ladyscorpio91
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Aquarius MALE sex advice!!! Please help!
@flowingwater - Thanks for the feedback! That is helpful. Now I would really appreciate elaboration on what turns you on mentally... Any specific times you remember that you were instantly turned on by something someone did or said? How did it make you feel and what did you do about it perhaps?
Very helpful, good points. Storing in my memory bank and having hopes that I will remember these damn complexities! LOL! Thanks a ton.
They say aquarius females are more interested in sex than the males. He just really doesn't seem to have it as a priority or interest what so ever - and he doesn't and will never understand how important sex is to me (his scorpio lady) it's ALL WE THINK ABOUT!!!! We just want to express it because thats really how we want to show our devotion and love!! We are just polar opposites and its tough!
The worst thing for a scorpio is being turned down, I feel like I am failing and need so much help on how to excite him/get him going! We argue a lot too because how stubborn he is and it's almost like he is intimidated by my easy going understanding nature and it drives him crazy! I am assuming the arguing is a turn off but he is constantly wanting to argue - probably because I dont know how to stimulate him so an argument will have to do.. YARG!!!!
When I want sex its a MUST in my head, and I just want to go to town on him, but he is very weirded out 😢 He doesn't understand where it's coming from - it's like HELLO I HAVE BEEN UNDRESSING YOU FOR 845 HOURS NOW I JUST WANT YOU INSIDE ME ALREADY I LOVE YOU!!!! HAHAHAHAH
They say aquarius females are more interested in sex than the males. He just really doesn't seem to have it as a priority or interest what so ever - and he doesn't and will never understand how important sex is to me (his scorpio lady) it's ALL WE THINK ABOUT!!!! We just want to express it because thats really how we want to show our devotion and love!! We are just polar opposites and its tough!
The worst thing for a scorpio is being turned down, I feel like I am failing and need so much help on how to excite him/get him going! We argue a lot too because how stubborn he is and it's almost like he is intimidated by my easy going understanding nature and it drives him crazy! I am assuming the arguing is a turn off but he is constantly wanting to argue - probably because I dont know how to stimulate him so an argument will have to do.. YARG!!!!
When I want sex its a MUST in my head, and I just want to go to town on him, but he is very weirded out 😢 He doesn't understand where it's coming from - it's like HELLO I HAVE BEEN UNDRESSING YOU FOR 845 HOURS NOW I JUST WANT YOU INSIDE ME ALREADY I LOVE YOU!!!! HAHAHAHAH
They are all like that though.
As a scorpio I like to provide innuendos all the time to aquas and because they aren't necessarily thinking about it they surprisingly don't "get it".
I know what you are saying though.
Follow what FW is suggesting...they value intellect. That's a turn on for them. Incorporate something intellectual and then use that as seduction.
As a scorpio I like to provide innuendos all the time to aquas and because they aren't necessarily thinking about it they surprisingly don't "get it".
I know what you are saying though.
Follow what FW is suggesting...they value intellect. That's a turn on for them. Incorporate something intellectual and then use that as seduction.
Too funny @flowingwater!!!
@iammystified - "Incorporate something intellectual and then use that as seduction."
Examples perhaps? Im just so used to being horny, either they catch the vibe and make a move or I make a move. I am used to that being the scenerio and nothing else to it!!! I can't crack this code!
Helpzzzzzz :-|
@iammystified - "Incorporate something intellectual and then use that as seduction."
Examples perhaps? Im just so used to being horny, either they catch the vibe and make a move or I make a move. I am used to that being the scenerio and nothing else to it!!! I can't crack this code!
Helpzzzzzz :-|
Posted by flowingwaterPosted by IAmMystified
They are all like that though.
As a scorpio I like to provide innuendos all the time to aquas and because they aren't necessarily thinking about it they surprisingly don't "get it".
I know what you are saying though.
Follow what FW is suggesting...they value intellect. That's a turn on for them. Incorporate something intellectual and then use that as seduction.
Its weird, but we really don't get it Lol
Scorp gets frustrated because he thinks I'm ignoring it but I'm not..
Sometimes he needs to initiate it.click to expand
LOL an "innuendo" is just basically us saying IM FUCKING HORNY, in hopes of not making the Aqua feel uncomfortable by just shouting that instead! Hah
Posted by ladyscorpio91Posted by flowingwaterPosted by IAmMystified
They are all like that though.
As a scorpio I like to provide innuendos all the time to aquas and because they aren't necessarily thinking about it they surprisingly don't "get it".
I know what you are saying though.
Follow what FW is suggesting...they value intellect. That's a turn on for them. Incorporate something intellectual and then use that as seduction.
