noobster
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what do you think about this scorpio? help me guys what do you think about this ? should i give up?
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Reminds me of my Gemini friend with Taurus moon. He was in your shoes, until today his feelings did not change and he is still waiting (it's been 6 years and counting).
Scorpio moon here
What's your moon sign?
Scorpio moon here
What's your moon sign?
She was single, you guys haven't even been on one date lol.
Not sure how not committing to a stranger that you have never even met is "cruel". She communicated and most people aren't mature enough to even bother. She certainly didn't have to apologize for meeting someone and I am almost positive that none of the poor treatment she got from homeslice was "karma". The poor girl.
Not sure how not committing to a stranger that you have never even met is "cruel". She communicated and most people aren't mature enough to even bother. She certainly didn't have to apologize for meeting someone and I am almost positive that none of the poor treatment she got from homeslice was "karma". The poor girl.
She just likes talking to you daily and nothing more. You are her BFF 👯♀️
Let it go.
1. This woman needs to heal before being open to be in a relationship.
2. You shouldn't enter a relationship with low self-esteem.
1. This woman needs to heal before being open to be in a relationship.
2. You shouldn't enter a relationship with low self-esteem.
Posted by TxOgal
Reminds me of my Gemini friend with Taurus moon. He was in your shoes, until today his feelings did not change and he is still waiting (it's been 6 years and counting).
Scorpio moon here
What's your moon sign?
Aries, i guess
Posted by ImperfectStormwe started talking, everyday, and I have to she charmed me. After that I had to travel to another country
after a week she told me that she met someone else recently and she decided to meet him, I found that really awkward and cruel, since she new I liked her.
So I’m confused. Were the two of you together in a relationship? How long had you been dating? Or were you just upset that she met someone else while you were out of town?
She was honest with you and the truth might hurt but it shows that she is an honest woman. Would you rather have her lie to you?
No we were not, but just about to! It's not very long, and no I'm not just upset about her meeting someone else, and I never said I would rather have a lie.
No need to be agressive or launch a crusade against! I'm just asking for help
Posted by Dastard2020
Let it go.
1. This woman needs to heal before being open to be in a relationship.
2. You shouldn't enter a relationship with low self-esteem.
I know right
Posted by Electricboogaloo
She was single, you guys haven't even been on one date lol.
Not sure how not committing to a stranger that you have never even met is "cruel". She communicated and most people aren't mature enough to even bother. She certainly didn't have to apologize for meeting someone and I am almost positive that none of the poor treatment she got from homeslice was "karma". The poor girl.
so salty
Posted by noobster
Days after this we started talking again (I know I see you coming, I have a low self esteem right now, and I guess it's hope ) two days after this I told her that I liked her(I don't know how to do this) this is when she told me that she told me that her heart is closed and she doesn't want to get hurt again.
And I don't know, Is this a way to say I'm not interested in you, it's dead? Or you have to wait for me? Or what exactly?
If you have questions please ask, I hope you can help me
Sorry for the long post
It reads like she's being polite and trying to say she doesn't feel the same for you. I mean her heart was quite "open" to possibly get hurt again when she went to see the other guy that she recently met without issue....
If you fancy her that much, sure wait to see if she changes her mind. I don't see it though.
Posted by Hypnotoad
Lol next time don't tell her you like her.
She'll be all over you.
Lmao
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by noobsterPosted by ImperfectStormwe started talking, everyday, and I have to she charmed me. After that I had to travel to another country
after a week she told me that she met someone else recently and she decided to meet him, I found that really awkward and cruel, since she new I liked her.
So I’m confused. Were the two of you together in a relationship? How long had you been dating? Or were you just upset that she met someone else while you were out of town?
She was honest with you and the truth might hurt but it shows that she is an honest woman. Would you rather have her lie to you?
No we were not, but just about to! It's not very long, and no I'm not just upset about her meeting someone else, and I never said I would rather have a lie.
No need to be agressive or launch a crusade against! I'm just asking for help
What about my post was aggressive?click to expand
The two last questions?of course I value sincerity, that's not the question! I mean like can you blame me if I fell head over heels
Posted by Hypnotoad
Lol next time don't tell her you like her.
She'll be all over you.
There won't be a next time. It's over.
Lol.
Let her go. She's met someone else and chose him over you. Then tried to come back and pretend it was a mistake and keep chatting with you.
She sounds like she's bored or like you're the one who kept in contact, so she answered-eventually.
You're wasting your time. Find a girl who is actually interested in you. Scorpios show interest, she is showing she's not interested. She's too hurt to open her heart to you, but she was willing to for someone else that she tried to date?
LMAO That's some bull shyt.
She sounds like she's bored or like you're the one who kept in contact, so she answered-eventually.
You're wasting your time. Find a girl who is actually interested in you. Scorpios show interest, she is showing she's not interested. She's too hurt to open her heart to you, but she was willing to for someone else that she tried to date?
LMAO That's some bull shyt.
Posted by saggurl88
Let her go. She's met someone else and chose him over you. Then tried to come back and pretend it was a mistake and keep chatting with you.
She sounds like she's bored or like you're the one who kept in contact, so she answered-eventually.
You're wasting your time. Find a girl who is actually interested in you. Scorpios show interest, she is showing she's not interested. She's too hurt to open her heart to you, but she was willing to for someone else that she tried to date?
LMAO That's some bull shyt.
