Gemini says we need talk...

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Posted by MadTwins80

On the limited info you give , I would say it's a big deal

We talk a lot naturally and we don't need to schedule it 😂 so if he has to announce and plan a TALK you know it has to be something big

He either is going to break up with you or say that you need to make major changes in your relationship imo



Lol yes y’all definitely talk a lot but the context of the conversation depends on the person. He said to trust him, it’s about us and kept saying us and we’ll talk so it didn’t change to him or me, you know?
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On the limited info you give , I would say it's a big deal

We talk a lot naturally and we don't need to schedule it 😂 so if he has to announce and plan a TALK you know it has to be something big

He either is going to break up with you or say that you need to make major changes in your relationship imo

Lol yes y’all definitely talk a lot but the context of the conversation depends on the person. He said to trust him, it’s about us and kept saying us and we’ll talk so it didn’t change to him or me, you know?

What is it about then? I need to know now 😂 Maybe he wants you to move away with him - that would be gemini style
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That’s what I think it is too, cause he’s starting to be more n more sensitive. Then for him to say I apologize for the way I been acting and be patient with me. He doesn’t do that.
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On the limited info you give , I would say it's a big deal

We talk a lot naturally and we don't need to schedule it 😂 so if he has to announce and plan a TALK you know it has to be something big

He either is going to break up with you or say that you need to make major changes in your relationship imo

Lol yes y’all definitely talk a lot but the context of the conversation depends on the person. He said to trust him, it’s about us and kept saying us and we’ll talk so it didn’t change to him or me, you know?

What is it about then? I need to know now 😂 Maybe he wants you to move away with him - that would be gemini style
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Apparently he’s building something...
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On the limited info you give , I would say it's a big deal

We talk a lot naturally and we don't need to schedule it 😂 so if he has to announce and plan a TALK you know it has to be something big

He either is going to break up with you or say that you need to make major changes in your relationship imo

Lol yes y’all definitely talk a lot but the context of the conversation depends on the person. He said to trust him, it’s about us and kept saying us and we’ll talk so it didn’t change to him or me, you know?

What is it about then? I need to know now 😂 Maybe he wants you to move away with him - that would be gemini style

Apparently he’s building something...

Interesting...
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Very much so
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Did he ask to have this talk in public?

He sure did.

Ooof

My mind would instantly think he wants to break up and is choosing the safety of a public place to avoid a big blowup. But I guess your only option is to show up and see what happens.
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When you said public place I thought you meant face to face. He didn’t say in public, he said face to face.
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I’m thinking he has a good surprise for you.

Yeah I’m starting to think so as well, I’m such a overthinker ugh
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Happened to me recently. I’m an overthinker as well and became worried recently. Turned out my bf was playing a joke on me which he thought was so funny that he even bought a fake snake.... sooo don’t stress!! It’s probably nothing bad.
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I’m thinking he has a good surprise for you.

Yeah I’m starting to think so as well, I’m such a overthinker ugh

Happened to me recently. I’m an overthinker as well and became worried recently. Turned out my bf was playing a joke on me which he thought was so funny that he even bought a fake snake.... sooo don’t stress!! It’s probably nothing bad.
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Smh see they can be so evil at times ugh, did he say y’all had to talk to? Your right cause we have yet to have the talk so...
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I’m thinking he has a good surprise for you.

Yeah I’m starting to think so as well, I’m such a overthinker ugh

Happened to me recently. I’m an overthinker as well and became worried recently. Turned out my bf was playing a joke on me which he thought was so funny that he even bought a fake snake.... sooo don’t stress!! It’s probably nothing bad.

Smh see they can be so evil at times ugh, did he say y’all had to talk to? Your right cause we have yet to have the talk so...
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When are u going to meet to talk? No, it all started because he has two showers in his house and we use different ones. (I don’t live there) I noticed my shampoo and conditioner were being used, but they were in my shower, not his. So I questioned him and it was him!! He said he loved them because it made his hair so soft and he was laughing so much in a guilty way! I don’t care he used them, but he was hiding it which is actually funny. Then over the last two months my things kept going missing in his house. Only things I didn’t use... I questioned him about it and he said he didn’t know. When I finally got upset about everything thinking someone was coming into his house he put everything back under the sink and bought a fake snake. He thought this was so funny!! He’s a jokester lol little immature at times lol
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I’m thinking he has a good surprise for you.

Yeah I’m starting to think so as well, I’m such a overthinker ugh

Happened to me recently. I’m an overthinker as well and became worried recently. Turned out my bf was playing a joke on me which he thought was so funny that he even bought a fake snake.... sooo don’t stress!! It’s probably nothing bad.

Smh see they can be so evil at times ugh, did he say y’all had to talk to? Your right cause we have yet to have the talk so...

