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She wants a better connection, you take that on literally and think it’s about quality because you respond saying “it’s a great connection” yes you may hit it off on the surface but is it a deep connection? Is she grounded around you and present in the moment? Are you guys talking about the good stuff?

She probably should have voiced her needs better.

The thing with Aquarians is that we easily take on many things at once without knowing it and suddenly we have our hands full, sometimes we just need to drop something to keep balance in our lives so we can go back to the balancing act. I think she realised how much commitment this relationship was going to take and aquas hate to dissapoint so it’s better to break it off early
When we were together in person we always had a good time. She never voiced anything and she started it knowing that work would be necessary to get it going.
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Do you give her space when she breaks up with you? It almost seems like shes testing you to see how you handle the whole space issue. ( I know it's an extreme example of it) If she breaks up with you, leave her alone.

She knows how much you like her, which seems to be a lot. So don't contact her at all. See if she comes back ,since supposedly you two had such a great connection. If you really did, then she will come back cause you gave her the space she needed. If not, then you know the connection was really one sided.

If she liked you and the connection was really there, she'll wonder where the hell you went since you "liked" her so much.

I don't think us aquas have the time or patience to "test" people with space, it would kill us more than the other person.

She's doing this thing called SHE REALLY NEEDS SPACE AND YOUR OVERTHINKING IT.


The once I talked to did. With all his constant mirroring until I figured out i could text whenever the hell I wanted and he would answer.

I was so confused waiting for him to initiate.



Cause there is no test........

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I agree with the Aqua here I don't think Aqua test people with space lol. They just bloody need and love their space n just bloody busy lol.
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Just everything you write seems too romantic and over done.

If you scare her away because you want a "queen" then ill be here to tell you I told you so.

Too much romantic bull shit When in reality there is no bond. Having things in common is some thing we could easily do with a dog, you ante special because you guys like the same things.

You can't seriously think that having 20 things in common is gonna do it.

You will see.

Goodluck!

damn girl its like your me😂oh look we even have the same mercury,ill say what she said,too lazy to write it if there is someone who already wrote my opinion😆

We both have water moons and water risings too.





whats your moon and rising?havent met one whose opinion are the same as mine until now



Pisces moon and pisces rising



do people always took advantage of you?pisces rising peeps tend to attract the opportunist kind of people,or the ones who think they can take advantage of us

Take advantage how?

I don't have problems with people using me for things, money, etc.

I do have a problem with people assuming things. Like if I don't respond quick enough they go on about how I am feeling or thinking, which is not their place.

I'm a runner so people don't really get the chance to keep being stupid with me.

Its boring.



like people who wants to tie you down to a job thats not really yours to begin with,people always take advantage of me so i have to learn to say no,i always help people and i dont ask for help i usually solve it on my own but when i do really need help people dissapoint me,if only i can rub it on their face how im always their to help them because they ask me for help but i cant,and it usually starts with one time help but then they grew dependent on me and would always need or want my help,i grew tired to those people so i distance myself now for my own sanity as to not be take advantage off
People only disapoint you because you have expectations.

You should never have expectations for anyone.

truth,i've learn it the hard way,its like im a true friend thats why i help you and if you are as well you would do the same,but the dissaponting fact is they cant even be a good listener if they cant help in my other problems its fine,sometimes all i need is a listening ear and a tap on the back but they cant even be that person,in my lifetime i have only met 2 people who will just listen,hug me,then tell me honestly what i did wrong,there isnt a lot of people who listens usually people only wanted to speak

My best advice: get a dog.

Dogs are great cuddlers, listeners, protectors.

Mines cuddled up next to me now.



im a dog lover😍i would so love to adopt one right now but our place isnt fit for a dog this moment,and im so busy with my business i woudnt find time to take care of him,it would break my heart everytime i neglect him,and yes i would love a male dog,whats the breed of you dog?



He is pit, chiuahaha and lab. He's got short musclely legs, brendal. I picked him out by his birth chart. He's the most amazing thing on this planet, he loves my bf but gets jealous and sometimes sits near me and looks at me like "is he taking care of you mom?"

Lol

I could write a book about why he's amazing.

He gives me tap kisses when I ask for one.

He knows how to stand up and hug.

He cuddles with me like a human, sleeps with his nose between my shoulder and chin.

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awww how adorable😍,gotta save some money to afford a bigger house so i can adopt a dog,my mom would hate it but if theres a place for him she cant argue with me,shes afraid of dog,im like wuuttttt—??cant you see the cuteness overload?and their sweetness😙,i miss having a dog
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Just everything you write seems too romantic and over done.

If you scare her away because you want a "queen" then ill be here to tell you I told you so.

Too much romantic bull shit When in reality there is no bond. Having things in common is some thing we could easily do with a dog, you ante special because you guys like the same things.

You can't seriously think that having 20 things in common is gonna do it.

You will see.

Goodluck!

damn girl its like your me😂oh look we even have the same mercury,ill say what she said,too lazy to write it if there is someone who already wrote my opinion😆

We both have water moons and water risings too.





whats your moon and rising?havent met one whose opinion are the same as mine until now



Pisces moon and pisces rising



do people always took advantage of you?pisces rising peeps tend to attract the opportunist kind of people,or the ones who think they can take advantage of us

Take advantage how?

