Aquadeer
@Aquadeer
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NUTJOB ON AISLE 11 OF THE ZODIAC SUPERMARKET!
I'll come with the Virgo cleaning unit once they are done with you.
(enjoying the action on the aqua board)
NUTJOB ON AISLE 11 OF THE ZODIAC SUPERMARKET!
I'll come with the Virgo cleaning unit once they are done with you.
(enjoying the action on the aqua board)
OHHHH MMMYYYYY GOOOODDDDDD. Aquadeer, you still don't get what I was saying?!?!?! What I said about your father was some shit I made up in my head, it was not truth. I did that to show you how you made up shit about that chick, it was not true. I don't know a thing about you so I would be a liar if I said that you believe what you believe because your father... That is a made up story just like you made up shit about her. You don't know what is going on between her and her aqua or how she is effected by him or even if she is effected. You don't know what her story is, you don't know her truth. You don't know why she said what she said or how she said it. What if her and her aqua boy are in a solid happy relationship? Then that means everything u said about her is a lie. This is simple shit. I can't simplify it any more. All I can say is I hope you get it. That is not factual or logical!
And yall are actually overemotional right now. So defensive so this and that that you can't even comprehend the most basic points.
And yall are actually overemotional right now. So defensive so this and that that you can't even comprehend the most basic points.
lol damny
I'm off to work but let me extend to you guys all of my feels and hugs. I'm still interested in the discussion for sure. Remember guys, unicorns and rainbows.
It's always refreshing to see two strong sides of the argument - the aqua and the non aqua.
I'm off to work but let me extend to you guys all of my feels and hugs. I'm still interested in the discussion for sure. Remember guys, unicorns and rainbows.
It's always refreshing to see two strong sides of the argument - the aqua and the non aqua.
Posted by aquasnoz
It's always refreshing to see two strong sides of the argument - the aqua and the non aqua.
I liked how you worked the God complex into this.
There is God and then there are the rest..mortals.
bahahaha
Pfft and you virgos never miss a beat 😛 CIAO —
But really control is more of a Virgo/Scorpio thing. I'm amazed this topic isn't on our boards.
Sugarfoot, I was not trying to discredit what she said, when I brought that up. In no way shape or form. I was bring up that she may have a different perception BECAUSE of that. If it was unfair and immature, fair enough. I apologize for bringing it up, but I still stand behind what I said, every interaction a person has with another person plays a role in perceptions they have in life.
This topic is why we can't have nice things!
@suga foot
The only think I said was I thought it was interesting that people that have been in relationships with an aqua are the ones to point out the controlling factor.
I didn't say anything else about it, that's my own observation of people of other signs that have been in a relationship with an aqua. So explain to me how that's bad? I didn't say anything about a b/f or a family member, I only stated a fact that I've noticed.
I've stated before that I've had some bad relationships with other signs, but I'm not going to sit here and say I hate this sign because ____________.
Aquasnose tied it in, with his perception by saying,
This is my version
Aquadeer - This is me
iamwhatiam - well that's you but here's my view
aquadeer - thankyou but that's not what I am driving at
amwhatiam - then you missed my point
It doesn't have to be insulting to make a justification. Failure of acknowledgement more than anything.
Things, didn't get crazy until she started insulting us and well, we all know how that turned out.
The only think I said was I thought it was interesting that people that have been in relationships with an aqua are the ones to point out the controlling factor.
I didn't say anything else about it, that's my own observation of people of other signs that have been in a relationship with an aqua. So explain to me how that's bad? I didn't say anything about a b/f or a family member, I only stated a fact that I've noticed.
I've stated before that I've had some bad relationships with other signs, but I'm not going to sit here and say I hate this sign because ____________.
Aquasnose tied it in, with his perception by saying,
This is my version
Aquadeer - This is me
iamwhatiam - well that's you but here's my view
aquadeer - thankyou but that's not what I am driving at
amwhatiam - then you missed my point
It doesn't have to be insulting to make a justification. Failure of acknowledgement more than anything.
Things, didn't get crazy until she started insulting us and well, we all know how that turned out.
