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......Aquarius likes to test out its potential partners
How do you know the difference between being tested, and then just not caring anymore lol
A tough question for an Aquarian

I say everything is a test. We never stop testing, that's our gift and our curse. He could care but you're not sure what he cares about

could be sex, could be a laugh, could be a friend, could be anything

And like I've said many times before, you can't really predict an Aquarius, so trying to expect anything is futile

Just gotta go with the flow and trust your instincts
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Hahahah I was going to say, isn't everything a test?
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Actually, some test. Mine tests for sure, he said so, therefore I am not talking from imagination. But the testing is simply natural, no games. But he wants to see you reacting to various situations and to see if you fit into his pattern of an ideal partner. That's why shit can happen, like an unexpected ending of a date, a switch of mood, distancing and so on. Perplexing.
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......Aquarius likes to test out its potential partners
How do you know the difference between being tested, and then just not caring anymore lol
A tough question for an Aquarian

I say everything is a test. We never stop testing, that's our gift and our curse. He could care but you're not sure what he cares about

could be sex, could be a laugh, could be a friend, could be anything

And like I've said many times before, you can't really predict an Aquarius, so trying to expect anything is futile

Just gotta go with the flow and trust your instincts
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I agree with this a lot.

But it is true that this happens in any relationship. You keep testing each other and going stronger from there or separate ways. Only by testing you know if you are really compatible. But it doesn’t have to involve games.
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I know I tend to push people's buttons on purpose sometimes to observe their thought processes and see where they lie on my scale. I suppose that can be translated as testing, but I do this with everyone.

It's similar to how a Leo gives people the time of day only to disappear and move onto their next romantic interest. Leos are the explorers while Aquarians are the scientists. Aquarius will ghost someone once they're done with their experimentation. I label you and then move on to someone more interesting.
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But the testing is simply natural, no games.

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How can a test be natural? You can wait and see how that person reacts naturally to things happening - shit happens - and then decide, forcing situations and, therefore, reactions, isn't natural. Treating people as if they were auditioning for a musical sounds absurd and dishonest to me.

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It's a terrible character trait to have. But I swear not all Aqaus are like this.

It's something that can happen in any sign. And i would hate to think people were saying 'oh it's normal for aquas to do this because..' Then look as if it's justifying it. In the real world people look on such behavior as highly anti social and immoral.

It's not a normal thing for people to do. And it's not usual for Aquas to do. So if you find someone doing it....you simply found a weirdy bad one and know you should avoid.
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If so how do you push through the manipulation
I think manipulation has to do more with personality traits, how it's done and how it is perceived.



I necessarily do not consider myself manipulative, but I do know how to think ahead of the majority of people and place certain things in motion to get what I want. I'm not doing anything except placing key items in view and it's mostly me sitting back as a spectator and essentially observing you hang yourself.

Very much like JigSaw on the Saw franchise. Very Aquarian like.
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That IS manipulative. You are not a nice person.
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But the testing is simply natural, no games.

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How can a test be natural? You can wait and see how that person reacts naturally to things happening - shit happens - and then decide, forcing situations and, therefore, reactions, isn't natural. Treating people as if they were auditioning for a musical sounds absurd and dishonest to me.


It's a terrible character trait to have. But I swear not all Aqaus are like this.

It's something that can happen in any sign. And i would hate to think people were saying 'oh it's normal for aquas to do this because..' Then look as if it's justifying it. In the real world people look on such behavior as highly anti social and immoral.

It's not a normal thing for people to do. And it's not usual for Aquas to do. So if you find someone doing it....you simply found a weirdy bad one and know you should avoid.
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I didn't take it as an aquarian trait, don't worry, I just met one Aquarius doing this and I think he liked testing people in general for fun. Yeah, I dislike when people randomly link shitty features to Sun signs too, but is life.

I don't think is a character trait, but an unhealthy need of control and reassurance. I think most of us have manipulative tendencies to varying degrees, so answering OP's question is difficult. Maybe is more of a 'why' than a 'yes or no'.
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But the testing is simply natural, no games.

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How can a test be natural? You can wait and see how that person reacts naturally to things happening - shit happens - and then decide, forcing situations and, therefore, reactions, isn't natural. Treating people as if they were auditioning for a musical sounds absurd and dishonest to me.


It's a terrible character trait to have. But I swear not all Aqaus are like this.

It's something that can happen in any sign. And i would hate to think people were saying 'oh it's normal for aquas to do this because..' Then look as if it's justifying it. In the real world people look on such behavior as highly anti social and immoral.

