Attraction to the sign of your rising/ASC

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Are you attracted to the sign of your rising/ASC?

the descendant/7H refers to partnersip or the kind of person that you might seek out in a relationship but if your rising/ASC is something you aspire to be/emulate to 'evolve' to in the future then that means there's a kind of respect/admiration for that sign, right?

for example, mine is Virgo so i'm attracted to other Virgos/placements.

is that how it works?
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No I'm virgo rising

Never been attracted to a virgo male

how about Virgo placements/6H?

i just really wanna know why i'm obsessed with Virgo moon

there must be some explanation for this
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Nope every guy I've ever dated actually had no virgo in their charts🤔 is that good or bad?

I mean I'm virgo sun to so maybe I would do better with some virgo in a mate🤔🤔🤔🤣🤣🤔
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No I'm virgo rising

Never been attracted to a virgo male

how about Virgo placements/6H?

i just really wanna know why i'm obsessed with Virgo moon

there must be some explanation for this
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Because I'm too awesome for you to handle.

But the sooner you fully accept I only like dick, the happier you'll be. And hey, we got THAT in common!

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No I'm virgo rising

Never been attracted to a virgo male

how about Virgo placements/6H?

i just really wanna know why i'm obsessed with Virgo moon

there must be some explanation for this

Because I'm too awesome for you to handle.

But the sooner you fully accept I only like dick, the happier you'll be. And hey, we got THAT in common!

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i've got my eye on only one Virgo moon dick

how do i get a Virgo moon man to give me extra Leo venus-worthy attention?
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come to think of it

I am not a fan of water sign men @ all with the exception of cancers

i find the majority of them to be kind of feminine/passive-aggressive (you'll have better luck with scorpio & pisces men in their 50's but even many of them are lowkey disasters)

like angry little vindictive children who don't know how to communicate properly

that's why I lowkey lahvvvv cancer men & just #cancerenergy in general

whether people like it or not, it's an in your face, unapologetic, raw, emotional energy

and it's genuine when it comes out x

with Scorpio & Pisces males, it's different


cancer men are the most alpha of the water suns

and the most attractive
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No I'm virgo rising

Never been attracted to a virgo male

how about Virgo placements/6H?

i just really wanna know why i'm obsessed with Virgo moon

there must be some explanation for this

Nope every guy I've ever dated actually had no virgo in their charts🤔 is that good or bad?

I mean I'm virgo sun to so maybe I would do better with some virgo in a mate🤔🤔🤔🤣🤣🤔
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i don't know and this is weird but i wish i'm even more Virgo than i already am (may seem like a nightmare for most people but i just mostly want the positive qualities). got Virgo sun/ASC/merc but whenever i encounter someone who come off more Virgo than me, kinda makes me jealous.

got someone driving me to work (a Virgo male) and i'm lazier than most Virgos i know. basically, i'm a disappointment to my sign. i'm always late for things. and i have bursts of passion at work but my Virgo doctor just explained in exhaustive detail for 2 hours why i'm sick and how that works and now i just wanna see this doctor all the time. this so crazy but it's almost every person i hire for a job turns out to be a Virgo. the cleaning lady i hired once was a Virgo, my driver and then this doctor. and the guy i'm obsessed with is a Virgo moon. i'm very fascinated with all of them.

the Virgo moon is perfection to my eyes and i'm the pickiest shit ever i swear.

or maybe i'm just a narc haha.
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No I'm virgo rising

Never been attracted to a virgo male

how about Virgo placements/6H?

i just really wanna know why i'm obsessed with Virgo moon

there must be some explanation for this

Because I'm too awesome for you to handle.

But the sooner you fully accept I only like dick, the happier you'll be. And hey, we got THAT in common!

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i've got my eye on only one Virgo moon dick

how do i get a Virgo moon man to give me extra Leo venus-worthy attention?
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Simply put, you have to blow us away.

