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When Virgos start becoming overly critical...?
it could be both good and bad she could be trying to be helpful or has become unnerved by your habits and is being nitpicky
personally I think the best way to know is be upfront and let her know you dont appreciate her criticism because it makes you feel scrutinized
personally I think the best way to know is be upfront and let her know you dont appreciate her criticism because it makes you feel scrutinized
Sounds to me like a virgo who needs space and is becoming irritated.
We NEED space. Working isnt space, you in the other room isnt space. Take a night out with ur friends and leave your virgo alone.this can be difficult when u live together but if you find that ur virgo is becoming increasingly annoyed by little things. Back off
A day or two usually works for me. Just communicate so she knows nothing is wrong then go...me and my guy live together but I rarely have this issue. He is always doing something with or without me so I love having him around. Even if he does mess everything up🙄
We NEED space. Working isnt space, you in the other room isnt space. Take a night out with ur friends and leave your virgo alone.this can be difficult when u live together but if you find that ur virgo is becoming increasingly annoyed by little things. Back off
A day or two usually works for me. Just communicate so she knows nothing is wrong then go...me and my guy live together but I rarely have this issue. He is always doing something with or without me so I love having him around. Even if he does mess everything up🙄
Posted by CancerAquaSagg
Have you lost your job?
No, I haven’t lost my job!
shoes in the house is a big thing in korea. but for a non-korean to be as anal over it, i always find is overcompensating for smth else. kinda like a "we need to be perfect" flex
my leo/virgo moon friend was like this. but u had to do everything the proper korean way with her, in case a korean saw and kicked us out the country 🙄
my leo/virgo moon friend was like this. but u had to do everything the proper korean way with her, in case a korean saw and kicked us out the country 🙄
My Virgo ex and Virgo dom son (Scorpio sun) are highly critical...
......I find it really tedious..
We are critical...it's part of our nature. I'd be more concerned when she stops being critical...means she give no fucks anymore.
Anyway...how old is she? I find younger Virgos ... especially female to be hypercritical. I know I was when younger. Is she stressed out about something? Are you always just there...like does she have room to breathe? We do need alone time...I'm one that perfectly ok with you being in the other room but leaving me the fuck alone so I can breathe and recharge. Sometimes we aren't aware of how critical we can be....so maybe have a talk with her about it (don't @ her be nice but logical in your approach)...ask if she's ok. I find no one really asks us that.
Anyway...how old is she? I find younger Virgos ... especially female to be hypercritical. I know I was when younger. Is she stressed out about something? Are you always just there...like does she have room to breathe? We do need alone time...I'm one that perfectly ok with you being in the other room but leaving me the fuck alone so I can breathe and recharge. Sometimes we aren't aware of how critical we can be....so maybe have a talk with her about it (don't @ her be nice but logical in your approach)...ask if she's ok. I find no one really asks us that.
Posted by LostinmyMind11
We are critical...it's part of our nature. I'd be more concerned when she stops being critical...means she give no fucks anymore.
Anyway...how old is she? I find younger Virgos ... especially female to be hypercritical. I know I was when younger. Is she stressed out about something? Are you always just there...like does she have room to breathe? We do need alone time...I'm one that perfectly ok with you being in the other room but leaving me the fuck alone so I can breathe and recharge. Sometimes we aren't aware of how critical we can be....so maybe have a talk with her about it (don't @ her be nice but logical in your approach)...ask if she's ok. I find no one really asks us that.
She’s 23. I’m 28. At times it feels a little tiresome for me. It’s not a huge gap but at times the maturity gap gets in the way.
Her moon is in Scorpio. My moon is in Virgo. But my sun sign is Pisces so... criticism isn’t always my favorite thing lol.
We’ve just moved places and it’s been a total disaster and yeah she has been stressed out about it lately. Also... that time of the month is shortly approaching.
Fun times.
when i'm about to get my period, this shit starts happening.
Virgos are on a quest for self perfection, so at times project this outwards....
