Did I ruin everything? Aqua won't talk to me..

Posted by Leo188881
Don't jump the gun. Give him time to process it. He'll probably reply later.

If he's serious about you he won't let it between you. He probably thinks your friends are dicks though.

Thank you. I hope he talks to me again, I have a horrible feeling he hates me and everything is over 😢

Although our mutual friend said he thinks he is just confused and not angry.

And I don't blame him if he thinks my friends are dicks, I agree with him and I probably won't hang out with them anymore.

Posted by Leo188881

Posted by FitNebula

Posted by Leo188881
Don't jump the gun. Give him time to process it. He'll probably reply later.

If he's serious about you he won't let it between you. He probably thinks your friends are dicks though.

Thank you. I hope he talks to me again, I have a horrible feeling he hates me and everything is over 😢

Although our mutual friend said he thinks he is just confused and not angry.

And I don't blame him if he thinks my friends are dicks, I agree with him and I probably won't hang out with them anymore.

You didn't do anything wrong. You had a normal reaction to something stupid. No biggie.

Don't fill your head with insecurities about what you think he thinks. 9 times out of 10, no one knows what an Aqua is thinking.

click to expand

Thanks 🙂 I think the worst part is that he knew I was crying, that made me feel so embarrassed and vulnerable AND it sounds dramatic. But it's not like I started texting him accusing him of anything, I just told him I would talk to him later.

UGH everything was going so well!

He has nothing to reply regarding that text. It was just you informing him about the situation. They don't answer to such things, since there is no question involved. Moreover, it sounded like you put more trust in some people he doesn't even know him than into him. Let him alone for a while then text normally. Discuss about this thing in person, if really needed. But I wouldn't do it, unless to apologize for not trusting him.

Posted by UnicornSag
You're being way too naive. How do people fall for that seriously? And yep, you came out as drama queen, not by what your friend said to him but your own behavior. Ignoring him then texting him so long after...he's probably giving you taste of your own medicine.

The reason I maybe was a tiny bit suspicious of my BF and overreacted to what my friends were telling me is that he was seeing another girl right before we got together last month. I heard he was dating so I decided to tell him I had feelings for him. He then said he felt the same and he asked me to be in a relationship, even though I didn't suggest it. But he was going to tell the other girl that he was seeing me now and we never talked about whatever happened with her again. So I guess my drunk mind thought there could be some merit and that maybe he had decided to date both of us instead. But, I truly don't think he would do that to me, but it explains why I was crying and such.

And yeah, I shouldn't have ignored him but I did not want to talk about it while drunk and emotional and over text message.

Posted by Leo188881

Posted by FitNebula

Posted by Leo188881

Posted by FitNebula

Posted by Leo188881
Don't jump the gun. Give him time to process it. He'll probably reply later.

If he's serious about you he won't let it between you. He probably thinks your friends are dicks though.

Thank you. I hope he talks to me again, I have a horrible feeling he hates me and everything is over 😢

Although our mutual friend said he thinks he is just confused and not angry.

And I don't blame him if he thinks my friends are dicks, I agree with him and I probably won't hang out with them anymore.

You didn't do anything wrong. You had a normal reaction to something stupid. No biggie.

Don't fill your head with insecurities about what you think he thinks. 9 times out of 10, no one knows what an Aqua is thinking.

Thanks 🙂 I think the worst part is that he knew I was crying, that made me feel so embarrassed and vulnerable AND it sounds dramatic. But it's not like I started texting him accusing him of anything, I just told him I would talk to him later.

UGH everything was going so well!

Everything is going well when you can have fights and when stupid things happen and you have no doubts about your ability to resolve them without one person walking out on the other

click to expand

Good point. Although I'm not sure if he is going to walk away or not considering he clearly does not want to talk.

Posted by compy
He has nothing to reply regarding that text. It was just you informing him about the situation. They don't answer to such things, since there is no question involved. Moreover, it sounded like you put more trust in some people he doesn't even know him than into him. Let him alone for a while then text normally. Discuss about this thing in person, if really needed. But I wouldn't do it, unless to apologize for not trusting him.

Thank you. Yeah, there wasn't much for him to reply to, although I apologized so I thought he would let me know if he accepts it or not.

Also, I didn't necessarily believe my friends. But when they brought it up, they said it very matter-of-factly as if they knew the other girlfriend. So the whole thing just made me emotional. Later I found out they based everything off one small comment he made, which could've meant anything.