I know, if this s*** happened to me a year ago I would never tolerate it
Too bad, I really liked her
Posted by noobsterPosted by saggurl88
Let her go. She's met someone else and chose him over you. Then tried to come back and pretend it was a mistake and keep chatting with you.
She sounds like she's bored or like you're the one who kept in contact, so she answered-eventually.
You're wasting your time. Find a girl who is actually interested in you. Scorpios show interest, she is showing she's not interested. She's too hurt to open her heart to you, but she was willing to for someone else that she tried to date?
LMAO That's some bull shyt.
I know, if this s*** happened to me a year ago I would never tolerate it
Too bad, I really liked herclick to expand
Well then it's up to you on whether to waste more time with her or not. The pandemic made you tolerate this?
Posted by Purplesky
^^probably because she has someone else 😐 I hate that...just say ur'e with someonelse
Wouldn't that be considered as a goodbye or something like that?
Posted by saggurl88Posted by noobsterPosted by saggurl88
Let her go. She's met someone else and chose him over you. Then tried to come back and pretend it was a mistake and keep chatting with you.
She sounds like she's bored or like you're the one who kept in contact, so she answered-eventually.
You're wasting your time. Find a girl who is actually interested in you. Scorpios show interest, she is showing she's not interested. She's too hurt to open her heart to you, but she was willing to for someone else that she tried to date?
LMAO That's some bull shyt.
I know, if this s*** happened to me a year ago I would never tolerate it
Too bad, I really liked her
Well then it's up to you on whether to waste more time with her or not. The pandemic made you tolerate this?click to expand
I don't know, this year or maybe from November I took blow after blow. Lock down and online studying really messed up with my head, I don't know honestly what happened to me
Posted by saggurl88Posted by noobsterPosted by saggurl88
Let her go. She's met someone else and chose him over you. Then tried to come back and pretend it was a mistake and keep chatting with you.
She sounds like she's bored or like you're the one who kept in contact, so she answered-eventually.
You're wasting your time. Find a girl who is actually interested in you. Scorpios show interest, she is showing she's not interested. She's too hurt to open her heart to you, but she was willing to for someone else that she tried to date?
LMAO That's some bull shyt.
I know, if this s*** happened to me a year ago I would never tolerate it
Too bad, I really liked her
Well then it's up to you on whether to waste more time with her or not. The pandemic made you tolerate this?click to expand
I don't know, this year or maybe from November I took blow after blow. Lock down and online studying really messed up with my head, I don't know honestly what happened to me
Posted by noobsterPosted by saggurl88Posted by noobsterPosted by saggurl88
Let her go. She's met someone else and chose him over you. Then tried to come back and pretend it was a mistake and keep chatting with you.
She sounds like she's bored or like you're the one who kept in contact, so she answered-eventually.
You're wasting your time. Find a girl who is actually interested in you. Scorpios show interest, she is showing she's not interested. She's too hurt to open her heart to you, but she was willing to for someone else that she tried to date?
LMAO That's some bull shyt.
I know, if this s*** happened to me a year ago I would never tolerate it
Too bad, I really liked her
Well then it's up to you on whether to waste more time with her or not. The pandemic made you tolerate this?
I don't know, this year or maybe from November I took blow after blow. Lock down and online studying really messed up with my head, I don't know honestly what happened to meclick to expand
Well there are more people to meet. People waste too much time on chasing people who make little effort or don't want them. Sometimes you have to know when to throw in the towel.
This girl doesn't seem to be playing hard to get, she seems to be letting you know she's not interested and saying you are a friend.
She didn't even say it in a way to make you jealous either, she just flat out told you that she started dating someone else and that she came back when it didn't work out. At least she's honest, but do you really want to be someone's second choice? And you're not even a second one, since she's wasting your time while pretending her heart is closed.
People are always open with their hearts for the right person, anything else is an excuse.
The same people saying they are non committal and don't want a relationship, are also able to get into one quickly when they meet the right person for them.
Go out and meet someone new and treat her as a friend, the same way she is treating you.
Posted by MareInfamePosted by noobster
Met this woman online about more than a month I guess, online because of covid and lock down(Europe 🇪🇺) we started talking, everyday, and I have to she charmed me. After that I had to travel to another country, it's vital for me, anyways. But then after I don't know what happened, after a week she told me that she met someone else recently and she decided to meet him, I found that really awkward and cruel, since she new I liked her. I didn't know what to do or what to say other than a good luck. A week or two after this (I'm not sure I guess it was 10 days) she contacted me telling me that she's sad and that she was stupid and I told her that she hurt me. She apologized saying that karma got her or I don't know
Days after this we started talking again (I know I see you coming, I have a low self esteem right now, and I guess it's hope ) two days after this I told her that I liked her(I don't know how to do this) this is when she told me that she told me that her heart is closed and she doesn't want to get hurt again.
And I don't know, Is this a way to say I'm not interested in you, it's dead? Or you have to wait for me? Or what exactly?
If you have questions please ask, I hope you can help me
Sorry for the long post
I don’t think it’s a way to say she is not interested in you, because she reached out to you 10 days later. That is a sign of interest.
I am leaning towards it being dead, though. At least in the romantic sense... because she said she was closing her heart to you. So... her decision has been made.
I think she missed what you two had and it drove her to reach out to you, but as soon as you pushed to go in deeper, she realized she doesn’t want to go there with you again because she did it once and it hurt - so, why do that again?
