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Met a Virgo a month ago. In first 14 days saw her about 10 of those. Slept together once. Spoke every single day. Feelings were developing fast and heavy. I put a stop to us because my ex was still involved in my life and I didn't want to develop more with Virgo until my ex and I were 100% closed. Virgo admitted she was starting to feel for me the way she did her ex and she was IN LOVE with her ex.

Anyway we stopped speaking. Zero contact for 2 weeks. I sorted my ex out. Called Virgo on Monday, we've been texting all day Monday and Tuesday. She's met a Pisces but isn't sure she'll take that serious but says she's interested. We agreed to meet up on Wednesday. She had a date with Pisces on Tue (last night) where I asked if they'd sleep together and she said yes. She's dropped messages on Mon and Tue about us dating and/or when I bring up us dating she says "its too soon" plus "you dumped me". Do I have a chance? Should I aggressively chase her? Does her too soon mean I am an option but she's scared and needs to trust me again? She's Virgo sun, cancer moon, virgo venus, gemini mars.

Wow she admits her feelings and you go ghost for 2 weeks. Ouch. I know that wasn’t your intent but that’s how it was received.

Also you could’ve wrapped up loose ends with your ex while still remaining in communication with the Virgo. There was no reason to go cold on her.

I’d be shocked if she starts things back up with you. Women in general don’t do good with rejection.

Our decision to stop speaking was mutual. We both agreed we were moving really fast and things were getting really intense and timing wasn't right because of my ex and she was planning on going back to Europe in Feb so we agreed better to put a pause on things now before it's harder later and give ourselves time for our feelings to calm down.

She's honest and open and I am also. She said she usually doesn't speak about who she's seeing but I kept asking and so she won't lie to me and that if I dont like her honesty I shouldn't ask lol. Speak of the devil she just text me saying "have you missed me". Shes obviously just got to work now after spending the night with Pisces..

I get the feeling she's cautious about letting her guard down with me because she's worried my ex is still around and that I'll burn her. She's someone that wants to be #1 and have attention on her 24/7 and be treated like an absolute Princess in every sense of the word. I think if we start seeing each other again slowly it will come back but right now she's just keeping her options open.. thats the feeling I get from her. During our messaging past 2 days she's said she's missed hearing my voice and she's only realising this now. When I got annoyed about the Pisces she said she still wants to see me and I shouldn't be mad and its not serious and she doesn't want me to feel like that

Just tell her you don't mind dating her at the same time. Let her know that you and the Pisces can fight till the death in a duel!



I'll add- Get in where you fit in. She gave you attention and you back stepped into your ex. But she's told you the door is open to compete.

You're not out the game yet- You just lost your priority when you left, just like she did. So try and win your spot back.

Cancer moons need to be treated like they are #1 and they will treat you the same.

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The Virgo women will likely be a better source of insight. As a Virgo guy, I mean its a tough call.

You committed the cardinal sin of seeming shaky, flaky, doubtful. The fact there is another guy in the wings isn't necessarily an issue...but the fact that she states plainly that "you dumped her" and more generally that she is willing to tell you what she is doing with another man doesn't bode well (yea sure it can be a sign that she "trusts" you but honestly...when a woman (any sign) shares that it is usually because she isn't taking connection with you super seriously).

I'd say here your best chance of making this particular wheel turn is to be honest and direct about your affections but not pushy and aggressive and make sure not to accept nor offer a situationship. You may lose her as a result...but better to lose her than to get into gameplaying mode and end up frustrated and hurting.

You have been SOLID with the advice!!!! WOW!!! Nice words!

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The Virgo women will likely be a better source of insight. As a Virgo guy, I mean its a tough call.

You committed the cardinal sin of seeming shaky, flaky, doubtful. The fact there is another guy in the wings isn't necessarily an issue...but the fact that she states plainly that "you dumped her" and more generally that she is willing to tell you what she is doing with another man doesn't bode well (yea sure it can be a sign that she "trusts" you but honestly...when a woman (any sign) shares that it is usually because she isn't taking connection with you super seriously).

