CapLovinAquaz
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Aquarius Men and Ignoring Them
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Thank you guys!
I feel like Caps are great at ignoring people, but so are Aquarius, so I feel like no one will win because it'll turn into a pride & ego contest.
Posted by Wineaux15Lol! I'm a Cap but I will not ignore the ones I love. It was even hard to ignore him for only 8 hours today. We talk all through out the day by phone call or majority through text. So it was hard. He contacted me and that's what made me reconsider me ignoring him.
I feel like Caps are great at ignoring people, but so are Aquarius, so I feel like no one will win because it'll turn into a pride & ego contest.
I am a Cap female and I have male Aquas drooling over me. Don't ignore them to play games. If he's reaching out to you, then he wants to communicate with you to problem solve.
Take a deep breath and express in a calm manner what bothered you about the situation earlier with your Aqua.
Talk to him.
As a Cap female, I hate ignoring people. I may need some time to think, but I refuse to be childish and ignore people to punish them. If I see that you may be willing to communicate and hash out differences to move forward, I'll keep you in my life forever if you're worth it.
Take a deep breath and express in a calm manner what bothered you about the situation earlier with your Aqua.
Talk to him.
As a Cap female, I hate ignoring people. I may need some time to think, but I refuse to be childish and ignore people to punish them. If I see that you may be willing to communicate and hash out differences to move forward, I'll keep you in my life forever if you're worth it.
Posted by LovingSeraphina*In my opinion, I think it's weak and cowardly to ignore people verses talking it out. People who refuse to communicate to hash out differences, I release them from my world.
I agree with Rochella. It's not a way to resolve problems. It's only a way to draw attention to yourself.
It makes the problem bigger.
It's a sure way to start conflict
I have never known caps or aquas do this. They engage.
I think you would both be happier if you both engaged and opened up. You don't want to hurt each other.
Even if you break up ..you still want to be as good as you can to the other etc. 🙂
You don't generally see Aquas or caps wanting to hurt people.
You guys are so right.
I am the one that loves talking out issues with people. I was just really hurt earlier by his actions of cancelling last minute with me. My Aqua runs his own business and is already a busy man. It has been a slow season for him now and I just thought he would love me o want to spend more time with me. It just hurt the fact that he has no problem canceling last minute. And he has done this times before.
I am the one that loves talking out issues with people. I was just really hurt earlier by his actions of cancelling last minute with me. My Aqua runs his own business and is already a busy man. It has been a slow season for him now and I just thought he would love me o want to spend more time with me. It just hurt the fact that he has no problem canceling last minute. And he has done this times before.
Posted by rochelleaPosted by LovingSeraphina*In my opinion, I think it's weak and cowardly to ignore people verses talking it out. People who refuse to communicate to hash out differences, I release them from my world.
I agree with Rochella. It's not a way to resolve problems. It's only a way to draw attention to yourself.
It makes the problem bigger.
It's a sure way to start conflict
I have never known caps or aquas do this. They engage.
I think you would both be happier if you both engaged and opened up. You don't want to hurt each other.
Even if you break up ..you still want to be as good as you can to the other etc. 🙂
You don't generally see Aquas or caps wanting to hurt people.
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In college, I dated a Cap. We dated for quite a while. He really really liked me, and I liked him too. We'd argue, but it wasn't about anything worth arguing about. Well... one day, we had a deep argument and he stopped calling for like a week. I was too stubborn to initiate a call, but I misssd him. By week 2 I was starting to get over him, but he finally called. By that time I was done. Needless to say, the next Cap I dated after him happened much like this. Maybe the male Caps are different than the female Caps, but the ones I've dated ego, pride, and stubbornness ruined great relationships. I was at fault just as well.
Posted by Wineaux15*I think it depends on the individual, I dated a male Cap and he was childish and unevolved...very manipulative, he wasn't on my level at all and I am a female Cap who has a natural affinity toward male Caps.Posted by rochelleaPosted by LovingSeraphina*In my opinion, I think it's weak and cowardly to ignore people verses talking it out. People who refuse to communicate to hash out differences, I release them from my world.
I agree with Rochella. It's not a way to resolve problems. It's only a way to draw attention to yourself.
It makes the problem bigger.
It's a sure way to start conflict
I have never known caps or aquas do this. They engage.
I think you would both be happier if you both engaged and opened up. You don't want to hurt each other.
Even if you break up ..you still want to be as good as you can to the other etc. 🙂
You don't generally see Aquas or caps wanting to hurt people.
In college, I dated a Cap. We dated for quite a while. He really really liked me, and I liked him too. We'd argue, but it wasn't about anything worth arguing about. Well... one day, we had a deep argument and he stopped calling for like a week. I was too stubborn to initiate a call, but I misssd him. By week 2 I was starting to get over him, but he finally called. By that time I was done. Needless to say, the next Cap I dated after him happened much like this. Maybe the male Caps are different than the female Caps, but the ones I've dated ego, pride, and stubbornness ruined great relationships. I was at fault just as well.
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He would go distant when disagreements occurred and would refuse to communicate. I just chalked it up that he is afflicted and eventually left him alone.
An update:
I reached out to my Aqua guy and he listened to my concerns. He told me that he sorry and wouldn't do that to me again since he know how much he hurt me by canceling. Now what he said after that kind of through me through a loop:
He said that at the time he didn't see anything wrong with what he did. He said that I should be understanding that he had other things to take care of at that moment (i.e. getting money). He said that I am always wanting him for myself and that I require a lot of attention.
