Celibacy (Page 2)

Posted by sweetpea2977

Posted by saggurl88

Good luck.

Sounds boring though.

There's SO MUCH more to life than sex though 🤔

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Timon

Posted by saggurl88

This is why I keep an ex for maintenance purposes. It helps with regrets since there is no one new.

🤣🤣🤣

It's not a new mistake. It counts as an old one lol.

I’m comfortable with doing it. We don’t get back together or anything. It’s just him being nice.

It’s like booking an appointment now 😂

I even say “Can I get a maintenance session in”

I have no shame. Lol.

Aren’t you worried about the Covid thing?

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Posted by sweetpea2977

Posted by saggurl88

Good luck.

Sounds boring though.

There's SO MUCH more to life than sex though 🤔

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Posted by sagaciouscorp

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by MyStarsShine

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Posted by Timon

Posted by saggurl88

This is why I keep an ex for maintenance purposes. It helps with regrets since there is no one new.

🤣🤣🤣

It's not a new mistake. It counts as an old one lol.

I’m comfortable with doing it. We don’t get back together or anything. It’s just him being nice.

It’s like booking an appointment now 😂

I even say “Can I get a maintenance session in”

I have no shame. Lol.

Aren’t you worried about the Covid thing?

It’s not anyone new. It’s the same ex I always go to. We are all working essential jobs here. We are all at risk.

I know plenty of essential workers who are still taking precautions

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Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by virgoOPPP

i haven't had sex in months

does that count?

now i feel asexual

Months like 2,3,4 ?

something like 4 yeah

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Posted by saggurl88

This is why I keep an ex for maintenance purposes. It helps with regrets since there is no one new.

Posted by ClassyAquarius

Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by ClassyAquarius

Posted by Tenpxd

Who in here is sexually abstinent.

I want to try this for a while, wish me luck.

More than year for me 🙋🏻‍♀️

Wow!!!!!! For me it’s been 2 weeks and I’m just really trying to keep it going, it’s hard for me. Especially when I see the person of my interest.

sorry I didn't explain myself. The point is I'm not stimulated because I don't meet men recently.

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Posted by Marai

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Posted by Marai

There was a period in life where I have been for like 2,5 years or so. It's amazing, I was so focused and in the clouds at some point. It was like having superpowers. Good luck, it's great!

Drinks make me horny so I need to know who to be around and where to be when having drinks, it’s not easy to get the urge and pump the breaks

Quit drinking too. Maybe start for a month first... You'll feel great 🙂

I enjoy having drinks at least once a month

Once a month is ok. But when you start vasting you might not even want it anymore😉

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Posted by Snakes_N_Ladders

You gotta do NoFap to or its cheating

Posted by _mudra_

Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by _mudra_

I have not had sex by choice for about 9ish months now. With the type of toys they make these days, you really don't need to go through all the trouble of dating and situationships HAHA

Toys are not fulfilling to everyone

Well no sht. But when you're busy and not feeling like putting up with anyone elses BS, they bring some sweet relief in the frustrated moments. Unless you suck at pleasuring yourself.

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Posted by MyStarsShine

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Posted by AbbyNormal

Posted by saggurl88

Good luck.

Sounds boring though.

Far from. I find a sexually focused life to be boring, but to each their own. Sex becomes boring to me when it’s lackluster. And that’s what it always seemed to be for me before the actual groundwork was laid. I just crave so much more than just the physical. Best sex I ever had was being in love and making love, everything else just isn’t the same for me like not at all on the same level. I find that physicality is empty for me without more, I’m a spiritual being and I need a deeper connection to truly enjoy it myself. There’s so much more in life and in love to me.

Yeah same here. I feel the same way you do about it.

I feel the same way too

Feeling sexually dependent on someone made me feel powerless and distracted me too much. I feel freer now.

Sexually dependent how is that

As in with drugs, booze etc.....using it to feel better about myself. I've worked on not having to reach outside of myself to make me feel whole. I changed a pattern which wasn't healthy. I realised after seeing a father that was dependent on medication, that I may have have inherited his addictive personality, so i fixed it 💚

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by PuzzlePieces

Does this mean no dating? Or dating while celibate? And for how long? Inquiring minds lol

I don’t think if it as celibate or abstinence.. I’m focused on someone being a relationship possibility, not casual. So of course if I haven’t found someone like that, I’m not having sex.