I'd say here your best chance of making this particular wheel turn is to be honest and direct about your affections but not pushy and aggressive and make sure not to accept nor offer a situationship. You may lose her as a result...but better to lose her than to get into gameplaying mode and end up frustrated and hurting.

You have been SOLID with the advice!!!! WOW!!! Nice words!

I still occasionally give advice when the person asking for advice is serious about being helped lol.

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I like the honesty and no fluff. 🙂

I dunno. I think he should let her run her course with the Pisces. I don't think he's gonna be around long term.

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Wow she admits her feelings and you go ghost for 2 weeks. Ouch. I know that wasn’t your intent but that’s how it was received.

Also you could’ve wrapped up loose ends with your ex while still remaining in communication with the Virgo. There was no reason to go cold on her.

I’d be shocked if she starts things back up with you. Women in general don’t do good with rejection.

Yea to add on...that 2-week no-contact thing... I get why you may have needed to do it...but you will likely need to address that particular bit of discomfort...especially since it occurred at a vulnerable point.

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Timing is real shitty.

They sleep together and she tells him she is developing feelings. Then he bails.

Idk that an explanation would be sufficient. This ship may have sailed.

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I dunno. I think he should let her run her course with the Pisces. I don't think he's gonna be around long term.

What's the fun in waiting his turn?

Lol she is being really honest and open with you about her situation and what she is doing. Without a doubt, she is leaving the door open for you to step up.

Sure it may have been mutual, but it sounds like she is, understandably, being cautious about investing anything into you after YOU going no contact for 2 weeks. Yes it's a double standard with woman sometimes but it is what it is.

Are you up for upgrading from "seeing" to exclusive dating as, in the title boyfriend and girlfriend?

So I replied "good morning" then she's asking what time I'll be at hers tonight, I give her a time and then she sends me a pic of her in the Pisces' car, with a boquet of roses in her hand and the Pisces hand on her thigh.. I replied asking why the eff she's sending me that crap and she says "you've got competition". I replied "babe I don't compete with anyone..thats not how this goes" and she replies with "shut up I'm just teasing" and then follows up with "I need to be a bit nasty since the break up" as in referring to our "break up". Anyway I told her I've got a few things on this morning and we'd see each other later and she replied with okay so that's that.

And again, the pause between us was MUTUAL because of her leaving and my ex being around which she didn't like and I didn't want to treat her 2nd best so told her let me sort out my ex and I'll be back and here I am. I think the Pisces IS a distraction and she is interested but I don't think it will be anything serious..

Oh wait after I said good morning and before she sent the flowers pic she said "we're still on for tonight, be at mine at 830, hope you're coming with flowers" then we agreed the time THEN she sent the pic.. sorry forgot to add that in above. Clearly she wants me to play the game, step up, take my woman and be in charge! But I did not like her sending that photo. Makes me feel played and stupid..

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Lol she is being really honest and open with you about her situation and what she is doing. Without a doubt, she is leaving the door open for you to step up.

Sure it may have been mutual, but it sounds like she is being cautious about investing anything into you after that, understandable considering YOU going no contact for 2 weeks. Yes it's a double standard with woman sometimes but it is what it is.

Are you up for upgrading from "seeing" to exclusive dating as, in the title boyfriend and girlfriend?

I know she wants to date. She's told me several times she's ready to open her heart and be serious with someone but she's also worried and hesitant because she's leaving (now in) April. I am also leaving to Europe but in late May/June so I know we'll definitely be meeting up once we're there. For now - I think we'd just be dating but not really seeing other people but also not a full blown commitment. I'm not sure. Its something her and I need to discuss. Also - its summer coming up and we're both going to want to party etc so who knows. Yep its a discussion we need to have openly

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Oh wait after I said good morning and before she sent the flowers pic she said "we're still on for tonight, be at mine at 830, hope you're coming with flowers" then we agreed the time THEN she sent the pic.. sorry forgot to add that in above. Clearly she wants me to play the game, step up, take my woman and be in charge! But I did not like her sending that photo. Makes me feel played and stupid..