I don't have problems with people using me for things, money, etc.

I do have a problem with people assuming things. Like if I don't respond quick enough they go on about how I am feeling or thinking, which is not their place.

I'm a runner so people don't really get the chance to keep being stupid with me.

Its boring.



like people who wants to tie you down to a job thats not really yours to begin with,people always take advantage of me so i have to learn to say no,i always help people and i dont ask for help i usually solve it on my own but when i do really need help people dissapoint me,if only i can rub it on their face how im always their to help them because they ask me for help but i cant,and it usually starts with one time help but then they grew dependent on me and would always need or want my help,i grew tired to those people so i distance myself now for my own sanity as to not be take advantage off
People only disapoint you because you have expectations.

You should never have expectations for anyone.

truth,i've learn it the hard way,its like im a true friend thats why i help you and if you are as well you would do the same,but the dissaponting fact is they cant even be a good listener if they cant help in my other problems its fine,sometimes all i need is a listening ear and a tap on the back but they cant even be that person,in my lifetime i have only met 2 people who will just listen,hug me,then tell me honestly what i did wrong,there isnt a lot of people who listens usually people only wanted to speak

My best advice: get a dog.

Dogs are great cuddlers, listeners, protectors.

Mines cuddled up next to me now.



im a dog lover😍i would so love to adopt one right now but our place isnt fit for a dog this moment,and im so busy with my business i woudnt find time to take care of him,it would break my heart everytime i neglect him,and yes i would love a male dog,whats the breed of you dog?



He is pit, chiuahaha and lab. He's got short musclely legs, brendal. I picked him out by his birth chart. He's the most amazing thing on this planet, he loves my bf but gets jealous and sometimes sits near me and looks at me like "is he taking care of you mom?"

Lol

I could write a book about why he's amazing.

He gives me tap kisses when I ask for one.

He knows how to stand up and hug.

He cuddles with me like a human, sleeps with his nose between my shoulder and chin.



awww how adorable😍,gotta save some money to afford a bigger house so i can adopt a dog,my mom would hate it but if theres a place for him she cant argue with me,shes afraid of dog,im like wuuttttt—??cant you see the cuteness overload?and their sweetness😙,i miss having a dog

What happened to your dog?

Its all in how you raise them. If you raise them out of love and kindness they will treat you with love and kindness.

An animal is a thousand more times likely to listen if you punish them out of love and understanding than personal feelings like anger.

He listens so well I don't ever put a collar or leash on him. I've never put him in a kennel. It took me two months to potty train him.

The last time I caught him peeing on the floor I got down and scrubbed the floor and I gave him a speech about how pee makes things stink, and how I have to clean it every time and how humans have to be potty trained also. He sat there watching me with the guiltiest face, the next day he sat at the door like I told him to and waited for me to let him outside.

That's what I get for picking out a Taurus mercury though. They listen.

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thats why i love dogs more than people because they will never betray you and will reciprocate what you give them sometimes much more with the love they can give,someone poisoned him😢it broke my gf and my heart when she called me crying that our dog is dead,all she got is his collar she didnt even see his dead body,thats why i swore never to adopt again until im sure i can completely take care of him,his a mini pinscher we treated him like his our baby he never sleeps until we do he has this adorable look on his face whenever he is guilty of something like yours,and whenever we talk to him he does this side head thing its cute😍good thing you can pick a dog that you know the birthdate in our country you woudnt know
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Do you give her space when she breaks up with you? It almost seems like shes testing you to see how you handle the whole space issue. ( I know it's an extreme example of it) If she breaks up with you, leave her alone.

She knows how much you like her, which seems to be a lot. So don't contact her at all. See if she comes back ,since supposedly you two had such a great connection. If you really did, then she will come back cause you gave her the space she needed. If not, then you know the connection was really one sided.

If she liked you and the connection was really there, she'll wonder where the hell you went since you "liked" her so much.

I don't think us aquas have the time or patience to "test" people with space, it would kill us more than the other person.

She's doing this thing called SHE REALLY NEEDS SPACE AND YOUR OVERTHINKING IT.


The once I talked to did. With all his constant mirroring until I figured out i could text whenever the hell I wanted and he would answer.

I was so confused waiting for him to initiate.



Cause there is no test........


I agree with the Aqua here I don't think Aqua test people with space lol. They just bloody need and love their space n just bloody busy lol.
Omg. I told you aquas dont test. You kept insisting in all your other posts on here that they test people all the time because its what you do. Have some consistency. I sometimes wonder who the real "gemini" is. Gems seem more consistent than you.
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I'm the one that said that. @saweetz1988 had nothing to do with it lol

And it seems like a test to me cause I want answers!!

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FYI I did her chart without knowing the exact time of birth.

Sun Aquarius

Moon Taurus

Mercury Aquarius

Venus Capricorn

Mars Scorpio

Here is mine

Sun Sagittarius

Moon Libra

Mercury Sagittarius

Venus Scorpio

Mars Sagittarius



Does it say anything?


WOOO HOOOOOOOO!!!! I KNEW IT!!!!! 😛

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I can't speak for that sag mercury though.

Your on your own there.

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I have Sag mercury and My Aqua friend has Aqua mercury too.

