Why do virgo tend to find optimistic people annoying

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Posted by SomeSortOfMermaid
Only Virgo I know that dislikes overly optimistic people has a scorpio moon and stellium lol

The rest like optimistic people and dislike pessimistic people.
lol depends on what type of optimism.



if they are all happy happy with no depth, they get really upset that that person is just la la la happy happy with no depth. 😆



choosy and picky. smh.
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Your judgment skills are severely fucked up. One only has to read your other thread to realize this.

So, it's a safe assumption that whatever you say is coming from a retarded perspective .... in which case, your words have no merit.



I would suggest you try working on gaining some awareness of yourself and your surroundings.


You had an opinion on one thread and judged me off of that. Get a life p angel . You're not a saint . Don't worry I'm only on here to get my fix on astrology shit and I'll be gone . I have little interest in people like you . The fact that you can't just answer a question tell me the kind of person you are. You can response to any thread but personally, I disregard anything you have to say . I just signed up so I'm new to this whole forum thing . But you ? Go do something with your life seriously. You wanna get at me on different thread ? Go ahead
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Only Virgo I know that dislikes overly optimistic people has a scorpio moon and stellium lol

The rest like optimistic people and dislike pessimistic people.
lol depends on what type of optimism.



if they are all happy happy with no depth, they get really upset that that person is just la la la happy happy with no depth. 😆



choosy and picky. smh.
From my observations they definitely need depth in a partner, but they can appreciate happy go lucky people as friends/acquaintances.
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Optimistic was probably an inappropriate word to use. I agree with the depth thing . And yes i mean people who are la la happy all the time. It gives of

Vibe that there's nothing to discover

About that person . I have a friend like that , at first I found her annoying but her la la happy optimistic self rub of good energy on me . I can't really talk to her about things because she just grew up with everything and never really struggled In ways I grew up .
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I wouldnt say that...virgos can be really optimistic too...the big things that bother other people dont phase virgos...its small, petty stuff that bothers virgo
Because it's the small petty stuff that ends up turning into a snowball effect. Like entrusting a friend to create a checklist of everything important to bring on a trip and the friend is all "Don't need one, I have everything covered. I've got this!" Then arrive at the airport until the Virgo asks "Where are the passports??"
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I wouldnt say that...virgos can be really optimistic too...the big things that bother other people dont phase virgos...its small, petty stuff that bothers virgo
Because it's the small petty stuff that ends up turning into a snowball effect. Like entrusting a friend to create a checklist of everything important to bring on a trip and the friend is all "Don't need one, I have everything covered. I've got this!" Then arrive at the airport until the Virgo asks "Where are the passports??"
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Oh no! that couldnt have happend :O but we all have absent minded friends like these lol
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I wouldnt say that...virgos can be really optimistic too...the big things that bother other people dont phase virgos...its small, petty stuff that bothers virgo
Because it's the small petty stuff that ends up turning into a snowball effect. Like entrusting a friend to create a checklist of everything important to bring on a trip and the friend is all "Don't need one, I have everything covered. I've got this!" Then arrive at the airport until the Virgo asks "Where are the passports??"
Oh no! that couldnt have happend :O but we all have absent minded friends like these lol
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It happens more often than not, but mostly work related. That's why I always create backup plan B and C because even B is likely to fail 😛
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Only Virgo I know that dislikes overly optimistic people has a scorpio moon and stellium lol

The rest like optimistic people and dislike pessimistic people.
lol depends on what type of optimism.



if they are all happy happy with no depth, they get really upset that that person is just la la la happy happy with no depth. 😆



choosy and picky. smh.
From my observations they definitely need depth in a partner, but they can appreciate happy go lucky people as friends/acquaintances.
Optimistic was probably an inappropriate word to use. I agree with the depth thing . And yes i mean people who are la la happy all the time. It gives of

Vibe that there's nothing to discover

About that person . I have a friend like that , at first I found her annoying but her la la happy optimistic self rub of good energy on me . I can't really talk to her about things because she just grew up with everything and never really struggled In ways I grew up .
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That last sentence says everything. You're assuming that her life has always been squeaky clean. Not to get on you or anything, but what's sad is your perspective is actually hindering you from getting healing by not talking to someone who can probably offer you a fresh perspective on things and how to proceed because you feel she won't understand.