It's dating, and you shouldn't feel stupid, seems like she's being a little petty with the pic.

Since she was uncomfortable with your ex around and you let her go to finish up the loose ends you had.

He brought her flowers, so I would bring something else. Something you two can share while you're there- Like wine, pasta and pasta sauce lol

But seriously- Be original if you are gonna bring a gift.

This is why I'm toxic lol



I'd show up with the bare minimum, a single 7-Eleven rose to add to the Pisces bouquet! 😆

she's obvi hurt

plot twist she staged the photo, was actually her friends leg. Lmao

If she asked you to bring flowers naturally you should bring a potted cacti 🌵

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Oh wait after I said good morning and before she sent the flowers pic she said "we're still on for tonight, be at mine at 830, hope you're coming with flowers" then we agreed the time THEN she sent the pic.. sorry forgot to add that in above. Clearly she wants me to play the game, step up, take my woman and be in charge! But I did not like her sending that photo. Makes me feel played and stupid..

I think that is a valid feeling, all things considered. If I were in your situation, I would extend grace to her for the misstep, go through the paces to just make it clear you don't like being dug at.

Also, while you've expressed she seems intent on engaging in a meaningful way, I surely wouldn't be quick to forget that she displayed vindictiveness when she felt wronged. It's not cancel-worthy in and of itself, but it is a flag to take note of.

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You're very level headed and I appreciate your responses and advice - thank you. I am extending grace to her for sure. I understand where it's coming from. She's definitely being vindictive and it's fine, I understand it but I will make it clear I don't play like that and that it was unnecessary. She's clearly just trying to show me that there are others that are interested and willing and she's trying to use that so I step up to the plate, make an effort and secure something with her.

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Lol she is being really honest and open with you about her situation and what she is doing. Without a doubt, she is leaving the door open for you to step up.

Sure it may have been mutual, but it sounds like she is being cautious about investing anything into you after that, understandable considering YOU going no contact for 2 weeks. Yes it's a double standard with woman sometimes but it is what it is.

Are you up for upgrading from "seeing" to exclusive dating as, in the title boyfriend and girlfriend?

- I think we'd just be dating but not really seeing other people

weren’t you just talking about a sag that you’re interested in like 3 days ago? Did you change your mind about her?

What is your sign?

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gemini

i wonder what his moon is

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Lol she is being really honest and open with you about her situation and what she is doing. Without a doubt, she is leaving the door open for you to step up.

Sure it may have been mutual, but it sounds like she is being cautious about investing anything into you after that, understandable considering YOU going no contact for 2 weeks. Yes it's a double standard with woman sometimes but it is what it is.

Are you up for upgrading from "seeing" to exclusive dating as, in the title boyfriend and girlfriend?

- I think we'd just be dating but not really seeing other people

weren’t you just talking about a sag that you’re interested in like 3 days ago? Did you change your mind about her?

What is your sign?

gemini

i wonder what his moon is

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Libra

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Lol she is being really honest and open with you about her situation and what she is doing. Without a doubt, she is leaving the door open for you to step up.

Sure it may have been mutual, but it sounds like she is being cautious about investing anything into you after that, understandable considering YOU going no contact for 2 weeks. Yes it's a double standard with woman sometimes but it is what it is.

Are you up for upgrading from "seeing" to exclusive dating as, in the title boyfriend and girlfriend?

- I think we'd just be dating but not really seeing other people

weren’t you just talking about a sag that you’re interested in like 3 days ago? Did you change your mind about her?

What is your sign?

gemini

i wonder what his moon is

Libra

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he seems to like firey women.

i'm not sure if they'd be good together. virgos can be bratty, especially with that combo. but it's not always how we are. i feel in this case as if he'd be better off with that sag and he should leave her with that pisces.

mehhh we'll recover somehow.

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Bring a bunch of feather dusters and cleaning utensils wraped up in a bouquet and tell her to clean her act up.

hahaha this is gold!

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Bring a bunch of feather dusters and cleaning utensils wraped up in a bouquet and tell her to clean her act up.

hahaha this is gold!