It took a super long time for him to open up. He still holds back now when we talk and tip toes around certain subjects. I just don't get it. I can talk about anything. He tries to deflect or avoid certain topics.

Especially if he thinks it's gonna lead into another topic.

Sometimes I have to spell stuff out and say "The reason I'm saying this is...." just so he can give me an answer now without trying to play chess and be 5 moves ahead.

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FYI I did her chart without knowing the exact time of birth.

Sun Aquarius

Moon Taurus

Mercury Aquarius

Venus Capricorn

Mars Scorpio

Here is mine

Sun Sagittarius

Moon Libra

Mercury Sagittarius

Venus Scorpio

Mars Sagittarius



Does it say anything?


WOOO HOOOOOOOO!!!! I KNEW IT!!!!! 😛

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I can't speak for that sag mercury though.

Your on your own there.



I have Sag mercury and My Aqua friend has Aqua mercury too.

It took a super long time for him to open up. He still holds back now when we talk and tip toes around certain subjects. I just don't get it. I can talk about anything. He tries to deflect or avoid certain topics.

Especially if he thinks it's gonna lead into another topic.

Sometimes I have to spell stuff out and say "The reason I'm saying this is...." just so he can give me an answer now without trying to play chess and be 5 moves ahead.



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I see deflection in Aquas 😉 in my case changing the subject to avoid the subject itself.
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She wants a better connection, you take that on literally and think it’s about quality because you respond saying “it’s a great connection” yes you may hit it off on the surface but is it a deep connection? Is she grounded around you and present in the moment? Are you guys talking about the good stuff?

She probably should have voiced her needs better.

The thing with Aquarians is that we easily take on many things at once without knowing it and suddenly we have our hands full, sometimes we just need to drop something to keep balance in our lives so we can go back to the balancing act. I think she realised how much commitment this relationship was going to take and aquas hate to dissapoint so it’s better to break it off early
Is that how you tell if Aqua has a deep connection with you? That grounded calm and deep convo
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Just everything you write seems too romantic and over done.

If you scare her away because you want a "queen" then ill be here to tell you I told you so.

Too much romantic bull shit When in reality there is no bond. Having things in common is some thing we could easily do with a dog, you ante special because you guys like the same things.

You can't seriously think that having 20 things in common is gonna do it.

You will see.

Goodluck!

damn girl its like your me😂oh look we even have the same mercury,ill say what she said,too lazy to write it if there is someone who already wrote my opinion😆

We both have water moons and water risings too.





whats your moon and rising?havent met one whose opinion are the same as mine until now



Pisces moon and pisces rising



do people always took advantage of you?pisces rising peeps tend to attract the opportunist kind of people,or the ones who think they can take advantage of us

Take advantage how?

I don't have problems with people using me for things, money, etc.

I do have a problem with people assuming things. Like if I don't respond quick enough they go on about how I am feeling or thinking, which is not their place.

I'm a runner so people don't really get the chance to keep being stupid with me.

Its boring.



like people who wants to tie you down to a job thats not really yours to begin with,people always take advantage of me so i have to learn to say no,i always help people and i dont ask for help i usually solve it on my own but when i do really need help people dissapoint me,if only i can rub it on their face how im always their to help them because they ask me for help but i cant,and it usually starts with one time help but then they grew dependent on me and would always need or want my help,i grew tired to those people so i distance myself now for my own sanity as to not be take advantage off
People only disapoint you because you have expectations.

You should never have expectations for anyone.

truth,i've learn it the hard way,its like im a true friend thats why i help you and if you are as well you would do the same,but the dissaponting fact is they cant even be a good listener if they cant help in my other problems its fine,sometimes all i need is a listening ear and a tap on the back but they cant even be that person,in my lifetime i have only met 2 people who will just listen,hug me,then tell me honestly what i did wrong,there isnt a lot of people who listens usually people only wanted to speak

My best advice: get a dog.

Dogs are great cuddlers, listeners, protectors.

Mines cuddled up next to me now.



im a dog lover😍i would so love to adopt one right now but our place isnt fit for a dog this moment,and im so busy with my business i woudnt find time to take care of him,it would break my heart everytime i neglect him,and yes i would love a male dog,whats the breed of you dog?



He is pit, chiuahaha and lab. He's got short musclely legs, brendal. I picked him out by his birth chart. He's the most amazing thing on this planet, he loves my bf but gets jealous and sometimes sits near me and looks at me like "is he taking care of you mom?"

Lol

I could write a book about why he's amazing.

He gives me tap kisses when I ask for one.

He knows how to stand up and hug.

He cuddles with me like a human, sleeps with his nose between my shoulder and chin.



awww how adorable😍,gotta save some money to afford a bigger house so i can adopt a dog,my mom would hate it but if theres a place for him she cant argue with me,shes afraid of dog,im like wuuttttt—??cant you see the cuteness overload?and their sweetness😙,i miss having a dog
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I want a dog so bad too. They r the best loyal friend around. !!!! Perfect for those with Aqua placements
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FYI I did her chart without knowing the exact time of birth.

Sun Aquarius

Moon Taurus

Mercury Aquarius

Venus Capricorn

Mars Scorpio

Here is mine

Sun Sagittarius

Moon Libra

Mercury Sagittarius

Venus Scorpio

Mars Sagittarius



Does it say anything?