Also look at his Venus/Mars. Mine are both in Aries and physical beauty - especially the face - is crucial in getting and KEEPING my attention. But don't take my word for it lol, just look to the left of my username up there 🤤🤤🤤

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As far as the moon goes, you have to be able to compete with our need for solitude. Virgo moons love their alone time. You have to prove that you're way more valuable than our alone time, to the point where we would prefer your company over it more often than not.

I mean, yeah I did request the break we're currently on, but that's just due to some personal health issues that he tends to aggravate, so it's got far more to do with what's inside my head than anything he did.
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No I'm virgo rising

Never been attracted to a virgo male

how about Virgo placements/6H?

i just really wanna know why i'm obsessed with Virgo moon

there must be some explanation for this

Because I'm too awesome for you to handle.

But the sooner you fully accept I only like dick, the happier you'll be. And hey, we got THAT in common!

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i've got my eye on only one Virgo moon dick

how do i get a Virgo moon man to give me extra Leo venus-worthy attention?

Simply put, you have to blow us away.

Also look at his Venus/Mars. Mine are both in Aries and physical beauty - especially the face - is crucial in getting and KEEPING my attention. But don't take my word for it lol, just look to the left of my username up there 🤤🤤🤤

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As far as the moon goes, you have to be able to compete with our need for solitude. Virgo moons love their alone time. You have to prove that you're way more valuable than our alone time, to the point where we would prefer your company over it more often than not.

I mean, yeah I did request the break we're currently on, but that's just due to some personal health issues that he tends to aggravate, so it's got far more to do with what's inside my head than anything he did.
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Virgo moons don't text much? seems really cold? he likes to kiss my hands, is that a thing?

sadly, i have serious health issues right now that blocks me from the most classic, timeless sex ever with this Virgo moon and i just told him about it but i am SOOO vague about what it is coz i don't want people to think i want sympathy. BUT now i'm scared that he thinks i'm just quietly letting him down/rejecting him. even worse, that i'm a FLAKE. i have so many tests done to my body, shit ton of meds and machines i need to get better. i don't want anybody to know what's really happening to me. i'm still going to work coz fuck i'm a Virgo but i'm always in bed now when i'm not working. but goddamn it i need to win that Virgo moon.

i ghosted the shit out of my rotation. dumped a bunch of other guys coz why would i go for scraps when i can have a Virgo moon?

have you ever had an obsession that you know will never fucking end?

this is mine.
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Chick, you're just an obsessive person.. to everyone.. you started with a pisces, then a cap, then a scorpio, then aquarius, then gem placements, then gem moons, then that weird story about Taurus and snake oil, then back to cap, then hovered around scorpio, this week it's been virgo..... then you went obsessive over Sag in a negative way.

Do you ever read your own shit?


i was wrong about that cap chart, it's actually cancer sun/virgo moon.

aqua was a distraction, gem stuff i am obsessed with + virgo moon has gem stellium

the scorpio i dated for 2 months i was sexually obsessed with but not the way i am with this virgo moon

taurus and sag i HATE
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Chick, you're just an obsessive person.. to everyone.. you started with a pisces, then a cap, then a scorpio, then aquarius, then gem placements, then gem moons, then that weird story about Taurus and snake oil, then back to cap, then hovered around scorpio, this week it's been virgo..... then you went obsessive over Sag in a negative way.

Do you ever read your own shit?

i was wrong about that cap chart, it's actually cancer sun/virgo moon.

aqua was a distraction, gem stuff i am obsessed with + virgo moon has gem stellium

the scorpio i dated for 2 months i was sexually obsessed with but not the way i am with this virgo moon

taurus and sag i HATE

That's all fantastic, you're still just an obsessive person.. it literally an equation with you - just plug in X and the answer gets repeated.. over, and over, and over. Until something else gets plugged in.
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i don't understand why stating the obvious is helping me any

nor it being a useful contribution to support my thread title

my threads are mostly exploratory and by them i discovered my obsession with mercury/virgo/gem