I told him I do require a lot and that I want him to understand that I also understand him being busy. But I don't want him to neglect us.
I reached out to my Aqua guy and he listened to my concerns. He told me that he sorry and wouldn't do that to me again since he know how much he hurt me by canceling. Now what he said after that kind of through me through a loop:
He said that at the time he didn't see anything wrong with what he did. He said that I should be understanding that he had other things to take care of at that moment (i.e. getting money). He said that I am always wanting him for myself and that I require a lot of attention.
I told him I do require a lot and that I want him to understand that I also understand him being busy. But I don't want him to neglect us.
Posted by CapLovinAquazFrom my limited experiences with one, communication is everything. He doesn't have to be an Aquarius even in relationships. You need to learn to communicate your feelings. Things just got exclusive and now you are acting out! ? If he was still your friend would you have acted that way? Treat him the same but with more love... silent treatment isn't nice at all... he will see silence as you trying to manipulate him and they won't take that lightly.... it will back fire on you.Posted by Wineaux15Lol! I'm a Cap but I will not ignore the ones I love. It was even hard to ignore him for only 8 hours today. We talk all through out the day by phone call or majority through text. So it was hard. He contacted me and that's what made me reconsider me ignoring him.
I feel like Caps are great at ignoring people, but so are Aquarius, so I feel like no one will win because it'll turn into a pride & ego contest.click to expand
Posted by CapLovinAquaz
You guys are so right.
I am the one that loves talking out issues with people. I was just really hurt earlier by his actions of cancelling last minute with me. My Aqua runs his own business and is already a busy man. It has been a slow season for him now and I just thought he would love me o want to spend more time with me. It just hurt the fact that he has no problem canceling last minute. And he has done this times before.
Cancelling out or changing plans ... thats highly common for Aqua I think .. you need to go with the flow with this man.. it will never go the way you want it to... don't take it personally. He's just being him.... just express your feelings and be like * I was upset that the plan was cancelled once again as I was looking forward to spending time with you. Although I understand you are busy and your business should come first.. though next time please let me know in advance so I can make other plans * see how you are not using * you * in the sentences? There's no blame here..... after that just ignore it and move on... don't even mention it next time you meet... even ask about his work and what happened that night etc... it should bring him closer to you. my two cents
Posted by saweetz1988welcome back Saweetz! 🙂Posted by CapLovinAquaz
You guys are so right.
I am the one that loves talking out issues with people. I was just really hurt earlier by his actions of cancelling last minute with me. My Aqua runs his own business and is already a busy man. It has been a slow season for him now and I just thought he would love me o want to spend more time with me. It just hurt the fact that he has no problem canceling last minute. And he has done this times before.
Cancelling out or changing plans ... thats highly common for Aqua I think .. you need to go with the flow with this man.. it will never go the way you want it to... don't take it personally. He's just being him.... just express your feelings and be like * I was upset that the plan was cancelled once again as I was looking forward to spending time with you. Although I understand you are busy and your business should come first.. though next time please let me know in advance so I can make other plans * see how you are not using * you * in the sentences? There's no blame here..... after that just ignore it and move on... don't even mention it next time you meet... even ask about his work and what happened that night etc... it should bring him closer to you. my two cents
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Posted by AerialViewPosted by saweetz1988welcome back Saweetz! 🙂Posted by CapLovinAquaz
You guys are so right.
I am the one that loves talking out issues with people. I was just really hurt earlier by his actions of cancelling last minute with me. My Aqua runs his own business and is already a busy man. It has been a slow season for him now and I just thought he would love me o want to spend more time with me. It just hurt the fact that he has no problem canceling last minute. And he has done this times before.
Cancelling out or changing plans ... thats highly common for Aqua I think .. you need to go with the flow with this man.. it will never go the way you want it to... don't take it personally. He's just being him.... just express your feelings and be like * I was upset that the plan was cancelled once again as I was looking forward to spending time with you. Although I understand you are busy and your business should come first.. though next time please let me know in advance so I can make other plans * see how you are not using * you * in the sentences? There's no blame here..... after that just ignore it and move on... don't even mention it next time you meet... even ask about his work and what happened that night etc... it should bring him closer to you. my two cents
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I knew u wud say something lol....
Posted by Wineaux15Posted by rochelleaPosted by LovingSeraphina*In my opinion, I think it's weak and cowardly to ignore people verses talking it out. People who refuse to communicate to hash out differences, I release them from my world.
I agree with Rochella. It's not a way to resolve problems. It's only a way to draw attention to yourself.
It makes the problem bigger.
It's a sure way to start conflict
I have never known caps or aquas do this. They engage.
I think you would both be happier if you both engaged and opened up. You don't want to hurt each other.
Even if you break up ..you still want to be as good as you can to the other etc. 🙂
You don't generally see Aquas or caps wanting to hurt people.
In college, I dated a Cap. We dated for quite a while. He really really liked me, and I liked him too. We'd argue, but it wasn't about anything worth arguing about. Well... one day, we had a deep argument and he stopped calling for like a week. I was too stubborn to initiate a call, but I misssd him. By week 2 I was starting to get over him, but he finally called. By that time I was done. Needless to say, the next Cap I dated after him happened much like this. Maybe the male Caps are different than the female Caps, but the ones I've dated ego, pride, and stubbornness ruined great relationships. I was at fault just as well.
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So true I'm a cap girl that dated a Aquarius guy I would IGNORE him when really pissed me off because I know how much Aquarius hate being ignored. I had a Aquarius best friend same thing ignore her when she pissed me off.... Honestly ignoring them will cause a war.
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