@Tenpxd
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Posted by MaraiPosted by Tenpxd17 days no sex and proud of me yay
How are you feeling? Did you stop the liquids as well?
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Liquids ?
18 days but I’m in trouble ! My ex asked us to get a room for 4th of July to watch fireworks 🤦🏼♀️ I hope I get my period 🙏🏻
Posted by MaraiPosted by TenpxdPosted by MaraiPosted by Tenpxd17 days no sex and proud of me yay
How are you feeling? Did you stop the liquids as well?
Liquids ?
Alcohol 😁
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I think so the last time I had a drink was weeks ago.
I highly recommend doing this. You will reach spiritual heights liken to superpowers, and you'll assure yourself a biologically unfair advantage in many ways, mostly linked to hormones. I encourage you to try it for at least 6 months. You will be astounded by how productive you become. You will pick up a Bible, you will start working out if you don't currently, and you will quit habits that have held you captive. This is the beauty of sexual transmutation. Do not waste your seed and spiritual energy so cheaply.
Posted by Tenpxd18 days but I’m in trouble ! My ex asked us to get a room for 4th of July to watch fireworks 🤦🏼♀️ I hope I get my period 🙏🏻
Say no.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by DMVPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by DMVPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by DMVPosted by TenpxdPosted by DMVI never thought I would be turned off by penis but here I am...disgusted
The sight or even thought of a penis anywhere near me makes me want to blow chunks
It’s been almost 6 months free from any type of sexual entanglement
Freedom not having to have to care above making an impression on men romantically and sexually
Sex was no longer an enjoyable act
It’s boring really when you think about it
It’s lame with just some random dick
Even with someone who isn’t random.
Sex is pretty boring and uninspiring.
I think it’s the fact that it’s so forbidden for some that makes it appear like the best thing on earth. Scarcity.
Purely a mechanism to bring life into the world.
I think women only like sex because men like sex and even then I don’t think men know exactly why they like having sex. It certainly ain’t for pleasure.
What brought you to this conclusion @DMV. It seems like a complete turnaround for you? 😳
I’ll say!
Idk. Sounds graphic but I was having sex and then I had an epiphany...
I don’t even like having sex. I was suddenly bored out of my mind and couldn’t wait to do something else. So I stopped midway and never came back to it
I lost all passion for passion
Not graphic at all.Wow what a story! What have you replaced it with?
Day dreaming. My head is way up in the clouds
Fantasy is often better than the reality?
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I don’t even fantasize about it.
Sex penis vagina doesn’t cross my mind
When I get my period, I suddenly remember I have a vagina
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by DMVPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by DMVPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by DMVPosted by TenpxdPosted by DMVI never thought I would be turned off by penis but here I am...disgusted
The sight or even thought of a penis anywhere near me makes me want to blow chunks
It’s been almost 6 months free from any type of sexual entanglement
Freedom not having to have to care above making an impression on men romantically and sexually
Sex was no longer an enjoyable act
It’s boring really when you think about it
It’s lame with just some random dick
Even with someone who isn’t random.
Sex is pretty boring and uninspiring.
I think it’s the fact that it’s so forbidden for some that makes it appear like the best thing on earth. Scarcity.
Purely a mechanism to bring life into the world.
I think women only like sex because men like sex and even then I don’t think men know exactly why they like having sex. It certainly ain’t for pleasure.
What brought you to this conclusion @DMV. It seems like a complete turnaround for you? 😳
I’ll say!
Idk. Sounds graphic but I was having sex and then I had an epiphany...
I don’t even like having sex. I was suddenly bored out of my mind and couldn’t wait to do something else. So I stopped midway and never came back to it
I lost all passion for passion
Not graphic at all.Wow what a story! What have you replaced it with?
Day dreaming. My head is way up in the clouds
Fantasy is often better than the reality?