I'll give you an example. My close Virgo friend started calling me "Mr Positivity." Now on the surface she was trying to be funny but it had an undertone of condescension and suggestion of naivete' which I didn't address at the time. Strange thing is, she eventually started coming to me for advice and found out that I had struggled with many of the same things she had and I offered her ways to get out of those patterns...which she followed and her life improved.

You have to be honest with yourself first and foremost. It's not that person's positivity that bothers you, it's the fact that you can't bring yourself to act the same because you'd rather stay stuck on everything that's happened to you as a reason to stay the way you are...but part of you makes you cling to them because you know you need to change. In essence, it's your own frustration and more you being upset with yourself than them being positive.

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Just you.

I prefer to associate with optimistic people because I'm an optimist myself, an optimistic realist. I always consider all outcomes of a problem including the negative ones, but I always hope for the best outcome.

And what's wrong with Lala? How can you hate on someone so damn happy? Just look at her pep!

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I agree but not with the lala part, I wanna murder teletubbies
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I see you more like Po. The most innocent of the tubbies, but I know she's secretly lusting for blood.
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Just you.

I prefer to associate with optimistic people because I'm an optimist myself, an optimistic realist. I always consider all outcomes of a problem including the negative ones, but I always hope for the best outcome.

And what's wrong with Lala? How can you hate on someone so damn happy? Just look at her pep!

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I agree but not with the lala part, I wanna murder teletubbies
I see you more like Po. The most innocent of the tubbies, but I know she's secretly lusting for blood.
-_-

good save.

their vacuum tho 😆

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A Virgo's best friend. Who needs a dog when you have that vacuum?
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Just you.

I prefer to associate with optimistic people because I'm an optimist myself, an optimistic realist. I always consider all outcomes of a problem including the negative ones, but I always hope for the best outcome.

And what's wrong with Lala? How can you hate on someone so damn happy? Just look at her pep!

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I agree but not with the lala part, I wanna murder teletubbies
I see you more like Po. The most innocent of the tubbies, but I know she's secretly lusting for blood.
-_-

good save.

their vacuum tho 😆


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A Virgo's best friend. Who needs a dog when you have that vacuum?
LOL!

vacuum > do- nvm I can't say it.
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Technically, a dog acts like a vacuum because it eats everything off the floor.
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Just you.

I prefer to associate with optimistic people because I'm an optimist myself, an optimistic realist. I always consider all outcomes of a problem including the negative ones, but I always hope for the best outcome.

And what's wrong with Lala? How can you hate on someone so damn happy? Just look at her pep!

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I agree but not with the lala part, I wanna murder teletubbies
I see you more like Po. The most innocent of the tubbies, but I know she's secretly lusting for blood.
-_-

good save.

their vacuum tho 😆


😄

A Virgo's best friend. Who needs a dog when you have that vacuum?
LOL!

vacuum > do- nvm I can't say it.

Technically, a dog acts like a vacuum because it eats everything off the floor.


Girllllll

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From my observations they definitely need depth in a partner, but they can appreciate happy go lucky people as friends/acquaintances.



Optimistic was probably an inappropriate word to use. I agree with the depth thing . And yes i mean people who are la la happy all the time. It gives of

Vibe that there's nothing to discover

About that person . I have a friend like that , at first I found her annoying but her la la happy optimistic self rub of good energy on me . I can't really talk to her about things because she just grew up with everything and never really struggled In ways I grew up .



I get annoyed at people like that as well ... I look at things from a more realistic standpoint - not a fairy tale perspective ... it is what it is and that to me can't be changed by sprinkling some glitter on it

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I wouldnt say that...virgos can be really optimistic too...the big things that bother other people dont phase virgos...its small, petty stuff that bothers virgo
Because it's the small petty stuff that ends up turning into a snowball effect. Like entrusting a friend to create a checklist of everything important to bring on a trip and the friend is all "Don't need one, I have everything covered. I've got this!" Then arrive at the airport until the Virgo asks "Where are the passports??"
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... I've killed over less ...
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I wouldnt say that...virgos can be really optimistic too...the big things that bother other people dont phase virgos...its small, petty stuff that bothers virgo
Because it's the small petty stuff that ends up turning into a snowball effect. Like entrusting a friend to create a checklist of everything important to bring on a trip and the friend is all "Don't need one, I have everything covered. I've got this!" Then arrive at the airport until the Virgo asks "Where are the passports??"
Oh no! that couldnt have happend :O but we all have absent minded friends like these lol
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yes but who put the absent minded one in charge of the organization ... tsk tsk ... let's be more realistic people and stop with the sugarcoating - it only makes you fat ...
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I wouldnt say that...virgos can be really optimistic too...the big things that bother other people dont phase virgos...its small, petty stuff that bothers virgo
Because it's the small petty stuff that ends up turning into a snowball effect. Like entrusting a friend to create a checklist of everything important to bring on a trip and the friend is all "Don't need one, I have everything covered. I've got this!" Then arrive at the airport until the Virgo asks "Where are the passports??"
... I've killed over less ...
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Lol! I've argued with a bull over the definition of 'cheating' in a game because he was upset he lost. I thought the argument was over until he brought it up again a month later-talk about petty!
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... I've killed over less ...