Its weird, but we really don't get it Lol
Scorp gets frustrated because he thinks I'm ignoring it but I'm not..
Sometimes he needs to initiate it.
LOL an "innuendo" is just basically us saying IM FUCKING HORNY, in hopes of not making the Aqua feel uncomfortable by just shouting that instead! Hah - and then in return we just get a joking head shake or a weird look and then we feel like were not good enough 😢click to expand
@fw
I think its cute that aquas don't get it LOL but I see where the frustration lies
@ladyscorpio
What I mean is you need to not only consider how you feel, but consider how your mate feels. Aquas although they love sex as much as anyone but other things are slightly MORE important so you need to find a balance between what each of you want so as not to make this relationship one sided.
Aquas love intellect like I said earlier so get into some sort of debate. Stand your grand out with him but incorporate a jokey, banter like behavior. But they also are playful so something intellectual and playful should do the trick. Most of the aquas I know love getting a rise out of people, so soem how get him to do that to you and then do it back to him in a playful way and then just grab him 😉
I think its cute that aquas don't get it LOL but I see where the frustration lies
@ladyscorpio
What I mean is you need to not only consider how you feel, but consider how your mate feels. Aquas although they love sex as much as anyone but other things are slightly MORE important so you need to find a balance between what each of you want so as not to make this relationship one sided.
Aquas love intellect like I said earlier so get into some sort of debate. Stand your grand out with him but incorporate a jokey, banter like behavior. But they also are playful so something intellectual and playful should do the trick. Most of the aquas I know love getting a rise out of people, so soem how get him to do that to you and then do it back to him in a playful way and then just grab him 😉
Give you an example that gives them a thrill that has happened in the past not that it led to sex or anything cuase I'm chicken shit and was at the time but i'm sure if I grabbed him right then and there it may have led to something but it went like this.
Me: hey can you do me a favor
Aqua: What? (eyes me suspiciously)
Me: Can you hand me that basket of papers
Aqua: Ok (starts taking papers off one by one)
Me: OMG no, just give me the basket
Aqua: Ok (takes even bigger stacks off one by one)
Me: OMG XYZ! Just give me the basket! (in a playful yet exasperated tone)
Aqua: Ok (chuckles devishly and hands me the entire basket)
Me: OMG!
Aqua: Have at it 😉
Kind of like that. Playful yet exasperating. If I or he kept it up that would have been the perfect start.
I hope that makes sense.
Me: hey can you do me a favor
Aqua: What? (eyes me suspiciously)
Me: Can you hand me that basket of papers
Aqua: Ok (starts taking papers off one by one)
Me: OMG no, just give me the basket
Aqua: Ok (takes even bigger stacks off one by one)
Me: OMG XYZ! Just give me the basket! (in a playful yet exasperated tone)
Aqua: Ok (chuckles devishly and hands me the entire basket)
Me: OMG!
Aqua: Have at it 😉
Kind of like that. Playful yet exasperating. If I or he kept it up that would have been the perfect start.
I hope that makes sense.
As an aqua guy, he doesn't seem interested in you in that way.
Posted by flowingwaterPosted by ladyscorpio91Posted by ladyscorpio91Posted by flowingwaterPosted by IAmMystified
They are all like that though.
As a scorpio I like to provide innuendos all the time to aquas and because they aren't necessarily thinking about it they surprisingly don't "get it".
I know what you are saying though.
Follow what FW is suggesting...they value intellect. That's a turn on for them. Incorporate something intellectual and then use that as seduction.
Its weird, but we really don't get it Lol
Scorp gets frustrated because he thinks I'm ignoring it but I'm not..
Sometimes he needs to initiate it.
LOL an "innuendo" is just basically us saying IM FUCKING HORNY, in hopes of not making the Aqua feel uncomfortable by just shouting that instead! Hah - and then in return we just get a joking head shake or a weird look and then we feel like were not good enough 😢
Really?
Is it that easy to crush your egos??
Well damn I've been doing it wrong all this time..
No wonder he feels like he has try harder every time.click to expand
Yes! Sex is our ego! Lol!! I have to say its definately enlightening to have someone (male aqua) who doesn't ONLY care about sex and no emotions. But getting turned down about sex is like turning down our love. Ive noticed this weekend the rolling over and ignoring thing works as well as bed wrestling worked, i'm a happy Scorpio lady now HEH HEH HEH 😄 😄 we will see how long it last doe haha I will probably want him again tonight and he will just wanna cuddle and talk - so amazing, but I LOVE WHATS IN YOUR PANTS TOO!!! Hahaha
Posted by StarChild63
As an aqua guy, he doesn't seem interested in you in that way.
