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i tried to join some dating site the beginning of this year instead of getting back together with my ex

but i can't even start with my profile coz every other girl has something to say about their dreams and goals in life but i have zero ambition

so i know for sure i have no chance with capricorns

but i don't get it coz i'm a first houser like why am i like this?

gemini mc?
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attended holiday family parties and apparently, relatives i don't even visit gossips about me finally being able to keep a job for a whole year like i only even go to these things to please my mom and stare at my 3rd cousin

guys who talk to you, first things they ask: "what do you do for a living?" "do you own this house?"

i never even ask guys these questions wtf.

people are at their worst the beginning of every year.
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Posted by virgoOPPP

i tried to join some dating site the beginning of this year instead of getting back together with my ex

but i can't even start with my profile coz every other girl has something to say about their dreams and goals in life but i have zero ambition

so i know for sure i have no chance with capricorns

but i don't get it coz i'm a first houser like why am i like this?

gemini mc?


I actually read this and laughed. You are too cute. This should be in your dating profile so you can see who thinks it’s cute, clever and funny.

Most of of the dating profiles are lies and fake. They usually all seem the same in a round about type of way.
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Do you cook and want to have children, be a homemaker and do domestic tasks? These are very important and preferable to ambition/goals to many men out there.


yeah i like to cook and i do like doing domestic tasks most people don't

my guy best friend is an aquarius and highly ambitious and keeps talking to me about stuff we can start together but i always feel like i have to be fake ambitious around him coz i wanna be supportive of his goals and i wanna remain his friend but i feel none of the things i say and don't really plan to do any of the things that i've stated

i'm currently into fencing right now though

but i do feel passionate about things when i do them, only that i move on to other things after a while (and i mean that can change in just a week)
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i tried to join some dating site the beginning of this year instead of getting back together with my ex

but i can't even start with my profile coz every other girl has something to say about their dreams and goals in life but i have zero ambition

so i know for sure i have no chance with capricorns

but i don't get it coz i'm a first houser like why am i like this?

gemini mc?

I’m just waiting for the next life

Coz in this life I was born with retrograde planets

I’m gonna sit this one out
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i live my life like i'm waiting in line waiting for the afterlife

then get distracted by shiny things for awhile

then i just go back in line again
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Do you cook and want to have children, be a homemaker and do domestic tasks? These are very important and preferable to ambition/goals to many men out there.

yeah i like to cook and i do like doing domestic tasks most people don't

my guy best friend is an aquarius and highly ambitious and keeps talking to me about stuff we can start together but i always feel like i have to be fake ambitious around him coz i wanna be supportive of his goals and i wanna remain his friend but i feel none of the things i say and don't really plan to do any of the things that i've stated

i'm currently into fencing right now though

but i do feel passionate about things when i do them, only that i move on to other things after a while (and i mean that can change in just a week)

I think that’s enough 🤷🏼‍♀️ These roles are seen as outdated, but facts are they are still highly desirable. Men like to feel they are the breadwinners and want a woman at home doing these tasks. Most guys I know at work who are in my field and highly ambitious have a teacher/nurse/hair stylist gf or wife. The nurturers. It’s a lost art

It makes sense that an aqua would appreciate that though, because they aren’t very traditional IME. Just be careful before you get in too deep into plans lol.

What are his ideas and what are you agreeing to so far?

Is there anything you’ve always been passionate about that has never waned?
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it's about starting a business outside the country

he calls me every once in a while asking me if i'm still on the deal

but i'm a mutable so i'm sure i can somehow mold myself into getting into this
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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Men don’t give a shiz about your ambition, we’re not women. If you look good (to the right person) and have a nice personality that’s all that matters.

99.9% of women’s online dating profiles bang on about travel, their dog and how successful and ambitious they are and how you better be the same. It’s a snooze fest. Stand out from the crowd.


i hate travelling but i have a lot of pets (6 dogs and 2 birds now)

i don't like putting what i do for work or what university i came from

coz from previous experience, that attracted the wrong crowd
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Did you search women’s dating profiles for inspiration or something?

yeah

and looking at guys' profiles and they manage to insert something about women with ambitions

i don't understand coz my chart is predominantly virgo, pisces and capricorn and i'm a first houser

that should give me something, right?

