@Gem03
9 Years
what's the pettiest reason you broke things off with someone
Why People End Relationships Over Small Reasons
People sometimes break up over minor issues like boredom or petty disagreements. These reasons may seem trivial but often reflect deeper feelings or dissatisfaction in the relationship. Recognizing these signs can help you understand relationship dynamics better and address underlying issues before ending things.
I broke things off with a lot of people for betraying my trust. I don't think that's petty but I can't think of any other reason. And because I'm bored too without my cap girl.
Oh is this for Virgos?
They didn't get a to go box when their meal was $ 40 and she had a lot left over.
She grew up super poor too, but was a very picky eater. She only wanted chicken tenders, burgers, pasta, etc.
It was our second or third date.
Never did .... it was always for something other than petty
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Over a shit test. She had asked me to go way out of my way for something silly and she knew that. It seemed like a shit test and it just struck me the wrong way.
I agree w/ @MyStarsShine; oftentimes, I've been labeled, "fussy" about "minor things," but if a relationship starts out on bad footing, there's no*where*else*to*go. I look (and also happen to be) very kind; and some people that first meet me try and take advantage; once they realize(as times drags out) my mind's sharp, they do themselves in..and then wonder why we can't start over.
Sorry if this sounds like I'm preaching, but live with integrity, you never know who turns out to be someone you want to bring closer--
I agree w/ @MyStarsShine; oftentimes, I've been labeled, "fussy" about "minor things," but if a relationship starts out on bad footing, there's no*where*else*to*go. I look (and also happen to be) very kind; and some people that first meet me try and take advantage; once they realize(as times drags out) my mind's sharp, they do themselves in..and then wonder why we can't start over.
Sorry if this sounds like I'm preaching, but live with integrity, you never know who turns out to be someone you want to bring closer--
It’s not preaching Mike and it makes sense 😀
What are your placements?
More like shallow reasons, there was no spark.
And the kiss was much too wet 🤮
Because he was trying to plan a vacation without me on the dates he told me we could go somewhere.
So I told him that I would start dating someone else 🙂
I was dating a Taurus years ago, and his teeth was yellow from eating cheese doodles, and I became turned off, and broke things off...🤷♀️
Didn't do it for a petty reason, but his pettiness was a reason!
I agree w/ @MyStarsShine; oftentimes, I've been labeled, "fussy" about "minor things," but if a relationship starts out on bad footing, there's no*where*else*to*go. I look (and also happen to be) very kind; and some people that first meet me try and take advantage; once they realize(as times drags out) my mind's sharp, they do themselves in..and then wonder why we can't start over.
Sorry if this sounds like I'm preaching, but live with integrity, you never know who turns out to be someone you want to bring closer--
It’s not preaching Mike and it makes sense 😀
I'm a cancer/leo sun, cap moon, leo mercury, virgo mars and venus.
What are your placements?
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I agree w/ @MyStarsShine; oftentimes, I've been labeled, "fussy" about "minor things," but if a relationship starts out on bad footing, there's no*where*else*to*go. I look (and also happen to be) very kind; and some people that first meet me try and take advantage; once they realize(as times drags out) my mind's sharp, they do themselves in..and then wonder why we can't start over.
Sorry if this sounds like I'm preaching, but live with integrity, you never know who turns out to be someone you want to bring closer--
It’s not preaching Mike and it makes sense 😀
What are your placements?
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I'm a cancer/leo cusp, cap mooon, leo mercury, with virgo in mars and venus;
I was dressing up and he fell asleep waiting for me and his leg was twisted in a strange manner that made him look...crippled...
That was IT. He never knew...never found out...probably still wondering. We were 14 and 18. I was already strange then...😉
Just felt it's important to mention that minor misunderstandings are just that--minor. Small things are small; what I meant in my last comment re: initial "bad footing", is propping someone up to be a fall guy for a situation, intending to groom someone to take advantage of them, posing a faux relationship with hidden intentions. Those kind of things.
But forgetting a name, an initial heated discussion, small misunderstandings, different perspectives--those things are absolutely fine. We're all human. I don't want to mislead and make the room paranoid about cancer/leos or capricorn moons taking everything wrong.
Also, there's people that I've had blow outs with, it's not a big deal, we can still be amicable acquaintances, again, we're all human and have to make the most to co-exist.
I agree w/ @MyStarsShine; oftentimes, I've been labeled, "fussy" about "minor things," but if a relationship starts out on bad footing, there's no*where*else*to*go. I look (and also happen to be) very kind; and some people that first meet me try and take advantage; once they realize(as times drags out) my mind's sharp, they do themselves in..and then wonder why we can't start over.