WOOO HOOOOOOOO!!!! I KNEW IT!!!!! 😛

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I can't speak for that sag mercury though.

Your on your own there.



I have Sag mercury and My Aqua friend has Aqua mercury too.

It took a super long time for him to open up. He still holds back now when we talk and tip toes around certain subjects. I just don't get it. I can talk about anything. He tries to deflect or avoid certain topics.

Especially if he thinks it's gonna lead into another topic.

Sometimes I have to spell stuff out and say "The reason I'm saying this is...." just so he can give me an answer now without trying to play chess and be 5 moves ahead.





What are his other placements, I have a few aqua mercury folk in my life and they are super easy to talk to.

I think the things they avoid are subjects that might hurt or make them feel uncomfortable.

They also are easy to label others when they have no idea about what's going on.

Like my old Aquarius best friend that I am no longer friends with. Instead of asking (she has aqua mercury too) what was going on in my life, she assumed, spread rumors about me, lied about me and then all those people she spoke to won't speak to her because they found out its all a lie and now they all want to contact me again. Which I've turned down.

My point is that they are too busy trying to protect themselves to talk about things, which can't be healthy.

They could feel they've been screwed over by someone and never ask what really happened.

I don't know how to deal with that, I just let all the aqua mercury folk I know learn their own way, I never tell them anything they could use against me or twist to sound negative.

The only aqua mercury that is extremely verbal and always opens up to me is a Pisces sun with aqua mercury, but she also has a Pisces moon and venus. She's very communicative but it took me a year to coach her out of bad communication skills and assuming the worst.

If you can manage to do that you may open a huge door.

You do that by making them aware of their surroundings..she would say "this guy hasn't texted me in three days, I think he just moved on" I would say or..."he's busy at work or school and hasn't had the time" I constantly reminded her its not just her on this planet so she could first acknowledge the possibilities of the truth before she jump to conclusions. Also with the communication I always challenged her to communicate and ask questions to those she had suspicions with, which all had great out comes.

If you can start by getting someone to be aware of themselves, then how their actions affect others and reality that's where change comes in.

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All he wants to do is gossip lol. I thought men didn't like that type of stuff. I've never been a gossip until I met him lol. We talk so much crap about people. It's ridiculous. I told him that he probably has a skewed view of my personality because of it. He doesn't care. He just wants to hear other people's business. I send him screen shots all the time smh.

He does judge and criticize lol. Mostly it's us laughing and joking about others. But I still feel guilty for it cause I've never been like this. What we talk about it truthful though. But it's still gossip. It does keep him from talking about himself though. He always will bring up other chatty stuff when the topic gets on him and he's done talking about it.
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Off I go to far away place!
I hope it all works out, you seem like a nice guy and sorry your thread got derailed about nothingness.
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Hey!!! I was asking about Aqua mercury!!

It could help! We Sag/Aqua people actually have a lot in common between the four of us. Almost the same placements except for moons.
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As per the link 🙂

Well, I'll give you an example. If you're main goal in life is to be a millionaire, then chances are you'll do what you've got to do to get that million dollars. You'll get all the degrees necessary, you'll play the lottery enough times or you'll get your money the NON-legit way. Either way, you want that million dollars & won't stop until you get it. Well, if Mcdonalds & other low paying jobs keep offering you positions, NO you will not take it b/c your eye is STILL on the prize & you won't have time for anything else other than the position that can pay you the salary that you are looking for. It doesn't matter if 1,000 companies (that offer $ 100,000/yr) call you for an interview, b/c you'll only look for AND go for the jobs that START in the millions (to cut out the middle man).

Well this is how Aquarians are. Mental/intellectual connection is SO important to them. And early on they recognize that while others would've normally kept certain people around, they had the courage & the will power to let those people go. And when this happens the common denominator was LACK OF CONNECTION. So Aquarians make up their minds early on that they will ONLY give their energy to someone who has the ability to establish this with them. They're so determined to end up with a partner who they can connect with that they start testing from DAY ONE to see if their date is a match! They won't even give you a 2nd date if there is no chance of a connection. And sometimes we wait & wait, but once we see that having a connection is a No-go, we will detach & leave. The reason most Aquarians have that connection with so many people for so long is b/c they ONLY attach & attract the people whom they had a connection with from the beginning...that way they don't have to guess, try to force it or beg that person to have it. And we all know that once a connection is established, it's the HARDEST thing to break.
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Having a connection (to an Aqua) means the ability to:

1. Talk about any & everything, from the odd to the normal without feeling bad or annoyed with doing so.

2. Having the ability to open up & wear all your vulnerabilities on your sleeve, but only for that 1 person b/c they are worth it.

3. Someone having the ability to take your mind to place it's never gone. To think about things in a way that you've never thought of before. IT's about having something that is ODD, UNIQUE & different than what you're used to. (It's no different than why people love to travel outside of the U.S. It's b/c all the different cultures & places are unfamiliar, but yet awe you at the same time.)

4. It's the ability to share your deepest darkest secrets & actually not feel doubtful or fearful to do so. It's about being able to step outside of your normal element or comfort zone for that person when you normally wouldn't for anybody else.

