Virgo men and depression

He’s one of my bffs, he’s 30 this year and been through a lot in his life. Just before covid, he took himself off to the hospital after downing a bottle of whiskey during the day. That day, I knew things weren’t adding up and kept ringing him until he answered and let me in. Long story short, he came home with me and stayed for a couple of weeks before returning to our home land and where his family live. From there, he seemed to recover, came back here, got a job, lost it again due to covid. Got a bf move back home, split with the bf, moved back again during 2020 and found love again.

His bf was the best ever, all our friends love him and he seemed too as well. They were living in separate cities in Australia but my friend left his job to move up north to be with him. Then all of a sudden he books a flight back home… that was 8 weeks ago!

He’s gone AWOL. Won’t answer anyone’s calls or messages, has gone off social media or remains low, not posting or liking anything.

My friend has a few flaws as we all do but his biggest is he lies. The lies are generally about boosting himself in others eyes about his finances mostly. My other friend and I have enabled him by not calling him out on it, instead just rolling our eyes so to speak.

Anyway, I don’t know where he’s at? He’s never cut us off like this before and I’m trying to understand why?

Is he depressed again and running from everyone. (this guy makes new friends easily, people take him into their lives very easily-just one of those lovable people that you want around and even when you’re mad at him you just want to hug him)

Any insight to how Virgos think? Tbh, I believe he’ll just all a sudden contact me randomly and come up with another bs story as to why he hasn’t but I am worried and I do miss him… even though I want to kick him because I’m annoyed! My scales are tipping daily on this.

Is the Virg guy that answered questions around??

I hope hes ok

Do you have contact with family to check if all ok n they’ve heard of him

Otherwise I’d call police for a wellness check

Well, earth signs tend to disappear to work on themselves

They don’t enjoy being a burden to others.

He is also a grown ass man and he has to learn how to navigate life.

He’s ok, sort of, he’s been in touch with the bf but trying to put it on him saying that he’s the one that cut him off. I’ve seen that behaviour with other bf’s that he’s had. He treats them so well until he doesn’t.

He also has a few family members there which have reached out to him.

I’ve heard some stories which are out of character though and for him to cut me and his aunt who is another really close friend is really out of character. We are his family/friends here in Auss if he ever wants to come back.

The bf, even though his heart is breaking is strong. And yes @DMV he does need to learn how to navigate life. He parties and drinks like there’s no tomorrow. He needs to adult and get back to work and a normal life. This is where my scales swing, that, and the lost boy I spent the night with in the hospital at rock bottom. He never did address the real issues back then.