It's not a normal thing for people to do. And it's not usual for Aquas to do. So if you find someone doing it....you simply found a weirdy bad one and know you should avoid.

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I didn't take it as an aquarian trait, don't worry, I just met one Aquarius doing this and I think he liked testing people in general for fun. Yeah, I dislike when people randomly link shitty features to Sun signs too, but is life.

I don't think is a character trait, but an unhealthy need of control and reassurance. I think most of us have manipulative tendencies to varying degrees, so answering OP's question is difficult. Maybe is more of a 'why' than a 'yes or no'.
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It's just him. And to illustrate how silly it is to do ..you realized he was doing it. And if you realize or i can ...well lets not kid ourselves we are not that smart are we ..so most people with half a brain can.

He is naive.
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I’m not an Aquarius. I have no Aquarius placements.

But my eleventh house is lit up with my personal planets. And they way you guys describe ā€œtestingā€ is me all the way.

It’s not being manipulative. You’re just setting the stage for a person to expose who they truly are. And nothing is wrong with that. I want to know exactly who I’m letting in my space. And make sure I’m not wasting time on a lost cause.
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I’m not an Aquarius. I have no Aquarius placements.

But my eleventh house is lit up with my personal planets. And they way you guys describe ā€œtestingā€ is me all the way.

It’s not being manipulative. You’re just setting the stage for a person to expose who they truly are. And nothing is wrong with that. I want to know exactly who I’m letting in my space. And make sure I’m not wasting time on a lost cause.
And it’s Interesting to me. I like to observe and analyze ppl and human behavior
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But the testing is simply natural, no games.

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How can a test be natural? You can wait and see how that person reacts naturally to things happening - shit happens - and then decide, forcing situations and, therefore, reactions, isn't natural. Treating people as if they were auditioning for a musical sounds absurd and dishonest to me.


It's a terrible character trait to have. But I swear not all Aqaus are like this.

It's something that can happen in any sign. And i would hate to think people were saying 'oh it's normal for aquas to do this because..' Then look as if it's justifying it. In the real world people look on such behavior as highly anti social and immoral.

It's not a normal thing for people to do. And it's not usual for Aquas to do. So if you find someone doing it....you simply found a weirdy bad one and know you should avoid.

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I didn't take it as an aquarian trait, don't worry, I just met one Aquarius doing this and I think he liked testing people in general for fun. Yeah, I dislike when people randomly link shitty features to Sun signs too, but is life.

I don't think is a character trait, but an unhealthy need of control and reassurance. I think most of us have manipulative tendencies to varying degrees, so answering OP's question is difficult. Maybe is more of a 'why' than a 'yes or no'.
It's just him. And to illustrate how silly it is to do ..you realized he was doing it. And if you realize or i can ...well lets not kid ourselves we are not that smart are we ..so most people with half a brain can.

He is naive.
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He was a teen. In fact, we both were. Now I remember an Aquarian girl who did those 'tests' too, again, someone insecure. That's all. My Aquarius friend is firm and caring. Is silly, indeed.

But mum told me I'm smart! D,: *runs away*
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I’m not an Aquarius. I have no Aquarius placements.

But my eleventh house is lit up with my personal planets. And they way you guys describe ā€œtestingā€ is me all the way.

It’s not being manipulative. You’re just setting the stage for a person to expose who they truly are. And nothing is wrong with that. I want to know exactly who I’m letting in my space. And make sure I’m not wasting time on a lost cause.
Exactly. People see it as manipulation but it’s not. I don’t go and sit there purposely testing people. I just sit back and watch them hang themselves because I know they will. People forget Aquarius are empaths as well. They can get a feel for people but we’re still logical signs so we need the ā€œproofā€ so to speak.

I think it’s ironic because I’m not Aries dominant nor have any Arian planets but I do have a lot of planets in the first house. It’s basically my 75% of my chart.
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Are you my twin flame?! lmao j/k
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I’m not an Aquarius. I have no Aquarius placements.

But my eleventh house is lit up with my personal planets. And they way you guys describe ā€œtestingā€ is me all the way.

