p-angel/

Go to the link above and click the "BLOCK" button. You'll thank me sooner than later.

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Thanks for letting me know!

I know it Sounds just like a summerloce but i've never met someone and felt the tension weg have when we see each other, i can tell im really crazy about it because we've never even kissed and i keep thinking about him, never had this feeling before, at the beginnin it was like a game and we just wanted to hook up (never happened) but then i even forgot about sex, i just wanted him to be with me. Im a single mother (by choice) and yes i've hooked up with Some but never took anybody back home or even introduce them to my daughter because it does not sit Well with me and it is nothing serious. But something deed down tells me that he's the one i should introduce to my daughter but as long as he does not get his shit together it won't happen. That's when i knew it was a serious thing what i was feeling, once my thoughs about him included my daughter

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Sounds like you are enjoying playing head games back and forth with him.

I don't think its Fun but then again why would i let him play mindgames? He knows what i want ans when we see each other its like he becomes another person and is all over me. I try my hardest to be strong and to not play these mindgames but its stronger than me i guess

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I think that he just wants to fuck you. Not a Virgo male. But I've experienced this behavior with one before.

It's so difficult, sometimes i feel like he's scared because he knows i could get whoever i want (not being cocky),then again i feel like he's keeping me as a sidepiece

It sounds like he just wants you at his disposal. What do you want from him?

I would like to get to know him better and see if he has "potential". I would like to spend time with him alone. When i asked him to come over once he's answer was: why should i let you win ?Hahha sooo confusing.

What's his chart?

The Virgo I experienced this with was a Sag moon.

Banter with him.Give him witty comebacks.Don't give your position away so easily. Show interest, but don't chase him too hard. Virgos are very much in their head. Too many advances, and he will withdraw to process everything.

Right now, he is observing you and putting you through tests. Show interest, don't chase.

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I don't know his charts but we both are virgo he was Born on 1 september and i was Born on 29 August. I give him space but then when we see eachother and he acts so sweet and jealous it Makes my hope go up. Then i also Get scared that if i give him too much space he Will forget about me i know it Sounds silly

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I'm fairly sure he likes you, but he's not completely sure what he wants.and he's keeping you tethered "just in case". That means he keeps you holding onto him until he makes up his mind.



You should give him his marching orders.

I didn't get your last sentence ☺️You mean i should let him go & stop wasting my time?

Thanks alot! ?

Normally I'd advise against rushing a Virgo because the more you push them to make a decision, the further away you end up pushing them instead. It took me 4 years, and it wasn't even a possibility until he completely blindsided me out of nowhere.

But this one is also mentally cockblocking you (getting mad if he learns you hooked up with someone else). So you should set him straight about it. Make it clear to him that your world does not revolve around him and he has no right to keep you dangling like this.

Depends how you really feel about him. Me, I love him more than I've ever loved anyone in this world, so I had to be patient and just be there for him whenever he needed me. But if you just "like" him, then it wouldn't be a heavy loss if he became petulant, threw a hissy fit and left.

Oh by the way, if someone called P-Angel responds to you, just completely ignore her. She's a sociopath in every sense of the word, and she has a stick up her ass about Virgos. Completely abuses pretty much everyone. So just pretend like she doesn't exist.

https://www.dxpnet.com/users/p-angel/

Go to the link above and click the "BLOCK" button. You'll thank me sooner than later.

Thanks for letting me know!

I know it Sounds just like a summerloce but i've never met someone and felt the tension weg have when we see each other, i can tell im really crazy about it because we've never even kissed and i keep thinking about him, never had this feeling before, at the beginnin it was like a game and we just wanted to hook up (never happened) but then i even forgot about sex, i just wanted him to be with me. Im a single mother (by choice) and yes i've hooked up with Some but never took anybody back home or even introduce them to my daughter because it does not sit Well with me and it is nothing serious. But something deed down tells me that he's the one i should introduce to my daughter but as long as he does not get his shit together it won't happen. That's when i knew it was a serious thing what i was feeling, once my thoughs about him included my daughter

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In my experience, you need to have significant Virgo placements as well in order to fully appreciate the beautiful creatures Virgos are. My Virgo moon has helped me big time, and I even went through those famous Virgo phases while growing up to the point where I'm now more Virgo-like than Pisces. As soon as I laid eyes on my Virgo, I was hooked for life.

Having said that, if he treated me the way yours treats you, I'd cut his balls off - and he knows it. If you want him in your life, you need to come clean about how you feel. Lay it all on the table. That way you leave no room for misinterpretation or misunderstanding.

Tell him what you just told me.

If he goes quiet, give him a few days to think things through. You need to understand that Virgos process feelings & thoughts through solitude. Give him a bit of time to himself to recharge his mental batteries and he'll reach you when he's ready. Just kindly inform him that you need to live your life, and that you won't wait too long for him to make up his mind. If he genuinely cares for you, he'll try extra hard to clear up the mud in his brain.

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I'm fairly sure he likes you, but he's not completely sure what he wants.and he's keeping you tethered "just in case". That means he keeps you holding onto him until he makes up his mind.



You should give him his marching orders.

I didn't get your last sentence ☺️You mean i should let him go & stop wasting my time?

Thanks alot! ?

Normally I'd advise against rushing a Virgo because the more you push them to make a decision, the further away you end up pushing them instead. It took me 4 years, and it wasn't even a possibility until he completely blindsided me out of nowhere.

But this one is also mentally cockblocking you (getting mad if he learns you hooked up with someone else). So you should set him straight about it. Make it clear to him that your world does not revolve around him and he has no right to keep you dangling like this.

Depends how you really feel about him. Me, I love him more than I've ever loved anyone in this world, so I had to be patient and just be there for him whenever he needed me. But if you just "like" him, then it wouldn't be a heavy loss if he became petulant, threw a hissy fit and left.

Oh by the way, if someone called P-Angel responds to you, just completely ignore her. She's a sociopath in every sense of the word, and she has a stick up her ass about Virgos. Completely abuses pretty much everyone. So just pretend like she doesn't exist.

https://www.dxpnet.com/users/p-angel/

Go to the link above and click the "BLOCK" button. You'll thank me sooner than later.

Thanks for letting me know!

I know it Sounds just like a summerloce but i've never met someone and felt the tension weg have when we see each other, i can tell im really crazy about it because we've never even kissed and i keep thinking about him, never had this feeling before, at the beginnin it was like a game and we just wanted to hook up (never happened) but then i even forgot about sex, i just wanted him to be with me. Im a single mother (by choice) and yes i've hooked up with Some but never took anybody back home or even introduce them to my daughter because it does not sit Well with me and it is nothing serious. But something deed down tells me that he's the one i should introduce to my daughter but as long as he does not get his shit together it won't happen. That's when i knew it was a serious thing what i was feeling, once my thoughs about him included my daughter

In my experience, you need to have significant Virgo placements as well in order to fully appreciate the beautiful creatures Virgos are. My Virgo moon has helped me big time, and I even went through those famous Virgo phases while growing up to the point where I'm now more Virgo-like than Pisces. As soon as I laid eyes on my Virgo, I was hooked for life.

Having said that, if he treated me the way yours treats you, I'd cut his balls off - and he knows it. If you want him in your life, you need to come clean about how you feel. Lay it all on the table. That way you leave no room for misinterpretation or misunderstanding.

Tell him what you just told me.

