Virgo women I need some insight

How do you know if a virgo woman is interested in you?

if they're not superficial

Virgo women are very manipulative and sweet talkers but cunning. Being a cap u will find out down the road that by using their sweet tounge, they try to manipulate caps by their charm.

I have one auntie who is virgo and is very calculative. An efficient and ecomonic home maker though, she can screw up any one out side of her own family. Very calculative, and has the power to make that uncle dance on her finger tips. Best thing that uncle is virgo too so he exactly knows any/all games she can play and it's fun seeing two virgos messing with each other.

i should have mentioned i am a taurus. if that makes any difference

It's kind of hard to say in general. Can you be more specific about how the woman you're thinking of is acting and then we might be able to tell you whether that's a sign of interest?

I do not think it makes difference.

Virgo women so sweetly and slowly make others dance around them. For example my auntie always start talking to me by saying, oh dear, honey etc..

and then asks tricky questions and I asnwer her to make her so confused :-)

c-man,

If SHE argues more with you than with any other guy. If she tries to lock eyes with you, and won't break lock until you do. If she mentions little things you've done or said that no one in their right mind would have noticed.

I'm a Virgo Guy who dated a Virgo Girl in high school -- get ready for a challenge! BUT, the easiest love affair I ever had was with a Taurus Chick, so you may fare better than I did...

that's tough. I'm a virgo female and we tend to be pretty guarded. Why not come out and ask her? we do like to have the cards on the table..at least, I do

If she is interested in you, she'll do these shy smiles, she'll try not to like you. She'll be mean, but then feel bad and say sorry.. she'll just.. seem.. afraid to like you. Otherwise, she'll just kinda blow you off.

Actually, we blow you off either way. =p But if she's not interested, she'll be TOO nice to you.

aren't virgos nice to everyone in the fear/worry of hurting people's feelings?

Sometimes, but if we don't wanna give them the wrong impression, we'll make it clear. I guess that depends on the personality, too.. for me, I like to be nice unless they don't understand what I'm tryin to say.. then I just kinda get frustrated..

KissAVirgo 12/7/2007 5:17:52 PM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.12E

if she's not interested, she'll be TOO nice to you.



loziy 12/8/2007 3:14:20 AM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.12E

I'm a virgo and I tend to remain very guarded when I like someone!! ... I tend to, if I don't like someone, let them know

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Again, I will say or the millionith time ... if the Virgo is into you, they will withdraw and go MIA .. if they are still communicating with you, then they aren't into you.

or if a virgo is into you they won't inhibit the way they treat you. I think we need a few virgos to draw up the big final copy of the conclusion though.

"if a virgo is into you they won't inhibit the way they treat you"


What?

Did you say that with a straight face?

sure, whatever floats your boat.

Ya and a virgo uses the power of observation to see that they don't want to hurt other people's feelings just like they don't want their feelings to be hurt. All though I need Virgos to see if I'm actually or partly right.

Wow .. it's gonna bite real bad for you !!!!

But, you can't say were weren't warned .. you just only listen to yourself .. you'll find out .. have fun getting there because that's the only that there will be 🙂

Im a virgo, and seems the more we like you the harder it is to talk to you. Very guarded. If we think your would make a great friend, not hard to talk to you at all. strange how that works. Anyone I really care about can't talk straight to them. I think that is fear of saying the wrong thing. And of course you know virgo's try to be so perfect they dont want to say the wrong thing.

"Im a virgo, and seems the more we like you the harder it is to talk to you. Very guarded. If we think your would make a great friend, not hard to talk to you at all. strange how that works. Anyone I really care about can't talk straight to them."

This is me exactly.
Except I don't worry about saying the wrong thing as much as I worry about my feelings being written plainly on my face. That tends to happen as I look at people I'm attracted to *much* differently than I look at others - and it's obvious. To everyone.

Similar to when young guys have to stand up in front of the class and have a raging hard on. You can't hide it. Everyone can see it. And it's embarassing.

What I'm trying to say is if she doesn't like you, she'll let you know in a nice way, unless you don't get the hint.. then she may lose patience and blow you off.

If she is interested in you, she may blow you off also... because she's afraid to get hurt. Or perhaps because she is afraid of feeling and expressing the emotions she has.

Its hard for me to like someone, but when I do, I let them know. I think my Mercury in Leo helps with that^-^

She does pretty much everything mentioned here. she will make it a point to call me to tell me random things and then i wont hear from her for days. we will go out and have alot of fun then other times she will blow me off. she hasnt told me that she is not interested although she really hasnt made it clear that she does. so yeah it is going to be quite the ride.

scorpiobehindyou:aren't virgos nice to everyone in the fear/worry of hurting people's feelings?

NO; wanna fight? lol Now, mind you, I'm Outgoing, and just like talking to everybody, but I won't pull punches, I'll ask you why you're being so sensitive and poke fun, but It's just that; good fun, but I respect peoples feelings and when I become aware I'm hurting them, I'll back off, becuase I'm not a complete asshole.


I speak my mind, and if feelings are hurt that's on the recieve parties end of the deal. You're thinking of Libra, the "PeaceKeeper" I feel that fighting for that type of thing is irrational and results in personal, and collective/group stagnation becuase I know I can't make people (nor would I want to if it meant I had to ignore my beliefs)happy all the time. There's bound to be friction, but it's working through the differences that count. I'm more Sagittarian; I don't mean harm, but well, it just happens....that's life get a helmet!

My Virgo Friend is Outgoing, but personally Introverted. She's a blend of In and out, up, and down, basically a contradiction. Just watching her work is crazy....