1. tea is interesting

2. always liked tea even as a kid

3. wine is interesting but it is not tea

4. stupid taurus friend tried to sell supplements to me, not tea

5. like to drink tea when i'm blue

6. like to drink tea when i'm happy too

7. tea is GRADE A shit
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I like Virgos. Similar humour, similar sex drive, similar pedantic articulate nature. The extent to how well we get on will depend on other placements though, lovers or friends in other words.

i always find myself liking someone more and trust them more when i get a glimpse of their pedantic side. like when my Virgo doctor explained shit to me in exhaustive detail when she's honestly not required to go that extent (the way that she did). in the middle of it, got almost tiring and boring for me but by the end i just liked her, respected her more and admired her for going way beyond and not underestimating my grasp of medical terms haha. there's something about knowing someone was being careful even if it's just in small things. it reveals a level of care that's just touching.
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Chick, you're just an obsessive person.. to everyone.. you started with a pisces, then a cap, then a scorpio, then aquarius, then gem placements, then gem moons, then that weird story about Taurus and snake oil, then back to cap, then hovered around scorpio, this week it's been virgo..... then you went obsessive over Sag in a negative way.

Do you ever read your own shit?

i was wrong about that cap chart, it's actually cancer sun/virgo moon.

aqua was a distraction, gem stuff i am obsessed with + virgo moon has gem stellium

the scorpio i dated for 2 months i was sexually obsessed with but not the way i am with this virgo moon

taurus and sag i HATE

That's all fantastic, you're still just an obsessive person.. it literally an equation with you - just plug in X and the answer gets repeated.. over, and over, and over. Until something else gets plugged in.

i don't understand why stating the obvious is helping me any

nor it being a useful contribution to support my thread title

my threads are mostly exploratory and by them i discovered my obsession with mercury/virgo/gem

1. tea is interesting

2. always liked tea even as a kid

3. wine is interesting but it is not tea

4. stupid taurus friend tried to sell supplements to me, not tea

5. like to drink tea when i'm blue

4. like to drink tea when i'm happy too

6. tea is GRADE A shit

Because you're looking for external answers to internal questions.

Was with the last virgo for 7 years, this new one for going on 2... it's a virgo thing.. you're just obsessive by nature, but that can flip on a dime, depending.. I'm sure right now you're not crazy about me.. wanna know how much virgo I have in my chart?
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but i do like how at times you seem to really put much thought in your answers. i guess i just fell in love with mercury is what i'm trying to say. all that exploration led me to this conclusion. i've never felt this certainty before. you have to understand that i may always come across 'enthusiastic' coz i go about things very 'masculine'-like but also that i am a mutable and mercury dominant. i can go from obstinate to malleable then back again.
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I like Virgos. Similar humour, similar sex drive, similar pedantic articulate nature. The extent to how well we get on will depend on other placements though, lovers or friends in other words.

i always find myself liking someone more and trust them more when i get a glimpse of their pedantic side. like when my Virgo doctor explained shit to me in exhaustive detail when she honestly not required to go that extent (the way that she did). in the middle of it, got almost tiring and boring for me but by the end i just liked her, respected her more and admired her for going way beyond and not underestimating my grasp of medical terms haha. there's something about knowing someone was being careful even if it's just in small things. it reveals a level of care that's just touching.

I understand what you mean. I do something similar, but slightly different. I like Type A personality types as I can relate to them, I also admire people who are talented, but not in a show off. If someone is on American Idol I don't care, if someone can play guitar or build model aircraft then it becomes attractive to me.

