Would a virgo man casually say he misses someone even if he really doesnt?

My question really is, Are Virgo men sometimes smooth talkers and just say stuff without meaning it? Or are they really just that straightforward with their feelings?



He is a Virgo sun, Virgo Moon,and a Venus in Libra.I'm a Gemini sun, Scorpio moon with a Venus in Gemini.

I wrote about him before on here about him being very affectionate. He is very open about his feelings towards me and we have known each other for over 3 years now.He told me how much he has always cared about me and how he really wants to build something for me.He is very supportive of my career and he was also offers his advice and criticism of my choices.

He took me out back in December and we had a great time. He was very straightforward about his feelings.I have not saw him in person for over 2 weeks, because I am currently out of town(7 hrs away) and cannot met him.

He skyped me 2 weeks ago(which he has never done before) and told me that he really misses me and that he hopes to see me soon. Because of my work schedule and me being out of town, I told him that I couldn't see him right now. He just kept saying how he misses me so much. He asked about my life and about my family and close friends.I guess I am just shocked at how open he is about his feelings. I told him that I missed him too and then he randomly mentioned how much he loves my lips.We had kissed after our date was over, but that was a far as we went. I then started thinking, Does he miss me or my lips? lol.

I will say that I dont understand how someone who misses someone so much can go so long without talking or even texting them.

Both. Depends on how they're feeling. Sometimes virgos just talk out of their butts rather than say what they mean. Especially, us virgos with libra placements.. its a definite .. but if he's doing all of that for you, hes

1. really into you and means every word

or

2. Just keeping you around for fun.

Either way, just understand that ALL virgos can go days without talking to people we really like. We love isolation and alone time sometimes. Can't explain it, we just do :/ Don't feel a certain way about it. I do it to my libra sometimes lol.

Yep, especially if he wants to get in your pants. Lol

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him being very affectionate.

Posted by thepurpleone
He is very open about his feelings towards me

Posted by thepurpleone
He told me how much he has always cared about me and how he really wants to build something for me.He is very supportive of my career and he was also offers his advice and criticism of my choices.

Posted by thepurpleone
He was very straightforward about his feelings.

Posted by thepurpleone
and told me that he really misses me and that he hopes to see me soon.

Posted by thepurpleone
He asked about my life and about my family and close friends.I guess I am just shocked at how open he is about his feelings.

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Yet...

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I then started thinking, Does he miss me or my lips? lol.

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I give up man. We just cannot win.

You TYPED yourself that he is supportive of your career. Did it dawn on you that him not intruding is out of respect? That some people might prefer face to face communication? I mean you state nothing about what you are doing on your side of your equation other than telling him that you cannot see him. Do you contact him? If contact is too rare, did you address that with him? I mean someone who is into someone will take that on board. Do you initiate/reciprocate among the same lines?

I just can't see how you could type all that out about his behavior and end it in "Does he miss me or my lips?".

If I made sure to express to someone how much I feel them and they'd have those kind of ideas in their head...I just cannot emphasize how quick I'd be to get out of this pseudo connection I thought we had. It's just..insulting.

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Posted by thepurpleone
him being very affectionate.

Posted by thepurpleone
He is very open about his feelings towards me

Posted by thepurpleone
He told me how much he has always cared about me and how he really wants to build something for me.He is very supportive of my career and he was also offers his advice and criticism of my choices.

Posted by thepurpleone
He was very straightforward about his feelings.

Posted by thepurpleone
and told me that he really misses me and that he hopes to see me soon.

Posted by thepurpleone
He asked about my life and about my family and close friends.I guess I am just shocked at how open he is about his feelings.

.....

Yet...

Posted by thepurpleone
I then started thinking, Does he miss me or my lips? lol.

I give up man. We just cannot win.

You TYPED yourself that he is supportive of your career. Did it dawn on you that him not intruding is out of respect? That some people might prefer face to face communication? I mean you state nothing about what you are doing on your side of your equation other than telling him that you cannot see him. Do you contact him? If contact is too rare, did you address that with him? I mean someone who is into someone will take that on board. Do you initiate/reciprocate among the same lines?

I just can't see how you could type all that out about his behavior and end it in "Does he miss me or my lips?".

If I made sure to express to someone how much I feel them and they'd have those kind of ideas in their head...I just cannot emphasize how quick I'd be to get out of this pseudo connection I thought we had. It's just..insulting.

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I understand what you are saying. Yes, I do text him every now and then and tell him I hope he is having a good day or a quick good morning text. I was being sarcastic with the "does he miss my lips" question. I'm just always taken back by how forward he is with his feelings. I wish I could be like that with my feelings towards him, but I have told how much I care about him.

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Posted by thepurpleone
him being very affectionate.

Posted by thepurpleone
He is very open about his feelings towards me

Posted by thepurpleone
He told me how much he has always cared about me and how he really wants to build something for me.He is very supportive of my career and he was also offers his advice and criticism of my choices.

Posted by thepurpleone
He was very straightforward about his feelings.

Posted by thepurpleone
and told me that he really misses me and that he hopes to see me soon.

Posted by thepurpleone
He asked about my life and about my family and close friends.I guess I am just shocked at how open he is about his feelings.

.....

Yet...

Posted by thepurpleone
I then started thinking, Does he miss me or my lips? lol.

I give up man. We just cannot win.

You TYPED yourself that he is supportive of your career. Did it dawn on you that him not intruding is out of respect? That some people might prefer face to face communication? I mean you state nothing about what you are doing on your side of your equation other than telling him that you cannot see him. Do you contact him? If contact is too rare, did you address that with him? I mean someone who is into someone will take that on board. Do you initiate/reciprocate among the same lines?

I just can't see how you could type all that out about his behavior and end it in "Does he miss me or my lips?".

If I made sure to express to someone how much I feel them and they'd have those kind of ideas in their head...I just cannot emphasize how quick I'd be to get out of this pseudo connection I thought we had. It's just..insulting.

I understand what you are saying. Yes, I do text him every now and then and tell him I hope he is having a good day or a quick good morning text. I was being sarcastic with the "does he miss my lips" question. I'm just always taken back by how forward he is with his feelings. I wish I could be like that with my feelings towards him, but I have told how much I care about him.

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You don't have to compete in terms of expressiveness...just maybe not be a total deer in the headlights when it's expressed to you. I want to not be doubted on my word, that would cut me deeply with someone I cared about. Scorpio moons always baffled lol.