I’m just confused as to why she is so hurt? You two have only known each other a month. Not very long.
Also, did you have an abrupt silent moment with her when you left the country/ went on vacation? Maybe your handling of that brought some red flags for her. It wouldn’t have been so bad if you just would have communicated and kept her on the loop. Noticed you had an Aries moon. Taurus energy is very self involved, add Aries energy to that, and I can already sense you may have issues considering other people, partners... putting yourself in the other persons shoes, being considerate, understanding. I might be wrong, but I sense it.
But I still go back to this just being a month of connecting, not very long and not too invested. It’s easier to end things now than when you two invest more of yourselves.click to expand
Yeah right it's only been a month, I guess more now (if one can call it so) but like before when we knew each other she said she got out from a long relationship, but I don't think I hurt her, even when I had the chance.
When I left the country we kept talking, in fact more and more than before, so yeah no reason, as for an individual behavior, I can't say for sure, I guess you would have to ask my friends and close ones for an " objective" answer. Maybe iam that way
Posted by saggurl88Posted by noobsterPosted by saggurl88Posted by noobsterPosted by saggurl88
Let her go. She's met someone else and chose him over you. Then tried to come back and pretend it was a mistake and keep chatting with you.
She sounds like she's bored or like you're the one who kept in contact, so she answered-eventually.
You're wasting your time. Find a girl who is actually interested in you. Scorpios show interest, she is showing she's not interested. She's too hurt to open her heart to you, but she was willing to for someone else that she tried to date?
LMAO That's some bull shyt.
I know, if this s*** happened to me a year ago I would never tolerate it
Too bad, I really liked her
Well then it's up to you on whether to waste more time with her or not. The pandemic made you tolerate this?
I don't know, this year or maybe from November I took blow after blow. Lock down and online studying really messed up with my head, I don't know honestly what happened to me
Well there are more people to meet. People waste too much time on chasing people who make little effort or don't want them. Sometimes you have to know when to throw in the towel.
This girl doesn't seem to be playing hard to get, she seems to be letting you know she's not interested and saying you are a friend.
She didn't even say it in a way to make you jealous either, she just flat out told you that she started dating someone else and that she came back when it didn't work out. At least she's honest, but do you really want to be someone's second choice? And you're not even a second one, since she's wasting your time while pretending her heart is closed.
People are always open with their hearts for the right person, anything else is an excuse.
The same people saying they are non committal and don't want a relationship, are also able to get into one quickly when they meet the right person for them.
Go out and meet someone new and treat her as a friend, the same way she is treating you.click to expand
Yeah right, I guess I have to pickup myself
Thanks for you're advice, it's really nice of you. Sweetest message honestly thanks 🙏
Posted by PurpleskyPosted by noobsterPosted by Purplesky
^^probably because she has someone else 😐 I hate that...just say ur'e with someonelse
Wouldn't that be considered as a goodbye or something like that?
It doesn't have to be. It's called being transparent and honest but I've said before scorpios are not good with relationships because they lack transparency...headaches...includes Venus in Scorpioclick to expand
I don't know much about astrology but yeah, let's call this quits
Posted by PurpleskyPosted by noobsterPosted by PurpleskyPosted by noobsterPosted by Purplesky
^^probably because she has someone else 😐 I hate that...just say ur'e with someonelse
Wouldn't that be considered as a goodbye or something like that?
It doesn't have to be. It's called being transparent and honest but I've said before scorpios are not good with relationships because they lack transparency...headaches...includes Venus in Scorpio
I don't know much about astrology but yeah, let's call this quits
It would of been so easy to explain what was happening 10 days is too long, closed heart is fake af, ughclick to expand
You think it's a lie right? Yeah I know it's too long, and she came back after that saying that she's broken and sad and she didn't want to say much, she apologized but it's like I didn't even ask for anything, you are free to go whatever you want. This messed up with my head, if she didn't come back I would have just forgot this
Posted by PurpleskyPosted by noobsterPosted by PurpleskyPosted by noobsterPosted by PurpleskyPosted by noobsterPosted by Purplesky
^^probably because she has someone else 😐 I hate that...just say ur'e with someonelse
Wouldn't that be considered as a goodbye or something like that?
It doesn't have to be. It's called being transparent and honest but I've said before scorpios are not good with relationships because they lack transparency...headaches...includes Venus in Scorpio
I don't know much about astrology but yeah, let's call this quits
It would of been so easy to explain what was happening 10 days is too long, closed heart is fake af, ugh
You think it's a lie right? Yeah I know it's too long, and she came back after that saying that she's broken and sad and she didn't want to say much, she apologized but it's like I didn't even ask for anything, you are free to go whatever you want. This messed up with my head, if she didn't come back I would have just forgot this
DO I THINK ITS A LIE? Scorpios romantically=I wouldn't trust a damn thing that comes out of their mouths! If my ex didn't have a Taurus moon we wouldn't have gone this long in the game because he definitely tricked me into dealing with that fucked up scorpio Venus of his...I digressclick to expand
Damm you've seen something with this person
Posted by PurpleskyPosted by noobsterPosted by PurpleskyPosted by noobsterPosted by PurpleskyPosted by noobsterPosted by PurpleskyPosted by noobsterPosted by Purplesky
^^probably because she has someone else 😐 I hate that...just say ur'e with someonelse
Wouldn't that be considered as a goodbye or something like that?