Tbh I have never met an ambitious Virgo, and I have met them of all ages. I had a friend who was in her 60s and she didn’t even know anything about astrology, but she had all these regrets about servicing others throughout her life, never herself. Aries moon.

I think Capricorn obviously wants to be ambitious and people really sleep on Pisces placements, I find them both ambitious and opportunistic. 1st house is supposed to be go-getter energy too. Not sure.... maybe once you find something you really like it will stick. Or just force yourself to focus on one thing and follow through.
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tbh i've never really seen virgo as an ambitious sign

in fact, most of them probably fantasize about becoming invisible

my pick up on social cues is very slow coz i barely really socialize and tbh i'm way too self-absorbed and mostly i try to please my relatives to get them off my back

most of the concrete things i do (like keeping a job and my social media) is built on what would please my relatives, regulating these things in order for them to have nothing to say to me.... ever
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i can't believe it's my fave aunt who gossips about me. maybe she's worried i get it but that really hurts. now i feel forced to keep a job i don't even like anymore just so i don't have to hear things like:

"managed to keep it together a whole year."

yet here i am making cheesecake and bringing vinyls to make myself look decent for her, for family.

my goal is for her them to have nothing to talk about- ever.
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Did you search women’s dating profiles for inspiration or something?

yeah

and looking at guys' profiles and they manage to insert something about women with ambitions

i don't understand coz my chart is predominantly virgo, pisces and capricorn and i'm a first houser

that should give me something, right?

Tbh I have never met an ambitious Virgo, and I have met them of all ages. I had a friend who was in her 60s and she didn’t even know anything about astrology, but she had all these regrets about servicing others throughout her life, never herself. Aries moon.

I think Capricorn obviously wants to be ambitious and people really sleep on Pisces placements, I find them both ambitious and opportunistic. 1st house is supposed to be go-getter energy too. Not sure.... maybe once you find something you really like it will stick. Or just force yourself to focus on one thing and follow through.

tbh i've never really seen virgo as an ambitious sign

in fact, most of them probably fantasize about becoming invisible

my pick up on social cues is very slow coz i barely really socialize and tbh i'm way too self-absorbed and mostly i try to please my relatives to get them off my back

most of the concrete things i do (like keeping a job and my social media) is built on what would please my relatives, regulating these things in order for them to have nothing to say to me.... ever

Stop feeling sorry for yourself and waiting for a big strong man to save you. He won't. Dating sites probably isn't your best bet, you are going to be spreading those legs for manchildren who cry over Star Wars trailers and recently divorced men who check in with the Duchess every night.

Get out there and meet real people. Or die lonely surrounded by scent of cat piss and desperation. You won't regret failure, only not trying.
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what are you talking about?

i have a date next weekend

this is about family and how i'm forced to be fake ambitious
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Do you cook and want to have children, be a homemaker and do domestic tasks? These are very important and preferable to ambition/goals to many men out there.

yeah i like to cook and i do like doing domestic tasks most people don't

my guy best friend is an aquarius and highly ambitious and keeps talking to me about stuff we can start together but i always feel like i have to be fake ambitious around him coz i wanna be supportive of his goals and i wanna remain his friend but i feel none of the things i say and don't really plan to do any of the things that i've stated

i'm currently into fencing right now though

but i do feel passionate about things when i do them, only that i move on to other things after a while (and i mean that can change in just a week)

I think that’s enough 🤷🏼‍♀️ These roles are seen as outdated, but facts are they are still highly desirable. Men like to feel they are the breadwinners and want a woman at home doing these tasks. Most guys I know at work who are in my field and highly ambitious have a teacher/nurse/hair stylist gf or wife. The nurturers. It’s a lost art

It makes sense that an aqua would appreciate that though, because they aren’t very traditional IME. Just be careful before you get in too deep into plans lol.