Yeah I would have to agree he is a southern boy moved to the city and found me. Hes very mature for his age and since his career is steady he wants nothing more than to be the dad he never had and find a real woman. Noticing he loves the qualities I have to offer - I am a complete independent house wife without the husband LOL! I had read that bed wrestling, 20 questions games, and ignoring them works to get them to into the mood - and it worked! I hate that I had to look up shit to get it but honestly if I hadn't I would have got frustrated from not getting sex and would have probably said things I didn't mean - were just total opposites. Without his cuddle time and love hes an asshole - and without my sex im a bitch. Its pretty ugly HAHA but I he is so amazing I am willing to sacrifice some nights. If only he made sacrifices lol we would argue less.
Posted by IAmMystified
@fw
I think its cute that aquas don't get it LOL but I see where the frustration lies
@ladyscorpio
What I mean is you need to not only consider how you feel, but consider how your mate feels. Aquas although they love sex as much as anyone but other things are slightly MORE important so you need to find a balance between what each of you want so as not to make this relationship one sided.
Aquas love intellect like I said earlier so get into some sort of debate. Stand your grand out with him but incorporate a jokey, banter like behavior. But they also are playful so something intellectual and playful should do the trick. Most of the aquas I know love getting a rise out of people, so soem how get him to do that to you and then do it back to him in a playful way and then just grab him 😉
Thanks for the advice, I really appreciate it! I got lucky this weekend and got to devour my aqua man twice in one day! This scorpio is on cloud 9.... cloud 3,000!! Lol! He is so great 😄
However debating/sharing opinions with this particular aquarius - is more of an argument. He was raised by his grandparents whom I think taught him to be a little too tough haha!!! In a way I love it but sometimes I can't really have an opinion cuz his must come on top and im sensitive scorpio and get sad that it can't feel 50/50 - but I adore him so I just try to smile and love him :-)
Posted by Huldra
If you don't provide intellectually (a.k.a. cannot hold a nice conversation with them - about meaningful things, not about Hollywood's latest) then you're probably not going to get far. Even if they end up sleeping with you a couple of times.
A partner who is a deep, well-read, and well-traveled person is worth much more than a girl who's "got a booty like a Cadillac".
Well lucky for him he has a woman with a booty and can also talk about ANYTHING!!!! However..... this particular aqua man can TALK! Im lucky if I get a word in which is extremely frustrating - and he is evolved in a lot of areas, however when it comes to cooling off and just simply asking for him to be 50/50 with me and allowing me to have an opinion without an argument or being judged about my opinion he just shuts off and gets upset and then I get sad :-/ He doesn't like to hear anyone else's side of things which is hurtful but I really try to just let it blow over.. but it seems to happen often :-/ We ALWAYS get over it which he has actually mentioned how grateful he is to have found a woman who he can argue with and then the next minute forget about it and things be amazing - I would rather just not argue :-/
Perhaps his arguing is his way of these famous "aqua debates/conversations"? Haha, if so I am definitely going to have to get used to this! I just must be super sensitive scorpio!! Lol.
Well aqua males I hear always think they are right 😄
YOu can leverage his wanting to be on top to mean something else 😉
YOu can leverage his wanting to be on top to mean something else 😉
I'm a scorp too. my aqua is really sexual, weird - does't seem to suit the sign but he seems happy with lengthy gaps in between seeing each other - which I hate, hello... sex drive. He's gorgeous. haha but yeah, they seem to like the lead up to sex. In terms of sexy conversations that give them something to look forward to later. Be that a sexy text, mms, snapchat... something to remind him, you're excited by him and he makes you feel good. Without being too crass, sort of thing. Like a hint, more than giving the full explanation. Hope that helps! 🙂)) Works with mine when things are good. haha
Posted by flowingwater
Yay!!! It really worked— I'm so happy for you! _—
I'm trying to be more handset and lovey with my scorp.
We were sitting on the couch watching tv.. He just kept staring and I said what?? Like a dumbass but I think it was that innuendo he was doing that you girls mentioned hahaha
So I pulled off the blanket and slipped between his legs... He loved it!!
He cuddled me kissed me and caressed my Cheek. _—_—_??_
I was in love!!!
It's just that his poker face makes him seem unapproachable like he's serious and mad lol
Thank you I am happy for you too!! Ow owwwww hehe nothing makes us Scorpios more comfortable and in love than when our aqua can sacrifice a little cuddle time and intellect time for some good ol touching and penetration 😄 Our bodies work like an aquas mind works LOL so funny and opposite its interesting to me, and fun 😄 but can be such a mystery!!!!