It doesn't have to be. It's called being transparent and honest but I've said before scorpios are not good with relationships because they lack transparency...headaches...includes Venus in Scorpio
I don't know much about astrology but yeah, let's call this quits
It would of been so easy to explain what was happening 10 days is too long, closed heart is fake af, ugh
You think it's a lie right? Yeah I know it's too long, and she came back after that saying that she's broken and sad and she didn't want to say much, she apologized but it's like I didn't even ask for anything, you are free to go whatever you want. This messed up with my head, if she didn't come back I would have just forgot this
DO I THINK ITS A LIE? Scorpios romantically=I wouldn't trust a damn thing that comes out of their mouths! If my ex didn't have a Taurus moon we wouldn't have gone this long in the game because he definitely tricked me into dealing with that fucked up scorpio Venus of his...I digress
Damm you've seen something with this person
It makes no sense either...Goodluck with school tho 🙂click to expand
Thank you, good luck you too 😁
Posted by saggurl88
People are always open with their hearts for the right person, anything else is an excuse.
The same people saying they are non committal and don't want a relationship, are also able to get into one quickly when they meet the right person for them.
Go out and meet someone new and treat her as a friend, the same way she is treating you.
*like* This.
The girl would NEVER get me on the phone ever again.
She woulda been dead to me after she told me she met someone else.
I wouldn’t have given her the time of day.
You’re just a lil ol option to her and I’ll be damned if she gets another shot to make me a choice.
She woulda been dead to me after she told me she met someone else.
I wouldn’t have given her the time of day.
You’re just a lil ol option to her and I’ll be damned if she gets another shot to make me a choice.
Posted by Wizardz
Scorpios love nothing more than disappearing without a word then expecting you to be asking them questions when they return. I just ignore them. If you haven't got the decency to tell me you're going away then don't expect me to care where you've been
@mareinfame
If a Scorpio disappears on you, it's probably because you're being clingy. They don't like it. I think they prefer a more detached style .
Posted by DMV
The girl would NEVER get me on the phone ever again.
She woulda been dead to me after she told me she met someone else.
I wouldn’t have given her the time of day.
You’re just a lil ol option to her and I’ll be damned if she gets another shot to make me a choice.
Pretty much.
Posted by WizardzPosted by saggurl88Posted by Wizardz
Scorpios love nothing more than disappearing without a word then expecting you to be asking them questions when they return. I just ignore them. If you haven't got the decency to tell me you're going away then don't expect me to care where you've been
@mareinfame
If a Scorpio disappears on you, it's probably because you're being clingy. They don't like it. I think they prefer a more detached style .
I'm just trolling her 🤣click to expand
lol I'm just saying in general. Scorpios like a little bit of mystery.
The ones who you don't pay too much attention to are the ones who are paying attention to you lol
Posted by MareInfamePosted by Purplesky DO I THINK ITS A LIE? Scorpios romantically=I wouldn't trust a damn thing that comes out of their mouths! If my ex didn't have a Taurus moon we wouldn't have gone this long in the game because he definitely tricked me into dealing with that fucked up scorpio Venus of his...I digress
https://i.gifer.com/origin/54/54243a5ebc2972da2d2f9f1a9b8b42be_w200.gif
You learn to just skim over the ones that have yet to realize they clearly need a hug and a counselling chair.
Posted by GODZ
so scorpio women are a scam ?
Complete scam.
Posted by MareInfamePosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by MareInfamePosted by Purplesky DO I THINK ITS A LIE? Scorpios romantically=I wouldn't trust a damn thing that comes out of their mouths! If my ex didn't have a Taurus moon we wouldn't have gone this long in the game because he definitely tricked me into dealing with that fucked up scorpio Venus of his...I digress
You learn to just skim over the ones that have yet to realize they clearly need a hug and a counselling chair.
Love that voice of wisdom and reason. Cheers to THAT.
https://media3.giphy.com/media/wt0eEognn4cvcwFMx9/200.gif
Where does your moon reside?
Posted by DMV
The girl would NEVER get me on the phone ever again.
She woulda been dead to me after she told me she met someone else.
I wouldn’t have given her the time of day.
You’re just a lil ol option to her and I’ll be damned if she gets another shot to make me a choice.
I.... I was too stupid I have to admit that
She was honest with you. That’s an admirable quality.
She could’ve met this other dude and not told you anything, keeping you as a backup in case it didn’t work out. You would’ve never known. Instead she was up front and honest with you.
Sometimes it’s best to date multiple people at once. Helps you realize quicker who is the best fit and what you want. I know it worked that way for me.
Don’t let your hurt ego ruin a good thing. Even if that good thing is just a genuine friendship. This is a long distance chatting thing, you are not in a relationship with her. And yet she is being more real with you then most people are with their actual partners. I applaud her for keeping it 💯
She could’ve met this other dude and not told you anything, keeping you as a backup in case it didn’t work out. You would’ve never known. Instead she was up front and honest with you.
Sometimes it’s best to date multiple people at once. Helps you realize quicker who is the best fit and what you want. I know it worked that way for me.
Don’t let your hurt ego ruin a good thing. Even if that good thing is just a genuine friendship. This is a long distance chatting thing, you are not in a relationship with her. And yet she is being more real with you then most people are with their actual partners. I applaud her for keeping it 💯
Posted by _elle_
I'm sorry but I'm not going to baby you and villianize her.....something doesn't sit right with me.