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sometimes thinking about it and the anticipation is way better than the actual thing lol
Posted by exoskeleton_Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by DMVPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by DMVPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by DMVPosted by TenpxdPosted by DMVI never thought I would be turned off by penis but here I am...disgusted
The sight or even thought of a penis anywhere near me makes me want to blow chunks
It’s been almost 6 months free from any type of sexual entanglement
Freedom not having to have to care above making an impression on men romantically and sexually
Sex was no longer an enjoyable act
It’s boring really when you think about it
It’s lame with just some random dick
Even with someone who isn’t random.
Sex is pretty boring and uninspiring.
I think it’s the fact that it’s so forbidden for some that makes it appear like the best thing on earth. Scarcity.
Purely a mechanism to bring life into the world.
I think women only like sex because men like sex and even then I don’t think men know exactly why they like having sex. It certainly ain’t for pleasure.
What brought you to this conclusion @DMV. It seems like a complete turnaround for you? 😳
I’ll say!
Idk. Sounds graphic but I was having sex and then I had an epiphany...
I don’t even like having sex. I was suddenly bored out of my mind and couldn’t wait to do something else. So I stopped midway and never came back to it
I lost all passion for passion
Not graphic at all.Wow what a story! What have you replaced it with?
Day dreaming. My head is way up in the clouds
Fantasy is often better than the reality?
sometimes thinking about it and the anticipation is way better than the actual thing lol
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Sure is! Fantasies never disappoint.....reality on the otherhand....🥴
Posted by ChancellorI highly recommend doing this. You will reach spiritual heights liken to superpowers, and you'll assure yourself a biologically unfair advantage in many ways, mostly linked to hormones. I encourage you to try it for at least 6 months. You will be astounded by how productive you become. You will pick up a Bible, you will start working out if you don't currently, and you will quit habits that have held you captive. This is the beauty of sexual transmutation. Do not waste your seed and spiritual energy so cheaply.
But does it count if I orgasm to porn daily ? As long is it’s not with another person I’m good correct ?
Posted by ChancellorPosted by Tenpxd18 days but I’m in trouble ! My ex asked us to get a room for 4th of July to watch fireworks 🤦🏼♀️ I hope I get my period 🙏🏻
Say no.
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I already agreed not thinking if sex then later he booked it and I was like FML
I go through moments of no sex for years. More years of no sex then not. Every now and then I dive into something crazy, but it's never worth the baggage. I would rather be with someone who doesn't really want sex much at all, then someone who constantly needs it. Imo that could be a sign of someone who is simply needy. In I much rather be in something stable then in something dramatic with amazing crazy sex all the time. Though I really love the crazy sex, and I'm deeply dramatic. Fuck....
Posted by PhoenixStormI can’t remember if I already commented in this thread. I am celibate. Struggling lately though this warmer summer heat does something to me 😫🤣🤣
You did and you mentioned how much you love sex
Posted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorI highly recommend doing this. You will reach spiritual heights liken to superpowers, and you'll assure yourself a biologically unfair advantage in many ways, mostly linked to hormones. I encourage you to try it for at least 6 months. You will be astounded by how productive you become. You will pick up a Bible, you will start working out if you don't currently, and you will quit habits that have held you captive. This is the beauty of sexual transmutation. Do not waste your seed and spiritual energy so cheaply.
But does it count if I orgasm to porn daily ? As long is it’s not with another person I’m good correct ?
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Unfortunately, no. This is because you're increasing dopamine in the brain to levels similar to cocaine or heroin - about 400% more than usual when watching porn.
When you stop using porn to satisfy desire or deep-rooted unforgiviness (which is normally the root of addiction at some point) then it begins to repair itself. You can speed up the benefits dramatically by fasting, exercise, reading, learning, or similar pathological patterns which force critical thinking and prudence into existence. Supplements like alpha GPC can help a lot too. These are helpful primarily because the damage done by addiction is usually done to the frontal lobe, at least of this nature.