Lol! I've argued with a bull over the definition of 'cheating' in a game because he was upset he lost. I thought the argument was over until he brought it up again a month later-talk about petty!



lol who cheated ? what a tool lol



Nobody cheated. He accused me of, but it was a game function designed to be part of the game. I let him have the last word because I was drained at the time. But stubborn bulls get under my skin at times lol.
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... I've killed over less ...
Lol! I've argued with a bull over the definition of 'cheating' in a game because he was upset he lost. I thought the argument was over until he brought it up again a month later-talk about petty!



lol who cheated ? what a tool lol



Nobody cheated. He accused me of, but it was a game function designed to be part of the game. I let him have the last word because I was drained at the time. But stubborn bulls get under my skin at times lol.
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lol ... yah, sometimes we can be slow until we "get" it - once we do we are good to go - sounds like he just didn't understand and thought you were cheating him and that hurts man - a friend cheating (even though you didn't - just the thought) ... guess he didn't read the instructions and/or you were so much more experienced with the actual game ...
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I wouldnt say that...virgos can be really optimistic too...the big things that bother other people dont phase virgos...its small, petty stuff that bothers virgo
Because it's the small petty stuff that ends up turning into a snowball effect. Like entrusting a friend to create a checklist of everything important to bring on a trip and the friend is all "Don't need one, I have everything covered. I've got this!" Then arrive at the airport until the Virgo asks "Where are the passports??"
Oh no! that couldnt have happend :O but we all have absent minded friends like these lol
yes but who put the absent minded one in charge of the organization ... tsk tsk ... let's be more realistic people and stop with the sugarcoating - it only makes you fat ...
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Me personally, my people always handle that for me. I don't have to worry about planning with my group. But I understand her lol
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I used to be very optimistic - Pollyanna level! That's what attracted my ex-Virgo to me.
Yuck.
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It was quite the dynamic between us:

He was experienced, I had NO experience (I'm talking no hand-holding, no kissing, nothing)

I was Pollyanna and he was often a realist (and sometimes a pessimist.)

Even physically we were opposite -

He was very tall, had a six-pack, and had a gap in his front teeth, and small eyes.

I was short (compared to him), I was very slim (was very much into running and other classically cardio workouts), and I had big eyes.

When we first met, our polarity was reflected in our first encounter: he was buying a large bottle of water, and I was buying a smaller one; we both put our bottles on the check-out counter at the same time and he let me go first.

I was crazy innocent back then, I look back and feel so far away from LilyTree. We had some great conversations. I don't regret that experience (and my second feeling of real heart-break) for a moment. I learned a lot about myself and about the nature of people, in general.
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I used to be very optimistic - Pollyanna level! That's what attracted my ex-Virgo to me.
Yuck.
It was quite the dynamic between us:

He was experienced, I had NO experience (I'm talking no hand-holding, no kissing, nothing)

I was Pollyanna and he was often a realist (and sometimes a pessimist.)

Even physically we were opposite -

He was very tall, had a six-pack, and had a gap in his front teeth, and small eyes.

I was short (compared to him), I was very slim (was very much into running and other classically cardio workouts), and I had big eyes.

When we first met, our polarity was reflected in our first encounter: he was buying a large bottle of water, and I was buying a smaller one; we both put our bottles on the check-out counter at the same time and he let me go first.

I was crazy innocent back then, I look back and feel so far away from LilyTree. We had some great conversations. I don't regret that experience (and my second feeling of real heart-break) for a moment. I learned a lot about myself and about the nature of people, in general.


Jfc i haven't even had my coffee yet, did i ask you for all of this verbiage?

So he was your first love, that's nice.

What's your moon?
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