Aquas, can you relate to this or is it just me?

I really enjoy my alone time, my own space and how i can do things on my own. Plus i'm a homebody.

But i've been told by people of how it kind of bother them that they found me unreachable.

My family complained about it too.

Just today, a friend told me that i'm so flat. And it's because i don't put any pic on my display picture and i refused to talk on the phone.

I've been reading a lot today (got new book), and for few seconds i'm kind of annoyed by why does it even became a problem?

I've been trying the dating stuff. But being told by men that they think i'm uninterested on them. While actually i am!

And it was because i don't really show such enthusiasm or i wasn't really passionate according to them. Or i just replied with short lines. Even a fellow aqua told me similar thing.

Well i posted some long paragraphs here on dxp, do i still even sound that cold?

Now i'm thinking that maybe one of reasons why i'm still single is because of that?

Posted by Mujer_latina
Are you sure that's not the Cap stellium?

'Cause Aqua does not come off as unreachable

Or at least to me

Could be that. I'm not a huge fan of talking on the phone, especially long talk about unecessary stuff. But some people here want me to speak more or hang out physically with them more even for doing nothing than watching too much tv drama

How do you think you show your interest to men?

What do u do exactly?

Posted by pinkbird03
How do you think you show your interest to men?

What do u do exactly?

I'd keep in touch with them, even not necessary texting every hour and everyday. I wouldn't even bother to reply any text if I wasn't. I'd ask them questions. I would talk to them first sometimes.

I'd agree to meet up, even though not every week.

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Posted by pinkbird03
How do you think you show your interest to men?

What do u do exactly?

I'd keep in touch with them, even not necessary texting every hour and everyday. I wouldn't even bother to reply any text if I wasn't. I'd ask them questions. I would talk to them first sometimes.

I'd agree to meet up, even though not every week.

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That sounds like obvious interest. That doesn’t sound cold How are you in person? Maybe that’s where it translates as cold?

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Posted by pinkbird03
How do you think you show your interest to men?

What do u do exactly?

I'd keep in touch with them, even not necessary texting every hour and everyday. I wouldn't even bother to reply any text if I wasn't. I'd ask them questions. I would talk to them first sometimes.

I'd agree to meet up, even though not every week.

That sounds like obvious interest. That doesn’t sound cold How are you in person? Maybe that’s where it translates as cold?

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I just talk when it's necessary in person. My ex husband always told me don't forget to smile almost every time we were about to go out and i it's bothering me that he constantly said so because i thought smile like people do, he also told me that it's obvious when i like or dislike people.

My mom told me that she sometimes feeling

uneasy when i show her or people "the gaze".

Yes i'm not that witty bubbly kind of though. But should i really being that way so that people can be happy? I think the most important is how am i still be there for people i cared for and help them when they need by doing significant thing for them more than words.

Posted by Seleukos
Sounds somewhat familiar to me. I also have a heavy Cap stellium.

The trick for me was to stop caring in most social interactions. Don't tak the other personour you interaction with them seriously until you have reached a more personal level.

Are you one of the Neptune/Uranus/Saturn conjunction in Saturn people?

😄 This made me laugh.

She wants to appear warmer. Stop caring wouldn’t help with that.

I relate with what you are saying.

I have being told that I am cold because I love being on my own and do my own thing.

Smiling is a easy way to help with it and the emojis too while you are texting.

I hate talking on the phone too, so I cannot help you much with that 😄

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Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Seleukos
Sounds somewhat familiar to me. I also have a heavy Cap stellium.

The trick for me was to stop caring in most social interactions. Don't tak the other personour you interaction with them seriously until you have reached a more personal level.

Are you one of the Neptune/Uranus/Saturn conjunction in Saturn people?

😄 This made me laugh.

She wants to appear warmer. Stop caring wouldn’t help with that.

It would but only if her case is smiliar to mine.

I always sought for the best answer or reaction in those situations in the past and that gave people the impression I was very cold.

Once I stopped seeking complete perfection in those situation I could become more intuitive and therefore warmer.

There is a difference if we are seen as caring or if we are caring.

One doesn't equal the other.

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I relate to what the op it’s saying. A lot. 😄

So you mean just being more relaxed about the outcome of the conversation? It’s that what you meant about not caring?