However, this is just a mistake. Any step towards your goals are good. After this you can try again with a more fervent vigor and take it as a learning experience. You're already better off (not better than) than 80% of people by giving this effort conscious thought. There is never a bad time to apply good habits. Eventually they will become your being.
Posted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorI highly recommend doing this. You will reach spiritual heights liken to superpowers, and you'll assure yourself a biologically unfair advantage in many ways, mostly linked to hormones. I encourage you to try it for at least 6 months. You will be astounded by how productive you become. You will pick up a Bible, you will start working out if you don't currently, and you will quit habits that have held you captive. This is the beauty of sexual transmutation. Do not waste your seed and spiritual energy so cheaply.
But does it count if I orgasm to porn daily ? As long is it’s not with another person I’m good correct ?
Unfortunately, no. This is because you're increasing dopamine in the brain to levels similar to cocaine or heroin - about 400% more than usual when watching porn.
When you stop using porn to satisfy desire or deep-rooted unforgiviness (which is normally the root of addiction at some point) then it begins to repair itself. You can speed up the benefits dramatically by fasting, exercise, reading, learning, or similar pathological patterns which force critical thinking and prudence into existence. Supplements like alpha GPC can help a lot too. These are helpful primarily because the damage done by addiction is usually done to the frontal lobe, at least of this nature.
However, this is just a mistake. Any step towards your goals are good. After this you can try again with a more fervent vigor and take it as a learning experience. You're already better off (not better than) than 80% of people by giving this effort conscious thought. There is never a bad time to apply good habits. Eventually they will become your being.
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I do think I’m addicted to orgasms therefore I do watch porn now on a daily basis I know crazy right I need to learn to control my urges it’s just so hard !!!
Posted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorI highly recommend doing this. You will reach spiritual heights liken to superpowers, and you'll assure yourself a biologically unfair advantage in many ways, mostly linked to hormones. I encourage you to try it for at least 6 months. You will be astounded by how productive you become. You will pick up a Bible, you will start working out if you don't currently, and you will quit habits that have held you captive. This is the beauty of sexual transmutation. Do not waste your seed and spiritual energy so cheaply.
But does it count if I orgasm to porn daily ? As long is it’s not with another person I’m good correct ?
Unfortunately, no. This is because you're increasing dopamine in the brain to levels similar to cocaine or heroin - about 400% more than usual when watching porn.
When you stop using porn to satisfy desire or deep-rooted unforgiviness (which is normally the root of addiction at some point) then it begins to repair itself. You can speed up the benefits dramatically by fasting, exercise, reading, learning, or similar pathological patterns which force critical thinking and prudence into existence. Supplements like alpha GPC can help a lot too. These are helpful primarily because the damage done by addiction is usually done to the frontal lobe, at least of this nature.
However, this is just a mistake. Any step towards your goals are good. After this you can try again with a more fervent vigor and take it as a learning experience. You're already better off (not better than) than 80% of people by giving this effort conscious thought. There is never a bad time to apply good habits. Eventually they will become your being.
I do think I’m addicted to orgasms therefore I do watch porn now on a daily basis I know crazy right I need to learn to control my urges it’s just so hard !!!
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The good news in this is that your urges aren't a novelty and they have been conquered by others before.
It just so happens that I'll be fasting for the next 21 days. I will keep you in prayer during this time because fasted prayers for some reason appear to be more effective. But I believe you will come out of this a winner, especially because this is something you desire.
Posted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorI highly recommend doing this. You will reach spiritual heights liken to superpowers, and you'll assure yourself a biologically unfair advantage in many ways, mostly linked to hormones. I encourage you to try it for at least 6 months. You will be astounded by how productive you become. You will pick up a Bible, you will start working out if you don't currently, and you will quit habits that have held you captive. This is the beauty of sexual transmutation. Do not waste your seed and spiritual energy so cheaply.
But does it count if I orgasm to porn daily ? As long is it’s not with another person I’m good correct ?