It’s not being manipulative. You’re just setting the stage for a person to expose who they truly are. And nothing is wrong with that. I want to know exactly who I’m letting in my space. And make sure I’m not wasting time on a lost cause.
And it’s Interesting to me. I like to observe and analyze ppl and human behavior

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come on...you know that is not why you do it. Power ...and you are cold hearted and out only for what you can get.
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My Aqua friend keeps wanting to see me upset cause I told him I can lose my shit when I'm extremely mad lol

I told him it takes a lot for it to happen. Let's see what he does that can get me to that point šŸ˜†

I'm itching to show him exactly what will happen lol

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Hahhaha too funny. Yes that . He will keep digging for sure. I hope you are ready.šŸ˜‰
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They are amazing observant . Most people with Aqua placements. And they like logic and people that can handle emotion logically instead of emotionally. they also prefer to connect with you in person so they can observe and see what these people is really all about. I'm sure they wil trigger something's to see how you deal with anger, pain, hurt, intense emotion. If you lose ur shit, slap them in the face or do some crazy bullshit then most likely they will look elsewhere. the Aqua said physical harm is a no no to him. I can almost relate because I have a few of those signs. I literally observe and watch every single thing and do subtle tests to see how they react to all situations. I love human psychology anyway. N anyone that can't handle emotion well, act possessive or too needy I dissapear too. any childish Like behaviour I also don't buy them. these observanation were discussed with the Aqua himself. He shared with me these details. That's why I find in the beginning they will spend a lot of time with certain people to figure out who they really are.. but eventually those people will fade out of their life coz they don't meet the Aqua expectation lol.. they wil keep them as very superficial friends n act all friendly but deep down they will never let those friends too close to them or reveal much about themselves. That's how I think u noe where u r at th Aqua life. if u make it to Their innner circle then most likely u have passed their many subcociois tests they did.. most likely thy may not even be aware of it themselves though. Anyway just my observation and what he told me.
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I’m not an Aquarius. I have no Aquarius placements.

But my eleventh house is lit up with my personal planets. And they way you guys describe ā€œtestingā€ is me all the way.

It’s not being manipulative. You’re just setting the stage for a person to expose who they truly are. And nothing is wrong with that. I want to know exactly who I’m letting in my space. And make sure I’m not wasting time on a lost cause.
Exactly. People see it as manipulation but it’s not. I don’t go and sit there purposely testing people. I just sit back and watch them hang themselves because I know they will. People forget Aquarius are empaths as well. They can get a feel for people but we’re still logical signs so we need the ā€œproofā€ so to speak.

I think it’s ironic because I’m not Aries dominant nor have any Arian planets but I do have a lot of planets in the first house. It’s basically my 75% of my chart.
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Hah did u say uhave no fire in ur chart? I'm confused. Astrology so confusing lol
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Im an Aqua and I aint manipulative. Water signs are. Im honest, upfront, brutally honest actually, I don't test people. Flirted with two girls tonight, a Sag and a Cancer, but went home and started texting with my Aries ex. Nothing manipulative about it.


How’s that situation going by the way? Any progress?


I wrote a pulp novel in the Aries Women Feminist topic. I explained it all in there. No progress, quite the other way round.: D She's not happy either, I can feel it and I can see it, despite the going out and everything. I called her twice since we broke up and she picked up instantly. I will stick around see what happens next, bad or worse šŸ˜„

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I’ll go take a look

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I’m not an Aquarius. I have no Aquarius placements.

But my eleventh house is lit up with my personal planets. And they way you guys describe ā€œtestingā€ is me all the way.

It’s not being manipulative. You’re just setting the stage for a person to expose who they truly are. And nothing is wrong with that. I want to know exactly who I’m letting in my space. And make sure I’m not wasting time on a lost cause.
Exactly. People see it as manipulation but it’s not. I don’t go and sit there purposely testing people. I just sit back and watch them hang themselves because I know they will. People forget Aquarius are empaths as well. They can get a feel for people but we’re still logical signs so we need the ā€œproofā€ so to speak.

I think it’s ironic because I’m not Aries dominant nor have any Arian planets but I do have a lot of planets in the first house. It’s basically my 75% of my chart.

Hah did u say uhave no fire in ur chart? I'm confused. Astrology so confusing lol


