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Posted by virgoOPPP
i tried to join some dating site the beginning of this year instead of getting back together with my ex
but i can't even start with my profile coz every other girl has something to say about their dreams and goals in life but i have zero ambition
so i know for sure i have no chance with capricorns
but i don't get it coz i'm a first houser like why am i like this?
gemini mc?

Posted by nanorobot
Do you cook and want to have children, be a homemaker and do domestic tasks? These are very important and preferable to ambition/goals to many men out there.

Posted by nanorobot
Did you search women’s dating profiles for inspiration or something?

Posted by delusions_of_grandhairPosted by virgoOPPP
i tried to join some dating site the beginning of this year instead of getting back together with my ex
but i can't even start with my profile coz every other girl has something to say about their dreams and goals in life but i have zero ambition
so i know for sure i have no chance with capricorns
but i don't get it coz i'm a first houser like why am i like this?
gemini mc?
I’m just waiting for the next life
Coz in this life I was born with retrograde planets
I’m gonna sit this one outclick to expand

Posted by nanorobotPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by nanorobot
Do you cook and want to have children, be a homemaker and do domestic tasks? These are very important and preferable to ambition/goals to many men out there.
yeah i like to cook and i do like doing domestic tasks most people don't
my guy best friend is an aquarius and highly ambitious and keeps talking to me about stuff we can start together but i always feel like i have to be fake ambitious around him coz i wanna be supportive of his goals and i wanna remain his friend but i feel none of the things i say and don't really plan to do any of the things that i've stated
i'm currently into fencing right now though
but i do feel passionate about things when i do them, only that i move on to other things after a while (and i mean that can change in just a week)
I think that’s enough 🤷🏼♀️ These roles are seen as outdated, but facts are they are still highly desirable. Men like to feel they are the breadwinners and want a woman at home doing these tasks. Most guys I know at work who are in my field and highly ambitious have a teacher/nurse/hair stylist gf or wife. The nurturers. It’s a lost art
It makes sense that an aqua would appreciate that though, because they aren’t very traditional IME. Just be careful before you get in too deep into plans lol.
What are his ideas and what are you agreeing to so far?
Is there anything you’ve always been passionate about that has never waned?click to expand

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Men don’t give a shiz about your ambition, we’re not women. If you look good (to the right person) and have a nice personality that’s all that matters.
99.9% of women’s online dating profiles bang on about travel, their dog and how successful and ambitious they are and how you better be the same. It’s a snooze fest. Stand out from the crowd.

Posted by nanorobotPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by nanorobot
Did you search women’s dating profiles for inspiration or something?
yeah
and looking at guys' profiles and they manage to insert something about women with ambitions
i don't understand coz my chart is predominantly virgo, pisces and capricorn and i'm a first houser
that should give me something, right?
Tbh I have never met an ambitious Virgo, and I have met them of all ages. I had a friend who was in her 60s and she didn’t even know anything about astrology, but she had all these regrets about servicing others throughout her life, never herself. Aries moon.
I think Capricorn obviously wants to be ambitious and people really sleep on Pisces placements, I find them both ambitious and opportunistic. 1st house is supposed to be go-getter energy too. Not sure.... maybe once you find something you really like it will stick. Or just force yourself to focus on one thing and follow through.click to expand

Posted by MaddestofHatters
Market yourself as a very passive sex slave..


Posted by alexscariesPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by nanorobotPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by nanorobot
Did you search women’s dating profiles for inspiration or something?
yeah
and looking at guys' profiles and they manage to insert something about women with ambitions
i don't understand coz my chart is predominantly virgo, pisces and capricorn and i'm a first houser
that should give me something, right?
Tbh I have never met an ambitious Virgo, and I have met them of all ages. I had a friend who was in her 60s and she didn’t even know anything about astrology, but she had all these regrets about servicing others throughout her life, never herself. Aries moon.
I think Capricorn obviously wants to be ambitious and people really sleep on Pisces placements, I find them both ambitious and opportunistic. 1st house is supposed to be go-getter energy too. Not sure.... maybe once you find something you really like it will stick. Or just force yourself to focus on one thing and follow through.
tbh i've never really seen virgo as an ambitious sign
in fact, most of them probably fantasize about becoming invisible
my pick up on social cues is very slow coz i barely really socialize and tbh i'm way too self-absorbed and mostly i try to please my relatives to get them off my back
most of the concrete things i do (like keeping a job and my social media) is built on what would please my relatives, regulating these things in order for them to have nothing to say to me.... ever
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and waiting for a big strong man to save you. He won't. Dating sites probably isn't your best bet, you are going to be spreading those legs for manchildren who cry over Star Wars trailers and recently divorced men who check in with the Duchess every night.
Get out there and meet real people. Or die lonely surrounded by scent of cat piss and desperation. You won't regret failure, only not trying.click to expand