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Im also i virgo so i feel like i understand Some of his behaviour because i treat men who want me the same way he treats me, but i know there is something there by the way we look at each other. I told him i like him and that i even forgot about having sex with him, but i don't want to put more preassure on him talking about How i see him getting to know my daughter because the fact that i want something "exclusive" would scare him away. I could be wrong but that's why i feel like i cant tell him that because then he would take advantage of it

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I'm fairly sure he likes you, but he's not completely sure what he wants.and he's keeping you tethered "just in case". That means he keeps you holding onto him until he makes up his mind.



You should give him his marching orders.

I didn't get your last sentence ☺️You mean i should let him go & stop wasting my time?

Thanks alot! ?

Normally I'd advise against rushing a Virgo because the more you push them to make a decision, the further away you end up pushing them instead. It took me 4 years, and it wasn't even a possibility until he completely blindsided me out of nowhere.

But this one is also mentally cockblocking you (getting mad if he learns you hooked up with someone else). So you should set him straight about it. Make it clear to him that your world does not revolve around him and he has no right to keep you dangling like this.

Depends how you really feel about him. Me, I love him more than I've ever loved anyone in this world, so I had to be patient and just be there for him whenever he needed me. But if you just "like" him, then it wouldn't be a heavy loss if he became petulant, threw a hissy fit and left.

Oh by the way, if someone called P-Angel responds to you, just completely ignore her. She's a sociopath in every sense of the word, and she has a stick up her ass about Virgos. Completely abuses pretty much everyone. So just pretend like she doesn't exist.

https://www.dxpnet.com/users/p-angel/

Go to the link above and click the "BLOCK" button. You'll thank me sooner than later.

Thanks for letting me know!

I know it Sounds just like a summerloce but i've never met someone and felt the tension weg have when we see each other, i can tell im really crazy about it because we've never even kissed and i keep thinking about him, never had this feeling before, at the beginnin it was like a game and we just wanted to hook up (never happened) but then i even forgot about sex, i just wanted him to be with me. Im a single mother (by choice) and yes i've hooked up with Some but never took anybody back home or even introduce them to my daughter because it does not sit Well with me and it is nothing serious. But something deed down tells me that he's the one i should introduce to my daughter but as long as he does not get his shit together it won't happen. That's when i knew it was a serious thing what i was feeling, once my thoughs about him included my daughter

In my experience, you need to have significant Virgo placements as well in order to fully appreciate the beautiful creatures Virgos are. My Virgo moon has helped me big time, and I even went through those famous Virgo phases while growing up to the point where I'm now more Virgo-like than Pisces. As soon as I laid eyes on my Virgo, I was hooked for life.

Having said that, if he treated me the way yours treats you, I'd cut his balls off - and he knows it. If you want him in your life, you need to come clean about how you feel. Lay it all on the table. That way you leave no room for misinterpretation or misunderstanding.

Tell him what you just told me.

If he goes quiet, give him a few days to think things through. You need to understand that Virgos process feelings & thoughts through solitude. Give him a bit of time to himself to recharge his mental batteries and he'll reach you when he's ready. Just kindly inform him that you need to live your life, and that you won't wait too long for him to make up his mind. If he genuinely cares for you, he'll try extra hard to clear up the mud in his brain.

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I totally get what you are saying, when i told him about my hook up he got angry and said he did not understand How i could had sex with someone and still like him. I told him it was just something that hapenned but my feelings for him were the same, i wasn't ashamed because he had already told me he did not want something serious, then i told him i would not put my life on hold just because he cant figure out what he wants from me. Last friday when i saw him we were hugging and flirting he was kissing my hand and caressing my leg (nothing sexual, very romantic) and i told him i only would give him a year to figure it out, i felt dumb afterwards but i was so in the moment

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I think that he just wants to fuck you. Not a Virgo male. But I've experienced this behavior with one before.

It's so difficult, sometimes i feel like he's scared because he knows i could get whoever i want (not being cocky),then again i feel like he's keeping me as a sidepiece

It sounds like he just wants you at his disposal. What do you want from him?

I would like to get to know him better and see if he has "potential". I would like to spend time with him alone. When i asked him to come over once he's answer was: why should i let you win ?Hahha sooo confusing.

What's his chart?

The Virgo I experienced this with was a Sag moon.

Banter with him.Give him witty comebacks.Don't give your position away so easily. Show interest, but don't chase him too hard. Virgos are very much in their head. Too many advances, and he will withdraw to process everything.

Right now, he is observing you and putting you through tests. Show interest, don't chase.

I don't know his charts but we both are virgo he was Born on 1 september and i was Born on 29 August. I give him space but then when we see eachother and he acts so sweet and jealous it Makes my hope go up. Then i also Get scared that if i give him too much space he Will forget about me i know it Sounds silly

I stand by my first statement. I think he just wants to fuck you. You, yourself put that idea in his head in agreement to being capable of hooking up with him. And that's totally OKAY! However, I don't believe he sees you as anything more then a hook-up based on how he's treating you. If you want to hook-up, go for it- I think that's all it will be in his mind.

BUT I don't think that it would be a good idea since you made a thread about him which leads me to believe that you have feelings for him. Don't set yourself up to be hurt. Also, Virgos show love by what they do for you, not what they say to you...

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I hate admitting it but you are right! But if he just want to hook up why doesn't he want to come over? Cuz he got plenty of chances? Maybe he's only using me as a "trophee" because he knows How wanted i am in our neighbourhood and even his friends tried to get on with me.

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I think that he just wants to fuck you. Not a Virgo male. But I've experienced this behavior with one before.

It's so difficult, sometimes i feel like he's scared because he knows i could get whoever i want (not being cocky),then again i feel like he's keeping me as a sidepiece

It sounds like he just wants you at his disposal. What do you want from him?

I would like to get to know him better and see if he has "potential". I would like to spend time with him alone. When i asked him to come over once he's answer was: why should i let you win ?Hahha sooo confusing.

What's his chart?

The Virgo I experienced this with was a Sag moon.

Banter with him.Give him witty comebacks.Don't give your position away so easily. Show interest, but don't chase him too hard. Virgos are very much in their head. Too many advances, and he will withdraw to process everything.

Right now, he is observing you and putting you through tests. Show interest, don't chase.

I don't know his charts but we both are virgo he was Born on 1 september and i was Born on 29 August. I give him space but then when we see eachother and he acts so sweet and jealous it Makes my hope go up. Then i also Get scared that if i give him too much space he Will forget about me i know it Sounds silly

I stand by my first statement. I think he just wants to fuck you. You, yourself put that idea in his head in agreement to being capable of hooking up with him. And that's totally OKAY! However, I don't believe he sees you as anything more then a hook-up based on how he's treating you. If you want to hook-up, go for it- I think that's all it will be in his mind.

BUT I don't think that it would be a good idea since you made a thread about him which leads me to believe that you have feelings for him. Don't set yourself up to be hurt. Also, Virgos show love by what they do for you, not what they say to you...

I hate admitting it but you are right! But if he just want to hook up why doesn't he want to come over? Cuz he got plenty of chances? Maybe he's only using me as a "trophee" because he knows How wanted i am in our neighbourhood and even his friends tried to get on with me.

I don't know what his placements are. But my best guess is he's toying with you and wants you to show him how much you want him. By you asking him to come over and him saying no 'But then you'd win' he wants you to admit that you want him that bad. Head-games.

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Exactly, he loves confusing me with his mind games. If he only wants to hook up why would he care when waw the last time i had sex? Im starting to think he loves the attention and the fact that i want him so badly. Then again i feel like he could be testing me to see How much i really care. I think im just going tp ignore him as long as it is possible and when i see him at a party im just going to tell him to leave me alone and stop giving me false hope because im done playing his games! Thank you!!!