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Lol she is being really honest and open with you about her situation and what she is doing. Without a doubt, she is leaving the door open for you to step up.

Sure it may have been mutual, but it sounds like she is being cautious about investing anything into you after that, understandable considering YOU going no contact for 2 weeks. Yes it's a double standard with woman sometimes but it is what it is.

Are you up for upgrading from "seeing" to exclusive dating as, in the title boyfriend and girlfriend?

- I think we'd just be dating but not really seeing other people

weren’t you just talking about a sag that you’re interested in like 3 days ago? Did you change your mind about her?

What is your sign?

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I am Gemini sun, libra moon, gemini merc, cancer venus and mars and libra rising. Yes Sag is still in picture but she's gone MIA again so letting that one go for now. Plus she's going away this weekend to a mutual friend's bday party which I am not going to because those mutual friends I met via my ex. I started speaking to Sag and Virgo around the same time about a month - 5-6 weeks ago now. Sag was going good but she's been really busy renovating her parent's property which is a 4 hour drive from where we live and she's been busy with that and focused so just letting that be for now and letting things happen naturally. I am interested in them both (virgo and sag). Suppose I am seeing which one will work out better..

all the mutables 🤭🤭

Yep. Well I am seeing her tonight so I guess we'll see how things go. I mean it's been 2 weeks of no contact, no seeing each other. Who knows if we'll still even feel the same way upon seeing each other. Feelings change in 2 weeks.. esp when they weren't super concrete to begin with. Yes we were developing or starting to like each other but nothing was serious so who knows. Seeing each other tonight will provide insight and answers...

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Lol she is being really honest and open with you about her situation and what she is doing. Without a doubt, she is leaving the door open for you to step up.

Sure it may have been mutual, but it sounds like she is being cautious about investing anything into you after that, understandable considering YOU going no contact for 2 weeks. Yes it's a double standard with woman sometimes but it is what it is.

Are you up for upgrading from "seeing" to exclusive dating as, in the title boyfriend and girlfriend?

- I think we'd just be dating but not really seeing other people

weren’t you just talking about a sag that you’re interested in like 3 days ago? Did you change your mind about her?

What is your sign?

gemini

i wonder what his moon is

Libra

he seems to like firey women.

i'm not sure if they'd be good together. virgos can be bratty, especially with that combo. but it's not always how we are. i feel in this case as if he'd be better off with that sag and he should leave her with that pisces.

mehhh we'll recover somehow.

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I agree about the brattiness. She doesn’t seem too happy with the Pisces if she’s still willing to entertain him.

I think he should date both. The Sag is barely around anyways.

Dating is about future potential and getting to know someone. He barely knows anything in the 2 weeks he spent with the Virgo.

As long as he keeps his mouth shut about it and handles it with care, until it gets more serious or there is an exclusive talk, he should date both women to see who he likes.

That’s my unpopular opinion.

@saggurl88 - I like the way you think haha. You're right also. Dating is not exclusive and yes Sag is barely around (unfortunately) so keeping my options open and seeing how this Virgo pans out. The Virgo is definitely demanding and has high expectations. Waaaayyy more compared to the Sag. Sag is so chill that its confusing and makes me a little uneasy because I can't tell if she's interested or just being friendly. I will contact Sag once she's back from her weekend away. I will drop her a Happy Birthday text on 4th Dec though which her bday but leave it at that.

Virgo said that she was in love with you but slept with someone else in 2 weeks?

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@saggurl88 - I like the way you think haha. You're right also. Dating is not exclusive and yes Sag is barely around (unfortunately) so keeping my options open and seeing how this Virgo pans out. The Virgo is definitely demanding and has high expectations. Waaaayyy more compared to the Sag. Sag is so chill that its confusing and makes me a little uneasy because I can't tell if she's interested or just being friendly. I will contact Sag once she's back from her weekend away. I will drop her a Happy Birthday text on 4th Dec though which her bday but leave it at that.

Dating is all about supply and demand! You snooze, you loose! Lol

The Sag is busy but it will give you time with the Virgo to get to know her and see if you like how she handles things.