Dating but no sex. It’s hard imo but I want to try this thing out.

Um ok. Maybe think in terms of relationship focused instead of sex focused. I find sex is way better with someone you care about instead of someone you just met. It’s been 3 1/2 months for me, since the last relationship. It’s not hard. Yes I’ve been dating.

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Posted by crazysioux

It's been about 11 years for me. But then again, being fuglier than a mud fence in a monsoon sure does help ... 🙂

After 2 years, it all starts to blend together and you'll lose track ... 😛

"Incel" is a meaningless fucking term cobbled together by assholes who shouldn't be getting laid to smear anyone that should be getting laid. Nobody's involuntary celibate. Nobody. You either pay the hooker's going rate, or you get a nice little gumjob from the toothless little cupcake on the corner waiting on her pusher, or you fucking don't ... 😄

Posted by aquarius09

I just don’t know how people can have sex with randos or people whose hygiene and sexual practice/history you know nothing about.

No thanks to empty sex. Feels like rape...at least for me.

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by MyStarsShine

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Posted by Timon

Posted by saggurl88

This is why I keep an ex for maintenance purposes. It helps with regrets since there is no one new.

🤣🤣🤣

It's not a new mistake. It counts as an old one lol.

I’m comfortable with doing it. We don’t get back together or anything. It’s just him being nice.

It’s like booking an appointment now 😂

I even say “Can I get a maintenance session in”

I have no shame. Lol.

Aren’t you worried about the Covid thing?

It’s not anyone new. It’s the same ex I always go to. We are all working essential jobs here. We are all at risk.

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Posted by Marai

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Posted by Marai

There was a period in life where I have been for like 2,5 years or so. It's amazing, I was so focused and in the clouds at some point. It was like having superpowers. Good luck, it's great!

Drinks make me horny so I need to know who to be around and where to be when having drinks, it’s not easy to get the urge and pump the breaks

Quit drinking too. Maybe start for a month first... You'll feel great 🙂

I enjoy having drinks at least once a month

Once a month is ok. But when you start vasting you might not even want it anymore😉

I’m not big on drinks I do enjoy occasionally but when I drink I do get in the mood and I’ve called me ex 😢

Oh no! Delete your ex's contact. Fresh start 🙂

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Posted by SeaLion

I have done it for about a year or so b4. It was due to PTSD from a traumatizing relationship tho...wasnt a conscious decision. I didnt want to be touched by anyone. I'm still working thru that tho and have only aloud 2 ppl to touch me since. I can say that it did free me up a bit in my mind and I focused more on myself during that period and I have started to find who I am again.

Posted by Snakes_N_Ladders

Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by Snakes_N_Ladders

You gotta do NoFap to or its cheating

What’s that

Don't play with your hoohaa

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Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by Snakes_N_Ladders

You gotta do NoFap to or its cheating

What’s that

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Timon

Posted by saggurl88

This is why I keep an ex for maintenance purposes. It helps with regrets since there is no one new.

🤣🤣🤣

It's not a new mistake. It counts as an old one lol.

I’m comfortable with doing it. We don’t get back together or anything. It’s just him being nice.

It’s like booking an appointment now 😂

I even say “Can I get a maintenance session in”

I have no shame. Lol.

Aren’t you worried about the Covid thing?

It’s not anyone new. It’s the same ex I always go to. We are all working essential jobs here. We are all at risk.

Do you kiss him even if he’s your f buddy

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Posted by DMV

I never thought I would be turned off by penis but here I am...disgusted

The sight or even thought of a penis anywhere near me makes me want to blow chunks

It’s been almost 6 months free from any type of sexual entanglement

Freedom not having to have to care above making an impression on men romantically and sexually

Sex was no longer an enjoyable act

It’s boring really when you think about it

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Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by Marai

Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by Marai

Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by Marai

Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by Marai

There was a period in life where I have been for like 2,5 years or so. It's amazing, I was so focused and in the clouds at some point. It was like having superpowers. Good luck, it's great!