Got lucky twice, I did also after we spoke on here! LOL!!! Too hilarious 😄
PS - Scorpio poker face/seriousness in the face = we are constantly observing things on a serious note. He was probably trying to tame himself, we literally think about sex ALL DAY, not with random people but with the one we care about and love. Its how we love hehe. I am always having to tame myself so that my Aqua doesn't think im a brainless animal, I am smart and very intelligent (which I think intimidates my Aqua man a tiny bit) but we feel so free and connected all at once during intercourse.
Just remember how you like your mind stimulated, we like whats in our pants stimulated the exact same way! If only my aqua man could truly understand this - we would be riding off into the sunset without all these stumbles and stops. He shuts off when I talk about compromises and deep issues, maybe one day :-)
Posted by IAmMystified
Well aqua males I hear always think they are right 😄
YOu can leverage his wanting to be on top to mean something else 😉
I just wanna dominate him!! YARG!!!!! Hes too strong though hehe but yes I think you might be right 😉
Posted by incendiafire
I'm a scorp too. my aqua is really sexual, weird - does't seem to suit the sign but he seems happy with lengthy gaps in between seeing each other - which I hate, hello... sex drive. He's gorgeous. haha but yeah, they seem to like the lead up to sex. In terms of sexy conversations that give them something to look forward to later. Be that a sexy text, mms, snapchat... something to remind him, you're excited by him and he makes you feel good. Without being too crass, sort of thing. Like a hint, more than giving the full explanation. Hope that helps! 🙂)) Works with mine when things are good. haha
Thank you for your input! I will have to try this! Definately keeping these tactics in mind!! Thank you so much!
Posted by Huldra
Our Mars/Moons are both in Air signs so it's all in the head. So pretty much whatever way I'm turned on works for him as well. Haven't failed so far.
Interesting. I need some air bubbles in my water!!! Shoot... My brain is full of water!!!! Hahaha lol
I want to know how you are turned on as an aquarius!!! I want to know how to get my aquarius in the mood! How to turn him on 😄
Posted by Huldra
I'm not an Aquarius, I'm a Pisces. My man's an Aqua.
Any times you can remember how your Aqua guy was turned on? Perhaps what you did specifically to do so?
Looks like I am going to have to invest in a decent vibrator, getting turned down is getting old and as a scorpio hurtful :-/
Once we even have a split thought of sex w our partner we want it and it won't stop running through our minds til we are fulfilled. Vibrator it is.
Posted by SugarfootPosted by ladyscorpio91Posted by Huldra
Our Mars/Moons are both in Air signs so it's all in the head. So pretty much whatever way I'm turned on works for him as well. Haven't failed so far.
Interesting. I need some air bubbles in my water!!! Shoot... My brain is full of water!!!! Hahaha lol
I want to know how you are turned on as an aquarius!!! I want to know how to get my aquarius in the mood! How to turn him on 😄
It's pretty much like Huldra and flowingwater said. Talking about anything and everything should do it. Sharing views and insights on different things (especially things they're currently obsessed with) without trying to force your viewpoint on his but simply stating it and being accepting of his.
The arguing is your cockblock. I don't know one Aqua who enjoys arguing. It drains them and I think they view it as an attack on their intelligence and/or ego if you don't agree with them. I could be wrong on that but in any case they don't like arguing. They like things easy breezy and exciting. Introduce him to something new to him but you love. Remember they love gadgets and new techniques.
We had a book of 100 sexy things to try with your lover. Every now and then we'd break it out and try stuff on each other. He loved that. One time I tied him up and blindfolded him. He was completely naked. I left the room and let him lay there for 10 minutes before coming back in. The sensory deprivation was supposed to heighten his sensitivity to touch. I first started touching him with a feather, stroking it up and down his body lightly. He was totally out of control. It was awesome! I suppose it could sound like you're treating sex as a science experiment but it was fun! And it helped us learn each other. We were really young but he was ALWAYS horny.
Of course you don't have to do that kind of stuff all the time, but every now and then to keep things interesting. Keeps the mental AND physical juices flowing.click to expand
Thanks for the reply, very good insight and helpful! I am so helpless in this situation I swear, what were the gods thinking putting this Aqua guy in my path..... LOL. I mean hes a great guy... I just am so exaughsted
@Sugarfoot - Sorry it cut off my reply.
"Thanks for the reply, very good insight and helpful! I am so helpless in this situation I swear, what were the gods thinking putting this Aqua guy in my path..... LOL. I mean hes a great guy... I just am so exaughsted thinking about sex and exaughsted with wanting it. At first it was fun and new but now, I am just not able to connect to him fully without the sex. Its really making me sad, and I hate that I can't talk to him about it because he will just be awkward and just tell me how he is and that its not going to change.
