how do you help a virgo man feel better?

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So i am seeing this virgo guy for 6 months now, and thanks to this board i understood his hot nd cold swings (considering he is a gemini moon and a virgo sun).

He is having financial problems or work problems, basically work related problems and i want him to feel good about himself.

I dont bother him much when i sense he is not in a good mood but i just text him once or twice in the day, a small flirting message or just tell him to feel good and get that smile back or fix your mood go out with your friends or something of that sort, Sometimes i say that i care about him and dont want him to feel low and i will be around for him if he needs me.

I dont know if this is a way to make a virgo feel better when he is having a mood swing.

I am a libra sun and a leo moon. I know he comes around but i just want to be sure if i am doing the right thing by supporting him and giving him space.

But generally how should a girl behave when the virgo guy is low apart from giving him space.
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You're being too accommodating ..... a Virgo needs to be needed, not fussed over.

So long as the Virgo doesn't have a chore or duty, assignment, priority or service to perform ... then he will sink to staggering lows so dense that he will barely be able to breathe.

To bring the Virgo out of a funk ... give him something to do, something to focus on, something you need from him.
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Posted by cheekyfaerie
How often does he text you back?

The Virgo guys I know are very big on fixing their own problems, but appreciate kind gestures that make their lives easier. Like bringing by the sick food you swear by, when they're ill or even just being a sounding board when they're ready to talk about something that's bugging em.
we mainly snapchat, but generally we contact each other once every 2 or 3 hours, we hardly talk on call except when we are going to meet so to ask where we are etc.