@AquaNextDoor...( maybe she can help out?)

she's also a Capricorn stellium and she's married and is about to have a baby soon.

i didnt find her unapproachable. Despite her Capricorn moon with that stellium, she doesnt come off unapproachable on here. but then again we dont know her lol



to be honest, you dont have that 'passionate" energy and are very calm. lol but i get a nice steady sure energy from you. but i dont know you either lol we all dont.

however i dont know why you wont open up to the possibility of dating and getting to know others. if you are interested. It seems you are interested cause you talk about it.

i have met an aquarius like this when i was in the book club, and writing club. she didnt do any writing but she was a reader and she loved to read the stuff we wrote or was into the club for those reasons and loved to collect stuff.

however, she came off very pleasant almost without any "ooomph' ...like you can't get anything out of her and if you tried she'd cut you off. lol

i felt like pulling teeth ... she was from austrailia i remember. and asian descent. very nice young lady.

so all aquas are very very different.



edit pfftt i dont care enough to find out. lol



anyway it sounds like you are afraid.

Posted by Seleukos

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Seleukos

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by Seleukos
Sounds somewhat familiar to me. I also have a heavy Cap stellium.

The trick for me was to stop caring in most social interactions. Don't tak the other personour you interaction with them seriously until you have reached a more personal level.

Are you one of the Neptune/Uranus/Saturn conjunction in Saturn people?

😄 This made me laugh.

She wants to appear warmer. Stop caring wouldn’t help with that.

It would but only if her case is smiliar to mine.

I always sought for the best answer or reaction in those situations in the past and that gave people the impression I was very cold.

Once I stopped seeking complete perfection in those situation I could become more intuitive and therefore warmer.

There is a difference if we are seen as caring or if we are caring.

One doesn't equal the other.

I relate to what the op it’s saying. A lot. 😄

So you mean just being more relaxed about the outcome of the conversation? It’s that what you meant about not caring?

Yup, it doesn't have to be perfect. If you are honest and open the perception of you being warm might come naturally.

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Oh yes. I agree with that.

I thought you meant not caring about the person. That wouldn’t make you very warm 😄

You barely an Aquarius 😂

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Posted by lisabethur8
@AquaNextDoor...( maybe she can help out?)

she's also a Capricorn stellium and she's married and is about to have a baby soon.

i didnt find her unapproachable. Despite her Capricorn moon with that stellium, she doesnt come off unapproachable on here. but then again we dont know her lol



to be honest, you dont have that 'passionate" energy and are very calm. lol but i get a nice steady sure energy from you. but i dont know you either lol we all dont.

however i dont know why you wont open up to the possibility of dating and getting to know others. if you are interested. It seems you are interested cause you talk about it.

i have met an aquarius like this when i was in the book club, and writing club. she didnt do any writing but she was a reader and she loved to read the stuff we wrote or was into the club for those reasons and loved to collect stuff.

however, she came off very pleasant almost without any "ooomph' ...like you can't get anything out of her and if you tried she'd cut you off. lol

i felt like pulling teeth ... she was from austrailia i remember. and asian descent. very nice young lady.

so all aquas are very very different.



edit pfftt i dont care enough to find out. lol



anyway it sounds like you are afraid.

I feel like Im the same way. But if people talk to me I will talk back but I dont say a lot. I'll just answer the question but in a nice tone so they dont think Im coming off mean or dont like them. But with new people I just keep a good amount of distance. I thought it was my Pisces placements but Im thinking it might be my Aquarius stellium.

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it's good you trying to understand your aquarius side. i remember when for a long time you didnt understand it either.

Posted by AerialView
You barely an Aquarius 😂

Are you talking to me? 😄

Posted by pisceswoman123

Posted by AerialView
You barely an Aquarius 😂

Are you talking to me? 😄

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Nah sweetie I didn't quote you 😘

I was talking to aquaglass.

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Posted by lisabethur8
@AquaNextDoor...( maybe she can help out?)

she's also a Capricorn stellium and she's married and is about to have a baby soon.

i didnt find her unapproachable. Despite her Capricorn moon with that stellium, she doesnt come off unapproachable on here. but then again we dont know her lol



to be honest, you dont have that 'passionate" energy and are very calm. lol but i get a nice steady sure energy from you. but i dont know you either lol we all dont.

however i dont know why you wont open up to the possibility of dating and getting to know others. if you are interested. It seems you are interested cause you talk about it.

i have met an aquarius like this when i was in the book club, and writing club. she didnt do any writing but she was a reader and she loved to read the stuff we wrote or was into the club for those reasons and loved to collect stuff.

however, she came off very pleasant almost without any "ooomph' ...like you can't get anything out of her and if you tried she'd cut you off. lol

i felt like pulling teeth ... she was from austrailia i remember. and asian descent. very nice young lady.

so all aquas are very very different.



edit pfftt i dont care enough to find out. lol



anyway it sounds like you are afraid.