1. You were talking for a month
2. You had to leave to another country
3. You say "since she knew I liked her"
......then everything went downhill from there
How exactly did she know you liked her? How did you express that?
Perhaps she needed to hear that you were interested in a romantic way?
Perhaps you leaving gave her some kind of feeling that you weren't interested and she shouldn't bother?
-or-
Perhaps she saw you simply as a friend and when you expressed feelings for her, way too late btw, you had built up some kind of relationship in your head and felt betrayed because she was seeing someone else....why did you wait to tell her that afterwards?
I'm a Scorpio woman.
If you are interested, tell me.
Fucking CLAIM me. rawr.
Do not make me guess or wonder.
I will move on. Period.
Yeah all of this 👆op
Everyone is saying she’s not interested because she didn’t ‘wait for you’. You, a stranger she was chatting with long distance. And it’s not like you asked her to wait for you anyways.
And when you chose to travel, you didn’t attempt to meet her. This is a sign of disinterest imo so it goes both ways.
She’s a stranger you had some good text convos with, that’s all. You may think you like her but really it’s your ego that’s bruised here, not your feelings. Because you haven’t even met her or attempted to meet her. So it’s the fantasy of her you’ve built up in your head that you like.
It’s all good tho. You would’ve met her irl and it would’ve ruined the fantasy and you’d be arguing over a steak like Darcey and Jesse (90 day fiancé) and the attraction would turn to dog shit in no time.
Best not to get attached to long distance pen pals. Plenty of quality females in your area you can vet in person.
She’s dating. She doesn’t owe you anything.
Work on your self esteem.
Maybe you won’t be making strangers your world then.
Work on your self esteem.
Maybe you won’t be making strangers your world then.
Posted by LadyNeptune
She was honest with you. That’s an admirable quality.
She could’ve met this other dude and not told you anything, keeping you as a backup in case it didn’t work out. You would’ve never known. Instead she was up front and honest with you.
Sometimes it’s best to date multiple people at once. Helps you realize quicker who is the best fit and what you want. I know it worked that way for me.
Don’t let your hurt ego ruin a good thing. Even if that good thing is just a genuine friendship. This is a long distance chatting thing, you are not in a relationship with her. And yet she is being more real with you then most people are with their actual partners. I applaud her for keeping it 💯
It's not about ego, it's the leaaaast thing I'm concerned about, and I know she doesn't own me a dime, if it was about my ego I would have left the 1st one or would have just thrown a tantrum and called her bull, or anything.
How can you see this as a good thing? It astonishing to me! This honestly has a word for it, it's called être de mauvaise foi. Yes I do not approach relationships with rationality or realness, and I why should? It depends on what you are looking? If it's a person with a stable life good Blah blah then yeah. If that's what you're into yeah sure go ahead. I don't want to approach relationships with a cold and calculated approach,because we are humans!!!
Posted by LadyNeptune
She was honest with you. That’s an admirable quality.
She could’ve met this other dude and not told you anything, keeping you as a backup in case it didn’t work out. You would’ve never known. Instead she was up front and honest with you.
Sometimes it’s best to date multiple people at once. Helps you realize quicker who is the best fit and what you want. I know it worked that way for me.
Don’t let your hurt ego ruin a good thing. Even if that good thing is just a genuine friendship. This is a long distance chatting thing, you are not in a relationship with her. And yet she is being more real with you then most people are with their actual partners. I applaud her for keeping it 💯
It was supposed to be a "love or dating website" not friendship, at least that's what she claimed. I'm not worried about my ego, it's not about it. Definitely and genuinely not my ego here, otherwise I would have called it myself
Posted by _elle_
I'm sorry but I'm not going to baby you and villianize her.....something doesn't sit right with me.
1. You were talking for a month
2. You had to leave to another country
3. You say "since she knew I liked her"
......then everything went downhill from there
How exactly did she know you liked her? How did you express that?
Perhaps she needed to hear that you were interested in a romantic way?
Perhaps you leaving gave her some kind of feeling that you weren't interested and she shouldn't bother?
-or-
Perhaps she saw you simply as a friend and when you expressed feelings for her, way too late btw, you had built up some kind of relationship in your head and felt betrayed because she was seeing someone else....why did you wait to tell her that afterwards?
I'm a Scorpio woman.
If you are interested, tell me.
Fucking CLAIM me. rawr.
Do not make me guess or wonder.
I will move on. Period.
It was a "dating website" not one you would look for friends to hang out with
Yes I did show up interest in the first place and so did. It was her at the beginning, I was not expecting anything. And I was subtle about it and at the same time blatant, she definitely knew. And I did express myself even after. But I guess it doesn't matter anymore. Too bad I really cared. She's just not interested I guess. But I wouldn't call it friendship either
Posted by MareInfamePosted by noobsterPosted by LadyNeptune
She was honest with you. That’s an admirable quality.
She could’ve met this other dude and not told you anything, keeping you as a backup in case it didn’t work out. You would’ve never known. Instead she was up front and honest with you.
Sometimes it’s best to date multiple people at once. Helps you realize quicker who is the best fit and what you want. I know it worked that way for me.