Posted by FitNebula

Posted by compy
He has nothing to reply regarding that text. It was just you informing him about the situation. They don't answer to such things, since there is no question involved. Moreover, it sounded like you put more trust in some people he doesn't even know him than into him. Let him alone for a while then text normally. Discuss about this thing in person, if really needed. But I wouldn't do it, unless to apologize for not trusting him.

Thank you. Yeah, there wasn't much for him to reply to, although I apologized so I thought he would let me know if he accepts it or not.

Also, I didn't necessarily believe my friends. But when they brought it up, they said it very matter-of-factly as if they knew the other girlfriend. So the whole thing just made me emotional. Later I found out they based everything off one small comment he made, which could've meant anything.

click to expand

It's what he thinks that makes him go unresponsive, not what you think. In the middle of a casual talk, you hit him with something "suspicious" that you didn't want to talk about on the spot. But he immediately assumed it was something about your relationship. You stunned him and he went into silent mode. Do not expect him to confirm/reject something. They don't react visibly. If you want to continue with this man, you need to gather yourself and keep your emotions in check. And avoid drinking. It amplifies emotions. And be more discrete about your relationship. It's better to guard it rather than expose it like that.

Posted by compy

Posted by FitNebula

Posted by compy
He has nothing to reply regarding that text. It was just you informing him about the situation. They don't answer to such things, since there is no question involved. Moreover, it sounded like you put more trust in some people he doesn't even know him than into him. Let him alone for a while then text normally. Discuss about this thing in person, if really needed. But I wouldn't do it, unless to apologize for not trusting him.

Thank you. Yeah, there wasn't much for him to reply to, although I apologized so I thought he would let me know if he accepts it or not.

Also, I didn't necessarily believe my friends. But when they brought it up, they said it very matter-of-factly as if they knew the other girlfriend. So the whole thing just made me emotional. Later I found out they based everything off one small comment he made, which could've meant anything.

It's what he thinks that makes him go unresponsive, not what you think. In the middle of a casual talk, you hit him with something "suspicious" that you didn't want to talk about on the spot. But he immediately assumed it was something about your relationship. You stunned him and he went into silent mode. Do not expect him to confirm/reject something. They don't react visibly. If you want to continue with this man, you need to gather yourself and keep your emotions in check. And avoid drinking. It amplifies emotions. And be more discrete about your relationship. It's better to guard it rather than expose it like that.

click to expand

Yeah, that was very wrong of me. I should never have mentioned anything about what they were telling me. I did it because once they said they needed to talk, I stopped responding to him and he kept texting me about plans so I guess I was explaining why I wasn't responding... and my inhibitions were lowered so I didn't think twice about telling him.

Agreed the drinking amplified the emotions. I'm not going to drink anymore for a bit.

How can I get him back? Do I just wait?

@unicornsag -- thank you. That is how I usually am 99% of the time. I never show any emotional reaction. This time I had been drinking and just couldn't help but cry because everyone was yelling at me that he had another girlfriend and I didn't know what to think. If I hadn't been drinking then nothing would've happened. But the damage has been done and thanks to our mutual friend he knows I had an emotional reaction and was crying.

You get him back by giving him some space. I’d do at least a week. Then text him.

Posted by pinkbird03
You get him back by giving him some space. I’d do at least a week. Then text him.

Thank you. I definitely don't intend to text him again if he doesn't text me first.. but maybe in a few weeks. Do you think what I did was really bad?

Posted by FitNebula

Posted by pinkbird03
You get him back by giving him some space. I’d do at least a week. Then text him.

Thank you. I definitely don't intend to text him again if he doesn't text me first.. but maybe in a few weeks. Do you think what I did was really bad?

click to expand

Nope. I think he’s probably embarrassed. Because of everything that happened was about him. And hey. Maybe it’s true?

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by FitNebula

Posted by pinkbird03
You get him back by giving him some space. I’d do at least a week. Then text him.

Thank you. I definitely don't intend to text him again if he doesn't text me first.. but maybe in a few weeks. Do you think what I did was really bad?

Nope. I think he’s probably embarrassed. Because of everything that happened was about him. And hey. Maybe it’s true?

click to expand

Yeah, he might be embarrassed.

I don't think it's true because these friends have only met him one time and they have no mutual friends and they based this all off some comment he made while I was in the room but didn't hear that "my girlfriend bought me this alcohol" -- I think they took it out of context. I'd still like to know why he said that but I'm not sure when he had time to hang out with another girlfriend since he's been seeing me all the time. Also, I just don't think he would cheat, on me or another girl. His brother and friends were there too so everyone would know he's cheating.