He ignores you. You ignore him.

He tells you he doesn't want a relationship. You tell him all about your latest hookups.





...Sounds like the start of every epic love story I've ever heard.

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He ignores you. You ignore him.

He tells you he doesn't want a relationship. You tell him all about your latest hookups.





...Sounds like the start of every epic love story I've ever heard.

I told him only because he asked me i never gave him a name or details i just wanted to be honest with it. I also dot not ignore him, i just give him space from time to time. He does texts back but im the one itiating the Convo

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I think that he just wants to fuck you. Not a Virgo male. But I've experienced this behavior with one before.

It's so difficult, sometimes i feel like he's scared because he knows i could get whoever i want (not being cocky),then again i feel like he's keeping me as a sidepiece

It sounds like he just wants you at his disposal. What do you want from him?

I would like to get to know him better and see if he has "potential". I would like to spend time with him alone. When i asked him to come over once he's answer was: why should i let you win ?Hahha sooo confusing.

What's his chart?

The Virgo I experienced this with was a Sag moon.

Banter with him.Give him witty comebacks.Don't give your position away so easily. Show interest, but don't chase him too hard. Virgos are very much in their head. Too many advances, and he will withdraw to process everything.

Right now, he is observing you and putting you through tests. Show interest, don't chase.

I don't know his charts but we both are virgo he was Born on 1 september and i was Born on 29 August. I give him space but then when we see eachother and he acts so sweet and jealous it Makes my hope go up. Then i also Get scared that if i give him too much space he Will forget about me i know it Sounds silly

I stand by my first statement. I think he just wants to fuck you. You, yourself put that idea in his head in agreement to being capable of hooking up with him. And that's totally OKAY! However, I don't believe he sees you as anything more then a hook-up based on how he's treating you. If you want to hook-up, go for it- I think that's all it will be in his mind.

BUT I don't think that it would be a good idea since you made a thread about him which leads me to believe that you have feelings for him. Don't set yourself up to be hurt. Also, Virgos show love by what they do for you, not what they say to you...

I hate admitting it but you are right! But if he just want to hook up why doesn't he want to come over? Cuz he got plenty of chances? Maybe he's only using me as a "trophee" because he knows How wanted i am in our neighbourhood and even his friends tried to get on with me.

I don't know what his placements are. But my best guess is he's toying with you and wants you to show him how much you want him. By you asking him to come over and him saying no 'But then you'd win' he wants you to admit that you want him that bad. Head-games.

Exactly, he loves confusing me with his mind games. If he only wants to hook up why would he care when waw the last time i had sex? Im starting to think he loves the attention and the fact that i want him so badly. Then again i feel like he could be testing me to see How much i really care. I think im just going tp ignore him as long as it is possible and when i see him at a party im just going to tell him to leave me alone and stop giving me false hope because im done playing his games! Thank you!!!

Of course! I wouldn't even admit to him giving you false hope. You can call him out if he appraches. But don't give away your feelings. Don't confirm it. He doesn't deserve to know.

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Honestly Reading all of this Makes me realize he's just an attention whore. I cant believe i felt for it. I guess i was the only one feeling that deep connection/tension from our eye contact. You've helped me see a lot of things. Thank you so much. And if he really wants me he Will have to deserve it.

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Im also i virgo

OH NO

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I totally get what you are saying, when i told him about my hook up he got angry and said he did not understand How i could had sex with someone and still like him. I told him it was just something that hapenned but my feelings for him were the same, i wasn't ashamed because he had already told me he did not want something serious, then i told him i would not put my life on hold just because he cant figure out what he wants from me. Last friday when i saw him we were hugging and flirting he was kissing my hand and caressing my leg (nothing sexual, very romantic) and i told him i only would give him a year to figure it out, i felt dumb afterwards but i was so in the moment

so i feel like i understand Some of his behaviour because i treat men who want me the same way he treats me, but i know there is something there by the way we look at each other. I told him i like him and that i even forgot about having sex with him, but i don't want to put more preassure on him talking about How i see him getting to know my daughter because the fact that i want something "exclusive" would scare him away. I could be wrong but that's why i feel like i cant tell him that because then he would take advantage of it

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It's a shame when we're ruled by fear. I was terrified of telling my boy how I feel about him for 3 years. He's straight, I'm gay. NOW I've been getting mixed feedback. Some think I've emotionally manipulated him into getting sexual with me, others think he's taking ME for a ride. When all we're doing is enjoying each other. He's exploring his sexuality and I get to finally show him the love I have for him.

The journey was very difficult for me, but the destination is worth it. My boy is one of the best. Maybe your boy is one of the good ones too - where it counts. But you have to find out for sure. Don't leave it up to chance. Good things always require effort to happen.

Use a home-cooked meal as an excuse, and tell him you need to talk. Sit him down, and tell him what you told me. Explain it to him, give him the information and give him a little time to figure it out. As you very well know, us Virgins aren't as predictable as other people think. So don't try to assume how he really feels about you. It certainly didn't work for me, I instead drove myself crazy for 3 years for frikkin nothing.

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I totally get what you are saying, when i told him about my hook up he got angry and said he did not understand How i could had sex with someone and still like him. I told him it was just something that hapenned but my feelings for him were the same, i wasn't ashamed because he had already told me he did not want something serious, then i told him i would not put my life on hold just because he cant figure out what he wants from me. Last friday when i saw him we were hugging and flirting he was kissing my hand and caressing my leg (nothing sexual, very romantic) and i told him i only would give him a year to figure it out, i felt dumb afterwards but i was so in the moment

so i feel like i understand Some of his behaviour because i treat men who want me the same way he treats me, but i know there is something there by the way we look at each other. I told him i like him and that i even forgot about having sex with him, but i don't want to put more preassure on him talking about How i see him getting to know my daughter because the fact that i want something "exclusive" would scare him away. I could be wrong but that's why i feel like i cant tell him that because then he would take advantage of it

It's a shame when we're ruled by fear. I was terrified of telling my boy how I feel about him for 3 years. He's straight, I'm gay. NOW I've been getting mixed feedback. Some think I've emotionally manipulated him into getting sexual with me, others think he's taking ME for a ride. When all we're doing is enjoying each other. He's exploring his sexuality and I get to finally show him the love I have for him.

The journey was very difficult for me, but the destination is worth it. My boy is one of the best. Maybe your boy is one of the good ones too - where it counts. But you have to find out for sure. Don't leave it up to chance. Good things always require effort to happen.

Use a home-cooked meal as an excuse, and tell him you need to talk. Sit him down, and tell him what you told me. Explain it to him, give him the information and give him a little time to figure it out. As you very well know, us Virgins aren't as predictable as other people think. So don't try to assume how he really feels about you. It certainly didn't work for me, I instead drove myself crazy for 3 years for frikkin nothing.

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You exactly understand what's going on in my mind, i feel like he's worth it that's why i told him last friday i Will give him 1 year to figure it out. But Maybe he just wants my attention. Eventhough i strongly believe in eye contact because it never lies. I already ask him to come over but he told me "why would i let you win" so that means he is kinda playing a game

Pffff so damn hard, i would wait all my life for him but i just don't want to be played

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I think that he just wants to fuck you. Not a Virgo male. But I've experienced this behavior with one before.

It's so difficult, sometimes i feel like he's scared because he knows i could get whoever i want (not being cocky),then again i feel like he's keeping me as a sidepiece

It sounds like he just wants you at his disposal. What do you want from him?