Don’t let your hurt ego ruin a good thing. Even if that good thing is just a genuine friendship. This is a long distance chatting thing, you are not in a relationship with her. And yet she is being more real with you then most people are with their actual partners. I applaud her for keeping it 💯
It's not about ego, it's the leaaaast thing I'm concerned about, and I know she doesn't own me a dime, if it was about my ego I would have left the 1st one or would have just thrown a tantrum and called her bull, or anything.
How can you see this as a good thing? It astonishing to me! This honestly has a word for it, it's called être de mauvaise foi. Yes I do not approach relationships with rationality or realness, and I why should? It depends on what you are looking? If it's a person with a stable life good Blah blah then yeah. If that's what you're into yeah sure go ahead. I don't want to approach relationships with a cold and calculated approach,because we are humans!!!
Are you French? Is she? I think in the French culture this behavior is seen very different to let’s say Americans, Anglos
In French culture, I can see her behavior as mauvais foi.... but not in the Anglo cultures.click to expand
Oh I didn't know this sub is full of americans
I guess that's why were having this sort of discussion
Posted by MareInfamePosted by noobsterPosted by MareInfamePosted by noobsterPosted by LadyNeptune
She was honest with you. That’s an admirable quality.
She could’ve met this other dude and not told you anything, keeping you as a backup in case it didn’t work out. You would’ve never known. Instead she was up front and honest with you.
Sometimes it’s best to date multiple people at once. Helps you realize quicker who is the best fit and what you want. I know it worked that way for me.
Don’t let your hurt ego ruin a good thing. Even if that good thing is just a genuine friendship. This is a long distance chatting thing, you are not in a relationship with her. And yet she is being more real with you then most people are with their actual partners. I applaud her for keeping it 💯
It's not about ego, it's the leaaaast thing I'm concerned about, and I know she doesn't own me a dime, if it was about my ego I would have left the 1st one or would have just thrown a tantrum and called her bull, or anything.
How can you see this as a good thing? It astonishing to me! This honestly has a word for it, it's called être de mauvaise foi. Yes I do not approach relationships with rationality or realness, and I why should? It depends on what you are looking? If it's a person with a stable life good Blah blah then yeah. If that's what you're into yeah sure go ahead. I don't want to approach relationships with a cold and calculated approach,because we are humans!!!
Are you French? Is she? I think in the French culture this behavior is seen very different to let’s say Americans, Anglos
In French culture, I can see her behavior as mauvais foi.... but not in the Anglo cultures.
Oh I didn't know this sub is full of americans
I guess that's why were having this sort of discussion
It’s got a mix, but seems to predominate with Americans, some brits and Aussies... they are similar in behavior. Are you and the Scorp French? Or different cultures (asking bc you both met online). If different cultures, that can add to the confusion.
I know French are much more serious about formalizing relationships... where as the anglos are much more relaxed about that and so much more grazing and testing waters (lots of deep testing).click to expand
Yes definitely French, as for me let's say that I have a mix, since Im from a neighboring country and, yeah I lived in Paris, it's not far away from where she lived. I thought I gave context before, I specified it was Europe. I I hate testing and the idea of making calculations about humans. Its.... You're not a machine or an calculus program.
Posted by MareInfamePosted by noobsterPosted by DMV
The girl would NEVER get me on the phone ever again.
She woulda been dead to me after she told me she met someone else.
I wouldn’t have given her the time of day.
You’re just a lil ol option to her and I’ll be damned if she gets another shot to make me a choice.
I.... I was too stupid I have to admit that
I disagree. I think it shows strength of character to be open and vulnerable. Don’t ever regret that. To be so closed off only roots from ego and fear. Don’t ever regret having that ability to be so honest with expressing how you feel. It’s not stupid.click to expand
Thank you, you're nice
Posted by MareInfamePosted by noobsterPosted by MareInfamePosted by noobsterPosted by MareInfamePosted by noobsterPosted by LadyNeptune
She was honest with you. That’s an admirable quality.
She could’ve met this other dude and not told you anything, keeping you as a backup in case it didn’t work out. You would’ve never known. Instead she was up front and honest with you.
Sometimes it’s best to date multiple people at once. Helps you realize quicker who is the best fit and what you want. I know it worked that way for me.
Don’t let your hurt ego ruin a good thing. Even if that good thing is just a genuine friendship. This is a long distance chatting thing, you are not in a relationship with her. And yet she is being more real with you then most people are with their actual partners. I applaud her for keeping it 💯
It's not about ego, it's the leaaaast thing I'm concerned about, and I know she doesn't own me a dime, if it was about my ego I would have left the 1st one or would have just thrown a tantrum and called her bull, or anything.
How can you see this as a good thing? It astonishing to me! This honestly has a word for it, it's called être de mauvaise foi. Yes I do not approach relationships with rationality or realness, and I why should? It depends on what you are looking? If it's a person with a stable life good Blah blah then yeah. If that's what you're into yeah sure go ahead. I don't want to approach relationships with a cold and calculated approach,because we are humans!!!
Are you French? Is she? I think in the French culture this behavior is seen very different to let’s say Americans, Anglos
In French culture, I can see her behavior as mauvais foi.... but not in the Anglo cultures.
Oh I didn't know this sub is full of americans
I guess that's why were having this sort of discussion
It’s got a mix, but seems to predominate with Americans, some brits and Aussies... they are similar in behavior. Are you and the Scorp French? Or different cultures (asking bc you both met online). If different cultures, that can add to the confusion.
I know French are much more serious about formalizing relationships... where as the anglos are much more relaxed about that and so much more grazing and testing waters (lots of deep testing).