BUT then again I guess it could be true? He would just be a pretty terrible person which would surprise me given I've known him for 13 years..

Posted by FitNebula

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by FitNebula

Posted by pinkbird03
You get him back by giving him some space. I’d do at least a week. Then text him.

Thank you. I definitely don't intend to text him again if he doesn't text me first.. but maybe in a few weeks. Do you think what I did was really bad?

Nope. I think he’s probably embarrassed. Because of everything that happened was about him. And hey. Maybe it’s true?

Yeah, he might be embarrassed.

I don't think it's true because these friends have only met him one time and they have no mutual friends and they based this all off some comment he made while I was in the room but didn't hear that "my girlfriend bought me this alcohol" -- I think they took it out of context. I'd still like to know why he said that but I'm not sure when he had time to hang out with another girlfriend since he's been seeing me all the time. Also, I just don't think he would cheat, on me or another girl. His brother and friends were there too so everyone would know he's cheating.

BUT then again I guess it could be true? He would just be a pretty terrible person which would surprise me given I've known him for 13 years..

click to expand

Well that comment is really odd in my opinion. Like who is he calling his girlfriend? Who bought him alcohol? Have you dug around at all?

@pinkbird03 -- it really is a weird thing for him to have said. A few possibilities I thought of -- 1) he was trying to get my reaction because right before he said it, I remember I was texting someone and he noticed and asked me "oh so is X almost here then" (we were waiting for someone) and I said "not sure I haven't heard from X" so maybe he got jealous or wondered who I was texting.

2) a month ago when we had our huge talk and decided to be together, we agreed he was going to tell the girl he was seeing about us. She wasn't his gf, but when I was leaving I jokingly said "ok so you're going to talk to your girlfriend and let me know what happens" (I was joking, we both laughed). AND I remember he had told me that she had bought him an xmas present so maybe it was the alcohol that he was referencing? and maybe he said girlfriend in reference to my joke from before.

UGH I have no idea and I won't know unless he decides to talk to me. But when our mutual friend was texting him and told him what happened, I saw the texts and the aqua was saying 'wtf I don't have another gf'

I almost wish he was a cheater just so I wouldn't feel so terrible for everything that happened!

Posted by FitNebula
@pinkbird03 -- it really is a weird thing for him to have said. A few possibilities I thought of -- 1) he was trying to get my reaction because right before he said it, I remember I was texting someone and he noticed and asked me "oh so is X almost here then" (we were waiting for someone) and I said "not sure I haven't heard from X" so maybe he got jealous or wondered who I was texting.

2) a month ago when we had our huge talk and decided to be together, we agreed he was going to tell the girl he was seeing about us. She wasn't his gf, but when I was leaving I jokingly said "ok so you're going to talk to your girlfriend and let me know what happens" (I was joking, we both laughed). AND I remember he had told me that she had bought him an xmas present so maybe it was the alcohol that he was referencing? and maybe he said girlfriend in reference to my joke from before.

UGH I have no idea and I won't know unless he decides to talk to me. But when our mutual friend was texting him and told him what happened, I saw the texts and the aqua was saying 'wtf I don't have another gf'

I almost wish he was a cheater just so I wouldn't feel so terrible for everything that happened!

Either way, it’s not okay....

His fault. You should be upset

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by FitNebula
@pinkbird03 -- it really is a weird thing for him to have said. A few possibilities I thought of -- 1) he was trying to get my reaction because right before he said it, I remember I was texting someone and he noticed and asked me "oh so is X almost here then" (we were waiting for someone) and I said "not sure I haven't heard from X" so maybe he got jealous or wondered who I was texting.

2) a month ago when we had our huge talk and decided to be together, we agreed he was going to tell the girl he was seeing about us. She wasn't his gf, but when I was leaving I jokingly said "ok so you're going to talk to your girlfriend and let me know what happens" (I was joking, we both laughed). AND I remember he had told me that she had bought him an xmas present so maybe it was the alcohol that he was referencing? and maybe he said girlfriend in reference to my joke from before.

UGH I have no idea and I won't know unless he decides to talk to me. But when our mutual friend was texting him and told him what happened, I saw the texts and the aqua was saying 'wtf I don't have another gf'

I almost wish he was a cheater just so I wouldn't feel so terrible for everything that happened!

Either way, it’s not okay....

His fault. You should be upset

click to expand

You know what you're right, I've been sitting here feeling like I did something wrong but he's the one who made that comment to MY friends so idk what he expected. He should be explaining himself to me..