I would like to get to know him better and see if he has "potential". I would like to spend time with him alone. When i asked him to come over once he's answer was: why should i let you win ?Hahha sooo confusing.

What's his chart?

The Virgo I experienced this with was a Sag moon.

Banter with him.Give him witty comebacks.Don't give your position away so easily. Show interest, but don't chase him too hard. Virgos are very much in their head. Too many advances, and he will withdraw to process everything.

Right now, he is observing you and putting you through tests. Show interest, don't chase.

I don't know his charts but we both are virgo he was Born on 1 september and i was Born on 29 August. I give him space but then when we see eachother and he acts so sweet and jealous it Makes my hope go up. Then i also Get scared that if i give him too much space he Will forget about me i know it Sounds silly

I stand by my first statement. I think he just wants to fuck you. You, yourself put that idea in his head in agreement to being capable of hooking up with him. And that's totally OKAY! However, I don't believe he sees you as anything more then a hook-up based on how he's treating you. If you want to hook-up, go for it- I think that's all it will be in his mind.

BUT I don't think that it would be a good idea since you made a thread about him which leads me to believe that you have feelings for him. Don't set yourself up to be hurt. Also, Virgos show love by what they do for you, not what they say to you...

I hate admitting it but you are right! But if he just want to hook up why doesn't he want to come over? Cuz he got plenty of chances? Maybe he's only using me as a "trophee" because he knows How wanted i am in our neighbourhood and even his friends tried to get on with me.

I don't know what his placements are. But my best guess is he's toying with you and wants you to show him how much you want him. By you asking him to come over and him saying no 'But then you'd win' he wants you to admit that you want him that bad. Head-games.

Exactly, he loves confusing me with his mind games. If he only wants to hook up why would he care when waw the last time i had sex? Im starting to think he loves the attention and the fact that i want him so badly. Then again i feel like he could be testing me to see How much i really care. I think im just going tp ignore him as long as it is possible and when i see him at a party im just going to tell him to leave me alone and stop giving me false hope because im done playing his games! Thank you!!!

But don't give away your feelings. Don't confirm it. He doesn't deserve to know.

Lmao

Don't troll. Your avatar creeps me tf out.

I really don't care about your emotions.

You really give out bad advice lol.

To the op: there's a slim chance that you will get him and keep him.

Go get yourself a real man-servant because this Virgo you're confused by can smell your bullshit a mile away.

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What does bullbutter mean?

U think there is a chance?

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He ignores you. You ignore him.

He tells you he doesn't want a relationship. You tell him all about your latest hookups.





...Sounds like the start of every epic love story I've ever heard.

I told him only because he asked me i never gave him a name or details i just wanted to be honest with it. I also dot not ignore him, i just give him space from time to time. He does texts back but im the one itiating the Convo

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when we see each other at the bar i ignore him becaus he hardly respond to my messages

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He ignores you. You ignore him.

He tells you he doesn't want a relationship. You tell him all about your latest hookups.





...Sounds like the start of every epic love story I've ever heard.

I told him only because he asked me i never gave him a name or details i just wanted to be honest with it. I also dot not ignore him, i just give him space from time to time. He does texts back but im the one itiating the Convo

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when we see each other at the bar i ignore him becaus he hardly respond to my messages

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That's the only time when i do so because i get upset

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He ignores you. You ignore him.

He tells you he doesn't want a relationship. You tell him all about your latest hookups.





...Sounds like the start of every epic love story I've ever heard.

I told him only because he asked me i never gave him a name or details i just wanted to be honest with it. I also dot not ignore him, i just give him space from time to time. He does texts back but im the one itiating the Convo

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when we see each other at the bar i ignore him becaus he hardly respond to my messages

That's the only time when i do so because i get upset

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So you admit you ignore him when your upset.

I refer you back to my op.

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I think that he just wants to fuck you. Not a Virgo male. But I've experienced this behavior with one before.

It's so difficult, sometimes i feel like he's scared because he knows i could get whoever i want (not being cocky),then again i feel like he's keeping me as a sidepiece

It sounds like he just wants you at his disposal. What do you want from him?

I would like to get to know him better and see if he has "potential". I would like to spend time with him alone. When i asked him to come over once he's answer was: why should i let you win ?Hahha sooo confusing.

What's his chart?

The Virgo I experienced this with was a Sag moon.

Banter with him.Give him witty comebacks.Don't give your position away so easily. Show interest, but don't chase him too hard. Virgos are very much in their head. Too many advances, and he will withdraw to process everything.

Right now, he is observing you and putting you through tests. Show interest, don't chase.

I don't know his charts but we both are virgo he was Born on 1 september and i was Born on 29 August. I give him space but then when we see eachother and he acts so sweet and jealous it Makes my hope go up. Then i also Get scared that if i give him too much space he Will forget about me i know it Sounds silly

I stand by my first statement. I think he just wants to fuck you. You, yourself put that idea in his head in agreement to being capable of hooking up with him. And that's totally OKAY! However, I don't believe he sees you as anything more then a hook-up based on how he's treating you. If you want to hook-up, go for it- I think that's all it will be in his mind.

BUT I don't think that it would be a good idea since you made a thread about him which leads me to believe that you have feelings for him. Don't set yourself up to be hurt. Also, Virgos show love by what they do for you, not what they say to you...

I hate admitting it but you are right! But if he just want to hook up why doesn't he want to come over? Cuz he got plenty of chances? Maybe he's only using me as a "trophee" because he knows How wanted i am in our neighbourhood and even his friends tried to get on with me.

I don't know what his placements are. But my best guess is he's toying with you and wants you to show him how much you want him. By you asking him to come over and him saying no 'But then you'd win' he wants you to admit that you want him that bad. Head-games.

Exactly, he loves confusing me with his mind games. If he only wants to hook up why would he care when waw the last time i had sex? Im starting to think he loves the attention and the fact that i want him so badly. Then again i feel like he could be testing me to see How much i really care. I think im just going tp ignore him as long as it is possible and when i see him at a party im just going to tell him to leave me alone and stop giving me false hope because im done playing his games! Thank you!!!

But don't give away your feelings. Don't confirm it. He doesn't deserve to know.

Lmao

Don't troll. Your avatar creeps me tf out.

I really don't care about your emotions.

You really give out bad advice lol.

To the op: there's a slim chance that you will get him and keep him.

Go get yourself a real man-servant because this Virgo you're confused by can smell your bullshit a mile away.

What does bullbutter mean?

U think there is a chance?

Listen.

Never ask women for advice concerning men, most don't know what they're talking about.

You failed the sh1t-test when you told him when you had sex.

Now you're getting emotional and ready to mess this up even further, listening to people like mia.

Do yourself a favor and retreat.

The only way to win a game is to not play the game, understand?

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This is the reason why i love talking to guys, though love is what i need haha! I knew i fucked it up the moment i got emotional and told him How bad i wanted him, it scared him away. About that hook up, i felt like it was better to be honest because we have so much mutual friends, it would have been worse id he heard it from somebody else. He also once got angry because he heard i was texting another guy, this was before he knew i liked him. I feel like he gets "jealous", for example when we are together at the bar and i start dancing or another guy comes and talk to me he Gets very territorial and asks me to keep my maners. That's the reason why i feel deep down that he likes me and wants me as much as i do

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Posted by LadyNeptune
He ignores you. You ignore him.

He tells you he doesn't want a relationship. You tell him all about your latest hookups.





...Sounds like the start of every epic love story I've ever heard.