What are his ideas and what are you agreeing to so far?

Is there anything you’ve always been passionate about that has never waned?

it's about starting a business outside the country

he calls me every once in a while asking me if i'm still on the deal

but i'm a mutable so i'm sure i can somehow mold myself into getting into this

What kind of business is it? Don’t do it if you don’t want to lol. There would be too much at stake, right
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it's a restaurant

it works coz of my family's business and his professional background

he is a nice guy but sometimes i feel as if maybe i'm just really convenient to his goals (these goals that i have no actual interest in nor the drive to actually pursue) only that i kinda wanna help him

but maybe if i distance myself from social media and make myself impossible to contact then i can get away from everything, let them all think i just changed my mind again
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Posted by delusions_of_grandhair

My grandpa once told me I had to work

But when I asked him why he had no answers lol

my dad doesn't care if i work or not but my female relatives are the worst

just i get triggered emotionally for some reason like when i found out how they talk about me being able to "keep it together for a year"

like wtf is that? i dont' talk to you people for years and i hear about this?

not gonna lie, made me cry.
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Did you search women’s dating profiles for inspiration or something?

yeah

and looking at guys' profiles and they manage to insert something about women with ambitions

i don't understand coz my chart is predominantly virgo, pisces and capricorn and i'm a first houser

that should give me something, right?

Tbh I have never met an ambitious Virgo, and I have met them of all ages. I had a friend who was in her 60s and she didn’t even know anything about astrology, but she had all these regrets about servicing others throughout her life, never herself. Aries moon.

I think Capricorn obviously wants to be ambitious and people really sleep on Pisces placements, I find them both ambitious and opportunistic. 1st house is supposed to be go-getter energy too. Not sure.... maybe once you find something you really like it will stick. Or just force yourself to focus on one thing and follow through.

tbh i've never really seen virgo as an ambitious sign

in fact, most of them probably fantasize about becoming invisible

my pick up on social cues is very slow coz i barely really socialize and tbh i'm way too self-absorbed and mostly i try to please my relatives to get them off my back

most of the concrete things i do (like keeping a job and my social media) is built on what would please my relatives, regulating these things in order for them to have nothing to say to me.... ever

Stop feeling sorry for yourself and waiting for a big strong man to save you. He won't. Dating sites probably isn't your best bet, you are going to be spreading those legs for manchildren who cry over Star Wars trailers and recently divorced men who check in with the Duchess every night.

Get out there and meet real people. Or die lonely surrounded by scent of cat piss and desperation. You won't regret failure, only not trying.

what are you talking about?

i have a date next weekend

this is about family and how i'm forced to be fake ambitious

"i tried to join some dating site the beginning of this year instead of getting back together with my ex

but i can't even start with my profile coz every other girl has something to say about their dreams and goals in life but i have zero ambition"

It was a response to this and why fake ambition? Just be you.
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You're absolutely right. I think the continuous series of ups/down she has with life & relationship she creates for herself. Theres nothing wrong with it, but you should at least find the root meaning behind why u do it. If you are sick take ur health seriously. If u want to get married take it seriously. If you want a specific job make that ur motive. Bouncing around everywhere not wanting to deal with the reality of life inst an answer to accomplishing anything
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Did you search women’s dating profiles for inspiration or something?

yeah

and looking at guys' profiles and they manage to insert something about women with ambitions

i don't understand coz my chart is predominantly virgo, pisces and capricorn and i'm a first houser

that should give me something, right?

Tbh I have never met an ambitious Virgo, and I have met them of all ages. I had a friend who was in her 60s and she didn’t even know anything about astrology, but she had all these regrets about servicing others throughout her life, never herself. Aries moon.

