cap men or aquarius men?
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Posted by CDL
Cap men are warm and fuzzy when they really like some one
maybe at first but i feel like cardinals in general are when they haven't reached their goal yet
Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
Cap
I don't think Aquas are cold. I think Gems are cold if you like them more
i've seen my gem aunt breakdown crying sometimes then the next minute just wants to go shopping. i think it's part of being a mutable tho just suck it up and move on.
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
Everyone is a simp these days š¤£
cap men simp for air signs
aqua men simp for pisces women
Capricorn ~ Saturn š
Posted by Eggrolls
Have dated both š because stoicism turns me on I guess. The coldness is an act for both but I will treat them very differently if theyāre being cold towards me.
that stoicism's only okay to read about in manhwas but don't translate well in reality unless the women have some unresolved parental issues.
there's this aqua dude online who acts like he's too good for anyone to talk to except for this chick he's pursuing but then has this separate account just to ask everyone's fave color or movie whatever. like they always gotta come off cool.
i swear the only cool people who don't have to overcompensate so much has to be fire sign men who are never online.
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Eggrolls
Have dated both š because stoicism turns me on I guess. The coldness is an act for both but I will treat them very differently if theyāre being cold towards me.
that stoicism's only okay to read about in manhwa's but don't translate well in reality unless the women have some unresolved parental issues.
there's this aqua dude online who acts like he's too good for anyone to talk to except for this chick he's pursuing but then has this separate account just to ask everyone's fave color or movie whatever. like they always gotta come off cool.
i swear the only cool people who don't have to overcompensate so much has to be fire sign men who are never online.click to expand
Agree. Fire is masculine so it doesnāt have to prove itself.
Both can be really cold but Iād probably trust Caps to stick it out when things get bad
However , they both amazed me in a sense that I saw Aquas being super intense & passionate and Caps being very patient & kind
However , they both amazed me in a sense that I saw Aquas being super intense & passionate and Caps being very patient & kind
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Eggrolls
Have dated both š because stoicism turns me on I guess. The coldness is an act for both but I will treat them very differently if theyāre being cold towards me.
that stoicism's only okay to read about in manhwa's but don't translate well in reality unless the women have some unresolved parental issues.
there's this aqua dude online who acts like he's too good for anyone to talk to except for this chick he's pursuing but then has this separate account just to ask everyone's fave color or movie whatever. like they always gotta come off cool.
i swear the only cool people who don't have to overcompensate so much has to be fire sign men who are never online.
Agree. Fire is masculine so it doesnāt have to prove itself.click to expand
i've seen earth sign men online endlessly brag (be it external possessions and or achievements or how they never make women too complacent by vetting) while water sign men either ride their coattails or criticize them. air sign men just talking about how they totally ignored some woman while describing her in detail.
but fire sign men just are.
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Eggrolls
Have dated both š because stoicism turns me on I guess. The coldness is an act for both but I will treat them very differently if theyāre being cold towards me.
that stoicism's only okay to read about in manhwa's but don't translate well in reality unless the women have some unresolved parental issues.
there's this aqua dude online who acts like he's too good for anyone to talk to except for this chick he's pursuing but then has this separate account just to ask everyone's fave color or movie whatever. like they always gotta come off cool.
i swear the only cool people who don't have to overcompensate so much has to be fire sign men who are never online.
Agree. Fire is masculine so it doesnāt have to prove itself.
i've seen earth sign men online endlessly brag (be it external possessions and or achievements or how they never make women too complacent by vetting) while water sign men either ride their coattails or criticize them. air sign men just talking about how they totally ignored some woman while describing her in detail.
but fire sign men just are.click to expand
I canāt imagine many fire sign men (especially fire dom) going online and fighting with women and whining about them)
Too action oriented
Posted by IceStormPosted by CDL
Cap men are warm and fuzzy when they really like some one
I second this.
Iāve known my sons dad 16 years and he still dotes on me and weāve been split for 5 years. He has a mushy cancer moon too though. Heās super warm and fuzzyclick to expand
maybe Scorpio/Cap are just more compatible.
but Scorpio women puts up with way too much crap from men from what i've seen of my Scorpio sun/Taurus moon aunt.
Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
Cap
I don't think Aquas are cold. I think Gems are cold if you like them more
How and what does that mean? I only ask just to see if I come off cold being unaware of it when someone like me more.
Posted by IceStormPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by IceStormPosted by CDLI second this.
Cap men are warm and fuzzy when they really like some one
Iāve known my sons dad 16 years and he still dotes on me and weāve been split for 5 years. He has a mushy cancer moon too though. Heās super warm and fuzzy
maybe Scorpio/Cap are just more compatible.
but Scorpio women puts up with way too much crap from men from what i've seen of my Scorpio sun/Taurus moon aunt.