No but my placements are in fire houses. Sun, Mercury, venus, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune in the 1st house ruled by Aries and moon in the 5th ruled by Leo.
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Hah I see. I do feel the fire vibe in u. I have a few leo houses too that's why I adore kids n very childlike around them.
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I’ve hardly ever felt manipulated to do anything by my aqua. I guess the only time was to delete my dating apps. He told me he was deleting his because he didn’t want to talk to anyone else and he wanted to focus 100% on just me. Sooo I then felt like I should do the same and did it. I also stopped flirting with other guys. Hmm sneaky aqua šŸ¤”
He got you there šŸ˜›
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I’ve hardly ever felt manipulated to do anything by my aqua. I guess the only time was to delete my dating apps. He told me he was deleting his because he didn’t want to talk to anyone else and he wanted to focus 100% on just me. Sooo I then felt like I should do the same and did it. I also stopped flirting with other guys. Hmm sneaky aqua šŸ¤”
He got you there šŸ˜›
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See if u were dealing with a Leo. He would straight away tell you. Hey, u still on the apps right? Well I don't want u on them anymore because I don't like sharing so u got to delete urs n I will do mine. Aqua has similar mindset they just use a different way to communicate their needs. I have another leo guy I'm talking to. He asked me to create the emoji on snapchat n I had no idea what it was about. So I created a girl version n he had a boy version. Straight away he started to send me all couple like emoji chats like girl n boy ( him and me) together in like places lol. Like he's putting me to sleep in emoji version. I found it super cute hahahaha typical Leo. Aqua will never do something like that, he assume for u toguess his mind most of the time lol. But now I'm trying to get him to b more straight forward n this will b our next conversation. lol
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I’ve hardly ever felt manipulated to do anything by my aqua. I guess the only time was to delete my dating apps. He told me he was deleting his because he didn’t want to talk to anyone else and he wanted to focus 100% on just me. Sooo I then felt like I should do the same and did it. I also stopped flirting with other guys. Hmm sneaky aqua šŸ¤”
I did th same thing too. Communicate my needs indirectly. The airy placement is tricky. I am trying to adapt to fire signs like Aries and Leo . it's working so far. Less work lol.
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I’ve hardly ever felt manipulated to do anything by my aqua. I guess the only time was to delete my dating apps. He told me he was deleting his because he didn’t want to talk to anyone else and he wanted to focus 100% on just me. Sooo I then felt like I should do the same and did it. I also stopped flirting with other guys. Hmm sneaky aqua šŸ¤”
I did th same thing too. Communicate my needs indirectly. The airy placement is tricky. I am trying to adapt to fire signs like Aries and Leo . it's working so far. Less work lol.
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Yes. But I think it’s only manipulation if the other person doesn’t want to do it. In my case, I didn’t mind doing it. Actually I was happy about the whole thing even though it was very fast.
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But the testing is simply natural, no games.

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How can a test be natural? You can wait and see how that person reacts naturally to things happening - shit happens - and then decide, forcing situations and, therefore, reactions, isn't natural. Treating people as if they were auditioning for a musical sounds absurd and dishonest to me.

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Of course it is, therefore if you cannot see beyond the situation and fall into the trap, you are no better than the tester. For me, personally, someone that "tests" is not fully emotionally mature, but if you don't realize that, you are not either. This guy is unpredictable (at least he believes he is) and sometimes would behave in a, let's say, unusual way to see how I react. Actually, to trigger a dark part of my personality, like anger, impulsiveness and who knows what else. Well, I don't, because I am too calm and it's just not me. This is the "test".
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But the testing is simply natural, no games.

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How can a test be natural? You can wait and see how that person reacts naturally to things happening - shit happens - and then decide, forcing situations and, therefore, reactions, isn't natural. Treating people as if they were auditioning for a musical sounds absurd and dishonest to me.


Of course it is, therefore if you cannot see beyond the situation and fall into the trap, you are no better than the tester. For me, personally, someone that "tests" is not fully emotionally mature, but if you don't realize that, you are not either. This guy is unpredictable (at least he believes he is) and sometimes would behave in a, let's say, unusual way to see how I react. Actually, to trigger a dark part of my personality, like anger, impulsiveness and who knows what else. Well, I don't, because I am too calm and it's just not me. This is the "test".
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Is not being better or worse, but if it was, you are better for not needing to 'test' your partner to reassure yourself. Resorting to a 'you too' game is the easy way to divide the blame, when it's actually simple, you both can have problems (like we all do) but the one playing games is the one to blame for it, even if the other doesn't realize it.

I respect your will of staying with someone more immature than you emotionally, I think it can be hugely draining.
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......Aquarius likes to test out its potential partners
How do you know the difference between being tested, and then just not caring anymore lol
A tough question for an Aquarian

I say everything is a test. We never stop testing, that's our gift and our curse. He could care but you're not sure what he cares about

could be sex, could be a laugh, could be a friend, could be anything

And like I've said many times before, you can't really predict an Aquarius, so trying to expect anything is futile

Just gotta go with the flow and trust your instincts
That’s not necessarily an Aqua trait, that’s your Scorpio moon
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that was exactly what I wanted to say! šŸ™‚

testing and manipulating is not an Aqua thing at all....

so, its best to have a look at his other planets as well
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I’m not an Aquarius. I have no Aquarius placements.