5. It's having a certain & UNEXPLAINED natural comfort around that person. When I went to Italy, no I didn't speak their language & no I wasn't use to how things worked over there. BUT, there was a comfort there that I was willing to adapt to even though it was different & outside of my comfort/normal zone. And b/c I was so comfortable & in "awe" there, I naturally didn't want to leave either. It's the same thing with Aquas. Once we finally meet someone who naturally gives us an unexplained comfort zone, we hold on b/c we recognize how RARE that is. And we hope that our partner/date feels the same way. And when both people feel the same comfort, the connection tends to get deeper (without limits) & tends to last so long
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FYI I did her chart without knowing the exact time of birth.

Sun Aquarius

Moon Taurus

Mercury Aquarius

Venus Capricorn

Mars Scorpio

Here is mine

Sun Sagittarius

Moon Libra

Mercury Sagittarius

Venus Scorpio

Mars Sagittarius



Does it say anything?
oooohhh. that moon and venus will be a no bueno situation. this girl will take her sweet ass time to commit to you.

Good thing is your Venus/Mars matches up

I also seem to notice that Libra moons tend to be attracted to Aquarius suns. I attract a LOT of Libra moon men in my life.

It's going to take you a while to get through all that fixedness in her chart. Lots of patience and understanding.
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probably cause you also have gemini, so that completes the trine.

and you have alot more air.



Amal Alamuddin only has Aqua sun and Aqua venus, (dont know her rising)

but im guessing it is water or earth ...most possibly.

and George Clooney has NO libra and NO gemini...



what he does have is opposition to her Aquarius sun and venus (his Leo mars)

and his Aries venus and Leo mars trine her Sagittarius moon.

what he has in Air?? only 11th house moon to her Aquarius.

https://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/George_Clooney



oh wow he only has Aquarius Jupiter to her Sun and Venus....

that's ALL the air he has.



the Fire trines are stronger in their cases.

and the Opposition of Cancer mars to his Capricorn moon (so they got strong oppositions)

my husband has NO air, or lack of, reeally....but we have oppoistions.
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FYI I did her chart without knowing the exact time of birth.

Sun Aquarius

Moon Taurus

Mercury Aquarius

Venus Capricorn

Mars Scorpio

Here is mine

Sun Sagittarius

Moon Libra

Mercury Sagittarius

Venus Scorpio

Mars Sagittarius



Does it say anything?
oooohhh. that moon and venus will be a no bueno situation. this girl will take her sweet ass time to commit to you.

Good thing is your Venus/Mars matches up

I also seem to notice that Libra moons tend to be attracted to Aquarius suns. I attract a LOT of Libra moon men in my life.

It's going to take you a while to get through all that fixedness in her chart. Lots of patience and understanding.
probably cause you also have gemini, so that completes the trine.

and you have alot more air.



Amal Alamuddin only has Aqua sun and Aqua venus, (dont know her rising)

but im guessing it is water or earth ...most possibly.

and George Clooney has NO libra and NO gemini...



what he does have is opposition to her Aquarius sun and venus (his Leo mars)

and his Aries venus and Leo mars trine her Sagittarius moon.

what he has in Air?? only 11th house moon to her Aquarius.

https://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/George_Clooney



oh wow he only has Aquarius Jupiter to her Sun and Venus....

that's ALL the air he has.



the Fire trines are stronger in their cases.

and the Opposition of Cancer mars to his Capricorn moon (so they got strong oppositions)

my husband has NO air, or lack of, reeally....but we have oppoistions.
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wow girl u r so good, do u mind doing my chart? i don't really get this whole compatibility thing😛
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Posted by HopelessRomantic2017
FYI I did her chart without knowing the exact time of birth.

Sun Aquarius

Moon Taurus

Mercury Aquarius

Venus Capricorn

Mars Scorpio

Here is mine

Sun Sagittarius

Moon Libra

Mercury Sagittarius

Venus Scorpio

Mars Sagittarius



Does it say anything?
oooohhh. that moon and venus will be a no bueno situation. this girl will take her sweet ass time to commit to you.

Good thing is your Venus/Mars matches up

I also seem to notice that Libra moons tend to be attracted to Aquarius suns. I attract a LOT of Libra moon men in my life.

It's going to take you a while to get through all that fixedness in her chart. Lots of patience and understanding.
probably cause you also have gemini, so that completes the trine.

and you have alot more air.



Amal Alamuddin only has Aqua sun and Aqua venus, (dont know her rising)

but im guessing it is water or earth ...most possibly.

and George Clooney has NO libra and NO gemini...



what he does have is opposition to her Aquarius sun and venus (his Leo mars)

and his Aries venus and Leo mars trine her Sagittarius moon.

what he has in Air?? only 11th house moon to her Aquarius.

https://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/George_Clooney



oh wow he only has Aquarius Jupiter to her Sun and Venus....

that's ALL the air he has.



the Fire trines are stronger in their cases.

and the Opposition of Cancer mars to his Capricorn moon (so they got strong oppositions)

my husband has NO air, or lack of, reeally....but we have oppoistions.

wow girl u r so good, do u mind doing my chart? i don't really get this whole compatibility thing😛
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post your chart with your man.



if you only have aquarius, then that's enough.



but if you have NO gemini and NO libra....you wont really attract them generally speaking

because, if you have stronger elements in your chart, you'll attract Aquarius types.



just what i notice..