I told him only because he asked me i never gave him a name or details i just wanted to be honest with it. I also dot not ignore him, i just give him space from time to time. He does texts back but im the one itiating the Convo

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when we see each other at the bar i ignore him becaus he hardly respond to my messages

That's the only time when i do so because i get upset

So you admit you ignore him when your upset.

I refer you back to my op.

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Its my way to let him know that i know my worth

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Posted by LadyNeptune
He ignores you. You ignore him.

He tells you he doesn't want a relationship. You tell him all about your latest hookups.





...Sounds like the start of every epic love story I've ever heard.

I told him only because he asked me i never gave him a name or details i just wanted to be honest with it. I also dot not ignore him, i just give him space from time to time. He does texts back but im the one itiating the Convo

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when we see each other at the bar i ignore him becaus he hardly respond to my messages

That's the only time when i do so because i get upset

So you admit you ignore him when your upset.

I refer you back to my op.

Its my way to let him know that i know my worth

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For the future know that if you want to show your worth Its best not to ignore the guy and or talk about other dicks inside you.

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Posted by Anonima

Posted by LadyNeptune
He ignores you. You ignore him.

He tells you he doesn't want a relationship. You tell him all about your latest hookups.





...Sounds like the start of every epic love story I've ever heard.

I told him only because he asked me i never gave him a name or details i just wanted to be honest with it. I also dot not ignore him, i just give him space from time to time. He does texts back but im the one itiating the Convo

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when we see each other at the bar i ignore him becaus he hardly respond to my messages

That's the only time when i do so because i get upset

So you admit you ignore him when your upset.

I refer you back to my op.

Its my way to let him know that i know my worth

For the future know that if you want to show your worth Its best not to ignore and or talk about other dicks inside you.

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That sounds so Rude, i frikkin told him because he asked me and i wanted to be honest. It would have been worse is he heard it from someone else because we have a lot of mutual friends

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I think that he just wants to fuck you. Not a Virgo male. But I've experienced this behavior with one before.

It's so difficult, sometimes i feel like he's scared because he knows i could get whoever i want (not being cocky),then again i feel like he's keeping me as a sidepiece

It sounds like he just wants you at his disposal. What do you want from him?

I would like to get to know him better and see if he has "potential". I would like to spend time with him alone. When i asked him to come over once he's answer was: why should i let you win ?Hahha sooo confusing.

What's his chart?

The Virgo I experienced this with was a Sag moon.

Banter with him.Give him witty comebacks.Don't give your position away so easily. Show interest, but don't chase him too hard. Virgos are very much in their head. Too many advances, and he will withdraw to process everything.

Right now, he is observing you and putting you through tests. Show interest, don't chase.

I don't know his charts but we both are virgo he was Born on 1 september and i was Born on 29 August. I give him space but then when we see eachother and he acts so sweet and jealous it Makes my hope go up. Then i also Get scared that if i give him too much space he Will forget about me i know it Sounds silly

I stand by my first statement. I think he just wants to fuck you. You, yourself put that idea in his head in agreement to being capable of hooking up with him. And that's totally OKAY! However, I don't believe he sees you as anything more then a hook-up based on how he's treating you. If you want to hook-up, go for it- I think that's all it will be in his mind.

BUT I don't think that it would be a good idea since you made a thread about him which leads me to believe that you have feelings for him. Don't set yourself up to be hurt. Also, Virgos show love by what they do for you, not what they say to you...

I hate admitting it but you are right! But if he just want to hook up why doesn't he want to come over? Cuz he got plenty of chances? Maybe he's only using me as a "trophee" because he knows How wanted i am in our neighbourhood and even his friends tried to get on with me.

I don't know what his placements are. But my best guess is he's toying with you and wants you to show him how much you want him. By you asking him to come over and him saying no 'But then you'd win' he wants you to admit that you want him that bad. Head-games.

Exactly, he loves confusing me with his mind games. If he only wants to hook up why would he care when waw the last time i had sex? Im starting to think he loves the attention and the fact that i want him so badly. Then again i feel like he could be testing me to see How much i really care. I think im just going tp ignore him as long as it is possible and when i see him at a party im just going to tell him to leave me alone and stop giving me false hope because im done playing his games! Thank you!!!

But don't give away your feelings. Don't confirm it. He doesn't deserve to know.

Lmao

Don't troll. Your avatar creeps me tf out.

I really don't care about your emotions.

You really give out bad advice lol.

To the op: there's a slim chance that you will get him and keep him.

Go get yourself a real man-servant because this Virgo you're confused by can smell your bullshit a mile away.

What does bullbutter mean?

U think there is a chance?

Listen.

Never ask women for advice concerning men, most don't know what they're talking about.

You failed the sh1t-test when you told him when you had sex.

Now you're getting emotional and ready to mess this up even further, listening to people like mia.

Do yourself a favor and retreat.

The only way to win a game is to not play the game, understand?

This is the reason why i love talking to guys, though love is what i need haha! I knew i fucked it up the moment i got emotional and told him How bad i wanted him, it scared him away. About that hook up, i felt like it was better to be honest because we have so much mutual friends, it would have been worse id he heard it from somebody else. He also once got angry because he heard i was texting another guy, this was before he knew i liked him. I feel like he gets "jealous", for example when we are together at the bar and i start dancing or another guy comes and talk to me he Gets very territorial and asks me to keep my maners. That's the reason why i feel deep down that he likes me and wants me as much as i do

There's nothing wrong with telling a man you want him.

It does how ever send a red-flag signal to the man if you also told him that you had sex a week ago.

1 + 1 = potential gold-digger/slut, not to be trusted.

He reacts territorial because he wants to see the best in you, even tho he might despise alot of the things in you.

Women play mind-games while men are simple, do you see the difference?

Especially if you believe in horoschopes, you should know that the stereotypical Virgo man hates whores, he may not tell you this but trust me it's there.

So, my advice:

Stop the games, don't be an entitled queen because real women are respected while the delusional ones are used for sex, take a look at your morals and fix them if you see something wrong with them.

I don't how ever think you can.

This is just advice tho.

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I do think i get what you are trying to tell me, i just gotta stop making things difficult and stop trying to play the same game he is playing. I do have Morals, it was just something that happened and he had told me he didn't wanted nothing serious so i figured he would not get mad because he did not seem to care about me. I know there are Some things he doesnt like about me because he already told me, since that hookup i didn't do it again, i learned my lesson and want to show him that he's the one i want. So im willing to sacrifice alot if things for him, but its sometimes annoying when i feel like im the only one putting in effort.

It is great advice you are giving me!

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Posted by LadyNeptune
He ignores you. You ignore him.

He tells you he doesn't want a relationship. You tell him all about your latest hookups.





...Sounds like the start of every epic love story I've ever heard.

I told him only because he asked me i never gave him a name or details i just wanted to be honest with it. I also dot not ignore him, i just give him space from time to time. He does texts back but im the one itiating the Convo

Posted by Anonima
when we see each other at the bar i ignore him becaus he hardly respond to my messages

That's the only time when i do so because i get upset

So you admit you ignore him when your upset.

I refer you back to my op.

Its my way to let him know that i know my worth

For the future know that if you want to show your worth Its best not to ignore and or talk about other dicks inside you.

That sounds so Rude, i frikkin told him because he asked me and i wanted to be honest. It would have been worse is he heard it from someone else because we have a lot of mutual friends

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Why do you feel you owe him honesty? Does this mean he will answer your questions honestly? When was the last time he fucked, sucked, kissed a girl?



