Any Cap Women here going through a Divorce with an Aries Man?

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You need a lawyer badly. You may be able to get him to pay for some of the lawyer fees.

My divorce with Aries was easy. But I got a lawyer, was fair and his lawyer told him to take it.. he wouldn’t get a better deal! He did. And it made a huge difference to getting along for coparenting. I’m a Sag but cap-dominant.. and I’m the one who took control of the situation.
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Gosh! How's it going?

I have a couple of female aries friends and they are lovely.

Ive also read that Aries man snd Cap woman us a worse combo than Aries f Cap M.

Eho is divorcing Who?

She is divorcing him, and it's ugly, my sister is very opinionated, very stubborn, and he is the same, but he is really a nice guy. I really hope they don't get a divorce after all.
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Its interesting you say that about your aries sister - "opinionated and stubborn" ..same as my aries husband. I think those are aries traits!

However as a Capricorn i too am opinionated & stubborn lol! However everyone tells me what a nice kind person I am.

THIS is the main reason why an Aries & Cap relationship does NOT work!
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You need a lawyer badly. You may be able to get him to pay for some of the lawyer fees.

My divorce with Aries was easy. But I got a lawyer, was fair and his lawyer told him to take it.. he wouldn’t get a better deal! He did. And it made a huge difference to getting along for coparenting. I’m a Sag but cap-dominant.. and I’m the one who took control of the situation.


Very sensible lady to take control!

I'm a Capricorn SUN MOON MERCURY and MARS FFS!

So Much Cap energy yet I have allowed myself to be a doormat!

I don't know why!

Maybe its my Pisces Venus!

I've read many times how Pisces are so nice and kind yet people wipe their dirty feet all over them.
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Why

Because my Aries stbx is screwing me over by giving me or trying to give me almost nothing financially and we have a child of 5yrs old.

He has a lawyer. I cant afford one.

I am scared!
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How do you know you can’t afford a lawyer? Have you gotten quotes of retainers?

All lawyers aren’t an arm and a leg believe it or not and some let you pay in installments. Start making some calls.

What’s are the laws where you are? Are you in America?
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Why

Because my Aries stbx is screwing me over by giving me or trying to give me almost nothing financially and we have a child of 5yrs old.

He has a lawyer. I cant afford one.

I am scared!

How do you know you can’t afford a lawyer? Have you gotten quotes of retainers?

All lawyers aren’t an arm and a leg believe it or not and some let you pay in installments. Start making some calls.

What’s are the laws where you are? Are you in America?
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No I'm british. I'm live in the UK.
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Why

Because my Aries stbx is screwing me over by giving me or trying to give me almost nothing financially and we have a child of 5yrs old.

He has a lawyer. I cant afford one.

I am scared!

Alimony laws have changed. It used to be that a woman got a lot of money out of the man. Not anymore. They calculate how much you made last year and how much he made. They then subtract the difference and you get a percentage of that. My Pisces brother and his Libra wife are separated and he only pays $ 180 (rough estimate) a month for 2 years.

Look into Legal Aid for a lawyer who will help you.
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That’s such a broad statement, you don’t even know where she is. Why scare her with misinformation? Surely you could have contributed something more helpful/useful given her situation. She’s obviously worried about money so to tell her about your brother only paying a bum ass $ 180 is negative and pessimistic. You also glossed over the 5 year old child they have together, which brings child support into question. You sound jelly at the heart of it all.
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Why

Because my Aries stbx is screwing me over by giving me or trying to give me almost nothing financially and we have a child of 5yrs old.

He has a lawyer. I cant afford one.

I am scared!

How do you know you can’t afford a lawyer? Have you gotten quotes of retainers?

All lawyers aren’t an arm and a leg believe it or not and some let you pay in installments. Start making some calls.

What’s are the laws where you are? Are you in America?