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I donāt put up with anything LMAO hence the fact weāve been split for 5 years. I said he was mushy toward me, I didnāt say anything about me putting up with his antics.
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Yes that Cancer š is mushy ššš„°
Before you get to know them and manage to gain their trust: cap.
When you have gotten to know them and have gained their trust: aqua.
Just according to my experience.
When you have gotten to know them and have gained their trust: aqua.
Just according to my experience.
Posted by IceStormPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by IceStormPosted by virgoOPPPI donāt put up with anything LMAO hence the fact weāve been split for 5 years. I said he was mushy toward me, I didnāt say anything about me putting up with his antics.Posted by IceStormPosted by CDLI second this.
Cap men are warm and fuzzy when they really like some one
Iāve known my sons dad 16 years and he still dotes on me and weāve been split for 5 years. He has a mushy cancer moon too though. Heās super warm and fuzzy
maybe Scorpio/Cap are just more compatible.
but Scorpio women puts up with way too much crap from men from what i've seen of my Scorpio sun/Taurus moon aunt.
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Yes that Cancer š is mushy ššš„°
Yeah he loves the hell out of some IceStorm lol š
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Awwwww
Does he get physical with you? š„°
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Eggrollsthat stoicism's only okay to read about in manhwa's but don't translate well in reality unless the women have some unresolved parental issues.
Have dated both š because stoicism turns me on I guess. The coldness is an act for both but I will treat them very differently if theyāre being cold towards me.
there's this aqua dude online who acts like he's too good for anyone to talk to except for this chick he's pursuing but then has this separate account just to ask everyone's fave color or movie whatever. like they always gotta come off cool.
i swear the only cool people who don't have to overcompensate so much has to be fire sign men who are never online.
Agree. Fire is masculine so it doesnāt have to prove itself.
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i've seen earth sign men online endlessly brag (be it external possessions and or achievements or how they never make women too complacent by vetting) while water sign men either ride their coattails or criticize them. air sign men just talking about how they totally ignored some woman while describing her in detail.
but fire sign men just are.click to expand
yeah fuck earth sign mens
Posted by IceStormPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by IceStormPosted by CDL
Cap men are warm and fuzzy when they really like some one
I second this.
Iāve known my sons dad 16 years and he still dotes on me and weāve been split for 5 years. He has a mushy cancer moon too though. Heās super warm and fuzzy
maybe Scorpio/Cap are just more compatible.
but Scorpio women puts up with way too much crap from men from what i've seen of my Scorpio sun/Taurus moon aunt.
I donāt put up with anything LMAO hence the fact weāve been split for 5 years. I said he was mushy toward me, I didnāt say anything about me putting up with his antics.
Iām the one who left him, remember? š
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that's good. was mostly thinking about my aunt.
Posted by GoodBunnyPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShinei've seen earth sign men online endlessly brag (be it external possessions and or achievements or how they never make women too complacent by vetting) while water sign men either ride their coattails or criticize them. air sign men just talking about how they totally ignored some woman while describing her in detail.Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Eggrollsthat stoicism's only okay to read about in manhwa's but don't translate well in reality unless the women have some unresolved parental issues.
Have dated both š because stoicism turns me on I guess. The coldness is an act for both but I will treat them very differently if theyāre being cold towards me.
there's this aqua dude online who acts like he's too good for anyone to talk to except for this chick he's pursuing but then has this separate account just to ask everyone's fave color or movie whatever. like they always gotta come off cool.
i swear the only cool people who don't have to overcompensate so much has to be fire sign men who are never online.
Agree. Fire is masculine so it doesnāt have to prove itself.
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but fire sign men just are.
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yeah fuck earth sign mens
š Well Damn. LOL.
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Nah you're alright. I'm just applying the cliche, I'll ride your coattails instead.
Posted by HappyCapper
Before you get to know them and manage to gain their trust: cap.
When you have gotten to know them and have gained their trust: aqua.
Just according to my experience.
this probably. familiarity breeds contempt with aquas. i'm accidentally good friends with aquas prob simply coz i rarely reach out or communicate. no clinginess on my end when it comes to friendships.
but one time i was over at one of my Aqua friend house and she got into some argument with her Gemini mom who started throwing stuff around while my friend just coldly stood at the doorway and calmly told her: "dad told me not to give you extra money. your allowance should be enough." then she shuts the door and proceeds to browse tinder.
that was a total culture shock for me.