I still haven't heard from him 😢 It has been almost 2 days since I sent that text! Should I just try to call him next week if I don't hear from him?

Posted by FitNebula
I still haven't heard from him 😢 It has been almost 2 days since I sent that text! Should I just try to call him next week if I don't hear from him?

Why wait? Be aggressive.

Try to call him every hour. Surprise him.

As I told you, he won't text you unless he wants to hear about you or even see you, because you know each other too well by now. Your text had no reply involved. Text him after a few days, casually. So that he knows you have no resentments. Do your things until then. If you text him, don't mention the incident at all. Just say hi and ask him how he is. Only if he responds, you can vaguely suggest that you would like to see each other again and let him decide. These are the most treacherous waters with Aquas, because in such cases their moods may change unexpectedly.

Posted by AerialView

Posted by FitNebula
I still haven't heard from him 😢 It has been almost 2 days since I sent that text! Should I just try to call him next week if I don't hear from him?

Why wait? Be aggressive.

Try to call him every hour. Surprise him.

click to expand

Haha yeah right I'm sure he would LOVE that

Posted by FitNebula

Posted by AerialView

Posted by FitNebula
I still haven't heard from him 😢 It has been almost 2 days since I sent that text! Should I just try to call him next week if I don't hear from him?

Why wait? Be aggressive.

Try to call him every hour. Surprise him.

Haha yeah right I'm sure he would LOVE that

click to expand

Then you are predictable.

Posted by compy
As I told you, he won't text you unless he wants to hear about you or even see you, because you know each other too well by now. Your text had no reply involved. Text him after a few days, casually. So that he knows you have no resentments. Do your things until then. If you text him, don't mention the incident at all. Just say hi and ask him how he is. Only if he responds, you can vaguely suggest that you would like to see each other again and let him decide. These are the most treacherous waters with Aquas, because in such cases their moods may change unexpectedly.

Ok ok you're right. His birthday is on Sunday, maybe I'll text him then to say happy birthday and see how he is doing.

What do you mean by these are the most treacherous waters with Aquas? As in, the drama my friends caused?

Posted by AerialView

Posted by FitNebula

Posted by AerialView

Posted by FitNebula
I still haven't heard from him 😢 It has been almost 2 days since I sent that text! Should I just try to call him next week if I don't hear from him?

Why wait? Be aggressive.

Try to call him every hour. Surprise him.

Haha yeah right I'm sure he would LOVE that

Then you are predictable.

click to expand

So you're saying I should be unpredictable? I feel like calling him every hour would just make him think I am "crazy" and drama obsessed.

Posted by FitNebula

Posted by compy
As I told you, he won't text you unless he wants to hear about you or even see you, because you know each other too well by now. Your text had no reply involved. Text him after a few days, casually. So that he knows you have no resentments. Do your things until then. If you text him, don't mention the incident at all. Just say hi and ask him how he is. Only if he responds, you can vaguely suggest that you would like to see each other again and let him decide. These are the most treacherous waters with Aquas, because in such cases their moods may change unexpectedly.

Ok ok you're right. His birthday is on Sunday, maybe I'll text him then to say happy birthday and see how he is doing.

What do you mean by these are the most treacherous waters with Aquas? As in, the drama my friends caused?

click to expand

Times when they are stunned by an outburst of emotions. PM me if you wish, it would be better.

Posted by Koniuchaa

Posted by FitNebula

Posted by pinkbird03

Posted by FitNebula
@pinkbird03 -- it really is a weird thing for him to have said. A few possibilities I thought of -- 1) he was trying to get my reaction because right before he said it, I remember I was texting someone and he noticed and asked me "oh so is X almost here then" (we were waiting for someone) and I said "not sure I haven't heard from X" so maybe he got jealous or wondered who I was texting.

2) a month ago when we had our huge talk and decided to be together, we agreed he was going to tell the girl he was seeing about us. She wasn't his gf, but when I was leaving I jokingly said "ok so you're going to talk to your girlfriend and let me know what happens" (I was joking, we both laughed). AND I remember he had told me that she had bought him an xmas present so maybe it was the alcohol that he was referencing? and maybe he said girlfriend in reference to my joke from before.

UGH I have no idea and I won't know unless he decides to talk to me. But when our mutual friend was texting him and told him what happened, I saw the texts and the aqua was saying 'wtf I don't have another gf'

I almost wish he was a cheater just so I wouldn't feel so terrible for everything that happened!

Either way, it’s not okay....