I dated a Virgo sun/Cancer Moon/Virgo Venus. His games ended up being a turn off for me so I was dating others.

But he experience was still great.

There isn’t a rush to the finish line. Take your time and get to know them and see how it goes for you.

Good luck

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Virgo said that she was in love with you but slept with someone else in 2 weeks?

lol no no. She's only ever loved 1 person before and she told me she was developing feelings for me and she felt it could be like a repeat situation of her feelings for her ex (which she loved). Not that she was actually "in love" with me. In saying that she's definitely slept with a LOT of people.. and she's tired of that and now she's ready for a "real romance" she says. She had something on this evening which is why she said to come at 8.30pm but she's literally texted 3mins ago telling me "babe i'll try to move my call for 6pm. I'll let you know". So she's now trying to see me earlier...

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@saggurl88 - I like the way you think haha. You're right also. Dating is not exclusive and yes Sag is barely around (unfortunately) so keeping my options open and seeing how this Virgo pans out. The Virgo is definitely demanding and has high expectations. Waaaayyy more compared to the Sag. Sag is so chill that its confusing and makes me a little uneasy because I can't tell if she's interested or just being friendly. I will contact Sag once she's back from her weekend away. I will drop her a Happy Birthday text on 4th Dec though which her bday but leave it at that.

Dating is all about supply and demand! You snooze, you loose! Lol

The Sag is busy but it will give you time with the Virgo to get to know her and see if you like how she handles things.

I dated a Virgo sun/Cancer Moon/Virgo Venus. His games ended up being a turn off for me so I was dating others.

But he experience was still great.

There isn’t a rush to the finish line. Take your time and get to know them and see how it goes for you.

Good luck

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While I'm at it - what do I do with the Sag? Just wait? Contact her next week once she's back from her bday weekend get away? May as well ask now since I've got your attention here.. 🙂

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@saggurl88 - I like the way you think haha. You're right also. Dating is not exclusive and yes Sag is barely around (unfortunately) so keeping my options open and seeing how this Virgo pans out. The Virgo is definitely demanding and has high expectations. Waaaayyy more compared to the Sag. Sag is so chill that its confusing and makes me a little uneasy because I can't tell if she's interested or just being friendly. I will contact Sag once she's back from her weekend away. I will drop her a Happy Birthday text on 4th Dec though which her bday but leave it at that.

Dating is all about supply and demand! You snooze, you loose! Lol

The Sag is busy but it will give you time with the Virgo to get to know her and see if you like how she handles things.

I dated a Virgo sun/Cancer Moon/Virgo Venus. His games ended up being a turn off for me so I was dating others.

But he experience was still great.

There isn’t a rush to the finish line. Take your time and get to know them and see how it goes for you.

Good luck

While I'm at it - what do I do with the Sag? Just wait? Contact her next week once she's back from her bday weekend get away? May as well ask now since I've got your attention here.. 🙂

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I think you should keep up contact with her and check in, even on her birthday getaway. It’s just a friendly text.

Sag are usually bad with texting.

See her or try to make plans when she’s in town.

I don’t think time makes much of a difference to a Sag cause we can be so busy.

I know it’s confusing with how we show interest but consistency and communication are key to keeping us interested.

And just so you know, she could also be dating someone else. She just won’t throw it in your face.

A Sag dates until they are exclusive.

She needs to be chased and asked out. If she’s giving you her free time, your good! 👍

So stack the dates and plan accordingly so the dates don’t get you caught up.

Both may not be happy with canceling plans.

Edited to add. You know when a Sag likes you when she always makes time for you when you ask and wants to see you a lot when she has free time.

Gotcha. Thank you for the tips. I appreciate you taking the time. I just don't want to be "annoying" in any way, shape or form but I do want to keep things alive and for her to know I am interested. I just need to see her in person. Once I do I know things will kick off because that 1 time we did meet to exchange the book she lent me, I felt it and I know she did too. Yep - I will communicate with her here and there even if she's dry with her responses. I don't think she'd tell me she wasn't interested though because she's told me she's really nice and doesn't speak up about things and then gets herself involved in traps and she doesn't like hurting people's feelings etc. lol let's see how it goes!