Posted by nanorobotPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by nanorobotPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by nanorobot
Do you cook and want to have children, be a homemaker and do domestic tasks? These are very important and preferable to ambition/goals to many men out there.
yeah i like to cook and i do like doing domestic tasks most people don't
my guy best friend is an aquarius and highly ambitious and keeps talking to me about stuff we can start together but i always feel like i have to be fake ambitious around him coz i wanna be supportive of his goals and i wanna remain his friend but i feel none of the things i say and don't really plan to do any of the things that i've stated
i'm currently into fencing right now though
but i do feel passionate about things when i do them, only that i move on to other things after a while (and i mean that can change in just a week)
I think that’s enough 🤷🏼♀️ These roles are seen as outdated, but facts are they are still highly desirable. Men like to feel they are the breadwinners and want a woman at home doing these tasks. Most guys I know at work who are in my field and highly ambitious have a teacher/nurse/hair stylist gf or wife. The nurturers. It’s a lost art
It makes sense that an aqua would appreciate that though, because they aren’t very traditional IME. Just be careful before you get in too deep into plans lol.
What are his ideas and what are you agreeing to so far?
Is there anything you’ve always been passionate about that has never waned?
it's about starting a business outside the country
he calls me every once in a while asking me if i'm still on the deal
but i'm a mutable so i'm sure i can somehow mold myself into getting into this
What kind of business is it? Don’t do it if you don’t want to lol. There would be too much at stake, rightclick to expand

Posted by delusions_of_grandhair
My grandpa once told me I had to work
But when I asked him why he had no answers lol

Posted by alexscariesPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by alexscariesPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by nanorobotPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by nanorobot
Did you search women’s dating profiles for inspiration or something?
yeah
and looking at guys' profiles and they manage to insert something about women with ambitions
i don't understand coz my chart is predominantly virgo, pisces and capricorn and i'm a first houser
that should give me something, right?
Tbh I have never met an ambitious Virgo, and I have met them of all ages. I had a friend who was in her 60s and she didn’t even know anything about astrology, but she had all these regrets about servicing others throughout her life, never herself. Aries moon.
I think Capricorn obviously wants to be ambitious and people really sleep on Pisces placements, I find them both ambitious and opportunistic. 1st house is supposed to be go-getter energy too. Not sure.... maybe once you find something you really like it will stick. Or just force yourself to focus on one thing and follow through.
tbh i've never really seen virgo as an ambitious sign
in fact, most of them probably fantasize about becoming invisible
my pick up on social cues is very slow coz i barely really socialize and tbh i'm way too self-absorbed and mostly i try to please my relatives to get them off my back
most of the concrete things i do (like keeping a job and my social media) is built on what would please my relatives, regulating these things in order for them to have nothing to say to me.... ever
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and waiting for a big strong man to save you. He won't. Dating sites probably isn't your best bet, you are going to be spreading those legs for manchildren who cry over Star Wars trailers and recently divorced men who check in with the Duchess every night.
Get out there and meet real people. Or die lonely surrounded by scent of cat piss and desperation. You won't regret failure, only not trying.
what are you talking about?
i have a date next weekend
this is about family and how i'm forced to be fake ambitious
"i tried to join some dating site the beginning of this year instead of getting back together with my ex
but i can't even start with my profile coz every other girl has something to say about their dreams and goals in life but i have zero ambition"
It was a response to this and why fake ambition? Just be you.click to expand


Posted by 777Posted by alexscariesPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by alexscariesPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by nanorobotPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by nanorobot
Did you search women’s dating profiles for inspiration or something?
yeah
and looking at guys' profiles and they manage to insert something about women with ambitions
i don't understand coz my chart is predominantly virgo, pisces and capricorn and i'm a first houser
that should give me something, right?
Tbh I have never met an ambitious Virgo, and I have met them of all ages. I had a friend who was in her 60s and she didn’t even know anything about astrology, but she had all these regrets about servicing others throughout her life, never herself. Aries moon.
I think Capricorn obviously wants to be ambitious and people really sleep on Pisces placements, I find them both ambitious and opportunistic. 1st house is supposed to be go-getter energy too. Not sure.... maybe once you find something you really like it will stick. Or just force yourself to focus on one thing and follow through.
tbh i've never really seen virgo as an ambitious sign
in fact, most of them probably fantasize about becoming invisible
my pick up on social cues is very slow coz i barely really socialize and tbh i'm way too self-absorbed and mostly i try to please my relatives to get them off my back
most of the concrete things i do (like keeping a job and my social media) is built on what would please my relatives, regulating these things in order for them to have nothing to say to me.... ever
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and waiting for a big strong man to save you. He won't. Dating sites probably isn't your best bet, you are going to be spreading those legs for manchildren who cry over Star Wars trailers and recently divorced men who check in with the Duchess every night.
Get out there and meet real people. Or die lonely surrounded by scent of cat piss and desperation. You won't regret failure, only not trying.
what are you talking about?
i have a date next weekend
this is about family and how i'm forced to be fake ambitious
"i tried to join some dating site the beginning of this year instead of getting back together with my ex
but i can't even start with my profile coz every other girl has something to say about their dreams and goals in life but i have zero ambition"
It was a response to this and why fake ambition? Just be you.
You're absolutely right. I think the continuous series of ups/down she has with life & relationship she creates for herself. Theres nothing wrong with it, but you should at least find the root meaning behind why u do it. If you are sick take ur health seriously. If u want to get married take it seriously. If you want a specific job make that ur motive. Bouncing around everywhere not wanting to deal with the reality of life inst an answer to accomplishing anythingclick to expand


Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by 777Posted by alexscariesPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by alexscariesPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by nanorobotPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by nanorobot
Did you search women’s dating profiles for inspiration or something?
yeah
and looking at guys' profiles and they manage to insert something about women with ambitions
i don't understand coz my chart is predominantly virgo, pisces and capricorn and i'm a first houser
that should give me something, right?
Tbh I have never met an ambitious Virgo, and I have met them of all ages. I had a friend who was in her 60s and she didn’t even know anything about astrology, but she had all these regrets about servicing others throughout her life, never herself. Aries moon.
I think Capricorn obviously wants to be ambitious and people really sleep on Pisces placements, I find them both ambitious and opportunistic. 1st house is supposed to be go-getter energy too. Not sure.... maybe once you find something you really like it will stick. Or just force yourself to focus on one thing and follow through.
tbh i've never really seen virgo as an ambitious sign
in fact, most of them probably fantasize about becoming invisible
my pick up on social cues is very slow coz i barely really socialize and tbh i'm way too self-absorbed and mostly i try to please my relatives to get them off my back
most of the concrete things i do (like keeping a job and my social media) is built on what would please my relatives, regulating these things in order for them to have nothing to say to me.... ever
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and waiting for a big strong man to save you. He won't. Dating sites probably isn't your best bet, you are going to be spreading those legs for manchildren who cry over Star Wars trailers and recently divorced men who check in with the Duchess every night.
Get out there and meet real people. Or die lonely surrounded by scent of cat piss and desperation. You won't regret failure, only not trying.
what are you talking about?
i have a date next weekend
this is about family and how i'm forced to be fake ambitious
"i tried to join some dating site the beginning of this year instead of getting back together with my ex
but i can't even start with my profile coz every other girl has something to say about their dreams and goals in life but i have zero ambition"
It was a response to this and why fake ambition? Just be you.
You're absolutely right. I think the continuous series of ups/down she has with life & relationship she creates for herself. Theres nothing wrong with it, but you should at least find the root meaning behind why u do it. If you are sick take ur health seriously. If u want to get married take it seriously. If you want a specific job make that ur motive. Bouncing around everywhere not wanting to deal with the reality of life inst an answer to accomplishing anything
barely talk to these people, barely visit them
we should have nothing to say to each other
people don't even know how they've hurt me from years and years ago
making careless comments the way they do
then wonder why i'm never aroundclick to expand

Posted by snowballer
For all that stuff put "just ask" or "ask me" then when they ask say, none of your fucking business. You'll get a cancer boyfriend.

Posted by virgoOPPP
i tried to join some dating site the beginning of this year instead of getting back together with my ex
but i can't even start with my profile coz every other girl has something to say about their dreams and goals in life but i have zero ambition
so i know for sure i have no chance with capricorns
but i don't get it coz i'm a first houser like why am i like this?
gemini mc?





Posted by AbbyNormal
Nothing wrong with being a natural homemaker. Some people are very successful professionally but cannot maintain their home as well, so they look for a partner who is happy to help where they can't, and vice versa. It's just about meeting the right person and being honest about yourself, which It seems you have little problem with. Play to your strengths! Don't have a lot of strengths? Get some more! Do what you love and the rest will follow.
I have a hard time bc I'm not necessarily ambitious about money, but real love and family. It's my prime directive since I can remember. All I ever really wanted to be was a mom, over everything. Can't explain it but it's always been there. I was born on the day of nurturing support so it makes some sense. I've mainly been working on strengthening my homemaking since its what I enjoy. I can make money anywhere, but I'm lucky to have a job in an industry I already feel passionate about. What do you feel passionate about?