Posted by qeyqueen14
OHHHH MMMYYYYY GOOOODDDDDD. Aquadeer, you still don't get what I was saying?!?!?! What I said about your father was some shit I made up in my head, it was not truth. I did that to show you how you made up shit about that chick, it was not true. I don't know a thing about you so I would be a liar if I said that you believe what you believe because your father... That is a made up story just like you made up shit about her. You don't know what is going on between her and her aqua or how she is effected by him or even if she is effected. You don't know what her story is, you don't know her truth. You don't know why she said what she said or how she said it. What if her and her aqua boy are in a solid happy relationship? Then that means everything u said about her is a lie. This is simple shit. I can't simplify it any more. All I can say is I hope you get it. That is not factual or logical!
And yall are actually overemotional right now. So defensive so this and that that you can't even comprehend the most basic points.
Okay, Qeyqueen14. As I said before, I did not read the post correctly about the father issue being made up, but I will still stand by what I said. I have no reason to lie about myself or her, and I could careless about making shit up about her. I'll I said was I find it interesting that people that find aqua's controlling have been in a relationship with them.
The bottom line is this, she said that she had past relationships with aqua's and they were not good. So Everything I said about her is true.
Posted by AquadeerPosted by qeyqueen14
OHHHH MMMYYYYY GOOOODDDDDD. Aquadeer, you still don't get what I was saying?!?!?! What I said about your father was some shit I made up in my head, it was not truth. I did that to show you how you made up shit about that chick, it was not true. I don't know a thing about you so I would be a liar if I said that you believe what you believe because your father... That is a made up story just like you made up shit about her. You don't know what is going on between her and her aqua or how she is effected by him or even if she is effected. You don't know what her story is, you don't know her truth. You don't know why she said what she said or how she said it. What if her and her aqua boy are in a solid happy relationship? Then that means everything u said about her is a lie. This is simple shit. I can't simplify it any more. All I can say is I hope you get it. That is not factual or logical!
And yall are actually overemotional right now. So defensive so this and that that you can't even comprehend the most basic points.
Okay, Qeyqueen14. As I said before, I did not read the post correctly about the father issue being made up, but I will still stand by what I said. I have no reason to lie about myself or her, and I could careless about making shit up about her. I'll I said was I find it interesting that people that find aqua's controlling have been in a relationship with them.
The bottom line is this, she said that she had past relationships with aqua's and they were not good. So Everything I said about her is true.click to expand
....I think someone would need to be in a reltionship with aqua or really anyone to know that they are controlling or not. Youu're going to have to have real experience with the person. This can be any type of relationship. And she did not say that all of her relationships with aquas were bd and even if they were all bad, that doesn't necessarily mean that she automatically believes all aquas are controlling. That's like saying, oh you broke your arm from someone pushing you out of a tree? Ok so now that that has happened to you, you believe all trees are bad or all activity in trees are bad. The way you are thinkin is very very skewed.
Posted by baloo
I don't hate Aqua's, I think they are awesome people. Frustrating, but awesome. I just think they have very specific needs, and I know that I personally cannot attend to those needs, at least romantically. Still, they make amazing best friends. I'm a Leo, so friendship with an Aqua is like having two sides of one coin.
Just.. the dating thing never works for me, and I've dated a few.
Thank you, my best friend is a Leo, I don't know what I would do without her. :-)
Posted by qeyqueen14Posted by AquadeerPosted by qeyqueen14
OHHHH MMMYYYYY GOOOODDDDDD. Aquadeer, you still don't get what I was saying?!?!?! What I said about your father was some shit I made up in my head, it was not truth. I did that to show you how you made up shit about that chick, it was not true. I don't know a thing about you so I would be a liar if I said that you believe what you believe because your father... That is a made up story just like you made up shit about her. You don't know what is going on between her and her aqua or how she is effected by him or even if she is effected. You don't know what her story is, you don't know her truth. You don't know why she said what she said or how she said it. What if her and her aqua boy are in a solid happy relationship? Then that means everything u said about her is a lie. This is simple shit. I can't simplify it any more. All I can say is I hope you get it. That is not factual or logical!