I think Capricorn obviously wants to be ambitious and people really sleep on Pisces placements, I find them both ambitious and opportunistic. 1st house is supposed to be go-getter energy too. Not sure.... maybe once you find something you really like it will stick. Or just force yourself to focus on one thing and follow through.

tbh i've never really seen virgo as an ambitious sign

in fact, most of them probably fantasize about becoming invisible

my pick up on social cues is very slow coz i barely really socialize and tbh i'm way too self-absorbed and mostly i try to please my relatives to get them off my back

most of the concrete things i do (like keeping a job and my social media) is built on what would please my relatives, regulating these things in order for them to have nothing to say to me.... ever

Stop feeling sorry for yourself and waiting for a big strong man to save you. He won't. Dating sites probably isn't your best bet, you are going to be spreading those legs for manchildren who cry over Star Wars trailers and recently divorced men who check in with the Duchess every night.

Get out there and meet real people. Or die lonely surrounded by scent of cat piss and desperation. You won't regret failure, only not trying.

what are you talking about?

i have a date next weekend

this is about family and how i'm forced to be fake ambitious

"i tried to join some dating site the beginning of this year instead of getting back together with my ex

but i can't even start with my profile coz every other girl has something to say about their dreams and goals in life but i have zero ambition"

It was a response to this and why fake ambition? Just be you.

You're absolutely right. I think the continuous series of ups/down she has with life & relationship she creates for herself. Theres nothing wrong with it, but you should at least find the root meaning behind why u do it. If you are sick take ur health seriously. If u want to get married take it seriously. If you want a specific job make that ur motive. Bouncing around everywhere not wanting to deal with the reality of life inst an answer to accomplishing anything
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barely talk to these people, barely visit them

we should have nothing to say to each other

people don't even know how they've hurt me from years and years ago

making careless comments the way they do

then wonder why i'm never around
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Did you search women’s dating profiles for inspiration or something?

yeah

and looking at guys' profiles and they manage to insert something about women with ambitions

i don't understand coz my chart is predominantly virgo, pisces and capricorn and i'm a first houser

that should give me something, right?

Tbh I have never met an ambitious Virgo, and I have met them of all ages. I had a friend who was in her 60s and she didn’t even know anything about astrology, but she had all these regrets about servicing others throughout her life, never herself. Aries moon.

I think Capricorn obviously wants to be ambitious and people really sleep on Pisces placements, I find them both ambitious and opportunistic. 1st house is supposed to be go-getter energy too. Not sure.... maybe once you find something you really like it will stick. Or just force yourself to focus on one thing and follow through.

tbh i've never really seen virgo as an ambitious sign

in fact, most of them probably fantasize about becoming invisible

my pick up on social cues is very slow coz i barely really socialize and tbh i'm way too self-absorbed and mostly i try to please my relatives to get them off my back

most of the concrete things i do (like keeping a job and my social media) is built on what would please my relatives, regulating these things in order for them to have nothing to say to me.... ever

Stop feeling sorry for yourself and waiting for a big strong man to save you. He won't. Dating sites probably isn't your best bet, you are going to be spreading those legs for manchildren who cry over Star Wars trailers and recently divorced men who check in with the Duchess every night.

Get out there and meet real people. Or die lonely surrounded by scent of cat piss and desperation. You won't regret failure, only not trying.

what are you talking about?

i have a date next weekend

this is about family and how i'm forced to be fake ambitious

"i tried to join some dating site the beginning of this year instead of getting back together with my ex

but i can't even start with my profile coz every other girl has something to say about their dreams and goals in life but i have zero ambition"

It was a response to this and why fake ambition? Just be you.

You're absolutely right. I think the continuous series of ups/down she has with life & relationship she creates for herself. Theres nothing wrong with it, but you should at least find the root meaning behind why u do it. If you are sick take ur health seriously. If u want to get married take it seriously. If you want a specific job make that ur motive. Bouncing around everywhere not wanting to deal with the reality of life inst an answer to accomplishing anything

barely talk to these people, barely visit them

we should have nothing to say to each other

people don't even know how they've hurt me from years and years ago

making careless comments the way they do

then wonder why i'm never around
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I've got a friend who feels the same way about family.. People talk about other people. That's just life and something you'll have to learn to deal with. If it's not to see your demise than take it with grain of salt.