Personally, I would've said that my sex life is private. Boundaries need to be maintained. Especially with dudes you aren't even dating.

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Posted by Anonima

Posted by LadyNeptune
He ignores you. You ignore him.

He tells you he doesn't want a relationship. You tell him all about your latest hookups.





...Sounds like the start of every epic love story I've ever heard.

I told him only because he asked me i never gave him a name or details i just wanted to be honest with it. I also dot not ignore him, i just give him space from time to time. He does texts back but im the one itiating the Convo

Posted by Anonima
when we see each other at the bar i ignore him becaus he hardly respond to my messages

That's the only time when i do so because i get upset

So you admit you ignore him when your upset.

I refer you back to my op.

Its my way to let him know that i know my worth

For the future know that if you want to show your worth Its best not to ignore and or talk about other dicks inside you.

That sounds so Rude, i frikkin told him because he asked me and i wanted to be honest. It would have been worse is he heard it from someone else because we have a lot of mutual friends

Why do you feel you owe him honesty? Does this mean he will answer your questions honestly? When was the last time he fucked, sucked, kissed a girl?



Personally, I would've said that my sex life is private. Boundaries need to be maintained. Especially with dudes you aren't even dating.

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Good point, it is because i like him that much. I told him he should nog be asking questions if he did not wanted to know the answer. It felt right at the moment because i hate lying to people i care about

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Posted by Anonima

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Anonima

Posted by LadyNeptune
He ignores you. You ignore him.

He tells you he doesn't want a relationship. You tell him all about your latest hookups.





...Sounds like the start of every epic love story I've ever heard.

I told him only because he asked me i never gave him a name or details i just wanted to be honest with it. I also dot not ignore him, i just give him space from time to time. He does texts back but im the one itiating the Convo

Posted by Anonima
when we see each other at the bar i ignore him becaus he hardly respond to my messages

That's the only time when i do so because i get upset

So you admit you ignore him when your upset.

I refer you back to my op.

Its my way to let him know that i know my worth

For the future know that if you want to show your worth Its best not to ignore and or talk about other dicks inside you.

That sounds so Rude, i frikkin told him because he asked me and i wanted to be honest. It would have been worse is he heard it from someone else because we have a lot of mutual friends

Why do you feel you owe him honesty? Does this mean he will answer your questions honestly? When was the last time he fucked, sucked, kissed a girl?



Personally, I would've said that my sex life is private. Boundaries need to be maintained. Especially with dudes you aren't even dating.

Good point, it is because i like him that much. I told him he should nog be asking questions if he did not wanted to know the answer. It felt right at the moment because i hate lying to people i care about

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How is it you 'care' about someone you've only run into a few times. Your not dating him, you haven't even kissed.



Do better.

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Posted by Anonima

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Anonima

Posted by LadyNeptune
He ignores you. You ignore him.

He tells you he doesn't want a relationship. You tell him all about your latest hookups.





...Sounds like the start of every epic love story I've ever heard.

I told him only because he asked me i never gave him a name or details i just wanted to be honest with it. I also dot not ignore him, i just give him space from time to time. He does texts back but im the one itiating the Convo

Posted by Anonima
when we see each other at the bar i ignore him becaus he hardly respond to my messages

That's the only time when i do so because i get upset

So you admit you ignore him when your upset.

I refer you back to my op.

Its my way to let him know that i know my worth

For the future know that if you want to show your worth Its best not to ignore and or talk about other dicks inside you.

That sounds so Rude, i frikkin told him because he asked me and i wanted to be honest. It would have been worse is he heard it from someone else because we have a lot of mutual friends

Why do you feel you owe him honesty? Does this mean he will answer your questions honestly? When was the last time he fucked, sucked, kissed a girl?



Personally, I would've said that my sex life is private. Boundaries need to be maintained. Especially with dudes you aren't even dating.

Good point, it is because i like him that much. I told him he should nog be asking questions if he did not wanted to know the answer. It felt right at the moment because i hate lying to people i care about

How is it you 'care' about someone you've only run into a few times. Your not dating him, you haven't even kissed.



Do better.

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Because my mind tells me so, my gut feeling everything. It feels right. I get that js Sounds weird but i guess that's what passion is all about. As a virgo i am very cold and stand off, and i do feel a connection with him. That's the point i know i really like him because we've never kissed, only Hugged and hold hand. It is hard to explain but for once its not just about the sexual, he also stimulate my mind

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Im also i virgo

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I totally get what you are saying, when i told him about my hook up he got angry and said he did not understand How i could had sex with someone and still like him. I told him it was just something that hapenned but my feelings for him were the same, i wasn't ashamed because he had already told me he did not want something serious, then i told him i would not put my life on hold just because he cant figure out what he wants from me. Last friday when i saw him we were hugging and flirting he was kissing my hand and caressing my leg (nothing sexual, very romantic) and i told him i only would give him a year to figure it out, i felt dumb afterwards but i was so in the moment

so i feel like i understand Some of his behaviour because i treat men who want me the same way he treats me, but i know there is something there by the way we look at each other. I told him i like him and that i even forgot about having sex with him, but i don't want to put more preassure on him talking about How i see him getting to know my daughter because the fact that i want something "exclusive" would scare him away. I could be wrong but that's why i feel like i cant tell him that because then he would take advantage of it

It's a shame when we're ruled by fear. I was terrified of telling my boy how I feel about him for 3 years. He's straight, I'm gay. NOW I've been getting mixed feedback. Some think I've emotionally manipulated him into getting sexual with me, others think he's taking ME for a ride. When all we're doing is enjoying each other. He's exploring his sexuality and I get to finally show him the love I have for him.

The journey was very difficult for me, but the destination is worth it. My boy is one of the best. Maybe your boy is one of the good ones too - where it counts. But you have to find out for sure. Don't leave it up to chance. Good things always require effort to happen.

Use a home-cooked meal as an excuse, and tell him you need to talk. Sit him down, and tell him what you told me. Explain it to him, give him the information and give him a little time to figure it out. As you very well know, us Virgins aren't as predictable as other people think. So don't try to assume how he really feels about you. It certainly didn't work for me, I instead drove myself crazy for 3 years for frikkin nothing.

You exactly understand what's going on in my mind, i feel like he's worth it that's why i told him last friday i Will give him 1 year to figure it out. But Maybe he just wants my attention. Eventhough i strongly believe in eye contact because it never lies. I already ask him to come over but he told me "why would i let you win" so that means he is kinda playing a game

Pffff so damn hard, i would wait all my life for him but i just don't want to be played

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One year is way too long! But what you can do is COMPLETELY ignore him. Don't text, don't call and don't talk to him if you happen to run into him. See how he likes THAT game.

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the stereotypical Virgo man hates whores, he may not tell you this but trust me it's there.

Lmao so true.

They won't admit it out loud tho.

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So he could like me but be to Proud to tell me?

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the stereotypical Virgo man hates whores, he may not tell you this but trust me it's there.

Lmao so true.

They won't admit it out loud tho.

So he could like me but be to Proud to tell me?

I seriously doubt that. He told you, you would not win, right? That equals out to, i like you.

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Yes when i asked him to come over he said why would i let you win. It's like if he would come over i'll know he actually likes me don't you think?

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I know this female that told me; virgos are lookie loos and she knows her worth.

I told her she would never win!

Well actually shes worth a lot and I know her worth. She should know by now my worth also bc I don't play games.

very familiar sounding story.

So u've been trough almost the same story? And why did you told her She would not win?

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I think that he just wants to fuck you. Not a Virgo male. But I've experienced this behavior with one before.