I feel like Im the same way. But if people talk to me I will talk back but I dont say a lot. I'll just answer the question but in a nice tone so they dont think Im coming off mean or dont like them. But with new people I just keep a good amount of distance. I thought it was my Pisces placements but Im thinking it might be my Aquarius stellium.

it's good you trying to understand your aquarius side. i remember when for a long time you didnt understand it either.

Im trying lol I still have a lot of understanding to go through but I guess Im seeing that energy a bit more clearer now hahaha

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i would think it's kind of like gemini and libra, but aquarius is at the end of the wheel.

so it's confusing to me. i think i would get a better handle at it if i were a stellium aqua though or at least an aqua sun trine moon libra trine gemini mars.

there are other folks here with air triplicity or trine air signs in their chart.

i remember you didnt like your aqua stellium though.

(because you didnt understand it)

if you dont undrestand something, you feel alienated from it....

so if you have a deeper understanding you feel closer.

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Posted by lisabethur8
@AquaNextDoor...( maybe she can help out?)

she's also a Capricorn stellium and she's married and is about to have a baby soon.

i didnt find her unapproachable. Despite her Capricorn moon with that stellium, she doesnt come off unapproachable on here. but then again we dont know her lol



to be honest, you dont have that 'passionate" energy and are very calm. lol but i get a nice steady sure energy from you. but i dont know you either lol we all dont.

however i dont know why you wont open up to the possibility of dating and getting to know others. if you are interested. It seems you are interested cause you talk about it.

i have met an aquarius like this when i was in the book club, and writing club. she didnt do any writing but she was a reader and she loved to read the stuff we wrote or was into the club for those reasons and loved to collect stuff.

however, she came off very pleasant almost without any "ooomph' ...like you can't get anything out of her and if you tried she'd cut you off. lol

i felt like pulling teeth ... she was from austrailia i remember. and asian descent. very nice young lady.

so all aquas are very very different.



edit pfftt i dont care enough to find out. lol



anyway it sounds like you are afraid.

I feel like Im the same way. But if people talk to me I will talk back but I dont say a lot. I'll just answer the question but in a nice tone so they dont think Im coming off mean or dont like them. But with new people I just keep a good amount of distance. I thought it was my Pisces placements but Im thinking it might be my Aquarius stellium.

it's good you trying to understand your aquarius side. i remember when for a long time you didnt understand it either.

Im trying lol I still have a lot of understanding to go through but I guess Im seeing that energy a bit more clearer now hahaha

i would think it's kind of like gemini and libra, but aquarius is at the end of the wheel.

so it's confusing to me. i think i would get a better handle at it if i were a stellium aqua though or at least an aqua sun trine moon libra trine gemini mars.

there are other folks here with air triplicity or trine air signs in their chart.

i remember you didnt like your aqua stellium though.

(because you didnt understand it)

if you dont undrestand something, you feel alienated from it....

so if you have a deeper understanding you feel closer.

Yes I suppose but I still dont really like it 😢 but I try to find the good in it since I can't change it and it makes me who I am

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dont worry...you seem like a super sweetheart with NO bad intentions...



i'm trying to understand WHY astrotheme put the ANTI - christ as an aquarius stellium in the 12th house. lol



https://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Anti-Christ



all i can see is,

1) this anti christ evil person, cause it's opposite of chrsit- loving..

hides all the aquarius in the 12th, so super introverted and hiding ....somewhere...

2) is 2nd decan aquarius making them gemini mercurial infuence.

3) has 8 aquarius placments and ALL in 12th..wtf

4) is a 7th, 9th and 12th house dominant peep lol not a peep from them cause it 's made up by astrotheme.

5) so we're to assume this imaginary person is an evil doer out there somewhere in the middleeast.

6) is 80% air all submered in 12th..

meaning this person is gonna be like Charle's manson.... His aquarius moon packed 7th house.... (cause anti christ is 7th house dominant)

and will manipulate the MASSES without lifting a finger like the way charles manson didnt do anything. lol



i'm tryin to understand the dark side, @justoneday. 😛



wasn't osama bin laden kind of like that??

the two baddies ....Charles manson and Hitler...both PACKED 7th house.

which i can see why astrotheme chose dominant 7th house.

cause they not lift finger to do anything and all they did was manipulate.

wow so powerful!!!

https://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Adolf_Hitler



hitler has no aqua or 11th house though...

just trying to understand where astrologers put EVIL in these placements and houses.



Hitler has NO aquarius 11th, but he still was able to do have others do his bidding...

maybe his libra rising is aqua decan. lol

😛 😆

edit --- i got random lol my mind went there. :😛

I love being alone for long periods of time, people are always asking prying questions, judging and just always expect something from you and it rattles my brain wondering why the fuck can’t people just let others be?