When are u going to meet to talk? No, it all started because he has two showers in his house and we use different ones. (I don’t live there) I noticed my shampoo and conditioner were being used, but they were in my shower, not his. So I questioned him and it was him!! He said he loved them because it made his hair so soft and he was laughing so much in a guilty way! I don’t care he used them, but he was hiding it which is actually funny. Then over the last two months my things kept going missing in his house. Only things I didn’t use... I questioned him about it and he said he didn’t know. When I finally got upset about everything thinking someone was coming into his house he put everything back under the sink and bought a fake snake. He thought this was so funny!! He’s a jokester lol little immature at times lol
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Lol omg yeah I would have thought the same thing. A similar incident happened with a sweater of mines. That’s what I want to know, I’m starting to think he really didn’t want to talk shoot
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I’m thinking he has a good surprise for you.

Yeah I’m starting to think so as well, I’m such a overthinker ugh

Happened to me recently. I’m an overthinker as well and became worried recently. Turned out my bf was playing a joke on me which he thought was so funny that he even bought a fake snake.... sooo don’t stress!! It’s probably nothing bad.

Smh see they can be so evil at times ugh, did he say y’all had to talk to? Your right cause we have yet to have the talk so...

When are u going to meet to talk? No, it all started because he has two showers in his house and we use different ones. (I don’t live there) I noticed my shampoo and conditioner were being used, but they were in my shower, not his. So I questioned him and it was him!! He said he loved them because it made his hair so soft and he was laughing so much in a guilty way! I don’t care he used them, but he was hiding it which is actually funny. Then over the last two months my things kept going missing in his house. Only things I didn’t use... I questioned him about it and he said he didn’t know. When I finally got upset about everything thinking someone was coming into his house he put everything back under the sink and bought a fake snake. He thought this was so funny!! He’s a jokester lol little immature at times lol

Lol omg yeah I would have thought the same thing. A similar incident happened with a sweater of mines. That’s what I want to know, I’m starting to think he really didn’t want to talk shoot
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It’s definitely a possibility!!
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I’m thinking he has a good surprise for you.

Yeah I’m starting to think so as well, I’m such a overthinker ugh

Happened to me recently. I’m an overthinker as well and became worried recently. Turned out my bf was playing a joke on me which he thought was so funny that he even bought a fake snake.... sooo don’t stress!! It’s probably nothing bad.

Smh see they can be so evil at times ugh, did he say y’all had to talk to? Your right cause we have yet to have the talk so...

When are u going to meet to talk? No, it all started because he has two showers in his house and we use different ones. (I don’t live there) I noticed my shampoo and conditioner were being used, but they were in my shower, not his. So I questioned him and it was him!! He said he loved them because it made his hair so soft and he was laughing so much in a guilty way! I don’t care he used them, but he was hiding it which is actually funny. Then over the last two months my things kept going missing in his house. Only things I didn’t use... I questioned him about it and he said he didn’t know. When I finally got upset about everything thinking someone was coming into his house he put everything back under the sink and bought a fake snake. He thought this was so funny!! He’s a jokester lol little immature at times lol

Lol omg yeah I would have thought the same thing. A similar incident happened with a sweater of mines. That’s what I want to know, I’m starting to think he really didn’t want to talk shoot

It’s definitely a possibility!!
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He just said he’s been straightening things out, that we will talk tomorrow👀
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I’m thinking he has a good surprise for you.

Yeah I’m starting to think so as well, I’m such a overthinker ugh

Happened to me recently. I’m an overthinker as well and became worried recently. Turned out my bf was playing a joke on me which he thought was so funny that he even bought a fake snake.... sooo don’t stress!! It’s probably nothing bad.

Smh see they can be so evil at times ugh, did he say y’all had to talk to? Your right cause we have yet to have the talk so...

When are u going to meet to talk? No, it all started because he has two showers in his house and we use different ones. (I don’t live there) I noticed my shampoo and conditioner were being used, but they were in my shower, not his. So I questioned him and it was him!! He said he loved them because it made his hair so soft and he was laughing so much in a guilty way! I don’t care he used them, but he was hiding it which is actually funny. Then over the last two months my things kept going missing in his house. Only things I didn’t use... I questioned him about it and he said he didn’t know. When I finally got upset about everything thinking someone was coming into his house he put everything back under the sink and bought a fake snake. He thought this was so funny!! He’s a jokester lol little immature at times lol

Lol omg yeah I would have thought the same thing. A similar incident happened with a sweater of mines. That’s what I want to know, I’m starting to think he really didn’t want to talk shoot

It’s definitely a possibility!!

He just said he’s been straightening things out, that we will talk tomorrow👀

damn it's about time

what an unnecessary suspense *roll eyes*
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Exactly I’m just like whew, some sort of relief.
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I’m thinking he has a good surprise for you.