And yall are actually overemotional right now. So defensive so this and that that you can't even comprehend the most basic points.
Okay, Qeyqueen14. As I said before, I did not read the post correctly about the father issue being made up, but I will still stand by what I said. I have no reason to lie about myself or her, and I could careless about making shit up about her. I'll I said was I find it interesting that people that find aqua's controlling have been in a relationship with them.
The bottom line is this, she said that she had past relationships with aqua's and they were not good. So Everything I said about her is true.click to expand
....I think someone would need to be in a reltionship with aqua or really anyone to know that they are controlling or not. Youu're going to have to have real experience with the person. This can be any type of relationship. And she did not say that all of her relationships with aquas were bd and even if they were all bad, that doesn't necessarily mean that she automatically believes all aquas are controlling. That's like saying, oh you broke your arm from someone pushing you out of a tree? Ok so now that that has happened to you, you believe all trees are bad or all activity in trees are bad. The way you are
^ what is your point?
Aquadeer, Not point in restating what you have said, you are just going to go around and around. Sometimes it take a bigger person to just walk away.
I appreciate your bringing up the original topic at hand. There are some good things to ponder and think about that were brought to the table.
😄
I appreciate your bringing up the original topic at hand. There are some good things to ponder and think about that were brought to the table.
😄
Justagirl, You're absolutely right. It definitely brought some positive as well as negative insight. Have a wonderful night or morning :-).
Posted by balooPosted by AquadeerPosted by baloo
I don't hate Aqua's, I think they are awesome people. Frustrating, but awesome. I just think they have very specific needs, and I know that I personally cannot attend to those needs, at least romantically. Still, they make amazing best friends. I'm a Leo, so friendship with an Aqua is like having two sides of one coin.
Just.. the dating thing never works for me, and I've dated a few.
Thank you, my best friend is a Leo, I don't know what I would do without her. :-)
Of course! I have the best convos with my Aqua bestie 🙂
I wish I could date Aqua guys. The attraction is there, but admittedly, I need more attention than they are willing to give, and they need more distance than I can understand. That is the fatal flaw in that relationship combo, imo. I know they care, but my pride doesn't allow that to be enough. Sigh.click to expand
Yes, I know I like my distance, however I'm always available for my best friend, and family.
I agree and from what I'm learning the other planet placements also build into our character.
...uh, bullying, really? I hardly think Aqua's saying my description (which basically says their emotionally repressed and pride makes them act certain ways) says they are perfect. A few even said "I'm/we're not perfect". You all aren't getting emotionally Aquas, just ones asking your thought process and pointing out sore spots in your reasoning/logic.
As for Aqua Control, post a story please as an example of this? Since:
Letting you make YOUR own poor life choices and not babying you after your ass get's bitten =/= controlling behavior.
Aqua's can be their own worse enemy when they aren't conscious in how they view/see the world =/= isn't how it is/works. Which is why they listen to everyone, no matter how off-base they are. These Aquas have been civil with you, I've been condescending to you. I suppose my goat horns got confused for Aqua's god complex. That or the fact none are crying with the posters going: "WE'RE SORRY FOR BEING HORRIBLE PEOPLE."
As for Aqua Control, post a story please as an example of this? Since:
Letting you make YOUR own poor life choices and not babying you after your ass get's bitten =/= controlling behavior.
Aqua's can be their own worse enemy when they aren't conscious in how they view/see the world =/= isn't how it is/works. Which is why they listen to everyone, no matter how off-base they are. These Aquas have been civil with you, I've been condescending to you. I suppose my goat horns got confused for Aqua's god complex. That or the fact none are crying with the posters going: "WE'RE SORRY FOR BEING HORRIBLE PEOPLE."
Bitches better recognise that is is the age of "AQUARIUS" not the age of your sign in particular??_??_when your sign dawns a new age then you can be the boss but until then shut the fuck up and sit your asses down because the world is sick and we are the doctors.