Drinks make me horny so I need to know who to be around and where to be when having drinks, it’s not easy to get the urge and pump the breaks

Quit drinking too. Maybe start for a month first... You'll feel great 🙂

I enjoy having drinks at least once a month

Once a month is ok. But when you start vasting you might not even want it anymore😉

I’m not big on drinks I do enjoy occasionally but when I drink I do get in the mood and I’ve called me ex 😢

Oh no! Delete your ex's contact. Fresh start 🙂

I know I did this past week after I decided I need to stop the sex thing

You'll be ok! 🍀

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Posted by exoskeleton_

i haven't been celibate for longer than a month in the past 10 years, so i'm giving it a try now lol

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by Snakes_N_Ladders

You gotta do NoFap to or its cheating

What’s that

No Wanking, Masturbaring, Jerking off etc

😀

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Posted by DMV

I never thought I would be turned off by penis but here I am...disgusted

The sight or even thought of a penis anywhere near me makes me want to blow chunks

It’s been almost 6 months free from any type of sexual entanglement

Freedom not having to have to care above making an impression on men romantically and sexually

Sex was no longer an enjoyable act

It’s boring really when you think about it

Posted by virgal_perfectionist

It will be four years 8/1 for me. It's a journey but to me its worth it all. I feel and think more clearly.

Soul ties are real out here!!!

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Timon

Posted by saggurl88

This is why I keep an ex for maintenance purposes. It helps with regrets since there is no one new.

🤣🤣🤣

It's not a new mistake. It counts as an old one lol.

I’m comfortable with doing it. We don’t get back together or anything. It’s just him being nice.

It’s like booking an appointment now 😂

I even say “Can I get a maintenance session in”

I have no shame. Lol.

Aren’t you worried about the Covid thing?

It’s not anyone new. It’s the same ex I always go to. We are all working essential jobs here. We are all at risk.

Do you kiss him even if he’s your f buddy

He's a Scorpio, I don't think I'd be able to get away with not kissing him. 🙂

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Posted by Victorious

Sounds more like you don't make good connections.

Posted by Metatron

I did it for several years and had to isolate myself severely during that time to stay away from one ex in particular....I think the sexual aspect was the easiest at first, though there were periods I think I had an unhealthy relationship with porn. The worst part for me was honestly this really strong yearning I felt to have a warm body next to me in bed...so basically cuddling lol....

I think, as much as it can be a healthy thing for some depending on circumstances, it can also push you into some very unhealthy behaviors or states of mind if you isolate yourself socially like I did. I became hypersensitive to anything sexual after a while. At one point, I remember talking to an ex over the phone, which was one of the most terrible relationships I've ever been in, and she tried to spark up some sexy talk with me and I felt like I had almost no self control - like she could literally mind-control me via my genitals if I kept that convo going. It was a really strange experience, felt like pure euphoria actually, and I'm just thankful I was living far away from her at the time bc if not, I would've def made a bad decision. I took a cold shower afterwards and had all sorts of crazy dreams and heavy/intrusive fantasies about our former sex life for months after.

Posted by crazysioux

Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by crazysioux

It's been about 11 years for me. But then again, being fuglier than a mud fence in a monsoon sure does help ... 🙂

After 2 years, it all starts to blend together and you'll lose track ... 😛

"Incel" is a meaningless fucking term cobbled together by assholes who shouldn't be getting laid to smear anyone that should be getting laid. Nobody's involuntary celibate. Nobody. You either pay the hooker's going rate, or you get a nice little gumjob from the toothless little cupcake on the corner waiting on her pusher, or you fucking don't ... 😄

11years wow do you at least give it to yourself

I'm a walking friction blister over here ... 😛 😄

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Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Timon

Posted by saggurl88

This is why I keep an ex for maintenance purposes. It helps with regrets since there is no one new.

🤣🤣🤣

It's not a new mistake. It counts as an old one lol.

I’m comfortable with doing it. We don’t get back together or anything. It’s just him being nice.

It’s like booking an appointment now 😂

I even say “Can I get a maintenance session in”

I have no shame. Lol.

Aren’t you worried about the Covid thing?

It’s not anyone new. It’s the same ex I always go to. We are all working essential jobs here. We are all at risk.

Do you kiss him even if he’s your f buddy

He's a Scorpio, I don't think I'd be able to get away with not kissing him. 🙂

Oh Fuck but kissing makes it more intimate

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Timon

Posted by saggurl88

This is why I keep an ex for maintenance purposes. It helps with regrets since there is no one new.

🤣🤣🤣

It's not a new mistake. It counts as an old one lol.

I’m comfortable with doing it. We don’t get back together or anything. It’s just him being nice.