Sad, disconnected & deprived scorp girl 😢"
"Thanks for the reply, very good insight and helpful! I am so helpless in this situation I swear, what were the gods thinking putting this Aqua guy in my path..... LOL. I mean hes a great guy... I just am so exaughsted thinking about sex and exaughsted with wanting it. At first it was fun and new but now, I am just not able to connect to him fully without the sex. Its really making me sad, and I hate that I can't talk to him about it because he will just be awkward and just tell me how he is and that its not going to change.
Sad, disconnected & deprived scorp girl 😢"
Posted by IrresistableScorp
On the sex. Aqua sees sex as a fun thing to do that adds camaraderie to the relationship. It can be a release and fun. Scorpio connects during sex. We give our hidden feelings during sex. And very rarely will the two meet somewhere up in the ether like scorp likes. Unless your aqua has some water in him.
Try to get him to concentrate on the emotional levels during sex. You might have to talk him through it during the act. Which if he is a typical air sign he will probably like. More sensual talk during sex. Don't rely just on the vibe alone. My two cents.
The advice I have got on here from everyone has helped me tremendously in the arguing department with my aqua guy. I am so glad I asked for help here because I got answers and they worked. Thanks for your input - just adding to others, and it works! I have learned that I have to guard my emotions just keep them inside - they really do get in the way of our relationship!! LOL! Which I can laugh at because now I see so clearly about it haha! Again I really appreciate your reply 😄 Thank you!
Now, the sex... still struggling with lol maybe because before I met him I was having sex with multiple partners a couple times a week and maybe more, and now I am lucky if I get it once a week :-/
Lol I am just such a noob over here I swear, and I feel that I am a queen when it comes to sex, now I am totally clueless with this Aqua guy lol.... Like I said it was a fun little new challenge type thing now 2 months in the relationship and I am going NUTS!!! I think its making me even more crazy that I am seeking help and having issues on my end and hes over there just CHILLIN!!!!!! OOOOOO it makes me so mad, but luckily I am understanding and loving scorp... I GUESS! HAHA
So, sensual talk. ALL I KNOW IS DIRTY TALK. Is this different? If so, examples please! I suck I know guys I AM SORRY!
@Sugarfoot - Unlike most Aquas he is VERY CLINGY, very attentive and affectionate. All the time! Almost to the point where I can't keep up believe it or not! So I get that, not deprived there at all!! I really try hard to remember that and that is what is important - however... us scorpios... Sex to us.. or ok... Sex to ME, is EVERYTHING. Without sex, were just friends (in my head). I can not be HAPPY, without it. I already know that I am going to have to discuss it with him, eventually.. with your guys help, I will know how to now as opposed to last week before all this advice I would have screwed it all up lol.
In the past, if there wasn't a strong sexual desire/connection I was out the door done hands clean, peace out this won't work, see ya bye and I would not stick around a second longer when struggling in that department. Now, I AM REALLY REALLY trying. Dating almost two months now with the label as a serious relationship (already possibly getting a place together) and we have had sex 7-10 times. I want to effing slip date rape pills in his beer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol
You know what also, he really fucking turns me on - and he thinks hes the ugliest thing on the earth. Scorpios are turned on by ANYTHING - but a man like aquarius, so different and caring... nothing turns us on more than a hard target! But nothing hurts us more when we shoot our precious stinger and its straight blocked by a 50 ft steel wall.
GRRR!!! Honestly it so simple, I wanna fuck. I wanna cum, I wanna orgasm. It would be nice if I could fuck him instead of wanting to fuck every guy I see instead. LOL if I told aquarius like that, LOL, I would NEVER see him again he would be OUT. I know I know GRRRR!!!
In the past, if there wasn't a strong sexual desire/connection I was out the door done hands clean, peace out this won't work, see ya bye and I would not stick around a second longer when struggling in that department. Now, I AM REALLY REALLY trying. Dating almost two months now with the label as a serious relationship (already possibly getting a place together) and we have had sex 7-10 times. I want to effing slip date rape pills in his beer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol
You know what also, he really fucking turns me on - and he thinks hes the ugliest thing on the earth. Scorpios are turned on by ANYTHING - but a man like aquarius, so different and caring... nothing turns us on more than a hard target! But nothing hurts us more when we shoot our precious stinger and its straight blocked by a 50 ft steel wall.
GRRR!!! Honestly it so simple, I wanna fuck. I wanna cum, I wanna orgasm. It would be nice if I could fuck him instead of wanting to fuck every guy I see instead. LOL if I told aquarius like that, LOL, I would NEVER see him again he would be OUT. I know I know GRRRR!!!
Posted by IrresistableScorp
Stop worrying about arguing with Aqua. A good intellectual argument turns them on and the more you disagree the better. They don't see that as negative at all. You can't be sensitive about this. Spar away.