We are the most compassionate, humane and friendliness sign ever and people want to bottle us up like a collectors item but we are like catching a rainbow in the end your just gonna tire yourself out.
We are the most compassionate, humane and friendliness sign ever and people want to bottle us up like a collectors item but we are like catching a rainbow in the end your just gonna tire yourself out.
Also if not letting emotions/repressing outburts = thinking Aqua's are better than you...few things.
- They didn't say it you did.
-Your opinion.
-All Air/Earth Signs do that.
So either they all have god complexes OR your insecurity is talking.
It is a fact all Earth/Air Signs are Gods/Goddesses though. Forced to deal with uncouth heathens on a daily basis. Poor us. 😐
- They didn't say it you did.
-Your opinion.
-All Air/Earth Signs do that.
So either they all have god complexes OR your insecurity is talking.
It is a fact all Earth/Air Signs are Gods/Goddesses though. Forced to deal with uncouth heathens on a daily basis. Poor us. 😐
Bhuddist monks have complete control of their emotions in an attempt to reach enlightenment??_.you say fighting emotions is weak I say harnessing them makes you stronger??_.
I'm not a Bhuddist monk but in this day and age compared to a lot of people I'm the Dali lama.
lets go back to your cute emotional waves analogy and lets be honest??_??_you aren't exactly surfing your emotions I would say that as a scorpio you are more like a sinking titanic with death and destruction everywhere and the aquarius is the person filming it.
I'm not a Bhuddist monk but in this day and age compared to a lot of people I'm the Dali lama.
lets go back to your cute emotional waves analogy and lets be honest??_??_you aren't exactly surfing your emotions I would say that as a scorpio you are more like a sinking titanic with death and destruction everywhere and the aquarius is the person filming it.
Posted by WhatuPosted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Bhuddist monks have complete control of their emotions in an attempt to reach enlightenment??_.you say fighting emotions is weak I say harnessing them makes you stronger??_.
I'm not a Bhuddist monk but in this day and age compared to a lot of people I'm the Dali lama.
lets go back to your cute emotional waves analogy and lets be honest??_??_you aren't exactly surfing your emotions I would say that as a scorpio you are more like a sinking titanic with death and destruction everywhere and the aquarius is the person filming it.
The Aquarius is the idiot who drove the boat into the iceberg because he refused to listen to the Scorpio navigator who was telling him that there was more beneath the surface of that ice burg than he could see.
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The same aquarius helped others to the lifeboats & decided that he'd go down with the ship. Not one but two aquarius people in the Titanic decided that other people's lives were more important that their own- Captain Smith & the ship designer/builder (forgot his name). They felt responsible for the disaster & instead of putting themselves before others, they chose death instead.
Captain Smith always said "the captain goes down with the ship" & he kept his word straight to the bottom of the Atlantic. A true hero right there.
And Captain Smith was NOT directly responsible for the sinking. He was off-duty. Earlier that evening he was at the dinner party held by one of the elite passengers. He then went to bed. If my memory serves me right, he was alerted of the impending doom when it was way too late for him to have done anything other than to prevent a head-on collision with they iceberg. He did the best he could in the end so you cant blame him.
your missing out on the fight??_..we never get fights here and I missed them..
Posted by feby16aqua
Maybe it's because I've accepted my controlling tendencies. It's become a running joke. It's out!
And with respect to being wrong? I am grateful to someone who can show me I'm wrong. Please bring that to me.
I guess these things didn't insult me because Im ok with them, or at least aware of them.
I think the thing I love about myself is when I'm wrong I won't keep trying to prove a point for arguments sake??_
you get a lot of people who feel like its a game and will do anything to win the argument game??_..I'm always pleasantly delighted to be corrected nicely??_
another thing I like about being me is that even though I may try to be more evolved and be higher than other in that sense I'm never looking down on people or get any gratification out of being pretentious.
Posted by WhatuPosted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Bhuddist monks have complete control of their emotions in an attempt to reach enlightenment??_.you say fighting emotions is weak I say harnessing them makes you stronger??_.