His fault. You should be upset

You know what you're right, I've been sitting here feeling like I did something wrong but he's the one who made that comment to MY friends so idk what he expected. He should be explaining himself to me..

Yes. Honestly, he is behaving like a guilty person.

click to expand

He kind of is behaving that way. It is making me wonder if he really does have another gf. I saw the texts where he told his friend he doesn't have another gf and was very confused. But then why not reach out to me and let me know why he made that comment?

OR he is just annoyed that all this drama happened when he isn't hiding anything. And he might not feel the need to clear the air since when I sent him that message the day after, I basically said my friends are drama queens and I did not imply I believed them at all and I apologized to him for putting him in that position.... but still...

Posted by FitNebula

Posted by AerialView

Posted by FitNebula

Posted by AerialView

Posted by FitNebula
I still haven't heard from him 😢 It has been almost 2 days since I sent that text! Should I just try to call him next week if I don't hear from him?

Why wait? Be aggressive.

Try to call him every hour. Surprise him.

Haha yeah right I'm sure he would LOVE that

Then you are predictable.

So you're saying I should be unpredictable? I feel like calling him every hour would just make him think I am "crazy" and drama obsessed.

click to expand

Predictable is boring.

And if there's another girl coming in during these times hmmmmm

Don't let that happen. Defend what you have.

@koniuchaa -- he didn't run off, he was not around in person during this drama because he was visiting his brother. He just heard about it via text message.

But I agree I shouldn't chase him.

Although, @AerialView has a point... maybe I can find a happy medium, haha

Posted by FitNebula
@koniuchaa -- he didn't run off, he was not around in person during this drama because he was visiting his brother. He just heard about it via text message.

But I agree I shouldn't chase him.

Although, @AerialView has a point... maybe I can find a happy medium, haha

Koniuchaa isn't Aquarius man.

Mind you I only give opinions only if it comes to Aquarius men.

But you know him better than me 🙂

Posted by AerialView

Posted by FitNebula
@koniuchaa -- he didn't run off, he was not around in person during this drama because he was visiting his brother. He just heard about it via text message.

But I agree I shouldn't chase him.

Although, @AerialView has a point... maybe I can find a happy medium, haha

Koniuchaa isn't Aquarius man.

Mind you I only give opinions only if it comes to Aquarius men.

But you know him better than me 🙂

click to expand

Hmmm I will consider this then if I don't hear from him in a few days.. Maybe just one phone call though 🙂

Posted by FitNebula

Posted by AerialView

Posted by FitNebula
@koniuchaa -- he didn't run off, he was not around in person during this drama because he was visiting his brother. He just heard about it via text message.

But I agree I shouldn't chase him.

Although, @AerialView has a point... maybe I can find a happy medium, haha

Koniuchaa isn't Aquarius man.

Mind you I only give opinions only if it comes to Aquarius men.

But you know him better than me 🙂

Maybe just one phone call though 🙂

click to expand

That's lame zzzzzz

Posted by AerialView

Posted by FitNebula

Posted by AerialView

Posted by FitNebula
@koniuchaa -- he didn't run off, he was not around in person during this drama because he was visiting his brother. He just heard about it via text message.

But I agree I shouldn't chase him.

Although, @AerialView has a point... maybe I can find a happy medium, haha

Koniuchaa isn't Aquarius man.

Mind you I only give opinions only if it comes to Aquarius men.

But you know him better than me 🙂

Maybe just one phone call though 🙂

That's lame zzzzzz

click to expand

Fine, maybe 2 🙂

Posted by Leo188881
Do whatever is natural to you and call as many times as you like. if the feelings are real enough the relationship should be able to survive your random outbursts otherwise you're not being true to yourselfnd you're faking your relationship. Don't create a pattern of ignoring each other for days or weeks bcause those patterns will shape the way your relationship becomes.

PREACH!!!! Lol thank you, this gives me more confidence. I feel like I deserve an answer.... But I also don't have much time to deal with this because I am taking the Bar exam in 3 weeks so I should only focus on studying.... but it is driving me crazy to not know what is going on! So if I had an answer, I could focus better!

Thank you 🙂

Posted by Leo188881
Don't jump the gun. Give him time to process it. He'll probably reply later.

If he's serious about you he won't let it between you. He probably thinks your friends are dicks though.

very true

i guess any man needs you to trust them.

ditch ur friends why bud they even say that.

obviously if he truly had another girlfriend he wud never tell ur friends that knowing u will find out

sorry but how old r u friends?

sounds like little kids to me



.. relax, aqua take time to relax



if i were u i will message him again and say



i do trust you, i must have allowed the alcohol gotten into me.