My friend is rather observant, but agressive; she has no problem fighting for anything. She's always changing as well....at least her perspective of people anyway....and ALLLLLLWAYS with a crowd of friends, or people who know her. If you look at her from the outside, you see a chick that's just knows how to work what she's got.

Unions are supposed to be fluid, so there's time, desire and energy to enjoy ... if too much work has to be put into it, then it becomes a duty, tiresome and non-stimulating.

lol, that's WHY it's stimulating! Becuase it's hard Unions aren't fluid they're rubber; durable, and flexible; you can't expect there not to be any rain in a relationship otherwise, you aren't being real to each other; there's bound to be some colision....the amount of effort put into something ALWAYS pays out the equal value! Remember, Nothing ventured nothing gained got it C-man! You've got to have S~T~A~M~I~N~A for a Virgo that's for certain! I can't tell you if she's worth it, becuase obviously, you should know that; so is she, or isn't she? If she isn't than what's the point? But I can clearly see that she's tuggin' your eye, so....whatcha gonna do?

haha, she actually is worth the trouble and she drives me absolutely crazy. but things worked out and i couldnt be happier.

good, that's one more for VE. hehehe.

*Adds another tally to the chalk board and does a victory dance*

"Im a virgo, and seems the more we like you the harder it is to talk to you. Very guarded. If we think your would make a great friend, not hard to talk to you at all. strange how that works. Anyone I really care about can't talk straight to them. I think that is fear of saying the wrong thing. And of course you know virgo's try to be so perfect they dont want to say the wrong thing."

I fit the female Virgo description to a T". And the above statement is very dead on. And I will also add, for me personally, I can appear to be VERY stand-offish when it comes to a guy that I REALLY like. It comes across as being stand-offish, but in reality, on the inside I'm telling myself: "Dang!! I really like this one. And since I really like this one, I need to work double time to keep my guard up." See, Virgo's let their guard down pretty quick, but the other party would never know this. The fact that we "appear" to be distant is your first sign that you are "getting to us" in some kinda way.

It's kinda like a game of peek-a-boo. We are close but distant (aloof) at the same time. And we "peek" our heads out emotionally (peek-a-boo), a little at a time and then retreat very quickly. And if we keep in contact with you PERIOD, then YES we like you. We come across as emotionally distant because we are EXTREMLY ultra sensitive when it comes to someone that we like or care about.

Also, for me, if I'm really feeling a guy, then it is extremly difficult for me to maintain eye contact. However, on the other hand, if a guy doesnt phase me and I'm NOT feeling him, then eye contact and conversation is as simple as counting to five.

"P-Angel----Again, I will say or the millionith time ... if the Virgo is into you, they will withdraw and go MIA .. if they are still communicating with you, then they aren't into you."

Sorry P, but this is not correct. There is a difference between withdrawing emotionally vs. going totally MIA in contact altogether. There is no grey area with Virgo. If we like you, then you know it if we continue to entertain you period. If we are not interested, then we do not entertain and the other party has a clear understanding of where we stand. (But of course we communicate this WITHOUT hurting the other person's feelings by all means)

*VE's jaw drops and eyes fall out sockets from SouthernT's eloquence and insight*

*VE bows humbly*

"Absolutely not. They are very opinionated and can clear a table faster than a waiter. And that's both sexes. My closest friends are Virgs and they will stick to their guns vehemently with no concern for outside opinion."

Yep....people are gonna realize one day that Virgo's are NOT to be messed with. Yeah we're sweet and giving and LOVE doing things for other and serving others...BUT please do believe that we have backbone that will come out of left field when you least expect it.

"*VE's jaw drops and eyes fall out sockets from SouthernT's eloquence and insight*

*VE bows humbly*"

Why THANK YOU. I try! 🙂

"c-man,

If SHE argues more with you than with any other guy. If she tries to lock eyes with you, and won't break lock until you do. If she mentions little things you've done or said that no one in their right mind would have noticed."


LMAO so true.... I do this

"Im a virgo, and seems the more we like you the harder it is to talk to you. Very guarded. If we think your would make a great friend, not hard to talk to you at all."

----Very true, once I realize that I am interested in someone it gets hard for me to talk, but once I see that the other person is interested as well then it becomes easier

I agree with most of what is said and completely with SouthernT.

If I am interested but unsure of how much the guy is interested I will appear emotionally detached, absent, distant. Only because I am caught up in thought and worry. However, there is not a time that the man can request and won't get my attention. So, he will know that I am interested in getting to know him unless he mistakes it for niceness.

Once, I get that security from trusting he likes me back and we're on the same path it gets easier and the flirting begins. Once the flirting begins he really shouldn't have anymore questions. Flirting consists of tessing, touching, sexy voice, laughing at his jokes, making sure I am pretty in his presence (the "gym" look is not how a Virgo-girl represents in front of a man she desires to be with).

Also, if I think the man is easy enough to manipulate (as someone said) I will try and guide him through verbal suggestion in the direction that I want things to go and based on his response I will change back to my reserve-observe mode or give him the podium once I think he's "got it". We're usually attracted to men who fascinate us based on his seemingly unaware sexiness (has to appear natural and not arrogant or forced) along with his intelligence (impressive not standard) and attitude, manners and style .

It will be hard to talk to him though about our feelings so if you ask in person or over the phone expect to get a caught off guard "to please you" kind of answer. We know why we like you but we want to let you know it in the best way we can so that you are clear on how deep it is the first time. We're big on first impressions and don't want to ruin a chance at perfection. So an easy answer will be something we believe is true but standard and deep inside we're feeling you're the most awesome thing since sliced bread but of course we would never tell you it that way as to reduce you to slice bread lol.

It's complex but this is my stanz on the matter. Hope I helped. 🙂