It’s like booking an appointment now 😂

I even say “Can I get a maintenance session in”

I have no shame. Lol.

Aren’t you worried about the Covid thing?

It’s not anyone new. It’s the same ex I always go to. We are all working essential jobs here. We are all at risk.

Do you kiss him even if he’s your f buddy

He's a Scorpio, I don't think I'd be able to get away with not kissing him. 🙂

Oh Fuck but kissing makes it more intimate

That’s the idea 🤓

Talking about sex isn’t gonna help you with your celibacy 🤣🤪

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Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by Snakes_N_Ladders

You gotta do NoFap to or its cheating

What’s that

No Wanking, Masturbaring, Jerking off etc

😀

I can’t I do that daily

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Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by Metatron

I did it for several years and had to isolate myself severely during that time to stay away from one ex in particular....I think the sexual aspect was the easiest at first, though there were periods I think I had an unhealthy relationship with porn. The worst part for me was honestly this really strong yearning I felt to have a warm body next to me in bed...so basically cuddling lol....

I think, as much as it can be a healthy thing for some depending on circumstances, it can also push you into some very unhealthy behaviors or states of mind if you isolate yourself socially like I did. I became hypersensitive to anything sexual after a while. At one point, I remember talking to an ex over the phone, which was one of the most terrible relationships I've ever been in, and she tried to spark up some sexy talk with me and I felt like I had almost no self control - like she could literally mind-control me via my genitals if I kept that convo going. It was a really strange experience, felt like pure euphoria actually, and I'm just thankful I was living far away from her at the time bc if not, I would've def made a bad decision. I took a cold shower afterwards and had all sorts of crazy dreams and heavy/intrusive fantasies about our former sex life for months after.

I watch porn daily to replace sex with a person it’s definitely unhealthy

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Posted by DMV

I never thought I would be turned off by penis but here I am...disgusted

The sight or even thought of a penis anywhere near me makes me want to blow chunks

It’s been almost 6 months free from any type of sexual entanglement

Freedom not having to have to care above making an impression on men romantically and sexually

Sex was no longer an enjoyable act

It’s boring really when you think about it

It’s lame with just some random dick

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Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by DMV

I never thought I would be turned off by penis but here I am...disgusted

The sight or even thought of a penis anywhere near me makes me want to blow chunks

It’s been almost 6 months free from any type of sexual entanglement

Freedom not having to have to care above making an impression on men romantically and sexually

Sex was no longer an enjoyable act

It’s boring really when you think about it

It’s lame with just some random dick

Even with someone who isn’t random.

Sex is pretty boring and uninspiring.

I think it’s the fact that it’s so forbidden for some that makes it appear like the best thing on earth. Scarcity.

Purely a mechanism to bring life into the world.

I think women only like sex because men like sex and even then I don’t think men know exactly why they like having sex. It certainly ain’t for pleasure.

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Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by DMV

I never thought I would be turned off by penis but here I am...disgusted

The sight or even thought of a penis anywhere near me makes me want to blow chunks

It’s been almost 6 months free from any type of sexual entanglement

Freedom not having to have to care above making an impression on men romantically and sexually

Sex was no longer an enjoyable act

It’s boring really when you think about it

It’s lame with just some random dick

Even with someone who isn’t random.

Sex is pretty boring and uninspiring.

I think it’s the fact that it’s so forbidden for some that makes it appear like the best thing on earth. Scarcity.

Purely a mechanism to bring life into the world.

I think women only like sex because men like sex and even then I don’t think men know exactly why they like having sex. It certainly ain’t for pleasure.

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Posted by DMVI think women only like sex because men like sex and even then I don’t think men know exactly why they like having sex. It certainly ain’t for pleasure.

Posted by DMV

Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by DMV

I never thought I would be turned off by penis but here I am...disgusted

The sight or even thought of a penis anywhere near me makes me want to blow chunks

It’s been almost 6 months free from any type of sexual entanglement

Freedom not having to have to care above making an impression on men romantically and sexually

Sex was no longer an enjoyable act

It’s boring really when you think about it

It’s lame with just some random dick

Even with someone who isn’t random.

Sex is pretty boring and uninspiring.

I think it’s the fact that it’s so forbidden for some that makes it appear like the best thing on earth. Scarcity.

Purely a mechanism to bring life into the world.