- no more alcohol for me next time - with a tongue or something.

turn it into a playful comment.. don't be too serious a round them..they can't handle too much of that.

Posted by FitNebula

Posted by Leo188881
Do whatever is natural to you and call as many times as you like. if the feelings are real enough the relationship should be able to survive your random outbursts otherwise you're not being true to yourselfnd you're faking your relationship. Don't create a pattern of ignoring each other for days or weeks bcause those patterns will shape the way your relationship becomes.

PREACH!!!! Lol thank you, this gives me more confidence. I feel like I deserve an answer.... But I also don't have much time to deal with this because I am taking the Bar exam in 3 weeks so I should only focus on studying.... but it is driving me crazy to not know what is going on! So if I had an answer, I could focus better!

Thank you 🙂

click to expand

me personally wouldn't attack him with calls

i would give him some space. the more u chase when he needs space the more he runs i think

just tell him that

u r feeling sad coz u don't know whats going on but if he needs space you understand and will be there when he's ready to talk to him again



i notice with men,

when we tell them we will give them the space they need if they want.

normally they no longer need them.

its working with my leo and the aqua i used to see.

good luck. its not a big deal what happened so don't make it be.

Posted by Koniuchaa

Posted by FitNebula
I still haven't heard from him 😢 It has been almost 2 days since I sent that text! Should I just try to call him next week if I don't hear from him?

My goodness, do not call him! You did nothing wrong. He is the one that ran off. Good riddance I say!

click to expand

exactly don't make urself seem like a victim. and dun let his way of silent treatment get into u

u need to tell him u don't handle that bs

lol

when this used to happen to me..with the aqua



if i dun hear from him coz he's punishing me with silent treatment

i used to bluntly message him and say



look i can see u r upset and using the silent treatment to punish me . i just want u to know it doesn't work on me so when u r ready, we will chat. enjoy ur space



or something like that

normally he will straight away reply and be like

NOOOO im not giving u silent treatment



lol



anyway, give that a go..

n he never done that to me really after that.





...

@saweetz1988 -- thanks for all your advice!

Yeah, my friends suck. They are 25!!! I didn't know they were such drama queens. I think telling me that information when I was drunk at 2am while texting the aqua already was the WORST possible time...

Anyway, I don't think I did anything wrong just the fact that he knows I was crying is the worst thing.... thanks to our mutual friend loll...

If i don't hear from him in a week I will send him one of your message suggestions... unless he has blocked me or something.. but why would he.. I barely ever send him messages and I would never go crazy and harass him

Come to think of it, like 6 years ago when I was young and immature I sent him a text about how I was mad he seemed to be ignoring me and he just said "lol you're psychotic" and yet he still spoke to me again (and i admittedly was acting crazy then.. now I don't think I acted crazy at all)

thanks for your advice!!!!!!!

Posted by Leo188881
Send him this

LMAO he would think I am totally insane hahaha

@Leo188881 -- you have a point... i need to stop taking things so seriously! Life is better that way 🙂

Guys I am starting to think it's true. When he told me he wanted a relationship and he was going to talk to the other girl, I guess I just assumed he broke it off with her since he has been consistently talking to me and wanting to see me. And he knows I would not be OK with him still seeing her since during our conversation I told him I don't want him to date other people, to which he agreed.

I never thought he would actually even continue to pursue me if he's also seeing her. The things he told me about her made it seem like she wasn't even interested -- i.e. she wouldn't go to his NYE party, wouldn't meet up before she left for vacation to exchange xmas presents, and told him she didn't want to be in a relationship... And he said he liked me more than her..

But we were talking so often and I know everything he did this weekend and last, thanks to what he told me and our mutual friend, and he never saw her those 2 weekends. He was with me or asking me to hangout.

But then why isn't he responding to the one message I sent him? Maybe he thinks since he told our mutual friend via text, while I was there, that he doesn't have a gf and is very confused as to what they are talking about, maybe he thinks that sufficed to tell me he doesn't have anyone else.

Plus my message to him implied I didn't think he was cheating and I was the one apologizing. So. Maybe he's just mad at me.

Not knowing is driving me insane and I am worried I'll do something crazy like call him or go to his house... but I could never do that!! I know he's going to a restaurant we both go to with our families sometimes on Friday and I'm tempted to just show up!!! But no way that would be crazy .. but I thought about it, lol. I need answers!