Posted by GoodBunnyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
Everyone is a simp these days š¤£
cap men simp for air signs
aqua men simp for pisces women
I must be the exception to the rule, because I can't get a aqua guy to date me to save my life, and I have had many crushes. š But I meet Caps every where.click to expand
i only have aquas in my life when they're straight women or gay men.
my bff is an aqua dude (super gay).
Posted by IceStormPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by IceStormPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by IceStormPosted by virgoOPPPI donāt put up with anything LMAO hence the fact weāve been split for 5 years. I said he was mushy toward me, I didnāt say anything about me putting up with his antics.Posted by IceStormPosted by CDLI second this.
Cap men are warm and fuzzy when they really like some one
Iāve known my sons dad 16 years and he still dotes on me and weāve been split for 5 years. He has a mushy cancer moon too though. Heās super warm and fuzzy
maybe Scorpio/Cap are just more compatible.
but Scorpio women puts up with way too much crap from men from what i've seen of my Scorpio sun/Taurus moon aunt.
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Yes that Cancer š is mushy ššš„°
Yeah he loves the hell out of some IceStorm lol š
Awwwww
Does he get physical with you? š„°
No nothing physical besides hugs for the last 5 years of course . We still give hugs goodbye just like any other family member but itās hands off, I am not his woman.
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Thatās same as Virgo and me
So good for our sons! šš„°
Posted by IceStormPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by IceStormYou go, girl! You wear that badge of honour! š¤£
Iām the one who left him, remember? š
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Well I mean, he did cheat on me.. so I had my reasons lol š¤·āāļø
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damn so cap men really out there cheating around. my cap ex cheated on me but now i'm weirdly thankful coz then I never would've met my spouse if he didn't drive me into red pill.
Posted by IceStormPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by IceStormPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by IceStormYou go, girl! You wear that badge of honour! š¤£
Iām the one who left him, remember? š
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Well I mean, he did cheat on me.. so I had my reasons lol š¤·āāļø
damn so cap men really out there cheating around. my cap ex cheated on me but now i'm weirdly thankful coz then I never would've met my spouse if he didn't drive me into red pill.
I think itās men in general (of any sign) that will cheat. This particular cap came from a family of men who cheat on their wives and the wives all stayed through it. I was the only one in the family who didnāt.. I think as the boys grow into men and see their dads cheat on their mothers, they think itās normal to cheat on the women they love and then the cycle repeats itself. I do believe my sons dad is sorry, heās done a lot of therapy over the years, heās a good dad and a good person in general. I know he felt neglected because of the baby and since he felt neglected, he sought attention elsewhere.
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mine told me he's a country boy and grew up somewhere where men regularly cheated on women (yes, even ugly men) and that was the norm. women would just turn a blind eye. apparently we're just really not compatible coz of that. oh well he did eventually get his fellow country gal pregnant only to abandon her 5 months into the pregnancy.
meanwhile, according to nurses the man i married knelt and prayed while i was in labor (and he's not a very religious man at all).
in the end, it turned out amazingly for me so some people really do bless us by fvcking up.
Posted by GoodBunnyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by GoodBunnyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
Everyone is a simp these days š¤£
cap men simp for air signs
aqua men simp for pisces women
I must be the exception to the rule, because I can't get a aqua guy to date me to save my life, and I have had many crushes. š But I meet Caps every where.
i only have aquas in my life when they're straight women or gay men.
my bff is an aqua dude (super gay).
Not even the gay Aqua men want to be my friend lol. I meet lots of aqua women, they are always really good at their jobs, and effortlessly so. I learn a lot from them when we work together.click to expand
I like aqua women. They come off very independent, confident and blunt.
Both are quite egotistical
Aqua bragging about how they are going to conquer/slay the world
Cap how wonderful they are at everything and how much theyāve achieved.
Aqua bragging about how they are going to conquer/slay the world
Cap how wonderful they are at everything and how much theyāve achieved.
Posted by CDLPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by CDL
Cap men are warm and fuzzy when they really like some one
maybe at first but i feel like cardinals in general are when they haven't reached their goal yet
Naaah, I've seen two cap men. One in his 60s still taking his wife out on dates every Friday and spoiling her rotten whenever he could. Another in his 30s, traveling the world and doing small and huge romantic gestures even after their marriage.
Both married to Taurus women, so I think if they feel you're a partner for life that can stand your own ground; they will love and value the relationship.click to expand
maybe they're more compatible. i used to work with an older lady (Taurus sun/Leo moon) whose husband died (apparently a Capricorn country boy) around the time we started working together. they had 3 sons and she was the one bringing home the bacon coz he didn't really know much about any type of work outside feeding pigs according to her.
from her account, they got along pretty well tho she did resent the financial aspect of the relationship but he apparently was pretty decent.