Unfortunately, I have found Aqua to be distant when it comes to emotional support and this will be an area of contention over long haul.
Just remember that when Aqua is distant during emotional turbulence it's because that's how they like it. They withdrawal during especially emotional times because it suits their needs. So basically the withdrawal is actually being compassionate and understanding in their minds---if you have an established connection with them and all else is fine.
The best course of action is to ask for emotional support. As a scorp you like it when your partner just knows you need specific things. This is your turn on. You won't get this with Aqua. This type of thing mainly doesn't register especially with the men. However, if you ask Aquas can be very good at being supportive. They really want to help. Ask like you would a good friend not like you are some emotional wreck. Srsly
(Things I've learned by being involved with Aqua suns, venuses and moons)
Asking for support from aqua males is only good if they REMEMBER. They are forgetful little buggers, in the annoying sense.
Posted by Sugarfoot
Ladyscorpio, try letting him come to you. Let him initiate for a while and see how that works. No hinting or innuendo from you.
Aquarius would much rather do something that is their own idea than feeling like they are being pushed into something or something is being demanded of them.
i dont know about that.
it might depend on the male/female dynamics.
my husband pursued me. he said, he fell in love with me and wanted to be with me and i told him, i felt scared because i am NOT sure if he is serious. I felt a deep connection with him, but i dont like having my heart ripped in two. I do not like men who are NOT serious with love. that MEANS marriage, family traditions and a home of my own with him. Not living with parents or siblings or someting stupid like that. I'd rather live on my own or with my family if some man is NOT serious with love and is in it for the long haul, till death.
and my husband WALKED the WALK. he basically showed me through his actions that he loved me. no wordy flowery shit or anything like that.
so the dynamics. could be different with male/female.
basically you SHOW me. Not talk. or stupid ideas.
now in retrospect, i've had men in the past who have SHOWED me.
you know, the works:
said they've got this and that, and showed me: the big house, the career, *that he could support a family*
and i felt NOTHING.
nothing could have made me choose them.
you know, the works:
said they've got this and that, and showed me: the big house, the career, *that he could support a family*
and i felt NOTHING.
nothing could have made me choose them.
Posted by ladyscorpio91
My Aquarius male is super into me without a doubt, we have been dating for a little over a month. I am a ridiculously horny Scorpio female. With my Aquarius male I quickly learned I was going to be forced (unfortunately) to tone down my sex drive, you guys are stubborn! As I would with other signs/males if I felt like it, it was easy and simple and I would get my fix. With him - he doesn't want to talk about it he wants it to happen freely and..naturally? Which I feel I am natural human being with wants and needs and every individual is entitled to their own forces of nature and it's about just going with it.
I just want to know what it actually MEANS when they say "you have to stimulate their intellect" - I am having a hard time imagining how to do that and mix it with the mood of sexual intimacy during that time.
Basically - please help me know how I can seduce him or if at all possible IN DETAIL how I can get him in the mood.....also, his ankles/calves are not linked to his penis unfortunately, because if so I would be nawing on that shit 24/7 😄
i wish i could help you but honestly i have no idea. What are his placements??
if he's not wanting to be with you ALOT. like daily, every single day, then i don't know. Of course, even if he works full time and is tired as hell when he gets home, he still wants you THERE.
you're just in the stages of dating right?
maybe he is gauging your personality and also your family background.
i know that sounds very unromantic, but look at his past relationships too.
it's too bad there's NO male aquarius around to help you.
they could offer a huge perspective.
even the dominant aqua males here, but they seem tentative to help or just don't know what to say.
they could offer a huge perspective.
even the dominant aqua males here, but they seem tentative to help or just don't know what to say.
Posted by IrresistableScorp
I haven't found that at all. Aqua bits are like a freaking catalog of everything you've said and done. They remember shit from a sentence you said years ago. Maybe you are not seeing or recognizing the actions that correspond with the support you asked for or something? Just a thought.
Then maybe they are PRETENDING they "forgot" or just don't think its a priority. 😐
I haven't found that at all. Aqua bits are like a freaking catalog of everything you've said and done. They remember shit from a sentence you said years ago. Maybe you are not seeing or recognizing the actions that correspond with the support you asked for or something? Just a thought.
Then maybe they are PRETENDING they "forgot" or just don't think its a priority. 😐
I swear they say scorpio women are direct but not direct in 'my sense' of direct. They are direct with their body language but I'll be damned if I could get one to verbalized what they want. It's always indirect with EVERYTHING.
"Darn I ran out of coffee creamer guess I'll have to make tea.. shucks"
REALLY MEANS
"I miss you can you come over and buy me some coffee creamer on your way?"