Unfortunately, no. This is because you're increasing dopamine in the brain to levels similar to cocaine or heroin - about 400% more than usual when watching porn.
When you stop using porn to satisfy desire or deep-rooted unforgiviness (which is normally the root of addiction at some point) then it begins to repair itself. You can speed up the benefits dramatically by fasting, exercise, reading, learning, or similar pathological patterns which force critical thinking and prudence into existence. Supplements like alpha GPC can help a lot too. These are helpful primarily because the damage done by addiction is usually done to the frontal lobe, at least of this nature.
However, this is just a mistake. Any step towards your goals are good. After this you can try again with a more fervent vigor and take it as a learning experience. You're already better off (not better than) than 80% of people by giving this effort conscious thought. There is never a bad time to apply good habits. Eventually they will become your being.
I do think I’m addicted to orgasms therefore I do watch porn now on a daily basis I know crazy right I need to learn to control my urges it’s just so hard !!!
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Initially giving up any addiction is challenging so be patient with yourself as with the passage of time it becomes easier. Even better, if you're able to dive in to examine why you need this habitual behaviour to cope.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorI highly recommend doing this. You will reach spiritual heights liken to superpowers, and you'll assure yourself a biologically unfair advantage in many ways, mostly linked to hormones. I encourage you to try it for at least 6 months. You will be astounded by how productive you become. You will pick up a Bible, you will start working out if you don't currently, and you will quit habits that have held you captive. This is the beauty of sexual transmutation. Do not waste your seed and spiritual energy so cheaply.
But does it count if I orgasm to porn daily ? As long is it’s not with another person I’m good correct ?
Unfortunately, no. This is because you're increasing dopamine in the brain to levels similar to cocaine or heroin - about 400% more than usual when watching porn.
When you stop using porn to satisfy desire or deep-rooted unforgiviness (which is normally the root of addiction at some point) then it begins to repair itself. You can speed up the benefits dramatically by fasting, exercise, reading, learning, or similar pathological patterns which force critical thinking and prudence into existence. Supplements like alpha GPC can help a lot too. These are helpful primarily because the damage done by addiction is usually done to the frontal lobe, at least of this nature.
However, this is just a mistake. Any step towards your goals are good. After this you can try again with a more fervent vigor and take it as a learning experience. You're already better off (not better than) than 80% of people by giving this effort conscious thought. There is never a bad time to apply good habits. Eventually they will become your being.
I do think I’m addicted to orgasms therefore I do watch porn now on a daily basis I know crazy right I need to learn to control my urges it’s just so hard !!!
Initially giving up any addiction is challenging so be patient with yourself as with the passage of time it becomes easier. Even better, if you're able to dive in to examine why you need this habitual behaviour to cope.
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Yes I will have to find out why !!
Posted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorI highly recommend doing this. You will reach spiritual heights liken to superpowers, and you'll assure yourself a biologically unfair advantage in many ways, mostly linked to hormones. I encourage you to try it for at least 6 months. You will be astounded by how productive you become. You will pick up a Bible, you will start working out if you don't currently, and you will quit habits that have held you captive. This is the beauty of sexual transmutation. Do not waste your seed and spiritual energy so cheaply.
But does it count if I orgasm to porn daily ? As long is it’s not with another person I’m good correct ?
Unfortunately, no. This is because you're increasing dopamine in the brain to levels similar to cocaine or heroin - about 400% more than usual when watching porn.
When you stop using porn to satisfy desire or deep-rooted unforgiviness (which is normally the root of addiction at some point) then it begins to repair itself. You can speed up the benefits dramatically by fasting, exercise, reading, learning, or similar pathological patterns which force critical thinking and prudence into existence. Supplements like alpha GPC can help a lot too. These are helpful primarily because the damage done by addiction is usually done to the frontal lobe, at least of this nature.