No I'm british. I'm live in the UK.
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Dank I don’t know much about the UK but I would still do the same. Do they give child support?
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Why

Because my Aries stbx is screwing me over by giving me or trying to give me almost nothing financially and we have a child of 5yrs old.

He has a lawyer. I cant afford one.

I am scared!

How do you know you can’t afford a lawyer? Have you gotten quotes of retainers?

All lawyers aren’t an arm and a leg believe it or not and some let you pay in installments. Start making some calls.

What’s are the laws where you are? Are you in America?

No I'm british. I'm live in the UK.

Dank I don’t know much about the UK but I would still do the same. Do they give child support?
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They do..its called CMS. Child Maintenance Services.

Its too late sadly. I didnt accept his financial offer so now its going to court where he us giving me MUCH less!
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You need a lawyer badly. You may be able to get him to pay for some of the lawyer fees.

My divorce with Aries was easy. But I got a lawyer, was fair and his lawyer told him to take it.. he wouldn’t get a better deal! He did. And it made a huge difference to getting along for coparenting. I’m a Sag but cap-dominant.. and I’m the one who took control of the situation.

Very sensible lady to take control!

I'm a Capricorn SUN MOON MERCURY and MARS FFS!

So Much Cap energy yet I have allowed myself to be a doormat!

I don't know why!

Maybe its my Pisces Venus!

I've read many times how Pisces are so nice and kind yet people wipe their dirty feet all over them.
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Ah I don’t know. But you need to step up and take care of you now.
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Posted by bkbella86
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Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Why

Because my Aries stbx is screwing me over by giving me or trying to give me almost nothing financially and we have a child of 5yrs old.

He has a lawyer. I cant afford one.

I am scared!

How do you know you can’t afford a lawyer? Have you gotten quotes of retainers?

All lawyers aren’t an arm and a leg believe it or not and some let you pay in installments. Start making some calls.

What’s are the laws where you are? Are you in America?

No I'm british. I'm live in the UK.

I think @MyStarsShine is in UK and may be more familiar with the laws there.
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Don’t wish that on me girl 😆 ~ i’m in Ireland
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Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Why

Because my Aries stbx is screwing me over by giving me or trying to give me almost nothing financially and we have a child of 5yrs old.

He has a lawyer. I cant afford one.

I am scared!

How do you know you can’t afford a lawyer? Have you gotten quotes of retainers?

All lawyers aren’t an arm and a leg believe it or not and some let you pay in installments. Start making some calls.

What’s are the laws where you are? Are you in America?

No I'm british. I'm live in the UK.

I think @MyStarsShine is in UK and may be more familiar with the laws there.
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Thank you :-)
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Why

Because my Aries stbx is screwing me over by giving me or trying to give me almost nothing financially and we have a child of 5yrs old.

He has a lawyer. I cant afford one.

I am scared!

Alimony laws have changed. It used to be that a woman got a lot of money out of the man. Not anymore. They calculate how much you made last year and how much he made. They then subtract the difference and you get a percentage of that. My Pisces brother and his Libra wife are separated and he only pays $ 180 (rough estimate) a month for 2 years.

Look into Legal Aid for a lawyer who will help you.

That’s such a broad statement, you don’t even know where she is. Why scare her with misinformation? Surely you could have contributed something more helpful/useful given her situation. She’s obviously worried about money so to tell her about your brother only paying a bum ass $ 180 is negative and pessimistic. You also glossed over the 5 year old child they have together, which brings child support into question. You sound jelly at the heart of it all.

Uhm... excuse me!

I did not give her misinformation. I gave her the truth on alimony laws. And what you call “negative and pessimistic” is just the reality of it. If you had a problem with my advice or seen something amiss from it... nothing was stopping you from offering your own advice. Stop harassing me.
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I gave my own advice and I quoted you. What you gone do about?

And quoting you isn’t harassment. I’ll continue to quote you when I feel like it you aren’t going to do shit.