Sorry if this sounds like I'm preaching, but live with integrity, you never know who turns out to be someone you want to bring closer--
It’s not preaching Mike and it makes sense 😀
What are your placements?
I'm a cancer/leo cusp, cap mooon, leo mercury, with virgo in mars and venus;
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What do you attribute to being kind in your chart?
I agree w/ @MyStarsShine; oftentimes, I've been labeled, "fussy" about "minor things," but if a relationship starts out on bad footing, there's no*where*else*to*go. I look (and also happen to be) very kind; and some people that first meet me try and take advantage; once they realize(as times drags out) my mind's sharp, they do themselves in..and then wonder why we can't start over.
Sorry if this sounds like I'm preaching, but live with integrity, you never know who turns out to be someone you want to bring closer--
It’s not preaching Mike and it makes sense 😀
What are your placements?
I'm a cancer/leo cusp, cap mooon, leo mercury, with virgo in mars and venus;
What do you attribute to being kind in your chart?
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Directly, my cancer sun (motherhood & sensitivity) and my virgo mars and venus (servitude and hospitality, staying calm), and indirectly, my capricorn moon (fatherhood, teaching, firm, consistent standards) as well as all my personal planets being sextile for smoothness and harmony. Also, very important is a lot of seventh houses in my personal planets.
More like shallow reasons, there was no spark.
And the kiss was much too wet 🤮
Wheeeew...like Brad the bad kisser?
More like shallow reasons, there was no spark.
And the kiss was much too wet 🤮
Wheeeew...like Brad the bad kisser?
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I agree w/ @MyStarsShine; oftentimes, I've been labeled, "fussy" about "minor things," but if a relationship starts out on bad footing, there's no*where*else*to*go. I look (and also happen to be) very kind; and some people that first meet me try and take advantage; once they realize(as times drags out) my mind's sharp, they do themselves in..and then wonder why we can't start over.
Sorry if this sounds like I'm preaching, but live with integrity, you never know who turns out to be someone you want to bring closer--
It’s not preaching Mike and it makes sense 😀
What are your placements?
I'm a cancer/leo cusp, cap mooon, leo mercury, with virgo in mars and venus;
What do you attribute to being kind in your chart?
Directly, my cancer sun (motherhood & sensitivity) and my virgo mars and venus (servitude and hospitality, staying calm), and indirectly, my capricorn moon (fatherhood, teaching, firm, consistent standards) as well as all my personal planets being sextile for smoothness and harmony. Also, very important is a lot of seventh houses in my personal planets.
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Yes I thought Cancer sun and the Virgo stuff. 7th house helps too....I’ve a few planets there and try to stay kind to others.
Virgo’s during this thread: 😶🤫
But honestly a lot of things can give me the “ick” or turn me off from liking someone but that’s when it’s just on the “crush” level. Once I’m in love I can endure tons of things.
I agree w/ @MyStarsShine; oftentimes, I've been labeled, "fussy" about "minor things," but if a relationship starts out on bad footing, there's no*where*else*to*go. I look (and also happen to be) very kind; and some people that first meet me try and take advantage; once they realize(as times drags out) my mind's sharp, they do themselves in..and then wonder why we can't start over.
Sorry if this sounds like I'm preaching, but live with integrity, you never know who turns out to be someone you want to bring closer--
It’s not preaching Mike and it makes sense 😀
What are your placements?
I'm a cancer/leo cusp, cap mooon, leo mercury, with virgo in mars and venus;
Oh wow, same placements. Just my moon sign is different 🌙
Hi twin 👋
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👋 what’s your moon sign?
I agree w/ @MyStarsShine; oftentimes, I've been labeled, "fussy" about "minor things," but if a relationship starts out on bad footing, there's no*where*else*to*go. I look (and also happen to be) very kind; and some people that first meet me try and take advantage; once they realize(as times drags out) my mind's sharp, they do themselves in..and then wonder why we can't start over.
Sorry if this sounds like I'm preaching, but live with integrity, you never know who turns out to be someone you want to bring closer--
It’s not preaching Mike and it makes sense 😀
What are your placements?
I'm a cancer/leo cusp, cap mooon, leo mercury, with virgo in mars and venus;
What do you attribute to being kind in your chart?
Directly, my cancer sun (motherhood & sensitivity) and my virgo mars and venus (servitude and hospitality, staying calm), and indirectly, my capricorn moon (fatherhood, teaching, firm, consistent standards) as well as all my personal planets being sextile for smoothness and harmony. Also, very important is a lot of seventh houses in my personal planets.
Yes I thought Cancer sun and the Virgo stuff. 7th house helps too....I’ve a few planets there and try to stay kind to others.