My virgo rising side and maybe Scorpio obsessive side manifests itself in making lists, notes or detail work like in old jobs when I did stock counts.
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virgos always go for martians (aries/scorpio) and now i understand why. all 3 are people of action. most people glorify the shit out of type b. "ohhh when will i reach that zen, that serenity?" and as a sometimes lazy person who gets annoyed by overly emotional displays, i get it. but type a win their wars, gets what they want, there's a frantic neurotic energy in type a and they don't just let life pass them by. i've known many a loser who think they've won by exerting the least effort but did they really live? most of them are filled with regrets for opportunities they never took back in time when they still could.

i'll never respect that passivity and i'll never want it for myself.
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and just to be clear, my first real exploratory thread was about my One True Obsession which is the Cancer sun/Virgo moon. anything other than that is just me trying to get that shit out of my system. i was so obsessed with him that i accused him of being married (he's from a culture of arranged marriages) and i ghosted him after coz Virgo logic. i was so scared of being that crazy that i had to find a way to stop and that was what i came up with. clearly, sex with someone BESIDES him was my top solution which did not work coz i am still so obsessed with him and we're back to what we've been doing from 2 years ago. i don't like that i'm obsessed with him so i went through all those things.... just to still end up chasing after him coz Virgo logic.

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Yeah, I guess I'm attracted to scorps especially scorp mooners. Idk if that has to do with my rising or not.

how do you feel about scorpios? like there are traits in them you wish you had more of?
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They're cool but they can also irritate me... probably due to them squaring my moon.

No, not really...I pretty much wear their traits on the outside and Virgos and Scorps are pretty similar anyway.
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and just to be clear, my first real exploratory thread was about my One True Obsession which is the Cancer sun/Virgo moon. anything other than that is just me trying to get that shit out of my system. i was so obsessed with him that i accused him of being married (he's from a culture of arranged marriages) and i ghosted him after coz Virgo logic. i was so scared of being that crazy that i had to find a way to stop and that was what i came up with. clearly, sex with someone BESIDES him was my top solution which did not work coz i am still so obsessed with him and we're back to what we've been doing from 2 years ago. i don't like that i'm obsessed with him so i went through all those things.... just to still end up chasing after him coz Virgo logic.

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Hey, I know I probably sounded harsh in my post. I'm just surrounded by virgos, literally, male and female. The majority of my relationships have been with virgos. The majority of my life has been spent with virgos. I've learned a thing or 2 over the time. You guys are incredibly emotional, I dont care what gets written about you being not, you are, and the rest is all bullshit. The problem is most times you either dont want to be a burden and let people know how you really feel or you judge yourself on the emotions and suppress everything. Neither of which are good. They always get you way off track and ends up adding the the neuroticism. Add to it their disdain for confrontation, and it leads to a loop. Just a few weeks ago I had to drag shit out of this virgo I'm with now about why she did some of the things she did.. after a whole day of exploring that shit it boiled down to something a girl had said to her in high school.. I confronted the girl and asked her why she did that (i know the girl she's a secretary for a business I deal with).. she told me the virgo was smoking hot on the volleyball team, into sports and super smart sciency shit, she was jealous.. the virgo didnt know that nor did she dig into it, she just knew it hurt her and it affected everything she did in some way ever since.

She couldn't believe I confronted her and was actually mad at me for it.. she's completely changed since, for the better.

I know how obsessive you guys get, the males do too.. you just like to play it cool and hide it. The funny thing is when people talk about virgos being robotic, IME they become robotic when they emotionality become stunted.. it's like the walls close in on them and they appear to be very basic and cold, robotic. And they usually cant figure out how to get out of that mode other people has helped put them into, by themselves, people around them usually help by pulling them out and getting them out of their head.

It's good this guy checks your boxes, hopefully you check his as well. A one sided obsession is not healthy. I cant really help with the placement portion of your question, nor does the answers in the thread appear consistent enough to help. The only thing I can recommend is to keep in mind everything is give and take. If you're giving dude energy, expect some energy in return, maybe not like for like, but energy all the same. If not, keep moving.
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there are sooo many things a virgo would do that don't seem to make sense. but behind all that shit is something that they're scared of/insecure about/hurt about. some of us, no matter how much we love you or how miserable we'd become for what we'll do next, will rarely be able to stop ourselves from self-sabotage.

virgos are emotional just that we'd prefer to keep our composure.

when i get better i'll win him over, hopefully before he gets arranged married.

i'm not trying to build something with him right now but i can't fucking stand him being with someone else.
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No I'm virgo rising

Never been attracted to a virgo male

how about Virgo placements/6H?

i just really wanna know why i'm obsessed with Virgo moon

there must be some explanation for this

Because I'm too awesome for you to handle.