And excuse me, you’re wrong!
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Why

Because my Aries stbx is screwing me over by giving me or trying to give me almost nothing financially and we have a child of 5yrs old.

He has a lawyer. I cant afford one.

I am scared!

Alimony laws have changed. It used to be that a woman got a lot of money out of the man. Not anymore. They calculate how much you made last year and how much he made. They then subtract the difference and you get a percentage of that. My Pisces brother and his Libra wife are separated and he only pays $ 180 (rough estimate) a month for 2 years.

Look into Legal Aid for a lawyer who will help you.

That’s such a broad statement, you don’t even know where she is. Why scare her with misinformation? Surely you could have contributed something more helpful/useful given her situation. She’s obviously worried about money so to tell her about your brother only paying a bum ass $ 180 is negative and pessimistic. You also glossed over the 5 year old child they have together, which brings child support into question. You sound jelly at the heart of it all.

Uhm... excuse me!

I did not give her misinformation. I gave her the truth on alimony laws. And what you call “negative and pessimistic” is just the reality of it. If you had a problem with my advice or seen something amiss from it... nothing was stopping you from offering your own advice. Stop harassing me.

I gave my own advice and I quoted you. What you gone do about?

And quoting you isn’t harassment. I’ll continue to quote you when I feel like it you aren’t going to do shit.

And excuse me, you’re wrong!

The way you spoke to me was harassment. I call it as I see it. Plus, you were obviously rude.

Continue to quote me bitch and we can go round the merry go round.
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Lol at you calling someone rude. So soft, toughen up pup.
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Gosh! How's it going?

I have a couple of female aries friends and they are lovely.

Ive also read that Aries man snd Cap woman us a worse combo than Aries f Cap M.

Eho is divorcing Who?

She is divorcing him, and it's ugly, my sister is very opinionated, very stubborn, and he is the same, but he is really a nice guy. I really hope they don't get a divorce after all.

Its interesting you say that about your aries sister - "opinionated and stubborn" ..same as my aries husband. I think those are aries traits!

However as a Capricorn i too am opinionated & stubborn lol! However everyone tells me what a nice kind person I am.

THIS is the main reason why an Aries & Cap relationship does NOT work!

My cap nephew is with an Aries woman. I don’t see the point to their relationship. They are constantly breaking up/ getting back together. I guess neither one of them can do no better.
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Exactly. They are both trying to occupy the same space. But they can't.
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Why

Because my Aries stbx is screwing me over by giving me or trying to give me almost nothing financially and we have a child of 5yrs old.

He has a lawyer. I cant afford one.

I am scared!

How do you know you can’t afford a lawyer? Have you gotten quotes of retainers?

All lawyers aren’t an arm and a leg believe it or not and some let you pay in installments. Start making some calls.

What’s are the laws where you are? Are you in America?

No I'm british. I'm live in the UK.

I think @MyStarsShine is in UK and may be more familiar with the laws there.

Don’t wish that on me girl 😆 ~ i’m in Ireland

Oops, you're still more closer than most on here. 😛
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....and I was born there

How are you? 🙂
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Posted by pooface222
Posted by bkbella86
Posted by pooface222
Posted by CancerAquaSagg

Why

Because my Aries stbx is screwing me over by giving me or trying to give me almost nothing financially and we have a child of 5yrs old.

He has a lawyer. I cant afford one.

I am scared!

How do you know you can’t afford a lawyer? Have you gotten quotes of retainers?

All lawyers aren’t an arm and a leg believe it or not and some let you pay in installments. Start making some calls.

What’s are the laws where you are? Are you in America?

No I'm british. I'm live in the UK.

I think @MyStarsShine is in UK and may be more familiar with the laws there.

Don’t wish that on me girl 😆 ~ i’m in Ireland

Oops, you're still more closer than most on here. 😛

....and I was born there

How are you? 🙂

Mostly good because I'm never ready for winter lol. How are you? 🙂
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I'm good thanks and I love Winter ☃️ ❄️⛄️