Like is it really so hard to ask ^.^?
"Darn I ran out of coffee creamer guess I'll have to make tea.. shucks"
REALLY MEANS
"I miss you can you come over and buy me some coffee creamer on your way?"
Like is it really so hard to ask ^.^?
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
I swear they say scorpio women are direct but not direct in 'my sense' of direct. They are direct with their body language but I'll be damned if I could get one to verbalized what they want. It's always indirect with EVERYTHING.
"Darn I ran out of coffee creamer guess I'll have to make tea.. shucks"
REALLY MEANS
"I miss you can you come over and buy me some coffee creamer on your way?"
Like is it really so hard to ask ^.^?
lol ive never done that
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
I swear they say scorpio women are direct but not direct in 'my sense' of direct. They are direct with their body language but I'll be damned if I could get one to verbalized what they want. It's always indirect with EVERYTHING.
"Darn I ran out of coffee creamer guess I'll have to make tea.. shucks"
REALLY MEANS
"I miss you can you come over and buy me some coffee creamer on your way?"
Like is it really so hard to ask ^.^?
Our body is how we express ourselves! We are so in tuned with our bodies! So in regards to my original post - are you saying I should just tell him when I want him? I have tried that but he is so weird about sex I swear. This Aquarius is going to be the death of Scorpio! Rawr! However I am about to update everyone on a separate post!
***********UPDATE************
Alright guys so after hours of my Aqua man begging to know whats going on with me, we finally had the official conversation regarding this original post.. What it came down to was me telling him how I truly felt (I feel like I can not connect with someone fully without sex) and he proceeded to tell me how opposite we are that he doesn't care about sex (which transitions to a guilt trip like I am a bad person like ALL I care about is sex...) and that he connects in the same way but through conversation and chemistry/mental connections --- WHICH I WAS HAPPY THAT HE WAS AT LEAST RECOGNIZING THAT WE HAVE DIFFERENCES WOO HOO BIG STEP!! LOL! Then (this is where I got super happy) he also verbalized how "we need to combine how we connect evenly/fairly"!!!!! AHHHH!!! THE GODS HAVE SPOKEN AND GIVEN THIS MAN ANSWERS! You all should have seen me brighten up when he said that!!! I agreed (OF COURSE LOL) and then we proceeded to discuss how we can have more conversations and more sex lol our most valued interests haha.. He then asked me how many times I would find reasonable.. I told him "well taking you into consideration I think a minimum of 2-3 times a week would suffice, perhaps every other day.. however typically I would prefer everyday or just whenever I feel it or you feel it.." hehe yikes that means ALL DAY just kidding lol. Its really not about how many times, I just don't want to be turned down, which I also mentioned to him but when that came into the convo there was a lot of denial from him, he does turn me down, whatever the reason may be. But I am hoping having this conversation in general will help us two get a long better - really hoping it won't be an issue and that we can both remember this specific conversation and really try - cuz this match is quite the challenge. The way he handled this was impressive and really made me love him even more, I just really hope and pray that we can make this work!
BIG THANKS TO ALL OF YOU WHO HAVE HELPED AND GIVEN ME ADVICE ON HERE. YOUR TIME AND CONSIDERATION MEANS SO MUCH TO ME, MY LITTLE SCORPIO HEART HAS BEEN TOUCHED 😄
Thank you all
Alright guys so after hours of my Aqua man begging to know whats going on with me, we finally had the official conversation regarding this original post.. What it came down to was me telling him how I truly felt (I feel like I can not connect with someone fully without sex) and he proceeded to tell me how opposite we are that he doesn't care about sex (which transitions to a guilt trip like I am a bad person like ALL I care about is sex...) and that he connects in the same way but through conversation and chemistry/mental connections --- WHICH I WAS HAPPY THAT HE WAS AT LEAST RECOGNIZING THAT WE HAVE DIFFERENCES WOO HOO BIG STEP!! LOL! Then (this is where I got super happy) he also verbalized how "we need to combine how we connect evenly/fairly"!!!!! AHHHH!!! THE GODS HAVE SPOKEN AND GIVEN THIS MAN ANSWERS! You all should have seen me brighten up when he said that!!! I agreed (OF COURSE LOL) and then we proceeded to discuss how we can have more conversations and more sex lol our most valued interests haha.. He then asked me how many times I would find reasonable.. I told him "well taking you into consideration I think a minimum of 2-3 times a week would suffice, perhaps every other day.. however typically I would prefer everyday or just whenever I feel it or you feel it.." hehe yikes that means ALL DAY just kidding lol. Its really not about how many times, I just don't want to be turned down, which I also mentioned to him but when that came into the convo there was a lot of denial from him, he does turn me down, whatever the reason may be. But I am hoping having this conversation in general will help us two get a long better - really hoping it won't be an issue and that we can both remember this specific conversation and really try - cuz this match is quite the challenge. The way he handled this was impressive and really made me love him even more, I just really hope and pray that we can make this work!