I'm not a Bhuddist monk but in this day and age compared to a lot of people I'm the Dali lama.
lets go back to your cute emotional waves analogy and lets be honest??_??_you aren't exactly surfing your emotions I would say that as a scorpio you are more like a sinking titanic with death and destruction everywhere and the aquarius is the person filming it.
The Aquarius is the idiot who drove the boat into the iceberg because he refused to listen to the Scorpio navigator who was telling him that there was more beneath the surface of that ice burg than he could see.
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Captain Francesco Schettino, a Scorpio, hmm left his boat like a coward and let people die...
Aquarians might be controlling but they are not cowards...
@baloo - most Aquas tend to have a loving venus!
About emotions. I really can't relate. I'm emotional as they come it's written all over my face. But again that falls into the two extremes argument. There's is nothing strong about 'surfing your waves' of emotions, there's nothing weak about it either, that is just who you are.
If you can't bring anything interesting to the discussion other than rubbish like "hurr I'm a scorpio" then you should kindly fuck off.
How's that for surfing my emotion :\
About emotions. I really can't relate. I'm emotional as they come it's written all over my face. But again that falls into the two extremes argument. There's is nothing strong about 'surfing your waves' of emotions, there's nothing weak about it either, that is just who you are.
If you can't bring anything interesting to the discussion other than rubbish like "hurr I'm a scorpio" then you should kindly fuck off.
How's that for surfing my emotion :\
^ mostly addressed at whatu
Posted by DonAmanMarat
We analyze people from afar...
Code words: look, listen, and learn.
NOTHING gets by us!
Very true! Nothing escapes us.
Posted by SirHornsPosted by iamwhatiam
I THINK THIS THREAD IS SOOOOO IRONIC AND BLATANTLY HIGHLIGHTS THE FLAWS OF AQUARIUS FOLK. Ok, OP, you are frustrated because you feel that others are trying to control and manipulate you eeehhhh? But do you realize that YOU YOURSELF ARE BEING CONTROLLING—? It is one thing to control your own emotions and things but it is another thing when you attempt to control other people's emotions (but cutting them off, ignoring them, button pushing, blowing hot and cold...you know...basic behaviors of aquas). Do you realize that that behavior is an attempt at CONTROLLING OTHERS— ...
And another thing, sometimes, no matter how much objectivity to apply to the situation, you can be wrong about things. Maybe people weren't trying to manipulate and control you. Maybe they were being common humans that wanted to be attended to or loved or touched...and maybe common human insecurities/vulnerabilities look like control and manipulation to you. Ever thought of it that way? Sometimes aqua folks can be too skeptical,too suspicious, too distrusting. Most of this comes from the aquas internal need to control and not the other way around. Sometimes aqua folks need to be more versed in emotional intelligence. That's some good shit, think about it. And for the record, everyone doesn't hate aquas.click to expand
Okay, let me address these for you.
Cutting out/Ignoring = Defense Mechanism
Caps/Aquas are Saturn ruled, we are softies at heart. When you hurt us, we shut down to avoid hurting you with a knee-jerk retaliation. We would tear your ego, principles, way of life and your own emotionalism with no mercy if we gave into that and didn't shut you out.
button pushing, blowing hot and cold
You pissed an Aqua off. They won't smack you or use guilt by saying you hurt them emotionally. They have Pride. They demand themselves to be above those reactions. However they won't let you get away with being an ass to them, hence behavior.
Maybe they were being common humans that wanted to be attended to or loved or touched...and maybe common human insecurities/vulnerabilities look like control and manipulation to you.
Saturn ruled Sign. Take that shit to Moon,Venus or Jupiter Ruled Signs.
We don't let emotions get in the way, so when others do it, it fe
Posted by WhatuPosted by Aquadeer
@justagirl I realized that some people want to get an emotional reaction out of us and it kills them that they can't break down the wall. Everything about us is factual and logical, so people do what they try to do best. Start typing a bunch of shit about ragging your (ours) ass all over the place. It's very amusing that some people like qeyqueen14 will go to that extreme and for what?
