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Are Aquarians Loyal?
Aqua men do cheat but what I like about them is that most of them are loyal even when they are being disloyal.
I dated one, he cheated on me, but he felt like I should know about it since I was "a great girlfriend" to him. Those were his exact words btw. He is actually the only guy that has my 100% respect because of the honesty. I broke up with him on the spot, but I still hold him in high regards. No hard feelings. Plus I would have continued being his friend if he hadn't move due to school. So yeah, they are loyal in that, they don't forget how great you were to them...even with the knife they just plunged between your shoulder blades 😄
I dated one, he cheated on me, but he felt like I should know about it since I was "a great girlfriend" to him. Those were his exact words btw. He is actually the only guy that has my 100% respect because of the honesty. I broke up with him on the spot, but I still hold him in high regards. No hard feelings. Plus I would have continued being his friend if he hadn't move due to school. So yeah, they are loyal in that, they don't forget how great you were to them...even with the knife they just plunged between your shoulder blades 😄
If I say no, does that mean you won't cheat? Is this some self-fulfilling prophecy?
Look, when it comes down to it and you are presented with the choice to cheat for whatever the reason you will know the answer. I always use to tell myself I'd never do it but when confronted with that very decision my resolve weakened. Even if I didn't end up cheating physically, my heart had already wavered.
Look, when it comes down to it and you are presented with the choice to cheat for whatever the reason you will know the answer. I always use to tell myself I'd never do it but when confronted with that very decision my resolve weakened. Even if I didn't end up cheating physically, my heart had already wavered.
It's wrong to cheat but when tempted our weakness we fall into temptation naturally, which is why you must tame yourself through thought. It's a self will act. aquasnoz do give an example.
I'm not an Aqua but all people have the ability to cheat. What I have found with my Aqua in discussing cheating is that he would just leave rather than going down that path. In asking him he says that if the person he's with is his best friend, keeps him mentally stimulated, understands him and accepts him as he is then as the old saying goes the grass isn't greener on the other side. He says he may flirt with no intentions because he finds women in general to be fascinating, but what he's got at home trumps any other woman. He says that what he goes through mentally and emotionally to be with the one he commits to isn't worth an affair. Personally I trust him and we are best buds so...
Posted by BeautifulVirgo
I'm not an Aqua but all people have the ability to cheat. What I have found with my Aqua in discussing cheating is that he would just leave rather than going down that path. In asking him he says that if the person he's with is his best friend, keeps him mentally stimulated, understands him and accepts him as he is then as the old saying goes the grass isn't greener on the other side. He says he may flirt with no intentions because he finds women in general to be fascinating, but what he's got at home trumps any other woman. He says that what he goes through mentally and emotionally to be with the one he commits to isn't worth an affair. Personally I trust him and we are best buds so...
Good that you trust him, but men talk a whole lot of bs when they are in fact trying to make themselves look good in the eyes of the woman they're trying to "get with". I've learned to take everything said with more than a grain of salt. Can you taste the bitter? LOL!
Lol yes, yes I can. Aqua & I have been each other's best friend long enough that I see through his bs when he's full of it & he knows it. I call him out on it every time. We're both to old for the games.
Posted by BeautifulVirgo
Lol yes, yes I can. Aqua & I have been each other's best friend long enough that I see through his bs when he's full of it & he knows it. I call him out on it every time. We're both to old for the games.
Wonderful. I'm glad you found someone you can connect with in that way. Are you guys now official? Last time you were in a confusing situation if memory isn't failing me lol. I stand to be corrected, though.
Posted by backtokemet
AQUARII are loyal to their personal interests .. if their dick/vagina says "I need some variety", the brain will most likely follow .. when caught they'll blame it on the partner for growing bored in the relationship / "lack of mental stimulation"
Sounds like the 7th sign to me 😛 Their reasons for cheating are even better. "I slept with her because a masked gunman appeared & threatened to blow my brains off if I refused". Fertile imaginations. Laughable attempts at trying to cover the lies. Like my mom used to say- when caught with your pants down don't try to hide behind a thumb, your whole body is STILL exposed.
Astrology only plays 1 part/role in how a person turns out.
Self-awareness, childhood, major influences by family/friends/peers, culture, religion (or morals), self-esteem, maturity, age, level of self-discipline, & past experiences that have shaped a person's outlook on love, relationships & fidelity, ALL play a role in how a person turns out.
Typically, Aquarians are very loyal. By "loyal" I'm assuming you mean faithful & dependable. Commitment is a big deal for most Aquarius. This is why Aquarians don't commit that often. 1 of the biggest questions I ask myself when deciding whether or not to commit to someone is if I'd feel confident in my ability to resist temptation coming from the outside, once committed to them. Sometimes the answer may be NO, which is why a lot of people believe that finding the "right person," def. helps in matters of fidelity lol
I get that some things may change later on in the relationship, but in the beginning, if I can't imagine myself being ok with you & you only on an emotional, sexual or mental level, I won't commit to you in the 1st place.
Of course some Aquarians cheat though. Men and women in all signs cheat. For example, you can't expect an 18 year old Aquarius man to be as loyal, faithful & dependable as per say a 35 year old fully grown, fully mature Aquarius man.
You can't expect for an immature Aquarian man who has been exposed to lots of infidelity in his past to be anything like the guy who is mature, has met the RIGHT person & was raised around folks who believed in (AND PRACTICED) fidelity.
Ya gotta take many things into consideration when assessing whether or not a person is likely to cheat or not. And even if you do weigh all the factors, you still may be wrong lol
Self-awareness, childhood, major influences by family/friends/peers, culture, religion (or morals), self-esteem, maturity, age, level of self-discipline, & past experiences that have shaped a person's outlook on love, relationships & fidelity, ALL play a role in how a person turns out.