Yes definitely French, as for me let's say that I have a mix, since Im from a neighboring country and, yeah I lived in Paris, it's not far away from where she lived. I thought I gave context before, I specified it was Europe. I I hate testing and the idea of making calculations about humans. Its.... You're not a machine or an calculus program.
Yes, but Europe is still quite varied in cultural dating habits. French are super formal, Germans hard core, Spaniards messy/raw, Italians messiER/dramatic...lol. So, I understand where you are coming from, now that I know you are French.
You are human and not a machine, she too is human and not a machine. We cannot predict what she will do, but she is not ready to feel the bond that you require. No one is trying to hurt the other. She was honest and that means she has a level of care and respect for you. She isn’t judging you for how you feel, she just wanted to tell you upfront she doesn’t feel the same because she doesn’t want to and she doesn’t want to hurt you.
She is not a machine, she didn’t know she would be feeling this insecurity at this point. That is how trauma occurs, it gets felt unexpectedly. As soon as she felt it, she knew she didn’t want to go further... it is too scary for her right now.click to expand
Yes I know in Europe it's quit varied, I can see the Spanish and Italians are different. What can I say about this, too bad
Posted by MareInfamePosted by noobsterPosted by MareInfamePosted by noobsterPosted by MareInfamePosted by noobsterPosted by LadyNeptune
She was honest with you. That’s an admirable quality.
She could’ve met this other dude and not told you anything, keeping you as a backup in case it didn’t work out. You would’ve never known. Instead she was up front and honest with you.
Sometimes it’s best to date multiple people at once. Helps you realize quicker who is the best fit and what you want. I know it worked that way for me.
Don’t let your hurt ego ruin a good thing. Even if that good thing is just a genuine friendship. This is a long distance chatting thing, you are not in a relationship with her. And yet she is being more real with you then most people are with their actual partners. I applaud her for keeping it 💯
It's not about ego, it's the leaaaast thing I'm concerned about, and I know she doesn't own me a dime, if it was about my ego I would have left the 1st one or would have just thrown a tantrum and called her bull, or anything.
How can you see this as a good thing? It astonishing to me! This honestly has a word for it, it's called être de mauvaise foi. Yes I do not approach relationships with rationality or realness, and I why should? It depends on what you are looking? If it's a person with a stable life good Blah blah then yeah. If that's what you're into yeah sure go ahead. I don't want to approach relationships with a cold and calculated approach,because we are humans!!!
Are you French? Is she? I think in the French culture this behavior is seen very different to let’s say Americans, Anglos
In French culture, I can see her behavior as mauvais foi.... but not in the Anglo cultures.
Oh I didn't know this sub is full of americans
I guess that's why were having this sort of discussion
It’s got a mix, but seems to predominate with Americans, some brits and Aussies... they are similar in behavior. Are you and the Scorp French? Or different cultures (asking bc you both met online). If different cultures, that can add to the confusion.
I know French are much more serious about formalizing relationships... where as the anglos are much more relaxed about that and so much more grazing and testing waters (lots of deep testing).
Yes definitely French, as for me let's say that I have a mix, since Im from a neighboring country and, yeah I lived in Paris, it's not far away from where she lived. I thought I gave context before, I specified it was Europe. I I hate testing and the idea of making calculations about humans. Its.... You're not a machine or an calculus program.
Yes, but Europe is still quite varied in cultural dating habits. French are super formal, Germans hard core, Spaniards messy/raw, Italians messiER/dramatic...lol. So, I understand where you are coming from, now that I know you are French.
You are human and not a machine, she too is human and not a machine. We cannot predict what she will do, but she is not ready to feel the bond that you require. No one is trying to hurt the other. She was honest and that means she has a level of care and respect for you. She isn’t judging you for how you feel, she just wanted to tell you upfront she doesn’t feel the same because she doesn’t want to and she doesn’t want to hurt you.
She is not a machine, she didn’t know she would be feeling this insecurity at this point. That is how trauma occurs, it gets felt unexpectedly. As soon as she felt it, she knew she didn’t want to go further... it is too scary for her right now.click to expand
And I do value honesty, above all and everything. That's why I wanted things to be clear with her. I but it drifted the wrong way
Posted by bmoon8Posted by noobsterPosted by LadyNeptune
She was honest with you. That’s an admirable quality.
She could’ve met this other dude and not told you anything, keeping you as a backup in case it didn’t work out. You would’ve never known. Instead she was up front and honest with you.
Sometimes it’s best to date multiple people at once. Helps you realize quicker who is the best fit and what you want. I know it worked that way for me.
Don’t let your hurt ego ruin a good thing. Even if that good thing is just a genuine friendship. This is a long distance chatting thing, you are not in a relationship with her. And yet she is being more real with you then most people are with their actual partners. I applaud her for keeping it 💯
It's not about ego, it's the leaaaast thing I'm concerned about, and I know she doesn't own me a dime, if it was about my ego I would have left the 1st one or would have just thrown a tantrum and called her bull, or anything.
How can you see this as a good thing? It astonishing to me! This honestly has a word for it, it's called être de mauvaise foi. Yes I do not approach relationships with rationality or realness, and I why should? It depends on what you are looking? If it's a person with a stable life good Blah blah then yeah. If that's what you're into yeah sure go ahead. I don't want to approach relationships with a cold and calculated approach,because we are humans!!!