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Just judging from the first post, what comes to mind is that although you both had a great connection at first, somehow she felt the need to cut it off. Basically her message is, "I need a fuck ton of space. Like eh... One planet away from you." Not because she doesn't like you but because she needs space for some reason. So be patient, it could be that she's super busy, got a lot on her mind, but if you do matter to her, she'll come around and start to want to talk again because Aquarius doesn't ditch people will nilly. They just go their merry way sometimes and THEN get back to you. Good luck.

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Posted by HopelessRomantic2017
FYI I did her chart without knowing the exact time of birth.

Sun Aquarius

Moon Taurus

Mercury Aquarius

Venus Capricorn

Mars Scorpio

Here is mine

Sun Sagittarius

Moon Libra

Mercury Sagittarius

Venus Scorpio

Mars Sagittarius



Does it say anything?
oooohhh. that moon and venus will be a no bueno situation. this girl will take her sweet ass time to commit to you.

Good thing is your Venus/Mars matches up

I also seem to notice that Libra moons tend to be attracted to Aquarius suns. I attract a LOT of Libra moon men in my life.

It's going to take you a while to get through all that fixedness in her chart. Lots of patience and understanding.
probably cause you also have gemini, so that completes the trine.

and you have alot more air.



Amal Alamuddin only has Aqua sun and Aqua venus, (dont know her rising)

but im guessing it is water or earth ...most possibly.

and George Clooney has NO libra and NO gemini...



what he does have is opposition to her Aquarius sun and venus (his Leo mars)

and his Aries venus and Leo mars trine her Sagittarius moon.

what he has in Air?? only 11th house moon to her Aquarius.

https://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/George_Clooney



oh wow he only has Aquarius Jupiter to her Sun and Venus....

that's ALL the air he has.



the Fire trines are stronger in their cases.

and the Opposition of Cancer mars to his Capricorn moon (so they got strong oppositions)

my husband has NO air, or lack of, reeally....but we have oppoistions.

wow girl u r so good, do u mind doing my chart? i don't really get this whole compatibility thing😛
post your chart with your man.



if you only have aquarius, then that's enough.



but if you have NO gemini and NO libra....you wont really attract them generally speaking

because, if you have stronger elements in your chart, you'll attract Aquarius types.



just what i notice..



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I'm half air (aquarius and gemini ) and half earth.

did you want my date of birth? can i please PM you? 😄😄😄
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FYI I did her chart without knowing the exact time of birth.

Sun Aquarius

Moon Taurus

Mercury Aquarius

Venus Capricorn

Mars Scorpio

Here is mine

Sun Sagittarius

Moon Libra

Mercury Sagittarius

Venus Scorpio

Mars Sagittarius



Does it say anything?


WOOO HOOOOOOOO!!!! I KNEW IT!!!!! 😛

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I can't speak for that sag mercury though.

Your on your own there.



I have Sag mercury and My Aqua friend has Aqua mercury too.

It took a super long time for him to open up. He still holds back now when we talk and tip toes around certain subjects. I just don't get it. I can talk about anything. He tries to deflect or avoid certain topics.

Especially if he thinks it's gonna lead into another topic.

Sometimes I have to spell stuff out and say "The reason I'm saying this is...." just so he can give me an answer now without trying to play chess and be 5 moves ahead.





What are his other placements, I have a few aqua mercury folk in my life and they are super easy to talk to.

I think the things they avoid are subjects that might hurt or make them feel uncomfortable.

They also are easy to label others when they have no idea about what's going on.

Like my old Aquarius best friend that I am no longer friends with. Instead of asking (she has aqua mercury too) what was going on in my life, she assumed, spread rumors about me, lied about me and then all those people she spoke to won't speak to her because they found out its all a lie and now they all want to contact me again. Which I've turned down.

My point is that they are too busy trying to protect themselves to talk about things, which can't be healthy.

They could feel they've been screwed over by someone and never ask what really happened.

I don't know how to deal with that, I just let all the aqua mercury folk I know learn their own way, I never tell them anything they could use against me or twist to sound negative.

The only aqua mercury that is extremely verbal and always opens up to me is a Pisces sun with aqua mercury, but she also has a Pisces moon and venus. She's very communicative but it took me a year to coach her out of bad communication skills and assuming the worst.

If you can manage to do that you may open a huge door.

You do that by making them aware of their surroundings..she would say "this guy hasn't texted me in three days, I think he just moved on" I would say or..."he's busy at work or school and hasn't had the time" I constantly reminded her its not just her on this planet so she could first acknowledge the possibilities of the truth before she jump to conclusions. Also with the communication I always challenged her to communicate and ask questions to those she had suspicions with, which all had great out comes.

If you can start by getting someone to be aware of themselves, then how their actions affect others and reality that's where change comes in.


All he wants to do is gossip lol. I thought men didn't like that type of stuff. I've never been a gossip until I met him lol. We talk so much crap about people. It's ridiculous. I told him that he probably has a skewed view of my personality because of it. He doesn't care. He just wants to hear other people's business. I send him screen shots all the time smh.