BIG THANKS TO ALL OF YOU WHO HAVE HELPED AND GIVEN ME ADVICE ON HERE. YOUR TIME AND CONSIDERATION MEANS SO MUCH TO ME, MY LITTLE SCORPIO HEART HAS BEEN TOUCHED 😄
Thank you all
Wow ladyscorpio I swear I was reading my own self from when I was your age. I am 30 now. My aqua sun scorpio moon man is 34.... he pursued me ..... we talked on the phone for a week and I was so talkative and goofy and apparently he likes my weirdness. That next weekend we hung out and after some time I was busy talking to his friend he comes over and puts his hand on my leg and looks at his phone (like he was claiming me).... after everyone went to bed he basically grabs me and starts kissing me.... he keeps grabbing my face looking at me in AWE and saying THIS IS CRAZY! HOW CAN I LIKE YOU SO MUCH THIS FAST! and he's in wonderment .... I was genuinely excited and curious how someone like him was falling so fast after just a year before he had a divorce with a 13 year marriage where she hurt him horribly. He got me down to nothing.... but did not have sex with me.. he just kept looking at me and my body and was just WOW! I had never experienced that in my life! We both are single parents and connect like best friends/lovers instantly. I am a biology major pre med and I have done public education with museums and zoo's for the past 8 years (so I'm a nerd!)... I'm a scorpio with a scorpio moon......... and sex when we did finally have it (I am so glad he made me wait and build up our friendship first)... after that he initiated almost every time.... and the sex was out of this world..... trying things I had not even done before and I was like you back in my younger years and very all over the place with sex exploration and sharing my love so I am no beginner in the world of love making.
I can tell you he loves hearing me talk..... I talk A LOT (venus in Sagittarius) and yet I am composed and respectful and that apparently gets him going. I love picking on him and he loves picking on me.... it's like when you knock a boy down that you like on the play ground.... sorta like that. I don't get it as often due to distance and my emotional break downs that cause him to go quiet for awhile ...... so sometimes I feel I end up not only hurting him with those times but I also end up hurting myself because I caused him to go away..... so I really inflicted my own wounds doing that. Scorpios and aquas are such a great team it's ridiculous ... we are so good for each other... but at the same time we can easily hurt each other. I think that if we put in the man hours in the beginning to getting to know each other that at one point we will understand each other and it w
I can tell you he loves hearing me talk..... I talk A LOT (venus in Sagittarius) and yet I am composed and respectful and that apparently gets him going. I love picking on him and he loves picking on me.... it's like when you knock a boy down that you like on the play ground.... sorta like that. I don't get it as often due to distance and my emotional break downs that cause him to go quiet for awhile ...... so sometimes I feel I end up not only hurting him with those times but I also end up hurting myself because I caused him to go away..... so I really inflicted my own wounds doing that. Scorpios and aquas are such a great team it's ridiculous ... we are so good for each other... but at the same time we can easily hurt each other. I think that if we put in the man hours in the beginning to getting to know each other that at one point we will understand each other and it w
Posted by ladyscorpio91Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
I swear they say scorpio women are direct but not direct in 'my sense' of direct. They are direct with their body language but I'll be damned if I could get one to verbalized what they want. It's always indirect with EVERYTHING.
"Darn I ran out of coffee creamer guess I'll have to make tea.. shucks"
REALLY MEANS
"I miss you can you come over and buy me some coffee creamer on your way?"
Like is it really so hard to ask ^.^?
Our body is how we express ourselves! We are so in tuned with our bodies! So in regards to my original post - are you saying I should just tell him when I want him? I have tried that but he is so weird about sex I swear. This Aquarius is going to be the death of Scorpio! Rawr! However I am about to update everyone on a separate post!click to expand
He's always going to be weird about it from your perspective. And, yes I do think from time to time just straight up going for it or telling him what you want is advisable. He's still a male and has testosterone coursing through his veins like the rest of us.
Key points
- While I'm sure he is good at reading in between the lines he is likely not to trust his intuition on things with you.
- He is very straight forward with you and I'm sure he is expecting the same from you... rather then trying to read your mind.
- And, he may never be as emo under the sheets as you would fancy which is something your going to have to give strong consideration to. You want him to be open with his feelings I'm guessing or at least express them at that time but he is probably not inclined to be this way easily... I mean he's not just an Aqua he is a male ^.^
It would help to say what you like.
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