Posted by CDLPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by CDLmaybe at first but i feel like cardinals in general are when they haven't reached their goal yet
Cap men are warm and fuzzy when they really like some one
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Naaah, I've seen two cap men. One in his 60s still taking his wife out on dates every Friday and spoiling her rotten whenever he could. Another in his 30s, traveling the world and doing small and huge romantic gestures even after their marriage.
Both married to Taurus women, so I think if they feel you're a partner for life that can stand your own ground; they will love and value the relationship.click to expand
Yeah, look how Steve Harvey (Cap) treats his wife. He damn near worships her.
Aqua is much colder.
A Cappy will stay with you out of duty sometimes.
A Cappy will stay with you out of duty sometimes.
Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by CDLPosted by virgoOPPPNaaah, I've seen two cap men. One in his 60s still taking his wife out on dates every Friday and spoiling her rotten whenever he could. Another in his 30s, traveling the world and doing small and huge romantic gestures even after their marriage.Posted by CDLmaybe at first but i feel like cardinals in general are when they haven't reached their goal yet
Cap men are warm and fuzzy when they really like some one
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Both married to Taurus women, so I think if they feel you're a partner for life that can stand your own ground; they will love and value the relationship.
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Yeah, look how Steve Harvey (Cap) treats his wife. He damn near worships her.
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steve's so wholesome.
but overall, i still think it's always about compatibility.
my cap ex prob might be more compatible with a Libra in my opinion. coz sure as hell didn't work with me or the 2 pisces he got with before and after me. and that dude had pisces moon and just never happy with this axis.
but that Libra he cheated with (tho it wasn't her fault coz he lied about being single) was prob the most compatible with him. but tbh she deserves better than this guy.
Aqua are more interesting
Caps are cold, they don't wanna but it's their fate. Aquas aren't cold, they're wannabe cult leaders
Posted by CDLPosted by DonnaLibraPosted by CDLPosted by virgoOPPPNaaah, I've seen two cap men. One in his 60s still taking his wife out on dates every Friday and spoiling her rotten whenever he could. Another in his 30s, traveling the world and doing small and huge romantic gestures even after their marriage.Posted by CDLmaybe at first but i feel like cardinals in general are when they haven't reached their goal yet
Cap men are warm and fuzzy when they really like some one
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Both married to Taurus women, so I think if they feel you're a partner for life that can stand your own ground; they will love and value the relationship.
Yeah, look how Steve Harvey (Cap) treats his wife. He damn near worships her.
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I think she's one of the three women who owns that fancy Himalayan something Birkin bag. I'm sure Steve went through every connection in his roster to get it for herclick to expand
Yeah, she spoiled as hell.
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by DonnaLibraPosted by CDLYeah, look how Steve Harvey (Cap) treats his wife. He damn near worships her.Posted by virgoOPPPNaaah, I've seen two cap men. One in his 60s still taking his wife out on dates every Friday and spoiling her rotten whenever he could. Another in his 30s, traveling the world and doing small and huge romantic gestures even after their marriage.Posted by CDLmaybe at first but i feel like cardinals in general are when they haven't reached their goal yet
Cap men are warm and fuzzy when they really like some one
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Both married to Taurus women, so I think if they feel you're a partner for life that can stand your own ground; they will love and value the relationship.
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steve's so wholesome.
but overall, i still think it's always about compatibility.
my cap ex prob might be more compatible with a Libra in my opinion. coz sure as hell didn't work with me or the 2 pisces he got with before and after me. and that dude had pisces moon and just never happy with this axis.
but that Libra he cheated with (tho it wasn't her fault coz he lied about being single) was prob the most compatible with him. but tbh she deserves better than this guy.click to expand
I've never even met a Cap guy, I don't think. I really like Cap women.
Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by DonnaLibraPosted by CDLYeah, look how Steve Harvey (Cap) treats his wife. He damn near worships her.Posted by virgoOPPPNaaah, I've seen two cap men. One in his 60s still taking his wife out on dates every Friday and spoiling her rotten whenever he could. Another in his 30s, traveling the world and doing small and huge romantic gestures even after their marriage.Posted by CDLmaybe at first but i feel like cardinals in general are when they haven't reached their goal yet
Cap men are warm and fuzzy when they really like some one
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Both married to Taurus women, so I think if they feel you're a partner for life that can stand your own ground; they will love and value the relationship.