It’s a blessing in disguise. Opposite signs in relationships are awful.click to expand
Right now I'm yet to get over this, so yeah I have a hard time seeing that, maybe in two weeks, or I don't know when, I'll see this point of view
I need your advice .
Iam a taurus man ive been dating a taurus girl for 8 months now , im 5yrs older than her. She was once dating my colleague whom i know for sure he was a womanizer, having realized that he dumped the girl i grew close to him only to get the girl's number. I accepted the despite she was dumped while she was a 2 month pregnant girl. Since she was studying( university level) she couldnt afford having children.she worked through abortion and made out succesfully. We went on dating . Had wonderful moments together had sex and many stuffs i could dream of. But i then she grew distant , we only meet for like 30 mins , despite living in the same university compounds i would be the one making efforts to pay her visit at in campus where she lived with her friend. One day she asked me of there are things that i expect her to be doing to me but she doesnt and i told her yes . Like she dont make efforts to see me physically and she never bothered to start a conversation. Wel she apologized and saying for the case of visiting me physically she was afraid of getting pregnant and she knows whenver she is close to me she lose control so she decided to keep distance. Lately she called the shot., she ended up the relationship, we fought over an issue of commitment . At one time i asked her to meet me so that we have private time together for i was leaving the next day. She didnt turn around despite asking her to meet after her evening classes. I got angry over her . And sent txt saying if you valued me u could respect my request. Instead you chose your friends over me and the way you answer its shows clearly that you have no respect for me . Then she didnt answer. On the next day i called her she never responded . I called 15 times. I sent her texts to apologize. She never replied . I even called her friend asking for a favor to deliver a msg to her that i was sorry. On the third day she replied that . We have been dating for long , there wasnt any time that i disrespected you. And infact you cant a girl who you think doesnt love you. I love u but for the things that you said its better we end here. I was devasted after this . Im still in bad situation . But i have decided to cut communication. Despite having hopes of having her back
Iam a taurus man ive been dating a taurus girl for 8 months now , im 5yrs older than her. She was once dating my colleague whom i know for sure he was a womanizer, having realized that he dumped the girl i grew close to him only to get the girl's number. I accepted the despite she was dumped while she was a 2 month pregnant girl. Since she was studying( university level) she couldnt afford having children.she worked through abortion and made out succesfully. We went on dating . Had wonderful moments together had sex and many stuffs i could dream of. But i then she grew distant , we only meet for like 30 mins , despite living in the same university compounds i would be the one making efforts to pay her visit at in campus where she lived with her friend. One day she asked me of there are things that i expect her to be doing to me but she doesnt and i told her yes . Like she dont make efforts to see me physically and she never bothered to start a conversation. Wel she apologized and saying for the case of visiting me physically she was afraid of getting pregnant and she knows whenver she is close to me she lose control so she decided to keep distance. Lately she called the shot., she ended up the relationship, we fought over an issue of commitment . At one time i asked her to meet me so that we have private time together for i was leaving the next day. She didnt turn around despite asking her to meet after her evening classes. I got angry over her . And sent txt saying if you valued me u could respect my request. Instead you chose your friends over me and the way you answer its shows clearly that you have no respect for me . Then she didnt answer. On the next day i called her she never responded . I called 15 times. I sent her texts to apologize. She never replied . I even called her friend asking for a favor to deliver a msg to her that i was sorry. On the third day she replied that . We have been dating for long , there wasnt any time that i disrespected you. And infact you cant a girl who you think doesnt love you. I love u but for the things that you said its better we end here. I was devasted after this . Im still in bad situation . But i have decided to cut communication. Despite having hopes of having her back
TAURUS GIRL DUMPING TAURUS MAN
Posted by bmoon8Posted by noobsterPosted by bmoon8Posted by noobsterPosted by LadyNeptune
She was honest with you. That’s an admirable quality.
She could’ve met this other dude and not told you anything, keeping you as a backup in case it didn’t work out. You would’ve never known. Instead she was up front and honest with you.
Sometimes it’s best to date multiple people at once. Helps you realize quicker who is the best fit and what you want. I know it worked that way for me.
Don’t let your hurt ego ruin a good thing. Even if that good thing is just a genuine friendship. This is a long distance chatting thing, you are not in a relationship with her. And yet she is being more real with you then most people are with their actual partners. I applaud her for keeping it 💯
It's not about ego, it's the leaaaast thing I'm concerned about, and I know she doesn't own me a dime, if it was about my ego I would have left the 1st one or would have just thrown a tantrum and called her bull, or anything.
How can you see this as a good thing? It astonishing to me! This honestly has a word for it, it's called être de mauvaise foi. Yes I do not approach relationships with rationality or realness, and I why should? It depends on what you are looking? If it's a person with a stable life good Blah blah then yeah. If that's what you're into yeah sure go ahead. I don't want to approach relationships with a cold and calculated approach,because we are humans!!!
It’s a blessing in disguise. Opposite signs in relationships are awful.
Right now I'm yet to get over this, so yeah I have a hard time seeing that, maybe in two weeks, or I don't know when, I'll see this point of view
Your best sign match up? Pisces. My Pisces brother loves his Taurus. I know of an older couple that are in their 80’s. He’s a Pisces and she’s a Taurus.
My mother/father were Scorpio and Taurus. Rarely do these 2 signs make it together into old age together.click to expand
Let's hope for the best
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