I personally dont give a damn about people's negative feelings towards me as long as I'm doing gods work.
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Posted by virgoOPPP

i tried to join some dating site the beginning of this year instead of getting back together with my ex

but i can't even start with my profile coz every other girl has something to say about their dreams and goals in life but i have zero ambition

so i know for sure i have no chance with capricorns

but i don't get it coz i'm a first houser like why am i like this?

gemini mc?

1st house isn't ambition. 10th house is an indication. My Part of Fortune is in my 10th house. I appear ambitious but it's really my area of luck. Once you realise you have luck in a certain area of life, you approach it like controlling a dream.

As far as your profile, be you... when I briefly online dated long ago, I talked about what I like to do... not my goals and dreams.

At the end of the day, none of it mattered cause they saw titties... Cancer men incoming...
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Nothing wrong with being a natural homemaker. Some people are very successful professionally but cannot maintain their home as well, so they look for a partner who is happy to help where they can't, and vice versa. It's just about meeting the right person and being honest about yourself, which It seems you have little problem with. Play to your strengths! Don't have a lot of strengths? Get some more! Do what you love and the rest will follow.

I have a hard time bc I'm not necessarily ambitious about money, but real love and family. It's my prime directive since I can remember. All I ever really wanted to be was a mom, over everything. Can't explain it but it's always been there. I was born on the day of nurturing support so it makes some sense. I've mainly been working on strengthening my homemaking since its what I enjoy. I can make money anywhere, but I'm lucky to have a job in an industry I already feel passionate about. What do you feel passionate about?
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Is this a Virgo thing because you sound like the female version of my Virgo. Lol.

I get where you are coming from tho. I have no ambition either. My bestie is a Cap and I never see her cause she is always working and trying to make that money. I have 2 jobs because I like having money but honestly I'd rather be playing with crystals and reading tarot cards all day.....
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I didn't know what I was passionate about for a long time either. Mostly cause I see how pointless life sort of is. I also found it hard to retrain that kind of emotion the way other people seem too. If you can fake it though it doesn't matter. Most people only see what they see. I just found something mildly interesting and went on there from there to see how I could make it a big part of my life
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Posted by AbbyNormal

Nothing wrong with being a natural homemaker. Some people are very successful professionally but cannot maintain their home as well, so they look for a partner who is happy to help where they can't, and vice versa. It's just about meeting the right person and being honest about yourself, which It seems you have little problem with. Play to your strengths! Don't have a lot of strengths? Get some more! Do what you love and the rest will follow.

I have a hard time bc I'm not necessarily ambitious about money, but real love and family. It's my prime directive since I can remember. All I ever really wanted to be was a mom, over everything. Can't explain it but it's always been there. I was born on the day of nurturing support so it makes some sense. I've mainly been working on strengthening my homemaking since its what I enjoy. I can make money anywhere, but I'm lucky to have a job in an industry I already feel passionate about. What do you feel passionate about?


Yea, listen to tauruses & you'll be stuck daydreaming in the past with them. Its 2020. Everyone has to work.

Unless ur lucky & rich
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Where do you want to be?

What condition do you want to be?

Forget about dating sites. Thats bs.

Im not saying I already have ducks in a row, so I am also asking these questions to myself.

i just like exploring my interests (that sometimes change every other week)

but i i have no drive to for position or power
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At least you are not apathetic, knowing you have interests and desire to explore them.

Power.

Ck. But we need that. Just so we can end things sticking up our asses.