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steve's so wholesome.
but overall, i still think it's always about compatibility.
my cap ex prob might be more compatible with a Libra in my opinion. coz sure as hell didn't work with me or the 2 pisces he got with before and after me. and that dude had pisces moon and just never happy with this axis.
but that Libra he cheated with (tho it wasn't her fault coz he lied about being single) was prob the most compatible with him. but tbh she deserves better than this guy.
I've never even met a Cap guy, I don't think. I really like Cap women.click to expand
me too, cap women are usually very classy
Largely depends on the moon. My father was and bro is an Aqua with Pisces moon and they are softies. My co worker who I used to be close with is Cap with Pisces moon and while heās also sensitive, he makes very insensitive remarks at work to others. I wouldnāt pin that on astrology. Heās just from a rural area and lived an isolated life.
I think Aqua
I have seen grown ass Capricorn men cry talking about their daddy not giving them enough hugs. Also another who was away from their girlfriend on V Day.
I have seen grown ass Capricorn men cry talking about their daddy not giving them enough hugs. Also another who was away from their girlfriend on V Day.
Aqua men- cold. While it looks like Cap is icy on the outside, their duty to society makes them a touch warm.
But both are generally unapproachable and will never reach out to people. They are mc hammer- you can't touch them. š
But both are generally unapproachable and will never reach out to people. They are mc hammer- you can't touch them. š
Cap - itās more warm and cold. Cold when they arenāt feeling comfortable or warm when they do.
Aqua - romantically was never in a relationship, dated one that was pretty warm & turned jerk aka cold I guess. Another always cared about me, but we were friends that never turned into more, but there was chemistry. He was always warm. We just werenāt right for each other. Family & not romantic - my brother is very cold, his husband warm - so maybe depends on placements.. bro has a lot of air! Another brother is aqua & heās what Iād call distant not really cold or warm.
Aqua - romantically was never in a relationship, dated one that was pretty warm & turned jerk aka cold I guess. Another always cared about me, but we were friends that never turned into more, but there was chemistry. He was always warm. We just werenāt right for each other. Family & not romantic - my brother is very cold, his husband warm - so maybe depends on placements.. bro has a lot of air! Another brother is aqua & heās what Iād call distant not really cold or warm.
On a personal level Aquarius is colder or more detached. Cap man seems to fall into the paternal role easily. Yet, all signs ignore someone who is down and out and Aquarius invites them to stay with them - how to figure? I can remember my Aquarius Mom being more interested in the well-being of strangers than her own relatives.
The love is there it is just not a personal love.
The love is there it is just not a personal love.
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On a personal level Aquarius is colder or more detached. Cap man seems to fall into the paternal role easily. Yet, all signs ignore someone who is down and out and Aquarius invites them to stay with them - how to figure? I can remember my Aquarius Mom being more interested in the well-being of strangers than her own relatives.
The love is there it is just not a personal love.
why is this so true?
they're more caring of people outside their family.
I've found Aquarius men to be far more colder than Capricorn men.
From experience when I got the Aquarius guy(s) out of their head. For the
most part they were a bit more malleable in the feelings department. If they
don't have a water Ascendant or moon. They're f'ing iceboxes lol.
From experience when I got the Aquarius guy(s) out of their head. For the
most part they were a bit more malleable in the feelings department. If they
don't have a water Ascendant or moon. They're f'ing iceboxes lol.
Posted by cersei
Iām really confused on how ppl are meeting so many cold Aquas? Caps etc ? Like how do you guys define cold?
Joking aside, I have never met an Aqua or Cap that was the same. Iāve never met any sign exactly the same. Iāve met people with the same sun/moon and they are different.
Even though it can be fun to joke around and generalize ppl by their placements, I think ppl start to really believe it like these typical generalizations.
Aquas and caps are always ācoldā
Thatās not my experience. But I probably define cold differently.
To me ācoldā is someone who doesnāt care about anyone or anything, insensitive to others feelings, apathetic, and just a plain asshole
Iāve known of cold ppl in just about every sign/placement, not even joking. Even the stereotypical āwarm placementsā , the list can go on.
Casey Anthony was a Pisces sun Cancer moon. I mean she killed her own daughter, how much colder can you get? One of those psychopathic brothers who was on YouTube who went to Japan suicide forest and recorded and posted a dead body there was a Taurus moon.
Double pisces Richard Ramirez again how much more evil can a person get? Despite these sensitive placements, if you look up charts of ppl who have done vile things you can find stereotypical warm placements in there.
Scorpio can be pretty cold too. They are passionate but since they are so passionate they can also turn cold as ice if wronged. But not all Scorpio suns or moons are like that. There are different facets to the signs.