He does judge and criticize lol. Mostly it's us laughing and joking about others. But I still feel guilty for it cause I've never been like this. What we talk about it truthful though. But it's still gossip. It does keep him from talking about himself though. He always will bring up other chatty stuff when the topic gets on him and he's done talking about it.

I imagined him flopping his hands around like "omg girl"

😂😂😂

What do you see in him again?

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It's more like "I heard this or saw this, do you know what happened?" " How has so and so been?"

Then the conversation revolves around other people. He's a sweetheart but he sure loves criticizing and gossip!
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https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/aquarius-connections-1681550/

this might help
Wow! You dug deep with this one and found one of my old posts lol smh

Thanks. I don't really like being reminded of the past. I'll read it and decide whether to delete the profiile. It depends on how much personal information is there.

I forgot about this account.
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Just everything you write seems too romantic and over done.

If you scare her away because you want a "queen" then ill be here to tell you I told you so.

Too much romantic bull shit When in reality there is no bond. Having things in common is some thing we could easily do with a dog, you ante special because you guys like the same things.

You can't seriously think that having 20 things in common is gonna do it.

You will see.

Goodluck!

damn girl its like your me😂oh look we even have the same mercury,ill say what she said,too lazy to write it if there is someone who already wrote my opinion😆

We both have water moons and water risings too.





whats your moon and rising?havent met one whose opinion are the same as mine until now



Pisces moon and pisces rising



do people always took advantage of you?pisces rising peeps tend to attract the opportunist kind of people,or the ones who think they can take advantage of us

Take advantage how?

I don't have problems with people using me for things, money, etc.

I do have a problem with people assuming things. Like if I don't respond quick enough they go on about how I am feeling or thinking, which is not their place.

I'm a runner so people don't really get the chance to keep being stupid with me.

Its boring.



like people who wants to tie you down to a job thats not really yours to begin with,people always take advantage of me so i have to learn to say no,i always help people and i dont ask for help i usually solve it on my own but when i do really need help people dissapoint me,if only i can rub it on their face how im always their to help them because they ask me for help but i cant,and it usually starts with one time help but then they grew dependent on me and would always need or want my help,i grew tired to those people so i distance myself now for my own sanity as to not be take advantage off
People only disapoint you because you have expectations.

You should never have expectations for anyone.

truth,i've learn it the hard way,its like im a true friend thats why i help you and if you are as well you would do the same,but the dissaponting fact is they cant even be a good listener if they cant help in my other problems its fine,sometimes all i need is a listening ear and a tap on the back but they cant even be that person,in my lifetime i have only met 2 people who will just listen,hug me,then tell me honestly what i did wrong,there isnt a lot of people who listens usually people only wanted to speak

My best advice: get a dog.

Dogs are great cuddlers, listeners, protectors.

Mines cuddled up next to me now.



im a dog lover😍i would so love to adopt one right now but our place isnt fit for a dog this moment,and im so busy with my business i woudnt find time to take care of him,it would break my heart everytime i neglect him,and yes i would love a male dog,whats the breed of you dog?



He is pit, chiuahaha and lab. He's got short musclely legs, brendal. I picked him out by his birth chart. He's the most amazing thing on this planet, he loves my bf but gets jealous and sometimes sits near me and looks at me like "is he taking care of you mom?"

Lol

I could write a book about why he's amazing.

He gives me tap kisses when I ask for one.

He knows how to stand up and hug.

He cuddles with me like a human, sleeps with his nose between my shoulder and chin.



awww how adorable😍,gotta save some money to afford a bigger house so i can adopt a dog,my mom would hate it but if theres a place for him she cant argue with me,shes afraid of dog,im like wuuttttt—??cant you see the cuteness overload?and their sweetness😙,i miss having a dog
I want a dog so bad too. They r the best loyal friend around. !!!! Perfect for those with Aqua placements
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oh yes because we dont feel like we need to put walls from them thats why we can love them wholeheartedly
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i wonder if this also apply to aqua mooners or mars?... ? i'm struggling to find someone i can connect to mentally..and if i dun have that, i ditch them also
Thanks for finding my old account. Reading through all this is like a damn mirror. The same exact thing is happening with this Aqua I'm dealing with. Smh.

I forgot all the details from my past relationship. It's really a trip rereading everything smh. Their charts are so similar too 😂😂

I'm about to cut contact with mine in a couple of days. I'm tired of the Merri go round.
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Posted by HopelessRomantic2017
FYI I did her chart without knowing the exact time of birth.

Sun Aquarius

Moon Taurus

Mercury Aquarius

Venus Capricorn

Mars Scorpio

Here is mine

Sun Sagittarius

Moon Libra

Mercury Sagittarius

Venus Scorpio

Mars Sagittarius



Does it say anything?
oooohhh. that moon and venus will be a no bueno situation. this girl will take her sweet ass time to commit to you.

Good thing is your Venus/Mars matches up

I also seem to notice that Libra moons tend to be attracted to Aquarius suns. I attract a LOT of Libra moon men in my life.

It's going to take you a while to get through all that fixedness in her chart. Lots of patience and understanding.
probably cause you also have gemini, so that completes the trine.

and you have alot more air.



