gemini64
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Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by gemini64
Graceful exit? cutting one off and moving on without showing any respect is what you consider graceful? there was nothing graceful about it. it was an act of cowardness.
Be careful^^^^
Posted by TaurusBull1977
I believe you have an idea as to why he stopped communicating with you, the problem was, you would have preferred a more verbal confirmation before this Virgo made a graceful exit.
You misquoted me.
I still believe there is more to this story. Call it a gut instinct.
But you know more than I do. 😉
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Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by LostinmyMind11
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What the Scorpios didnt tell you is that aren't able to handle their contract give by the caps...something about its to emotional for them and something about having a heart? They had to subcontract to us because ...lets face it, we virgos dont have that or even know what it is...so in all actuality, virgos are better suited for the job 😛
lol ...no...scorpios are not emotional at all and it's up for debate if there is a heart...
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Posted by gemini64
Be careful about what? because i referred to his actions as cowardness? if what he did doesn't fall into that category, i don't know what does.



Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by LostinmyMind11
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What the Scorpios didnt tell you is that aren't able to handle their contract give by the caps...something about its to emotional for them and something about having a heart? They had to subcontract to us because ...lets face it, we virgos dont have that or even know what it is...so in all actuality, virgos are better suited for the job 😛
lol ...no...scorpios are not emotional at all and it's up for debate if there is a heart...
Scorps aren't emotional?...thats like saying the sky isnt blue. Go piss one off ...you'll see both. Emotional mess spewed out everywhere and how much heart they have to make you pay for hurting them! 😛
But us roberts on the other hand...knock on our chest...nothing but hollowness, minus a circuit board or two (depends on the model)
Really i don't know, my brother is a Scorpio, perhaps it's his Aqua moon, but he doesn't seem emotional to me at all, he is very caring though.click to expand

Posted by DamnataPosted by LostinmyMind11
But us roberts on the other hand...
How do you know my real name? -.-
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Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by LostinmyMind11
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What the Scorpios didnt tell you is that aren't able to handle their contract give by the caps...something about its to emotional for them and something about having a heart? They had to subcontract to us because ...lets face it, we virgos dont have that or even know what it is...so in all actuality, virgos are better suited for the job 😛
lol ...no...scorpios are not emotional at all and it's up for debate if there is a heart...
Scorps aren't emotional?...thats like saying the sky isnt blue. Go piss one off ...you'll see both. Emotional mess spewed out everywhere and how much heart they have to make you pay for hurting them! 😛
But us roberts on the other hand...knock on our chest...nothing but hollowness, minus a circuit board or two (depends on the model)click to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by gemini64
Be careful about what? because i referred to his actions as cowardness? if what he did doesn't fall into that category, i don't know what does.click to expand
You are emotional.
You 'projected' into what I wrote instead of actually READING what I wrote.
I simply stated if you would have preferred an open line of communication (verbal confirmation) before he made a graceful exit.
I never asserted that making an exit without open communication was acceptable.
Where did you read that from?
Please go back and read what I wrote.
Yes, I am emotional. I worked 10 hours yesterday and another 10 today. I'm tired, drinking a beer and discussing this is rekindling old wounds.
Your remark about him gracefully exiting was like a punch to the gut. It was anything but graceful.
True...i would have preferred an open line of communication before he cowardly cut off and ran. I am a gemini. I communicate. I'm somewhat intuitive, but can't read your mind. I would have been able to at the very least have some closure had he simply communicated with me, whether in person or by email, why he was moving on. In fact, I'm so damn forgiving, I'd listen to what he'd have to say now if he had the guts to contact me. He doesn't have fortitude. I have more than he does and he knows this.



Posted by P-Angel
I do find it very bizarre that when a person (people) doesn't quite get the Virgo .... the Virgo becomes extremely mean to them, rather than understanding.
Considering, of course, that the only thing the Virgo really wants is to be understood.
You'd think, since that ^^^ is true, that the Virgo would be more empathetic. But, the opposites seems to be the reaction.

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A gut feeling tells me there was more to this friendship, maybe some unresolved emotions between the two of you?
Somehow, he's removed himself from it, and you're still holding on...
I believe you have an idea as to why he stopped communicating with you, the problem was, you would have preferred a more verbal confirmation before this Virgo made a graceful exit.
Is this correct?
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Is Dxp therapeutic for closure? LOL, nope.
Unresolved emotions....there was certainly love, but i was never in love. big difference. i'm happily married. i can't speak for him.
He's removed himself from it, and you're still holding on.....No, i'm not holding on that he'll communicate with me again for whatever reason. Yes, it hurts because I had an emotional investment over a long period of time as did he. I'm slowly moving on. I posted my experience simply to point out how easily some male virgos can detach and cut someone off they cared about.
I have NO idea why the communication stopped. If I did, it wouldn't be an issue. Of course I would have preferred to have some explanation. you know someone and cherish them for years and it's reciprocated, then one day, poof, it's gone....wouldn't you want to know the truth? I'm human for crying out loud.
Graceful exit? cutting one off and moving on without showing any respect is what you consider graceful? there was nothing graceful about it. it was an act of cowardness.
Any other questions? I feel as if I'm in therapy. How much do you charge for your professional services?
Does the therapist blame the victim and make the culprit look strong when he's just a weakling. It was cowardly what he did. I hope you can heal.
Thanks CC. I appreciate that. I'm strong, been through a lot of crap in my life. I know you can relate. I read your posts and know you need some serious healing too. Life isn't always fair. Sometimes it sucks big time. I know who I am and what I believe. So in the end, I'm good no matter what he or anyone else does to me. Take care.