I think women only like sex because men like sex and even then I don’t think men know exactly why they like having sex. It certainly ain’t for pleasure.

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by DMV

Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by DMV

I never thought I would be turned off by penis but here I am...disgusted

The sight or even thought of a penis anywhere near me makes me want to blow chunks

It’s been almost 6 months free from any type of sexual entanglement

Freedom not having to have to care above making an impression on men romantically and sexually

Sex was no longer an enjoyable act

It’s boring really when you think about it

It’s lame with just some random dick

Even with someone who isn’t random.

Sex is pretty boring and uninspiring.

I think it’s the fact that it’s so forbidden for some that makes it appear like the best thing on earth. Scarcity.

Purely a mechanism to bring life into the world.

I think women only like sex because men like sex and even then I don’t think men know exactly why they like having sex. It certainly ain’t for pleasure.

What brought you to this conclusion @DMV. It seems like a complete turnaround for you? 😳

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Posted by DMV

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by DMV

Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by DMV

I never thought I would be turned off by penis but here I am...disgusted

The sight or even thought of a penis anywhere near me makes me want to blow chunks

It’s been almost 6 months free from any type of sexual entanglement

Freedom not having to have to care above making an impression on men romantically and sexually

Sex was no longer an enjoyable act

It’s boring really when you think about it

It’s lame with just some random dick

Even with someone who isn’t random.

Sex is pretty boring and uninspiring.

I think it’s the fact that it’s so forbidden for some that makes it appear like the best thing on earth. Scarcity.

Purely a mechanism to bring life into the world.

I think women only like sex because men like sex and even then I don’t think men know exactly why they like having sex. It certainly ain’t for pleasure.

What brought you to this conclusion @DMV. It seems like a complete turnaround for you? 😳

I’ll say!

Idk. Sounds graphic but I was having sex and then I had an epiphany...

I don’t even like having sex. I was suddenly bored out of my mind and couldn’t wait to do something else. So I stopped midway and never came back to it

I lost all passion for passion

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Posted by DMV

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by DMV

Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by DMV

I never thought I would be turned off by penis but here I am...disgusted

The sight or even thought of a penis anywhere near me makes me want to blow chunks

It’s been almost 6 months free from any type of sexual entanglement

Freedom not having to have to care above making an impression on men romantically and sexually

Sex was no longer an enjoyable act

It’s boring really when you think about it

It’s lame with just some random dick

Even with someone who isn’t random.

Sex is pretty boring and uninspiring.

I think it’s the fact that it’s so forbidden for some that makes it appear like the best thing on earth. Scarcity.

Purely a mechanism to bring life into the world.

I think women only like sex because men like sex and even then I don’t think men know exactly why they like having sex. It certainly ain’t for pleasure.

What brought you to this conclusion @DMV. It seems like a complete turnaround for you? 😳

I’ll say!

Idk. Sounds graphic but I was having sex and then I had an epiphany...

I don’t even like having sex. I was suddenly bored out of my mind and couldn’t wait to do something else. So I stopped midway and never came back to it

I lost all passion for passion

Not graphic at all.

Wow what a story! What have you replaced it with?

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Posted by MyStarsShine

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Posted by DMV

Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by DMV

I never thought I would be turned off by penis but here I am...disgusted

The sight or even thought of a penis anywhere near me makes me want to blow chunks

It’s been almost 6 months free from any type of sexual entanglement

Freedom not having to have to care above making an impression on men romantically and sexually

Sex was no longer an enjoyable act

It’s boring really when you think about it

It’s lame with just some random dick

Even with someone who isn’t random.

Sex is pretty boring and uninspiring.

I think it’s the fact that it’s so forbidden for some that makes it appear like the best thing on earth. Scarcity.

Purely a mechanism to bring life into the world.

I think women only like sex because men like sex and even then I don’t think men know exactly why they like having sex. It certainly ain’t for pleasure.

What brought you to this conclusion @DMV. It seems like a complete turnaround for you? 😳

I’ll say!

Idk. Sounds graphic but I was having sex and then I had an epiphany...

I don’t even like having sex. I was suddenly bored out of my mind and couldn’t wait to do something else. So I stopped midway and never came back to it

I lost all passion for passion

Not graphic at all.

Wow what a story! What have you replaced it with?

Day dreaming. My head is way up in the clouds

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