However, this is just a mistake. Any step towards your goals are good. After this you can try again with a more fervent vigor and take it as a learning experience. You're already better off (not better than) than 80% of people by giving this effort conscious thought. There is never a bad time to apply good habits. Eventually they will become your being.
I do think I’m addicted to orgasms therefore I do watch porn now on a daily basis I know crazy right I need to learn to control my urges it’s just so hard !!!
The good news in this is that your urges aren't a novelty and they have been conquered by others before.
It just so happens that I'll be fasting for the next 21 days. I will keep you in prayer during this time because fasted prayers for some reason appear to be more effective. But I believe you will come out of this a winner, especially because this is something you desire.
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Thank you that is beautiful I appreciate it
20 days without having sexual with a partner yay !!!
23 days of celibacy 🥳
The count down begins!!
Nioooooooooooo On day 23 I drank a bottle of red wine and here I am back to my count down
Day 1 ☹️
Posted by TenpxdNioooooooooooo On day 23 I drank a bottle of red wine and here I am back to my count down
Day 1 ☹️
Wine is a weakness for me too. I'm going to do this with you starting today.
Posted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdNioooooooooooo On day 23 I drank a bottle of red wine and here I am back to my count down
Day 1 ☹️
Wine is a weakness for me too. I'm going to do this with you starting today.
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Yes please
Posted by TenpxdNioooooooooooo On day 23 I drank a bottle of red wine and here I am back to my count down
Day 1 ☹️
I used to drink booze, smoke cigs, weed, eat junk food and I gave them all up. It’s difficult at first but becomes easier...and ultimately the health improves
Posted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdNioooooooooooo On day 23 I drank a bottle of red wine and here I am back to my count down
Day 1 ☹️
Wine is a weakness for me too. I'm going to do this with you starting today.
Yes please
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Ok. Days 1-3 are always the hardest. We can counteract urges with new habits. Cold showers and exercise. Before or after work today a long walk might be necessary. You only need to make it through the day. Look up Gabe Dawg on YouTube. He's got loads of advice. The benefits are different for women but its still about conquering yourself today.
Posted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdNioooooooooooo On day 23 I drank a bottle of red wine and here I am back to my count down
Day 1 ☹️
Wine is a weakness for me too. I'm going to do this with you starting today.
Yes please
Ok. Days 1-3 are always the hardest. We can counteract urges with new habits. Cold showers and exercise. Before or after work today a long walk might be necessary. You only need to make it through the day. Look up Gabe Dawg on YouTube. He's got loads of advice. The benefits are different for women but its still about conquering yourself today.
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I don’t know you but I love you thank you 💜
So I really need to get this right.
Posted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdNioooooooooooo On day 23 I drank a bottle of red wine and here I am back to my count down
Day 1 ☹️
Wine is a weakness for me too. I'm going to do this with you starting today.
Yes please
Ok. Days 1-3 are always the hardest. We can counteract urges with new habits. Cold showers and exercise. Before or after work today a long walk might be necessary. You only need to make it through the day. Look up Gabe Dawg on YouTube. He's got loads of advice. The benefits are different for women but its still about conquering yourself today.
I don’t know you but I love you thank you 💜
So I really need to get this right.
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People will either reject the truth and hate me or embrace the truth and love God. You're a blessed person for having an open heart. 😄
Posted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdNioooooooooooo On day 23 I drank a bottle of red wine and here I am back to my count down
Day 1 ☹️
Wine is a weakness for me too. I'm going to do this with you starting today.
Yes please
Ok. Days 1-3 are always the hardest. We can counteract urges with new habits. Cold showers and exercise. Before or after work today a long walk might be necessary. You only need to make it through the day. Look up Gabe Dawg on YouTube. He's got loads of advice. The benefits are different for women but its still about conquering yourself today.
I don’t know you but I love you thank you 💜
So I really need to get this right.
People will either reject the truth and hate me or embrace the truth and love God. You're a blessed person for having an open heart. 😄
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Dm me
Posted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdNioooooooooooo On day 23 I drank a bottle of red wine and here I am back to my count down
Day 1 ☹️
Wine is a weakness for me too. I'm going to do this with you starting today.