What is your reason qeyqueen14? I seen you also posted about an aquarius? Do you want more insight to how we work or you trolling for a reaction? You said what you had to say and we didn't agree, so now what? Our we going to go round and round again?
As far as the whole father issue, I read that wrong but my statement is still true. I own my shit, do you?
I have made one Aqua supervisor cry, by not doing what she told me LOL.
I have got one Aqua workmate to the edge of an explosion, I could see it in his eyes all while he was standing there saying "I AM NOT MAD, I NEVER GET ANGRY" He would get wound up so easily, you just had to challenge him. Wouldn't back down which was awesome. But that was out of fear of being controlled, which is an emotional response.
One of my best friends is as Aqua as they come, but he gets emotional all the same as most others, It looks no different to a sa pisces from where i am standing - scorp sun and asc with mars in cancer. Nothing gets past me.
Why are you so afraid of emotions?click to expand
I'm not afraid of my emotions, if anything I welcome it. My point was no one besides ourselves can control our emotions. We chose to react a certain way because we want to.
Lol erik! What happened to the last 10 scorpios being rotated onto our roster? They cried and bailed yet insisted they didn't? This is so laughable.
Posted by Libhel
Lol erik! What happened to the last 10 scorpios being rotated onto our roster? They cried and bailed yet insisted they didn't? This is so laughable.
Haha! No comment. Try any shit with me and they are dismissed easy as that. I'm the boss and they are not 😄
...Scorpio and Aquarius square each other.
OFC your view would be different.
Thing is, how to channel/manage emotions using several outlets takes time, trial and error.
You can judge Aquas as weak if you wish.
just gonna mention emotional investment isn't always good and detachment isn't always bad.
It just sucks when the Aqua can't choose to turn it on and off or how they feel. Only able to think about what they do about it.
OFC your view would be different.
Thing is, how to channel/manage emotions using several outlets takes time, trial and error.
You can judge Aquas as weak if you wish.
just gonna mention emotional investment isn't always good and detachment isn't always bad.
It just sucks when the Aqua can't choose to turn it on and off or how they feel. Only able to think about what they do about it.
Posted by feby16aqua
The swimming is a compliment and a stretch tbh , at least for me. A lot of times I feel like I'm drowning. What does any reasonable person do when they're drowning? Get the fuck out of that water if they can.
air/air 😛
Given that analogy I'd say I'm already in the water. Turbulent waves are just a biproduct that hurts others more than it hurts myself.
But that's what I love about you feb 😛 I like the difference and reading what you describe. Because to me I contain it simply because I cannot for my life work out what it is and at times it's so overwhelming that I have to place things correctly before attempting to explain it or it'll just sound like word vomit.
It's a very differnt take on say Lisabeth (more Earthy I believe) as opposed to Aqua09, pure aqua energy vs 11th or WC who are very passionate sometimes. While I just nod at everything nacho says in silence haha.
It's a very differnt take on say Lisabeth (more Earthy I believe) as opposed to Aqua09, pure aqua energy vs 11th or WC who are very passionate sometimes. While I just nod at everything nacho says in silence haha.
and APC! shit I should just write a disclaimer if I left anyone else out.
Posted by aquasnoz
and APC! shit I should just write a disclaimer if I left anyone else out.
What did I do now?
Posted by Whatu
Don't you want to ride that big wave in and have the time of your life, To get that you have to be vulnerable to that power. which will inevitably dump you on the rocks.
So if Aqua gets emotional, they'll get sandwiched between Scorpio (waves) and Taurus (rocks)?
Poor Leo misses all the 3-somes.
Posted by Whatu
The point I am making is I have spent time with aquas who deny emotions allot, and it comes across as un-balanced like dismissing the moon sign for favor of the sun. Then they see it in action and get all offended by it. It sucks because it all way's gets in the way of an otherwise awesome friendship that we have. I suppose it comes down to the same evolved/evolved discussion, and how can certain aquas move forward in their evolution, We are both stubborn signs and don't want to change our patterns. But I can see where some aquas could escape the constant battle they are in and would like to be able to help them out.
