How to know if a Virgo man has started liking you??!!!

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Oh and I will be nice for about 5 seconds, and take a break out of running around bored and being a bitch.

Virgos are naturally helpful. They are a personable group that wants to help. Asking how you are doing, does not equate to him wanting your cookies. Virgos will tell you they like you. And by the way, he probably low key likes his gf's possessiveness and clinginess too.

Stop trying to slide in on someone you know is in a relationship. Goofy ass shit.
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I don't think falling for him would be wise considering he's in a committed long term relationship w an aqua. He's most likely genuine about his compliments but that doesn't mean he's interested, as you said he's very polite and nice.

You said your a Taurus woman?

LMFAOOO Nice
Isn't it true Virgo and aqua are not a good match!
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In basic-textbook astrology yes. But aside from the obvious argument (they're people and signs don't mean everything), Virgo and aqua can actually work well together.
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I'm falling in love with a Virgo man who is already in a committed long term relationship with an Aquarius woman. I'm confused as to whether he really likes me or just being nice to me. He comes across as very gentle kind intelligent that's why I'm drawn to him. He comes across as a person who knows what he's doing in life and that's very attractive to me. Btw I'm a Taurus women. I'm divorced. Been two year's. And haven't been in any relationship after it. So I'm naturally drawn to him because of his sweetness. By sweetness I mean, he sends me a good morning message,some times when he calls he drifts of from work queries and asks me about how's my day how am I doing if everythings fine! Sometimes he compliments me and it feels genuine. Like good job, you are smart, you are very kind and it's a shame my ex left me. He plan's to take me out for coffee but he's so busy most of the time that the plan's gets cancelled. We went out once and we talked a lot. He talked a lot! I was mostly just replying to his questions. I feel I'm crushing over him too much though I don't let it show.I'm confused. I want to know how do Virgo men show interest or how to know if he likes you a little bit more than just being nice. He's nice to most of the people I have seen. Always joking making everyone laugh.

*Re-read what you wrote and what I extracted...highlighted etc.... and tell me this doesn't sound like a foolish prepubescent teenage girl swept up by a man who is being cordial*

you are delusional and disrespectful to his girlfriend...if he was unhappy he'd leave. Virgo men are picky and thus wouldn't be with someone if she didn't match his expectations...



Isn't it true Virgo and aqua are not a good match!
Goes to show how moronic and delusional you are...

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yep. what bittercupcake said.
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I somehow feels he's not happy with his girl as he once told me she's quite jealous by nature when discussing about his relationship with her. I know it's all mixed emotions. But I'm falling hard for him!
Why does he still plans to go out with me knowing his girl doesn't or won't like it!!!
How the hell do you know the dynamic of their relationship? ... do you know her ? No! ... so quit assuming.... 99.9% of Aquarius women are very trusting with their partners...if they can't trust you, she won't be with you. There's obviously a level of respect and freedom she gives her partner...

He's probably just being nice to you... given your pitiful putty party about your ex.. hence why he was being nice. Knowing how Aquarius operate, she probably even encouraged him to talk to you on a cordial level..
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What do I do now—!! 😢 I can't stop thinking about him. This morning too he messaged saying you are truly one of a kind. And send me a kiss
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Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by OHNOXoxo
Posted by OHNOXoxo
I somehow feels he's not happy with his girl as he once told me she's quite jealous by nature when discussing about his relationship with her. I know it's all mixed emotions. But I'm falling hard for him!
Why does he still plans to go out with me knowing his girl doesn't or won't like it!!!
How the hell do you know the dynamic of their relationship? ... do you know her ? No! ... so quit assuming.... 99.9% of Aquarius women are very trusting with their partners...if they can't trust you, she won't be with you. There's obviously a level of respect and freedom she gives her partner...

He's probably just being nice to you... given your pitiful putty party about your ex.. hence why he was being nice. Knowing how Aquarius operate, she probably even encouraged him to talk to you on a cordial level..
What do I do now—!! 😢 I can't stop thinking about him. This morning too he messaged saying you are truly one of a kind. And send me a kiss
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Remind him of work professionalism!

You don't want to be used and then be labeled as THE third party do you??

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Posted by Machchu2
Posted by OHNOXoxo
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by OHNOXoxo
Posted by OHNOXoxo
I somehow feels he's not happy with his girl as he once told me she's quite jealous by nature when discussing about his relationship with her. I know it's all mixed emotions. But I'm falling hard for him!
Why does he still plans to go out with me knowing his girl doesn't or won't like it!!!
How the hell do you know the dynamic of their relationship? ... do you know her ? No! ... so quit assuming.... 99.9% of Aquarius women are very trusting with their partners...if they can't trust you, she won't be with you. There's obviously a level of respect and freedom she gives her partner...

He's probably just being nice to you... given your pitiful putty party about your ex.. hence why he was being nice. Knowing how Aquarius operate, she probably even encouraged him to talk to you on a cordial level..
What do I do now—!! 😢 I can't stop thinking about him. This morning too he messaged saying you are truly one of a kind. And send me a kiss


Remind him of work professionalism!

You don't want to be used and then be labeled as THE third party do you??

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Nope! Not at all. But he's driving me crazy with this sweet loving gestures. At time's he's way too complimenting and at other's he's little distant!! He's like hot and cold. And while deep in work chatting suddenly he'll say something random like you are too sweet of a person, you truly are genuine, I like talking to you
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Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by OHNOXoxo
Posted by OHNOXoxo
I somehow feels he's not happy with his girl as he once told me she's quite jealous by nature when discussing about his relationship with her. I know it's all mixed emotions. But I'm falling hard for him!
Why does he still plans to go out with me knowing his girl doesn't or won't like it!!!
How the hell do you know the dynamic of their relationship? ... do you know her ? No! ... so quit assuming.... 99.9% of Aquarius women are very trusting with their partners...if they can't trust you, she won't be with you. There's obviously a level of respect and freedom she gives her partner...

He's probably just being nice to you... given your pitiful putty party about your ex.. hence why he was being nice. Knowing how Aquarius operate, she probably even encouraged him to talk to you on a cordial level..
What do I do now—!! 😢 I can't stop thinking about him. This morning too he messaged saying you are truly one of a kind. And send me a kiss


Remind him of work professionalism!

You don't want to be used and then be labeled as THE third party do you??


Nope! Not at all. But he's driving me crazy with this sweet loving gestures. At time's he's way too complimenting and at other's he's little distant!! He's like hot and cold. And while deep in work chatting suddenly he'll say something random like you are too sweet of a person, you truly are genuine, I like talking to you

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How about this.

Imagine you are together with him. And you feel that he is hot and cold just like you said. Then you realise that hey! he is complimenting this other girl at work that he is close too... what do you make of him now?
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Lol its not about if I love or I don't love the conversation here! Nor am I a troll. I thought it's an open forum where I can may be get answers to my few questions which are driving me crazy. I can't go ask my friends because I don't like to discuss my emotions much. I thought here as an anonymous I may be able to collect few insights from people who knows a little bit about Virgo or have had experiences with them! It's more convenient to vent out here than show how vulnerable I have become when it comes to this man!! I never had any encounters with any Virgo. Married to an Aquarius for four years! We had high and lows. Clearly it doesn't matter because we are no longer together. Have had couple of encounters after that long relationship but not too serious since it was only about the moment. But God help me!! I'm falling very hard for this Virgo!

So any good or bad suggestions will be welcomed here. I'm losing it after this man. He's handsome, he's sweet he's everything I'm looking for in a man!