Like when you see a video on YouTube of a wild animal minding its business and people have to go in and pick it up and disturb it, fuck that just really pisses me off.

Or when a person faints and eeeeveryone rushes in face to face to see if they’re ok instead of giving them air and space, again that just gets my heart beating fast.

Having said that however I just moved into a new house with my best friend and he’s this 6ft5 German guy and he’s really loud and alpha male and he’s always saying “11 you need to get your bike license so we drive and go to see beach” or he sees that I’m not making enough money and he will say “11 you get your white card and I’ll get you a job on the work site drilling holes and you make so much money man” literally he’s a Gemini and can not shut the fuck up anything that comes to his mind he will tell me and he will tell me to do a lot of things and it confuses me. I love him though We are really good friends and are going to get into business together.....The beauty of our friendship atm is that he’s always at work and all day and at night so when he comes home I’m usually in the mood for company and we talk about ideas and when I’m by myself for long periods of time I come up with lots of ideas. And yeh we have a good exchange just not when he becomes demanding of me

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Posted by lisabethur8
@AquaNextDoor...( maybe she can help out?)

she's also a Capricorn stellium and she's married and is about to have a baby soon.

i didnt find her unapproachable. Despite her Capricorn moon with that stellium, she doesnt come off unapproachable on here. but then again we dont know her lol



to be honest, you dont have that 'passionate" energy and are very calm. lol but i get a nice steady sure energy from you. but i dont know you either lol we all dont.

however i dont know why you wont open up to the possibility of dating and getting to know others. if you are interested. It seems you are interested cause you talk about it.

i have met an aquarius like this when i was in the book club, and writing club. she didnt do any writing but she was a reader and she loved to read the stuff we wrote or was into the club for those reasons and loved to collect stuff.

however, she came off very pleasant almost without any "ooomph' ...like you can't get anything out of her and if you tried she'd cut you off. lol

i felt like pulling teeth ... she was from austrailia i remember. and asian descent. very nice young lady.

so all aquas are very very different.



edit pfftt i dont care enough to find out. lol



anyway it sounds like you are afraid.

I feel like Im the same way. But if people talk to me I will talk back but I dont say a lot. I'll just answer the question but in a nice tone so they dont think Im coming off mean or dont like them. But with new people I just keep a good amount of distance. I thought it was my Pisces placements but Im thinking it might be my Aquarius stellium.

it's good you trying to understand your aquarius side. i remember when for a long time you didnt understand it either.

Im trying lol I still have a lot of understanding to go through but I guess Im seeing that energy a bit more clearer now hahaha

i would think it's kind of like gemini and libra, but aquarius is at the end of the wheel.

so it's confusing to me. i think i would get a better handle at it if i were a stellium aqua though or at least an aqua sun trine moon libra trine gemini mars.

there are other folks here with air triplicity or trine air signs in their chart.

i remember you didnt like your aqua stellium though.

(because you didnt understand it)

if you dont undrestand something, you feel alienated from it....

so if you have a deeper understanding you feel closer.

Yes I suppose but I still dont really like it 😢 but I try to find the good in it since I can't change it and it makes me who I am

dont worry...you seem like a super sweetheart with NO bad intentions...



i'm trying to understand WHY astrotheme put the ANTI - christ as an aquarius stellium in the 12th house. lol



https://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Anti-Christ



all i can see is,

1) this anti christ evil person, cause it's opposite of chrsit- loving..

hides all the aquarius in the 12th, so super introverted and hiding ....somewhere...

2) is 2nd decan aquarius making them gemini mercurial infuence.

3) has 8 aquarius placments and ALL in 12th..wtf

4) is a 7th, 9th and 12th house dominant peep lol not a peep from them cause it 's made up by astrotheme.

5) so we're to assume this imaginary person is an evil doer out there somewhere in the middleeast.

6) is 80% air all submered in 12th..

meaning this person is gonna be like Charle's manson.... His aquarius moon packed 7th house.... (cause anti christ is 7th house dominant)

and will manipulate the MASSES without lifting a finger like the way charles manson didnt do anything. lol



i'm tryin to understand the dark side, @justoneday. 😛



wasn't osama bin laden kind of like that??

Thank you (: When I saw that the Anti Christ and Charles Manson had Aqua placements my heart dropped 😲 I couldn't believe it. It's kind of scary. But than I tried to look back at Jesus supposed chart of being Pisces Sun Aquarius moon and it makes me feel a bit better 😂 But it's still scary having such evil people share some similar placements as me. I wonder how they came up with the anti christs chart? I wonder how accurate it is 🤔

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I have the same sun, moon, rising and MC as anti-christ 😈😈😈😈😈

Hey I am in the same boat.