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Lol she is being really honest and open with you about her situation and what she is doing. Without a doubt, she is leaving the door open for you to step up.

Sure it may have been mutual, but it sounds like she is being cautious about investing anything into you after that, understandable considering YOU going no contact for 2 weeks. Yes it's a double standard with woman sometimes but it is what it is.

Are you up for upgrading from "seeing" to exclusive dating as, in the title boyfriend and girlfriend?

I know she wants to date. She's told me several times she's ready to open her heart and be serious with someone but she's also worried and hesitant because she's leaving (now in) April. I am also leaving to Europe but in late May/June so I know we'll definitely be meeting up once we're there. For now - I think we'd just be dating but not really seeing other people but also not a full blown commitment. I'm not sure. Its something her and I need to discuss. Also - its summer coming up and we're both going to want to party etc so who knows. Yep its a discussion we need to have openly

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"Yep its a discussion we need to have openly"

You will do very well with virgos.

Gemmminiiii? 😗 Interesting. May I ask what you like about her? Other than her pettiness right now lol. I ask because I am never really romantically inclined to air signs, it’s more of a “great friend” feeling than anything.

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Gemmminiiii? 😗 Interesting. May I ask what you like about her? Other than her pettiness right now lol. I ask because I am never really romantically inclined to air signs, it’s more of a “great friend” feeling than anything.

Lol definitely not loving the pettiness. So I obviously like her beauty. Yes I am shallow and yes I love beautiful women. Can't blame me. I like her intelligence, her humour, her openness in discussions and with her wants/needs/likes. I like that she's blunt, I like that she's honest. I like that she's sexual and has no issues with openly discussing sex and sexual related topics. I like that she's sexually submissive and lets someone take control and make her theirs in that department. I like that she's active, she's adventurous, she's clued on, we can banter back and forth. She's hard working and focused, she gets things done, she doesnt just "talk". She makes moves. I like that she's sensitive but hides it and it's kind of just sitting on the surface and I find it really cute like I want to love her and protect her but also punch her at the same time.. lol. I like that she's direct and tells me what she wants or how she feels whether its face to face or over text if she's too shy... theres a few things so far..

I like that she's close with her family. I like how she is with me physically. When we've been snuggling I like that she likes to touch me.. my ex who is a pisces wasn't a very touchy person. I always had to initiate it. With this Virgo, she's touchy, she has no hesitation to touch me and feel me and having a venus and mars in cancer - I love to touch and I love skin on skin.

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Gemmminiiii? 😗 Interesting. May I ask what you like about her? Other than her pettiness right now lol. I ask because I am never really romantically inclined to air signs, it’s more of a “great friend” feeling than anything.

Lol definitely not loving the pettiness. So I obviously like her beauty. Yes I am shallow and yes I love beautiful women. Can't blame me. I like her intelligence, her humour, her openness in discussions and with her wants/needs/likes. I like that she's blunt, I like that she's honest. I like that she's sexual and has no issues with openly discussing sex and sexual related topics. I like that she's sexually submissive and lets someone take control and make her theirs in that department. I like that she's active, she's adventurous, she's clued on, we can banter back and forth. She's hard working and focused, she gets things done, she doesnt just "talk". She makes moves. I like that she's sensitive but hides it and it's kind of just sitting on the surface and I find it really cute like I want to love her and protect her but also punch her at the same time.. lol. I like that she's direct and tells me what she wants or how she feels whether its face to face or over text if she's too shy... theres a few things so far..

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wait this is actually cute 🥺 wishing you both the best, I hope it works out for y’all!!

why am I crying in the club rn 😭

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why am I crying in the club rn 😭

Idk...Why ARE you crying in a club rn?