Yeah I’m starting to think so as well, I’m such a overthinker ugh

Happened to me recently. I’m an overthinker as well and became worried recently. Turned out my bf was playing a joke on me which he thought was so funny that he even bought a fake snake.... sooo don’t stress!! It’s probably nothing bad.

Smh see they can be so evil at times ugh, did he say y’all had to talk to? Your right cause we have yet to have the talk so...

When are u going to meet to talk? No, it all started because he has two showers in his house and we use different ones. (I don’t live there) I noticed my shampoo and conditioner were being used, but they were in my shower, not his. So I questioned him and it was him!! He said he loved them because it made his hair so soft and he was laughing so much in a guilty way! I don’t care he used them, but he was hiding it which is actually funny. Then over the last two months my things kept going missing in his house. Only things I didn’t use... I questioned him about it and he said he didn’t know. When I finally got upset about everything thinking someone was coming into his house he put everything back under the sink and bought a fake snake. He thought this was so funny!! He’s a jokester lol little immature at times lol

Lol omg yeah I would have thought the same thing. A similar incident happened with a sweater of mines. That’s what I want to know, I’m starting to think he really didn’t want to talk shoot

It’s definitely a possibility!!

He just said he’s been straightening things out, that we will talk tomorrow👀
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That wouldn’t fly with me. I’d call him up so fast and demand to know at least what it’s about. That’s not cool.
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Good day for the windmills

You think so? Why?

"We need to talk" means you have both twins in the room. It means play is on pause. If both twins are present, we've come to a decision and it'll be hard to change our mind.

Geminis might be playful but we're also observant. We let it slide a few times, maybe tell you directly/indirectly what bothers us. A slow pull start from the second offense until we no longer appreciate the connection, when your intention is nothing but a negative pattern. We'll accomodate given we're a mutuable. We've already started the healing process once the defense mechanism comes on the second offense occurred.

It's not that we're unpredictable, we just try to cope and sometimes that can come out so raw especially to those close to us.
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So in your opinion is that a break up or something else?
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Good day for the windmills

You think so? Why?

"We need to talk" means you have both twins in the room. It means play is on pause. If both twins are present, we've come to a decision and it'll be hard to change our mind.

Geminis might be playful but we're also observant. We let it slide a few times, maybe tell you directly/indirectly what bothers us. A slow pull start from the second offense until we no longer appreciate the connection, when your intention is nothing but a negative pattern. We'll accomodate given we're a mutuable. We've already started the healing process once the defense mechanism comes on the second offense occurred.

It's not that we're unpredictable, we just try to cope and sometimes that can come out so raw especially to those close to us.

So in your opinion is that a break up or something else?

A fallout. There's hope though.
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Fallout as in it can be repaired? Just want to make sure I’m clear
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Good day for the windmills

You think so? Why?

"We need to talk" means you have both twins in the room. It means play is on pause. If both twins are present, we've come to a decision and it'll be hard to change our mind.

Geminis might be playful but we're also observant. We let it slide a few times, maybe tell you directly/indirectly what bothers us. A slow pull start from the second offense until we no longer appreciate the connection, when your intention is nothing but a negative pattern. We'll accomodate given we're a mutuable. We've already started the healing process once the defense mechanism comes on the second offense occurred.

It's not that we're unpredictable, we just try to cope and sometimes that can come out so raw especially to those close to us.

So in your opinion is that a break up or something else?

A fallout. There's hope though.

Fallout as in it can be repaired? Just want to make sure I’m clear

Sure. All depends on the severity and willingness of all participants to make an effort to remedy the situation. If we're beat and run out of strikes though, we can't go back to the same space. We'll seek neutral ground.
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He was just like he’s been straightening things out on his end, it’s been a lot going on about financial issues, etc.
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Good day for the windmills

You think so? Why?

"We need to talk" means you have both twins in the room. It means play is on pause. If both twins are present, we've come to a decision and it'll be hard to change our mind.

Geminis might be playful but we're also observant. We let it slide a few times, maybe tell you directly/indirectly what bothers us. A slow pull start from the second offense until we no longer appreciate the connection, when your intention is nothing but a negative pattern. We'll accomodate given we're a mutuable. We've already started the healing process once the defense mechanism comes on the second offense occurred.

It's not that we're unpredictable, we just try to cope and sometimes that can come out so raw especially to those close to us.

So in your opinion is that a break up or something else?

A fallout. There's hope though.

Fallout as in it can be repaired? Just want to make sure I’m clear

Sure. All depends on the severity and willingness of all participants to make an effort to remedy the situation. If we're beat and run out of strikes though, we can't go back to the same space. We'll seek neutral ground.

He was just like he’s been straightening things out on his end, it’s been a lot going on about financial issues, etc.

Space and support.
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So no breakup, what you just said?