But some ppl describe cold as just inexpressive of emotions or ppl who hide them well. In that case then yes I would say Aqua and caps both can be that way. But in my experience the cold ppl Iāve known donāt even have those signs in their chart. I mean there definitely are, those signs are not known to be the most emotional. But I just feel people have biases towards these signs.
As someone who has Aqua placements this is always the stereotype I am faced with when someone scans my chart. Maybe Iām wrong and donāt see myself well, but I donāt feel like Iām cold at all, nor have I ever did. Ever since Iāve been into astrology and discovered Iām an Aqua moon and how much stuff on the internet says weāre cold it definitely makes me doubt who I am. Iāve had to get input around me from people close to me. Thatās not a word they use to describe me. Iām far from perfect but before I even knew about astrology I identified as very sensitive. I was a brat and I liked to pretend I was tough but I was very sensitive and emotional.
I know some people probably donāt mean harm in these generalizations, but I wish ppl would be more mindful on how much they dehumanize a sign and how it might hurt certain people. At least I feel ppl really into astrology should know not to do superficially judge by a placement
i'm sure most people don't. but astrology's partly generalizations isn't it? šæšæ
might as well be asking are you team mustard or team ranch?
Posted by cerseiPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by cersei
Iām really confused on how ppl are meeting so many cold Aquas? Caps etc ? Like how do you guys define cold?
Joking aside, I have never met an Aqua or Cap that was the same. Iāve never met any sign exactly the same. Iāve met people with the same sun/moon and they are different.
Even though it can be fun to joke around and generalize ppl by their placements, I think ppl start to really believe it like these typical generalizations.
Aquas and caps are always ācoldā
Thatās not my experience. But I probably define cold differently.
To me ācoldā is someone who doesnāt care about anyone or anything, insensitive to others feelings, apathetic, and just a plain asshole
Iāve known of cold ppl in just about every sign/placement, not even joking. Even the stereotypical āwarm placementsā , the list can go on.
Casey Anthony was a Pisces sun Cancer moon. I mean she killed her own daughter, how much colder can you get? One of those psychopathic brothers who was on YouTube who went to Japan suicide forest and recorded and posted a dead body there was a Taurus moon.
Double pisces Richard Ramirez again how much more evil can a person get? Despite these sensitive placements, if you look up charts of ppl who have done vile things you can find stereotypical warm placements in there.
Scorpio can be pretty cold too. They are passionate but since they are so passionate they can also turn cold as ice if wronged. But not all Scorpio suns or moons are like that. There are different facets to the signs.
But some ppl describe cold as just inexpressive of emotions or ppl who hide them well. In that case then yes I would say Aqua and caps both can be that way. But in my experience the cold ppl Iāve known donāt even have those signs in their chart. I mean there definitely are, those signs are not known to be the most emotional. But I just feel people have biases towards these signs.
As someone who has Aqua placements this is always the stereotype I am faced with when someone scans my chart. Maybe Iām wrong and donāt see myself well, but I donāt feel like Iām cold at all, nor have I ever did. Ever since Iāve been into astrology and discovered Iām an Aqua moon and how much stuff on the internet says weāre cold it definitely makes me doubt who I am. Iāve had to get input around me from people close to me. Thatās not a word they use to describe me. Iām far from perfect but before I even knew about astrology I identified as very sensitive. I was a brat and I liked to pretend I was tough but I was very sensitive and emotional.
I know some people probably donāt mean harm in these generalizations, but I wish ppl would be more mindful on how much they dehumanize a sign and how it might hurt certain people. At least I feel ppl really into astrology should know not to do superficially judge by a placement
i'm sure most people don't. but astrology's partly generalizations isn't it? šæšæ
might as well be asking are you team mustard or team ranch?
I mean itās fine if itās light hearted. Im not trying to say that can be completely avoided and Iām not targeting your post but more the ppl who speak more matter of factly about a sign. And I just feel like itās more messed up when it comes to this dehumanizing of someone.
Ppl have gotten to the point where they pre judge someone without knowing them based on their placements. Thatās not what any good astrologer would do. They wouldnāt go to someoneās chart and be like āoh this person is a cap so they must be coldā. Without even knowing them. If an astrologer is good they do not look at the sign only
Like ppl sometimes make generalizations or jokes about Pisces being serial killers but that doesnāt bother me as much because there are good things ppl say about them too. Thereās a balance. When it comes to Aquas and Caps itās like the only personality trait they think they have is cold and stoic. And ppl state it so certainly. Thatās like if ppl only were to say Virgos were perfectionists like they have no other personality? Like they are more than that.