But the sooner you fully accept I only like dick, the happier you'll be. And hey, we got THAT in common!

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i've got my eye on only one Virgo moon dick

how do i get a Virgo moon man to give me extra Leo venus-worthy attention?

Simply put, you have to blow us away.

Also look at his Venus/Mars. Mine are both in Aries and physical beauty - especially the face - is crucial in getting and KEEPING my attention. But don't take my word for it lol, just look to the left of my username up there 🤤🤤🤤

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As far as the moon goes, you have to be able to compete with our need for solitude. Virgo moons love their alone time. You have to prove that you're way more valuable than our alone time, to the point where we would prefer your company over it more often than not.

I mean, yeah I did request the break we're currently on, but that's just due to some personal health issues that he tends to aggravate, so it's got far more to do with what's inside my head than anything he did.

Virgo moons don't text much? seems really cold? he likes to kiss my hands, is that a thing?

sadly, i have serious health issues right now that blocks me from the most classic, timeless sex ever with this Virgo moon and i just told him about it but i am SOOO vague about what it is coz i don't want people to think i want sympathy. BUT now i'm scared that he thinks i'm just quietly letting him down/rejecting him. even worse, that i'm a FLAKE. i have so many tests done to my body, shit ton of meds and machines i need to get better. i don't want anybody to know what's really happening to me. i'm still going to work coz fuck i'm a Virgo but i'm always in bed now when i'm not working. but goddamn it i need to win that Virgo moon.

i ghosted the shit out of my rotation. dumped a bunch of other guys coz why would i go for scraps when i can have a Virgo moon?

have you ever had an obsession that you know will never fucking end?

this is mine.
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We grow cold when we feel the need to protect our heart. Whether it's from emotional trauma (I needed to go into "deep freeze" since I was 13), or heartache. And I'm not fond of texting, especially not back and forth.

As far as your health problems go, keeping them to yourself is a good idea considering the extraordinary amount of phony people around here. They couldn't care less how many meds and machines you need going at the same time, or if I have to have another hole drilled in my head for the second time in a year. They only show their true selves when they group up to bully you.

On the Virgo mooner's matter, you're probably worried that he will be turned off if he finds out about it. To which I say, I would more appreciate your honesty rather than being left to my own devices assuming the worst. We are neurotic freaks by nature, and if we're even a little bit emotionally invested we can drive ourselves insane if we don't know what's going on.

My advice: be honest with him. This way you will also find out for sure where he stands, via his response, so you won't have to sit there and mentally torture yourself. Just rip it out like a bandaid. Because the last thing you need right now is a bigger mental load.

On the topic of "obsession", well. A decade ago, the longest period I had been in love for was about 18 months. This time it's been about 5 years and counting. Cap mooner Lion is my obsession and I don't see myself falling out of love anytime soon, even if he's been doing my head in for the longest time.

We're both screwed, aren't we? Scratch that, we're FUCKED. So here's a toast to our fucked state, and to our healths.

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Are you attracted to the sign of your rising/ASC?

the descendant/7H refers to partnersip or the kind of person that you might seek out in a relationship but if your rising/ASC is something you aspire to be/emulate to 'evolve' to in the future then that means there's a kind of respect/admiration for that sign, right?

for example, mine is Virgo so i'm attracted to other Virgos/placements.

is that how it works?


i think it is your Venus sign that makes you more atracted to that sign, mine is in Virgo so i'm atracted to Virgo like qualities in a person,and i found that Virgos are also atracted to me.

but I also have moon in cancer and rising in cancer and i am atracted to and atract cancers as well