Its that Cap stellium, the Scorpio rising and the independent nature of Aqua himself.

Here you don't seem cold.... Just to me not really deeply worried on this....... Which of course you don't have to be

I am with you on doing what you want and not what others want or expect from you. (Sag sun here)

Staying home and not picking up the phone is a bit of a turn off to people. I mean people who love you or other people in general may feel you are disconnected, keep them on a distance, snob, dont like or appreciate their company anymore.



What I say though is that if are aware and positive of the reasons you decide to kind of isolate yourself.... And you actually enjoy it...... I mean if it's not a sign of some personal difficulty or depression beginning.... It's all good then.



If you want to be good with others and keep them in your life try to be a little more warm and care for them and be less in defense on that. You may think they want to steal your independence when all they most possibly want is your company.

Just try to explain your reasons and that you are good with your friends. Don't leave misconceptions like the ones with your dates to arise cause you lose then.... People will not put the effort and its actually too difficult to know things they haven't been told . If you explain and they still don't get... It's not your problem anymore.

Posted by lisabethur8
@AquaNextDoor...( maybe she can help out?)

she's also a Capricorn stellium and she's married and is about to have a baby soon.

i didnt find her unapproachable. Despite her Capricorn moon with that stellium, she doesnt come off unapproachable on here. but then again we dont know her lol



to be honest, you dont have that 'passionate" energy and are very calm. lol but i get a nice steady sure energy from you. but i dont know you either lol we all dont.

however i dont know why you wont open up to the possibility of dating and getting to know others. if you are interested. It seems you are interested cause you talk about it.

i have met an aquarius like this when i was in the book club, and writing club. she didnt do any writing but she was a reader and she loved to read the stuff we wrote or was into the club for those reasons and loved to collect stuff.

however, she came off very pleasant almost without any "ooomph' ...like you can't get anything out of her and if you tried she'd cut you off. lol

i felt like pulling teeth ... she was from austrailia i remember. and asian descent. very nice young lady.

so all aquas are very very different.



edit pfftt i dont care enough to find out. lol



anyway it sounds like you are afraid.

Hey lovely ❤️

I didnt read the OP (having baby john on my arm 😍😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️ He was born on feb 5 ❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍 we are so in love - little side note he is an aqua stellium sun/asc/merc/venus, sag mars and libra moon 😍😍❤️❤️❤️ He is a very kind and friendly baby, not clingy till now - very calm)

But from your comment I can say that I am approachable :-) but very selective. Approaching is easy with me but I dismiss very fast if I sense that the person/situation doesn't fit with what I want. I believe in giving everyone a 10 min chance (dating wise back then) - either they spark my interest or not, doesnt take more than 10 min for me to say yay or nay.

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Posted by lisabethur8
@AquaNextDoor...( maybe she can help out?)

she's also a Capricorn stellium and she's married and is about to have a baby soon.

i didnt find her unapproachable. Despite her Capricorn moon with that stellium, she doesnt come off unapproachable on here. but then again we dont know her lol



to be honest, you dont have that 'passionate" energy and are very calm. lol but i get a nice steady sure energy from you. but i dont know you either lol we all dont.

however i dont know why you wont open up to the possibility of dating and getting to know others. if you are interested. It seems you are interested cause you talk about it.

i have met an aquarius like this when i was in the book club, and writing club. she didnt do any writing but she was a reader and she loved to read the stuff we wrote or was into the club for those reasons and loved to collect stuff.

however, she came off very pleasant almost without any "ooomph' ...like you can't get anything out of her and if you tried she'd cut you off. lol

i felt like pulling teeth ... she was from austrailia i remember. and asian descent. very nice young lady.

so all aquas are very very different.



edit pfftt i dont care enough to find out. lol



anyway it sounds like you are afraid.

Hey lovely ❤️

I didnt read the OP (having baby john on my arm 😍😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️ He was born on feb 5 ❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍 we are so in love - little side note he is an aqua stellium sun/asc/merc/venus, sag mars and libra moon 😍😍❤️❤️❤️ He is a very kind and friendly baby, not clingy till now - very calm)

But from your comment I can say that I am approachable :-) but very selective. Approaching is easy with me but I dismiss very fast if I sense that the person/situation doesn't fit with what I want. I believe in giving everyone a 10 min chance (dating wise back then) - either they spark my interest or not, doesnt take more than 10 min for me to say yay or nay.

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Hahaa... very true, the 10mins chance thing, i can exactly relate this to my Aquarian boyfriend