It's so difficult, sometimes i feel like he's scared because he knows i could get whoever i want (not being cocky),then again i feel like he's keeping me as a sidepiece

It sounds like he just wants you at his disposal. What do you want from him?

I would like to get to know him better and see if he has "potential". I would like to spend time with him alone. When i asked him to come over once he's answer was: why should i let you win ?Hahha sooo confusing.

What's his chart?

The Virgo I experienced this with was a Sag moon.

Banter with him.Give him witty comebacks.Don't give your position away so easily. Show interest, but don't chase him too hard. Virgos are very much in their head. Too many advances, and he will withdraw to process everything.

Right now, he is observing you and putting you through tests. Show interest, don't chase.

I don't know his charts but we both are virgo he was Born on 1 september and i was Born on 29 August. I give him space but then when we see eachother and he acts so sweet and jealous it Makes my hope go up. Then i also Get scared that if i give him too much space he Will forget about me i know it Sounds silly

I stand by my first statement. I think he just wants to fuck you. You, yourself put that idea in his head in agreement to being capable of hooking up with him. And that's totally OKAY! However, I don't believe he sees you as anything more then a hook-up based on how he's treating you. If you want to hook-up, go for it- I think that's all it will be in his mind.

BUT I don't think that it would be a good idea since you made a thread about him which leads me to believe that you have feelings for him. Don't set yourself up to be hurt. Also, Virgos show love by what they do for you, not what they say to you...

I hate admitting it but you are right! But if he just want to hook up why doesn't he want to come over? Cuz he got plenty of chances? Maybe he's only using me as a "trophee" because he knows How wanted i am in our neighbourhood and even his friends tried to get on with me.

I don't know what his placements are. But my best guess is he's toying with you and wants you to show him how much you want him. By you asking him to come over and him saying no 'But then you'd win' he wants you to admit that you want him that bad. Head-games.

Exactly, he loves confusing me with his mind games. If he only wants to hook up why would he care when waw the last time i had sex? Im starting to think he loves the attention and the fact that i want him so badly. Then again i feel like he could be testing me to see How much i really care. I think im just going tp ignore him as long as it is possible and when i see him at a party im just going to tell him to leave me alone and stop giving me false hope because im done playing his games! Thank you!!!

But don't give away your feelings. Don't confirm it. He doesn't deserve to know.

Lmao

Don't troll. Your avatar creeps me tf out.

I really don't care about your emotions.

You really give out bad advice lol.

To the op: there's a slim chance that you will get him and keep him.

Go get yourself a real man-servant because this Virgo you're confused by can smell your bullshit a mile away.

What does bullbutter mean?

U think there is a chance?

Listen.

Never ask women for advice concerning men, most don't know what they're talking about.

You failed the sh1t-test when you told him when you had sex.

Now you're getting emotional and ready to mess this up even further, listening to people like mia.

Do yourself a favor and retreat.

The only way to win a game is to not play the game, understand?

This is the reason why i love talking to guys, though love is what i need haha! I knew i fucked it up the moment i got emotional and told him How bad i wanted him, it scared him away. About that hook up, i felt like it was better to be honest because we have so much mutual friends, it would have been worse id he heard it from somebody else. He also once got angry because he heard i was texting another guy, this was before he knew i liked him. I feel like he gets "jealous", for example when we are together at the bar and i start dancing or another guy comes and talk to me he Gets very territorial and asks me to keep my maners. That's the reason why i feel deep down that he likes me and wants me as much as i do

There's nothing wrong with telling a man you want him.

It does how ever send a red-flag signal to the man if you also told him that you had sex a week ago.

1 + 1 = potential gold-digger/slut, not to be trusted.

He reacts territorial because he wants to see the best in you, even tho he might despise alot of the things in you.

Women play mind-games while men are simple, do you see the difference?

Especially if you believe in horoschopes, you should know that the stereotypical Virgo man hates whores, he may not tell you this but trust me it's there.

So, my advice:

Stop the games, don't be an entitled queen because real women are respected while the delusional ones are used for sex, take a look at your morals and fix them if you see something wrong with them.

I don't how ever think you can.

This is just advice tho.

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Here i am once again since i liked your advice so much, i have one last question. Do you think its best if i just stop text him for awhile or should i text him from time to time to let him know he's on my mind?

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I know this female that told me; virgos are lookie loos and she knows her worth.

I told her she would never win!

Well actually shes worth a lot and I know her worth. She should know by now my worth also bc I don't play games.

very familiar sounding story.

So u've been trough almost the same story? And why did you told her She would not win?

Because I'm much smarter than her and a very quick thinker...

and yea the guy likes you so dont pull any bs stuff....just be honest with him.

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That's what i felt from the beginning, if he only wanted to hook up then it would have already happen. Im gonna give him Some time

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I know this female that told me; virgos are lookie loos and she knows her worth.

I told her she would never win!

Well actually shes worth a lot and I know her worth. She should know by now my worth also bc I don't play games.

very familiar sounding story.

So u've been trough almost the same story? And why did you told her She would not win?

Because I'm much smarter than her and a very quick thinker...

and yea the guy likes you so dont pull any bs stuff....just be honest with him.

That's what i felt from the beginning, if he only wanted to hook up then it would have already happen. Im gonna give him Some time

also if you really like him, i would not be hooking up with others nor try to make him jealous or mad.

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Yes im already on that, i've been really calm ans i guess he knows it because he started to getting loose last friday. The only thing i don't u really understand is why he acts aloof via text messages en playing hard to get telling me we Will never hook op or something else but when he sees me he's all over me

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I think that he just wants to fuck you. Not a Virgo male. But I've experienced this behavior with one before.

It's so difficult, sometimes i feel like he's scared because he knows i could get whoever i want (not being cocky),then again i feel like he's keeping me as a sidepiece

It sounds like he just wants you at his disposal. What do you want from him?

I would like to get to know him better and see if he has "potential". I would like to spend time with him alone. When i asked him to come over once he's answer was: why should i let you win ?Hahha sooo confusing.

What's his chart?

The Virgo I experienced this with was a Sag moon.

Banter with him.Give him witty comebacks.Don't give your position away so easily. Show interest, but don't chase him too hard. Virgos are very much in their head. Too many advances, and he will withdraw to process everything.

Right now, he is observing you and putting you through tests. Show interest, don't chase.

I don't know his charts but we both are virgo he was Born on 1 september and i was Born on 29 August. I give him space but then when we see eachother and he acts so sweet and jealous it Makes my hope go up. Then i also Get scared that if i give him too much space he Will forget about me i know it Sounds silly

I stand by my first statement. I think he just wants to fuck you. You, yourself put that idea in his head in agreement to being capable of hooking up with him. And that's totally OKAY! However, I don't believe he sees you as anything more then a hook-up based on how he's treating you. If you want to hook-up, go for it- I think that's all it will be in his mind.

BUT I don't think that it would be a good idea since you made a thread about him which leads me to believe that you have feelings for him. Don't set yourself up to be hurt. Also, Virgos show love by what they do for you, not what they say to you...

I hate admitting it but you are right! But if he just want to hook up why doesn't he want to come over? Cuz he got plenty of chances? Maybe he's only using me as a "trophee" because he knows How wanted i am in our neighbourhood and even his friends tried to get on with me.

I don't know what his placements are. But my best guess is he's toying with you and wants you to show him how much you want him. By you asking him to come over and him saying no 'But then you'd win' he wants you to admit that you want him that bad. Head-games.