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You come of incredible;
I've never broken up with anyone for petty things but I've probably ghosted guys in the initial dating phases for petty things like bad kissing or micro dicks. Maybe being cheap. Or bad breath. Calling me to much. Who knows I can't even remember most of their names let alone why I left.
When she thought it was ok to go to Walmart instead of Target.
More like shallow reasons, there was no spark.
And the kiss was much too wet 🤮
Wheeeew...like Brad the bad kisser?
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He couldn't be drooling all over your boots...
During my days of partying singledom, I stopped seeing someone after our first night together. We'd only known each other a few hours but she did a couple of things that I couldn't get past.
The final nail in the coffin was when, over breakfast, she asked me if I had a girlfriend.
What? It's only NOW you're asking me?!
Shouldn't have to pick up people at the train station...
Did she stick her finger up your butt? LMAO
And apparently, you hadn't asked her about her status, had you?
You are being so hypocritical here. You were even worse than she is!
Maybe it was her who dumped YOU?
I agree w/ @MyStarsShine; oftentimes, I've been labeled, "fussy" about "minor things," but if a relationship starts out on bad footing, there's no*where*else*to*go. I look (and also happen to be) very kind; and some people that first meet me try and take advantage; once they realize(as times drags out) my mind's sharp, they do themselves in..and then wonder why we can't start over.
Sorry if this sounds like I'm preaching, but live with integrity, you never know who turns out to be someone you want to bring closer--
It’s not preaching Mike and it makes sense 😀
What are your placements?
I'm a cancer/leo cusp, cap mooon, leo mercury, with virgo in mars and venus;
What do you attribute to being kind in your chart?
Directly, my cancer sun (motherhood & sensitivity) and my virgo mars and venus (servitude and hospitality, staying calm), and indirectly, my capricorn moon (fatherhood, teaching, firm, consistent standards) as well as all my personal planets being sextile for smoothness and harmony. Also, very important is a lot of seventh houses in my personal planets.
Yes I thought Cancer sun and the Virgo stuff. 7th house helps too....I’ve a few planets there and try to stay kind to others.
You come of incredible;
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Thank you 😊
During my days of partying singledom, I stopped seeing someone after our first night together. We'd only known each other a few hours but she did a couple of things that I couldn't get past.
The final nail in the coffin was when, over breakfast, she asked me if I had a girlfriend.
What? It's only NOW you're asking me?!
Guess she figured out that you were pretty cool afterwards. At least you knew her name! 😆
I've had way more just real crappy situationships thus far. But I very obviously distanced myself from a dude I go the same uni as when in the first year, he said "I can't wait to rely on you".
Ew nooo I don't like dependent people. Maybe it wasn't his intention, but his wording definitely came across that way 😅 he's a sweet, charming and funny guy, but when I see that dependency and clinginess, I'm heading for the hilltops, bye 😆 I'd be lying if I said I didn't still fall for his eyes and voice every time we do talk every once in a while still lol very naturally charming without trying to be. Those damn dreamy Piscean eyes.
Lazy and didnt take out the trash. I wasn't going to be there to change this person. Besides, he used the bitch card against me too many times for that occasion and I dunno. Taking out the trash isnt that hard yet when you refuse to do it like a fussy teenager, it turns into a mountain of trash. That's my petty moment. Oh. And didnt pay for meals. Would always let me get it. I should've asked but I was like, ok I'm done.
Never did .... it was always for something other than petty
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Exactly the same. I reject people for petty reasons on dating apps. Minor things have made me not want to keep talking.
I'm so fussy and serious about being with someone that once I'm in an actual relationship I don't break off for petty reasons
I'm not a ♍ I'm a ♉
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My Moon+Mars in ♉️ are nodding 😀
I never accept bossiness, they never got a second chance.
2 exes suddenly trying to reach out.
their messages only 30 mins away from each other too 🤔😕
somehow it being the same day turns me off more than anything else. even if you wanted an affair, people should try a little harder. nobody tries anymore. this the kind of thing that'd just drive you deeper into your boyfriend's arms.
i'd break up on what's seemingly a whim. but disgust is prob #1 reason. and it's not difficult to get me there.
like rn i wanna be unreasonable and breakup
i just wanna be single but i don't want it to come from me 😩 😫
My first boyfriend grossed me out because he was a smoker, his nails were always dirty, his teeth were yellowing, I witness him sliding a deodorant stick against his abdomen, and he was just so into me. I skateboarded to his house and I just said "I feel like we're better off as friends" because at 16 I didn't know what the right thing to say was and I skated back home. My second boyfriend I just felt like... he was too muscular like he had these biceps that turned me off. I also felt like he was too into me. I was 17 and I just texted him "I don't think I want to be bf/gf anymore". To be fair a few days before when I saw him I had said "can we go back to just talking?" like I thought it was a stage in dating. Honestly I was just such a petty teen and shallow as hell plus I was scared to have sex.