But my eleventh house is lit up with my personal planets. And they way you guys describe ā€œtestingā€ is me all the way.

It’s not being manipulative. You’re just setting the stage for a person to expose who they truly are. And nothing is wrong with that. I want to know exactly who I’m letting in my space. And make sure I’m not wasting time on a lost cause.
Exactly. People see it as manipulation but it’s not. I don’t go and sit there purposely testing people. I just sit back and watch them hang themselves because I know they will. People forget Aquarius are empaths as well. They can get a feel for people but we’re still logical signs so we need the ā€œproofā€ so to speak.

I think it’s ironic because I’m not Aries dominant nor have any Arian planets but I do have a lot of planets in the first house. It’s basically my 75% of my chart.
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Oh so aquas only watch ppl hang themselves & not watch ppl succeed. NOTED! Lmao
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Im an Aqua and I aint manipulative. Water signs are. Im honest, upfront, brutally honest actually, I don't test people. Flirted with two girls tonight, a Sag and a Cancer, but went home and started texting with my Aries ex. Nothing manipulative about it.


How’s that situation going by the way? Any progress?


I wrote a pulp novel in the Aries Women Feminist topic. I explained it all in there. No progress, quite the other way round.: D She's not happy either, I can feel it and I can see it, despite the going out and everything. I called her twice since we broke up and she picked up instantly. I will stick around see what happens next, bad or worse šŸ˜„

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As an Aries woman who knows nothing about the background, sounds like this relationship needs a break. A long 90 days of no contact. Or Aries needs to find something that captures her interest to outside of the good times you both had/have. But this is all just reading into the tone which isn’t simple if not vocally communicating.
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I’ve hardly ever felt manipulated to do anything by my aqua. I guess the only time was to delete my dating apps. He told me he was deleting his because he didn’t want to talk to anyone else and he wanted to focus 100% on just me. Sooo I then felt like I should do the same and did it. I also stopped flirting with other guys. Hmm sneaky aqua šŸ¤”
This is dead on. Exactly the manipulation/test I witness.

He always talked about his friend that drinks too much, I caught on long ago that he was really wanting me to take notes. I’m an Aries though...had to reach that point on my own.
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Im an Aqua and I aint manipulative. Water signs are. Im honest, upfront, brutally honest actually, I don't test people. Flirted with two girls tonight, a Sag and a Cancer, but went home and started texting with my Aries ex. Nothing manipulative about it.


How’s that situation going by the way? Any progress?


I wrote a pulp novel in the Aries Women Feminist topic. I explained it all in there. No progress, quite the other way round.: D She's not happy either, I can feel it and I can see it, despite the going out and everything. I called her twice since we broke up and she picked up instantly. I will stick around see what happens next, bad or worse šŸ˜„


As an Aries woman who knows nothing about the background, sounds like this relationship needs a break. A long 90 days of no contact. Or Aries needs to find something that captures her interest to outside of the good times you both had/have. But this is all just reading into the tone which isn’t simple if not vocally communicating.
We re having a beer atm me x her and talk about our love lost

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I think you two need a room šŸ˜‰

And pretend like nothing happened
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I’ve hardly ever felt manipulated to do anything by my aqua. I guess the only time was to delete my dating apps. He told me he was deleting his because he didn’t want to talk to anyone else and he wanted to focus 100% on just me. Sooo I then felt like I should do the same and did it. I also stopped flirting with other guys. Hmm sneaky aqua šŸ¤”
This is dead on. Exactly the manipulation/test I witness.

He always talked about his friend that drinks too much, I caught on long ago that he was really wanting me to take notes. I’m an Aries though...had to reach that point on my own.
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He was trying to tell u he doesn’t like someone who drinks too much? Do u drink a lot?
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Posted by pinkbird03
I’ve hardly ever felt manipulated to do anything by my aqua. I guess the only time was to delete my dating apps. He told me he was deleting his because he didn’t want to talk to anyone else and he wanted to focus 100% on just me. Sooo I then felt like I should do the same and did it. I also stopped flirting with other guys. Hmm sneaky aqua šŸ¤”
This is dead on. Exactly the manipulation/test I witness.

He always talked about his friend that drinks too much, I caught on long ago that he was really wanting me to take notes. I’m an Aries though...had to reach that point on my own.

He was trying to tell u he doesn’t like someone who drinks too much? Do u drink a lot?

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I personally think he’s just being himself, pointing out flaws & imperfections indirectly.

Yes I drank daily for 18 months. Just stopped cold turkey & hope to never drink anything. Life already feels better!!
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