Amal Alamuddin only has Aqua sun and Aqua venus, (dont know her rising)

but im guessing it is water or earth ...most possibly.

and George Clooney has NO libra and NO gemini...



what he does have is opposition to her Aquarius sun and venus (his Leo mars)

and his Aries venus and Leo mars trine her Sagittarius moon.

what he has in Air?? only 11th house moon to her Aquarius.

https://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/George_Clooney



oh wow he only has Aquarius Jupiter to her Sun and Venus....

that's ALL the air he has.



the Fire trines are stronger in their cases.

and the Opposition of Cancer mars to his Capricorn moon (so they got strong oppositions)

my husband has NO air, or lack of, reeally....but we have oppoistions.
You think that’s what it is? Hmm. I know way too many Libra moon in my life.... wish I didn’t attract so many.
I have never met one in my entire life. Apart from attracting too much aqua men, I attract a lot of gem mooners. I dunno why. Is it my sun? Or my lehoe moon?
I have no idea. I think it could be your overall energy. I have Gemini moon but I hardly come across other Gemini people unless their family.

I attract a lot of libra energy overall. Both sun and moon which annoys me at times. I know way too many libra sun and mooners in my life (including family).

Sun I can handle because I think they’re pretty cool, but mooners are frustrating because a lot of them omit an/or bend the truth a lot. I’d never trust the words 100% of a Leeb moon.
Oooooohhhh interesting. I never really knew what my dominant signs were haha but I guess I am too gem and leo as far as the way I interact or present myself. Glad I havent met a libra moon man... based on what youre saying, its kind of a red flag for me. 😢
lol...maybe not all but I have met an aqua sun with a libra moon. He was a leech and a big fat LIAR. 😆

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https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/aquarius-connections-1681550/

this might help
Wow! You dug deep with this one and found one of my old posts lol smh

Thanks. I don't really like being reminded of the past. I'll read it and decide whether to delete the profiile. It depends on how much personal information is there.

I forgot about this account.
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Hahahahahha I like anything deep . But man that girl gives amazing advice! Best thing I ever read. You have a very longgggg history 😛
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i wonder if this also apply to aqua mooners or mars?... ? i'm struggling to find someone i can connect to mentally..and if i dun have that, i ditch them also
Thanks for finding my old account. Reading through all this is like a damn mirror. The same exact thing is happening with this Aqua I'm dealing with. Smh.

I forgot all the details from my past relationship. It's really a trip rereading everything smh. Their charts are so similar too 😂😂

I'm about to cut contact with mine in a couple of days. I'm tired of the Merri go round.
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Omg wait!!! You r dealing with another Aqua? Lol I thought it's the same one... 😢 what happened to that old Aqua
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i wonder if this also apply to aqua mooners or mars?... ? i'm struggling to find someone i can connect to mentally..and if i dun have that, i ditch them also
Thanks for finding my old account. Reading through all this is like a damn mirror. The same exact thing is happening with this Aqua I'm dealing with. Smh.

I forgot all the details from my past relationship. It's really a trip rereading everything smh. Their charts are so similar too 😂😂

I'm about to cut contact with mine in a couple of days. I'm tired of the Merri go round.

Omg wait!!! You r dealing with another Aqua? Lol I thought it's the same one... 😢 what happened to that old Aqua

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Nope 2 different ones. He lived long distance and it didn't work. I still have him on social media though. He requested me months after I told him I would never come back and see him. I haven't went either.

But I'm planning a trip for February just cause now I'm not as intimidated as I was then. I will always love him. He was my first heart break 💔

But they handle things in the same way. 🤔 This one isn't long distance but he still tries to control how long we are on the phone and when he sees me lol.
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As per the link 🙂

Well, I'll give you an example. If you're main goal in life is to be a millionaire, then chances are you'll do what you've got to do to get that million dollars. You'll get all the degrees necessary, you'll play the lottery enough times or you'll get your money the NON-legit way. Either way, you want that million dollars & won't stop until you get it. Well, if Mcdonalds & other low paying jobs keep offering you positions, NO you will not take it b/c your eye is STILL on the prize & you won't have time for anything else other than the position that can pay you the salary that you are looking for. It doesn't matter if 1,000 companies (that offer $ 100,000/yr) call you for an interview, b/c you'll only look for AND go for the jobs that START in the millions (to cut out the middle man).

Well this is how Aquarians are. Mental/intellectual connection is SO important to them. And early on they recognize that while others would've normally kept certain people around, they had the courage & the will power to let those people go. And when this happens the common denominator was LACK OF CONNECTION. So Aquarians make up their minds early on that they will ONLY give their energy to someone who has the ability to establish this with them. They're so determined to end up with a partner who they can connect with that they start testing from DAY ONE to see if their date is a match! They won't even give you a 2nd date if there is no chance of a connection. And sometimes we wait & wait, but once we see that having a connection is a No-go, we will detach & leave. The reason most Aquarians have that connection with so many people for so long is b/c they ONLY attach & attract the people whom they had a connection with from the beginning...that way they don't have to guess, try to force it or beg that person to have it. And we all know that once a connection is established, it's the HARDEST thing to break.
Sounds soooo much like my aqua. He once said “onto making my next million” at first I thought he was joking. Then he started working 14 hour days, 7 days a week. That’s why I don’t see him anymore.