Exactly, he loves confusing me with his mind games. If he only wants to hook up why would he care when waw the last time i had sex? Im starting to think he loves the attention and the fact that i want him so badly. Then again i feel like he could be testing me to see How much i really care. I think im just going tp ignore him as long as it is possible and when i see him at a party im just going to tell him to leave me alone and stop giving me false hope because im done playing his games! Thank you!!!

But don't give away your feelings. Don't confirm it. He doesn't deserve to know.

Lmao

Don't troll. Your avatar creeps me tf out.

I really don't care about your emotions.

You really give out bad advice lol.

To the op: there's a slim chance that you will get him and keep him.

Go get yourself a real man-servant because this Virgo you're confused by can smell your bullshit a mile away.

What does bullbutter mean?

U think there is a chance?

Listen.

Never ask women for advice concerning men, most don't know what they're talking about.

You failed the sh1t-test when you told him when you had sex.

Now you're getting emotional and ready to mess this up even further, listening to people like mia.

Do yourself a favor and retreat.

The only way to win a game is to not play the game, understand?

This is the reason why i love talking to guys, though love is what i need haha! I knew i fucked it up the moment i got emotional and told him How bad i wanted him, it scared him away. About that hook up, i felt like it was better to be honest because we have so much mutual friends, it would have been worse id he heard it from somebody else. He also once got angry because he heard i was texting another guy, this was before he knew i liked him. I feel like he gets "jealous", for example when we are together at the bar and i start dancing or another guy comes and talk to me he Gets very territorial and asks me to keep my maners. That's the reason why i feel deep down that he likes me and wants me as much as i do

There's nothing wrong with telling a man you want him.

It does how ever send a red-flag signal to the man if you also told him that you had sex a week ago.

1 + 1 = potential gold-digger/slut, not to be trusted.

He reacts territorial because he wants to see the best in you, even tho he might despise alot of the things in you.

Women play mind-games while men are simple, do you see the difference?

Especially if you believe in horoschopes, you should know that the stereotypical Virgo man hates whores, he may not tell you this but trust me it's there.

So, my advice:

Stop the games, don't be an entitled queen because real women are respected while the delusional ones are used for sex, take a look at your morals and fix them if you see something wrong with them.

I don't how ever think you can.

This is just advice tho.

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Woooow!!! You sound like you have brain!!! Can we be friends? 🙂

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I know this female that told me; virgos are lookie loos and she knows her worth.

I told her she would never win!

Well actually shes worth a lot and I know her worth. She should know by now my worth also bc I don't play games.

very familiar sounding story.

So u've been trough almost the same story? And why did you told her She would not win?

Because I'm much smarter than her and a very quick thinker...

and yea the guy likes you so dont pull any bs stuff....just be honest with him.

That's what i felt from the beginning, if he only wanted to hook up then it would have already happen. Im gonna give him Some time

also if you really like him, i would not be hooking up with others nor try to make him jealous or mad.

Yes im already on that, i've been really calm ans i guess he knows it because he started to getting loose last friday. The only thing i don't u really understand is why he acts aloof via text messages en playing hard to get telling me we Will never hook op or something else but when he sees me he's all over me

witty virgo charms...

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He got me hooked ☺️He is kinda arrogant but i like it so much hahaha

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I think that he just wants to fuck you. Not a Virgo male. But I've experienced this behavior with one before.

It's so difficult, sometimes i feel like he's scared because he knows i could get whoever i want (not being cocky),then again i feel like he's keeping me as a sidepiece

It sounds like he just wants you at his disposal. What do you want from him?

I would like to get to know him better and see if he has "potential". I would like to spend time with him alone. When i asked him to come over once he's answer was: why should i let you win ?Hahha sooo confusing.

What's his chart?

The Virgo I experienced this with was a Sag moon.

Banter with him.Give him witty comebacks.Don't give your position away so easily. Show interest, but don't chase him too hard. Virgos are very much in their head. Too many advances, and he will withdraw to process everything.

Right now, he is observing you and putting you through tests. Show interest, don't chase.

I don't know his charts but we both are virgo he was Born on 1 september and i was Born on 29 August. I give him space but then when we see eachother and he acts so sweet and jealous it Makes my hope go up. Then i also Get scared that if i give him too much space he Will forget about me i know it Sounds silly

I stand by my first statement. I think he just wants to fuck you. You, yourself put that idea in his head in agreement to being capable of hooking up with him. And that's totally OKAY! However, I don't believe he sees you as anything more then a hook-up based on how he's treating you. If you want to hook-up, go for it- I think that's all it will be in his mind.

BUT I don't think that it would be a good idea since you made a thread about him which leads me to believe that you have feelings for him. Don't set yourself up to be hurt. Also, Virgos show love by what they do for you, not what they say to you...

I hate admitting it but you are right! But if he just want to hook up why doesn't he want to come over? Cuz he got plenty of chances? Maybe he's only using me as a "trophee" because he knows How wanted i am in our neighbourhood and even his friends tried to get on with me.

I don't know what his placements are. But my best guess is he's toying with you and wants you to show him how much you want him. By you asking him to come over and him saying no 'But then you'd win' he wants you to admit that you want him that bad. Head-games.

Exactly, he loves confusing me with his mind games. If he only wants to hook up why would he care when waw the last time i had sex? Im starting to think he loves the attention and the fact that i want him so badly. Then again i feel like he could be testing me to see How much i really care. I think im just going tp ignore him as long as it is possible and when i see him at a party im just going to tell him to leave me alone and stop giving me false hope because im done playing his games! Thank you!!!

But don't give away your feelings. Don't confirm it. He doesn't deserve to know.

Lmao

Don't troll. Your avatar creeps me tf out.

I really don't care about your emotions.

You really give out bad advice lol.

To the op: there's a slim chance that you will get him and keep him.

Go get yourself a real man-servant because this Virgo you're confused by can smell your bullshit a mile away.

What does bullbutter mean?

U think there is a chance?

Listen.

Never ask women for advice concerning men, most don't know what they're talking about.

You failed the sh1t-test when you told him when you had sex.

Now you're getting emotional and ready to mess this up even further, listening to people like mia.

Do yourself a favor and retreat.

The only way to win a game is to not play the game, understand?

This is the reason why i love talking to guys, though love is what i need haha! I knew i fucked it up the moment i got emotional and told him How bad i wanted him, it scared him away. About that hook up, i felt like it was better to be honest because we have so much mutual friends, it would have been worse id he heard it from somebody else. He also once got angry because he heard i was texting another guy, this was before he knew i liked him. I feel like he gets "jealous", for example when we are together at the bar and i start dancing or another guy comes and talk to me he Gets very territorial and asks me to keep my maners. That's the reason why i feel deep down that he likes me and wants me as much as i do

There's nothing wrong with telling a man you want him.

It does how ever send a red-flag signal to the man if you also told him that you had sex a week ago.

1 + 1 = potential gold-digger/slut, not to be trusted.

He reacts territorial because he wants to see the best in you, even tho he might despise alot of the things in you.

Women play mind-games while men are simple, do you see the difference?

Especially if you believe in horoschopes, you should know that the stereotypical Virgo man hates whores, he may not tell you this but trust me it's there.

So, my advice:

Stop the games, don't be an entitled queen because real women are respected while the delusional ones are used for sex, take a look at your morals and fix them if you see something wrong with them.

I don't how ever think you can.

This is just advice tho.

Woooow!!! You sound like you have brain!!! Can we be friends? 🙂

Sure, lets be fuck buddies.

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Nope, just friends... 🙂