My ex said to me last week "you've cleaned your car" as though it was something profound and life changing so i said "yes, that'll do me for another year"
Lol
My ex said to me last week "you've cleaned your car" as though it was something profound and life changing so i said "yes, that'll do me for another year"
Lol
I have Virgo Venus/Mars. I find that if im "criticizing" I dont even realize it. It's genuinely coming from a place of caring. Believing that someone could be their best. Wanting them to see their greatness. I do realize that can come off as a contradiction. That most people should be allowed to just be themselves, and not be told about "improvements".
If I dont care about you, IDGAF what youre doing....will be no suggestions.
If I dont care about you, IDGAF what youre doing....will be no suggestions.
Posted by iamlanaxxxPosted by LostinmyMind11
We are critical...it's part of our nature. I'd be more concerned when she stops being critical...means she give no fucks anymore.
Anyway...how old is she? I find younger Virgos ... especially female to be hypercritical. I know I was when younger. Is she stressed out about something? Are you always just there...like does she have room to breathe? We do need alone time...I'm one that perfectly ok with you being in the other room but leaving me the fuck alone so I can breathe and recharge. Sometimes we aren't aware of how critical we can be....so maybe have a talk with her about it (don't @ her be nice but logical in your approach)...ask if she's ok. I find no one really asks us that.
She’s 23. I’m 28. At times it feels a little tiresome for me. It’s not a huge gap but at times the maturity gap gets in the way.
Her moon is in Scorpio. My moon is in Virgo. But my sun sign is Pisces so... criticism isn’t always my favorite thing lol.
We’ve just moved places and it’s been a total disaster and yeah she has been stressed out about it lately. Also... that time of the month is shortly approaching.
Fun times.click to expand
Ahhh the Scorp moon...that's going to amplify her emotions which right now is being overly critical. You have a virgo moon along with the Pisces sun...you should be able to understand where she is coming from...I bet 💯 you are just as critical (maybe more internal but it comes out on the outside too) and don't even realize it.
It's probably the move then...she frustrated things didn't go as planned and she annoyed. She's not necessarily taking it out on you...you just happen to be in her path lol. Once you get settled...I'm sure she'll calm down unless she was doing this way before the move...not the normal criticism but this being extra?
Posted by heliumfiasco
I have Virgo Venus/Mars. I find that if im "criticizing" I dont even realize it. It's genuinely coming from a place of caring. Believing that someone could be their best. Wanting them to see their greatness. I do realize that can come off as a contradiction. That most people should be allowed to just be themselves, and not be told about "improvements".
If I dont care about you, IDGAF what youre doing....will be no suggestions.
Well...so you let yourself believe that you ARE allowed to criticize because why? You ARE holier than others? Know better? CAN make people happier by telling them how to do things because?
What if you are a friend with one who is your sign and they are not the brightest...and they tell others what to do?
Sounds like narcissism and disrespect to others.
Posted by iamlanaxxx
When virgos start becoming overly critical, is it a good thing or bad thing? My partner and I have been living together for about a year and a half now but I feel like she’s become more critical.
She’s always criticized me in the past about certain things but she’s always been “nice” about it but lately she’s started to criticized me over small things and seems to get irritated when I’ve done something “wrong” (which in my eyes they’re small things not to get worked up about).
Sometimes when she wants something done, she wants it done in a specific way and if it’s not done in the way she wants it, I get a “Why are you doing it like that?” Something along those lines.
The other day she got pissed off cause I had my shoes on inside the house (back story: we live in Korea and it’s part of their culture to not wear shoes inside the house. We had just moved apartments at this stage and I had asked her if I could wear my shoes cause I needed to go to the bathroom and that I would clean the floors later) anyway, when she noticed I still had my shoes on, she was like “Why are you wearing your shoes inside the house?!?!” Mind you we were just about to head out at this stage also.
Good lord.
She needs a man with no back bone who will adore her and see none of himself but her...the Godess!
For you man I think it’s time to get ready to exit. So put your shoes on. Running 👟 shoes...
As someone who has a shoes off household I’m #teamgf on this one.
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