Idk itās just a me problem. Iām just tired of these same things being said. I just feel like itās the biggest insult to call any sign cold cause thatās like the worst thing a person could beclick to expand
i agree with you and your sign is probably one of the luckier ones along with scorpio. reading mine don't exactly attract me to astrology šš but I'm prob much more used to it than you since as you said, yours are usually balanced.
always with the Virgos standards when literally some Virgos out there so chaotic and dating the messiest of men.
wait, how did i miss this thread? lol š
i wanna submit observations and experiences lol i actually donāt have much to say about aqua dudes because i havenāt dealt with them super closely so iāll just focus on capricorn.
i wonāt touch on unevolved capricorns right now since other people have done so already š so i wanna put the spotlight on their more misunderstood qualities?
i wanna talk about what this ācoldnessā might actually be. not in all cases but in some.
soā¦..iāve been pondering ways to have a better relationship with my capricorn dad who can be kinda ācoldā and āstiffā but iām starting to sorta see that maybe he just expresses love differently than other people might?
his form of love might possibly be these following things:
-tough love.
- harsh discipline to teach a lesson and making sure the lesson sticks the first time around. (harsh but i wouldnāt say abusive)
-taking on the role of bad guy, making people uncomfortable in order to get a message across or in order to get to the bottom of things.
-giving lectures he thinks would be helpful to you.
-presenting harsh realities to his kids so they wonāt be hurt later on.
-showing you practical ways to do things.
theyāre not the best at showing vulnerability.
so thatās probably what makes them come off as ācoldā. i know that my dad cares but heās just not a āheyyyy look at my vulnerabilityš¤Ŗā type of guy. his upbringing may have had a lot to do with it as well ? but yeah.
just kinda wanted to offer some *possible* explanations behind this ācoldnessā thing lol
i wanna submit observations and experiences lol i actually donāt have much to say about aqua dudes because i havenāt dealt with them super closely so iāll just focus on capricorn.
i wonāt touch on unevolved capricorns right now since other people have done so already š so i wanna put the spotlight on their more misunderstood qualities?
i wanna talk about what this ācoldnessā might actually be. not in all cases but in some.
soā¦..iāve been pondering ways to have a better relationship with my capricorn dad who can be kinda ācoldā and āstiffā but iām starting to sorta see that maybe he just expresses love differently than other people might?
his form of love might possibly be these following things:
-tough love.
- harsh discipline to teach a lesson and making sure the lesson sticks the first time around. (harsh but i wouldnāt say abusive)
-taking on the role of bad guy, making people uncomfortable in order to get a message across or in order to get to the bottom of things.
-giving lectures he thinks would be helpful to you.
-presenting harsh realities to his kids so they wonāt be hurt later on.
-showing you practical ways to do things.
theyāre not the best at showing vulnerability.
so thatās probably what makes them come off as ācoldā. i know that my dad cares but heās just not a āheyyyy look at my vulnerabilityš¤Ŗā type of guy. his upbringing may have had a lot to do with it as well ? but yeah.
just kinda wanted to offer some *possible* explanations behind this ācoldnessā thing lol
tomorrow (cuz i gotta go right now), i wanna elaborate on the āsense of dutyā thing that someone here mentioned. itās a trait seen in *evolved* capricorn energy. i have an interesting story to go with it.
ok, a story about a capricornās strange āsense of dutyā for anyone thatās interested:
i met a capricorn dude (1/14) in summer sports camp when i was 12. he was a year older. we had to get into groups of two for canoeing and he looked at me and was like āyou wanna be a group?ā and i was like āyeah sureā and that was the beginning of our friendship.
after the camp, we kept in touch by sending hand written christmas cards and birthday cards to each other every year (i know itās sappy as shit but we were kids š) for the next five years until he went into the german military (bundeswehr) at 18. he was from munich originally. after that, we lost touch for many years.
at one point, i tried looking for his social media by typing his full name in search bars and stuff but i couldnāt find anything so i was just like i hope heās happy and thriving somewhere on this earthā¦
and just went on with my life thinking i wasnāt gonna hear from him again.
but thenā¦..fast forward to 2018, he found me on instagram. heās out of the military and now has a wife and a daughter. i was soooo freaking ecstatic that he was alive and even had a family of his own. he had me thinking he was dead this whole damn time.
anyway, my point is,
his weird sense of duty kept him writing those birthday/christmas cards for five years in a row š any other dude woulda been done after the first year, if even that š after three years, even i was thinking, ā i wonder if he feels pressure to keep writing? should i tell him he doesnāt have to?ā š but my intuition or whatever told me to keep writing and i later asked him (when we reunited in 2018) if his intuition told him the same thing and he said that he doesnāt really know much about intuition and all that stuff but he liked writing the cards cuz it was like a āroutineā for him.