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I love your honesty; I would hang out with you just because you are direct, and take ownership for your stuff. I am very ambitious and I do very well for myself, however my Capricorn ex of 10 years lacked ambition and played the role of a house husband. It worked very well for us. Maybe you're a father and a husband and your ambition lies within the confines of marriage and family. A man who lacked ambition doesn't bother me at all, don't discount all women.
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I love your honesty; I would hang out with you just because you are direct, and take ownership for your stuff. I am very ambitious and I do very well for myself, however my Capricorn ex of 10 years lacked ambition and played the role of a house husband. It worked very well for us. Maybe you're a father and a husband and your ambition lies within the confines of marriage and family. A man who lacked ambition doesn't bother me at all, don't discount all women.


i'm a woman
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if it's any consolation to you i hate housework and i don't cook...also i hate working and have no ambitions nor interests 😂

Well that pretty normal you would hate working being a Libra rising and have no ambitions. And don't feel like I'm attacking you. As a strong Libra rising I'm the same way.

Actually I have a high position and work a lot due to my Cap Moon and Cap Stelium (?) and I love my vocation because it's creative and artistic. Luckily all my other aspects tone the Libra bitch down. I am an Aries after all. 😂😂😂😂 but I could do more for myself if I tried. I have all this without trying sometimes
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Oh yeah that's different. I run my own business but I can honestly say I don't like it. And now I wish I never started it but I can't get out of it now. I'm like kinda stuck with it. I don't know what had me motivated to start a business. Sure as hell not ambition cus I gots none. Miracle I guess.
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Posted by virgoOPPP

i tried to join some dating site the beginning of this year instead of getting back together with my ex

but i can't even start with my profile coz every other girl has something to say about their dreams and goals in life but i have zero ambition

so i know for sure i have no chance with capricorns

but i don't get it coz i'm a first houser like why am i like this?

gemini mc?


It has to be something else. Having a first houser should put you in the same position where I'm at right now, a leader.

If I was a first houser I would see to it with all my power that I meet up with the creator of this site and have Duncan make me an executive on this site. Now that's ambition for you right there.
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longafternoonnaps
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Posted by Purpleaqua01

Unjust haven’t found what’s right for yet. Dedicate your time to finding something you ENJOY doing, writing, teaching, anything. Maybe even sales. U can’t keep a job because you don’t enjoy it. I’m the same I can be extremely talented if I’m having fun while doing it. It sucks but that’s who I am. Prove them wrong, all I’m divine timing ❤️


must be my gemini mc

i'm probably gonna hop on to another job when i've really had it with this one lol

there's so many other things to learn and explore
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Purpleaqua01
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Posted by Purpleaqua01

Unjust haven’t found what’s right for yet. Dedicate your time to finding something you ENJOY doing, writing, teaching, anything. Maybe even sales. U can’t keep a job because you don’t enjoy it. I’m the same I can be extremely talented if I’m having fun while doing it. It sucks but that’s who I am. Prove them wrong, all I’m divine timing ❤️

must be my gemini mc

i'm probably gonna hop on to another job when i've really had it with this one lol

there's so many other things to learn and explore
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My aqua MC understands lol. I’ve always been flighty. Me being an aqua & Leo moon I like to be my own boss. You’ll figure it out, I’m the black sheep in the fam also and it sucks lol
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longafternoonnaps
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Posted by virgoOPPPwhy am i like this?

Are your parents well off /wealthy?

Maybe you don't to be 'ambitious', because everything... will be alright.

are you a capricorn?

do you think a capricorn man will give me a chance?

You didn't answer my question.

neither did you

I asked first. I am under no obligation to answer your 'entitled' question.

Your thread sounds like the musings of a bored, little rich girl,mbut i could be wrong.
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why are you being insulting?

i have no ambition, haven't made anything of myself

get no respect from my family,

but i'm happy coz at least i get a date with a capricorn

how is that entitled?
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starblueprints
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It's all pretty random without your actual chart. For example what do you value? What does your 2nd house look like? What planets are aspecting what planets there? Is there a void? There's either more going on that you aren't seeing or you're a petty narcissist. I know that sounds harsh, but I don't believe it's true.

The idea that you have no chance with a Capricorn is hard to agree with. A Capricorn might see you as someone who can support his dreams, and keep the house clean at the same time.

Is it possible you just haven't been inspired yet? The world is pretty messed up right now. I have a hard time believing that at some point in the near future everyone isn't going to see something they want to help fix.

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