I want my Virgo man be into me

A 40 yo Virgo man been dating me for a month.he said he likes me so much.but he said he cant have any relationship now bcz his work takes over all of his time n energy.We often did nice things together like having lunch,casual dinner,tea times,cinema,sunset or just chill at his place.But he seems so reluctant to text me or answer my texts!so hard to keep a conversation going between me n him.He always said its bcz he is so busy working (surfing instructur) n hr has many friends come from Russia atm.So i kind feel ignored bcz i am a Libra n i love attentions n chattings.Short answers,rare texts and take long time answers that what i always got from him.sometimes i feel pissed off so i did the same to him n he said i made him feel sad bcz i ignored him.then i was a bit upset with him n i tolg him i cant date someone who doesnt want to talk with me when we are away n he got panic,apologized n wanted to meet me straight away.but then when we met up,he was the one who got angry.why Virgo man is so complicated?when i push him he wuthdraw,when i tried to let him go he got scared of loosing me.pleasr anyone can u explain about this guy behavior?

I feel he likes playing push and pull.

I meant we like each other but we have so different way to keep everything going between us and its annoy me..he doesnt really like to text and im the opposite.we oftem had fights bcz of that,he feels i push him all the time and i feel he ignore me all the time.last time i tried to let him go bcz i just cudnt take it anymore and i told him we are too different,i thot he wud just said goodbye after he red my messages.but he wanted to meet me straight away n reassure me to not leave.i dont understand why he still want me to stay even i know i make his life complicated?

Posted by Yoctapra
i dont understand why he still want me to stay even i know i make his life complicated?

I know you probably find your theatrics cute and him sticking around so romantic because he puts up with that...

But he'll wise up pretty soon and then you will be singing a different tune.

Go ahead and keep on making his life complicated though.

@Damnata : u think so?

Sometimes i just want to let him go so it will be easier for everyones.But he keep maintaning me.

I can feel that he likes me more than he told me,but i think Virgo man they like to play cool n hide their feeling.But im an opposite person bcz im a Libra.i like showing off my feeling especially when i like somebody so much! Thats why im always wondering if he actually feels the same n if he is into me..bcz my feeling is getting deeper to this complicated guy! Help

Assuming you're an adult, you should be able to exercise self-restraint & patience, and recognize when someone needs his alone time. Not everything is about you.

Otherwise, keep going as you are.....and you'll push him right out of the door.

I will learn to be more matture..