My first boyfriend grossed me out because he was a smoker, his nails were always dirty, his teeth were yellowing, I witness him sliding a deodorant stick against his abdomen, and he was just so into me. I skateboarded to his house and I just said "I feel like we're better off as friends" because at 16 I didn't know what the right thing to say was and I skated back home. My second boyfriend I just felt like... he was too muscular like he had these biceps that turned me off. I also felt like he was too into me. I was 17 and I just texted him "I don't think I want to be bf/gf anymore". To be fair a few days before when I saw him I had said "can we go back to just talking?" like I thought it was a stage in dating. Honestly I was just such a petty teen and shallow as hell plus I was scared to have sex.
it feels scary when someone's too into you
also, why slide deodorant on the abdomen? what does that mean? why is that done? 🤔 😕
My first boyfriend grossed me out because he was a smoker, his nails were always dirty, his teeth were yellowing, I witness him sliding a deodorant stick against his abdomen, and he was just so into me. I skateboarded to his house and I just said "I feel like we're better off as friends" because at 16 I didn't know what the right thing to say was and I skated back home. My second boyfriend I just felt like... he was too muscular like he had these biceps that turned me off. I also felt like he was too into me. I was 17 and I just texted him "I don't think I want to be bf/gf anymore". To be fair a few days before when I saw him I had said "can we go back to just talking?" like I thought it was a stage in dating. Honestly I was just such a petty teen and shallow as hell plus I was scared to have sex.
it feels scary when someone's too into you
also, why slide deodorant on the abdomen? what does that mean? why is that done? 🤔 😕
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He said it made him sweat less and older me gets it now but witnessing that at 16 you automatically think "disgusting". It is super scary when someone stares at you with those LOVING eyes especially when you're young... you don't know what to do with those emotions/feelings.
My first boyfriend grossed me out because he was a smoker, his nails were always dirty, his teeth were yellowing, I witness him sliding a deodorant stick against his abdomen, and he was just so into me. I skateboarded to his house and I just said "I feel like we're better off as friends" because at 16 I didn't know what the right thing to say was and I skated back home. My second boyfriend I just felt like... he was too muscular like he had these biceps that turned me off. I also felt like he was too into me. I was 17 and I just texted him "I don't think I want to be bf/gf anymore". To be fair a few days before when I saw him I had said "can we go back to just talking?" like I thought it was a stage in dating. Honestly I was just such a petty teen and shallow as hell plus I was scared to have sex.
it feels scary when someone's too into you
also, why slide deodorant on the abdomen? what does that mean? why is that done? 🤔 😕
He said it made him sweat less and older me gets it now but witnessing that at 16 you automatically think "disgusting". It is super scary when someone stares at you with those LOVING eyes especially when you're young... you don't know what to do with those emotions/feelings.
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huh? i don't get it. why would putting deodorant there make you sweat less? that's weird. also, why deodorant and not powder?
My first boyfriend grossed me out because he was a smoker, his nails were always dirty, his teeth were yellowing, I witness him sliding a deodorant stick against his abdomen, and he was just so into me. I skateboarded to his house and I just said "I feel like we're better off as friends" because at 16 I didn't know what the right thing to say was and I skated back home. My second boyfriend I just felt like... he was too muscular like he had these biceps that turned me off. I also felt like he was too into me. I was 17 and I just texted him "I don't think I want to be bf/gf anymore". To be fair a few days before when I saw him I had said "can we go back to just talking?" like I thought it was a stage in dating. Honestly I was just such a petty teen and shallow as hell plus I was scared to have sex.
it feels scary when someone's too into you
also, why slide deodorant on the abdomen? what does that mean? why is that done? 🤔 😕
He said it made him sweat less and older me gets it now but witnessing that at 16 you automatically think "disgusting". It is super scary when someone stares at you with those LOVING eyes especially when you're young... you don't know what to do with those emotions/feelings.
huh? i don't get it. why would putting deodorant there make you sweat less? that's weird. also, why deodorant and not powder?
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Probably because its anti-perspirant meaning it can plug up any other pores to limit the amount of sweat? I feel like women are more quick with the powder but I agree arrowroot powder all the way. This is also when axe body spray was thriving so....
When she thought it was ok to go to Walmart instead of Target.
What’s your Mars and Venus, if you don’t mind me asking 🤔
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It’s in my photos.
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im bored lol