I don't really look into evolved/unevolved view. To me they are just different views from different lifetimes. When I read an Aqua's opinion I can relate because who am I kidding I'm an Aquarius that's why I love them, they try to make the effort to understand and will insist you are stupid even if they see your side of the story.
And to me there's no such thing as being emotionally vulnerable. Emotions are just that. There is no strong or weak emotions, there just is. But again my stance on emotional vulnerability relates more to 'life validation' and my emotions can take me to either end of the spectrum in very extreme ways.
I'm sure there's a disorder for that.
Dude whatu I control my emotions because If I let them get to me... and indulge I'm going to be a complete mess for the longest ass time because I can't handle that stuff. When someone actually hurts me it's like a deep wound that there is almost no cure for. It also allows people to emotionally manipulate me because I can't think straight.
Good thing people almost never have the ability to do that to do that to me so ^.^
Good thing people almost never have the ability to do that to do that to me so ^.^
Posted by balooPosted by AquadeerPosted by balooPosted by AquadeerPosted by baloo
I don't hate Aqua's, I think they are awesome people. Frustrating, but awesome. I just think they have very specific needs, and I know that I personally cannot attend to those needs, at least romantically. Still, they make amazing best friends. I'm a Leo, so friendship with an Aqua is like having two sides of one coin.
Just.. the dating thing never works for me, and I've dated a few.
Thank you, my best friend is a Leo, I don't know what I would do without her. :-)
Of course! I have the best convos with my Aqua bestie 🙂
I wish I could date Aqua guys. The attraction is there, but admittedly, I need more attention than they are willing to give, and they need more distance than I can understand. That is the fatal flaw in that relationship combo, imo. I know they care, but my pride doesn't allow that to be enough. Sigh.
Yes, I know I like my distance, however I'm always available for my best friend, and family.
I have a Leo midheaven as well, and my childhood was very Aquarian in nature, and I just need the attention, and sometimes I wish I didn't. So I get the need for distance, but "getting" it doesn't equate to fully accepting it. And if a person can't accept another person, they shouldn't be with them. I think that's where a lot of the "hate" that people give Aquas comes from, in the relationship threads anyway. Frustration because they really want to understand it, and just can't. If people would take a logical step back, they could see it. Most people just want to lead with their emotions, though.click to expand
Im sorry but when i saw this i had to intervene what's logical about a person keepin their distance for long periods of time without an explanation or even so much as an acknowledgedment that u still exist in their world?? Its very confusin and will drive a person to leave after awhile if the distance is to great
Posted by balooPosted by AquadeerPosted by balooPosted by AquadeerPosted by baloo
I don't hate Aqua's, I think they are awesome people. Frustrating, but awesome. I just think they have very specific needs, and I know that I personally cannot attend to those needs, at least romantically. Still, they make amazing best friends. I'm a Leo, so friendship with an Aqua is like having two sides of one coin.
Just.. the dating thing never works for me, and I've dated a few.
Thank you, my best friend is a Leo, I don't know what I would do without her. :-)
Of course! I have the best convos with my Aqua bestie 🙂
I wish I could date Aqua guys. The attraction is there, but admittedly, I need more attention than they are willing to give, and they need more distance than I can understand. That is the fatal flaw in that relationship combo, imo. I know they care, but my pride doesn't allow that to be enough. Sigh.
Yes, I know I like my distance, however I'm always available for my best friend, and family.
I have a Leo midheaven as well, and my childhood was very Aquarian in nature, and I just need the attention, and sometimes I wish I didn't. So I get the need for distance, but "getting" it doesn't equate to fully accepting it. And if a person can't accept another person, they shouldn't be with them. I think that's where a lot of the "hate" that people give Aquas comes from, in the relationship threads anyway. Frustration because they really want to understand it, and just can't. If people would take a logical step back, they could see it. Most people just want to lead with their emotions, though.click to expand
Im sorry but when i saw this i had to intervene what's logical about a person keepin their distance for long periods of time without an explanation or even so much as an acknowledgedment that u still exist in their world?? Its very confusin and will drive a person to leave after awhile if the distance is to great
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