Yes please
Ok. Days 1-3 are always the hardest. We can counteract urges with new habits. Cold showers and exercise. Before or after work today a long walk might be necessary. You only need to make it through the day. Look up Gabe Dawg on YouTube. He's got loads of advice. The benefits are different for women but its still about conquering yourself today.
I don’t know you but I love you thank you 💜
So I really need to get this right.
People will either reject the truth and hate me or embrace the truth and love God. You're a blessed person for having an open heart. 😄
Dm me
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I did
Posted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdNioooooooooooo On day 23 I drank a bottle of red wine and here I am back to my count down
Day 1 ☹️
Wine is a weakness for me too. I'm going to do this with you starting today.
Yes please
Ok. Days 1-3 are always the hardest. We can counteract urges with new habits. Cold showers and exercise. Before or after work today a long walk might be necessary. You only need to make it through the day. Look up Gabe Dawg on YouTube. He's got loads of advice. The benefits are different for women but its still about conquering yourself today.
I don’t know you but I love you thank you 💜
So I really need to get this right.
People will either reject the truth and hate me or embrace the truth and love God. You're a blessed person for having an open heart. 😄
Dm me
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I tried twice might not be working try to dm me
Posted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdNioooooooooooo On day 23 I drank a bottle of red wine and here I am back to my count down
Day 1 ☹️
Wine is a weakness for me too. I'm going to do this with you starting today.
Yes please
Ok. Days 1-3 are always the hardest. We can counteract urges with new habits. Cold showers and exercise. Before or after work today a long walk might be necessary. You only need to make it through the day. Look up Gabe Dawg on YouTube. He's got loads of advice. The benefits are different for women but its still about conquering yourself today.
I don’t know you but I love you thank you 💜
So I really need to get this right.
People will either reject the truth and hate me or embrace the truth and love God. You're a blessed person for having an open heart. 😄
Dm me
I tried twice might not be working try to dm me
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I can’t send it
So here’s the update had sex again yesterday with the same person which is good, I can’t do the celibacy it just doesn’t work I like sex too much. I’m just going to cut down but not remove it at this point 🤷🏼♀️
Posted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdNioooooooooooo On day 23 I drank a bottle of red wine and here I am back to my count down
Day 1 ☹️
Wine is a weakness for me too. I'm going to do this with you starting today.
Yes please
Ok. Days 1-3 are always the hardest. We can counteract urges with new habits. Cold showers and exercise. Before or after work today a long walk might be necessary. You only need to make it through the day. Look up Gabe Dawg on YouTube. He's got loads of advice. The benefits are different for women but its still about conquering yourself today.
I don’t know you but I love you thank you 💜
So I really need to get this right.
People will either reject the truth and hate me or embrace the truth and love God. You're a blessed person for having an open heart. 😄
Dm me
I tried twice might not be working try to dm me
I can’t send it
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I got your message. Check your settings so you can receive from me.
Posted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdPosted by ChancellorPosted by TenpxdNioooooooooooo On day 23 I drank a bottle of red wine and here I am back to my count down
Day 1 ☹️
Wine is a weakness for me too. I'm going to do this with you starting today.
Yes please
Ok. Days 1-3 are always the hardest. We can counteract urges with new habits. Cold showers and exercise. Before or after work today a long walk might be necessary. You only need to make it through the day. Look up Gabe Dawg on YouTube. He's got loads of advice. The benefits are different for women but its still about conquering yourself today.
I don’t know you but I love you thank you 💜
So I really need to get this right.
People will either reject the truth and hate me or embrace the truth and love God. You're a blessed person for having an open heart. 😄
Dm me
I tried twice might not be working try to dm me
I can’t send it
I got your message. Check your settings so you can receive from me.
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Try again
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17 days no sex and proud of me yay