Posted by Phangus
"Spoiled, brilliant librarian type seeks perfect man to cook for. I don't need your money, and you're not getting any of mine. Pisces need not apply."


Posted by Subliminals
Where do you want to be?
What condition do you want to be?
Forget about dating sites. Thats bs.
Im not saying I already have ducks in a row, so I am also asking these questions to myself.


Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Subliminals
Where do you want to be?
What condition do you want to be?
Forget about dating sites. Thats bs.
Im not saying I already have ducks in a row, so I am also asking these questions to myself.
i just like exploring my interests (that sometimes change every other week)
but i i have no drive to for position or powerclick to expand

Posted by Subliminals
Get your ex outta the picture. He's non sense.
Sorry if I sound like I'm in a monologue.
*this medium is good to be like some type of thought expression to get to know yourself better.

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Subliminals
Get your ex outta the picture. He's non sense.
Sorry if I sound like I'm in a monologue.
*this medium is good to be like some type of thought expression to get to know yourself better.
we gave each other gifts for christmas
i think i needed that to move onclick to expand

Posted by Sailor_Mars
if it's any consolation to you i hate housework and i don't cook...also i hate working and have no ambitions nor interests 😂


Posted by Antiphates
Be honest and write that you are mostly out of boredom on this dating site.

Posted by venuslibra
I love your honesty; I would hang out with you just because you are direct, and take ownership for your stuff. I am very ambitious and I do very well for myself, however my Capricorn ex of 10 years lacked ambition and played the role of a house husband. It worked very well for us. Maybe you're a father and a husband and your ambition lies within the confines of marriage and family. A man who lacked ambition doesn't bother me at all, don't discount all women.


Posted by Sailor_MarsPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by Sailor_Mars
if it's any consolation to you i hate housework and i don't cook...also i hate working and have no ambitions nor interests 😂
Well that pretty normal you would hate working being a Libra rising and have no ambitions. And don't feel like I'm attacking you. As a strong Libra rising I'm the same way.
Actually I have a high position and work a lot due to my Cap Moon and Cap Stelium (?) and I love my vocation because it's creative and artistic. Luckily all my other aspects tone the Libra bitch down. I am an Aries after all. 😂😂😂😂 but I could do more for myself if I tried. I have all this without trying sometimesclick to expand

Posted by virgoOPPP
i tried to join some dating site the beginning of this year instead of getting back together with my ex
but i can't even start with my profile coz every other girl has something to say about their dreams and goals in life but i have zero ambition
so i know for sure i have no chance with capricorns
but i don't get it coz i'm a first houser like why am i like this?
gemini mc?

Posted by Purpleaqua01
Unjust haven’t found what’s right for yet. Dedicate your time to finding something you ENJOY doing, writing, teaching, anything. Maybe even sales. U can’t keep a job because you don’t enjoy it. I’m the same I can be extremely talented if I’m having fun while doing it. It sucks but that’s who I am. Prove them wrong, all I’m divine timing ❤️
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Purpleaqua01
Unjust haven’t found what’s right for yet. Dedicate your time to finding something you ENJOY doing, writing, teaching, anything. Maybe even sales. U can’t keep a job because you don’t enjoy it. I’m the same I can be extremely talented if I’m having fun while doing it. It sucks but that’s who I am. Prove them wrong, all I’m divine timing ❤️
must be my gemini mc
i'm probably gonna hop on to another job when i've really had it with this one lol
there's so many other things to learn and exploreclick to expand

Posted by mars_in_cappyPosted by virgoOPPPwhy am i like this?
Are your parents well off /wealthy?
Maybe you don't to be 'ambitious', because everything... will be alright.click to expand

Posted by mars_in_cappyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by mars_in_cappyPosted by virgoOPPPwhy am i like this?
Are your parents well off /wealthy?
Maybe you don't to be 'ambitious', because everything... will be alright.
are you a capricorn?
do you think a capricorn man will give me a chance?
You didn't answer my question.click to expand

Posted by mars_in_cappyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by mars_in_cappyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by mars_in_cappyPosted by virgoOPPPwhy am i like this?
Are your parents well off /wealthy?
Maybe you don't to be 'ambitious', because everything... will be alright.
are you a capricorn?
do you think a capricorn man will give me a chance?
You didn't answer my question.
neither did you
I asked first. I am under no obligation to answer your 'entitled' question.
Your thread sounds like the musings of a bored, little rich girl,mbut i could be wrong.click to expand
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but i can't even start with my profile coz every other girl has something to say about their dreams and goals in life but i have zero ambition
so i know for sure i have no chance with capricorns
but i don't get it coz i'm a first houser like why am i like this?
gemini mc?