I asked what about and he says it’s about us, we’ll talk. I apologize for the way I been acting, be a little patient with me please. Can someone break this down please?
Gemini says we need talk...

There's not enough context here to even try and decipher what that means.... let alone coming from a Gemini lol

You’re apologizing before the talk. Seems like you already know what it’s about.

Posted by MadTwins80Posted by pinkbird03
You’re apologizing before the talk. Seems like you already know what it’s about.
I think the gemini said that partclick to expand
Ooo lol reading this at 3am 😬
Posted by pinkbird03
You’re apologizing before the talk. Seems like you already know what it’s about.
I didn’t apologize, he did.
Posted by MadTwins80
On the limited info you give , I would say it's a big deal
We talk a lot naturally and we don't need to schedule it 😂 so if he has to announce and plan a TALK you know it has to be something big
He either is going to break up with you or say that you need to make major changes in your relationship imo
Lol yes y’all definitely talk a lot but the context of the conversation depends on the person. He said to trust him, it’s about us and kept saying us and we’ll talk so it didn’t change to him or me, you know?
Posted by MadTwins80Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by MadTwins80
On the limited info you give , I would say it's a big deal
We talk a lot naturally and we don't need to schedule it 😂 so if he has to announce and plan a TALK you know it has to be something big
He either is going to break up with you or say that you need to make major changes in your relationship imo
Lol yes y’all definitely talk a lot but the context of the conversation depends on the person. He said to trust him, it’s about us and kept saying us and we’ll talk so it didn’t change to him or me, you know?
What is it about then? I need to know now 😂 Maybe he wants you to move away with him - that would be gemini styleclick to expand
That’s what I think it is too, cause he’s starting to be more n more sensitive. Then for him to say I apologize for the way I been acting and be patient with me. He doesn’t do that.
Posted by MadTwins80Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by MadTwins80
On the limited info you give , I would say it's a big deal
We talk a lot naturally and we don't need to schedule it 😂 so if he has to announce and plan a TALK you know it has to be something big
He either is going to break up with you or say that you need to make major changes in your relationship imo
Lol yes y’all definitely talk a lot but the context of the conversation depends on the person. He said to trust him, it’s about us and kept saying us and we’ll talk so it didn’t change to him or me, you know?
What is it about then? I need to know now 😂 Maybe he wants you to move away with him - that would be gemini styleclick to expand
Apparently he’s building something...

Did he ask to have this talk in public?
Posted by LadyNeptune
Did he ask to have this talk in public?
He sure did.
Posted by MadTwins80Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by MadTwins80Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by MadTwins80
On the limited info you give , I would say it's a big deal
We talk a lot naturally and we don't need to schedule it 😂 so if he has to announce and plan a TALK you know it has to be something big
He either is going to break up with you or say that you need to make major changes in your relationship imo
Lol yes y’all definitely talk a lot but the context of the conversation depends on the person. He said to trust him, it’s about us and kept saying us and we’ll talk so it didn’t change to him or me, you know?
What is it about then? I need to know now 😂 Maybe he wants you to move away with him - that would be gemini style
Apparently he’s building something...
Interesting...click to expand
Very much so

I’m thinking he has a good surprise for you.
Posted by Moon_River
Pack yo bags
Pack them as far as?
Posted by pinkbird03
I’m thinking he has a good surprise for you.
Yeah I’m starting to think so as well, I’m such a overthinker ugh

Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by LadyNeptune
Did he ask to have this talk in public?
He sure did.click to expand
Ooof
My mind would instantly think he wants to break up and is choosing the safety of a public place to avoid a big blowup. But I guess your only option is to show up and see what happens.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Brickhouse27Posted by LadyNeptune
Did he ask to have this talk in public?
He sure did.
Ooof
My mind would instantly think he wants to break up and is choosing the safety of a public place to avoid a big blowup. But I guess your only option is to show up and see what happens.click to expand
When you said public place I thought you meant face to face. He didn’t say in public, he said face to face.

Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by pinkbird03
I’m thinking he has a good surprise for you.
Yeah I’m starting to think so as well, I’m such a overthinker ughclick to expand
Happened to me recently. I’m an overthinker as well and became worried recently. Turned out my bf was playing a joke on me which he thought was so funny that he even bought a fake snake.... sooo don’t stress!! It’s probably nothing bad.
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by pinkbird03
I’m thinking he has a good surprise for you.
Yeah I’m starting to think so as well, I’m such a overthinker ugh
Happened to me recently. I’m an overthinker as well and became worried recently. Turned out my bf was playing a joke on me which he thought was so funny that he even bought a fake snake.... sooo don’t stress!! It’s probably nothing bad.click to expand
Smh see they can be so evil at times ugh, did he say y’all had to talk to? Your right cause we have yet to have the talk so...

Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by pinkbird03
I’m thinking he has a good surprise for you.
Yeah I’m starting to think so as well, I’m such a overthinker ugh
Happened to me recently. I’m an overthinker as well and became worried recently. Turned out my bf was playing a joke on me which he thought was so funny that he even bought a fake snake.... sooo don’t stress!! It’s probably nothing bad.
Smh see they can be so evil at times ugh, did he say y’all had to talk to? Your right cause we have yet to have the talk so...click to expand
When are u going to meet to talk? No, it all started because he has two showers in his house and we use different ones. (I don’t live there) I noticed my shampoo and conditioner were being used, but they were in my shower, not his. So I questioned him and it was him!! He said he loved them because it made his hair so soft and he was laughing so much in a guilty way! I don’t care he used them, but he was hiding it which is actually funny. Then over the last two months my things kept going missing in his house. Only things I didn’t use... I questioned him about it and he said he didn’t know. When I finally got upset about everything thinking someone was coming into his house he put everything back under the sink and bought a fake snake. He thought this was so funny!! He’s a jokester lol little immature at times lol
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by pinkbird03
I’m thinking he has a good surprise for you.
Yeah I’m starting to think so as well, I’m such a overthinker ugh
Happened to me recently. I’m an overthinker as well and became worried recently. Turned out my bf was playing a joke on me which he thought was so funny that he even bought a fake snake.... sooo don’t stress!! It’s probably nothing bad.
Smh see they can be so evil at times ugh, did he say y’all had to talk to? Your right cause we have yet to have the talk so...
When are u going to meet to talk? No, it all started because he has two showers in his house and we use different ones. (I don’t live there) I noticed my shampoo and conditioner were being used, but they were in my shower, not his. So I questioned him and it was him!! He said he loved them because it made his hair so soft and he was laughing so much in a guilty way! I don’t care he used them, but he was hiding it which is actually funny. Then over the last two months my things kept going missing in his house. Only things I didn’t use... I questioned him about it and he said he didn’t know. When I finally got upset about everything thinking someone was coming into his house he put everything back under the sink and bought a fake snake. He thought this was so funny!! He’s a jokester lol little immature at times lolclick to expand
Lol omg yeah I would have thought the same thing. A similar incident happened with a sweater of mines. That’s what I want to know, I’m starting to think he really didn’t want to talk shoot

Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by pinkbird03
I’m thinking he has a good surprise for you.
Yeah I’m starting to think so as well, I’m such a overthinker ugh
Happened to me recently. I’m an overthinker as well and became worried recently. Turned out my bf was playing a joke on me which he thought was so funny that he even bought a fake snake.... sooo don’t stress!! It’s probably nothing bad.
Smh see they can be so evil at times ugh, did he say y’all had to talk to? Your right cause we have yet to have the talk so...
When are u going to meet to talk? No, it all started because he has two showers in his house and we use different ones. (I don’t live there) I noticed my shampoo and conditioner were being used, but they were in my shower, not his. So I questioned him and it was him!! He said he loved them because it made his hair so soft and he was laughing so much in a guilty way! I don’t care he used them, but he was hiding it which is actually funny. Then over the last two months my things kept going missing in his house. Only things I didn’t use... I questioned him about it and he said he didn’t know. When I finally got upset about everything thinking someone was coming into his house he put everything back under the sink and bought a fake snake. He thought this was so funny!! He’s a jokester lol little immature at times lol
Lol omg yeah I would have thought the same thing. A similar incident happened with a sweater of mines. That’s what I want to know, I’m starting to think he really didn’t want to talk shootclick to expand
It’s definitely a possibility!!
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by pinkbird03
I’m thinking he has a good surprise for you.
Yeah I’m starting to think so as well, I’m such a overthinker ugh
Happened to me recently. I’m an overthinker as well and became worried recently. Turned out my bf was playing a joke on me which he thought was so funny that he even bought a fake snake.... sooo don’t stress!! It’s probably nothing bad.
Smh see they can be so evil at times ugh, did he say y’all had to talk to? Your right cause we have yet to have the talk so...
When are u going to meet to talk? No, it all started because he has two showers in his house and we use different ones. (I don’t live there) I noticed my shampoo and conditioner were being used, but they were in my shower, not his. So I questioned him and it was him!! He said he loved them because it made his hair so soft and he was laughing so much in a guilty way! I don’t care he used them, but he was hiding it which is actually funny. Then over the last two months my things kept going missing in his house. Only things I didn’t use... I questioned him about it and he said he didn’t know. When I finally got upset about everything thinking someone was coming into his house he put everything back under the sink and bought a fake snake. He thought this was so funny!! He’s a jokester lol little immature at times lol
Lol omg yeah I would have thought the same thing. A similar incident happened with a sweater of mines. That’s what I want to know, I’m starting to think he really didn’t want to talk shoot
It’s definitely a possibility!!click to expand
He just said he’s been straightening things out, that we will talk tomorrow👀
Posted by zandomenicaPosted by Brickhouse27Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by pinkbird03
I’m thinking he has a good surprise for you.
Yeah I’m starting to think so as well, I’m such a overthinker ugh
Happened to me recently. I’m an overthinker as well and became worried recently. Turned out my bf was playing a joke on me which he thought was so funny that he even bought a fake snake.... sooo don’t stress!! It’s probably nothing bad.
Smh see they can be so evil at times ugh, did he say y’all had to talk to? Your right cause we have yet to have the talk so...
When are u going to meet to talk? No, it all started because he has two showers in his house and we use different ones. (I don’t live there) I noticed my shampoo and conditioner were being used, but they were in my shower, not his. So I questioned him and it was him!! He said he loved them because it made his hair so soft and he was laughing so much in a guilty way! I don’t care he used them, but he was hiding it which is actually funny. Then over the last two months my things kept going missing in his house. Only things I didn’t use... I questioned him about it and he said he didn’t know. When I finally got upset about everything thinking someone was coming into his house he put everything back under the sink and bought a fake snake. He thought this was so funny!! He’s a jokester lol little immature at times lol
Lol omg yeah I would have thought the same thing. A similar incident happened with a sweater of mines. That’s what I want to know, I’m starting to think he really didn’t want to talk shoot
It’s definitely a possibility!!
He just said he’s been straightening things out, that we will talk tomorrow👀
damn it's about time
what an unnecessary suspense *roll eyes*click to expand
Exactly I’m just like whew, some sort of relief.

Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by pinkbird03Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by pinkbird03
I’m thinking he has a good surprise for you.
Yeah I’m starting to think so as well, I’m such a overthinker ugh
Happened to me recently. I’m an overthinker as well and became worried recently. Turned out my bf was playing a joke on me which he thought was so funny that he even bought a fake snake.... sooo don’t stress!! It’s probably nothing bad.
Smh see they can be so evil at times ugh, did he say y’all had to talk to? Your right cause we have yet to have the talk so...
When are u going to meet to talk? No, it all started because he has two showers in his house and we use different ones. (I don’t live there) I noticed my shampoo and conditioner were being used, but they were in my shower, not his. So I questioned him and it was him!! He said he loved them because it made his hair so soft and he was laughing so much in a guilty way! I don’t care he used them, but he was hiding it which is actually funny. Then over the last two months my things kept going missing in his house. Only things I didn’t use... I questioned him about it and he said he didn’t know. When I finally got upset about everything thinking someone was coming into his house he put everything back under the sink and bought a fake snake. He thought this was so funny!! He’s a jokester lol little immature at times lol
Lol omg yeah I would have thought the same thing. A similar incident happened with a sweater of mines. That’s what I want to know, I’m starting to think he really didn’t want to talk shoot
It’s definitely a possibility!!
He just said he’s been straightening things out, that we will talk tomorrow👀click to expand
That wouldn’t fly with me. I’d call him up so fast and demand to know at least what it’s about. That’s not cool.
Posted by CaplovePosted by Caplove
So it's been a few days, did he tell you yet?
nvm, i just saw. I wonder why he set it up like that? Lot of suspense. 🤔click to expand
We shall see
Posted by MadTwins80Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by CaplovePosted by Caplove
So it's been a few days, did he tell you yet?
nvm, i just saw. I wonder why he set it up like that? Lot of suspense. 🤔
We shall see
You could livestream it 🍿🍿click to expand
Ikr, we shall see. I just want to get it over.
Posted by cake
Good day for the windmills
You think so? Why?
Posted by cakePosted by Brickhouse27Posted by cake
Good day for the windmills
You think so? Why?
"We need to talk" means you have both twins in the room. It means play is on pause. If both twins are present, we've come to a decision and it'll be hard to change our mind.
Geminis might be playful but we're also observant. We let it slide a few times, maybe tell you directly/indirectly what bothers us. A slow pull start from the second offense until we no longer appreciate the connection, when your intention is nothing but a negative pattern. We'll accomodate given we're a mutuable. We've already started the healing process once the defense mechanism comes on the second offense occurred.
It's not that we're unpredictable, we just try to cope and sometimes that can come out so raw especially to those close to us.click to expand
So in your opinion is that a break up or something else?
Posted by cakePosted by Brickhouse27Posted by cakePosted by Brickhouse27Posted by cake
Good day for the windmills
You think so? Why?
"We need to talk" means you have both twins in the room. It means play is on pause. If both twins are present, we've come to a decision and it'll be hard to change our mind.
Geminis might be playful but we're also observant. We let it slide a few times, maybe tell you directly/indirectly what bothers us. A slow pull start from the second offense until we no longer appreciate the connection, when your intention is nothing but a negative pattern. We'll accomodate given we're a mutuable. We've already started the healing process once the defense mechanism comes on the second offense occurred.
It's not that we're unpredictable, we just try to cope and sometimes that can come out so raw especially to those close to us.
So in your opinion is that a break up or something else?
A fallout. There's hope though.click to expand
Fallout as in it can be repaired? Just want to make sure I’m clear
Posted by cakePosted by Brickhouse27Posted by cakePosted by Brickhouse27Posted by cakePosted by Brickhouse27Posted by cake
Good day for the windmills
You think so? Why?
"We need to talk" means you have both twins in the room. It means play is on pause. If both twins are present, we've come to a decision and it'll be hard to change our mind.
Geminis might be playful but we're also observant. We let it slide a few times, maybe tell you directly/indirectly what bothers us. A slow pull start from the second offense until we no longer appreciate the connection, when your intention is nothing but a negative pattern. We'll accomodate given we're a mutuable. We've already started the healing process once the defense mechanism comes on the second offense occurred.
It's not that we're unpredictable, we just try to cope and sometimes that can come out so raw especially to those close to us.
So in your opinion is that a break up or something else?
A fallout. There's hope though.
Fallout as in it can be repaired? Just want to make sure I’m clear
Sure. All depends on the severity and willingness of all participants to make an effort to remedy the situation. If we're beat and run out of strikes though, we can't go back to the same space. We'll seek neutral ground.click to expand
He was just like he’s been straightening things out on his end, it’s been a lot going on about financial issues, etc.
Posted by cakePosted by Brickhouse27Posted by cakePosted by Brickhouse27Posted by cakePosted by Brickhouse27Posted by cakePosted by Brickhouse27Posted by cake
Good day for the windmills
You think so? Why?
"We need to talk" means you have both twins in the room. It means play is on pause. If both twins are present, we've come to a decision and it'll be hard to change our mind.
Geminis might be playful but we're also observant. We let it slide a few times, maybe tell you directly/indirectly what bothers us. A slow pull start from the second offense until we no longer appreciate the connection, when your intention is nothing but a negative pattern. We'll accomodate given we're a mutuable. We've already started the healing process once the defense mechanism comes on the second offense occurred.
It's not that we're unpredictable, we just try to cope and sometimes that can come out so raw especially to those close to us.
So in your opinion is that a break up or something else?
A fallout. There's hope though.
Fallout as in it can be repaired? Just want to make sure I’m clear
Sure. All depends on the severity and willingness of all participants to make an effort to remedy the situation. If we're beat and run out of strikes though, we can't go back to the same space. We'll seek neutral ground.
He was just like he’s been straightening things out on his end, it’s been a lot going on about financial issues, etc.
Space and support.click to expand
So no breakup, what you just said?

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