he said he went through a lot of emotional ups and downs in his teen years and so, doing something familiar and being connected to someone familiar who wasnāt in his immediate surroundings was apparently like comforting in a way for him.
i met a capricorn dude (1/14) in summer sports camp when i was 12. he was a year older. we had to get into groups of two for canoeing and he looked at me and was like āyou wanna be a group?ā and i was like āyeah sureā and that was the beginning of our friendship.
after the camp, we kept in touch by sending hand written christmas cards and birthday cards to each other every year (i know itās sappy as shit but we were kids š) for the next five years until he went into the german military (bundeswehr) at 18. he was from munich originally. after that, we lost touch for many years.
at one point, i tried looking for his social media by typing his full name in search bars and stuff but i couldnāt find anything so i was just like i hope heās happy and thriving somewhere on this earthā¦
and just went on with my life thinking i wasnāt gonna hear from him again.
but thenā¦..fast forward to 2018, he found me on instagram. heās out of the military and now has a wife and a daughter. i was soooo freaking ecstatic that he was alive and even had a family of his own. he had me thinking he was dead this whole damn time.
anyway, my point is,
his weird sense of duty kept him writing those birthday/christmas cards for five years in a row š any other dude woulda been done after the first year, if even that š after three years, even i was thinking, ā i wonder if he feels pressure to keep writing? should i tell him he doesnāt have to?ā š but my intuition or whatever told me to keep writing and i later asked him (when we reunited in 2018) if his intuition told him the same thing and he said that he doesnāt really know much about intuition and all that stuff but he liked writing the cards cuz it was like a āroutineā for him.
he said he went through a lot of emotional ups and downs in his teen years and so, doing something familiar and being connected to someone familiar who wasnāt in his immediate surroundings was apparently like comforting in a way for him.
so i guess it was like his sense of duty towards a routine combined with his long attention span (cuz you canāt continue writing cards to someone for many years with a short attention span) so i dunno . heās always had an unusually long attention span even at camp when we were doing jigsaw puzzles and stuff
now, as a husband and a father, heās the type of dude who puts his family first. heās always talking about doing this and that activity with his family. š
now, as a husband and a father, heās the type of dude who puts his family first. heās always talking about doing this and that activity with his family. š
as for unevolved ācoldā capricorn,
i certainly do hear stories of unevolved capricorn folks being super opportunistic, disloyal, using people for a ācome upā š (using people to rise to the top), being controlling, going on power-tripping sprees š, being super judgemental of others but not holding themselves to the same standards, being a pessimistic downer, huge fragile egos, wonāt listen to anyone, thinks he knows best and is above everyone etc
just avoid those ones and get you one that was raised right lol i always tell women to go for dudes who have a sense of responsibility. watch how he lives his life. is he all over place? is he always making excuses? is he arrogant? this is more important than anything else.
there are dudes out there who still hold traditional values.
i certainly do hear stories of unevolved capricorn folks being super opportunistic, disloyal, using people for a ācome upā š (using people to rise to the top), being controlling, going on power-tripping sprees š, being super judgemental of others but not holding themselves to the same standards, being a pessimistic downer, huge fragile egos, wonāt listen to anyone, thinks he knows best and is above everyone etc
just avoid those ones and get you one that was raised right lol i always tell women to go for dudes who have a sense of responsibility. watch how he lives his life. is he all over place? is he always making excuses? is he arrogant? this is more important than anything else.
there are dudes out there who still hold traditional values.
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so i guess it was like his sense of duty towards a routine combined with his long attention span (cuz you canāt continue writing cards to someone for many years with a short attention span) so i dunno . heās always had an unusually long attention span even at camp when we were doing jigsaw puzzles and stuff
now, as a husband and a father, heās the type of dude who puts his family first. heās always talking about doing this and that activity with his family. š
caps fulfill their material obligations but have zero contribution to both emotional and spiritual aspects.
Posted by serenidad
so i guess it was like his sense of duty towards a routine combined with his long attention span (cuz you canāt continue writing cards to someone for many years with a short attention span) so i dunno . heās always had an unusually long attention span even at camp when we were doing jigsaw puzzles and stuff
now, as a husband and a father, heās the type of dude who puts his family first. heās always talking about doing this and that activity with his family. š
I agree with you in regards to "family first" I enjoy reading what you post. The Capricorn I know is down to earth. He is very caring, it might not appear on his face but his actions say it all and I'm okay with it. We talk about our spiritual experiences all the time. He is very open with me. I have seen him cry at a funeral, and I could not help but give him a big hug. It did not make him uncomfortable at all. He is very traditional and a great friend.
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