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I’m emotional 😔

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Oh wait after I said good morning and before she sent the flowers pic she said "we're still on for tonight, be at mine at 830, hope you're coming with flowers" then we agreed the time THEN she sent the pic.. sorry forgot to add that in above. Clearly she wants me to play the game, step up, take my woman and be in charge! But I did not like her sending that photo. Makes me feel played and stupid..

I just had similar experience with someone - he also told me that his ex is still on his mind and he want a pause. He popped up again, honestly, if you take advice here and bring low effort rose or whatever crap, you do not stand a chance. And yeah, you were on "a break" for 2 very very different reasons. If you want to win her over - step up. If no -effff off and let the Pieces do his thing.

You dumped her.

Do not aggressively pursue her.

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I like that she's close with her family. I like how she is with me physically. When we've been snuggling I like that she likes to touch me.. my ex who is a pisces wasn't a very touchy person. I always had to initiate it. With this Virgo, she's touchy, she has no hesitation to touch me and feel me and having a venus and mars in cancer - I love to touch and I love skin on skin.

hmm so that's a cancer thing. my bf is a cancer stellium with the same mars as you. and we're both very touchy. i think it goes with being an earth sign too. we'd sleep most times holding each other's hand.

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Lol she is being really honest and open with you about her situation and what she is doing. Without a doubt, she is leaving the door open for you to step up.

Sure it may have been mutual, but it sounds like she is being cautious about investing anything into you after that, understandable considering YOU going no contact for 2 weeks. Yes it's a double standard with woman sometimes but it is what it is.

Are you up for upgrading from "seeing" to exclusive dating as, in the title boyfriend and girlfriend?

- I think we'd just be dating but not really seeing other people

weren’t you just talking about a sag that you’re interested in like 3 days ago? Did you change your mind about her?

What is your sign?

gemini

i wonder what his moon is

Libra

he seems to like firey women.

i'm not sure if they'd be good together. virgos can be bratty, especially with that combo. but it's not always how we are. i feel in this case as if he'd be better off with that sag and he should leave her with that pisces.

mehhh we'll recover somehow.

I agree about the brattiness. She doesn’t seem too happy with the Pisces if she’s still willing to entertain him.

I think he should date both. The Sag is barely around anyways.

Dating is about future potential and getting to know someone. He barely knows anything in the 2 weeks he spent with the Virgo.

As long as he keeps his mouth shut about it and handles it with care, until it gets more serious or there is an exclusive talk, he should date both women to see who he likes.

That’s my unpopular opinion.

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nah i don't disagree

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by nats

I like that she's close with her family. I like how she is with me physically. When we've been snuggling I like that she likes to touch me.. my ex who is a pisces wasn't a very touchy person. I always had to initiate it. With this Virgo, she's touchy, she has no hesitation to touch me and feel me and having a venus and mars in cancer - I love to touch and I love skin on skin.

hmm so that's a cancer thing. my bf is a cancer stellium with the same mars as you. and we're both very touchy. i think it goes with being an earth sign too. we'd sleep most times holding each other's hand.

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Earth sign thing as well tbh. I don’t have any water but I am sooo touchy w my man and a very small select amount of ppl

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Posted by nats

Oh wait after I said good morning and before she sent the flowers pic she said "we're still on for tonight, be at mine at 830, hope you're coming with flowers" then we agreed the time THEN she sent the pic.. sorry forgot to add that in above. Clearly she wants me to play the game, step up, take my woman and be in charge! But I did not like her sending that photo. Makes me feel played and stupid..

I just had similar experience with someone - he also told me that his ex is still on his mind and he want a pause. He popped up again, honestly, if you take advice here and bring low effort rose or whatever crap, you do not stand a chance. And yeah, you were on "a break" for 2 very very different reasons. If you want to win her over - step up. If no -effff off and let the Pieces do his thing.

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Any man who tries to outdo a guy with a bigger bouquet does not show "more effort"- He ends up looking like a chump/simp/sucker instead and she will most likely not value him. She'll just use him.

Low effort when she's being petty- but seeing her in person and giving her good "D" will over ride his low effort gift.

Men should never reward bad behavior with bigger gifts to outdo someone else.