Typically, Aquarians are very loyal. By "loyal" I'm assuming you mean faithful & dependable. Commitment is a big deal for most Aquarius. This is why Aquarians don't commit that often. 1 of the biggest questions I ask myself when deciding whether or not to commit to someone is if I'd feel confident in my ability to resist temptation coming from the outside, once committed to them. Sometimes the answer may be NO, which is why a lot of people believe that finding the "right person," def. helps in matters of fidelity lol
I get that some things may change later on in the relationship, but in the beginning, if I can't imagine myself being ok with you & you only on an emotional, sexual or mental level, I won't commit to you in the 1st place.
Of course some Aquarians cheat though. Men and women in all signs cheat. For example, you can't expect an 18 year old Aquarius man to be as loyal, faithful & dependable as per say a 35 year old fully grown, fully mature Aquarius man.
You can't expect for an immature Aquarian man who has been exposed to lots of infidelity in his past to be anything like the guy who is mature, has met the RIGHT person & was raised around folks who believed in (AND PRACTICED) fidelity.
Ya gotta take many things into consideration when assessing whether or not a person is likely to cheat or not. And even if you do weigh all the factors, you still may be wrong lol
^ I was going to say something along the lines of choosing someone is a commitment itself. I take a long time to choose or to make up my mind so it's rare for me to not honour that commitment.
WaterCup, yup we are a couple. We have our challenges here and there but wouldn't trade him for anything. Also not rushing anything and just enjoying what we have. Also...great memory!! _??_
Posted by backtokemet
ummm I thought we were discussing water beaver's loyalty but since LIBRAS are addictive folks you (and aquarius09) can't help but mention us
You made aquarians to sound like an unfaithful bunch. As if your own sign is known for fidelity. If we are like that then it's only FAIR to mention the most unfaithful sign of all when talking about unfaithfulness (since YOU decided to add you 2c about aquas), don't you think?
And no, you're not addictive at all. We only, or at least I only mention libra when & where it's relevant. Like at the libra forum for an example.
Posted by backtokemet
lol your 'fairness' is just you having an emotional reaction to my post: "OMG the nerve of this LIBRA aka the cheetahs of the zodiac .. let me put him in his place !"
if I was a SCORPIO would my post be easier to digest (since SCORPIOS are known for being loyal) ?
LMAO @ emotional reaction to your POST. There goes that fertile imagination I spoke of. Just so you know, I don't waste my "emotional reactions" on posts that aren't about me on a personal level. Nuh uh. I was simply talking. As for scorps, I know their ways so they are also in no place to make judgments about fidelity or anything else for that matter. No sign is perfect. All have bad representatives.
I'm Aquarius and I've never cheated on anyone and never would. My boyfriend is Aqua too and he's very loyal. To my knowledge, none of my Aqua friends have cheated either but that doesn't mean that ALL Aquas are faithfull - just the ones I know.
To the OP, there are several types of loyalty.. friendship, family, work, relationships. I am going with the relationship loyalty being what you are referring too.
I'm fiercely loyal to all of the above, some to lesser degrees than others but especially in regards to my partner and those I allow in my life usually are as well. I lay my cards out in the beginning, cheating is not tolerated, ever.
I'm fiercely loyal to all of the above, some to lesser degrees than others but especially in regards to my partner and those I allow in my life usually are as well. I lay my cards out in the beginning, cheating is not tolerated, ever.
Posted by justagirl
To the OP, there are several types of loyalty.. friendship, family, work, relationships. I am going with the relationship loyalty being what you are referring too.
I'm fiercely loyal to all of the above, some to lesser degrees than others but especially in regards to my partner and those I allow in my life usually are as well. I lay my cards out in the beginning, cheating is not tolerated, ever.
Yep! That's me too
Posted by backtokemet
ummm I thought we were discussing water beaver's loyalty but since LIBRAS are addictive folks you (and aquarius09) can't help but mention us
You're not gonna find that many "aqua cheated on me" post on here unlike yourrrr forum. Lol
Oh yes, they are.
My brother is the most loyal person I know, and maybe the most loyal person I'll ever meet. 🙂
My brother is the most loyal person I know, and maybe the most loyal person I'll ever meet. 🙂
Posted by backtokemet
ummm I thought we were discussing water beaver's loyalty but since LIBRAS are addictive folks you (and aquarius09) can't help but mention us
lol well, high tension between Libra and Aqua is not very common.
If it happens, It will be because Librans don't feel that Aquarians respect them enough.
Anyway, Aquas quite often do not respect anything lol.
Bu I won't do anything to change that, because they love their independence. And as a cap, I do respect that. Even If they are wrong lol.
(Oh ghad, I learned that the hard way) 🙂
Posted by ShyCapLadyPosted by backtokemet
ummm I thought we were discussing water beaver's loyalty but since LIBRAS are addictive folks you (and aquarius09) can't help but mention us
lol well, high tension between Libra and Aqua is not very common.
If it happens, It will be because Librans don't feel that Aquarians respect them enough.
Anyway, Aquas quite often do not respect anything lol.
Bu I won't do anything to change that, because they love their independence. And as a cap, I do respect that. Even If they are wrong lol.
(Oh ghad, I learned that the hard way) 🙂click to expand
Aquas are actually very respectful & only become disrespectful when disrespected or when someone is forcing their opinions on us. I for one am very respectful of people until they give me a reason not to respect them.
Yes, only if you're worth it.
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