He has some making up to do- but he shouldn't compete with flowers. He shouldn't be bringing them at all since she requested them while showing him the bouquet another man brought for her.

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Posted by goldenfish

Posted by nats

Oh wait after I said good morning and before she sent the flowers pic she said "we're still on for tonight, be at mine at 830, hope you're coming with flowers" then we agreed the time THEN she sent the pic.. sorry forgot to add that in above. Clearly she wants me to play the game, step up, take my woman and be in charge! But I did not like her sending that photo. Makes me feel played and stupid..

I just had similar experience with someone - he also told me that his ex is still on his mind and he want a pause. He popped up again, honestly, if you take advice here and bring low effort rose or whatever crap, you do not stand a chance. And yeah, you were on "a break" for 2 very very different reasons. If you want to win her over - step up. If no -effff off and let the Pieces do his thing.

Any man who tries to outdo a guy with a bigger bouquet does not show "more effort"- He ends up looking like a chump/simp/sucker instead and she will most likely not value him. She'll just use him.

Low effort when she's being petty- but seeing her in person and giving her good "D" will over ride his low effort gift.

Men should never reward bad behavior with bigger gifts to outdo someone else.

He has some making up to do- but he shouldn't compete with flowers. He shouldn't be bringing them at all since she requested them while showing him the bouquet another man brought for her.

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Hahahahah I do not know why you want to sabotage this guy, but keep going - I am with you in this. One more time: they took a break because he did not sort out his ex (my ass lol) and she - because she was moving abroad. Anyone who is messy and self-centered enough to start dating someone while being hung up on ex should and will jump through the hoops. I actually salute this Virgo lady - getting on his little feelings so well, so he can not be cheap and now has spent some money to outplay another dude. Hilarious & well done!

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Oh wait after I said good morning and before she sent the flowers pic she said "we're still on for tonight, be at mine at 830, hope you're coming with flowers" then we agreed the time THEN she sent the pic.. sorry forgot to add that in above. Clearly she wants me to play the game, step up, take my woman and be in charge! But I did not like her sending that photo. Makes me feel played and stupid..

I just had similar experience with someone - he also told me that his ex is still on his mind and he want a pause. He popped up again, honestly, if you take advice here and bring low effort rose or whatever crap, you do not stand a chance. And yeah, you were on "a break" for 2 very very different reasons. If you want to win her over - step up. If no -effff off and let the Pieces do his thing.

Any man who tries to outdo a guy with a bigger bouquet does not show "more effort"- He ends up looking like a chump/simp/sucker instead and she will most likely not value him. She'll just use him.

Low effort when she's being petty- but seeing her in person and giving her good "D" will over ride his low effort gift.

Men should never reward bad behavior with bigger gifts to outdo someone else.

He has some making up to do- but he shouldn't compete with flowers. He shouldn't be bringing them at all since she requested them while showing him the bouquet another man brought for her.

Hahahahah I do not know why you want to sabotage this guy, but keep going - I am with you in this. One more time: they took a break because he did not sort out his ex (my ass lol) and she - because she was moving abroad. Anyone who is messy and self-centered enough to start dating someone while being hung up on ex should and will jump through the hoops. I actually salute this Virgo lady - getting on his little feelings so well, so he can not be cheap and now has spent some money to outplay another dude. Hilarious & well done!

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"so he can not be cheap and now has spent some money to outplay another dude."- This right here would not earn her respect, just like you are laughing about it- it's playing games and using him. He can make up what he's done in other ways.

I'm not sabotaging him. I'm being honest.

I don't know many women that will shove another man in someone's face and then respect a guy who folds to her and brings a bigger bouquet.

There's a reason why people say nice guys finish last. Women like nice assholes, they don't like guys they can walk all over.

All I'm talking about is the flowers- Not him making an effort with her.

All this for a women he dated for 2 weeks who had sex with another guy once he was gone trying to properly get rid of his ex lol AND he was straight up and honest with her about it.

People taking things so serious in a two week dating period- It's all ego- neither one of them know each other.

I can see once it past 3-6 months, but 2 weeks? CRAZINESS!